Pinebaby reacts to ‘Female Loneliness’ (& How To Fix It) // Shoe0nhead Reaction

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  • @BucketOfFail
    @BucketOfFail 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    People who say "The worst that can happen is they say no." has never had someone they approached laugh in their face lol.

  • @Just_Some_Clown
    @Just_Some_Clown 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    “What would work on you?”
    “Hello, wanna date?” 90% of the time that’ll work

    • @BorsaMANIAC
      @BorsaMANIAC 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Confirm. I wouldn't really date anyone if that wasn't said to me bluntly. Despite not being autistic, I will have a really hard time reading any hints (31 yo IT virgin guy barely speaking to people), and if I actually suspect any hints it will just make me nervous, like what are they for? Dating? Come on, why would someone do that?

  • @TheKyrix82
    @TheKyrix82 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +192

    As one of those guys who thinks I'm being pranked if you show interest (I knew my current girlfriend for 18 years online before we met. She got me a plane ticket to visit her and UNTIL THE PLANE LANDED I was half convinced I'd been lured out there to harvest my organs. No joke. Because it was more believable than someone wanting me) approaching a guy is good...but the trick is...don't make it a date. See what kind of thing he and his friends are doing, and ask if you can go along. The trick is, don't ask him to meet YOU, he might stand you up, thinking it's a prank and he'll show you up by not falling for it...ask to meet HIM, because whether you show up or not, his schedule stays the same.

    • @vaunkillion262
      @vaunkillion262 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      Right, my ex was dropping mad hints and flirting for months all flew over my head because it wasn't believable that someone would be interested in me.

    • @deathninja16
      @deathninja16 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I always think this way because there is no way anyone is interested in me. So who knows how many women I've sidestepped. But I guess I can thank my previous relationships and my poor choices. Though the upside is I've not had to spend any money on anyone for a couple of years so I've been able to save up quite a sizable chunk so I can buy my house almost completely by this time next year. And if not I just have a hell of a weekend with cocaine and hookers before I die.

    • @nissan3609
      @nissan3609 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      This the best advice I’ve ever seen

    • @TheKyrix82
      @TheKyrix82 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nissan3609 Thanks

    • @ElPolloLoco7689
      @ElPolloLoco7689 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@deathninja16 I'm three months late but that's bullshit, man. Even the worst people found someone. Why would you be lower ?

  • @xavier1964
    @xavier1964 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    33:30 still remember when I went on a road trip 4 years ago with some female friends and we had to stop at a gas station at like 8pm and one of them told me "I've never felt so safe at a gas station before, its so nice to have a big guy around" and I still think about that from time to time.

  • @Fall2RUIN
    @Fall2RUIN 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    The hatbox is because guys would offer to carry your things if you were carrying something big even if it was light.
    Then that guy is walking and talking with you wherever you are going until you get there.

  • @aidreinhorn1534
    @aidreinhorn1534 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    In some countries it’s considered harassment to approach women in public.
    Even here in America a lot of women consider it harassment or creepy.
    I’d rather be alone then called a creep and potentially lose any of my reputation because I tried to shoot my shot.

  • @johnj.spurgin7037
    @johnj.spurgin7037 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    Pine's relationship goals literally just like mine FR.
    I don't want random sex. I want friends and companions. I've lost pretty much all of the ones I used to have, either to suicide or just loss of contact. Isolation has driven me to dark places more than once.
    Part of me isn't even sure I can feel romantic attraction anymore, or friendship.
    Mostly it's just apathy, because at least apathy doesn't hurt. It hurts to feel empathy and be unable to DO ANYTHING, and impotent fury makes me sick to my stomach.
    And yes, a lot of men have so little self esteem they can't even comprehend someone being interested in them. Can confirm.

    • @CloudyWolf713
      @CloudyWolf713 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      My sincere condolences for the people you lost. I’m so sorry for what t happened.

    • @johnj.spurgin7037
      @johnj.spurgin7037 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@CloudyWolf713 I appreciate it.

  • @andytaker3073
    @andytaker3073 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    You missed the part of the video where June acknowledged that VTubers react to her videos.

  • @ashinigamirises
    @ashinigamirises 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Can confirm i feel like approaching women is impossible as a man feel like ill just be looked at as scum for cat calling or something

    • @maksimgames1
      @maksimgames1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      you can always just say something nice that's not degrading, and if they would accuse you of cat calling, then they won't even be worth it to begin with. FYI: cat calling is just acting sexist and/or insulting to the opposite gender, which good natured compliments should not even be considered as part of cat calling.

