Your absolutely correct. Their version of reality is so far from reality itsnlike your living in another planet. The narcissist us the Shakespeare of their own theater. ITS mind boggling.
My answer to a narc's trying to convince his version of what happened, "It's your choice on how you interpret what you saw, I have no control over that."
He has managed to convince many people of his version of reality. It’s really an ordeal because he’s such a great performer. Even some of my family believes him. Such a great smear campaign against me 😕
It's like they literally hear different words to what you've said. All they hear is an attack on their fragile ego. It's very sad but none the less very dangerous to the person on the receiving end.
My mother My sister My former husband Needless to say I’m a target for these destructive and manipulating sad individuals Rooted in their own history of INSECURITY and self importance.
Deluded people do not define us. Ask yourself if they are imposing their selfish will onto reality, or aware of it. Stay in reality. They will hate you for pointing out that they are self deceived but it's the best thing you can do for them so keep challenging their controlling behaviors.
Narcissist people are one of the most worst people ever yes I got trapped before . They will leave you or wapas aate h then they try to do emotional things which is the most disheartening . Yahan khud samne wale esi tumse normal h and ye Narcissist log ulta or ghusne ki koshish krte h. Ye ek din esi hi ispe mar jaynge krte karte guys if they are coming back to you ignor3 they will only come for demand
Isn't this true of all categories of Narcissistic Personality Disorder and all categories of Narcissism. Isn't it true that entitled narcissism is the type that almost always never changes. Wouldn't a narcissist under the influence of alcohol or drug consumption have a lot higher level delusion than someone that is not under the influence of substances.
Is it advisable that 2 person's with any type of narcissism even communicate even as pen pals before both are truly completely recovered and healed?????
I got my last name back. Thank you for all your videos. I divorced mine last week after 15 years of torture. Now he plays a victim game and brag about getting away from not paying child support.
@@lucyt-c8092 The court Grant him no child support because he claimed he is disabled. That was part of my divorce hearing. They're not making him pay child support.
@Lucy T-C This debt beat father just a sperm donor. I'm in great health and God still provide. I work hard and I will raise my kids. I got my divorce and my peace back. My children are with me. That is all the peace I want. He claimed he is disabled and he can't work that is his problem. I went no contact for a whole year and the only time I see him was during the hearing 2 weeks ago. Do not communicate with him and I do not respond to him. That killed them. The children was at the court and they knew about him faking his stage like he is disabled. Judge fell for it. It's all good. Karma is real.
@@soeumsoeun4646 I am sorry no child support. At least you DID go to court !… and if he ever has a job with a paycheck- GO BACK ! I am happy for you that you are divorced from him . Hopefully very little contact ? The children make it harder …
How about when one narcissistic only mostly use emotional black mail when they are under the influence of substances so they might do it less frequently than the other narcissist,; do they have they have the right to negate that only the one more frequently doing is the only party that needs to be accountable for their words. If one party is slick and sly and tries to camouflage everything so that it appears so subtle, that it would be hard for even an English teacher to pick it up. How about if both simply have different methods of distortion. Just because they both use different ways of living in a distorted world, doesn't mean that one party does it and the other doesn't. Is thinking that 2 people thinking they can have a friendship if they both have a distorted view of reality an illusion within itself?????
Your absolutely correct. Their version of reality is so far from reality itsnlike your living in another planet. The narcissist us the Shakespeare of their own theater. ITS mind boggling.
My answer to a narc's trying to convince his version of what happened, "It's your choice on how you interpret what you saw, I have no control over that."
I really needed to hear this right at this moment.
This is so true!!! And yes the lies they tell are laughable! 😂
Their favourite response is: That did not happen.
Exactly!
You're right everyone is an actor in their play 🎭
Yes, indeed. Their delusion is not my reality.
