@@SmartGirlPhilippines Generally true. Unfortunately, some people are very skilled at maintaining facades for the long game. But I agree that most women tell on themselves relatively early on, with actions and words.
@@Justin_Arut yes. It's actually pretty basic and universal. Trust people's actions. Not sure why it's triggering for some people or what the pushback is. The point is that when you're starting a new relationship you don't know if someone is actually telling the truth, so the best thing you can do is look at their actions.
@ But why go through the trouble of shifting through them all? Intercourse is both verbal and sexual. It needs to be pure on every level; otherwise, you're dealing with a liar and/or a whore.
The bottom line here is simple. You will never get honesty out of a Filipina. You'd have a better chance of getting honesty out of a politician. Dishonesty and little white lies are such a huge part of their culture and goes all the way back to its Spanish Catholic heritage. Just like you can't get an American to give up their God-given rights, you can't get a Filipina/Filipino to be honest with you. I've been married to two of them and I lived there for two years long ago. This is an incredibly large hurdle to overcome in a relationship. The inability to be honest, the prideful need to save face, and the aversion to confrontation makes it almost impossible to work through problems with them. Because of those things, if a Filipina has a problem in the relationship, they will most likely never say anything about it. You will only hear about it years later when the relationship is falling apart. I went to marriage counseling with my last wife and things were brought up by her that I had never heard in 13 years of marriage. Not a single complaint or discussion. How is it fair to never discuss or address a problem in the relationship, then turn around and blame the man for these problems. You can't fix what you don't know is broken.
If you hire a single one as a maid or live in maid she will be more dedicated and loyal to you than one you married. Without ALL THE HELL AND FAMILY DRAMA!
Irish you need to talk with the Filipina P. She tells lots of lies to foreigners to get their loyalty and stroke their egos. Your super honest to both sides.
True! How can you take them serious, or more important...trust them? Crazy. "Saving face" sounds like a smokescreen for, "our cultural practices let us be perpetual children!"
Your advice are gold truth always wins in the end...my wife and I have been married 13yrs and we dont lie....are bond is strong...thankbu for your video❤
Really enjoying and gaining lots of street smarts from your informative and well-presented vlogs. :) On my way to Manila from Vancouver, Canada on Satruday for a couple months travelling around Cebu, Bantayan Island and Malapasqua (my third trip there). Only interested in short term not long term (zero strings) arrangements and making freinds because i just adore the filipinas....for a few days!! i'm a Free Bird, as in the lynyrd Skynyrd song. look froward to more great content from you!
Actions are King and words are cheap this is true. But to say 99% of Filipinas are liars is no more than adding to the stereotyping which is unfair. There are many good and honest Filipinas out there as well, just take your time to find them and listen to what they say carefully and observe body language and you will be sure to find a good one, as I have done.
99% of people in the world lie. This is about a strategy for when you first start dating in the Philippines (or anywhere). You have to trust actions, not words. It has nothing to do with her being honest or not. It has everything to do with being wise. There is no better strategy as you begin the dating and relationship process with anyone anywhere in the world.
@SmartGirlPhilippines 99% of people worldwide lie? I guess it depends on what sort of lie we are talking about. A little white lie that hurts no one or a deceitful lie. There is a difference. Certainly 99% wouldn't fall into the deceitful category.
I been to Philippines 3times April last yr and October and 2017 be back in February and known one for 7 yrs but in April I met another who took me by the hand and back to where I was staying for horizontal dancing and telling her friends I was her bf so the lesson here is don't say anything and agree with whatever and we found each other in October and no one other then me needs to know about it and I know what ur thinking and I will choose one and stick it . I mean with it and Irish is rite keep clean and presentable and stay calm and quiet and enjoy
Thank you for showing the honestly in ur country it's the same here just lies and no trust in the dating game .. exactly y men r choosing to stay single so sad ....
