This is my experience as an older guy… When a guy has a hard time getting over an ex that has dumped him, especially when he's meeting better women afterwards, there's only one reason for it. It's not because the girl that dumped him is so wonderful, or that he has lost "the one" girl in this world he can't live without. No, 99% of the time the real reason a he can't get his ex is this… His ego still can't handle the rejection. Boo f'n hoo! In reality, it's not even about the woman that dumped him, it's all about himself. Was she really that great? Probably not. Without even realizing what's really going on, he's confused the pain of being rejected for a supposed love of the woman lost. Ironically, this can be even worse when the woman is question wasn't even that good of a catch in the first place (kids, ex's, baggage, not that attractive, etc) because deep down inside, he realizes that not only has he been dumped, but he's been dumped by a reject and being rejected by a reject is even worse on the ego than being rejected by someone great. In life, sometimes you are the dumper, and sometimes you are the dumpee. If you got dumped and can't seem to get over the ex, my suggestion is that you check you own ego at the door. It happens everyday, and it happens to everyone sooner or later. Get over yourself. Again, it's not usually about the woman, it is about one's own hurt ego. The sooner a person realizes what's really going on inside, the sooner he can get over the ex and move on to MUCH greener pastures.
@@Zaysoto gets better with time, there is no easy fix really. After 1 year and a half, I can say my ego is better. Finding a better girl helps, learning about yourself helps, journaling helps, maybe meditating helps also. Keep yourself, your mind, busy, , but there is no one thing you can do to fix it unfortunately.
After reading the book half way through a couple years ago and girl I will admit I liked rejected me. Instead of doing "me" and chase behind her trying to prove I'm worthy of her shadows presence. I allowed what I had already read in Corey's book and the countless videos I watched up to then to guide me. I walked away like it didn't bother me. Now in truth it hurt me like being punched in the gutts. But after a week of not hearing from her I was worried sick she didn't care. 2 weeks, a month, 2 months. 3 months of no contact. I wake up one mourning to a text from her the night before and it read: "Hi, just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you and if you are free to hang out this weekend". I waited a couple hrs and text back. "Who is this"? She was kind of upset that I txt that but I had to think 007. Needless to say I had to watch and read CW videos and the book to make the right moves and not allow my ingrained simp training to take over and blow it. After 2-1/2 months she was eating out of my hand and asking me if we would be exclusive. But by then I really didn't care that much about her. It had a lot to do with the things she said when she stopped talking to me the first time. And after the training I got I realized I could do a lot better than settle for someone who told me she didn't want to settle when she walked away from me at first. Those words where on my mind the whole time we rekindled our friendship. "She said: "In not about to settle"! Those words hurt me. And it was those words I used to say no to her in the end.
Coach, your book has helped me realize every mistake i have ever made with women. I have read it about three times now and I wish I had more time so i could read it through again and again. As a professional long haul driver, I have very limited time for reading, so i was wondering if you ever plan to have your book made into an audiobook so that people in my line of work could listen to your words of wisdom while we drive?
Advice? What if your behavior turned your ex off and made him lose faith in your relationship and led to his breaking up with you? Should I still not pursue after being broken up with? My boyfriend broke up with me three months ago and after limited contact via texting with my initiation, and two periods of no contact that lasted one and two weeks, he began to warm up to me. He even agreed to get together with me three times, but it was simply physical and he was still emotionally shut down and not ready to talk about us. However, he hasn’t been dating anyone else and he’s just taking time to be alone. I feel that since I pushed him away with my anxious behavior, I thought it might be better to build a positive rapport with him again. I also don’t want to make our relationship only a physical one.
yea. they are the reason why alot of guys end up playing games too just to get laid. i am happy being by myself and do not have to deal with someone playing games with my heart. society is really in a messed up situation
yea he spits the truth about women. in his video he talked about walking away and not looking back. she starts guessing on whether you moved on with another woman or not. my ex did same to me asking my sister if i got another girl friend because i did not contact her after the break up. she has pride issues, she never txt me nor called me yet but was seeking information from my sister. walking away does work.
