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its crazy that this sort of content is never given on television, yet would be of the utmost value to EVERYBODY in the world. the more people this reaches, the closer we get to being one big happy planet :) to anybody reading this have a great fucking year and crush your goals!!
In shift you say people who are a lot into validation to go out to enjoy it, no goals attached. No sex, phone numbers at all. I did this and it made all the difference. Ironically i now have good interactions....... Go out to enjoy it is helpful everywhere. 👌
Good points. "Men keep their possessions for their own enjoyment and do not share sufficiently with others the bounty received from God. Spring is thus changed into the winter of selfishness and egotism." ~‘Abdu’l-Bahá, in London
Great video. As an ex drug addict I spent a ton of time locked away in my room "conserving resources", as if leading up to some big apocalyptic event, but in the end I was left with nothing. Now that I'm out and about in the world and have mentally recovered I have taken on this philosophy you are talking about and it does truly work. It's so counter-intuitive to our human nature, or mine at least. But giving is memorable, and the more you give away the more of your e g o you let go as well. Keep up the videos, I really like the direction you've been taking lately, 2016 is gonna be big!
Taylor Gavinchuk what kind of drugs were you addicted to? I myself am finally free 13 days no heroin to be honest. I had to leave the town I was in my friends encouraged me I got a greyhound back to my hometown were I can't find H. We're in at here sucks kinda but I can't score. I was not paying my rent and had a short job my roommate kicked me out so I stayed with a friend but I kept using and this time I was around someone who cares about me. They could see me using every day. I had a job were I made $30 dollars a day loading a van in the morning for an hour and unloading it at 5 pm. During the day I would mow lawns in the neighbor hood and buy H in that neighborhood too. We got a greyhound and I went to Asheville NC to my friends farm. I want to go back but afraid of the environment TBH. My friend were I came from is getting a new place in OCT. I'm going to go back in October and start over so I have a month and a half. I'm just hustling on eBay right now and doing that. Been smoking the ganja but i started to feel good about 3 days ago it was hell I know I'm not out of the woods yet as far as energy levels go but I almost got a greyhound yesterday to go back but I decided to wait until oct and move in with my friend. We're in at in Asheville at the farm is free and it's nice kinda but I can't stay here they are just letting me stay as long as I can to stabilize. Any advice anyone? Pm me please I would appreciate it and if anyone else is struggling hit me up I would love to talk thanks -derek
I don't even scan the environment is such a high level frame! It does not really matter who you are going to talk to, the first approaches and sets are practice anyways, you don't expect anything and after a while you have option and scan maybe then for the girls the liked the most. --> extreme buyer-frame, while giving value! Awesome video as always
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+JulienHimself Great message Julien. Tyler and you, have been like you said "hammering" this into the community. You're evolution is great to watch, and the value is intense. Consider posing a question at the end of your video's for your viewers to not only add some more interactivity but to hammer in the points you make further.
+JulienHimself Just putting it out there....if you need help with web development, I'd be more than glad to offer my assistance. I do it for a living and usually work on real boring projects, so working on something I"m actually interested in is always refreshing.
vid was so thought-provoking and nuanced that I stopped every 5 mins to mull it over and think about how I've applied in past and can take this to the next level in future. Quality!
In order for everyone to stop being neurotic about "what should I give??? What are they going to take???" I'll add, that everyone of us has unique perspective and personality, unique experiences, so just put your focus into expressing your authenticity. This in itself contains self-amusement and will draw attention from others. This is really liberating and will avoid people-pleasing mentality.
Around 9:20, you reminded me of an excellent lesson I picked up in the audiobook "Zen Mind: The beginners mindset", the just of it is to never lose your beginners mind, and never become an expert. Because an expert is limited in how many new experiences he can have, he's jaded and moves off of discipline rather than taking the time to become motivated and excited for it like a beginner, and he can not learn much, and prideful was sneaks into the back door. Just wanted to share this. Awesome videos Julian, you're the fuckin man
one of the best videos. it really helps you to change your mindset. when you act from the giving perception, there is no anxiety because you are not taking nothing from anybody
Damn dude! Ive watched a lot of dating, self help and game related videos over the past year and a half, but this video might just be the ABSOLUTE best and eye opening video out there. Great job! Definetely made me realise some important things about myself.
julien is starting more and more to exhibit traits of a behavioral psychology genius. i like how he transcends the teaching of how "to get laid" to the more profound concepts that can change one's life. i love it!