    • @Jumpyman_thegamerYT
      @Jumpyman_thegamerYT 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@maksimgames1 Bruh, even saying 'hello' to a woman nowadays is considered harassment 💀.

    • @maksimgames1
      @maksimgames1 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @Jumpyman_thegamerYT if you find someone who gets offended from you just saying "hello", then it is them who has a problem, not you.

  • @PineBaby
    @PineBaby  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

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  • @Face2theScr33n
    @Face2theScr33n 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Understand that in 1956 when my grandfather died in a coal mine explosion, no West Virginia man was looking to scoop up a widow with 5 kids. Unwed mothers were treated very differently back then, even if separated from their husbands by death. Now you can't hardly find a woman that doesn't have random kids from random dudes by the time they're 30. Shame.

  • @Damini368
    @Damini368 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Let me just say: When the majority of gold diggers are manipulative and pretend the money isn't part of the reason they're interested in a guy, having someone come out and just say it is impressive. You show him honesty and integrity in a sea of manipulators.
    So yes, if you're interested in a guy because he's loaded just say so.

    • @neetpride5919
      @neetpride5919 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So true. It's like I always say, "Beta bucks alpha fucks, therefore if you need a job to get laid, you're the beta."

  • @alexliengsky6884
    @alexliengsky6884 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    11:30 y'know, watching John Wick while enjoying cookies with a date doesn't sound bad at all

  • @aethertoast4320
    @aethertoast4320 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "The worst she can say is no" is no longer a valid phrase. Instead, the worst that she can do is get you labeled as a creep poisoning all aspects of your life and possibly make it destroy different parts of it forever depending on how bored she or any passerby is feeling. That is a major aspect of why men rightfully fear approaching women.

  • @AnnHiroCh
    @AnnHiroCh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    As once told by a meme video.
    "Find a teammate not a liability" I just want a partner who will be with me thick and thin, and just be a happy family allowing me to be myself and provide.
    Not randomly spend a couple hundred dollars to find out I was in fact sending money to a random dude.

  • @Brainhorn
    @Brainhorn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    39:02
    You're in luck! All the blood is removed in the slaughterhouse. What you're seeing is myoglobin, and it's SUPPOSED to be there lol

  • @AKingofBacon
    @AKingofBacon 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I once asked a girl I was friends with (who got a lot of guys) what her secret to approaching guys is, and she said "I just walk up to them, give them a compliment, like 'you're cute' or whatever, then ask them if I can add them on Snapchat. That's it. Even if it's the first time we've met, and it almost never fails."
    It helps that she's attractive and all, but that kind of stuff never happens to most guys and I can say that I would be absolutely ecstatic if a girl did that to me and meant it. It sounds too easy, but guys usually don't have the same guard rails as women when it comes to this kind of stuff

  • @nodishtoodeep3053
    @nodishtoodeep3053 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The worst thing a girl can say is definitely not “no”. From personal experience, the worst she can say is calling you creepy, a stalker, and rappist after calling the police on you, because she thought you were a different creepy guy that followed her to the bar. Before I met my wife over seas, I thought I was filtered out of the American dating pool, because every woman I dated and tried to approach in public, thought I creepy and told me. I am just used to being by myslef

  • @ChaplainBald
    @ChaplainBald 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    One of the best compliment I ever recieved is also the same that mentally fucked me up for a long time, given by a girl that I had huge crush on, some ten-eleven years ago.
    "I feel super safe around you but, I'd never be able to date you. Because you are scary looking and you have terrrifying presence to you. Maybe that's why I feel so safe around you"

    • @samuelchau9745
      @samuelchau9745 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I got told the same thing and I just learned to use it as my advantage. I'm the only person in my whole course of 55 people in college that doesn't have a single anecdote of gerring mugged

    • @josephangell9921
      @josephangell9921 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Going threw something similar.

  • @EmilioReyes_97
    @EmilioReyes_97 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You sound like a very sweet person. It's nice to know that girls who have mutual guy friends aren't afraid to compliment them on things.

