I'm with Winter in this. When I'm done with a relationship I'm completely done and detached. Youre blocked outta sight and mind, cause I don't stew in the past. It's so much easier to let situations go that don't benefit you when you actually let it go in every form. And I never talk bad about previous partners. There's no point to it. It ended for a reason - incompatibility. I'm able to move on quickly and healthily with this mindset. I'm now in a relationship with the best life partner I've ever had and its because I don't hold onto what's not for me, any longer than necessary.
Even though I'm a man I watch the podcast just to see perspectives from women. Yall topics are actually very interesting. Wishing you both continued success and God bless both you beautiful women ❤️ ♥️.
At 16-18 I was on and off the pill because of a serious irregular menstrual cycle, and my mental health was really bad (especially in my senior year of high school). It took me until the age of 21 when my cycle was becoming irregular again that I realized the pills were worsening my depression. Doctors basically called me crazy and stated that birth control has no effect on a woman's mental health, and that's a lie. Plenty of women have spoken out about how birth control made them feel. I don't understand why a professional doctor wouldn't take that seriously. So, I ended up not taking any pills and had to deal with my heavy flow.
I was already depressed but I took birth control for irregular periods and then I just had my period for a loooong time. So I stopped cause I wasn't having sex. I was like 15
I dealt with the same thing irregular and heavy menstruals so they put me on birth control to “control” my cycles but my anxiety shot up to an all time High and when I stopped taking it I bled for 2 months and my dr pulled me out of work for a week just to find out I have adenomyosis and my only option is hysterectomy and birth control so now I’m back on the pill with irregular heart rate… love that for me 🙄
The fact I was just medically gaslit today and you guys started the video like that was crazyyyy. I totally agree about the medical field nowadays it’s so disheartening thanks for bringing awareness.
The lurking, "are you self harming?!" I screamed Foreal. I don't even wanna know they exist no more. I forbid anyone from saying their name, bringing them up, I don't even listen to songs that remind me of them.😂🤣
this is the only podcast i actually watch. and i’m very picky when it comes to things i watch so u guys are definitely doing great. it’s only gonna go up!!❤
I think the truth is a lot of the people that judge winter for the number of boos are projecting from settling issues. She simply doesn’t want to settle for just anything and that’s her business 🤷🏽♀️
The boos and dating shouldn’t matter what gets me is her constantly talking about the man hast to have money and give her money to even be able to date someone marry someone have a kid by someone lol sound like a big Golddigger. I get money important but that shouldn’t be all you care about damn
I LOOVE Kayla’s energy girl, she’s so true to herself and don’t brag until it’s the topic of a conversation. Her timing on speaking on her personal life is on gods time and I’m here for it cause you wouldn’t know nothing accurate of winter unless you tuned in on her podcast and that’s the only place we get our exclusive info on her which makes it more interesting
i used to ask that question all the time. how do you just be you? i admire that. i learned that you have to learn to TRULY love yourself. younHAVE TO KNOW YOUR WORTH. you have to believe that in order to even figure out who YOU ARE. its hard af but worth it! i love it here!
Nothing worse than wasting time in a relationship. Loved this episode! Appreciate the realness and how you guys relate in real life. Also you guys are beautiful!! ❤ love yall! ❤️
When I got my first period, my dad was the only one home. I didn’t have a cell phone. So, I asked him to call my mom bc I needed help. He was like “baby, I’m here what’s wrong? I can help” I’m like noooo, call mama & he insisted then finally I yelled “CALL MOM!” & he was like “ohhhhhh” I was so embarrassed. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 idk why, but I did not want my dad to know about it. Also, I date a lot too. You go on dates & have fun. If it works, it works. If it doesn’t, it doesn’t. 😂😂 no biggie.
