You can definitely tell this by the communication from the women on the show. Being a “stay at home mom” for a high value man is a full time job! It’s like managing a small business. They will definitely not have time to sit at home or “play” house.
It’s the women. They didn’t want to contribute to him and his channel while he was living. Now that he’s passed they’re flocking to his channel for guidance.
Word of mouth is the best advertisement, good or bad. One thing Kevin accomplished effortlessly was gaining attention. The more people talked about him the more traction his platform gained. Rip Godfather your words are still inspiring and changing lives.
@@shamakiooglesby6418 I just the people that interacted with him encouraged him to not chug so many red bulls, he probably would have still being alive. Unless he was k1ll3d for trying to fix the families.
@@moneroai Yeah man all those expensive restaurants loaded with salt and fats and meats and all those energy drinks.. at his age that is very risky behaviour. It just caught up to him imo, I don’t believe he was taken out by anyone.
when my daughter was ready to get married I made sure that she know how to buy groceries, keep a budget, keep a household and how to cook. I approved her husband, she got married at 24. She then went to HIS MOTHERS house and got recipes and trained on how HIS mother cooks for her son. He comes from a family of 9 brothers and sisters. He is a successful man, he already had a house for her when they got married and he just bought her a new SUV. I do not have to worry about her. I also taught her to take care of her man, never let him leave the house un satisfied. People need to talk directly to theor daghters and teache them how to be good wives.
Strict Christian parents: "You're too young to date, focus on finishing college." Also strict Christian parents: "You're 30. Why aren't you married already?" These woman start out the gate confused. 🤦🏽♂️
@House of Guards "their parents are telling them to be more judicious in what men they have relationships with in school" That's absolutely not what I saw them being told growing up, and it's not what I see them being told today. Literally what most of the women in my Catholic high school were told was "Do not date until you have a degree", and probably 50% of them actually obeyed until graduation. Judging by my experiences in college they usually crack by the second year and hop on the carousel. Overstrict parents, especially overstrict mothers, really screw daughters up badly because they don't trust their kids to be able to comprehend nuance at all.
@@utpalninjajedi 🤣 Agreed! I have some Punjabi and Trinidadian-born Indians in my extended family so I briefly see that side and...wow...those girls go through it. A date? Sure. Alone, no chaperone? Nope. Not even the 20 year old.
@Dark Warlock If you're talking people actually using the internet, you're looking at 15-20 years. If you're talking about apps, the first iphone was 2007, almost 14 years ago, and youtube was created 1 year before that. Even then, just reflecting on how we use social media, allot has changed in the past 5 years, let alone the past 10. So to add to your point, yeah, we've had basically 1-2 decades to catch up AT MOST. Rapid evolution, massive generational differences, and a huge disconnection from reality.
@@datanon3059 Exactly, my mom would also tell me I shouldn't even think about boys until I'm a doctor 😂 and remain a virgin and all that jazz. I remember asking her point blank "You don't want me dating until I'm done with medical school, but expected me to be married right after. How does that work, are you planning on putting me in an arranged marriage?" Needless to say, I lost the conviction to follow through in middle school but didn't have the means to keep it a secret if I started dating unlike now. Can't imagine how it would feel to actually go through with it and then be scolded for it and struggling in the danger zone. Though when they crack they can go crazy and hot girl summer, but they can also go conservative like Canada Dry girl.
I don’t recommended anyone staying in a unhappy/unsatisfied marriage just for the kids. Children are smart and pick up on everything. If anything you’re teaching them to put up with people who may treat them badly. It seems women are so desperate to keep a no good husband by any means that they’ll put their self respect on the back burner to hang on to him.
Kevin never says you need to be a 8, 9, or 10 to get a husband all he says is to be fit, feminine, friendly, and cooperative. It shouldn’t be this complex ladies
Lol Lol this man is on point! Fact they all say they want a beta male provider to be their pet wallets. None of them want to be an actual wife and do any work.
Some care way more about the wedding than the actual marriag, it's supposed to be the best day on a woman's life why? Is it bc all the attention they get that day? Show people all the money someone spent on them? And divorce 2years later...
@Melissa Oestreich haha.. Yes but there is a recognition upon some that maybe that a a skill they should learn.. If they can’t figure it out.. Then take what life gives you.