  • @Thisisausername556
    @Thisisausername556 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Yeah, men remember almost every compliment they receive because it's so rare. The last time a woman outside my family complimented me was.... Like a year ago while getting my hair cut. And then before that was a coworker telling me they liked my shirt because it matched my eyes which was like a year and a half ago I think.
    Before that it was college a couple times, and before that almost nothing (besides the general stuff when you're a young child).
    It's sad in some ways, but it means that when we get complimented, it means something. When people who get compliments all the time get MORE compliments, it doesn't mean much. Women get complimented more than men do, so that's just kind of how it is and men just take it for what it is and carry on.
    👍

  • @SuperRandomness1996
    @SuperRandomness1996 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    What a lot of women seem to miss about these points is that most of them either give the guy a reason to approach, or the woman is the one doing the approaching. At this point, a woman who will make the first move is almost guaranteed to AT LEAST get the guy's number, if not a first date. Women have made it so it is almost taboo for a man to do the approaching in the modern day, thus us men need what is basically a situation that almost forces us into interacting with a woman in order for us to do the approaching, or even better a situation where the woman is the one doing the approaching. I know that for me personally, if a woman will make the first move (allowing me to know that she is interested in me) and then do some back and forth chasing between the two of us (i.e. she plans a date, then I plan a date, then she plans one, then I plan one, etc.) that shows me that she is genuinely interested in me and is willing to work with me in a relationship, and not just force me to be responsible for everything. A woman who can take responsibility for her part in a relationship is giant green flag to many men!

  • @abysspegasusgaming
    @abysspegasusgaming 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The duality of not approaching the other is so unreal anymore. Those of us men who have been severely hurt by those of our past and the modern culture that have to live in fear of any woman freely abusing the justice system that can ruin our lives in just mere seconds is sad on its own, meanwhile all the good women out there that do want to be loved on and adored don't realize or understand what their "evil" counterparts are doing to make things harder on the good natured ones to find love, or they do know but they don't know how to handle the guy who's just flat out afraid. There's heavy abuse on both ends of the massive tug of war and it's those of us at the very back who just give up and walk away, hoping that one day we could find our special someone but too afraid to speak up because of all the horrible things that have happened or that could happen. Also, John Wick series is awesome. Just bought Chapter 4 and have yet to watch it!

  • @flameshoter6
    @flameshoter6 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I've been single for 11 years now. Haven't had any dates my entire 20's. I've tried dating apps, I've tried asking co-workers for advice, picking up hobbies, etc. I've had zero luck. Most of my co-workers have over a 10+ age gap who have children already grown. Very few are my age.
    I've picked up biking, kayaking, baking, etc. I'll do yard work outside for hours or clean my car once every two or three weeks, which takes like 3 or 4 hours to complete. Neighbors don't say hi (then again, they are never outside, so I don't get to say hi to them). Occasionally people are curious about my fold-able kayak. No one is biking except 50+ year old men. There is nowhere to volunteer locally. I don't drink so I don't go to bars. And I'm not religious, so I don't go to church. When I go grocery shopping, I rarely see anyone my age or they already have multiple kids and a partner.
    Honestly, I would say the best way for a woman to show interest is to just approach me. It would feel like an absolute joke or prank at this point because I've never seen anyone really interested in me (It would be kind of hot only in my fantasies for a woman to approach). No one looks towards my direction. At work, not many people try talking to me, maybe because I'm always working, helping out like three different positions. Or could be my stoic personally where people are intimidated. I've had an older woman told me she was scared of me at work a few months ago. I just need engaging conversations to warm up to people.

  • @arcaneSae
    @arcaneSae 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Yeah dating apps are hell. Even getting a match is damn near impossible 😂

  • @fallinggravity9964
    @fallinggravity9964 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Regardless of advice, it could be the best in the world, if you are not easy to talk to you won't get anything. Be easy to talk to and not just say one-word sentences. I remember a girl liked me(didn't know at the time). I asked her out a few times but she always had an excuse to not go somewhere with me. I took it as she isn't interested, but THEN someone told me down the line she was interested but that I didn't pressure her enough to go out and thought I wasn't serious. Fuck that shit, dodged a bullet. Anyways ones that I liked and ones I am adding:
    -Have a hobby and talk about it, whether you are good or not. I volunteered to get my eyelashes done by a cute girl still learning to do them. I made sure to brag about how bitches be jealous of them when she was around.
    -Wear something eye-catching that stand out. It will serve as a good ice-breaker. Do the same in reverse, look for anything eye-catching that can break the ice and talk to them.
    -The pie one works although can be something more easily distributed without bringing a knife like pre-slicing, cupcakes, or cookies.
    -Just make it obvious you want to spend time around them. You see he is walking somewhere, join him. Sitting at a table alone, sit next. Offer to join in wherever he is going.
    -Basic compliments. I still remember which girls told me I was funny and will forever know their names.

  • @xxProjectJxx
    @xxProjectJxx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Honestly, I'm not in the dating scene, but if any of these would work on me, it would probably be learning how to bake a bomb ass pie and bringing it to the office. If it's really good, I'd probably ask you for the recipe, and that might get us talking.