Birth control made me SOOOOO fat. Ive never struggled with my weight until i got the shot twice and it messed up my metabolism so bad that 5 years later i am still struggling to lose the weight
I love dating!!! I been in a relationship my whole life, bout to be 30 on oct 30th, and right now Im LOVINGGGG the single life and trynna just find out what I like. Relating to everything yall say lol Keep doin yall thang!!!! 💞
I was on birth control from 18 until this April (i'm now 24 almost 25), my emotions went back to normal and I was feeling real great! Now i'm 9 weeks pregnant🤣
I remember the first time you mentioned your friends death and I still can’t believe it. And o girl over there tried stepping in playing mommy immediatelyyyyy. It’s sick. RIP to your beautiful friend.
lol i agree with you winter on the no lurking bs. i’ll lurk like twice and then never again. im not tryna hurt myself like that 😭 like mario winan say… I DONT WANNA KNOWWWW 🎶🎶
Always relating to y’all 💯! 1. Just got off the birth control to and realize it ruined me most of my life. 2. Like wiinter my mom never talked to me about anything ever! Only daughter too, so everything I learned was via friends. Our generation is definitely gonna do the work
Folks coming at Winter for having a lot of boos when really life too short to be stuck on one man who ian acting right best believe imma pull a Winter we young turnt not young and miserable cryin over a man period 😂 ‼️
Ignore the haters winter lmao I love to hear u talk abt dating bitches are j jealous and also too worried abt other ppls buisnsss. We love the honesty n advice n funny stories
felt you on that sagittarius man being dr. jekyll & mr. hyde. I say that all the time about sagittarius men. They are so charming and charismatic until they take that mask off. yes they will love you but that other person will catch you off guard when they finally come out!
If anyone ever needs to talk or pray, I’m always here just know that God can use what happened to us for his glory so we can heal properly bigger than this world could ever do for us or a therapist or drugs like she said, the medical people don’t care at my lowest they try to get me on pills and I don’t want that so I chose God over the world and I know that if he can help me through my abuse, my rape, my miscarriages my abortion, and forgive me for everything I’ve ever done I know he can work through you. I pray that you know that you don’t have to battle this world alone, and Jesus loves you and I’m here if you ever need a friend.❤
Ummmm Miss Ma’am’s I’m gonna need longer episodes OR 2 videos a week. Bc I listen to you podcast every Thursday morning at work and I get so sad when the video ends 😢😢❤❤❤
I love that they don’t overly focus on current events like most podcasts! More so real situations and personal takes. Love y’all
I'm a cancer survivor and I've never been mean. For me having cancer motivated me to take deep look at my life and cherish the ones around me.
I’m obsessed with you guys and the consistency and honesty, more pods AND LONGER 😍 at least 1 hour and 30 mins to 2 hours 😅
I agree!
Yesss LONGER please
PATREONNNNNN 🤍
@@ChyFontenette Ard I got y’all when my paycheck hit lmaooo
Yasss
You guys are both so naturally funny please post twice a week or longer episodes!! 🫶🏽🫶🏽
That’s what I been tryna let them know 😢❣️
Chy is actually a comedian 😆🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love you girls!
I'm with Winter in this. When I'm done with a relationship I'm completely done and detached. Youre blocked outta sight and mind, cause I don't stew in the past. It's so much easier to let situations go that don't benefit you when you actually let it go in every form.
And I never talk bad about previous partners. There's no point to it. It ended for a reason - incompatibility. I'm able to move on quickly and healthily with this mindset. I'm now in a relationship with the best life partner I've ever had and its because I don't hold onto what's not for me, any longer than necessary.
Period sister.
soon as winter change her voice i lose it every time😂😂😂😂 y'all are too funny lol
Even though I'm a man I watch the podcast just to see perspectives from women. Yall topics are actually very interesting. Wishing you both continued success and God bless both you beautiful women ❤️ ♥️.
A king 👑
@@Toematetoe95 Appreciate that 👸
I’m obsessed with y’all 🥲
At 16-18 I was on and off the pill because of a serious irregular menstrual cycle, and my mental health was really bad (especially in my senior year of high school). It took me until the age of 21 when my cycle was becoming irregular again that I realized the pills were worsening my depression. Doctors basically called me crazy and stated that birth control has no effect on a woman's mental health, and that's a lie. Plenty of women have spoken out about how birth control made them feel. I don't understand why a professional doctor wouldn't take that seriously. So, I ended up not taking any pills and had to deal with my heavy flow.
