30 Truths I Know at 30 But Wish I Knew at 20
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In this video, I share 30 lessons that I know in my 30s that I wish I knew in my 20s
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00:00 Intro
00:08 It is far more fun to be the person being discussed than the other way around
00:22 Stop complaining
00:33 You get what you pay for
00:49 Don't take things personally
00:58 Work in days not weeks
01:11 Outwork your imposter syndrome
01:27 You playing small doesn't benefit anyone
01:39 Success is personal
01:59 Have regular check-ins
02:19 Getting to work early isn't going to get you promoted
02:31 Fail fast and Fail forward
02:47 Don't expect other people to do your work
03:06 It is never too late to start something new
03:28 Define what you want
03:40 Do the thing that you need to do to get what you want
04:48 There is no such thing as overnight success
05:06 Don't take advice from someone who hasn't done what you are trying to do
05:17 Other people are rarely your competition
05:29 Mornings are important
05:43 Focus on one thing at a time
05:56 Don't rush to find your niche
06:13 No one is coming to save you
06:26 Pick your battle with your relationships
06:43 Cut out anyone who belittles you
07:00 Never keep a tally
07:12 Find something to occupy yourself with
07:29 There is no need to stay late "just because"
07:47 Don't expect other people to read your mind
07:57 Make hitting rock bottom a good thing
08:09 Learn to find joy in working out
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Hey could you do a video on fashion and money, like spending on more versatile items with examples for a woman, I find myself spending my money more than I should, I end up seeing sales on the item previously bought but if I wait it goes out of stock. I genuinely have a shopping addiction Im 21. :( Overdraft using my SFE to pay it off
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Read the Quran. You will thank me in the hereafter..
@@Naksu.. umm no thank you I will if i want to
Hi nischa....u look beautiful 😊
1. It is far more fun to be the person being discussed than the other way around
2. Stop complaining
3. You get what you pay for
4. Don't take things personally
5. Work in days not weeks
6. Outwork your imposter syndrome
7. You playing small doesn't benefit anyone
8. Success is personal
9. Have regular check-ins
10.Getting into work early isn't going to get you promoted
11. Fail fast and Fail forward
12. Don't expect other people to do your work
13. It is never too late to start something new
14. Define what you want
15. Do the thing that you need to do to get what you want
16. There is no such thing as overnight success
17. Don 't take advice from someone who hasn' t done what you are trying to do
18. Other people are rarely your competition
19. Mornings are important
20. Focus on one thing at a time
21. Don't rush to find your niche
22. No one is coming to save you
23. Pick your battle with your relationships
24. Cut out anyone who belittles you
25. Never keep a tally
26. Find something to occupy yourself with
27. They is no need to stay late "just because"
28. Don't expect other people to read your mind
29. Make hitting rock bottom a good thing
30. Learn to find joy in working out
thanks!
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Thanks a lot, now we don't have to actually watch the video, it's not like anyone wanted to do that, right? *Very* helpful and considerate of you 😂
I love these!! I’m 25 and I already have regrets, the main one is how much time I spent trying to help people who didn’t want my help, instead of helping me!
You eventually learn friendships are mutually beneficial as we contribute to each other's growth,we learn from one another and progress forward so rather take the good than bad . . .
I'M 25 TOOOO
💯same situation
@@potentialsomebody2615 your point of view is lovely, but I learned that certain friendships are only harmful
Hi 25 from another 25!
"No one is coming to save you," I agree completely with this statement. Thank you for your video. As always you do an amazing job!!!
I saved my self. Could not end University. But found a job. Paid all my debts back. For 3 years i almost did buy nothing for myself, build a emergency fund. Did not use it. Found a way to keep my expensives low. And i was on holiday last year.
My boyfriend helped me. We cooked together and helped esch other
There is a great, very short poem by Stephen Crane on this topic:
A Man Said to the Universe
A man said to the universe:
"Sir, I exist!"
"However," replied the universe,
"The fact has not created in me a sense of Obligation."
Bit off topic, but I love the way that you record your videos, the lighting, mood, colour tones, minimalist but interesting aesthetics. You do a really superb job with presentation!
40 is the new 30
30 is the new 20
Thank you nischa for the financial insights!
I follow all your suggestions and being from an accounting background helps me understand it better!!
20 is the new 10
10 is the new non born.
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No it's not blud, 30 is 30 and 40 is 40.
This could not be further from the truth, your 20s are the most defining decade of your life - I suggest you read Meg Jay's book on this. Your 20s matter and you must make the most of the years you cannot afford to miss, because in all aspects; work, love, the brain and the body; 80% of life's most signifcant moments happen before the age of 35. Consequential moments slow down, 30 is NOT the new 20
I’m 25 now, never did I imagine I would still feel so young 😂 I’m in better shape than I was as a teen.