  • @polasamierwahsh421
    @polasamierwahsh421 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    THE SECONDDDDD!!!
    dang you got invited into a polycule respect

  • @williansnobre
    @williansnobre 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    9:50 yup, that is very common, or he will look around to check if she is distracting him so someone else can get closer and mug him or something

    • @divineroadrunner
      @divineroadrunner 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Nah, realistically we're looking around to see if we can find her friends peeking over a corner giggling

  • @divineroadrunner
    @divineroadrunner 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I remember pretty much every compliment. When I was in 5th grade my crush asked me out... 1 week before I moved to another state. In 9th grade a girl said my shirt looked good on me, and in 11th grade a girl called me beautiful, another time in 9th grade a girl in my class would grab my hand, asked to take a selfie, put hearts over our head and showed me the photo, it scared me and I just wanted to be left alone and would try to find an excuse to talk to my friend to ignore her. A few years later I realized she probably liked me, it was too late tho we never spoke again.
    There's also the time I cut my hair after letting it grow out for years, my mom picked me up from the barber shop and said "Doesn't my son look so handsome!" and the 3 girls at the shop let out a celebratory "Woooooooo!" (I was 19 and critically embarrassed and wanted to leave but I had to pay the guy first)
    It's probably because as men we don't have the opposite gender constantly trying to contact us so we have more time to sit back and just think about women. Sometimes I just walk downstairs, start grabbing some snacks and think "Hmm.... women" and just walk back up stairs in silence.

  • @RogueAdmiral
    @RogueAdmiral 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Man if only my school had a Pine, I wish more people were on this wavelength (it also would help if my home town had a population over 800…). Also my opinion, the hints just don’t really seem work, I genuinely believe to just say it to them if you’re interested. 10/10 Pine this is great.

  • @Xiazue
    @Xiazue 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If a woman really came up to me and said yo i got cookies at home and we cant binge the entire johnwick series id be down fr fr

  • @polasamierwahsh421
    @polasamierwahsh421 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    a wise internet man once said : a guy would talk to a tree if it approached first
    never fear rejection unless he is a married man

  • @Jumpyman_thegamerYT
    @Jumpyman_thegamerYT 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Honestly, if a woman simply came up to me and said 'Hi, I think you look cute', I'd honestly think it was a prank because that's literally never happened to me before. I'd probably start looking around for hidden cameras, or for her friends who clearly put her up to it, sniggering from behind a corner.
    Honestly, my second reaction would be dying of happiness, if it turned out to be genuine. It would be the best feeling I've ever felt to receive a compliment like that.... or just a compliment in general :(

  • @NozoBox
    @NozoBox 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    32:48 This is very true. Over 10 years ago a girl I was dating said I had cute knees (???). As weird as it was I still remember it and makes me laugh but it's still a happy memory.

  • @blinddoglures
    @blinddoglures 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    i have had almost no human contact for 6 years in my room am i Lonely a little will i go crazy probably not am i sad ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ mostly bored af

  • @DyxoXinoro
    @DyxoXinoro 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You had me at popcorn. Will have to share recipes if I catch you live. Also, sucks about becoming allergic to your paints. Having your own body fight your hobbies sounds like a nightmare.

  • @undyingwolf
    @undyingwolf 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The apple pie and knowing a person feels protected around me ❤

  • @dakota9399
    @dakota9399 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So I know I’m late, but as for what would work on me in general-
    Honestly I’m very easy. One thing to know about me is that I’m tall, 5’11”-6’. And while I know it’s very convenient, I sometimes don’t like it, because I feel less cute because of it. The parts of me that want a partner would rather be like 5 feet, so I could more comfortably be the smol one for cuddling purposes… So if someone calls me cute, or pretty, or sweet, or little, or basically almost anything that would be more feminine or childish descriptors, then I feel fuzzy! It’s happened once IRL, and it’s still my happiest memory, despite having a nice life.
    Other than that, I enjoy someone wanting to protect, or take care of me. I also adore stuff like headpats and hugs, and general acts of touch! And gentleness like yours, or someone assertive that could make me feel weak like I wanna be… Though admittedly if someone gave me a compliment and then asked to go out with me, I’d probably be like a little puppy towards them (which apparently isn’t attractive to some people :c)!
    I forgot where I was going with this, and I’ve never even experienced any form of actual romance in my life before, so this might not even be accurate, but this was nice to write!
    I hope this doesn’t get auto modded! Have a nice day everyone who reads this! Nya~! (I’m cringing too, trust- :3)

    • @BlooMonkiMan
      @BlooMonkiMan 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Homie is femboy certified

  • @alexithymia6288
    @alexithymia6288 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Medium is the type of steak you were talking about at 39:03! That's how I get mine as well. For medium-rare and rare, it isn't blood that you see coming out, but rather a mix of water and a protein called myoglobin, both of which are released as/after the meat has been cooked :)

  • @matthewschultz7390
    @matthewschultz7390 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Not all women wanted HR world, but enough did.

