I'm 69 and when I learned about projectors and INFJs, I became aware that i grew up with generators etc. and was punished mentally and physically for not being like them. Also followed traditional work. Since then, its only been about a year, I'm learning to manage my energy and time yet its been quite challenging to unwind all the programming of society and family. My life is more peaceful yet I'm challenged with forming connections. I feel like a newborn learning where and how I belong and how to navigate and thrive.❤
Well done 👏 I turned 60 and was introduced to HD a few weeks later. 3 months on and I'm completely re-shaping my life and it can be challenging. But having gone on to introduce others to HD, I've already started building my mini community of Projectors to support each other, whilst guiding some Manifestors and, Generators and Manifesting-Generators as well. The connections can be made. It just takes some time. Best wishes as you lean into your experiment.❤
Yes, this sounds so familiar. Discovered HD about 2 years ago at the age of 59, and it explained every horrible and mystifying reality of my peculiar existence. After a lifetime of being a reliable, hardworking employee dedicated to exceptional quality work, I was never valued or compensated accordingly by any employer. The constant exhaustion, peculiar alienation, and the ever-present poverty have been a part of my experience since I can remember. My relationships with family and life partners were, in essence, the same dynamic. At 61, I am as bitter as a person can get. None of this is OK. None of this is right. If projectors are so wonderful, why are we hated for no godly reason?
Hello there, I’m a 5/1 projector and also an INFJ. I can relate to everyone’s comments. I’ve been working 20+ years of my life in survival mode. I’m currently stuck at a toxic job and burnt out. I’m trying to figure out what’s next but it’s been a challenge to navigate
1. meditate over how it feels to be successful n be abundant. Tap into this energy n this will amplify. 2.follow your passions 3. Let yourself receive the happy n successful energy 4. Structure, powerful action n eficient. 5. Bitterness is the sign we r going on wrong direction. If u do what u dont like, the result will be more bitterness. Thanks for the video
Every night when I pray to God I feel that energy and vibration you speak of. I not only have that whole body feeling, but my mind totally relaxes allowing me to fall asleep in minutes.
What if you can’t find anything you love? Every time I‘m passionate about something it only last for so long until I get bored and have to move on. Which also means I never really become an „expert“ on the thing that I‘m doing.
Once again spot on! I myself stopped my office job in januari and since then started a business in coaching and training people. Yes this is scary but knowing that abundance wil come keeps me up and running. Bless ❤
I’m a projector and I’ve taken months of classes with you. I watched this video with my 15 year old son in mind. I felt at times you were speaking especially for him. I’m going to encourage him to watch. We talk about his design a lot. But of course it great to listen to someone who isn’t his mom.
I ended up quitting my 9 to 5 job because there was no way they would have been lenient on that… it was a hard journey. I learned how to live with less and discovered a few passions along the way. If you go this route, it’s important to be kind to yourself because I made it harder on me simply for not being kind to my mind ❤💜❤️💜❤️
I just started diving into My Human Design and I'm so grateful I've found it. It's astounding how uncanny the accuracy of my chart results are with my life and the issues I've been dealing with as a Projector. Thank you for this wonderful video. I've subscribed and I can't wait to dive into more of your helpful content.
Great tips, thank you so much, Charlie! I really resonated with everything (I’m new to HD so still learning - 1/3 self projected - Makes sense now why I’ve never feel like I fit in anywhere & why I loath, in abundance, 9-5 gigs 😂). Gotta work on that structure bit, that’s for sure!
what's your take / advice when it comes to personlity types. Im a projector but also an ENFP. And I find I always struggle committing to things, because of shiny object syndrome. Very ENFP type but then I find I'm constantly drained when I'm not feeling fufilled anymore in a career which is how I'm feeling now in my job. Something I was very passionate about, I'm no longer feeling passionate about. But is this because it's not allined or am I just self sabotaging and getting bored again?
