Women Go Through These Pain Because of Men
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Women Go Through These Pain Because of Men
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Brother,
Its A Request Kindly Make A Video On -
How Muslims In Iceland Fast For Nearly 22 Hours?
I Believe & Hope It Will Inspire The Youths.
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Thank you Shaikh. This is the biggest challenge in our Asian Muslim society today
Brother I am in very difficult situation and I don’t know what to do.it has been 1 year I got married with a guy who didn’t had any documents of uk and now I am 6months pregnant .my husband doesn’t gives time to me at all when ever his home he makes phone call or watch’s dramas .when his at work for 8 -10 hours he doesn’t calls me at all ,I did told him how I feel about it.now his telling me when he gets documents then he will go back to Pakistan.i told him I am your wife and how can you leave me here alone and your unborn child ,he said Allah will look after you.i am extremely broken he doesn’t even cares about the child.
This type of lectures r causing hatered towards marriages. Women and men both r avoiding it and I see scores of intentionally unmarried young men and women around me. Mothers r scared to bring in a daughter-in-laws who will steal their most precious treasure while women r looking for a man that they can boss around and men r finding other illegitimate means. Every house I see has old parents taken care of by an unmarried or divorced daughter while sons r living with their wives serving their in-laws. What we need is to teach both boys and girls 1st how to choose an appropriate partner 2nd how to be fair with every family member from both sides 3rd how to be paitient while influencing each others bad habits. Does the lecturer think that this world is filled with perfect men and women? U don't get jannah for having perfect ppl around u, u get jannah by struggling with imperfect ppl around u. That is y in older times the advice of ullema to be paitient made homes while current young ulema's stand up for ur rights advice is destroying marriages and family systems.
Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi vabarkatuhu brother can you kindly make a video on how a parent should be caring and how to not make them insecure please .Allahafiz
To have a man who values his wife and follow the Islamic teachings of how to take care of her is like blessing and like winning a lottery..
There shouldn't be an "and" if he follow the Islamic teachings he should value his wife
Sister Samira every true but now days mmmhh all is big test
kuokkam damha yes I agree with you
Kaha hai aisey husband .... I suffered and compromised a lot more more inmy in laws.still my mother in law abuses me ..... Feel insulting everytime....in our whole joint family....
Yaa...A scarce lottery, sadly.
By the way, there's nothing wrong about being dark-skinned. Unfortunately, almost all cultures in Asia and the Middle East are negative towards dark-skin. I'm surprised and disappointed that even many Muslims are this way. Allah made your skin so you shouldn't call yourself ugly. Racism is unacceptable in Islam.
Yes true!
I know right. In fact Dark people will have the greatest light in Jannah
If they don't know their religion then how would they value their own skin.
Dark skin?i dont have dark skin but it is actually better than light, the skin pigment that makes darker skin is beneficial to us protects us from the sun more...Alhamdullilah👌🏼
I was about to write exactly the same comment : there's nothing wrong about being dark skinned. God is the one that has chosen some people to be dark skinned some other to be light skinned but at the end no one is better than anybody unless they're pious.
May Allah grant us a good, righteous, caring, and a supportive husband.
Ameen Ya Rabbi
Ameen
Ameen
ALLAH O AKBAR
Ameen
*SO many males have completely missed the point of this lecture. They refuse to be educated and instantly use this as an opportunity to complain and insult women in the comments. Astagfirullah.*
*A muslim should not be ignorant or arrogant. You are perfectly capable of having misogynistic faults. Take a moment to work on your flaws and make yourself a good and desirable man before criticising others. Only then will you attract someone of equal value.*
*If you're only attracting low, silly women then look at yourself and ask why a high ranking good woman doesn't look to you. May Allah guide us.*
Well said
ForTheVirtue - someone commented finding good spouse is finding a needle in the haystack.
Woody Broody I saw that, it’s disappointing to think people feel that way when so many men and women face difficult trials in attempt to perfect themselves for Allah.
Overall, it boils down to misunderstanding. They learn about their rights, but not their duties. They love to demand, but not provide.
Some ladies will not consider a man without a certain wage in fear of being taken from her fathers house and having to live in less than what she’s accustomed to. But she should also have something of value to offer besides beauty.
A lot of men demand their wife be pure and chaste when they are not themselves. Or that she cook and clean for them when that is not an Islamic requirement for a wife, but a basic survival requirement for an adult. Yet, they they barely provide financially or she can provide equally if not more.
The point isn’t to put men and women against each other, but to consider that if we all were given our perfect equal at this moment a lot of people would be disappointed to realise their spouse won’t meet their high standards.
The answer is to better yourself and only ask what you can give. It’s not responsible to wait for a pious person to come along and make you more practising. Pious people also deserve spouses of high piety. They shouldn’t have to lower their standards or settle for someone who refuses to work on themselves, but wants the sun and the moon.
May Allah guide us and forgive us all.