I see the point to be more giving so true. It’s true you brought up to save , conserve, and be cheap. The kind of mentality we should stay away from. I don’t agree with full message but you made some great points.
thanks Julien. absolutely beautifully put and 100% relatable. practically applicable. one of the ways we can escape our ego is to give wo expectation of anything in return and thats when we shine and the magic happens. thanks for sharing this!! i so enjoy your videos.
Thanks Julien, I've been stuck in a conflict between this and the disease to please for about 3yrs now. Somehow both of these vids have shown up 1 day after another and hopefully I can get back on track.. You're a *legend..*
Fall in line with what you always say...Come from a place of abundance!! And everything falls into place..Great video. Keep up these positive messages. I love them the the MOST!!!
this put into words an intangible concept in my mind, i know when im being successful with a girl, but i dont know what it is or what im doing when it happens, now i understand. youve helped me unlock a part of myself i always had within me, thanks Julien
Nice. :) One thought I had while watching this though was that, if you don't come from a solid frame of freedom from outcome, ppl will probably look at you like you have a hidden motive and are attempting to use them. But then again, it wouldn't really be genuine giving, if you're only doing it so you can gain gratification when people see you as a nice person. People pleasing. Perhaps the best of two worlds is when you are independant of outcome, but still find happiness in being a positive person and being intact with your integrity. If you hold up the door for someone, and the response is arrogant ungreatfulness, your happiness isn't afffected.
Thank you Julien , I have been applying this concept of offering value instead of draining value and it has changed the way I network everytime I go out. This will come back to you. I will find a way.
I didn't really get what you were saying at first because I tend to fall into the seller frame and I try to stay away from it. But it makes more sense when you think about it because when you look at inferior people who can't get laid, they're just trying to take and see what they can get. They aren't focused on just giving abundantly and not expecting anything in return. You have to come from the frame that you're giving because you want to give and put yourself out there and you're never doing it just to get something in return.
wow Julien is genuine you're right, you're supposed to give asking for nothing in return but of course after they receive, they will react and reciprocate this makes sense thanks, Julien! It is more blessed to give than to receive - Acts 20:35
I really appreciate this. This helps me to understand the true nature of what I love to do. Share and it will come back. Not in a banking ideal as in "returns". But in an aspect of selflessness and appreciation of life.
Awesome video buddie, love the way you not only talk about it but embodied the whole concept of give give give through your years of experience in the game. Thanks alot Julien !!!! ;)
@@kayligo But that is literally missing the point of the whole video. Stop worrying about resources and start contributing. The net return will always be greater as you get back from both the giving and the receiving.
Edgar Abram this person is with a person who takes too much. There are people who will gladly drain other people of everything. Sounds like you haven’t personally experienced that yet.
This is really itneresting and one of those 'obvious in hindsight'. i actually came to realize this at work, and this is gonna sound ridiculous, but my job offered me a promotion and I kept turning it down, because I didn't feel like I was getting enough return for the new responsibilities. Eventually Ii kinda thought to myself, you know what, fuck it, I might as well just givem them what they want, and ironically, or I guess maybe not, it ended up benefiting me more in the long term, as well as creating a more positive relationship, where its this 'win- win' or exchange of favours, rather than me just trying to snatch as much as I can for myself.
Happy new year julien and the content you covered was a great one that probably was missing and haven't focused by alot of people out there, including me....:)
I definitely still think that those seminars are werid, but you seem like a really cool guy. This is basically how I've lived my life since I read "Think and Grow Rich" a few years back. I come from a poor country of 'takers' so this was really really hard to do.
You are the best man. Thats all i really have to say. You have incredible insight and tje lasr few videos about letting go of desires and this one about giving really hit home. I really needed this. Thank you.
Great video! I was just wondering; what about when people come from a "taking" frame, while you come from a "giving" frame? Wouldn't they take advantage of your time, making you lose money etc? Is there a point where it become too much "giving"?
I'm naturally a giver but some people treat me like shit yeah? Always asking and never giving back, really feels draining man. I think its good to give but not to the ones who only almost always take and don't reciprocate even if given a chance.