I was already depressed but I took birth control for irregular periods and then I just had my period for a loooong time. So I stopped cause I wasn't having sex. I was like 15
I dealt with the same thing irregular and heavy menstruals so they put me on birth control to “control” my cycles but my anxiety shot up to an all time
High and when I stopped taking it I bled for 2 months and my dr pulled me out of work for a week just to find out I have adenomyosis and my only option is hysterectomy and birth control so now I’m back on the pill with irregular heart rate… love that for me 🙄
"Call me Lurkin' Lucy, I'm lookin' at it all" has me dyingggggg
Ya energy bounce off eachother so effortlessly love ya 💕💕
The fact I was just medically gaslit today and you guys started the video like that was crazyyyy. I totally agree about the medical field nowadays it’s so disheartening thanks for bringing awareness.
So impressed with you guy’s consistency ❤ I can say you guys are my favorite podcast
Omg I'd love to see your moms in the podcast , that would be epic
Yes !!! I suggested this back when they asked what is roaches wanted to see! Give the roaches Melissa and Cynthia !
@@chellebelle210😂
Yes please !!!
Yes! I would love to see that
Bro!! YES!!
EVERY WEDNESDAY IM HERE!! I ENJOY THIS SHOW. YOU GUYS ARE AMAZING. YA SO UNIQUE. SOMETHING POSITIVE ON TH-cam NOT TOXIC!
The lurking, "are you self harming?!" I screamed Foreal. I don't even wanna know they exist no more. I forbid anyone from saying their name, bringing them up, I don't even listen to songs that remind me of them.😂🤣
I'm not gonna lie I'm obsessed with this podcast! I wait every week for yall to drop!!
this is the only podcast i actually watch. and i’m very picky when it comes to things i watch so u guys are definitely doing great. it’s only gonna go up!!❤
Winter you stay having me weakkkkkk.😂😂😂 the lil baby voices be sending me😭😭😭
Lmao 😂😂 !!!! not chy sneakily looking at her phone trying so hard not to get caught!! That’s was funny love you girllls ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ 20:45
I think the truth is a lot of the people that judge winter for the number of boos are projecting from settling issues.
She simply doesn’t want to settle for just anything and that’s her business 🤷🏽♀️
The boos and dating shouldn’t matter what gets me is her constantly talking about the man hast to have money and give her money to even be able to date someone marry someone have a kid by someone lol sound like a big Golddigger. I get money important but that shouldn’t be all you care about damn
@@halobaemy thing is tho, why are you here?
@@Aminata11 Because I’m a fan of winter and I enjoy watching their podcast am I not allowed to have my opinion? That’s what the comments are for
finally 😭 sum i can listen too during my sesh ❤ luv y’all
listennnnn to winter when she talks about money and relationships..because YES
The way I immediately know she was talking about Saweetie at 48:10😂 it’s okay winter I know you’re funnier lol
What guy though? Me being nosey lol
I love how sympathetic you guys were in the beginning about cancer patients. My mom died May 2nd this year & my birthday was May 5th.
Love you guys 🩵
We need longer episodes 😭😭 or twice a week
We have posted twice on our Patreon this week! Link in bio :)
@@WinterBlanco I'm subscribed to the pateron but you should have the TH-cam subscriber subscription
@@WinterBlancoFINE. I’ll buy it 😩🫶🏽
@@lene8135oooo yes ! That’s be fun + they could have exclusive little emojis on the comments.