U are right, Ameen
I cry everyday because of my husband who I loved so much it was Unconditional Love, a very strong love Allah swt put in my heart for my husband and he destroyed everything with his lies, tricking me and other women into polygamy marriages only for lust/sexual desires, my husband didnt provide for me. I loved him so much and I was loyal, never cheated on him and now I cry so much, i have mental health problems, emotional abuse and physical abuse because of his lying and tricking me into polygamy marriages and the other women don't know about me but Allah swt exposed him to me and then he moved his wife and children out of London Tooting to Blackpool I think so I cant tell her the truth, she dont know about me Terrible. I couldn't find the other women. His family knows everything SubhanAllaah Ya Allah. Even now his telling me theres no wives and children Ya Allah SubhanAllaah. This was a eye opener for me that how Muslim brothers lie and tricking women into polygamy marriages or they have secret wives and secret girlfriends and their still looking for other women for marriage when they have secret wives and secret girlfriends and secret children, even their own family, mothers and fathers dont know about. Allah is great. SubhanAllaah. No respect for other peoples mothers, sisters and daughters when you have your own mother, sisters and daughters SubhanAllaah... from this horrible experience, horrible, horrible experience that Muslim brothers can abuse us like this and noone cares, SubhanAllaah, I realised that us Muslim sisters dont get justice, Muslim sisters suffering so much in polygamy marriages and the Muslim brothers get away with it because polygamy is in the Quran. My husband didn't love, care, provide, may bill's, he didnt pay rent, he didn't help me, he never buy food for me, its was about lust/sexual desires and all I get from people is it's his right, polygamy is his right and look at what he did to me Ya Allah, Allah is so good. Allhumduillah for Allah. Allah will give me justice soon. Muslims dont understand how this horrible experience made many sisters leave islam, if your mental health is destroyed then your deen Islam will be affaced SubhanAllaah. Now I understand why so many Muslim sisters left Islam, other Muslim sisters took their hijab off and stop going Masjid, sister were being mentally abused, emotionally abused and physically abused, no help or support for converts to Islam, now I understand why sister started new relationshipwith non Muslim men. What I've learned from this horrible experience Muslim brothers can oppress their wives and get away with it and the ummah support him in his oppresstion SubhanAllaah. (((Please don't trust noone, dont trust people on online, even Muslim can be fake, dont trust noone when it comes to marriage, my husband was lying and tricking women into marriage when he was already married with children, girls/women your talking to a man for marriage but you don't know his already married with children and this is happening alot))) th-cam.com/video/LC3EoR3gOF0/w-d-xo.html
Imagine being married to a narcissist. A nightmare
easy : move away
Easier said than done. You only get to know people's true colours after marriage
@@InshasChoice you can move away after marriage or it is not compulsory to marry
Insha
That's true, people are only comfortable mostly with their direct family once you become part of that everything you don't know about your spouse shows up.
I know how it feels already, grew up with a narcissist dad and a mother who still just puts up with it. Unsurprisingly I’ve been to therapy...
If the in laws have so much problem with the wife taking away their son , then why let your son get married?
Some ppl are sick, and think they own their kids.
@@DiamondsRexpensive Technically thats true since the parents pay for everything and are dependent on them for a very long time.
But you are right this behaviour needs to stop.
Agreed
Because now they lose their maid, that’s the main issue. They want the ‘bahu’ moving in with them because they think she will look after them 😂
They have kids so that the kids could sacrifice their adulthood looking after elderly parents. My grandparents took me in when my mom was ill, but I'm expected to look after them, but nothing I do is ever enough. Anyways, I'm going to move out and I'm expected to live with my in laws and be a _model_ DIL. My uncle has to stay with my grandparents. That's just the standard in our culture. My grandparents do plenty for us, for me and I love them, but my grandad is a narcissist and I pity my nan and uncle
Please pray for me that I find a man who treats me right and doesn't hurt me in any way. I feel very discouraged but only trust Allah. It hurts to see how women are treated and I am so scared to be treated badly. Please pray for me and my family who are having a hard time getting married.
Wow two samias, God bless you both 🙏🔶✨
Pray tahajjud, do istigfar and make during tahajjud... Tahajjud and istigfar is solution to each & every problem. May Allah bless u with a pious, loving and handsome husband ☺
Easy to find. Can’t say the same for men tho
If he hurts you hurt him back. Who said a woman can’t play a man at his own game? That’s usually the only way they ever learn
i dont understand how ppl thinks that its alllll the damn time women are innocent. ..even being a girl...i think i am hating women because i was bullied by jealous , envious, toxic bitches at university. i know not all were bad... but majority were so damn jealous of me... whenever i see a women suffer anything. ..i dont have sympathy for her because what happened to me by girls makes me hate women so much. stop trying to defend women everywhere. . some are really as cruel as men or mothrr in law or whatever. i am very much done with girls... now i am ignoring them avoiding them..now those bitches themselves come towards me because they are affected by my ignoring them. but ill continue to ignore them to make them.. its quite sad but because of my experience i dont feel empathy for girls. please all of u stop acting like its women who are best everytime, everywhere. . some are very professional jealous bitches also
I'm just so scared of marriage..my parents are so nice .. they treat me like a princess but the idea of going to a man with a new family is very scary ...