I am coming to Angeles city for a month, while I am there I will be having some company with working ladies. So what are the red flags of this type of transactions
@SmartGirlPhilippines Too many games. Not interested in games. I'm not going to compete for any woman's affection. If she wants that other guy, she has my blessing. 👋
The problem is that everyone in the world lies (99%) so that makes everyone a liar...this video is my attempt at giving a simple strategy to never worry about lies ever again. Thanks for watching.
@SmartGirlPhilippines That's simply not true. People who follow the Bible don't lie. Hiya is the most despicable cultural norm. There's absolutely nothing honorable about "saving face," all it is, is a complete and total lack of accountability and personal responsibility, and encourages this bad behavior in perpetuity.
"Never trust a Filipina's words." So, I guess that means that I shouldn't trust your words. Okay. But, I'm rather amazed at how I've seemed wonder struck, about Filipinas, these last few days. I remember that my interest for a Filipina, in the past, was when I was in New York, and not in a personal way. Your leader, Corazon Aquino, had come to New York, on an official visit. I worked, as a messenger, from an office only two blocks away from City Hall. So, on one of my deliveries or pickups, I took the time to stop a few steps away from City Hall, to see and listen to Corazon Aquino, as if she had been a personal flame to me, without anyone suspecting any of that. It was a nice , at a distance, encounter. And, today, I almost have a sense of "Hey, you seem to be from my family!", and I almost feel as if I were Christopher Colombus discovering America. I'm in and from Haiti, in the West Indies. "Never trust a Filipina's words." Your words. Still, I find myself under your charm. Don't tell me "Never trust a Filipina's charm!". I don't understand English.
I'm not talking down to anybody. This same advice could be applied to foreigners, to all women, to all men, and to any boss or any employee. It's universal.
@@markus6635 Disagree with that. Just trying to bridge cultural differences. I employ people in Manila. These differences are real & need to be managed.
Save yourself 7 minutes and listen to 5:28 for the ultimate strategy when trying to date any Filipina.
In the Philippines, what is an insurance?
I told my fiancé in Zamboanga that if she was totally honest with me, I’d be dedicated to her for life. Oh, I meant to say ex-fiancé.
Without trust, there's no relationship.. in my world anyway.
Obviously. My point is that when you learn to trust people's actions and not their words, you become bulletproof to anyone's lies.
@@SmartGirlPhilippines Generally true. Unfortunately, some people are very skilled at maintaining facades for the long game. But I agree that most women tell on themselves relatively early on, with actions and words.
@@Justin_Arut yes. It's actually pretty basic and universal. Trust people's actions. Not sure why it's triggering for some people or what the pushback is. The point is that when you're starting a new relationship you don't know if someone is actually telling the truth, so the best thing you can do is look at their actions.
@ But why go through the trouble of shifting through them all? Intercourse is both verbal and sexual. It needs to be pure on every level; otherwise, you're dealing with a liar and/or a whore.
Only Trust Her Actions, Never Trust Her Words..... This is the biggest lesson
The bottom line here is simple. You will never get honesty out of a Filipina. You'd have a better chance of getting honesty out of a politician. Dishonesty and little white lies are such a huge part of their culture and goes all the way back to its Spanish Catholic heritage. Just like you can't get an American to give up their God-given rights, you can't get a Filipina/Filipino to be honest with you. I've been married to two of them and I lived there for two years long ago. This is an incredibly large hurdle to overcome in a relationship. The inability to be honest, the prideful need to save face, and the aversion to confrontation makes it almost impossible to work through problems with them. Because of those things, if a Filipina has a problem in the relationship, they will most likely never say anything about it. You will only hear about it years later when the relationship is falling apart. I went to marriage counseling with my last wife and things were brought up by her that I had never heard in 13 years of marriage. Not a single complaint or discussion. How is it fair to never discuss or address a problem in the relationship, then turn around and blame the man for these problems. You can't fix what you don't know is broken.
Thats alot of women in general not just filipina
If you hire a single one as a maid or live in maid she will be more dedicated and loyal to you than one you married. Without ALL THE HELL AND FAMILY DRAMA!