Unfortunately, the standard of a housewife has been determined by shows like the RHOA. That’s why we keep hearing these delusional expectations from the callers.
As a woman who watches that show, you are spot on. People look at Nene Leakes and think "damn, she was a stripper who found a rich man to save her...."
It’s called dating until their is a marriage proposal. In some cultures/religions their isn’t boyfriend and girlfriend because that’s not a real status. Sort of like when people say they’re single until they’re married. If someone is your boyfriend you can’t visit him in hospital in critical condition because a girlfriend isn’t next of kin. If he passes the girlfriend gets nothing etc. That’s why her father doesn’t want her to have a boyfriend because that’s basically free sex without her getting the benefit of provision, protection etc.
Here in America few men want to date unless they're getting their physical needs met. There is little dating for marriage especially among people under 30.
We need to do better as people who call themselves Christian. I used to subscribe to the nonsense of this world but since being saved the LORD has renewed me internally. Honestly, “boyfriend and girlfriend,” that’s man-made nonsense, God doesn’t recognise that. There’s no where in the bible where you’ll find girlfriend and boyfriend, it’s Husband and Wife. Millions and millions of people who aren’t married are doing married people stuff and it’s wrong hence a lot of the problems they face and the countless abortions and children born out of wedlock.
Ladies who want marriage and children... listen up👂 Stop wasting so much time trying to live your best life and figure out how to become a mans best wife. You can do both simultaneously
@@kevinlee9929 that’s fine. I’m married and don’t care about hurting anyone’s feelings with honesty; especially if any of them claim to be Christian women.
@@K_Marie79 Ma’am that is me, I’m currently in college but when I get out I want to prioritize a relationship with a career. I think one of the problem’s nowadays a lot of people are not willing to put in effort into a relationship and being a good partner. People don’t have balance anymore.
@@pjludda4323 My son, pay attention to my wisdom, turn your ear to my words of insight, 2 that you may maintain discretion and your lips may preserve knowledge. 3 For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; 4 but in the end she is bitter as gall, sharp as a double-edged sword. 5 Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave. 6 She gives no thought to the way of life; her paths wander aimlessly, but she does not know it. 7 Now then, my sons, listen to me; do not turn aside from what I say. 8 Keep to a path far from her, do not go near the door of her house, 9 lest you lose your honor to others and your dignity[a] to one who is cruel, 10 lest strangers feast on your wealth and your toil enrich the house of another. 11 At the end of your life you will groan, when your flesh and body are spent. 12 You will say, “How I hated discipline!
My wife married me at 19 without a job after our love developed through dating and paid for the ring and the wedding. Why? I told her my goals. 21 years later she is a housewife, we have 2 kids, and living in a large house with all she needs to be happy. She treats me like a king, and she is my queen. We still date to this day, celebrate the wins, and work on the fails. Set goals together and teach our kids about life. Women these days do not look for a potential and long term, they look for a quick fix, and when they get a quick fix they complain.
@@keishapuryear8180 During that time I was drawing art on people's clothes, I used to make a lot of money by painting females nails with scorpion and birds. I was an art graduate at that age, but eventually became a Graphic Designer and now I am a small business owner, and also work for the government.
@@AcheliusDecimus your story is a perfect example of parlayjng skills into a viable income, working together and allowing room for growth. I commend you and your wife for valuing and holding on to what you have at home.
@@keishapuryear8180 Thanks for asking, and thanks for responding. We are very happy, and our two children are also very happy with us as parents. We managed to attain a comfortable life as we both communicate and spend money as wise as possible. Debt free, and our kids futures are secure. It takes a lot of communication and WE concept, and removing the ME concept.
@@AcheliusDecimus I agree. We raised 2 happy children. It wasn't without challenges and unexpected costs but WE had goals for them and didn't allow anything to deter us. Now we'll soon be empty nesters so we have to figure out what we're doing next
I’m glad Kevin decided to skip the Derrick Jaxn topic. That was very big of him. Too many content creators have no regard(s) for facts while in pursuit of “likes” and views. “We hungry - but we ain’t starving” is the best motto.