Same
the solution is to not marry and be independent and make money
live however you want..it's yours anyway
-BTS
me too
Insha'allah your in laws will be amazing 👏
summi mz
If you end up having a problem with your in laws ask your spouse to move out, other then that try not to make this video overwhelm you, get to know your in-laws and see what their like.
I have been in an abusive relationship. I have tears in my eyes as I watch this. It is so relatable. I am so glad I'm out of it. Islam is such a beautiful religion.
May Allah SWT bless you with the best of both worlds.
Ameen
I started crying too because this us exactly what they did to me and left me incredibly scarred. I'm still living the after effects years later...
Asalaamualakum my dear sisters .. Be strong , when those tears flow down your face they will be accountable for ..forgive my dear sisters and be strong..Allah is with you..my dear sisters ..be strong ..wasalaam my beloved x
Allah is with the opressed. stay strong 💕
@@LR-kj8ec
Stay Strong 💪
May Allah SWT Heal your pain and reward you immensely in return of dealing All the sufferings.
Ameen🤲
Just Believe in that The best is yet to come!
(Either in This Duniya or The Hereafter.)
Aslkum the most beautiful thing of this video is the statement that "All femals are the property of Allah " SubhanAllah ....this just made me cried.....Allhumdullillah
I don’t understand why the mother in law will bring the girl of her choice and after marriage is the first person to not like her, like you did like her and now what if you didn’t like her why bring in your family?! 😅
Sad and true.
Exactly!
She choosed what she thought was the best cleaning/cooking service and after marriage she suddenly realizes that a daughter in law is not a free new servant, so she gets upset with her for not being what she expected, it what happens in a lot of cases...
Exactly 🤣
No, they still hate every other girl that can potentially be his wife. Once someone steps in that role she is on the target. Thats why they purposely try to choose someone who will be easily tackled, someone soft spoken or not a threat at all. Then they use all their mind games to confine her only to the duties at home while she continues to be the number 1 priority of her son by ruling over his mind and heart. The Husband and wife will meanwhile never be able to build a healthy relationship built upon love and trust.
This is Islam💙👍🏼, don't see another completed religion other than Islam
Yesss!
Aok Me
That is because Islam is the foundation of the religions before it, Christianity and Juadism as well as Islamic teachings on its own views.
Being called dark is not an insult, it’s a skin tone. A beautiful one at that. But I’m sure ustadh didn’t mean it like that. He was only pointing out what people perceive as insulting.
If only you knew how hard being a dark skin woman is .When in your own family they give out your fair skinned cousins to get married before you because you are dark skinned
@@lemonvate9860 Salaam sis, remember that Allah made you (us) this way, and he finds us beautiful. I'm sorry your family made you feel that way. InshaAllah you'll marry someone who'll see your values and love you for you.
I don't think he meant anything wrong, it's just because in some cultures, being dark skinned is viewed as a flaw when Allah made us all beautiful and all different, this is a cultural problem that needs to change
he probably meant by dark that she has a dark personality or a dark heart.
When you see righteous people, you also say that they have a radiant face.
Alia Nuh you reckon his a racist ha
That's why you don't move in with a mama's boy.
Yess true
Thank you. God bless you.
😂 👏
Yes. That's why you need to hav eyour own house. And women should work
Fun fact, women can choose to do a job or take care of children or even both while men are required to go to work and be a bread earner, Islam really out there addressing women's rights.
May Allah bless righteous women a husbands who give them their RIGHTS
1. Respect.
2. Respect.
3. Respect.
This is so relatable. My husband has been so abusive for last 36 years. I will never forgive him. May Allah give him ajar for it.
farah ahmad 36 years? MashaAllah, thats a lot. I hope you dont mind me asking but how did you manage to stay together for that long?
Zu Nor it’s because for the sake of Allah she is stilled married and inshallah Allah will reward her in this life and the hear inshallah
This is Terrible! SubhanAllaah
@@zua240 because of shame, people will talk. Women stay because his my husband. This is Terrible.
@@muhammedmateen4728 Even if it is for the sake of Allah(swt), I dont think Allah says to stay with the one who is abusive to you. If he does not treat you right & disrespects you, we have the option to divorce and divorce is not a bad thing in Islam. Only difficult once you have had kids. May Allah (swt) protect all of us.
I dont understand why people dont get it?. This is soo heartbreaking.💔..
Assallam, i observed that most /men always complaints their women talking too much and the husband cannot tolerate. I think husband/men dont want to listen the woman voice in day but they need the woman voice ONLY at night in bed. Sorry to say this is the men behaviour in the marriage life. Its very pain thou.
It’s same on either side. It’s bed for men and shopping for women.
Sabrina Uddin - please try to comprehend the point I had intended.
That’s not right!
S S - men are already tired of feminist narcissism, and it is not a secret anymore like crying babies act under the garb of misplaced men’s behavior impacts every little heart burn or acid reflux a feminist experiences. Feminist too have butts but men’s are more magnanimous not to see those butts are hurt. 🥱
@@SS-mu3tj Woah you gotta calm down. Calling others "butt hurt" when you are basically acting the same way. We can all be keyboard warriors. But that won't solve anything. All of us (men & women) are tested in different ways by Allaah. Blaming others all the time will only increase the severity of the test.
