Jacob, you are not long-winded. You give thorough, detailed, thoughtful answers. That’s a good thing. You are a good speaker and clearly an interesting person. I hope you are able to find more peace within yourself through this process of learning about NPD, self reflection and increasing your insight into your thought patterns and behaviours. NPD sounds like it encompasses a lot of thought patterns which severely impair self-acceptance or a sense of inner peace. I hope through intellectualising your thoughts and behaviour you can find routes to inner peace instead.
Wow you were such a FANTASTIC guest for a college class! You were able to give such an insightful experience for those students! Please please do and post more of these. I loved it
Great work. You are putting a lot of good out into the world by giving a more nuanced view of NPD and personality disorders in general. A quote comes to mind: "There isn't anyone you can't learn to love once you've heard their story." Not sure who said it, but I think you are contributing to a deeper understanding and compassion for folks struggling with these disorders. Thank you.
People don't understand that narcissistic Personality disorder is who the person is. And if a person doesn't have the awareness they will not change. I think it's awesome when an individual gets help and they accept it and really change. Good for you..I hope more people find awareness and actually decide to change.
Thank you for breaking down an understanding of what NPD is, especially from an internal standpoint. While getting my degree in psychology/Phil. it was really depressing how professors and student’s perceptions were so cut off from understanding anything outside of themselves. .. I’m sick of everything being labeled “bad or awful” because people are too lazy or just don’t want to understand the deeper motivations behind disorders, as well as any internal experiences that may come with it. I don’t think we’re helping or addressing anything if we’re not looking for the roots ..
Exactly! I'm so tired of the hate and vitriol tbh (I'm cluster b). We are basically adult children who went through hell. I am not proud of that and how it affected me and I am not proud of my behavior in the past.
Im extremely impressed by youre level of self-awareness. I hope you could understand that without having success, you are still perfectedly worthy. Its also important to understand that every single person feels pain and suffering in life in some way, and this helps to connect with others and realize that there really isnt a competition in life. The car example is interesting to me, because even if your friend runs errands first, what matters is that he is there to help you. You never know why he feels like he needs to run the errands first.
I’m somebody who’s recovered from narcissistic abuse and for a long time, I had no time or energy for narcissistic people. Tarring every narcissist with the same brush. I really wanted to dislike you, but I can’t ignore how open you are, so I have to thank you.
Thank you! You are absolutely lovable!!! You are just not unique and special above others.. We are all unique and lovable, and we all struggle with ours stoff.. The world is a brutal place to be for us all, and we have to change the perspective from "I" to "We", then we can heal the world and everyone will be fine, and end of ware
I liked your video! thanks! your courage and differentiation is what will lead you to healing! This makes you an exception among people who have this psychopathology. Why don't you make a video talking about the childhood things that you believe lead to this psychopathology? I'm rooting for you 🙂😉
Thanks so much!! Honestly I did have one but I got all emotional in it and it was embarrassing 😂 I’ve been thinking about making a new one but ugh it’s always overwelming
@@Thenamelessnarcissist If you reflected on events from your childhood that are remarkable. You will understand what forced your personality. You would begin to recognize yourself and could begin to question symptom expressions with Socratic questioning. Belief > Thought > Feeling > Action = Conduct. Your conduct is already the disorder because of your beliefs. And consequently his character expresses the disorder. Questioning the "dysfunctional beliefs" that in your opinion or according to psychopathology trigger the symptoms, expressed in your behavior. You have a lot of knowledge about psychopathology and you analyze yourself. Day by day, if questioned and seeing the opposite side and the evidence for and against your beliefs that trigger the behaviors, you would start to stimulate a new neuroplasticity. I know a friend who also has this psychopathology, but for her it's not simple because she doesn't have that knowledge of herself like you do. And she for years had no access to treatment or information. And also she has 25 years without diagnosis. She has eliminated 3 symptoms in the last 11 months and is now going to be tested for my work on cognitive psychology as proof of the effectiveness of cognitive behavioral psychology. The longer you go without questioning the "why" and "what is the evidence to the contrary?" more will reinforce your behavior. Talk it over with yourself. I have a degree in cognitive behavioral psychology and psychoanalysis. The treatment you need is in your mind.
I am amazed how well and precise you can articulate your thoughts and motivations in various situations. Have you always been someone who can articulate their thoughts well or have you achieved that only through therapy?
Love this and love you. Your channel is awesome and thank you for being you and bringing light to how ineffective the criteria for NPD is. You are a superhero.
Yup. Great work. I haven't heard you talking about published studies in any detail before now and you did a great job. I used to be a scientist and have a Ph.D. in psychology (did evolutionary stuff though). And the bit focussing on what happens when grandiosity is burst and bursting thresholds was really useful. Difficult to see how you'd get through to a narcissist in grandiose mode though. Perhaps you might explain if there's an approach which might be constructive.