I have two questions: 1- if your relationship fails,shouldn't you take time to work on whatever issue you have that contributed to that failed relationship, 2- won't men always be the sex that naturally hunts(chases) women and are men that allow women to chase them women disguised in a man's body?
1- True men always wanna work it out especially when we realise our mistakes. We "only" quit (and sometimes definately) after we are convinced you won't make the effort and take us for granted. 2- You have been so brainwashed by the movies, I understand. As general as science proved it, women are emotional beings and care more about relationship where as men care more about mission, purpose, and life accomplishments. So it logically follows that women will be more chasing than men at some point since it's needed as fuel of any relationship for it not to dissolve. It's also proven that you solve your problems by talking remember? So how come aren't you more likely to pursue when you seek love, support, mood change, advise etc. We guys, don't need those in this very specific way of yours. It may feel awkward for you to know this but you are more "natural" chasers indeed. Corey Wayne explanations' confirms it all together. So Fuck those movies scenarios made by the dark force to screw us all up.
Also making the 1rst move and having women into the process of chasing the men back (in essence allow your true nature to unfold) are the men's duty. Obviously this happens in the "beginning".
Hello Coach, something happened to me recently and since it brought me here (First time coming in contact with your material.) you can already tell it was not anything good. So I met this girl who later on I started liking, we went out a couple of times, and even though I saw how she was interested in the beginning she started to loose interest, I guess I took too long to openly tell her about my feelings for her. In the end she started dating another guy and then she broke up with him. Up until this point we never talked about our feelings. So after their break up I waited a couple of weeks and then texted her...she didn't reply the text. Then I waited another couple of weeks and after she replied I was finally able to meet her. We met and after a pretty normal dinner I told her about my feelings. She then said it would be better for us to be just "very good friends" and my answer was that I didn't want to be her friend. All of this brings me to what happened most recently, I felt kinda bad bacuse I did not want her to think I was on bad terms with her, so I texted her again to tell her I just needed some time and I was ready to be friends with her. She never replied....I grew fond of her, she's very special to me and I developed very strong feelings, I feel like I would do anything to be with her. What can I do Coach? Is there anyway for me to fix this? Any advice from guys with similar experiences is welcomed.
You're definitely focused too much on locking her down to a commitment. All you need to do now is walk away (do not contact her at all). Easier said than done but if you hear from her, assume she wants to see you. You set up a date and just have fun braah
Yeah, man you need to read the book. You should never dump all your feeling on a girl. That crap only works in the movies. Focus on having fun and hooking up like to coach says.
I have been seeing a girl who got out of a 4 year relationship 2 months ago. Last time we hung out she told me she likes me, thinks I'm hot, and would have sex with me and started talking about how she wants to take things slow. This was a week ago and ever since she seems to have lost interest, by texting slow with short replies and not giving me straight answers about me meeting up with her and this was about 4 days with no texting. Yesterday I didn't reach out to her and today she sent me a morning text asking if I wanted to go to the beach with her but I just replied "I can't today, but thanks for the invite." Do you have any clue what this means? And do you think I should wait for her to contact me again or should I wait a few days and hit her up if she doesn't?
My opinion, wait at least 5 days and then you can contact if she doesn't..but remember don't text her for hours on end, she's just one of many girls you're going to have, let her invest more than you
Bryant Mason I think she's hanging out with a guy from my gym tonight she posted a pic of his dog. She's not my girl so I'm gonna try to keep it cool and hope she has a boring time with him lol
and 1 other thing I gave in and liked a pic of her on FB kinda a beta move I think but I wanted to stay on her mind someway without me calling or texting plus I acted busy when she text me the other yesterday so I was hoping maybe it would throw her off like she did me lol
***** Yeah I decided I'm not gonna bother trying to get intouch but I just find it weird she asked if I wanted to go to the beach lol but as the days go by it makes me lose more interest.