It's very painful when women don't get help from their inlaws, I thank Allah that he gave me strength to get rid of abusive relationship and in laws after 16 years Alhumdulillah parents of ummah should give daughters the strength to support what is right not to tolerate everything beyond our imagination.
durdana nazneen did you leave your husband after 16 years
@@sisterindeen8333
Yes my sister i would have done it very long time ago it has been 4 years now.
Pray for me and my kids.
durdana nazneen are you feeling better now?
@@sisterindeen8333
Alhumdulillah by the grace of Almighty Allah I am feeling good and living good please pray for ummah and the people in india pakistan and Bangladesh that have changed islamic culture by taking Dowry and expecting more from the daughter in law and her family, please forgive me but this is bitter truth that people are doing business when they have son to get married. Allah guide the ummah.
durdana nazneen durdana nazneen what is your name? I will pray for you specially today
i felt sorry for the women whose husbands treat them like there slaves
there are men who think that their parents comes first than their wives because they only heard the line that you cannot say { off } to you parents .
Its a balance between wife and parents, both are important, there are far too many old people abandoned in old age homes, assisted living facilities or in flats all alone, so lets not go to extremes in our stance on this topic.
@Beautiful-Me
You shouldn't say such things about an entire country of people, if you had a bad relationship, that was a test for you from Allah, and Alhamdulilah Allah helped you. Pointing fingers at other people is a mark of poor character, may Allah grant us good character.
If we have true taqwa in Allah we will always see good in things and we will not malign anyone let alone an entire population. May Allah grant us true taqwa.
Lets not create disunity in the ummah inshaallah.
May Allah guide us.
"even if you have messed up families, you still have to do your best."
Remember that well guys. Don't give in to this world's cruelness and unfairness to filth your heart and soul.
Dont despair Allah's mercy and May Allah always guide us and keep our hearts enriched with love and hope💕💕💕💕
I'm speechless.....
My mom’s friend’s daughter is getting engaged at 18. And now my mom is holding that thought for me and my sister. We’re not mentally ready for that commitment. Why doesn’t anyone understand this?
Subahanallah. This is so much inspiring. I wish my mom watched this. She's no more alive at the moment. But I personally know how much she suffered from living with her in laws.
Cried listening to this. May Allah help and protect all our daughters and mothers.
When khutbas be making my standards higher....XD
It’s sad how people mix toxic culture with Islam and say nonsenses to hurt others...
Preach
@@SS-mu3tj SOMEONE TAKES PRIDE IN SEPERATING A MAN FROM HIS PARENTS DAMN!!!
Tears r fallin from eyes reading and hearing this..exactly of what has happening in me right now,, i am confused what shall i do for i have one child and i am orphan,,jobless for this pandemic....Alhamdulillah for islam...
This is kinda depressing...I'm still sort of young, so I am not looking to get married, but I feel like by the time I do get married (if I get married, that is), all the good, kind men will be gone. :( I think it is getting harder to find a good spouse these days, so it will probably be worse in the future.
This literally made me cry. And I really hope that the one who needs to listen, listens to this. Please Ya Allah please
May Allah reward him for covering this topic.So so important.Men are so important in the ummah,they are oblivious to the impact they have.And Men being upright,just and uplifting of women can have a profound impact.Woman have faults too for sure but to be qawam lead by example.
In terms of families,communities and societies.I come from a community where women have the job of the men and women and the daughters end up resentful and embittered to having witnessed that their parents treated the siblings so differently based on gender.Alhamdulilah we don't have the living with in laws culture but they raise and judge genders different.Boys having less responsibilities and more freedom.As a result the boys are unprepared for manhood and or the reality of being a responsible,just yet gentle leader.it has created a lot of issues because the men get defensive when criticised.Women sort of created this expectation and passed it down so there is blame with them too.
Its a disservice to the ummah to raise inadequate boys who do not rise to the responsibility which awaits them.
Also brothers need to realise the stress of an unhappy marriage or mistreatment on a pregnant woman biologically impacts the developing foetus and child , increases her chances of depression and consequentially the ability to be the attentive and emotionally present mother she would be otherwise.We always say that the women are the backbones of the family but if they aren’t fulfilled,supported and nurtured emotionally that can make that a difficult task or detriment the quality of that strength and the quality of that home.
SMALL DHIKR GREAT REWARD
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سُبْحَا نَ اللهِ وَ بِحَمْدِهِ عَدَدَخَلْقِهِ، وَرِضَا نَفْسِهِ، وَزِنَةَ عَرْشِهِ وَمِدَادَ كَلِمَاتِهِ.
Subhanallahi wa bihamdihi, ai’dada khalqihi, wa ridhaa nafsihi, wa zinata ‘ar shihi, wa midaada kalimaatihi.