    • @hungrymusicwolf
      @hungrymusicwolf หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sadly, one of the many lessons people have forgotten is that in the game of power and politics silence is consent. Don't want the things dear to you burned down? Speak up to those burning them down.

  • @MrToastyTank
    @MrToastyTank 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Hat box is a major sell 🤣😂🤣😂🤣

  • @lehahiah81
    @lehahiah81 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I always assume it's a prank unless the person is unattractive. I only realize the person might have been serious after we've completely lost contact.

  • @M7S4I5L8V2A
    @M7S4I5L8V2A 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The popcorn thing reminded how much I used to like flavoring my popcorn. Before my uncle died we'd go visit him and watch bootleg movies. He'd always made some sweet cinnamony popcorn I can't replicate along with candy and soda.

  • @NewTypeDilemma01
    @NewTypeDilemma01 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is the second video of yours I've seen. You seem personable and neat to talk to. The kind of person I could be friends with.

  • @polasamierwahsh421
    @polasamierwahsh421 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    the protection line would melt men anyday

  • @spiderraccoon7869
    @spiderraccoon7869 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You sound really wholesome and I hope you have a great life :)

  • @JPNox
    @JPNox 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Not sure what else to do if we're supposed to not touch dating apps, especially since many women claim they don't want to be approached
    But it's true for me it's pointless, I'd also love to find a girl who just wants someone to talk, play games and be silly. I'm sure there are countless men that want that ... although that's probably also the kind of men that are not as good at dating usually. And there are pretty much no women like that on dating apps, at least as much as I could guess from their profiles

  • @polasamierwahsh421
    @polasamierwahsh421 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    yes we remember every single compliment we ever had at the very least vaugely

  • @gringolikeme3564
    @gringolikeme3564 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    5:13 if i cant be silly in a relationship I DONT WANT IT

  • @ocularcavity8412
    @ocularcavity8412 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The reason why average men remember Compliments is because WE NEVER GET ANY!!! so it feels like a MIRACLE and and touches our hearts more even if she was just lying to get us to do or buy something for her, we are ALWAYS hoping it was REAL!

  • @zero3762
    @zero3762 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know you won't read this but i really think that you are one of the most wholesome people on the internet and that i'm just really impressed by that. Sorry if that sounds weird

  • @irystocrattakodachithatmooms
    @irystocrattakodachithatmooms 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If there's one thing that would work on me it would be saying that I'm helpful around the home as I'm more of a househusband type. It would be especially good to hear that my cooking is good or that I bake good cookies.