I feel this to my core as an ENFP and part of the 'Ooo, shiny!' brigade. I've also been spinning my wheels a lot because there are so many obsessions that I can't decide what I want to commit to - what if I get bored after shifting from playing to going pro? This video had been incredibly enlightening for me, because I realized that I need to stay at step one right now and focus on feeling abundant and building a supportive environment for my mental authority. I'll let everything else wait.
@@ElizIndRhythm awh I resonate so much with this too! Me too I am constantly flirting between one thing to the next and struggle to stick & commit to one thing 🙈 I definatly think though I’ve been burning myself out a little which is why I’m wanting to flit again to the next shiny object thing …
Beautiful video! Thank you 🙏 ❤. Only very recently I found out of being a mental projector and finally it all starts making sense. As I am still in the process of learning what it all means I hugely appreciate the information provided. 🙏💕
great sharing, thank you🙏🏻I will become a health coach very soon. i m a 2/4 emo projector I d like to hear a few tips from your own coaching experiences?☺️
I have way too many passions.. I tried coaching, now digital marketing.. BUT I start and then stop.., like I have no energy to execute anything! 😢 as you know there is a that tech and strategy side.. hired many times help but nothing
I feel like I need so much help to deprogram the guilt I have around needing to do more, I took so many actions out of bitternessin my life... It feels hard to accept that I need to rest, it doesn't make sense to my ego :( Hopefully I'll get it right someday!
I know Projectors who have lots of energy. Hows that? Not sure if the lack of energy or needing lots of rest is just because we are Projectors or maybe also related to other things?
You are an energy projector if you have one or more motor centers defined (either your heart/ego, emotional solar plexus or root). I have the heart/ego defined, which means I have that limited energy to tap and along with the will power that comes with it, I can bust out a fair amount of energy at one time. But it's not sustainable and there is a recovery time afterwards.
Thanks for this amazing video, do you also have a motor on your chart? I find that projectors with at least one motor are able to do a lot more also when it comes to work. I have zero motors and I just have to lean in to the fact that I wasn't built to do. Turtle wins the race!🐢🌺🙏🏼🩷
Don't worry, the motor doesn't help! LOL. I have a motor and it has been said in HD (and verified from my experience) that it actually makes it harder. Because it makes you feel like you CAN "do" like a generator, but the sacral is still undefined, so you really can't. So we tend to overdo it more and get burnout easier and more often than someone with no motors.
@@LeahBreHappy It really is. I have my ego/heart defined and with that motor/energy center comes will power, which means that I can pretty easily go past what is a healthy energy output, especially if I'm around generators really kicking it up a notch. I have to try to stay on the sidelines and guide rather than get in the middle of the work.
I'm 69 and when I learned about projectors and INFJs, I became aware that i grew up with generators etc. and was punished mentally and physically for not being like them. Also followed traditional work. Since then, its only been about a year, I'm learning to manage my energy and time yet its been quite challenging to unwind all the programming of society and family. My life is more peaceful yet I'm challenged with forming connections. I feel like a newborn learning where and how I belong and how to navigate and thrive.❤
Wow I love this!
Well done 👏 I turned 60 and was introduced to HD a few weeks later. 3 months on and I'm completely re-shaping my life and it can be challenging. But having gone on to introduce others to HD, I've already started building my mini community of Projectors to support each other, whilst guiding some Manifestors and, Generators and Manifesting-Generators as well. The connections can be made. It just takes some time. Best wishes as you lean into your experiment.❤
Yes, this sounds so familiar. Discovered HD about 2 years ago at the age of 59, and it explained every horrible and mystifying reality of my peculiar existence. After a lifetime of being a reliable, hardworking employee dedicated to exceptional quality work, I was never valued or compensated accordingly by any employer. The constant exhaustion, peculiar alienation, and the ever-present poverty have been a part of my experience since I can remember. My relationships with family and life partners were, in essence, the same dynamic. At 61, I am as bitter as a person can get. None of this is OK. None of this is right. If projectors are so wonderful, why are we hated for no godly reason?