Reward: Recite 3 times = 6 hours of Dhikr
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رَضِيتُ باللَّهِ رَبًّا، وَبِالْإِسْلَامِ دِيناً، وَبِمُحَمَّدٍ صَلَى اللَّهُ عَلِيهِ وَسَلَّمَ نَبِيَّاً
Radheetu billaahi Rabban, wa bil-'Islaami deenan, wa bi-Muhammadin (sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallama) Nabiyyan. ((Three times))
Reward: Allah has promised that anyone who says every morning or evening will be pleased on the Day of Resurrection.
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SubhanAllah
سُبْحَانَ الله
Reward: say 100 times a day and 1,000 Hasanah will be written for you or 1,000 sins will be wiped away.
4)
سُبْحَانَ اللهِ الْعَظِيمِ وَ بِحَمْدِ هِ
Subhaanal-laahil ‘aathiimi wa bihamdihi
Reward: say this and a date palm will be planted for you in Paradise. (In Shaa Allah)
5)
لَا إِلٰهَ إِلَّا اللَّهُ وَحْدَهُ لَا شَرِيكَ لَهُ، لَهُ الْمُلْكُ وَلَهُ الحَمْدُ وَهُوَ عَلَى كُلِّ شَيْءٍ قَدِيرٌ
Laa ilaaha illallaahu wahdahu laa shareeka lahu, lahul-mulku wa lahul-hamdu wa Huwa 'alaa kulli shay'in Qadeer.
Reward: say 10 times and you will have the reward for freeing 4 slaves from the Children of Isma’il
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اللَّهُمَّ إنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ الْجَنَّةَ
Allahuma inni as alukal jannah
Meaning: Oh Allah, grant me Jannah
Reward: say 3 times and Jannah itself will ask Allah to grant you Jannah
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اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ وَسَلَّمْ عَلَى نَبِيِّنَا مُحَمَّدٍ
Allahumma salli wa sallim 'alaa nabiyyinaa Muhammadin
Reward: The Prophet saw said: "Who recites blessings upon me 10 times in the morning and 10 times in the evening will obtain my intercession on the Day of Resurrection.”
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أَعُوذُ بِكَلِمَاتِ اللَّهِ التَّامَّاتِ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا خَلَقَ
'A'oothu bikalimaatil-laahit-taammaati min sharri maa khalaqa
Reward: Whoever recites this 3 times in the evening will be protected from insect stings.
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سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ وَبِحَمْدِهِ
Subhaanallaahi wa bihamdihi
Reward: Whoever recites this 100 times in the morning and in the evening will not be surpassed on the Day of Resurrection by anyone having done better than this except for someone who had recited it more.
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بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الَّذِي لَا يَضُرُّ مَعَ اسْمِهِ شَيْءٌ فِي الَْأرْضِ وَلَا فِي السَّمَاءِ وَهُوَ السَّمِيعُ الْعَلِيمُ
Bismillaahil-lathee laa yadhurru ma'as-mihi shay'un fil-'ardhi wa laa fis-samaa'i wa Huwas-Samee 'ul- 'Aleem
Reward: Recite 3 times. Whoever recites it in the morning will not be afflicted by any calamity before evening, and whoever recites it in the evening will not be overtaken by any calamity before morning.
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حَسْبِيَ اللَّهُ لَآ إِلَهَ إِلَّا هُوَ عَلَيْهِ تَوَكَّلْتُ وَهُوَ رَبُّ الْعَرْشِ الْعَظِيمِ
Hasbiyallaahu laa 'ilaaha 'illaa Huwa 'alayhi tawakkaltu wa Huwa Rabbul-'Arshil-'Adheem
Reward: Allah will grant whoever recites this 7 times in the morning or evening whatever he desires from this world or the next.
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اللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي لَّا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ، خَلَقْتَنِي وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ، وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ، أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْتُ، أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ، وَأَبُوءُ بِذَنْبِي فَاغْفِر لِي فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ
Allaahumma Anta Rabbee laa ilaaha illaa Anta, khalaqtanee wa anaa 'abduka, wa anaa 'alaa 'ahdika wa wa'dika mas-tata'tu, a'oothu bika min sharri maa sana'tu, aboo'u laka bini'matika 'alayya, wa aboo'u bithanbee faghfir lee fa'innahu laa yaghfiruth-thunooba 'illaa Anta.
Reward: Whoever recites this with conviction in the evening and dies during that night shall enter Paradise, and whoever recites it with conviction in the morning and dies during that day shall enter Paradise.
Salam could you please email me these? I can’t copy from here.
sehrishahmad18@gmail.com
Thank you
JazakAllahu khair
Shukran akhii
Jazak Allah Khair
the world of relationships is a whole mess right now. people need to go back to islam.
That's why sometimes I wish imam mahdi and Prophet Jesus/Isa would come already because the world is just getting worser and worser until they come. Then after Prophet Jesus passes away of old age, the world will start crumbling again until the trumpet blows.
@@naylisyazwina6836 It will come, have patience.
Don't forget to said (Peace be upon them)
only women have to wear hijab in islam ..it is mysogynistic
@@misstoxicfucker__journeyto1017 The beard is a natural hijab for men since it covers the face and convering the head with the cap is also advised for. And if you have a complaint with covering the whole body for women than you would be surprised but its also obligaory for men to be covered properly in the presence of women.
true
Even if you show this to an indian man. It goes in one ear and out.