  • @addsy3653
    @addsy3653 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is gonna seem a little too memy, but I'm being dead serious:
    Most women between the ages of 16 and 30 have a shrodinger's conclusion for cold-approaching (no previous convo and the guy shows interest).
    They both wanna be approached and left alone at the same time, it's only when the guy speaks that they answer which it is.
    Most women would genuinely rather an asshole who is very attractive hit on them (bad boy syndrome), than an average looking man (or slightly above) whom is a little nervous.
    I personally have had 3 long term relationships (I'm 25), those being: 4.5 years, 1.5 years and 3 years, in chronological order.
    Girls 1 and 3 I met online, girl 2 was at a wedding, but met her again later at a social gathering.
    I have quite literally NEVER in my 25 years and 3 months or so of being alive approached any woman ever for friendship or dating. Why?
    Well, I'll shorten this to not give my whole life story, but despite being an older end zoomer (25), I'm more millenial in how I was raised. First game console was atari/snes, first pokemon was yellow (still own it) - most my age their first was ruby/sapphire/emerald, or diamond/pearl/platinum...
    I can go on and on with mini examples, my first phone was a sony ericsson - most my age were blackberry, iphone or samsung (touch screens). My THIRD phone was touchscreen, and was at 15 (samsung s6).
    Along with the above I was taught to treat women with a higher level of respect, to love and care for them, to listen and be thoughtful. I personally think I'll die alone cause I'm now giving up on ever seeing any decent "prospects" again.
    But to truly answer the "why?" > Despite being raised that way, despite it being how I feel, I've also observed growing up that women DO NOT want to be approached, unless they're already interested.
    Things like Tinder and the internet have streamlined people's attentions into milliseconds, not joking.
    Shoe once mentioned her husband was a former Twitter hater.
    A lot of women dated streamers/youtubers as viewers, Marzia-Pewdiepie. CTK - Mary.
    Now women will refuse to entertain that with viewers cause social stigma.
    But as for tinder etc, people swipe upon SEEING first pic. I will nearly always check 2 or 3 pics, and then if I'm attracted at all (even if I'm like "they're okay") I look for bio, interests etc.
    My Tinder stats said I say yes and no a literal 50/50. I am also an above average looking man, and enjoy civil debates and such, I love learning about different perspectives, and yet even in my most successful relationship to date (3 year girl) > She cried when I said I preferred Trump to Hillary and Biden. She had 0 political knowledge...
    I truly think dating is becoming dangerously toxic very VERY quickly, and there's unfortunately nothing that'll stop it.
    Darkest note, and mild trigger warning here for "seppuku": It's to a point where I've genuinely contemplated ending it all when my cat passes away (likely 9 years from now), I genuinely find myself repulsed by 80% of women within my age range (20-30 give or take). Girls literally signing men off because an inch height difference, 2.54 fucking CENTIMETERS... Your damn fingertip is enough to NOT DATE?
    I absolutely think you should desire your partner in body and mind, but jesus, people's standards can be ridiculous nowadays.
    I personally have always dated women who were busty, my 3 partners in order were: F, DD, D cups... That doesn't mean I wouldn't date someone smaller... It's a PREFERENCE, not a MUST. ~Yet from my observations since becoming single again, girls have too many MUSTS, and those start to die down around late 20s to mid thirties... Except I'm sorry but British women age very VERY badly, I got 5 different friends to guess random girls on Tinder's ages (I hid the ages) and most girls between 18 and 22 they would guess 28-30 and most 28-32 they'd guess 40ish...
    I'm just less physically attracted, there's also the issue Shoe brings up in either this vid or others in which women will actively party and "freeze their eggs", then expect men in their 30s to still view these women as "higher value", and want to live "the finer life", like no?
    I want a woman who appreciates me for me, whom I can grow as life allows us to with and just talk about meaningless shit and laugh together, whom I can disagree with and have a healthy debate about it and maybe udnerstand each others feelings, world views and agree to disagree or maybe change each others views if ignorant or such.
    I'm just tired of the era I was born into and while I don't cry or such, I'm so jaded that I'll m0ake my decision in 9ish years I guess
    Loved the reaction btw

  • @tehrickles1447
    @tehrickles1447 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Damn, I wish someone would come up and offer John Wick and cookies. I've never actually watched the movies, always keep meaning to, and I haven't had a cookie in like...a year. Honestly a lot of the issue with approaching women is regardless of intent we could be labeled a creep, accused of harassment. It's drilled into us so much that it's not appropriate to approach women at so many places it almost started to feel like there's a track we have to follow in everything but hardware stores. I've actually been uncomfortable just telling someone she had a string on her back because of that. So if a woman were to just walk up and ask if I wanted to watch a movie I was even mildly interested in I would at least give it a chance. I wish I felt tall at 5'9, but I guess I only ever really notice the height difference when they're taller.

  • @Snoppen112
    @Snoppen112 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Sorry but im pretty sure there is not a single man that finds the "be mysterious" thing attractive.

  • @polasamierwahsh421
    @polasamierwahsh421 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    awww your guy/gal are really happy to have you

  • @maksimgames1
    @maksimgames1 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i had a female friend at school once ask me what i use to keep my eyebrows look so clean, only to then say how it's unreal when i told her that i don't do anything at all.

  • @gamecontrols_
    @gamecontrols_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i think baking always works to win over someone’s heart

  • @Drknessangel
    @Drknessangel 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    *headpats*
    You talk like a really pretty person and you have a beautifully heart.
    Cheers

  • @polasamierwahsh421
    @polasamierwahsh421 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    stress eating and stress hunger are also problems you need to pay attention to

  • @RealQueenBowsette
    @RealQueenBowsette 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm late but oh well I mean those things won't work really but what does work on me for example is having someone to play videogames with would be nice. But people always roast my ass when I say that so normally I don't even bother but yeah that's what would work.

  • @daniellitton668
    @daniellitton668 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You might want to check on the heel thing with a doctor. Needing your heel inclined is a sign of your Achilles tendon being shortened. Great reaction.

