Fulgur is so good at helping people who have their phobias triggered. He did the same for Uki when his trypophobia was triggered on stream. A truly great friend.
If you don’t mind, could you link me a clip of when he does this for Uki? If you can’t, you can just tell me the stream name. I just love to see niji helping niji
@@literallyjustme3335 I tried to link it but the comment probably got filtered. Title is "【IT TAKES TWO】PsyBorg Couples Therapy【NIJISANJI EN | Uki Violeta】" with the time stamp 1:59:58. At least that's what it is on Uki's POV
@@literallyjustme3335 I just rewatched that section. The spot I time stamped is only the first part. They encounter more stuff that triggers it again and again until they decide to just chat instead. Fulgur ultimately completed the section offline so he and Uki could continue from the checkpoint after their triggers.
i'm not kidding when fuu chan said "how do we normally deal with bells? do we just distract?" my eyes teared up and i almost cried. he is so SO sweet🥹🤲🏻 i love him so much
Omg that's exactly what happened to me too ueueue TTTT he was so quick to address the situation and immediately asked question to calm Ike down and choose the best strategy to help, while being super calm and respectful from the start.... like just from the way he speaks you can tell he is such a respectable and reliable person, we all love Fuuchan so so much fr fr TT
@siel39 yes! as someone who has arachnophobia and thalassophobia i really appreciate addressing the situation and calming the person first, then choosing the best strategy to help them TT he is a good friend and his presence makes me feel comfortable🥹
I love how Fulgur addresses the situation so....like the way he talks wouldn't make you feel judged or embarrassed in seeking help, he only asks questions to make sure the best way to help. Time and time again so many other livers have talked about how much speaking to Fuchan has helped them behind the scenes but never once will he bring it up or brag about himself. He's just so kind and it really shines through
I’m glad that the quildren warned Ike that a bell is ahead so he doesn’t freak out and Fulgur helping him though it calmly. Fulgur is so sweet to people with phobias, especially Uki with his phobia.
@@wolfofsummerbreeze Ever since i was a kid i always found big bells quite scary, and as I've grown up the fear of them just gets worser. I'm not sure why but whenever i see a big bell, weather in real life or in game i get sweaty, shaky, heavy breathing, and get a bit teary eyed. If i hear the bell it makes all of that even worse and i feel like screaming and crying. I'm not sure on were my fear stems from so I'm sorry i could provide an answer on that, but just seeing them and hearing it sends my into a panic. The fear even confuses me because I'm not even fully sure on why. I hope you have a great day/ night.
Is it relative to the size and sound? For example, could a cruise, since it's big and it makes noise, scare you? ( Not necessarily a cruise just a big boat idk i just had it in mind )or maybe it's because of the vibrations? The deep metallic noise I don't know how to describe but it could cause a feeling of anxiety and fear, something that gives goosebumps? I'm simply interested I wanna understand phobias, if you can't really describe why you're scared of it it's fine ! Have a good day/night !
I saw this live, and I was so touched by how Fulgur just immediately came to Ike's aid without question, and repeatedly assured him it was okay when Ike kept apologizing for his phobia. If there is anyone I would trust to do this for Ike, it's Fulgur. It gave me a whole new level of appreciation for him. Fulgur truly is a real one, and Comfydants should be proud to have such a kind oshi. ❤ Thank you so much, Fuuchan, for being there for my boi.
Idk if it's just me but the way I see it it's like Fuuchan is the one that everyone simply looks up to even if he's not their oshi because he looks after their oshis so well If fuuchan is there we know all is well for our oshis And if their oshi is not there then Fuuchan is there as their source of comfort
Ever since Ike's irrational fear been made known, I have been very aware of big bells in that shape or sound. In every single media I watch or listen to I will subconsciously remind myself "oh Ike's not gonna be able to enjoy that without interruption" and get torn on how sad that is for people who shares the same irrational fear. My irrational fear is vomiting. Being nauseous makes me anxious. It's a cycle of nausea, I haven't puke for anything for more than a decade now
I love he asked "what do we so when we deal with bells?" Thats very good, you never jump to doing things, if the person can reply always ask what to do to help them calm down
oh no ike wouldn't be able to watch this clip bc the bell is included ;; but aaaah i love fuuchan so much he really was a hero for ike and quilldren that day
Fulgur is such a sweet man and an amazing friend. Asking Ike how he copes with his triggers is such a great way to approach someone in a situation like this. He’s always such a caring person and that’s what I admire about him
Ur so valid. Listen they can be really fluttery and fast and scary! It's a valid phobia that I kind of have though my fear is more generalized "A bug is on me and I feel it's legs" phobia,,,, I get ur fears and I sit with you. Idk if you get enough validation so by the gods I'm gonna give you some. Phobias are NOT fun. 💙💙💙💙
@@thetruefeatherqueen it's the whole something is flying towards me and sometimes they can be massive! It's just freaky. I'm same with bugs i hate them so much too
I respect fuuchan so much for the way he helps his friends. I’m being completely honest but if he were to help me through some games like this it would probably help. I’m like, VERY afraid and terrified of like anything that sounds like a gunshot so im not able to play all of those fun games everyone else plays so it’s pretty hard for me to get closer to my friends because they all really like playing games.
