What's like dating foreign women for Japanese men | Dating in Japan | no taboo

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  • Dating in Japan | Japanese men vs foreign women | No taboo
    When Japanese men date foreign women: Storytime & questions you're afraid to ask
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    Intro 0:12
    Guest intro 1:30
    dating non Japanese 2:51
    Japanese men preferreed nationalities 3:10
    Opinion on interracial couples in Japan 4:00
    Challenge when dating foreign women 6:47
    Best thing about dating foreign women 8:24
    Is it different in the bedroom ? 9:09
    Is the vagina size stereotype real ? 9:50
    Do Japanese men have a complex about their D size ? 11:40
    Do Japanese men prefer submissive women ? 12:28
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ความคิดเห็น • 106

  • @sweetchocolatesecret
    @sweetchocolatesecret ปีที่แล้ว +92

    What I often find all over the world, but especially in these conversations regarding Asian culture, "Black people" are often painted with a broad brush. My family is Caribbean, and we don't precisely fit in with African Americans. Depending on how you're brought up, you could be more bold or more reserved. All of this is to say it's very interesting to see how sometimes Japanese men may be intimidated by Black women when, in my experience, the ordinary Black woman isn't that outlandish or sexually aggressive. There is so much range in personality. Of course, this happens all over the world, so it's nothing new.

    • @nat3299
      @nat3299 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I’m Angolan, born in Portugal. Agree with This, the diaspora is HUGE and it’s a tad bit sad when we all get lumped when we all probably don’t have the same native language

    • @Tee-kc3pn
      @Tee-kc3pn ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You just did the same thing.....grouped all African Americans together......I wasn't raised like a lot of Black Americans ..

    • @athomas9661
      @athomas9661 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You're describing the exported "image" of blacks via media and colonialism. So regardless of what country the black person is from, the other groups have received about blacks. The diversity you speak of also exist in American black women. But the reality is if you are a Westerner (regardless of race), the perception is we are more aggressive -- fair or not. It's just a reality we need to be aware of and navigate when engaging with others.

    • @kimleemoon
      @kimleemoon 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      All African American women don’t fit that stereotype either. We are very diverse. The image western media disseminates to the world is a minority of black American women…we are not a monolith despite being raised in the same country. Black Americans are diverse because 🇺🇸 has different cultures in different regions and different states.

    • @kimleemoon
      @kimleemoon 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Tee-kc3pn most of us weren’t raised like that. What you see in the media (news, movies, etc) is “inner city poverty life”. Only 25% of Black Americans live in poverty and we all don’t live in inner city ghettos

  • @DanielleBaylor
    @DanielleBaylor ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I was surprised by how open and loud he is compared to some other Japanese interviewees I've seen, but then he said he's a comedian. Ah ok lol

  • @jamini_gemini56
    @jamini_gemini56 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    This is the funniest thing I have come across this year......Meshida san is too honest 😆.

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      🤣🤣🤣 ikr he has no filter

    • @amyr3285
      @amyr3285 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree!

  • @wunstpklosrr
    @wunstpklosrr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    This interview is giving me life, 😂😂😂. The way he answered the question soo fast ☠️😂☠️😂. I just love how you get so many different perspectives of life in Japan. ❤️❤️🥰🥰

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I had to cut so many parts we here i was lmao 🤣 he is hilarious
      Thanks a lot for watching

  • @calleegirl5737
    @calleegirl5737 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    It's refreshing hearing a Japanese person just being honest without any frills. I will always remember this when I hear someone say Mt. Fuji😂

  • @syde82
    @syde82 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Great insight into dating Japanese men. It is such a shame as humans we get hung up on stereotypes. Cos think of all the shared experiences we could all have

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      True there are way too many stereotypes. It’s important to not always generalize. Thanks a lot for watching

    • @syde82
      @syde82 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Yllah so many. Such is life I guess. Great content by the way. I enjoyed watching your videos x

  • @superbadgeethan8335
    @superbadgeethan8335 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I love comedians for this reason! Thank you for your honesty and openness to discuss these topics.

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for watching

  • @adeeambo6388
    @adeeambo6388 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This was a trip! 🤣 🤣 I appreciate the honesty.

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks a lot for watching. I appreciate YOU

  • @lechoixdedieu1425
    @lechoixdedieu1425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    It was very fun for me to date a Russian man. I learned a lot as African I am. I discovered many things, many differences. Even Russian men got this sex complexe with black women. Thanks Yllah for this trip, wish you all the best for this new year