Yesss these under a hour episodes gotta be stopped
as soon as the cast opens i hit the like button!!!!! WE LOVE BEHIND THE LIKESSSSSSSS
I LOOVE Kayla’s energy girl, she’s so true to herself and don’t brag until it’s the topic of a conversation. Her timing on speaking on her personal life is on gods time and I’m here for it cause you wouldn’t know nothing accurate of winter unless you tuned in on her podcast and that’s the only place we get our exclusive info on her which makes it more interesting
I just needed an episode where y'all both have y'all boo up there with y'all.... Episode of the entire year no cap funny as s*** ever will probably be
Winters voices have me on my back!!!! She’s soooo funny “this is who you’re with 👹”
Another great episode 🎉 thank you guys for always uploading every week & being consistent 😁
lmaoooo chy dancing and winter gonna say "...and what happened to Ellen" LKMAOOOO BYE YALL ARE TOOOO FUNNY
It’s so much funnier with just you two!❤❤❤
Winter is hilarious!! Her comebacks are insane!!!😂😂😂 not you only got Jamal up the st 😭😭😭😭
i used to ask that question all the time. how do you just be you? i admire that. i learned that you have to learn to TRULY love yourself. younHAVE TO KNOW YOUR WORTH. you have to believe that in order to even figure out who YOU ARE. its hard af but worth it! i love it here!
Please keep us updated about your friend Kayla !! I was just thinking about her the other day literally. RIP 🕊
Thank you for keeping her in your memory 🤍
Nothing worse than wasting time in a relationship. Loved this episode! Appreciate the realness and how you guys relate in real life. Also you guys are beautiful!! ❤ love yall! ❤️
100% facts on everything y’all said. Love y’all ❤❤ thanks for being one of the few real people on the internet.
When I got my first period, my dad was the only one home. I didn’t have a cell phone. So, I asked him to call my mom bc I needed help. He was like “baby, I’m here what’s wrong? I can help” I’m like noooo, call mama & he insisted then finally I yelled “CALL MOM!” & he was like “ohhhhhh” I was so embarrassed. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 idk why, but I did not want my dad to know about it.
Also, I date a lot too. You go on dates & have fun. If it works, it works. If it doesn’t, it doesn’t. 😂😂 no biggie.
Birth control made me SOOOOO fat. Ive never struggled with my weight until i got the shot twice and it messed up my metabolism so bad that 5 years later i am still struggling to lose the weight
I hope y’all continue to do videos & stay consistent I love watching/listing to y’all podcast while I be driving lol ..
Haven’t missed an episode yet I watch as soon as y’all drop!!
I love dating!!! I been in a relationship my whole life, bout to be 30 on oct 30th, and right now Im LOVINGGGG the single life and trynna just find out what I like. Relating to everything yall say lol Keep doin yall thang!!!! 💞
I was on birth control from 18 until this April (i'm now 24 almost 25), my emotions went back to normal and I was feeling real great! Now i'm 9 weeks pregnant🤣
I remember the first time you mentioned your friends death and I still can’t believe it. And o girl over there tried stepping in playing mommy immediatelyyyyy. It’s sick. RIP to your beautiful friend.
THIS VIDEO CAME RIGHT ON TIME LORDD 🥺🦋 i love you guys 💕
Me and Chy twins for real because Imma lurk until I throw up 😩😭
Hands shaking & all 😅
😂 same sis
The matching hairstyles are so cute!
Literally obsessed with you guys I’ve followed winter for so long since being a teenager I love her and chy girl your fabulous sending love from uk 🇬🇧
I can relate to them on so many levels about different topics. You know a Taurus when you see one 5/11 ♉️ love the podcast!!!
i love your guys podcast sm please keep being consistent!!
Literally watching this podcast at the gym and screaming looking crazy 😂😂😂 y’all too funny 😂
I love Wednesdays because of you two 😭
Watching Chy & Winter podcast on Thursday morning which is my off day u two ladies are too funny
Chy the first thing I think of when I get to your page is don’t ever change your last name I LOVE it sounds like southern royalty
This episode is everything!!!