Yeah. Ask a -beta- orbiter how well giving is working out for him. There was a book Julien reviewed called the disease to please or smth like that which discusses this subject. It also explains the pathology of nice guy syndrome.
What happens if you give to people who don't give back ? How can you know on which persons to invest more energy ? I"m talking about macro selecting the people to help mostly, sometimes I give to everybody and I'm just exausted and drained of energy ... I really love people
Julien gonna get tons of emails now of people wanting to give him stuff... Hmmm, I see what you did there Julien... Just kidding, good quality video as usual :)
If we give because it makes us feel good or because we have intentions on still getting something in return; isn’t that still selfishness? Give because you recognize how abundant the universe is. understand “self” is an illusion. We are all one ecosystem. What you reap is what you sow. Make sure the intention is good and patient. The Universe is smarter than you. It knows your heart better than you.
How did you get your video with subtitles in Spanish? Did you make them or youtube generates them automatically? Thanks for answering... Love your videos
2:18 I want to check if i understand the statement correctly. "is your goal to get the stuff to get the girl as a byproduct of that stuff:" i.e is your goal purely to gain the understanding/knowledge/ability to get the girl and seeing her as a reward? i hope i didn't misinterpret. Thanks
+Kim JUNGJOE No, like he also said in this video, seeing 'getting the girl' as a reward comes from the mindset of taking. With 'the stuff' he means beeing positiv, free from outcome and exited. You GIVE people your positiv attitude and let them join your fun. If you know how to game yourself properly you will always draw in people naturally, which is the 'byproduct of that stuff'.
Say if you’re trying to master a skill, an instrument for example. Would your exchange simply be consistently giving your time to practice and being positive about the experience? Great videos tho bro keep up the good work 💪🏻
Yeah but ya gotta want to give/put in the time to practice and shit. If you just drag yourself around, not truly enjoying practicing, progress won't really be made. It will plateu
+JulienHimself Thank you! Do you do all this work with uploading by yourself? Respect for your work ethic! You are a leadership example for all your followers!
What is the difference between value offering and positive and people pleasing? I cant put my finger on it. Like when i see videos of luke hes never negative but i would never seee him as a people pleaser.
people pleasing falls more along the lines of constant, "I'm sorry, did i offend you? please like me." compared to the former, "shooting the shit with your friends having a good time "
Julien is fucking awesome! If you are interested in this subject of Giving vs Taking, I recommend a book called Give and Take, by Adam Grant. It illustrates how to be a Giver but without the burnout of offering to just takers.
Julien, you are wise beyond your years. How did you acquire such wisdom at such a young age. People do not naturally think this way. It usually comes after experiencing massive pain or hitting rock bottom. What is your story?
DBS LLama ofcourse, i'm not denying that. However, "you're smart if you can learn from your mistakes. And wise if you can learn from others." Reading daily gets you ahead REALLY fast intellectually.
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its crazy that this sort of content is never given on television, yet would be of the utmost value to EVERYBODY in the world. the more people this reaches, the closer we get to being one big happy planet :) to anybody reading this have a great fucking year and crush your goals!!
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Fuck yeah bro!!! Let's KILL this shit!!!!!
+schwibz Haha, yes!!! Be sure to share the video! ---> Happy New Year! ;)
In shift you say people who are a lot into validation to go out to enjoy it, no goals attached. No sex, phone numbers at all. I did this and it made all the difference. Ironically i now have good interactions....... Go out to enjoy it is helpful everywhere. 👌
"offering value without expecting anything in return" changed my life. thank you julien
After 4 years? What do you think about it?
@@weneedtotalk1857 I wanna know too
Good points. "Men keep their possessions for their own enjoyment and do not share sufficiently with others the bounty received from God. Spring is thus
changed into the winter of selfishness and egotism." ~‘Abdu’l-Bahá, in London
Great video.
As an ex drug addict I spent a ton of time locked away in my room "conserving resources", as if leading up to some big apocalyptic event, but in the end I was left with nothing. Now that I'm out and about in the world and have mentally recovered I have taken on this philosophy you are talking about and it does truly work. It's so counter-intuitive to our human nature, or mine at least. But giving is memorable, and the more you give away the more of your e g o you let go as well.