@@WaveManMike I'm 40 and I'm feeling greater than ever, my mind and thoughts are in a much better place.♥️
These are very important reminders.
You playing small doesn't serve anyone hits home. It is a people pleasing tendency which will eventually make people walk all over you. This point connects to the 24th point mentioned. Once you realise and grow as a person, cut off people who try to belittle you.
I truly appreciate how fast and straight to the point these were, fantastic work, thanks! 😊
You are literally one of the most beautiful people that exist. Thanks for this Nischa 🤗. I'll be turning 30 next year and like I can't even believe it. I've also learnt so much that I'll be sharing with people.
I'm 27 and realising certain things about life thank you for these videos. I know that I need to be the person to ask myself the hard questions.
I am in my early 70’s. Nischa’s Truths applies for all ages. Good job Nischa‼️
Thank you Nischa. I'm trying to figure out whether to work abroad or study here in the U.K. This is really helpful. Also it's lovely to see more British content creators. TH-cam is saturated with content that tends to be geared only towards America & the financial lifestyle & system there. Keep it up X
1 Million d'abonnés ! Bravo Nischa ! C'est le juste fruit de la qualité de vos vidéos.
What a treasure of a post. As someone in thier mid 30s, absolutely everything here is relatable. Thank you, I am book marking and sharing with everyone
Awesome Nischa Thanks for all the golden words !!
Congrats on 1m subs, Nischa - you are an inspiration!
I remember the first time someone told me that people care much more about themselves than they do about you was very freeing
I’m truly inspired by this video in order to reach my finance goals as much as I can. Thanks Nischa!
I respect you more for going straight to the point, no long intro
You simply thanked your sponsor and started the video, thank you so much
Very good content, and one of the very best way to insert sponsors. Completely seamless integration of the product inside the narrative. Great job.
Such an awesome video and great insights, Nischa, right up there with Mark Manson's video on 40 lessons.
Thank you so much! Everything you’ve said is invaluable advice!
Love the content of this video! , thank you Nischa, will definitely listen to it again.
Wow, Nischa! You have 1M subscribers now! Congratulations! Please keep posting videos. I love your contents! Very helpful! I always share your videos to my daughter and my family! 👏🎉😊❤️🤗👍
Eye opening and fruitful . . . When you navigate life's challenges and create your own path based on experiences so hopefully other's have awareness . . . 💐
Congrats on reaching 1M!!
Good job, Nischa. On #3, I generally agree, but there are exceptions. Today I wore a business suit which new, would cost at least $200, but I bought at Goodwill for $15. I wore shoes that would be $100 new, but $12. And a dress shirt which would be $50 new, but $6. These are hard to find, but are out there with some patient searching.
Great content watching since you started!
gosh to have an mindset and aura like yours, hope grow into my thirties with a attitude like you ma’am.
Well done on a million subs, you deserve it!
This was great! Great in content, great in format, great in execution! Congrats, Nischa 🎉
Congratulations on reaching 1M Subscribers Nisha well done 🙂
I deeply appreciate the presence of this TH-cam channel for its unparalleled authenticity and the sincere, genuine content it delivers.
Love the authenticity
Thanks Nischa! Just what i needed today. Greetz from the Holland
Nischa - outstanding as always
Nice one. You have given me more than I expected. Thank you so much.
Love you Nischa!!!
Being a small part-time youtuber, I was super happy to see that under YT analytics, my video was suggested along with Nischa's video🤩 Small joys of life 😀
Firstly, congrats on hitting 1M subs 2nd great simply to process content. 🙏🏾
Incredible content. Thank you.. Keep it up 🎉
Great advises! Thanks for sharing
very useful, and congrats on the 1M subscribers!!!!!!
Fantastic video so many valid and simple points I can apply to everyday life 👍
So much value. Thank you!
Been waiting for your video❤
Even though this video's coming from a business/financial advice channel, this is actually great and valuable life advice. Everyone should watch this video at least once in their lifetime
This video is gold ⭐️⭐️
Wow! Great video & info, bless you 🙏🏾 💯🙌🏾
Been following you for a while but damn you're spitting in this video BARS after BARS!
You have a really crisp voice, I love that!!!!!
Really glad that I subscribed to this channel
"Outwork your imposter syndrome." Similarly, extreme effort can overcome depressive self-doubts. Good concepts. Subscribed!
Focusing on value makes you indispensable, highly agree!
That was a geat video with good tips. Thanks for the sharing :)
Thanks for sharing this and the whole get into work early is TRUTH!!!!! Literally Me the person who arrived early and stayed late !