Have you tried meditation and doing various body cleanses? these tools help with anxiety and confidence, plus talking out our childhoods wounds. Peace To All.
I think when narcissists abuse people it's often a retaliation to a perceived slight. The perceived slight is something the non-narcissist wouldn't understand at all. Combined with the lack of empathy, it's kinda a recipe for abuse. I think self awareness is pretty powerful for a narcissist to be able to recognize when their perception doesn't = something worthy of retaliation. Therapy is good for that. Also when the idealization turns into devaluation. I think self awareness in that aspect is also useful.
“The Nameless Narcissist” using his name? How can anyone not see this is all a grift? Just look at all the attention, praise, and free validation always given in the comments. It’s almost as if these people have zero grasp on what they’re dealing with.
I could see his narcissism in his eyes when he is looking at that girl. Immediately. It makes me feel amazing to have the discernment to see who is narcissistic just based on their eye contact with others. He tried to act more normal at the end but oooo I can see it boy 😂 Those thoughts 😂
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Jacob, you are not long-winded. You give thorough, detailed, thoughtful answers. That’s a good thing. You are a good speaker and clearly an interesting person. I hope you are able to find more peace within yourself through this process of learning about NPD, self reflection and increasing your insight into your thought patterns and behaviours. NPD sounds like it encompasses a lot of thought patterns which severely impair self-acceptance or a sense of inner peace. I hope through intellectualising your thoughts and behaviour you can find routes to inner peace instead.
Wow you were such a FANTASTIC guest for a college class! You were able to give such an insightful experience for those students! Please please do and post more of these. I loved it
Aw thanks so much!!! I definitely will if I get more opportunities like this!
Great work. You are putting a lot of good out into the world by giving a more nuanced view of NPD and personality disorders in general. A quote comes to mind: "There isn't anyone you can't learn to love once you've heard their story." Not sure who said it, but I think you are contributing to a deeper understanding and compassion for folks struggling with these disorders. Thank you.
I love that ❤
People don't understand that narcissistic Personality disorder is who the person is. And if a person doesn't have the awareness they will not change. I think it's awesome when an individual gets help and they accept it and really change. Good for you..I hope more people find awareness and actually decide to change.
Thank you for breaking down an understanding of what NPD is, especially from an internal standpoint. While getting my degree in psychology/Phil. it was really depressing how professors and student’s perceptions were so cut off from understanding anything outside of themselves. ..
I’m sick of everything being labeled “bad or awful” because people are too lazy or just don’t want to understand the deeper motivations behind disorders, as well as any internal experiences that may come with it. I don’t think we’re helping or addressing anything if we’re not looking for the roots ..
Exactly! I'm so tired of the hate and vitriol tbh (I'm cluster b). We are basically adult children who went through hell. I am not proud of that and how it affected me and I am not proud of my behavior in the past.
I always thought you'd have a lot to contribute to the academic world. Proud of you!!
Keep feeding the monster.
Awesome interview/lecture. I'm even a little envious. You give me hope that I can get better with my NPD.
Im extremely impressed by youre level of self-awareness. I hope you could understand that without having success, you are still perfectedly worthy. Its also important to understand that every single person feels pain and suffering in life in some way, and this helps to connect with others and realize that there really isnt a competition in life. The car example is interesting to me, because even if your friend runs errands first, what matters is that he is there to help you. You never know why he feels like he needs to run the errands first.
You are really informing and educating powerfully on this topic. Proud of you.
I’m so proud of you.
Awww thank you mom ❤️❤️❤️
You really know your stuff. I hope your channel blows up.
This is incredible to see how far you've gone !! Congrats man, keep it up !
This is so great for students. If I knew about narcissism earlier, my life would be so different,
Thank you Jacob … I’m married 37+years and I thought it was bi polar , it’s NPD traits & definitely generational .
Terrific talk, very proud of you for this hard-earned achievement 🎉
I am so great full to you for sharing your situation, thank you.
I have an immense amount of respect for you.
You're going through bigger places and I'm glad that you do!
You did an awesome job! SO proud of you!
I’m somebody who’s recovered from narcissistic abuse and for a long time, I had no time or energy for narcissistic people. Tarring every narcissist with the same brush. I really wanted to dislike you, but I can’t ignore how open you are, so I have to thank you.
Well I never realised Jacob has so many fan girls!
What a day to be alive ( for someone with NPD! )
Lmao how did you not notice??
You did so good!
Thank you! You are absolutely lovable!!! You are just not unique and special above others.. We are all unique and lovable, and we all struggle with ours stoff.. The world is a brutal place to be for us all, and we have to change the perspective from "I" to "We", then we can heal the world and everyone will be fine, and end of ware
I liked your video! thanks! your courage and differentiation is what will lead you to healing! This makes you an exception among people who have this psychopathology. Why don't you make a video talking about the childhood things that you believe lead to this psychopathology? I'm rooting for you 🙂😉
Thanks so much!! Honestly I did have one but I got all emotional in it and it was embarrassing 😂 I’ve been thinking about making a new one but ugh it’s always overwelming
@@Thenamelessnarcissist If you reflected on events from your childhood that are remarkable. You will understand what forced your personality.