@@sugarsweet196 You still have a high value if you make a high income. Money talks. Honesty and loyalty never paid the bills. Look at how most of the fortunes in this country were made. Look at the economy and how it functions. Look at the wars that are waged and have been. Look at the victors in history. Tell me where there was honesty and loyalty? Its few and far between. Not saying that I don't value honesty and loyalty, but we don't glorify the trappers and scammers, or the wolfs of wall street for nothing. You gotta do what you gotta do to make it, loyalty and honesty aren't always a part of that. By your definition, the majority of high income men aren't high value. I disagree personally. Canis canem edit - Dog eat dog.
@@ViolentMLG facts, women think being HVM revolves around how you cater to women and it doesn’t lol. Just cuz you don’t wanna stick to one woman doesn’t make you non high value 😂😂kings and conquerors all throughout history have had multiple women..I guess that made them non-high value too🙄. If honesty and loyalty truly mattered the dating scene would look way different
The toxic lawyer threw me for a loop. I literally said “it can’t possibly get worse than that broad” & than the damn PhD lady who wants 6 kids said “hold my beer”
I wasn’t raised to be a housewife at all. My mother in law (who Is Filipino ) actually taught me how to be a wife to my husband. I’m very thankful for that. We’ve been married 8 years now and I’m a stay at home mom who does real estate on the side. 😄
Run and tell everyone you know, we have to end the myth that housewives are just slaves to men! Keep bragging about it to these corporate women who think you’re beneath them. God bless
Because it forces many of them to come to terms about who they really are & they don't want to face it. Remember a couple of back when he told the "I'm going to adopt kids" chick the truth, she almost cried.
Always remember fellas Tyrone , chad , brad, athletes, wanna be rappers, the bum across the street and etc didn’t need to be high value to put a baby in them .
Many women - "I am not going to be submissive or a slave to my husband even though I require him to pay the mortgage, all dinners, vacations, valentine/anniversaries/Christmas/birthdays." Also many women - "I prioritize getting a job where I have to work 8-12 hours a day, follow corporate rules/guidelines, for the next 30-40 years...that is independence and freedom."
I want to see a video on ladies asking about how to get an average man because I’m an average woman. I want a plumber/electrician/ fire fighter I don’t understand how women are saying they would be “settling”.
Yes please. I love my 'average' husband. The type of guy I like (who I'm lucky to be with) is an actual grafter I love a hard working man. And man in a physical job. I think the basics are the same though hunni. Fit friendly and femanine. Be his home. Know that it's work. And be will to work. And know that we ladies don't bring to the table, we build the table we use what is provided for us to make bigger and better for our families. And as the available resources grow we build a bigger table. You'll get there hunni. Educate your self in home management there are plenty or resources out there. Learn how to run a home and everything that comes with it. Men truely are simple people of habit. Listen to and think back to your grandparents. Warm comfy home watch the purse strings so ur not dragging your home into debt. Food available. Watch him (to see where u can help.... His drinks low fill it. Said his back hurt rub it etc..) and for god sake make time in ur life to be intimate with him. It's not hard. We've realy made life harder for ourselves than it needs to be xx
I think only women who aspire to real housewives lifestyle are looking for that. They don't realize how scarce those men are nor how difficult that lifestyle may be if that man chooses to exercise his options
I think a lot of us women can learn something from the Nigerian woman. Being passive agressive, is very off putting. I don't ever want to give off this type of attitude. I'll be more mindful of how I speak and respond to people in the future.
@A C my response had nothing to do with a man. It was a focus on self-care without going into debt or making a 2-4 year commitment. Him “cheating” has nothing to do with your improvement on becoming a better woman. Better yet it may be a time to go get some counseling instead of another degree to avoid spewing toxicity.
@A C not a KS “fan”, but there is some truth in his content. I’m American...however I live in Berlin, Germany. I have degrees but feel being feel being fit, cooperative, friendly is equally important. I wish you nothing but that best and hope you have a great day. :-)
Thanks Kevin for keeping everything real with us. You don't seem like the grifter type and try to bombard us with products. you are doing the best thing for men and women. Having both sides listen and observe. All that is left is to put it in action. That is all that dating comes down to when it is just a man and a woman. Thanks for never bs'ing us with bogus products and "online courses." This truly is the only place on youtube where we get genuine advice without the shady sales. You are not only helping men, but women too. Bless brah.