I relate to both here. If theres a phobia I have trouble with I’d rather have company. Though when friends have fears or panic attacks I am there and try to sing through it to distract them, make them sing along with me, or ask how we deal with it before searching for a way to distract them and reassuring them, while they get through it.
cries softly over my two oshis being so sweet and soft together, im so glad this clip got recced to me. i remembered when ike played omori it was the first time i learned of his bell phobia and i love how quilldren warn him and the way fuuchan is such a softie, i stan niji writers, the goodest of boys
I honestly didn't know Ike had a literal fear of bells I was thinking it was a bell thst goes off and alerts other enemies (Note that I found Nijisani after XSOLEIL debutted, so I didn't even see Ike's debut)
i am actully tearing up after what just happened and like fu_chan helped ike san i wish my family and the people around me would do the same for me but they just make fun of me saying you are dumb and i get embarrassed alot that's why i dont tell people my fear's and just go through it alone but i am sure there are still good people like fu_chan in this world and i am just glad that someone dosoen't have to go through the same thing's i have gone through it make's me happy and thank you so much for a great video again kizu san love you quallies
Is the phobia worse for Ike when he sees the bells more than just hearing them? Like, would he not be able to listen to songs like Coldplay's "Viva La Vida" due to his phobia?
His phobia will come with the realistic giant bell/ big church bell. I think it would be just as bad if it was a realistic big bell, but Ike used to say that if he heard it far away, it could be tolerated As for the song, he used to say that he often remembered that it was a synthetic sound from somewhere, so he didn’t feel afraid of it because he knew it wasn‘t really from the real bell
Having a phobia does not mean being afraid of things that most people find frightening.The fear depends on the individual, Some people's fears start from past events or experiences, but for some people their fears arise acutely for no reason. There are many types of phobias, you can googling for more info
Fulgur is so good at helping people who have their phobias triggered. He did the same for Uki when his trypophobia was triggered on stream. A truly great friend.
If you don’t mind, could you link me a clip of when he does this for Uki? If you can’t, you can just tell me the stream name. I just love to see niji helping niji
@@literallyjustme3335 I tried to link it but the comment probably got filtered. Title is "【IT TAKES TWO】PsyBorg Couples Therapy【NIJISANJI EN | Uki Violeta】" with the time stamp 1:59:58. At least that's what it is on Uki's POV
@@souleaterevans4589 Thank you!
@@Dendelion104 Thank you!
@@literallyjustme3335 I just rewatched that section. The spot I time stamped is only the first part. They encounter more stuff that triggers it again and again until they decide to just chat instead.
Fulgur ultimately completed the section offline so he and Uki could continue from the checkpoint after their triggers.
i'm not kidding when fuu chan said "how do we normally deal with bells? do we just distract?" my eyes teared up and i almost cried. he is so SO sweet🥹🤲🏻 i love him so much
Omg that's exactly what happened to me too ueueue TTTT he was so quick to address the situation and immediately asked question to calm Ike down and choose the best strategy to help, while being super calm and respectful from the start.... like just from the way he speaks you can tell he is such a respectable and reliable person, we all love Fuuchan so so much fr fr TT
@siel39 yes! as someone who has arachnophobia and thalassophobia i really appreciate addressing the situation and calming the person first, then choosing the best strategy to help them TT he is a good friend and his presence makes me feel comfortable🥹
Yes same! Fuuchan is just such an amazing person! 😭😭
I love how Fulgur addresses the situation so....like the way he talks wouldn't make you feel judged or embarrassed in seeking help, he only asks questions to make sure the best way to help. Time and time again so many other livers have talked about how much speaking to Fuchan has helped them behind the scenes but never once will he bring it up or brag about himself. He's just so kind and it really shines through
His voice go 📉📉📉 when he’s scared, poor Ike
I’m glad that the quildren warned Ike that a bell is ahead so he doesn’t freak out and Fulgur helping him though it calmly. Fulgur is so sweet to people with phobias, especially Uki with his phobia.