Right on david..but I mean you cut it off so if you wanted to call next week set a date and have fun, there's no harm in that either..I'm more than sure that's what CCW would suggest, but don't invest too much in these women. Hell these women should be trying to figure out how they can get in good with you brother..that's how us men need to start thinking and then You and I alike will be in the (3%) percentage of men..good luck bro
I have a question here what if your girl was emotionally cheating and than you broke up with her... She come over your house for four month straight having sex with you, doing about 100% of the calling but she is getting in her feelings and saying that I never call her and she do all the work... So my question is if she is doing all this should I at least call her once a week to come hook up with me since she said something about me not calling or do I never call at all and wait for her to call since she not girlfriend material no more
Hey Corey, I've got a question, so there's this girl i like at college, and we spend time together, she even lets me hold her hands, she always start texting me, and i tried kissing her the other day, we were really close, but she pulled away and asked me why i wanted to rush things?, What should i do now? What kind of sign is this?
***** Not Corey but you need to stop having text conversations with your girl! Speaking from experience, too much texting causes the girl to get bored with you. It leaves nothing to talk about when you're in each other's presence. If she keeps playing hard-to-get and you realize that she's using you for attention with no intentions of committing then be ready to walk away. DO NOT be her gay best friend!
Kevin P Well she had a 2 years relationship with her ex, before she broke up, i think, maybe she is the kind of girl that wants to slow things down for long-term relationship? Idk...
This is my experience as an older guy…
When a guy has a hard time getting over an ex that has dumped him, especially when he's meeting better women afterwards, there's only one reason for it. It's not because the girl that dumped him is so wonderful, or that he has lost "the one" girl in this world he can't live without. No, 99% of the time the real reason a he can't get his ex is this…
His ego still can't handle the rejection. Boo f'n hoo!
In reality, it's not even about the woman that dumped him, it's all about himself. Was she really that great? Probably not. Without even realizing what's really going on, he's confused the pain of being rejected for a supposed love of the woman lost.
Ironically, this can be even worse when the woman is question wasn't even that good of a catch in the first place (kids, ex's, baggage, not that attractive, etc) because deep down inside, he realizes that not only has he been dumped, but he's been dumped by a reject and being rejected by a reject is even worse on the ego than being rejected by someone great.
In life, sometimes you are the dumper, and sometimes you are the dumpee. If you got dumped and can't seem to get over the ex, my suggestion is that you check you own ego at the door. It happens everyday, and it happens to everyone sooner or later. Get over yourself.
Again, it's not usually about the woman, it is about one's own hurt ego. The sooner a person realizes what's really going on inside, the sooner he can get over the ex and move on to MUCH greener pastures.
Anybody have some tips on fixing my ego? Thanks guys 😎
@@Zaysoto gets better with time, there is no easy fix really. After 1 year and a half, I can say my ego is better. Finding a better girl helps, learning about yourself helps, journaling helps, maybe meditating helps also. Keep yourself, your mind, busy, , but there is no one thing you can do to fix it unfortunately.
I wish I found this channel when I was still in college.
After reading the book half way through a couple years ago and girl I will admit I liked rejected me. Instead of doing "me" and chase behind her trying to prove I'm worthy of her shadows presence. I allowed what I had already read in Corey's book and the countless videos I watched up to then to guide me. I walked away like it didn't bother me. Now in truth it hurt me like being punched in the gutts. But after a week of not hearing from her I was worried sick she didn't care. 2 weeks, a month, 2 months. 3 months of no contact. I wake up one mourning to a text from her the night before and it read: "Hi, just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you and if you are free to hang out this weekend". I waited a couple hrs and text back. "Who is this"? She was kind of upset that I txt that but I had to think 007. Needless to say I had to watch and read CW videos and the book to make the right moves and not allow my ingrained simp training to take over and blow it. After 2-1/2 months she was eating out of my hand and asking me if we would be exclusive. But by then I really didn't care that much about her. It had a lot to do with the things she said when she stopped talking to me the first time. And after the training I got I realized I could do a lot better than settle for someone who told me she didn't want to settle when she walked away from me at first. Those words where on my mind the whole time we rekindled our friendship. "She said: "In not about to settle"! Those words hurt me. And it was those words I used to say no to her in the end.