Hello there, I’m a 5/1 projector and also an INFJ. I can relate to everyone’s comments. I’ve been working 20+ years of my life in survival mode. I’m currently stuck at a toxic job and burnt out. I’m trying to figure out what’s next but it’s been a challenge to navigate
1. meditate over how it feels to be successful n be abundant. Tap into this energy n this will amplify.
2.follow your passions
3. Let yourself receive the happy n successful energy
4. Structure, powerful action n eficient.
5. Bitterness is the sign we r going on wrong direction. If u do what u dont like, the result will be more bitterness.
Thanks for the video
Thank you for writing down the main ideas!❤🙏
Every night when I pray to God I feel that energy and vibration you speak of. I not only have that whole body feeling, but my mind totally relaxes allowing me to fall asleep in minutes.
Projectors unite!!
What if you can’t find anything you love? Every time I‘m passionate about something it only last for so long until I get bored and have to move on. Which also means I never really become an „expert“ on the thing that I‘m doing.
I can relate
Once again spot on! I myself stopped my office job in januari and since then started a business in coaching and training people. Yes this is scary but knowing that abundance wil come keeps me up and running. Bless ❤
How is it going?
@@mariusemy7671very good. I have a lot of work helping others in training and coaching.
I’m a projector and I’ve taken months of classes with you. I watched this video with my 15 year old son in mind. I felt at times you were speaking especially for him. I’m going to encourage him to watch. We talk about his design a lot. But of course it great to listen to someone who isn’t his mom.
I ended up quitting my 9 to 5 job because there was no way they would have been lenient on that… it was a hard journey. I learned how to live with less and discovered a few passions along the way. If you go this route, it’s important to be kind to yourself because I made it harder on me simply for not being kind to my mind ❤💜❤️💜❤️
that's so amazing! thank you for sharing 💜❤️
Thank you from a fellow 3/5 splenic projector! (I wondered why it sounded familiar when you said that…)
Thank you. Your embodiment of the projector aura is as impeccable as the words you weave in support of fellow projectors. Many blessings from Hawaii!
Always so genuine and kind
Thank you
You are a beautiful projector of goodness for us
🙏🏼
thank you so much for the kind words. It really means a lot!
Charlie. Such a gentle and powerful soul 🎉
Ty bro 🙏🏼
Perfect timing 🔥 I needed to hear this at the moment
I just started diving into My Human Design and I'm so grateful I've found it. It's astounding how uncanny the accuracy of my chart results are with my life and the issues I've been dealing with as a Projector. Thank you for this wonderful video. I've subscribed and I can't wait to dive into more of your helpful content.
Welcome! You can also find a lot of free content on our podcast on spotify!
Thank you for this, I needed this bit of clarity. I am 33 and feel like I'm no where.
🙏🏻🙏🏻
One of my favorite places on earth!! thought I was going to live there a few years back. Do you reside there?
Great tips, thank you so much, Charlie! I really resonated with everything (I’m new to HD so still learning - 1/3 self projected - Makes sense now why I’ve never feel like I fit in anywhere & why I loath, in abundance, 9-5 gigs 😂). Gotta work on that structure bit, that’s for sure!
1/3 SPP here too! 🙌🏼
@@KJ99otisrepresent!! 😊
I'm a 3/5 splentic projector as well
So good 😭😭😭😭😭😭♥️♥️♥️♥️thank you so much! Sent it in a group chat to my projector friends ❤
what's your take / advice when it comes to personlity types. Im a projector but also an ENFP. And I find I always struggle committing to things, because of shiny object syndrome. Very ENFP type but then I find I'm constantly drained when I'm not feeling fufilled anymore in a career which is how I'm feeling now in my job. Something I was very passionate about, I'm no longer feeling passionate about. But is this because it's not allined or am I just self sabotaging and getting bored again?