Didn`t know Uki has one
@@behindzerosp uki has trypophobia if im not mistaken
I'm so grateful that chat warns about bells because i have the phobia too, so thank you Quildren you all are amazing.
I'm interested in why and how (if there is a reason) if you don't mind explaining?
@@wolfofsummerbreeze Ever since i was a kid i always found big bells quite scary, and as I've grown up the fear of them just gets worser. I'm not sure why but whenever i see a big bell, weather in real life or in game i get sweaty, shaky, heavy breathing, and get a bit teary eyed. If i hear the bell it makes all of that even worse and i feel like screaming and crying. I'm not sure on were my fear stems from so I'm sorry i could provide an answer on that, but just seeing them and hearing it sends my into a panic. The fear even confuses me because I'm not even fully sure on why. I hope you have a great day/ night.
Is it relative to the size and sound? For example, could a cruise, since it's big and it makes noise, scare you? ( Not necessarily a cruise just a big boat idk i just had it in mind )or maybe it's because of the vibrations? The deep metallic noise I don't know how to describe but it could cause a feeling of anxiety and fear, something that gives goosebumps? I'm simply interested I wanna understand phobias, if you can't really describe why you're scared of it it's fine ! Have a good day/night !
I saw this live, and I was so touched by how Fulgur just immediately came to Ike's aid without question, and repeatedly assured him it was okay when Ike kept apologizing for his phobia.
If there is anyone I would trust to do this for Ike, it's Fulgur. It gave me a whole new level of appreciation for him.
Fulgur truly is a real one, and Comfydants should be proud to have such a kind oshi. ❤ Thank you so much, Fuuchan, for being there for my boi.
Idk if it's just me but the way I see it it's like Fuuchan is the one that everyone simply looks up to even if he's not their oshi because he looks after their oshis so well
If fuuchan is there we know all is well for our oshis
And if their oshi is not there then Fuuchan is there as their source of comfort
Fulgur is so reliable! What a great guy. I'm glad Ike is surrounded by people who won't judge.
Ever since Ike's irrational fear been made known, I have been very aware of big bells in that shape or sound. In every single media I watch or listen to I will subconsciously remind myself "oh Ike's not gonna be able to enjoy that without interruption" and get torn on how sad that is for people who shares the same irrational fear.
My irrational fear is vomiting. Being nauseous makes me anxious. It's a cycle of nausea, I haven't puke for anything for more than a decade now
Fulgur is right. its a phobia so Ike should never feel sorry for it, because its not his fault. and just let others belittle you, they know nothing.
Holy shit this is why I love Fulgur. He's the sweetest. Like...wow. What a guy
Bless Fuuchan for being such a great guy.
Fuuchan reacted perfectly! Come in calm and collected, understanding and open, and ask what he can do to help.
What a wonderful human being.
oh i had no idea ike had a bell phobia ?? but I'm glad fulgur was there to help ike thru it, this was so wholesome 🥺
Yeah sounds and the object itslef,similar sounds are also uncomfortable for him but not as much as the exact sound/look
I love he asked "what do we so when we deal with bells?" Thats very good, you never jump to doing things, if the person can reply always ask what to do to help them calm down
oh no ike wouldn't be able to watch this clip bc the bell is included ;; but aaaah i love fuuchan so much he really was a hero for ike and quilldren that day
You make me think about make some note on the thumbnail of this clip Thank you!
The “how do we normally deal with bells” to make sure Ike is comfortable enough is heartwarming
Fulgur is such a sweet man and an amazing friend. Asking Ike how he copes with his triggers is such a great way to approach someone in a situation like this. He’s always such a caring person and that’s what I admire about him
People laugh at me at my huge fear of butterflies, even if its fake or animated whatever. And i get really sad. Someone like fuu chan is amazing ❤
Ur so valid. Listen they can be really fluttery and fast and scary! It's a valid phobia that I kind of have though my fear is more generalized "A bug is on me and I feel it's legs" phobia,,,, I get ur fears and I sit with you. Idk if you get enough validation so by the gods I'm gonna give you some. Phobias are NOT fun. 💙💙💙💙
@@thetruefeatherqueen it's the whole something is flying towards me and sometimes they can be massive! It's just freaky. I'm same with bugs i hate them so much too
Fuu-port at it's best, comfydants stan.