Keep up the videos, I really like the direction you've been taking lately, 2016 is gonna be big!
Taylor Gavinchuk what kind of drugs were you addicted to? I myself am finally free 13 days no heroin to be honest. I had to leave the town I was in my friends encouraged me I got a greyhound back to my hometown were I can't find H. We're in at here sucks kinda but I can't score. I was not paying my rent and had a short job my roommate kicked me out so I stayed with a friend but I kept using and this time I was around someone who cares about me. They could see me using every day. I had a job were I made $30 dollars a day loading a van in the morning for an hour and unloading it at 5 pm. During the day I would mow lawns in the neighbor hood and buy H in that neighborhood too. We got a greyhound and I went to Asheville NC to my friends farm. I want to go back but afraid of the environment TBH. My friend were I came from is getting a new place in OCT. I'm going to go back in October and start over so I have a month and a half. I'm just hustling on eBay right now and doing that. Been smoking the ganja but i started to feel good about 3 days ago it was hell I know I'm not out of the woods yet as far as energy levels go but I almost got a greyhound yesterday to go back but I decided to wait until oct and move in with my friend. We're in at in Asheville at the farm is free and it's nice kinda but I can't stay here they are just letting me stay as long as I can to stabilize. Any advice anyone? Pm me please I would appreciate it and if anyone else is struggling hit me up I would love to talk thanks -derek
Julien, the value you give to us is equal to the value returned back to you. The more people take from you, the more you will be given. Love you
Thanks for releasing it here on utube for free. This is gold. Keep it up bro.
+chandlerbing For sure! Thx for watching!
These words were never so true as today that we face the youtube PUApocalypse!
fucking LOVE YOU MAN!!!! just positive energy, giving energy, flow, no selfishness.. this is the core of RSD
I don't even scan the environment is such a high level frame!
It does not really matter who you are going to talk to, the first approaches and sets are practice anyways, you don't expect anything and after a while you have option and scan maybe then for the girls the liked the most.
--> extreme buyer-frame, while giving value!
Awesome video as always
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+JulienHimself Great message Julien. Tyler and you, have been like you said "hammering" this into the community. You're evolution is great to watch, and the value is intense. Consider posing a question at the end of your video's for your viewers to not only add some more interactivity but to hammer in the points you make further.
Hey Julien!! Do You Need Subtitles For This Video. Kidding ;)
+JulienHimself can you please update your podcast with the new videos, thanks.
+JulienHimself Just putting it out there....if you need help with web development, I'd be more than glad to offer my assistance. I do it for a living and usually work on real boring projects, so working on something I"m actually interested in is always refreshing.
+JulienHimself Hey man! Check book The motivation manifesto by Brendon Burchard, you'll love that shit!
vid was so thought-provoking and nuanced that I stopped every 5 mins to mull it over and think about how I've applied in past and can take this to the next level in future. Quality!
+ODMA2112 Awesome! Glad you got so much out of it!!
In order for everyone to stop being neurotic about "what should I give??? What are they going to take???" I'll add, that everyone of us has unique perspective and personality, unique experiences, so just put your focus into expressing your authenticity. This in itself contains self-amusement and will draw attention from others.
This is really liberating and will avoid people-pleasing mentality.
+kalter000 Yep, very true! ;)
Around 9:20, you reminded me of an excellent lesson I picked up in the audiobook "Zen Mind: The beginners mindset", the just of it is to never lose your beginners mind, and never become an expert. Because an expert is limited in how many new experiences he can have, he's jaded and moves off of discipline rather than taking the time to become motivated and excited for it like a beginner, and he can not learn much, and prideful was sneaks into the back door. Just wanted to share this. Awesome videos Julian, you're the fuckin man
+Victor Trujillo Yep, exactly! Thanks man!
one of the best videos. it really helps you to change your mindset. when you act from the giving perception, there is no anxiety because you are not taking nothing from anybody
Damn dude! Ive watched a lot of dating, self help and game related videos over the past year and a half, but this video might just be the ABSOLUTE best and eye opening video out there. Great job! Definetely made me realise some important things about myself.
julien seems more mature and grounded..good to see him that way
Just viewing Julien's demeanor and choice of words now is incredible. Looks super relaxed and the best shape he's been in, mentally and physically
+Ryan Lesko Haha, thank you! ;)
julien is starting more and more to exhibit traits of a behavioral psychology genius. i like how he transcends the teaching of how "to get laid" to the more profound concepts that can change one's life. i love it!