Half way through?,,,really?,,,,,,,Keep reading or you might F-up,,,,,,good luck
"When a woman's dry she just ain't into it." - Coach Corey Wayne
Everything Coach Corey said is very true good video
Learn alot....your a great teacher.
Love all your videos, you totally should have your own tv show!
11:00 this part really resonates with me
Coach, your book has helped me realize every mistake i have ever made with women. I have read it about three times now and I wish I had more time so i could read it through again and again. As a professional long haul driver, I have very limited time for reading, so i was wondering if you ever plan to have your book made into an audiobook so that people in my line of work could listen to your words of wisdom while we drive?
You saw the future brother
The Audio book is out there
Did you get it? How are things on the woman front?
Advice? What if your behavior turned your ex off and made him lose faith in your relationship and led to his breaking up with you? Should I still not pursue after being broken up with?
My boyfriend broke up with me three months ago and after limited contact via texting with my initiation, and two periods of no contact that lasted one and two weeks, he began to warm up to me. He even agreed to get together with me three times, but it was simply physical and he was still emotionally shut down and not ready to talk about us. However, he hasn’t been dating anyone else and he’s just taking time to be alone. I feel that since I pushed him away with my anxious behavior, I thought it might be better to build a positive rapport with him again. I also don’t want to make our relationship only a physical one.
Hahahaha haha he calls the dudes that keep hanging around your girl “orbiters” lmaoooo hahahahahahhahahahahaahhaha
women play too much mind games its just sad.smh
yea. they are the reason why alot of guys end up playing games too just to get laid. i am happy being by myself and do not have to deal with someone playing games with my heart. society is really in a messed up situation
yea he spits the truth about women. in his video he talked about walking away and not looking back. she starts guessing on whether you moved on with another woman or not. my ex did same to me asking my sister if i got another girl friend because i did not contact her after the break up. she has pride issues, she never txt me nor called me yet but was seeking information from my sister. walking away does work.
I have two questions: 1- if your relationship fails,shouldn't you take time to work on whatever issue you have that contributed to that failed relationship, 2- won't men always be the sex that naturally hunts(chases) women and are men that allow women to chase them women disguised in a man's body?
1- True men always wanna work it out especially when we realise our mistakes. We "only" quit (and sometimes definately) after we are convinced you won't make the effort and take us for granted.
2- You have been so brainwashed by the movies, I understand. As general as science proved it, women are emotional beings and care more about relationship where as men care more about mission, purpose, and life accomplishments. So it logically follows that women will be more chasing than men at some point since it's needed as fuel of any relationship for it not to dissolve. It's also proven that you solve your problems by talking remember? So how come aren't you more likely to pursue when you seek love, support, mood change, advise etc. We guys, don't need those in this very specific way of yours. It may feel awkward for you to know this but you are more "natural" chasers indeed. Corey Wayne explanations' confirms it all together. So Fuck those movies scenarios made by the dark force to screw us all up.
Also making the 1rst move and having women into the process of chasing the men back (in essence allow your true nature to unfold) are the men's duty. Obviously this happens in the "beginning".