He has managed to convince many people of his version of reality. It’s really an ordeal because he’s such a great performer. Even some of my family believes him. Such a great smear campaign against me 😕
Very true. All of them live in their own fantasies
Yes , my narcissist husband he is DRAMA KING, full of hallucinations. None of his imagination become reality.
To negotiate is WIN WIN for them
100%! Oh My gosh Danish! This is painfully True on every count!!
My version of reality was a tragic but privaliged childhood. I never took for granted the love and generosity of those around me.
It's like they literally hear different words to what you've said. All they hear is an attack on their fragile ego. It's very sad but none the less very dangerous to the person on the receiving end.
My mother
My sister
My former husband
Needless to say I’m a target for these destructive and manipulating sad individuals
Rooted in their own history of INSECURITY and self importance.
That’s why I was discarded 😳
They are off their rockers
Ya it is laughable
Thanks Danish!❤⚘
My mother one million percent
Its very diffucult if the narsist convinced whole family of her truth..
This is so true.
Spot on,you know hem well❣️
Deluded people do not define us. Ask yourself if they are imposing their selfish will onto reality, or aware of it. Stay in reality. They will hate you for pointing out that they are self deceived but it's the best thing you can do for them so keep challenging their controlling behaviors.
So true!!!
You are describing my ex-.
Narcissist people are one of the most worst people ever yes I got trapped before . They will leave you or wapas aate h then they try to do emotional things which is the most disheartening . Yahan khud samne wale esi tumse normal h and ye Narcissist log ulta or ghusne ki koshish krte h. Ye ek din esi hi ispe mar jaynge krte karte guys if they are coming back to you ignor3 they will only come for demand
My narcissist response is you think too much and you're too sensitive!😅
Isn't this true of all categories of Narcissistic Personality Disorder and all categories of Narcissism. Isn't it true that entitled narcissism is the type that almost always never changes. Wouldn't a narcissist under the influence of alcohol or drug consumption have a lot higher level delusion than someone that is not under the influence of substances.
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Is it advisable that 2 person's with any type of narcissism even communicate even as pen pals before both are truly completely recovered and healed?????
I got my last name back. Thank you for all your videos. I divorced mine last week after 15 years of torture. Now he plays a victim game and brag about getting away from not paying child support.
shabbat - congratulations on divorce and name ! I do hope you are taking him to court over child support ?
@@lucyt-c8092
The court Grant him no child support because he claimed he is disabled. That was part of my divorce hearing. They're not making him pay child support.
@Lucy T-C
This debt beat father just a sperm donor. I'm in great health and God still provide. I work hard and I will raise my kids. I got my divorce and my peace back. My children are with me. That is all the peace I want. He claimed he is disabled and he can't work that is his problem. I went no contact for a whole year and the only time I see him was during the hearing 2 weeks ago. Do not communicate with him and I do not respond to him. That killed them. The children was at the court and they knew about him faking his stage like he is disabled. Judge fell for it. It's all good. Karma is real.
@@soeumsoeun4646 I am sorry no child support. At least you DID go to court !… and if he ever has a job with a paycheck- GO BACK ! I am happy for you that you are divorced from him . Hopefully very little contact ? The children make it harder …
@@lucyt-c8092
He hasn't been working for 5 years. He's not planning to work. I'm okay. As a mother I will continue to work to provide for my children.
How about when one narcissistic only mostly use emotional black mail when they are under the influence of substances so they might do it less frequently than the other narcissist,; do they have they have the right to negate that only the one more frequently doing is the only party that needs to be accountable for their words. If one party is slick and sly and tries to camouflage everything so that it appears so subtle, that it would be hard for even an English teacher to pick it up. How about if both simply have different methods of distortion. Just because they both use different ways of living in a distorted world, doesn't mean that one party does it and the other doesn't. Is thinking that 2 people thinking they can have a friendship if they both have a distorted view of reality an illusion within itself?????
Danish do you ever provide online or telephone private coaching?
The mind f__k🫠😶😵💫👹