I see the point to be more giving so true. It’s true you brought up to save , conserve, and be cheap. The kind of mentality we should stay away from. I don’t agree with full message but you made some great points.
thanks Julien. absolutely beautifully put and 100% relatable. practically applicable. one of the ways we can escape our ego is to give wo expectation of anything in return and thats when we shine and the magic happens. thanks for sharing this!! i so enjoy your videos.
This was by FAR one of the best ones. Keep it up.
Thanks Julien, I've been stuck in a conflict between this and the disease to please for about 3yrs now. Somehow both of these vids have shown up 1 day after another and hopefully I can get back on track.. You're a *legend..*
You're looking in better shape Julien. Thanks for the consistent content.
+Jangle BoJangles Haha, thanks! I actually shot this one over the summer during the "Julien World Tour" - But I'm definitely in better shape now!
Biggest Resolution: Be more selfless.
+TheUpwardSpiral Nice!! :)
Fall in line with what you always say...Come from a place of abundance!! And everything falls into place..Great video. Keep up these positive messages. I love them the the MOST!!!
this put into words an intangible concept in my mind, i know when im being successful with a girl, but i dont know what it is or what im doing when it happens, now i understand. youve helped me unlock a part of myself i always had within me, thanks Julien
Nice. :)
One thought I had while watching this though was that, if you don't come from a solid frame of freedom from outcome, ppl will probably look at you like you have a hidden motive and are attempting to use them. But then again, it wouldn't really be genuine giving, if you're only doing it so you can gain gratification when people see you as a nice person.
People pleasing.
Perhaps the best of two worlds is when you are independant of outcome, but still find happiness in being a positive person and being intact with your integrity.
If you hold up the door for someone, and the response is arrogant ungreatfulness, your happiness isn't afffected.
+Simon Zackrisson Exactly, learning how to find joy in the act of giving... ;)
I love the new mature Julien...really a rolemodel for myself, focusing on positivity and raising the vibration :) thx brother, stay on the Rise!
There's a good quote somewhere about "Be the best version of you.. And you'll attract others trying to do the same!"
Thank you Julien , I have been applying this concept of offering value instead of draining value and it has changed the way I network everytime I go out. This will come back to you. I will find a way.
Something that I realized lately as well: Any action that doesn't come out of love (value giving) is dead.
Probably one of my favourite videos, works on so many levels. More people need to know about this...Great Work!
Great message Julien. This is one of my favourite videos of yours. What I love about this advice is that ANYONE can do this straight away!
Julien, you rock man ! Me and my friends here in Brazil watch your videos with enthusiasm ! Keep going !
I didn't really get what you were saying at first because I tend to fall into the seller frame and I try to stay away from it. But it makes more sense when you think about it because when you look at inferior people who can't get laid, they're just trying to take and see what they can get. They aren't focused on just giving abundantly and not expecting anything in return. You have to come from the frame that you're giving because you want to give and put yourself out there and you're never doing it just to get something in return.
+Koenig6611 that is a result not a cause
wow Julien is genuine
you're right, you're supposed to give asking for nothing in return but of course after they receive, they will react and reciprocate this makes sense
thanks, Julien!
It is more blessed to give than to receive - Acts 20:35
Thank you for your advice Julien. I'm going to start giving instead of asking and also because I want to help others. You are the man!!!
juuuuuuuuuulien
Summary: give positivity and be outgoing.
I never knew how much I would gain from these videos. Thank you, sir.
Thank you, Julien. Helped me to realize the importance of having good intentions and had better results by giving then when I was seeking something.
I really appreciate this. This helps me to understand the true nature of what I love to do. Share and it will come back. Not in a banking ideal as in "returns". But in an aspect of selflessness and appreciation of life.
Thank you Julien. You and Tyler are sharing wisdom all the time and it's pushing me to be my best and give too!
happy new year Julien! Thank you very much for all the value you put last year. I wish the best for you in this year. Peace
+Juan Cruz Giusto Thank you!!!