My friend married a high value man ($400k+ a year). While it was not her original plan, after giving birth she decided that she would not go back to work, because she realized that she could not entrust the families future (their children) with anyone but themselves. When you enter the upper echelon of the top 10% of households in the WORLD, you suddenly realize how important it is to stay there, not just for duration of your life, but for your children’s lives too. Your not just a “house wife”, but rather the first teacher, the first steward, the first lady, and the first guardian of the families future. It’s not something to be taken lightly and certainly not something to look down upon.
I am currently a house wife. I keep house, cook, garden, and care for the animals. My children are young adults, so their independent. I did work when I met my husband and through the first 18 years of marriage. I still cooked at least 3 times a week, cleaned house, and paid for child care. I didn't garden back then. Neither then or now did I ever feel like a SLAVE. My hubby did a little more around the house before I stopped working to continue my education. Now I believe he shouldn't have to do as much since he is carrying majority of the load. I still make side money doing hair and body sculpting. I still contribute but not as much. I love your show. The women who are arguing with you are not listening. They are waiting to speak. They have taken the facts and statistics personally and it has plugged their ears. I did make the mistake of advising my girls to have fun while they are young without taking into account that they might want families. I never took into account the info you are sharing from the male perspective. I never meant to ill-advise and plan to share your show with them. I have always taught my children to recognize the truth when they hear it. I definitely hear truth in the message you are sharing. Thank you.
Love your story and that you're now questioning what you taught your girls. I'm curious why you told them to have fun and reserve getting serious for the future. I suspect it's similar to what I was taught and told my son. When you're young you have no idea what can sustain a relationship long term nor what you really need. Even if you do there are few young people who are ready for commitment. Thus we were told that to protect us.
@@keishapuryear8180 I advised that way because I married before seeing any part of the world. I jumped into a ready made family at 20 and we were not traveling or being adventurous and I believe diverse experiences would build better humans. I don't think it was wrong teaching but I regret it was incomplete. I should have talked about being prepared for when the right one comes along while they are enjoying life and having adventures. I should have talked about being open to receiving someone who may come around before their older and ready to settle down. There is so much more, now that I'm older and more knowledgeable but hindsight is 20/20
@@chandrasmith4722 I understand your viewpoints and I don't think it's too late to have those conversations with your girls especially if they want marriage and children. As long as we're willing we can always recalibrate. It's true men are returning to traditional beliefs about marriage likely because they've tried it the modern way and the women have unrealistic expectations of them.
@@chandrasmith4722 we also encouraged our daughter not to seek out marriage too young. We want her to get her education and career path but be open to growing with her person should she find him earlier. It's likely getting married really young won't work for her career path unless she finds a man on the same track who doesn't see her goals as unnecessary. She wants to be a doctor, Ortho surgery.
@@heatherwild2627 No one said men can't be. But the topic is women who want a traditional man. A man working 80 hours a week aint coming home to cook and clean
@@almorales7715 I've never heard of a woman who wants a "traditional" man. When I think. "traditional" man I think a sexist man who thinks women are his servants and that women are always below men and shouldn't have jobs, and should always stay at home to cook and clean. AKA this guy
I'm 31, want 6 kids and he needs to be a millionaire lol. I'm much younger and don't even want a millionaire just a great kitchen and somewhere I can plant and I'm Gucci. If delusional was a person.😂😂😂😂
Juwan Johnson an NFL player, and his wife posted videos of her cooking and cleaning. The responses from some bw that she is the maid tells you these women ain't about that life.
That's a stereotype that we don't need. Of course we cook and clean. Men don't do it so we have to do it? Why is that the most important thing a woman brings to the table? Post a video of what you do for a woman as a man. And then I'll criticize it just like you criticized the women who rejected that stereotype.
@@AllThingsSoul About the cleaning, on average, men are less bothered by messiness than women, so in a random relationship, women are just much more likely to get fed up with messy/filthy surroundings enough to do something about it sooner. Doesn't mean that every man is less bothered than every woman, just that if you take random two from those populations, the female is more likely to be the one with less tolerance towards untidiness and thus more likely to do something about it.
@@AllThingsSoul Who said it was the most important thing a woman brings to the table? If a woman wants to be a housewife and have the privilege of a HVM providing for her, then damn straight she's going to be cooking and cleaning.