I made notes- to each of your tip, 3 action points to take for me personally. Gold! Btw approaching my 40’s very soon 😅
Go ahead more and more, Good luck🤩
Solid advice. Thank you
Great tips! Loved this!
Congrats on 1m 😎 🔥
You are good adviser I respect people like you
Gurl you are snatched!!
Can you do a video on finances in marriage? Also would you marry for money - assuming all things are relatively well in relationship? Lastly money and dating? would be great to hear your take
22 is a conversation I had recently with my nana. She was offering to help me out of a financial situation that I got myself into but I had already found a solution. She has limited income as well and I needed the lesson.
As a 34 year old I approve of this list and how straight forward you are with it. It's a breathe of fresh air.
This is an excellent video. Thank you
Dear I'm really proud that I have u as my mentor..... I hardly have people that got my mindset .... But I really include u in "5 people" who surround me .... And I'm proud that I have a person whom I genuinely admire and learn from ..... Thanks UNIVERSE FOR GIVING ME A VERY NICE MENTOR.....❤ U UNIVERSE :D
Nischa ! Great work ! (Happy to 1st comment) I just created notion page to collect my life lessons at 21, this is spot on ! LY
tu kyon yahan aaya hai hum sab ko pata hai bhai...hila le aur... nikaal ..chal...chal
Nischa keeps going right after hitting 1 million subscribers. So happy for you. Imposter syndrome is real… I always wonder what if my friends found out that I am a TH-camr. They probably poke fun and then would care less 😏
Wow all amazing advice. Lessons for all.
Great pearls of wisdom
I wasn't ready to be called out so hard with number 2 on your list. I don't usually complain but I did yesterday about something that is giving me a lot of anxiety but I need to take action anyway despite the anxiety.
Model looks explaining finances, a winning combo!
Great video! Thanks
Great advise!
Great advice!
Wow
Your ideas are super special
Another thing that I learnt is you can't save/help someone if the person doesn't want to help themselves. They are the one that need to put effort to improves their life.
#2 has been a huge pet peeve of mine. I get annoyed when people act like they don't have a choice to change their situation when they absolutely do
And cheers to 1 Million subbies😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍🎉
thank you. very insightful
Hi, you changed my life. I have been watching your videos for 10 months and I have organize my finances in a way I never expected doing. Saved a very good amount so far. Thanks ❤
Can I borrow some quids? ;p
Tack!
Wonderful tips for life.
I’m struggling with overthinking. I actually think it’s a sickness. Thanks for the advice!
Spot on 🏆
Yoo, congrats nischa abla for 1mil
Life is a sine curve. It's very hard to stay at the top all the time. Be patient and content as well as challenge the present.
so good!
Good job Nischa
That’s info dense. I’m going to have to write it down and revisit it a few times lol
Wow that is so helpful
There is basically only one thing I wanted to know. And that’s stopping worrying and overthinking and start to have fun. I was pushed into legal problems in my middle teens resulting in some expensive trials agains my father. Basically all divorce arguments fought against me. I went into huge debts and the problems coming from them. It took a long time and a lot of energy to get out. I made mistakes but I don’t see how I should have known better. Some mistakes I made on purpose. Kind of choosing between two mistakes hoping the chosen one is the smaller mistake. - I learned a lot. But I never learned how to enjoy live. How to have fun. And now? I start learning to do that. But my friends got „old“ and have different life’s. All is about children, paying rent and their jobs. I am like others in their 20ies. First time in my life having control over my money. Having money to spend. I see the big bright future and want to have fun. Just, I don’t know how to do that and I don’t have someone around me who can teach me XD.
Im latina and I can teach u 😂
👏🏼 he to ya 🍸 “ONE MILLION “ Nischa , 31) NO ONE GETS THERE ALONE. , to bad that DeLorean doesn’t exist to take us back in time, “Dear younger me , If I could tell you things that I have learned so far “ …… well they do say “ enjoy the journey “. I was just wondering, way do you want to get off this roller coaster 🎢 of what we call life, for in our lifetime what story’s would be there to tell!!!! Very interesting topic you mentioned Nischa , once again outstanding, and your inner circle are very fortunate, too call you their friend. Till next time 💐
Aside a channel about financial tips, you can also have a channel about beauty tips. You are very good looking. Woman here.
In my late 20's was searching and seeking for knowledge about investment and how to go about it.
I was seeking books and information, visited investment houses to seek knowledge and my goal was financial freedom and currently, I feel comfortable and pushing for more now in my 40's
In my early 50s - I totally agree with you! Do You No Matter What. At my age, we don’t care what others think - we have proved ourselves already in experience and skill sets. 🇨🇦🙌🏾
Brilliant brilliant brilliant 🎉
I'm 28 and most of my 20s just got wasted because of struggle and failure. I hope I understand things now so that my 30s can be fulfilling.