Been waiting all day for it too drop ! Love y’all
Hello Ladies! It was nice meeting you at the shower. Thanks for the shot! Love the podcast ! xo ESSENCE
lol i agree with you winter on the no lurking bs. i’ll lurk like twice and then never again. im not tryna hurt myself like that 😭 like mario winan say… I DONT WANNA KNOWWWW 🎶🎶
The immediate cancer conversation😭 y’all really just like me and my friends I love it
The whisper when Chy says “cancer or something👀” 😭😭😭
Always relating to y’all 💯! 1. Just got off the birth control to and realize it ruined me most of my life. 2. Like wiinter my mom never talked to me about anything ever! Only daughter too, so everything I learned was via friends. Our generation is definitely gonna do the work
I look foward to this every week u guys are so funny I feel like I'm w my friends this exactly how we joke n get along
I love this podcast omg🤍 Yall so real😂
Yayyy my favorite thing to listen to at work !
2 cents and a sack of corn 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I honestly look forward to watching you all! I loveeee these PODS 😍😍🥰
Best episode yet to me 😊 Winter&Chy keep doing y'all thing 🔥🔥💯
I love y’all af 💕🩷🎀🫶🏼🤣
Folks coming at Winter for having a lot of boos when really life too short to be stuck on one man who ian acting right best believe imma pull a Winter we young turnt not young and miserable cryin over a man period 😂 ‼️
Winter that voice u do always has me cracking up 😂
Ever since I have found this podcast I’m obsessed✨🫶🏼
I just love these two. Wishing you guys much more success.
“Why do I need 2 cents and a sack a corn every month” 😂😂😂 I was crying lmao
I feel winter about that “let’s get this money together” growing up in Vegas it’s traumatizing 😂😂 like sir I don’t want to 😂😂
WINTER BABY POP YO SHIT QUEEN. I LOVE IT LMAOOOOO😭😭😭🤩
“My mom said I was her ugliest baby” lmaooo
Ignore the haters winter lmao I love to hear u talk abt dating bitches are j jealous and also too worried abt other ppls buisnsss. We love the honesty n advice n funny stories
Lmaooo f that, I want my 2 cent and sack of corn too. We havin taco Tuesday every week on you 😂
WINTRR so real I really love her I’m cracking up this episode 😂❤
As an aquarius , I love how Chy knows when other ppl are an aquarius lmaooo
YAY TWO WEEKS STRAIGHT YALL ARE UPLOADING BEFORE 330
Happy to hear Kayla's case is reopened!! Cuz that was sketchy af
chy, you be dropping hints. are you happy in your relationship sis? truly?
i been waiting all week for this😭pls make it longer
Next best lash tech of America took me outtt😂😂😂
felt you on that sagittarius man being dr. jekyll & mr. hyde. I say that all the time about sagittarius men. They are so charming and charismatic until they take that mask off. yes they will love you but that other person will catch you off guard when they finally come out!
Winter is so real 🔥
2 cents and a sack of corn 🤣🤣
Sagittarius men don’t even know who they wanna be 😂
Yall had me laughing .. winter you crack me up and you also keep it real with everything . Love your advices
I live for this podcast. One of my favs❤
I’ve been waiting 😭💙💙
If anyone ever needs to talk or pray, I’m always here just know that God can use what happened to us for his glory so we can heal properly bigger than this world could ever do for us or a therapist or drugs like she said, the medical people don’t care at my lowest they try to get me on pills and I don’t want that so I chose God over the world and I know that if he can help me through my abuse, my rape, my miscarriages my abortion, and forgive me for everything I’ve ever done I know he can work through you. I pray that you know that you don’t have to battle this world alone, and Jesus loves you and I’m here if you ever need a friend.❤
I love chys voice !!!
Chy stay saying “I remember” 😂😂 I love y’all!!! ❤ IN OTHER NEWSSSS 😅
not come out with music like sean t adams 😂😂😂 ugh I love you guys 💗
Ummmm Miss Ma’am’s I’m gonna need longer episodes OR 2 videos a week. Bc I listen to you podcast every Thursday morning at work and I get so sad when the video ends 😢😢❤❤❤
Thank you for your consistency!!!!!!!