Our females don’t think we deserve that treatment. Bc they do act totally different with other races. J Dupri couldn’t keep Janet Jackson from performing and tell her what to wear but that Middle East dude did that and more
Life Soul Centered That not true. Can’t say don’t do it but it plenty of single men and they have to cook and clean for themselves. Use the advice woman give men: Choose better.
I am a 25 year old stay at home mom of 1. My husband and I have been together for 9 years. My grandmother is 89 and my mom is 66 . I Do agree that you have to be raised that way to be able deal with all the responsibilities that come with it.
@yafaiak fam, relationship channels are the 3rd most popular on TH-cam. You really don’t need to study anything to grow 😂. Not to mention, the most popular channels in this category have crappy presentations. This is light work!
Ah my mgtow brother we both know that they didn’t choose shit. They are panicking about the decline in male attention as the years tick on by but they cannot show it or else she’s a desperate woman.
@@turdferguson5847 I am old af according to your standards (approaching 40) and I get tonnes of attention from... 50/60 y/o guys hehe. Sometimes younger guys also but to be fair I don't look for rich ppl because I don't meet them often anyways. So there is still hope for us old women...now I am in Europe so maybe it's different
@@KoolKumasi facts and them west indies chicks too from nyc to nj. Trust me. Once they move this 1st world country they act like white supremacists out here smh
This show proved one thing the sheer amount of below average wife material women that are UNFIT and unqualified for an AVERAGE man let alone high value man sad
@az_koala a 42k brother that needs a working partner and helper.... rest are variables fit feminine friendly and co operative i'd actually take a 5/10 in looks if she just learns to listen with her ears and shuts up. Got better things to do that to constantly bicker about trash small things instead of moving forward
@@alp.9672 I'm Nigerian but live in America. Lol. I'm seeing how easily finances are what people divorce for and my mind is blown. Finances change overtime so it is hard for me grasping the level of importance and refusal to figure things out during the hardship phase.
The divorce laws is the biggest reason men won t marry. The liability is mostly all on the man. Women are actually financially incentivized to get divorced. Women file for almost 80% of divorces. If those laws would change to be more fair to men...then marraige rates would go up and make sense.
@@izu874 I think the problem is that men often go all out in the beginning to impress undeserving women and then wonder why they keep ending up with gold diggers! My husband never spent a dime on me when we first got together because he didn’t have to. I’m very spoiled now, but in the beginning I asked for nothing because I only wanted him. Now, I constantly see his friends date women that are “boss chicks” who think they’re owed the world, but can’t do anything to support their man. So I now also tell my husbands friends that they need to start dating women that will meet them at the beach to enjoy a homemade sandwich and a glass of sparkling water or wine and be satisfied that the man even tried to make them a sandwich! If a woman can’t appreciate the little things, she doesn’t deserve the big things a man can provide. This way of thinking can help men avoid expensive divorces or being with women that will only ruin his finances.
Modern Women: "God, where have all the high value men gone?" God: "I sent you one but you rejected him, chose a bad boy then gained more weight than Megatron"
Kevin is soooo right when he calls out these nurses. My ex was a nurse and this was her . Spoiled , entitled , combative and masculine after she became an RN. The nurses who were her friends were the same way..
All nurses are masculine and snarky no matter what they look like. With maybe one exception. Neo natal nurses. Since they care for kids. I learned to not ever date nurses at all. There’s no polarity and no peace with them
I'm going in the army to be a nurse/medic 😅 promise we're not all insane. I'm only going in there because I understand the era we're about to enter, and you have to get into a field that's skill based and highly paid
When Kevin brought up the idea of a Wife Academy, I instinctively reached for my wallet. I would THROW money at a business built around my need of a feminine woman.
The woman who wanted the 1 million dollar man is crazy. Kevin almost made me crash my car, when she said I’ve done therapy and he said go back. 💀💀💀💀. Why would a man that makes a million want her. 🤷🏾♂️
Dawg!, That 31 year old women is what happens when attractive to above attractive women live in there “OWN WORLD” wayyy to long!! Smdh. I hope she really is in therapy.
Met my boyfriend when he was down bad at 25 & 27 he had no car bad, but had iron work as a trade- now we own a company based in a major city and are getting engaged. Ladies yall ALL need to wake up
I stay fit working out once a day every day. Twice a day would be overkill for me. But maybe he just meant twice a day until she gets in shape. Once a day could definitely maintain it afterwards.
