Assalamu Alaikum Naseeha Sessions, I've been watching your videos for years now and they've had a great influence on me alhamdullah. I grew up and live in the United States where Islam isn't practiced as it should be. In all honesty, thanks to your videos, you've brought me back to Islam, by the will of Allah of course and inspired/encouraged me to promote Islam alhamdullah. I just wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the excellent work that you do, please keep it up! May Allah grant us all goodness in the dunya and afterlife, and save us from the hell fire. May Allah keep us all steadfast on the Deen and increase us all in knowledge. Ameen ya rab al 3alameen.
This was very good actually but there is something I want to mention. Being a niqaabis who also wears khimaar, fully covered nothing can be seen but the eyes-no shapes nothing, yet the amount of times I've been followed by guys & have had numbers thrown at me, how can this be explained? There is literally nothing inciting, neither do I west perfume. So why do they do it, Plz reply from a brothers/mans perspective. I'm intrigued to know
Hmmm. Interesting...but this isn't a surprise. Any man who approaches you without a mahram only wants one thing from you. Anyway, from what I've seen of people and all the messed up stories I've heard, the following may be the case... 1. Eyes- it may be the case that these men find women's eyes attractive, seductive, enticing etc. So they try move to you. 2. Trying to get the good girl go bad- Certain men tend to be malicious. So when they see someone who from the outset would be percieved as a "good girl" (hijab, niqaab, jilbaab etc) they want to basically see how far they can get with her. 3. Virgin hunter- the man assumes the hijabi or niqaabi girl is a virgin and tries to get her in bed. They feel as if it's some kinda achievement by corrupting her and him being the first guy she slept with. It's twisted but there are men like that around. Some are so f'd up that if in the future the girl gets married he would say things like "I've had your wife" to the husband. Or try to blackmail her into meeting him. This will undoubtedly cause damage in the marriage. 4. Taking advantage of innocence- similar to the above point, men assume that a girl that is covered hasn't had much interaction with men. So when he tries to move to her he is counting on her being very innocent and naive. He will then try to fool her into believing he genuinely has feelings for her, get what he wants and then leaves. While she's left heartbroken. 5. Some men are so thirsty they'd go after anyone. There's a saying "Pu**y ain't got no face". Sorry for the language...its twisted but many men that don't fear God think like this. I dont know how old you are and I don't mean to scare you. But I only say all this from everything I've seen and heard from people's experiences. It's a jungle out there for sure. Now in saying all the above. There are of course many good men out there too. So if you're not sure if a man is genuine or not then suggest that he speak to your parents or you want to meet his parents and you will only meet with your parents being around or his parents being around. You will see his true colours. That's what this girl did to a brother I know after only a few days. They are now married.😂. Guess he was genuine. Lol Well that's all I can think of from the top of my head. Hope I gave you some insight to some of the twisted minds men have. Lol. Keep your guard up and stay frosty. May Allah protect the ummah
From my perspective, I think they are attracted to the religiousness portrayed by your clothing, which ties in with wanting a pious, well-dressed wife. Not excusing their actions ofcourse! Just trying to make sense of it.
I blame parents /guardians how their relationship is with their kids . Personally black magic , abuse , lack of responsabilities play a role in many things
Assalam o Aleikum, Imran, I wonder since a while if the brother beside you is the guy who was wearing the ear ring in one of you're Videos. May Allah grant You both a high place a Jannah.
Assalamu Alaikum Naseeha Sessions,
I've been watching your videos for years now and they've had a great influence on me alhamdullah. I grew up and live in the United States where Islam isn't practiced as it should be. In all honesty, thanks to your videos, you've brought me back to Islam, by the will of Allah of course and inspired/encouraged me to promote Islam alhamdullah. I just wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the excellent work that you do, please keep it up!
May Allah grant us all goodness in the dunya and afterlife, and save us from the hell fire. May Allah keep us all steadfast on the Deen and increase us all in knowledge. Ameen ya rab al 3alameen.
This was very good actually but there is something I want to mention. Being a niqaabis who also wears khimaar, fully covered nothing can be seen but the eyes-no shapes nothing, yet the amount of times I've been followed by guys & have had numbers thrown at me, how can this be explained? There is literally nothing inciting, neither do I west perfume. So why do they do it, Plz reply from a brothers/mans perspective. I'm intrigued to know
Oops, meant to sat wear*
Hmmm. Interesting...but this isn't a surprise. Any man who approaches you without a mahram only wants one thing from you.
Anyway, from what I've seen of people and all the messed up stories I've heard, the following may be the case...
1. Eyes- it may be the case that these men find women's eyes attractive, seductive, enticing etc. So they try move to you.
2. Trying to get the good girl go bad- Certain men tend to be malicious. So when they see someone who from the outset would be percieved as a "good girl" (hijab, niqaab, jilbaab etc) they want to basically see how far they can get with her.
3. Virgin hunter- the man assumes the hijabi or niqaabi girl is a virgin and tries to get her in bed. They feel as if it's some kinda achievement by corrupting her and him being the first guy she slept with. It's twisted but there are men like that around. Some are so f'd up that if in the future the girl gets married he would say things like "I've had your wife" to the husband. Or try to blackmail her into meeting him. This will undoubtedly cause damage in the marriage.
4. Taking advantage of innocence- similar to the above point, men assume that a girl that is covered hasn't had much interaction with men. So when he tries to move to her he is counting on her being very innocent and naive. He will then try to fool her into believing he genuinely has feelings for her, get what he wants and then leaves. While she's left heartbroken.
5. Some men are so thirsty they'd go after anyone. There's a saying "Pu**y ain't got no face". Sorry for the language...its twisted but many men that don't fear God think like this.
I dont know how old you are and I don't mean to scare you. But I only say all this from everything I've seen and heard from people's experiences. It's a jungle out there for sure.
Now in saying all the above. There are of course many good men out there too. So if you're not sure if a man is genuine or not then suggest that he speak to your parents or you want to meet his parents and you will only meet with your parents being around or his parents being around. You will see his true colours. That's what this girl did to a brother I know after only a few days. They are now married.😂. Guess he was genuine. Lol
Well that's all I can think of from the top of my head. Hope I gave you some insight to some of the twisted minds men have. Lol. Keep your guard up and stay frosty. May Allah protect the ummah
From my perspective, I think they are attracted to the religiousness portrayed by your clothing, which ties in with wanting a pious, well-dressed wife. Not excusing their actions ofcourse! Just trying to make sense of it.
I blame parents /guardians how their relationship is with their kids . Personally black magic , abuse , lack of responsabilities play a role in many things
Gave me a lot of perspective as a woman. Very useful video
Uncle Ben the rice guy looool
I love this series alhamdulillah
Thank you for such an insightful video brother may Allah bless you both
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
May Allah azze ve cell reward you all for your efforts.
Assalam o Aleikum,
Imran, I wonder since a while if the brother beside you is the guy who was wearing the ear ring in one of you're Videos.
May Allah grant You both a high place a Jannah.
Muslim2000 why would you wonder that?
Muslim2000
No that was another brother.
Another great video . Stay blessed . Ah
Alot of slang words lol