Or some Pakistani men. Or some men from all of earth. I promise you, they exist everywhere.
Dont give a exception to the bengali men. They too are mostly the same
@@DiamondsRexpensive Black men too
will d other way around
It is right of wife to give her a separate home.And it's compulsory and necessary if you want to do justice.
Amazing I love Islam may Allah soon make give my husband a heart to know about Islam
Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
I'm making dua for you, sister
In shaa Allah Aameen 🤲🤲🤲
I wish men would be good husbands. Cause before marriage they are like dying for you and as soon as your married they change. Why is that. Sad😌
Correction: they are dying for the availability of sex, not for you.
@@Sophiedabombbaby Shut up !
@@supernatural_forces LoL you sound too young or too prude for youtube if a simple truth like that upsets you. Relax and get over it. Sex is a veryy big part of getting married, and for many many men, the sole motivator to even try. Denying reality isn't gonna get you far in life bud, chillax and grow up
@@Sophiedabombbaby
I wasn't even that angry, just playing. 😛
@@Sophiedabombbaby sooooo true.
I'm scared and tired of these issues that's why I'm not interested in marriage at all .i don't want to chain myself to a man who can't trust me and my words
Good decision
I support you for this. Men are never worth the risk. Trusting any men will put our lives at risk, sooner or later they will end up hurting us. It's never worth it.
I like someone a lot but not married yet. He might ask me for marriage soon but I don't know. I just wanna tell you to never sacrifice your studies for your husband.. InshaAllah I'll become a surgeon and I will not stop this for my husband. I love my Lord,prophet and my parents more than him. That is not gonna change inshaAllah.
@@cutlet9227 well, I don't want to discourage you because I admire your ambition, but being a surgeon is a highly demanding job, so if u get married and have kids and do your surgeon work, you will overwork yourself.
Just wanted to throw that out.
Diamind you’re literally discouraging her. What you don’t understand is that women can handle a lot more than the fragile man can. InShaAllah she will be a surgeon and InShaAllah her future husband will man up and take care of the kids too.
alsalam ealaykum
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Also, Those abusive spouses need to understand how bad it (a broken marriage) can effect their kids mental health and sexualtiy.
This is so beautiful thank you for educating us all men and woman we all make mistakes and we all learn everyday inshallah god will show us the right way and put us on the right path in life
Staying single forever is the best.
In western world it is easier because you don’t have the baggage of the in laws
That will open hell gates to other problems....
@@Feisabeilillah such as?
@@Surfing566 probably zina
@@skrill3770 not everyone is sexually driven
May Allah forgive all our sins me and my deceased dad and my adopted mom and my daughter and give us jannah tul firdus and remove all my scars ameen Allahuma ameen Ya Rabbulalamin
I hate myself for getting married. May Allah bless me and my daughter with peace. Half of these things that he spoke about is actually happening with me
May Allah help you and your daughter.
Alhamdulilaah its only half.
Have sabr for Allahs sake may he grants every single woman in jannah for her sabr
i hope he either changes his ways or get out of your life because he dosent desrve a wondeful person like you
User user half of a lot! These things shouldn’t be happening at all! I hope she gets the help she needs
شكرا لك لإنتاجك هذا الفيديو. بارك الله فيك مع جنة طول الفردوس
I wish if this video could be in Hindi so that I can show this to my father.
This is what most families go through for real. May Allah grant us peace 🙏 in our families.Ameen
This is why a woman should always get her own place and she’s in charge and the husband moves in with her
He has responsibilities of his parents and family on him as well, not just his wife. His parents have a right over him too. He belongs to his parents too. He has to worry about who will care for his parents when he is at work or not able to 24/7. These are all very important issues. This is an important thing that most young girls and wives nowadays don't respect and think about. The thing they think about is I am not responsible for them. The first thing they want is a separate home from his parents and don't care or think about his family or parents. They can also be quite harsh, impatient and disrespectful in the way they talk too. Also there is nothing wrong in living in a joint family if things are okay and the in-laws are not seriously threatening, abusive towards the wife or harming her. There is nothing wrong for wife to be co-operative and responsible in household duties. She is not obligated to by Islam but if she lives with family/parents, morally and respectfully she should be considerate and responsible.
It is your very attitude that causes the problem, you want to be in control,
A man should be in control of his wife.
Your need to be in control is the cause of the conflicts.
Bloodrayne he shouldn’t get married then if his responsibility for his parents comes first. You can’t expect a woman to take on the role of a caretaker of his parents and him, it’s an absurd and selfish expectation. Men should just wait until their parents pass away to get married if that’s the case.
User user no one should be in control of anyone, who do you think you are to be in control of a woman or anyone?? You need to seek help.
@@SS-mu3tj Wow you're so emotional. I am a loser for being caring and considerate about man's parents and family?! What is this mentality. I know what the original commenter said and I replied accordingly. My point is that if the wife is living with the family then she is part of the family and as a member of the family she should play a part and be responsible instead of disregarding everyone and everything and not do anything because she isn't obligated for it. It's about basic courtesy, empathy and morality. I can't believe that you would call a wife being generous and kind as toxicity.