  • @rhiannn3416
    @rhiannn3416 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    According to my JP bf & I;
    1. Japanese preferred nationalities.
    As he mentioned, white nationalities; europeans, white skin, big blue eyes are "exotic" and rare to them, but this is more fetishized and many guys who go for girls like this aren't looking for long term partners (of course not all guys are like this tho).
    But otherwise most go for other asian nationalities where the cultures and beauty standards are more similar (ie east Asia, SE Asia).
    2. Opinions of interracial couples.
    Yes, there are language barriers, but it's part of the beauty of it! We speak in both Japanese and English. We used to speak exclusively in Japanese, but now that he is more comfortable speaking English we speak both (and his English is better than my Japanese now haha).
    My bf does tend to say "I love you/aishteru" though so I guess it's a younger generation thing(?). Or just a him thing. He's kind of a weird guy, and def not the typical Japanese.
    Personally I think these kind of relationships work best when the foreign counterpart understands/respects Japanese (knowing the language helps too), and when the Japanese counterpart is very open-minded. Especially because Japan has such heavily rooted culture it's really nice when they're open-minded about things like marriage, work, kids, other expectations, etc.
    3. Challenges.
    Culture differences as mentioned above.
    Language barriers.
    4.
    It's funny, I think the best thing is also the culture differences and language barriers. Just being able to embrace each other's cultures and trying our best to communicate in each other's languages is really nice.
    The rest I'm going to take a pass on HAHAHAH 💀💀💀💀

  • @tamikash
    @tamikash 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    When he said "even if it's for 30 secs" I died 💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @kategerry6162
    @kategerry6162 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video, fun & warm-hearted! Thank you 😊

  • @TheRiotPunkGirl
    @TheRiotPunkGirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Man this interview felt like a fever dream

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣 tell me more

  • @MsBloo
    @MsBloo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    this was such a good video and the steamy questions being asked shed a lot of insight on sensitive topics so thank you for being willing to do this. Keep up the great work!

  • @netero.
    @netero. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    lmaooo “and i have mount fuji don’t worry” omgg this was very interesting! thanks for sharing

  • @paradoxicalcanons
    @paradoxicalcanons ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I like this guy! Excellent and honest interview. Very interesting. Thank you!

  • @somekool
    @somekool ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My two idols together... Awesome discussion. Thank you

  • @marcos-ll2yr
    @marcos-ll2yr ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is very rare, he don't have a filter hahaha I date a japanese here in Brazil. Girl he was really dificult was really shy.

  • @niks1life
    @niks1life 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This was a really good interview. You guys didn’t hold back at all. Thanks. 🙏

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks a lot for watching

    • @niks1life
      @niks1life 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Yllah ❤️

  • @SketchMyStory
    @SketchMyStory 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you very much for sharing with us.

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank YOU for watching it

  • @peilingchiu5830
    @peilingchiu5830 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is a great interview very natural
    but funny af! I laughed in tears twd the end. But also loved the honesty! 🙌🙌👏👏😻

  • @a.m.pietroschek1972
    @a.m.pietroschek1972 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Supercool, a cameo visit from Comedian `Casanova´ Meshida to the channel of our host Crazylla. Kudos! 🤗

  • @Ravenhaird
    @Ravenhaird 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This was amazing. I don’t watch things like this but I clicked on it from your insta. This was insightful and hilarious

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks a lot for watching I appreciate you and value your time

  • @LeratoMthethwaLotto
    @LeratoMthethwaLotto 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hahaha hahaha hahaha he's so funny. Thank you babes for being open and asking interesting questions. Stay safe that side. Sending love from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @charmainej4820
    @charmainej4820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I like his honesty....that's why im also subscribed to his channel

  • @PPB_Army
    @PPB_Army 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He had that answer ready before she could finish
    😂😂

  • @chriswamahiu8751
    @chriswamahiu8751 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Japanese p@rn would disagree though, on the issue of passiveness. They have some of the weirdest stuff I have seen on the internet.🤣🤣🤣

    • @gordonbgraham
      @gordonbgraham ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Porn is not representative of the general population. It’s fantasy, made by men for men

  • @Brownmahfun
    @Brownmahfun ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WOW! THIS IS SOOOOOOOO GREAT!

  • @Meshida
    @Meshida 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thanks!!!! I'll upload the video with you soon!!!!!!

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ❤️❤️

  • @maatatoure9602
    @maatatoure9602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Exellent video
    ありがと😉👍🎶

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks a lot for watching

  • @tiffchu
    @tiffchu ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is wild I can’t believe you know each other!! I’ve been watching meshida and discovered you recently and to see you’ve collabed already is crazy haha meshida wildin as always

  • @J-in-Japan
    @J-in-Japan ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Very interesting! I’m glad I found this! Follow!
    I’m not going to lie, I feel a little sad when he mentioned preference to “white” women. I wonder if many would go for a girl with a more brown or darker complexion.
    I live here now, and I hope to find a husband since I’m already in my 30s, and I feel like I culturally align more with Japanese culture than US…..
    You’re very pretty! I applaud you to keep your ethnic beauty despite the seeming pressure of society to blend in. When I first came here, I arrived with my hair pressed by a professional back in US, but upon arriving at the airport it fluffed up! I tried straightening it again the next week but it fluffed to Afro three days later. It’s hard to keep straight hair in Japan in the summer. My self esteem feels low when I look in the mirror sometimes, but I should believe in this country of millions there should be some cute Japanese guys that would like to date a shy brown/black girl.