  • @georgebailey7624
    @georgebailey7624 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i needed this video i dont even know how to rect to wemon being intrested in me and i get rejected constantly

  • @gamingforever9121
    @gamingforever9121 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Recently sub gotta say I find your voice to be enjoyable (hope that doesn’t come off as creepy) have a great day.

  • @HaggisMalpractice
    @HaggisMalpractice 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Hey, I know this video is a couple weeks old, but I wanted to ask a question. You said you don't like dating apps, so for introverts, what do you think is the best way for younger folk to find partners?

    • @PineBaby
      @PineBaby  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      definitely finding community in hobbies! I found every partner from just playing games or talking in online forums about my hobbies. Imo when you don't actively look for a partner you'll end up finding someone easier

  • @ultimaofelsewhere
    @ultimaofelsewhere 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If you wear heels a lot and normal shoes are feeling weird its likely your tendons are tightening up. Warm them up by moving your feet around for a few minutes and gently stretch your calves without holding the stretch. Once you get things loose try to walk around in flats or without shoes more often especially if you are sitting a lot. Something to catch early and get ahead of.

  • @trandaiphuc5342
    @trandaiphuc5342 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You would be surprise how many guy actually agree that a honest gold digger is still a catch. Some thing like if she have about 10-20% love of you vs your money that is enough.

  • @hughu9340
    @hughu9340 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "you just don't"
    yeah, nice

  • @realisticthought1781
    @realisticthought1781 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Women created HR world all while cheering "yass queen ". Now they hate it. Well, we told you

    • @BlooMonkiMan
      @BlooMonkiMan 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exhibit A on what was being talk about at 12:06

  • @Matthew-dc1qz
    @Matthew-dc1qz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Idk man...pretty sure women could find a husband in 2 seconds if they stopped getting an ick from men having normal human problems and feelings...and wear a sundress.
    Literally, the only thing that set my gf of 3 years apart from all other women I've ever been on a date with is she treated me like a human...mostly. It wasn't even that she was charming, or sensitive, or flirty, or particularly nice. She just wasn't awful...

  • @sonoftheemperor5685
    @sonoftheemperor5685 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Honestly saying "hey i got a pie and cola at home wanna watch dark knight" and im in.

  • @ndaemon1718
    @ndaemon1718 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    stow away on a battleship.. yes.. with a prisontime of 5 years for it lol :) ( edit: great video reaction btw. been loving your content so far :) ).

  • @undyingwolf
    @undyingwolf 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    11:42 you had me at John wick I have three of the four movies I’m 22 and single I hope we can get along

  • @BlooMonkiMan
    @BlooMonkiMan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    17:49 It's giving "help me step bro im stuck in the washer"

  • @undyingwolf
    @undyingwolf 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That actually happened to a friend of mine he still hasn’t recovered 9:58

  • @hungrymusicwolf
    @hungrymusicwolf หลายเดือนก่อน

    43:25 There's 3 qualities in a woman I (and I think most men) need. Pretty much any woman I am in any way shape or form physically attracted to that has these qualities is instant long term relationship material:
    1. Be kind
    2. Be somewhat interesting (have a personality and don't steal one)
    3. I can't emphasize this one enough: BE SANE. Don't believe in things because you want them to be true, stay in reality.
    4. Be someone I can reason with. I want to talk out our problems, not have you throw a hissy fit every time I didn't read your mind.
    5. Want a future with me. (WITH me, not just with your fantasy about me).

  • @lawrencewidemouth
    @lawrencewidemouth 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The John wick movies are great, which one of them is your favorite?

  • @tri99er_
    @tri99er_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Having watched some of your vids, you sound like a very nice person to me. I hope you'll find someone who suits you, if you want to do that in the first place.

  • @allux2020
    @allux2020 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That hat box trik would work on me fr fr 😂

  • @thatredkite8310
    @thatredkite8310 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I wish I wasn't tall. Do you have any idea how annoying it is to get any size 15 shoes? Being 6'5 isn't fun

  • @loonylenny
    @loonylenny 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If a woman asked me to get them a drink, maybe i will maybe i won't, ill just tell them to go away. To me people aren't interested in me it has to be my money (that i dont have much of) or something they can get out of me (monetarily), i see no other reason for why someone would want to talk to me.
    I know im just a random commenter: you seem like a nice woman I'd like to talk to or date a woman like you but i see no point in trying anymore.