Hello Coach, something happened to me recently and since it brought me here (First time coming in contact with your material.) you can already tell it was not anything good. So I met this girl who later on I started liking, we went out a couple of times, and even though I saw how she was interested in the beginning she started to loose interest, I guess I took too long to openly tell her about my feelings for her. In the end she started dating another guy and then she broke up with him. Up until this point we never talked about our feelings. So after their break up I waited a couple of weeks and then texted her...she didn't reply the text. Then I waited another couple of weeks and after she replied I was finally able to meet her. We met and after a pretty normal dinner I told her about my feelings. She then said it would be better for us to be just "very good friends" and my answer was that I didn't want to be her friend. All of this brings me to what happened most recently, I felt kinda bad bacuse I did not want her to think I was on bad terms with her, so I texted her again to tell her I just needed some time and I was ready to be friends with her. She never replied....I grew fond of her, she's very special to me and I developed very strong feelings, I feel like I would do anything to be with her. What can I do Coach? Is there anyway for me to fix this? Any advice from guys with similar experiences is welcomed.
You're definitely focused too much on locking her down to a commitment. All you need to do now is walk away (do not contact her at all). Easier said than done but if you hear from her, assume she wants to see you. You set up a date and just have fun braah
Yeah, man you need to read the book. You should never dump all your feeling on a girl. That crap only works in the movies. Focus on having fun and hooking up like to coach says.
Rodri Btz Thanks bro
shitmandood We attend the same university so it is very likely i'll run into her. What should I do in such case? Share your opinion people.
Rodri Btz What do you think I should do if I run into her?
I have been seeing a girl who got out of a 4 year relationship 2 months ago. Last time we hung out she told me she likes me, thinks I'm hot, and would have sex with me and started talking about how she wants to take things slow. This was a week ago and ever since she seems to have lost interest, by texting slow with short replies and not giving me straight answers about me meeting up with her and this was about 4 days with no texting. Yesterday I didn't reach out to her and today she sent me a morning text asking if I wanted to go to the beach with her but I just replied "I can't today, but thanks for the invite." Do you have any clue what this means? And do you think I should wait for her to contact me again or should I wait a few days and hit her up if she doesn't?
My opinion, wait at least 5 days and then you can contact if she doesn't..but remember don't text her for hours on end, she's just one of many girls you're going to have, let her invest more than you
Bryant Mason I think she's hanging out with a guy from my gym tonight she posted a pic of his dog. She's not my girl so I'm gonna try to keep it cool and hope she has a boring time with him lol
and 1 other thing I gave in and liked a pic of her on FB kinda a beta move I think but I wanted to stay on her mind someway without me calling or texting plus I acted busy when she text me the other yesterday so I was hoping maybe it would throw her off like she did me lol
***** Yeah I decided I'm not gonna bother trying to get intouch but I just find it weird she asked if I wanted to go to the beach lol but as the days go by it makes me lose more interest.
Right on david..but I mean you cut it off so if you wanted to call next week set a date and have fun, there's no harm in that either..I'm more than sure that's what CCW would suggest, but don't invest too much in these women. Hell these women should be trying to figure out how they can get in good with you brother..that's how us men need to start thinking and then You and I alike will be in the (3%) percentage of men..good luck bro
I have a question here what if your girl was emotionally cheating and than you broke up with her...
She come over your house for four month straight having sex with you, doing about 100% of the calling but she is getting in her feelings and saying that I never call her and she do all the work...
So my question is if she is doing all this should I at least call her once a week to come hook up with me since she said something about me not calling or do I never call at all and wait for her to call since she not girlfriend material no more
Plus she said she won't call unless I do she not going to break her back for me since I wont
Hey Corey, I've got a question, so there's this girl i like at college, and we spend time together, she even lets me hold her hands, she always start texting me, and i tried kissing her the other day, we were really close, but she pulled away and asked me why i wanted to rush things?, What should i do now? What kind of sign is this?
***** Not Corey but you need to stop having text conversations with your girl! Speaking from experience, too much texting causes the girl to get bored with you. It leaves nothing to talk about when you're in each other's presence. If she keeps playing hard-to-get and you realize that she's using you for attention with no intentions of committing then be ready to walk away. DO NOT be her gay best friend!
Kevin P Well she had a 2 years relationship with her ex, before she broke up, i think, maybe she is the kind of girl that wants to slow things down for long-term relationship? Idk...
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