I feel this to my core as an ENFP and part of the 'Ooo, shiny!' brigade. I've also been spinning my wheels a lot because there are so many obsessions that I can't decide what I want to commit to - what if I get bored after shifting from playing to going pro? This video had been incredibly enlightening for me, because I realized that I need to stay at step one right now and focus on feeling abundant and building a supportive environment for my mental authority. I'll let everything else wait.
Same!
@@ElizIndRhythm awh I resonate so much with this too!
Me too I am constantly flirting between one thing to the next and struggle to stick & commit to one thing 🙈
I definatly think though I’ve been burning myself out a little which is why I’m wanting to flit again to the next shiny object thing …
The same 😢 it would be interesting to hear Charlies response
I really struggle with step #4 containment😅 Thank you for this helpful information 🙏🏼💜
Same here 🥹
You got this!
Thank you so much. So helpful!! Many blessings to you too!! 🙏
Thanks for the advice and helpful tips.
Thanks Charlie! Very helpful 🙏
J Tree. So blessed.
Thanks to you both for sharing all that you do 🥰💕
Brilliant 🧡
Great vid!!
Beautiful video! Thank you 🙏 ❤. Only very recently I found out of being a mental projector and finally it all starts making sense. As I am still in the process of learning what it all means I hugely appreciate the information provided. 🙏💕
thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you for these reminders.
great sharing, thank you🙏🏻I will become a health coach very soon. i m a 2/4 emo projector
I d like to hear a few tips from your own coaching experiences?☺️
Awesome brother thank you so much 🙏✨✨✨
I have way too many passions.. I tried coaching, now digital marketing.. BUT I start and then stop.., like I have no energy to execute anything! 😢 as you know there is a that tech and strategy side.. hired many times help but nothing
Thank you so much again for your beautiful insights 🙏🏻❤️🔥
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Loved this ❤
Curious what your motivation is?
Thank you❤
You're welcome 😊
I feel like I need so much help to deprogram the guilt I have around needing to do more, I took so many actions out of bitternessin my life... It feels hard to accept that I need to rest, it doesn't make sense to my ego :( Hopefully I'll get it right someday!
I know Projectors who have lots of energy. Hows that? Not sure if the lack of energy or needing lots of rest is just because we are Projectors or maybe also related to other things?
You are an energy projector if you have one or more motor centers defined (either your heart/ego, emotional solar plexus or root). I have the heart/ego defined, which means I have that limited energy to tap and along with the will power that comes with it, I can bust out a fair amount of energy at one time. But it's not sustainable and there is a recovery time afterwards.
but what do you do if you have created a forrest of trees of bitterness that you do not even see what you like anymore?
I think that the first step is the emotional and embodiment work..
❤
Very helpful!! Thank you!! 🙏 🫶
Glad it was helpful! 🙏🏻
Thanks for this amazing video, do you also have a motor on your chart? I find that projectors with at least one motor are able to do a lot more also when it comes to work. I have zero motors and I just have to lean in to the fact that I wasn't built to do.
Turtle wins the race!🐢🌺🙏🏼🩷
Don't worry, the motor doesn't help! LOL. I have a motor and it has been said in HD (and verified from my experience) that it actually makes it harder. Because it makes you feel like you CAN "do" like a generator, but the sacral is still undefined, so you really can't. So we tend to overdo it more and get burnout easier and more often than someone with no motors.
@@jazznejatyup! I can totally relate. You think you can add so much to your plate only to burnout a few weeks later and not be able to do.
@@jazznejat oh I see that, interesting!
@@Catscratch241 ohhh dang, like false energy almost.
@@LeahBreHappy It really is. I have my ego/heart defined and with that motor/energy center comes will power, which means that I can pretty easily go past what is a healthy energy output, especially if I'm around generators really kicking it up a notch. I have to try to stay on the sidelines and guide rather than get in the middle of the work.