Please pray for me and my kids
Wonderful lecture. Real scenario is like that only. Masha Allah
Well Done this is not a video. ...its a lesson to Every men Before they Tie their knots must watch it...not only just watching..But also .Applying it ... Love this video Best of your channel videos 🙏👍👌God bless you Abundantly !
I think this voice is NOUMAN ALI KHAN'S
is it you sherlock? 😄
May Allah give us strength to do justice
Asalamualaikum, can I get some advises? in the past days my father did injustice against my mother - it was nothing big but it was wrong and disrespectful, especially in this Ramadan time and my mother was hurt - I know that I shouldn’t raise my voice against my father but I did. And I feel incredible bad for that but I do not regret my action. The problem is that my father can’t communicate well with others without feeling to be the right one . It is very hard to tell him something in nice words because then he seems to not care. When we have a discussion he is so loud that we can’t even concentrate and it seems like he doesn’t give argumentations but irritates us completely so the discussion gets one sided. I asked Allah for forgiveness but I feel like if I don’t discuss with my father the way I do, there would never come a change. Thank you for reading
Narcissistic abuse
My father is very similar, so Im using this holy month to make duaa he changes for the better in sha Allah. May Allah reward your mother in abundance for her sabr.
Sister, Islam tells you to talk to your father in a polite manner. Otherwise he will never come to know about what wrong he is doing.
When Islam tells us to be kind with our parents it doesn't mean to keep silent and mum and not speak yo them what's bothering you but infact tells you to communicate nicely with them in a polite and respectable manner.
So if you shouted ,you should make tauba for that .That's a sin, but you should speak up the truth with kindness and firmness.
For example. Ibrahim as father was a idol worshipper . So it's mentioned in the Qur'an that he spoke to him gently and refuted against what his father was doing.
Hope you understand.
shahzeb khan thank you for your response and yes I think you are right - I know that this was wrong and I asked Allah for forgiveness - next time I should control my emotions even if he can’t take me serious. You know .. he is the typ of person that doesn’t realize that something went wrong unless everybody around him is shouting and expressing their anger. But you are right - I should have sabr and act how islam is teaching us - again thank you for your advise ☺️
Eethi I - means a lot to me and wishing you and your mother also the very best 💕 thank you for your respond
What Allah gives me against my tears.pray for me please ,Allah gives me sabr and sabar
Every word is so.. true and relatable..and these things are have in all the families..but sometimes everyone is helpless...some not understand these sensitive things that are most important for families..and these little things messup all from physically emotionally spritually and people get used to it and set there minds like that and then they behave to other just like that they have learnt from there experiences ..So sad reality of our society...they don't fear ALLAH.. they fear about people's judgement
Lovely.... Truly enlightened
May Allah bless your ways. Shukran jazeelan
In our paleozoic culture will never be mutual respect between women and in-laws. Unfortunately.
MashaAllah.. beautiful... justice is the priority in Islam
May Allah bless us all with beautiful marriages to beautiful blessed spouses & grant us beautiful blessed children in 2020 ❤️🕊☀️
May allah ( s.w ) protect my sisters (muslims )and grant them jannah ameeen yarabalhalamin
My mom is so abusive but my dad kinda helps me through it, I wanna get married but I'm scared to find the abuse that I left in the husband's family
Masha Allah...
This is true. But can we also have a talk about those families that treat their daughter in laws well And with respect yet their daughter in laws turn their sons against them, make it difficult to meet their sons and grudge any time husband wants to spend time with parents etc.? Nowadays I find most in laws are nice and daughter in laws are demanding and possessive of husbands. Why can’t girls be reminded that their husband also have a certain responsibility to parents and not just them too? It works both ways with mutual respect and understanding on all sides. Respecting his own parents within reason does not diminish a wife’s standing. One day her son will also marry....
My husband is a narcissists.
I only realized recently.
Married for 40yrs now.
Mental n emotional abuse.
Too late to leave now 😰
It’s never late to be happy! Think of yourself!
It's never too late sister. Leave! Allah gave u a mind and body and u have to take care of it. Taking abuse is NOT patience. Take a step forward. I know it's hard and i know society is gonna hate u for it. But YOUR peace of mind above all things. I hope u find happiness here in the hereafter. May allah ease your pain sister. ❤️
Well....If he and his family do not know how to treat a lady, it is their problem.....they are the ones who should learn to respect others ....Life is so short ...so having a husband who thinks of his wife as unworthy of attention, love and protection is not an option.... We as women don't need all men to value us, as every women is valuable regardless of her ethnicity, color, ideology or social class....we value ourselves......By the way, dark skin women are gorgeous ... Nothing wrong with them, so please choose your words carefully regarding talking about women .
he didnt critisize dark skin women ofc they are beautiful. and agree on what you said
Preach, and caramel and chocolate skins are beautiful in their own way 🔶✨
May Allah bless all of us with a pious spouse with whom we will be happy with. InshAllah.