Awesome video buddie, love the way you not only talk about it but embodied the whole concept of give give give through your years of experience in the game. Thanks alot Julien !!!! ;)
if you give to someone who only takes, you will never get anything in return
***** uhhh... please elaborate. your joke makes no sense at all. Im guessing it has something about your ignorance of socialism. am I right? -_-
NickAllah I think he’s saying make sure it’s a two way street where both people contribute Equally
@@kayligo But that is literally missing the point of the whole video. Stop worrying about resources and start contributing. The net return will always be greater as you get back from both the giving and the receiving.
Edgar Abram this person is with a person who takes too much. There are people who will gladly drain other people of everything. Sounds like you haven’t personally experienced that yet.
ffax or u get less. idk if its a paience thing but if i gice 100 euro to a homeless nigga i soubt ill get back that amount from him woohoo
Thank you so much. You have helped me with your contributions to our brothers around the world. Much blessings and success to you.
I'm always learning something new in each of your videos.
This is really itneresting and one of those 'obvious in hindsight'. i actually came to realize this at work, and this is gonna sound ridiculous, but my job offered me a promotion and I kept turning it down, because I didn't feel like I was getting enough return for the new responsibilities. Eventually Ii kinda thought to myself, you know what, fuck it, I might as well just givem them what they want, and ironically, or I guess maybe not, it ended up benefiting me more in the long term, as well as creating a more positive relationship, where its this 'win- win' or exchange of favours, rather than me just trying to snatch as much as I can for myself.
That portland building scene looks awesome! Great content as always :)
+Mario Tomic Thanks man!
Great Video Julien! It's amazing when we have the mindset of giving, we naturally receive abundance of great experiences.
Happy new year julien and the content you covered was a great one that probably was missing and haven't focused by alot of people out there, including me....:)
+Piyush Jain Thanks! Happy New Year!!
I definitely still think that those seminars are werid, but you seem like a really cool guy.
This is basically how I've lived my life since I read "Think and Grow Rich" a few years back. I come from a poor country of 'takers' so this was really really hard to do.
You are the best man. Thats all i really have to say. You have incredible insight and tje lasr few videos about letting go of desires and this one about giving really hit home. I really needed this. Thank you.
i've been watching your videos for hours now, enlightening stuff, keep em coming! you've read dale carnegie's books i assume?
Perfect advice it’s so true on so many levels ,iam always taking and never giving very profound for me thank you julien
Great vid, man. I like the blending of seminar footage in this particular video. Great content overall.
Selfishness is self destruction in slow motion. Let us educate our desires with the lessons we learn while looking through the lens of the gospel.
thanks for the help julien!again haha , you are awesome man
Your videos are off the charts bro! Love the content
+Jeff Onstott Haha, thanks man!
Preciate all the work you've been puttin in dude.
dang. awsome!!!!!without some of these principles my life would be unimaginably shit in almost all ways. thanks bro. your a spritual gangster
+David Cort Haha, thanks! :)
The world is our Mirror. we get what we give... very useful video. thanks Julien. Good luck Bro :))
Great video! I was just wondering; what about when people come from a "taking" frame, while you come from a "giving" frame? Wouldn't they take advantage of your time, making you lose money etc? Is there a point where it become too much "giving"?
I'm naturally a giver but some people treat me like shit yeah? Always asking and never giving back, really feels draining man. I think its good to give but not to the ones who only almost always take and don't reciprocate even if given a chance.
There must be a balance, giving without boundaries is just self sacrifice
Yeah. Ask a -beta- orbiter how well giving is working out for him. There was a book Julien reviewed called the disease to please or smth like that which discusses this subject. It also explains the pathology of nice guy syndrome.
That’s the natural order signalling to you that you need a better class of recipient.
RSD is amazing. Kind regards from Baja Sur México. Peace!
amazing content, great value, I liked your authenticity. Thanks alot!
+Daniel STB Thanks! Glad you enjoyed it! :)
Whoa! Great advice. I've definitely been very selfish.Thanks Julien
Hey Julien, where did you first hear/learn about giving more than receiving? Is there a book I could read or that you recommend ?
Amazing material! This is exactly what I needed to hear! Thx!