Obviously because you’re paying her dude 😂😂😂
@PurpleDoritos666 that's the odd thing about them they will honor a job and money wayyyyy more than any man.
@@PurpleDoritos666 plus that's a way cheaper price than having to support a wife lol.
@@PurpleDoritos666one way or the other you always pay her or are a value to her and that’s why she stays.
@@PurpleDoritos666 they get paid in marriage, too. Don't fool yourself.
Strong endeavours of Saving face is an all Asia phenomenon.
Saving face is just an excuse to lie LIE and then LIE
The end of the video was gold. Great strategy.
Irish you need to talk with the Filipina P. She tells lots of lies to foreigners to get their loyalty and stroke their egos. Your super honest to both sides.
Some words of profound wisdom, good job Irish.
So do I trust Smart Filipina's words LOL 😂
True! How can you take them serious, or more important...trust them? Crazy. "Saving face" sounds like a smokescreen for, "our cultural practices let us be perpetual children!"
As always Irish you have great and wise wisdom that is very truthful and I agree
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Your advice are gold truth always wins in the end...my wife and I have been married 13yrs and we dont lie....are bond is strong...thankbu for your video❤
So true!!!! Ive learned the hard way!!!!
Excellent video....God bless you ❤
Spot on
Really enjoying and gaining lots of street smarts from your informative and well-presented vlogs. :) On my way to Manila from Vancouver, Canada on Satruday for a couple months travelling around Cebu, Bantayan Island and Malapasqua (my third trip there). Only interested in short term not long term (zero strings) arrangements and making freinds because i just adore the filipinas....for a few days!! i'm a Free Bird, as in the lynyrd Skynyrd song. look froward to more great content from you!
So smart.
First! :) I liked all the positive things you mentioned at the end of the video. :)
Thanks!
Thankyou beautiful ❤️
Actions are King and words are cheap this is true. But to say 99% of Filipinas are liars is no more than adding to the stereotyping which is unfair. There are many good and honest Filipinas out there as well, just take your time to find them and listen to what they say carefully and observe body language and you will be sure to find a good one, as I have done.
99% of people in the world lie. This is about a strategy for when you first start dating in the Philippines (or anywhere). You have to trust actions, not words. It has nothing to do with her being honest or not. It has everything to do with being wise. There is no better strategy as you begin the dating and relationship process with anyone anywhere in the world.
@SmartGirlPhilippines 99% of people worldwide lie? I guess it depends on what sort of lie we are talking about. A little white lie that hurts no one or a deceitful lie. There is a difference. Certainly 99% wouldn't fall into the deceitful category.
What aren’t you getting, she’s a Filipina telling you not to believe them and you say she’s stereotyping??
My wife never lied to me. That's why she's my wife.
That's hard to believe,when you are here listening to these blogs and the truth comes out😂😂😂
a fool will learn the hard way
I been to Philippines 3times April last yr and October and 2017 be back in February and known one for 7 yrs but in April I met another who took me by the hand and back to where I was staying for horizontal dancing and telling her friends I was her bf so the lesson here is don't say anything and agree with whatever and we found each other in October and no one other then me needs to know about it and I know what ur thinking and I will choose one and stick it . I mean with it and Irish is rite keep clean and presentable and stay calm and quiet and enjoy
Thank you for showing the honestly in ur country it's the same here just lies and no trust in the dating game .. exactly y men r choosing to stay single so sad ....
I love your honesty, you sweet little thing! 😘
Thanks!
Thanks Nate! I'll use this to buy Jollibee on Friday. -Irish xoxo
Oh I'm scared to data Philippine woman now didn't know all that thank you so much 😕🥺😢🤔
This applies to all women and all men when you're first getting to know them. Trust actions, not words. Thank me later.
compared to a Vietnamese war refugee woman, pinoy women are has wholesome as Richie Cunningham's mom in Happy Days.