Alhamdulillah, I am so happy that it is not a common practice in my culture to move in with your in-laws. When they are still in their 50s/60s, they are young enough to take care of themselves. When they become actually elderly, something can be arranged. Whether it is help in their own homes or making room in your house for them to move in. Never the other way around
Beautiful Lecture thanks
Masha allah... May Allah grant us righteous spouse. Aameen
Oh used Urdu language for a sentence....Love from Pakistan....Is he Pakistani?cz his accent is also like us.
Salaam he grow up in Pakistan..
🥺touches my spirit .
Currently I’m facing this situation in my life I don’t know what to do sometimes I want to get divorce from him but for my parents I’m enduring all the pain....Ya Allah help me get through this
May Allah bless us to get good spouse's
Thank you
O Allah...
I can relate I go through all this
There's so much marriages breaking up or causing problem but not due to the couple's themselves but their interfering families, it's the husband choosing his family against his wife n sadly that's how many relationships end, I have never experienced this myself from my in-laws alhamdulilah but having problems with my husband, I humbly request anyone reading this keep us in ur duas
لا اله الا الله محمد رسول الله ❤❤❤
I hate the whole idea of marriage now honestly, like there's nothing worse then being with someone who you trusted and gave yourself to and then finding out after marriage that they're treating you like shit, looking for other women instead & not respecting you. Honestly, I don't think marriage in this day and age is even worth it anymore, too much hypocrisy and double standards, just don't get married Lol🤷🏻
Or, don't get married quickly like many desperate women are doing. Marrying dusties and financing them for the next chick 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Alhamdulillah, Zazakallah, I really need this for me...
Feel so alone 😢💔
Make zikr, read tahajud, try and develop kushoo in salaah, inshAllah you will find more comfort in life.
It's not easy being a righteous man in Islam. May we all have the strength to set a good example. Ameen. When I hear people say Islam isn't fair on woman. Islam isn't the problem it's our cultures and actions in many cases which let us down. Woman blame men and men blame woman. It's so sad :(. Love everyone, be kind, and strive to follow the right path 🙏. Theirs a reason why marriage is half of your deen. It's hard work. (Salam to you if you are reading this) 💓.
Trusting men will put a women's life at risk
men actually cant blame women like women are the one getting abused all the time
**Those extreme feminists who point out Islam don't bring justice to woman just leave the chat**
Thank you mufti menk these days imsuffering dis only.
I think the speaker is Noman Ali Khan
Who is this guy, I want to follow him everywhere. He's great.
@Rania hashem
Nouman Ali Khan (Muslim speaker)
Well i think must be clear as a wife/Husband : Not to obey his/her parents but to respect them. People must understand this and Respect everyone not just her/his parents.
A man isn't worth the trouble. Trusting any men will put a women's life at risk. A husband isn't worth destroying my life over. I rather be alone for the rest of my life than be a slave to a man. That r nothing but a bunch of abusive monster.
No man can enslave you unless u allow them to and u choose a garbage man.
Keep making more videos
Love ur videos
Assalamwalaikum.. the couple should be like two eyes.. who always opens and watch d seen together.. if eyes cry also it cries together if eyes happy than it laugh with happy tears together.. so the couple always be together and should support each other and respect each others feelings. and specially respect ur wife bcoz she had came for u by leaving her own childhood home. so plz respect her..
Financial abuse is also there. When husband looks at the money his wife makes and wants to use the money. The money belongs to her, not to him. Many men wants their wife work for the sake of double income, not to fulfill her rights. They do it so that they can have their life easier. Ofc, wife can help, but it is optional for her, and all the money she earns it is HER choice on how to use it. Many times the husband fools their wife to get money from them. Bismillah.
In addition to this, sometimes husbands dont want to use money to give gifts or make his wife enjoy, but rather use the money to make himself happy.
Jazekellah khair, jazekallah khair jezakellah khair, jazekellah khair
What a beautiful video!
YA ALLLAAH! 💯
Wow!! SUBAHANALLAH
But what if i dont want to be protected? What if i dont want to be seen as fragile and emotional? I dont want to be inferior to men. I dont want to be weaker...
i got married to a person whom i luv d most..we have luv marriage...but suddenely he changed ...in his culture in laws shud treat there wife according to dem..its like im dere servant...its like my job to handle dem ...if they humiliate me den its ok ..if they insult me its ok..even in front of my husband....but he utters nothing...even i tried to speak wid him on dis...but he kept silence...not even in laws but his sisters, his uncle , his great grandma all tried dere way to push me down.
im feeling like empty, we dont hav kids..im not finiacially strong, nor my parents listen...cz i hav done luv marriage....what ill do???its so painful....many times i asked Allah for death...i feel im useless...what m i doing in dis duniya...just to listen crap things...even i fullfill all my duties...😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥
If every man follows the sharia and be righteous then the world would be a better place for women
Very good discussion .... But only one sided. An abusive wife also makes the family as hell. Love, trust, respect, care ...... Should be from both sides. If they are one sided .... It simply doesn't work. May Allah allows us to be respectful to each other.
It's always one side, all religious leaders are catering for their female audiences, tell them what they wanna hear and money will flow.