Great start of the New year with Awesome Video. Thanks man!!
+Bittu Chaudhary You're welcome!!!
This is extraordinary I'm excited to experiment this!!
Big fan of you , thanks for the inspiration !
What happens if you give to people who don't give back ? How can you know on which persons to invest more energy ? I"m talking about macro selecting the people to help mostly, sometimes I give to everybody and I'm just exausted and drained of energy ... I really love people
Wow! this is very true and excellent ! Keep it up! :)
Keep going Julien! Happy New Year
+Seba Spinelli Happy New Year! :)
Excellent concept , thanks for sharing .
+Pratik Karmiani You're welcome! :)
taking is also giving. It is giving the oppurunity to give
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Loving the content of this video, thank you so much:)
where can can I get that flannel shirt julien
Julien gonna get tons of emails now of people wanting to give him stuff... Hmmm, I see what you did there Julien...
Just kidding, good quality video as usual :)
Great video Julien. Feels like i have been off track lately, this will help me to get going again :D
If we give because it makes us feel good or because we have intentions on still getting something in return; isn’t that still selfishness? Give because you recognize how abundant the universe is. understand “self” is an illusion. We are all one ecosystem. What you reap is what you sow. Make sure the intention is good and patient. The Universe is smarter than you. It knows your heart better than you.
Happy new year!
+Joe Foster Happy New Year! ;)
How did you get your video with subtitles in Spanish?
Did you make them or youtube generates them automatically?
Thanks for answering... Love your videos
Awesome video, priceless content you've come a long way my friend.
Awesome
Amazing
Thank you for you
For your Given energy and value
Nice video Julien :)
- Nick
+LetsGetGirls Thx!!
2:18
I want to check if i understand the statement correctly.
"is your goal to get the stuff to get the girl as a byproduct of that stuff:"
i.e is your goal purely to gain the understanding/knowledge/ability to get the girl and seeing her as a reward?
i hope i didn't misinterpret.
Thanks
+Kim JUNGJOE No, like he also said in this video, seeing 'getting the girl' as a reward comes from the mindset of taking. With 'the stuff' he means beeing positiv, free from outcome and exited. You GIVE people your positiv attitude and let them join your fun. If you know how to game yourself properly you will always draw in people naturally, which is the 'byproduct of that stuff'.
Say if you’re trying to master a skill, an instrument for example. Would your exchange simply be consistently giving your time to practice and being positive about the experience? Great videos tho bro keep up the good work 💪🏻
Yeah but ya gotta want to give/put in the time to practice and shit. If you just drag yourself around, not truly enjoying practicing, progress won't really be made. It will plateu
Hello Julien, love your stuff! I more listen to it on iphone Podcasts. Could you please upload it also there? Thank you!
+juninho6024 Just uploaded them! ---> iTunes search: Julien Blanc The Vault
+JulienHimself Thank you! Do you do all this work with uploading by yourself? Respect for your work ethic! You are a leadership example for all your followers!
What is the difference between value offering and positive and people pleasing? I cant put my finger on it. Like when i see videos of luke hes never negative but i would never seee him as a people pleaser.
people pleasing falls more along the lines of constant, "I'm sorry, did i offend you? please like me." compared to the former, "shooting the shit with your friends having a good time "
is this "clip" form freetour uploaded?
It would be awesome if you n tyler came to Atlanta GA I currently can't travel out of state
Julien is fucking awesome! If you are interested in this subject of Giving vs Taking, I recommend a book called Give and Take, by Adam Grant. It illustrates how to be a Giver but without the burnout of offering to just takers.
you are such a good person
Thank you Julien!
Julien, you are wise beyond your years. How did you acquire such wisdom at such a young age. People do not naturally think this way. It usually comes after experiencing massive pain or hitting rock bottom. What is your story?
media scandal
reading books. You'll be surprised to see how fuckin smart you get from reading.
JoMomma239 you need experiences to get this far
DBS LLama ofcourse, i'm not denying that. However, "you're smart if you can learn from your mistakes. And wise if you can learn from others." Reading daily gets you ahead REALLY fast intellectually.
JoMomma239 Agreed!
+JulienHimself Holding it down. Kick ass content as always. Stay Frosty brother.
+Jecht Spencer Thanks!! :)