HELP! Courting VS Dating // Priesthood or Marriage?

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  • @jonathanstensberg
    @jonathanstensberg 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Note: while it should not take more than 6 months to determine whether or not you would marry the person you are dating, that does *not* mean the two of you need to be *ready* to get married at that point. It is normal to know that you would marry this person but also recognize that your relationship still needs to grow before initiating the process of getting married (ie engagement). This allows you to discern whether or not this is the person you should marry-and what more you need to know to make that determination-earlier in your relationship. If you discern yes, you can then focus on what in your relationship (or life circumstances) needs work in order for the two of you to be ready to marry. If you discern no, then you can end a relationship earlier without waiting around for readiness issues to be resolved.
    In other words, discern the person before readiness, not readiness before the person. You shouldn’t be thinking “we’re ready to get married, but is this the right person?” You should be thinking “this is the right person, so what do we need to do to be ready for marriage?”

    • @madisonjulio
      @madisonjulio 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Agree! I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. We have started having the "difficult conversations" but we are both studying at college. Our plan is to wait until we graduate undergrad and then hopefully get married once I start grad school in 2 years :).

  • @stephaniehill2652
    @stephaniehill2652 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Congratulations and all the best on your wedding planning!! ❤❤❤

  • @CatholicOnTheSpectrum
    @CatholicOnTheSpectrum 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    There are too many “situationships”.

  • @LaszloDavid-jg2ho
    @LaszloDavid-jg2ho 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I can't really trust into the internet dating. Congratulations and all the best on your wedding planning! By the way I subscribed to your channel.

    • @amaiya9880
      @amaiya9880 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Neither can I, the online dating world is pretty muddy when it comes to what dating is and what dating for marriage is.

  • @West.Coast.Catholic
    @West.Coast.Catholic 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As always Amber, bringing amazing content to the Catholic community!!

  • @abrahamdiaz2954
    @abrahamdiaz2954 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I want to thank you for this video! Exactly what I needed to hear! I’ve been in a bit of confusion as to what God is calling me to be. I’ve never dated or been in a relationship before and have the desire to have one. But I also found myself thinking about religious life and the desire to serve in that state. I know it’s not easy, but I believe that God knows what’s in my heart and will lead me to the path that will lead me closer to Him. God bless! 🙏🏻

  • @thatpoignantpenguin769
    @thatpoignantpenguin769 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love the bluey and Phineas&Ferb cuts, i see you too are a person of culture 😂 srsly though thanks for the video, God bless🙏 🕯️

  • @jarrahe
    @jarrahe 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Vocation is a sore spot for me. I'm too in debt to discern the priesthood, and I don't make enough money to be open to life in a marriage. I am not successful at all with dating. I feel defeated either way.

    • @okj9060
      @okj9060 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      People will help you pay for the seminary if you ask

  • @yuranpower
    @yuranpower 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Vocation. It is not always easy to do discerniment. Each one of us has its mission.

    • @Irishherbs
      @Irishherbs 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      3 Steps to Discern Your Vocation | LITTLE BY LITTLE | Fr Columba Jordan CFR : on this platform.

  • @joni3503
    @joni3503 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The guy on 5:14 makes a mistake "if I confirm that priesthood is what God is calling me to..." no man can confirm that for himself, only a bishop can.
    Some people are thinking about a religious life, nun or priest, not because God is calling them, but because they want to avoid the difficulties of a relationship, marriage, children. it's important to figure that out first. Many saints knew from a very young age, as a child, that God was calling them, so they never even thought of a marriage.
    If relationships don't work out, maybe you need to change something in your approach, have your health checked, a therapist etc. God wants Catholic marriages, to enrich the world, with good children and love, and it's something very beautiful. St. Thomas even said, that you don't need a special vocation for marriage. God approves of it, when you have the right attitude.

  • @eamonnmcmanus4785
    @eamonnmcmanus4785 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good video

  • @Irishherbs
    @Irishherbs 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @electronpro6347
    @electronpro6347 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Where can I submit my question @thereligioushippie

    • @gladymartinez9694
      @gladymartinez9694 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Her email is in the bio of this video :)

    • @electronpro6347
      @electronpro6347 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ❤