    • @Vieen1810
      @Vieen1810 ปีที่แล้ว

      White women have been pushed down the neck of Japanese culture after the War, remember the USA brainwashed the Japanese. However the Japanese will not admit it. I met Japanese people that were direct and very forward. Maybe it is the generation that is different.

    • @hikaryagravity
      @hikaryagravity 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Stop being so attention seeking. People don't usually go in a country to encounter a husband and if so do it where you can be loved better. Don't feel sorry to be as you are.

  • @silvae6870
    @silvae6870 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😂😂Vocês são ótimos 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @tayanajay5020
    @tayanajay5020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Is this a finger?😂 This was a great interview thank you for the content🙌🏾💛

  • @mypassion5207
    @mypassion5207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love it 😂

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you 😁

  • @zakirpatel6205
    @zakirpatel6205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    As a guy of asian decent, its no secret we are a bit smaller down there, theres data to show for this. 🤷‍♂️

    • @samuraijosh1595
      @samuraijosh1595 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That doesn't mean sex would be mediocre. That's a white supremacist myth.

    • @dodgyyoutuber9560
      @dodgyyoutuber9560 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Bs. It’s just about height difference.

  • @yaneryyrenay3534
    @yaneryyrenay3534 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hahahahhahaha. This was great!

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you

  • @Karolkid
    @Karolkid 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sometimes I don't understand if he's being ironic or not...and it's many times not political correct...but damn I laugh so much with him... It was fun to find this interview with him! thank you Crazyllah for bringing us Meshida !!!

  • @darkdamsel7094
    @darkdamsel7094 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I appreciate his honesty about how Japanese prefer white women and men.

  • @DonS90
    @DonS90 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg meshida senpai

  • @artsoftheworld2318
    @artsoftheworld2318 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    😭😭😭😭🤣this is so funny omg, one of the best interviews I've seen

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for watching

    • @artsoftheworld2318
      @artsoftheworld2318 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Yllah ❤️❤️❤️

  • @SimDescent
    @SimDescent ปีที่แล้ว +2

    omg I cant believe this with two top youters in the same video.

  • @vivianidelacerda9708
    @vivianidelacerda9708 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He sounded like Jackie Chan when he didn't understand English😂

  • @iamjia95
    @iamjia95 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He is so funny 😂 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ashleydiaz9608
    @ashleydiaz9608 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tell him to call me lol love his smile 😉❤️

  • @naoto9556
    @naoto9556 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mt. Fuji🤣🤣

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ikr 😂

  • @welma943
    @welma943 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    mt fuji? how did i end up here?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wonder 🤣

  • @janl.9315
    @janl.9315 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂😂 😂

  • @SimplySango35
    @SimplySango35 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was so funny lmao

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @asherbrown7637
    @asherbrown7637 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂🤣🤣

  • @atthismoment3006
    @atthismoment3006 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wha?????

  • @audgepodge381
    @audgepodge381 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    14:20 Stop this man ahahahahaha, should've done an 80's dating tape version of this omg he's hilarious.
    but it's true, they do like submissive women. there's a reason why 'burikko" "kawaii" culture exists.

  • @Chichi_Madollar
    @Chichi_Madollar ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is he still single 🥺

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I believe so

  • @bbkikimu6279
    @bbkikimu6279 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hahaha l'intro m'a butté

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂🤣🤣 vas-y viens on fait des vidéos fun

  • @Wooster77
    @Wooster77 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So his Japanese ex gf was later permanently stretched out and no longer able to please a Japanese man?

  • @melolabean7656
    @melolabean7656 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    black men are a stereotype just like anyone else stereotype lol there a lot of small black men as well as there is big to any other race and there are different sizes with Asians big, small etc. I wish this be explained more that it's not a race thing it is a person thing your born with what your born with.

  • @ellaodiase4643
    @ellaodiase4643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Japanese men I made the lowest of low

    • @samuraijosh1595
      @samuraijosh1595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They're the best. Black hair and long hair 😍 Flawless and smooth skin 😍 Fridge-like build when they're muscular 🤩

    • @dissclout47
      @dissclout47 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samuraijosh1595 💀💀

    • @nat3299
      @nat3299 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@dissclout47 the fridge built part got me like ?😭

    • @Evilspookydollar
      @Evilspookydollar ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@samuraijosh1595 I’M DEAD💀💀💀

  • @patriciaguterez8002
    @patriciaguterez8002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm jesus, i ended racism and trauma in all fields of thought. you're welcome.
    also, jesus is responsible for reiki, you're welcome.

  • @johankadaj7643
    @johankadaj7643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    japanese woman meet a bbc before him , i suppose she walk like a duck

  • @ryanj3340
    @ryanj3340 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    great video! Hey, whats this guys IG?