You would begin to recognize yourself and could begin to question symptom expressions with Socratic questioning.
Belief > Thought > Feeling > Action = Conduct.
Your conduct is already the disorder because of your beliefs. And consequently his character expresses the disorder.
Questioning the "dysfunctional beliefs" that in your opinion or according to psychopathology trigger the symptoms, expressed in your behavior.
You have a lot of knowledge about psychopathology and you analyze yourself.
Day by day, if questioned and seeing the opposite side and the evidence for and against your beliefs that trigger the behaviors, you would start to stimulate a new neuroplasticity.
I know a friend who also has this psychopathology, but for her it's not simple because she doesn't have that knowledge of herself like you do. And she for years had no access to treatment or information.
And also she has 25 years without diagnosis.
She has eliminated 3 symptoms in the last 11 months and is now going to be tested for my work on cognitive psychology as proof of the effectiveness of cognitive behavioral psychology.
The longer you go without questioning the "why" and "what is the evidence to the contrary?" more will reinforce your behavior.
Talk it over with yourself.
I have a degree in cognitive behavioral psychology and psychoanalysis. The treatment you need is in your mind.
Thanks for this
I bet you had a lot of pride writing the title to the vid lol congrats man
HAHA literally i rewrote it 5 times to make it perfect. But thank you!!
@@Thenamelessnarcissist Don’t u always tho, lol 😆 part of the TH-cam frame of mind
@@ZEELIONYou just out here enabling happily 😂
@@loveinthematrix Wicked boy ain’t I
@@ZEELION You love it lol
I am amazed how well and precise you can articulate your thoughts and motivations in various situations. Have you always been someone who can articulate their thoughts well or have you achieved that only through therapy?
Love this and love you. Your channel is awesome and thank you for being you and bringing light to how ineffective the criteria for NPD is. You are a superhero.
(Virtual talk if that wasn't clear lol)
U should’ve photoshopped a thumbnail of u on a podium giving a speech haha
Yup. Great work. I haven't heard you talking about published studies in any detail before now and you did a great job. I used to be a scientist and have a Ph.D. in psychology (did evolutionary stuff though). And the bit focussing on what happens when grandiosity is burst and bursting thresholds was really useful. Difficult to see how you'd get through to a narcissist in grandiose mode though. Perhaps you might explain if there's an approach which might be constructive.
I wrote some negative comments on this but I’ve deleted them. I respect that you are trying.
Can you do a video about why narcissists sometimes idealize other narcissists/sociopaths/psychopaths?
Would love to see interview with Dr Les Carter💯…..it is incredibly helpful to listen to you in dealing with npd sister….ty!!
I have npd I think I a want to be diagnosed
Has Ketamine been tried in NPD?
Have you tried meditation and doing various body cleanses? these tools help with anxiety and confidence, plus talking out our childhoods wounds. Peace To All.
My npd brother in law and sister also have significant paranoia
Do you get treatment? Do you have any videos detailing your recovery process?
You are very beautiful and smart guy, I have pretty much the same picture, adhd, npd plus borderline traits.
I've met people like this. They are very uninteresting.
Hey just wanted to let you know that the discord invite link is expired
I can see on your body that there is trauma attached to you physically. Hve you ever explained your story?
Do you believe that Narcasistic abuse usually follows a certain pattern? *I know not all narcasists are abusive.*
I think when narcissists abuse people it's often a retaliation to a perceived slight. The perceived slight is something the non-narcissist wouldn't understand at all. Combined with the lack of empathy, it's kinda a recipe for abuse. I think self awareness is pretty powerful for a narcissist to be able to recognize when their perception doesn't = something worthy of retaliation. Therapy is good for that.
Also when the idealization turns into devaluation. I think self awareness in that aspect is also useful.
One fuck up. He got caught up at 34 mins
53 percent isnt bad at all.
“The Nameless Narcissist” using his name?
How can anyone not see this is all a grift? Just look at all the attention, praise, and free validation always given in the comments. It’s almost as if these people have zero grasp on what they’re dealing with.
It’s a grift but they’re actually giving a lot of insight to the condition so it’s not really a bad thing
Do you think it's a grift just because he is benefiting from it in some way? It seems like he is being pretty honest about the disorder
I could see his narcissism in his eyes when he is looking at that girl. Immediately. It makes me feel amazing to have the discernment to see who is narcissistic just based on their eye contact with others. He tried to act more normal at the end but oooo I can see it boy 😂 Those thoughts 😂
I fear you might be delusional