Filpinas are the best story tellers
Save yourself some grief and NEVER TRUST ANYONE'S WORDS. EVER. Make them prove it with actions. Otherwise, adios, faker.
My old police training;
ABC
Accept nothing
Believe no one
Check everything
I'm sick of all the liars in the world
That´s horrible. I´ll never even consider dating a Philipina. Thank you for clarifying.
Every action is communication
FINALLY! Someone got the point! Thank you!
What a confusing mess!
Yes! It can be very confusing. That's why I made this video. To simplify everything. Listen to her words, but trust her actions.
Smart🎉🎉🎉
I am coming to Angeles city for a month, while I am there I will be having some company with working ladies. So what are the red flags of this type of transactions
What honesty more chance climbing up mount everest backwards
100% agree
Lies of omission are probably the worst ever. It’s shows a lack of character.
Wait......are you lying to me?
Beat me too it
The old but true joke. How do you make a small fortune in the Philippines? Invest a large fortune.
I'll skip on the Filipinas. Too complicated for me.
Hint: this is all women
@SmartGirlPhilippines Too many games. Not interested in games. I'm not going to compete for any woman's affection. If she wants that other guy, she has my blessing. 👋
Someone said :it's more fun in the Philipines 🤐
hmm small lie is still a lie how do we filter true from false hard to trust , no trust noo love..
You are scaring me out to meet filipina ,by every your video.... thanks no filipina after this video 😢
A lie is a lie 1 lie makes you a liar!!
Agree and l would also add to that
"Half Truths are Whole Lies"
The problem is that everyone in the world lies (99%) so that makes everyone a liar...this video is my attempt at giving a simple strategy to never worry about lies ever again. Thanks for watching.
@SmartGirlPhilippines you don't know everyone in the world so how can you make that statement?
@SmartGirlPhilippines
That's simply not true. People who follow the Bible don't lie. Hiya is the most despicable cultural norm. There's absolutely nothing honorable about "saving face," all it is, is a complete and total lack of accountability and personal responsibility, and encourages this bad behavior in perpetuity.
@@neilasd3043 Google it.
Does that include you 🤔😀
No thank you. 😂
Your smart because your IRISH!
Yes!
"Never trust a Filipina's words." So, I guess that means that I shouldn't trust your words. Okay. But, I'm rather amazed at how I've seemed wonder struck, about Filipinas, these last few days. I remember that my interest for a Filipina, in the past, was when I was in New York, and not in a personal way. Your leader, Corazon Aquino, had come to New York, on an official visit. I worked, as a messenger, from an office only two blocks away from City Hall. So, on one of my deliveries or pickups, I took the time to stop a few steps away from City Hall, to see and listen to Corazon Aquino, as if she had been a personal flame to me, without anyone suspecting any of that. It was a nice , at a distance, encounter. And, today, I almost have a sense of "Hey, you seem to be from my family!", and I almost feel as if I were Christopher Colombus discovering America. I'm in and from Haiti, in the West Indies. "Never trust a Filipina's words." Your words. Still, I find myself under your charm. Don't tell me "Never trust a Filipina's charm!". I don't understand English.
I think you talk down your own country. Sounds like its the worst place to be. Treat people the way you want to be treated.
I'm not talking down to anybody. This same advice could be applied to foreigners, to all women, to all men, and to any boss or any employee. It's universal.
@@markus6635 Disagree with that. Just trying to bridge cultural differences. I employ people in Manila. These differences are real & need to be managed.
You have no idea....
So we shouldn't trust anything you're telling us either? lol.
Trust my actions. ❤
You just contradicted the shit out of yourself???????????
So I shouldn't trust what you say lol, I disagree very much with this video. I no alot of Filipina that don't lie and aren't dishonest ever
Thanks!
Thanks so much! I'll use this for our weekly Jollibee party on Friday. -Irish xoxo
@@SmartGirlPhilippinesdouble-dead chicken