  • @autohmae
    @autohmae 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    3:27 people who say this is good for the economy have no idea what they are talking about, maybe short term, but I think working moms probably spend more than working childless mothers.
    But more importantly: on the long term, which they don't care about but is hugely important: population growth is 1 of the biggest factors of economic growth. It's part of why the economy is struggling now. Globally. 'Peak child' was in 2017, 'production' of children is trending down, globally.

    • @loonylenny
      @loonylenny 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We'll be taken over by cultures that hate the West it's been their plan for years.

    • @robertblume2951
      @robertblume2951 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes but you are peasants, and they can get new peasants from somewhere else. So yes, from their perspective you are more important as a consumer making their stock price go up.

    • @autohmae
      @autohmae 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@robertblume2951 I'm saying worldwide population growth is stalling, you say they can get more people somewhere else. What are you saying ? outer space ?

    • @robertblume2951
      @robertblume2951 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@autohmaeworld wide population growth is slowing but it ain't negative yet. Population is expected to grow by 3 billion in the next 50 years.

  • @eternaldanger5162
    @eternaldanger5162 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel like my previous comment on the last video covered both men and women.

  • @nhaer042
    @nhaer042 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Change the apple pie to a chocolate pudding pie or key lime pie and you will have my undivided attention.

  • @iamthegreatest50
    @iamthegreatest50 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the hat box will do it. Honestly just genuine conversation works the best. If you like someone just have an ice breaker to strike up a conversation and go from there.

  • @Brainhorn
    @Brainhorn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don't have an eating disorder, I'm just too depressed to eat some days
    Does that count lol

  • @polasamierwahsh421
    @polasamierwahsh421 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    weird but it happens my feet isnt comfortable in sneakers and i need a proper heel to move

  • @BarioIDL
    @BarioIDL หลายเดือนก่อน

    33:15 yes, i count every grain of rice i get

  • @dorediskin9365
    @dorediskin9365 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    4:58-5:48 The best time of my life was the year I had a gf. She'll play muse dash. at the time I started having disposiable income while saving to college that I spent getting humble games and I was looking for games we could play together.

  • @Face2theScr33n
    @Face2theScr33n 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Here's the deal: we're all gonna die. Let's make the best of it and try to make the world better. I'm glad you don't blame working men for doing our jobs. I've had people trash me as stupid for doing skilled labor, and I just don't get it. When they need help, they will call a man like me. I will answer, but I will make sure they pay 100% for the value I provide. Cool people might get a discount, but screw me=screw you.

  • @shadowfox8748
    @shadowfox8748 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The answer on getting a guy is pretty basic honestly … I’m more on the side of where are the wholesome women at

  • @WhtCrstlJudgmntDrgn
    @WhtCrstlJudgmntDrgn หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're just a fun-loving cinnamon roll. I see nothing wrong with that.

  • @AnarchoAmericium
    @AnarchoAmericium 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've never seen a John Wick movie. Is it about candles?

    • @sebswede9005
      @sebswede9005 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      No.
      It's about a man who lost his wife, and his wife give John a cute little puppy before she died to keep him company....
      Then the puppy gets killed, and John Wick goes on a revenge rampage.
      It spawned three sequel

  • @LTJasonYuri
    @LTJasonYuri 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Depends on the senerio it is being done in and how long I have known the person as friends

  • @mrpalmer6443
    @mrpalmer6443 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    right there with ya girl.

  • @gringolikeme3564
    @gringolikeme3564 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Baked goods would work on me

  • @WAAAAAAGH
    @WAAAAAAGH 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Shoe's story is almost the same as mine, and what would work with me. Which is to say, nothing on this list since im a broken product of the modern day. I love to banter and argue, and the gf got with me after weeks of insulting and poking each other after I was my usual autisticly, dickish self when we first met. Not maliciously or anything, to be clear, but just blunt/crass honesty that she took an issue with.
    Remember fellas, a bad impression is better than NO impression at all. Better to be the jerk she met than "...who?"

  • @ComfortableHypocrisy
    @ComfortableHypocrisy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want to say just showing genuine interest is enough, admittedly id have a little trouble believing it if it ever happened to me though. If it was genuine, I dont think itd be something I ever forgot though. That much im certain of.

  • @Face2theScr33n
    @Face2theScr33n 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just be yourself, as long as you're not a raging dumpster fire.
    Spoiler: everybody is lonely for a reason now, we are poisoned with opinions we are not allowed to question. Learn to have your own opinions and stick to them until new information changes your mind. But be sure to treat people of differing opinion with dignity. They might come to see your side if you give them a chance, and unless it's actually irreconcilable then just move on together about the business of survival.