Fuuchan really wholesome 😭😭
Fuuchan saving the day, bless his soul 🙏😭❤️❤️❤️
Fu-chan is nice for helping out with his phobia, what a goat🫂🫂🫂
This is why Fuu chan's my oshi❤
As a Quilldren, I just want to say that you have a truly amazing oshi, and I am so appreciative of him being there for my oshi. ♡
I respect fuuchan so much for the way he helps his friends. I’m being completely honest but if he were to help me through some games like this it would probably help. I’m like, VERY afraid and terrified of like anything that sounds like a gunshot so im not able to play all of those fun games everyone else plays so it’s pretty hard for me to get closer to my friends because they all really like playing games.
Fulgur's voice is legit so soothing. So soft and encouraging and comforting man...
moments like these are one of the many reasons why I appreciate Fulgur so much...what a great guy!
Seeing my two oshi helping each other out just make me so happy😭🙏
we all need a fuuchan in our lives 🫂
I'm actually cryingggg Fuuchan is so sweet. The comfort he brings is just... He is a gem.
My heart was screaming because this is so cute on what Fulgur did of Ike like Fulgur is so sweet ❤️
Every niji en genmate so considerate people!
Yeah love it when they bully others 😂
Fulgur is such a good dude.
Poor Ikey Wikey 🥺 Thank goodness Fu-chan joined. 💙❤
Fuuchan is so thoughtful ❤
And so are the Quilldren 💙
I miss the stream but I’m proud of Fulgur being the comfort supportive man and it’s heart warming❤❤❤
I relate to both here. If theres a phobia I have trouble with I’d rather have company.
Though when friends have fears or panic attacks I am there and try to sing through it to distract them, make them sing along with me, or ask how we deal with it before searching for a way to distract them and reassuring them, while they get through it.
cries softly over my two oshis being so sweet and soft together, im so glad this clip got recced to me. i remembered when ike played omori it was the first time i learned of his bell phobia and i love how quilldren warn him and the way fuuchan is such a softie, i stan niji writers, the goodest of boys
he really knows how to handle thing like this.
Head pats for Ikey 🥺 love you both 🫂
My two oshis makes my heart melt and 😭, fuuchan is the best also head pats for ikey
I love Fulgur so so so so much. I might cry.
I LOVE FULGUR OVID.
FULGUR IS SO SWEET
fu-chan is just the sweetest 💕
Fulgur is simply the dude❤️
I honestly didn't know Ike had a literal fear of bells
I was thinking it was a bell thst goes off and alerts other enemies
(Note that I found Nijisani after XSOLEIL debutted, so I didn't even see Ike's debut)
Yay for Quilldren and Fu-chan!
fuuchan is so sweettt
This is why these two r my oshi 😭❤️💙
Fuuchan 🥺 thank youuuuuuu
Awwww 🥹 so sweet
i am actully tearing up after what just happened and like fu_chan helped ike san i wish my family and the people around me would do the same for me but they just make fun of me saying you are dumb and i get embarrassed alot that's why i dont tell people my fear's and just go through it alone but i am sure there are still good people like fu_chan in this world and i am just glad that someone dosoen't have to go through the same thing's i have gone through it make's me happy and thank you so much for a great video again kizu san love you quallies
I hope You’ll find someone that you feel comfortable enough to asking for help one day🥺🥺🫂🫂
Toooo sweet... fuchan....😭❤️💙
I LOVE BOTH OF MY KAMIOSHIS SO MUCH OH MY GODDDD
😭😭😭😭😭
Is the phobia worse for Ike when he sees the bells more than just hearing them? Like, would he not be able to listen to songs like Coldplay's "Viva La Vida" due to his phobia?
His phobia will come with the realistic giant bell/ big church bell. I think it would be just as bad if it was a realistic big bell, but Ike used to say that if he heard it far away, it could be tolerated
As for the song, he used to say that he often remembered that it was a synthetic sound from somewhere, so he didn’t feel afraid of it because he knew it wasn‘t really from the real bell
@@kizuyoru That makes sense. Thanks for the clarification.
🥺💙❤
I'm not understanding this. What is supposed to be so scary?
Having a phobia does not mean being afraid of things that most people find frightening.The fear depends on the individual, Some people's fears start from past events or experiences, but for some people their fears arise acutely for no reason.
There are many types of phobias, you can googling for more info