I love when Kevin repeats back to the woman her “dreams” or what’s she “really wants” in man , so she can stop for a second and really try & hear how stupid she sounds lol
The amount of excuses people have for working out. When I was in the army I’d do exercise with my unit at 6:00am. Work from 8:00am to 6:00pm. At lunch I’d hit the weights with a friend. After work I’d eat dinner and work out again at 8:00pm. That’s 3 times a day 3 days a week and 2 times a day 2 times a week working out. These women work 8 hours days and work out zero times a week complaining they have no time 🤦♂️.
I've been a housewife and stay-at-home mom of two children for 10 years. My husband not only thought I was worthy but most importantly showed me in his actions. I don't know if 40 years old is considered modern by most but I'm college-educated as well. As my children are getting older, I'll focus more on real estate. The courses aren't financially taxing like a college education but the rewards are great and its a great business to hand down to your children. Everything we do is rooted in legacy. Ultimately, I support everything my husband does and have never regretted it. We make a great team with our traditional dynamic. He's an excellent leader; alpha male. I understand he's rare and that's what makes it effortless to appreciate and respect it. I'm so glad I refused to listen to the many older Black women that told me not to be a housewife. Thank you Kevin: It is hard work! Many don't know what housewives do. People always ask me, "Whst do you do all day?" I don't have a home tutor, driver, maid and/ or private chef. This house isn't self cleaning. The meals don't cook themselves. The children don't have driver's licenses. And they definitely become AP Honors without me. I also don't have a landscaper, I do it because I love doing it! I just make it APPEAR effortless.
I remember reading the article about the Indian lady who was the CEO of Pepsi. She said her own mom cussed her out and reminded her that she is first a wife and mom.
@@deemays12 I can find it if I look hard enough. I think it was in Newsweek or Times magazine about ten years ago when the Indian lady became the CEO of Coke. It was a big deal because she was their first female CEO
She did a live interview about it. She did get real, and she did tell women you cant have it all and her daughters didn't like her to much cause of her career
So true, ladies dont be scared of older men(lmao well maybe some). my husband is 12 years older than me and I wouldnt have it any other way. I feel like I dodged so many heart breaks and games by getting with an older man straight away. Also learning to wife takes time so start asap, there is many online communities for women who want to learn to be good wives if you dont know anyone personally, i started to learn around 20, and im still training myself at 23. Start now. Decide what you want in life, if youre in your early 20s, its the perfect time for you to find a good provider man...dont waste time having hot girl 20s or working on a degree for something you dont want to do... dont waste your most beautiful years... just my opinion,
I’m in disbelief the last caller said “$1M” for the next man she is looking to date.. when the last man she dated was no where near making that much.... 🤦🏾♂️
@@rodneydunn8196 it's because they don't understand men and don't want to. That's what they want in a man and think that's what a man wants of them and they were told they can have it all
TH-cam counts views by how many times your video gets clicks and by how many impressions. So, it could be 20k people clicking in and out of the video..all those clicks count as views. Just giving your some perspective.
@@sobc2737 that's not true. I think it has to be a certain amount of time before it registers as a view. He just gets more views quicker when he uploads at a time that people in USA AND Europe are awake at the same time When he upload night shows the views are slower because we in Europe are sleeping
@@Bayo106 I have a TH-cam channel, I know how this works. To be specific, TH-cam will count up to a certain amount you come in and out or how many times you watch the video. For example, I personally watch Kevin's video once during the live and a couple of times through out the day after. TH-cam will count (up to a certain amount that they don't disclose) each time I click on the video and watch it for 30 or more seconds as a view.
i used to think my mom was strange for tryina teach me how to cook when i couldn’t even reach the stove yet. The first time i had to cook a meal for my family of 5 i didn’t think i could do eht but she called me and calmly told me i already knew what to do (i was 12 at this point) - i cooked the meal effortlessly even tho i was anxious at first. My hands just flowed and i felt one with the wombmen before me. I felt highhhh honestly lmao i remember telling my friends at school and they were disgusted that i felt so good about cooking 😭😭😭 from that moment forward i definitely downplayed and worked my way up to not speaking on my domestic training. I was embarrassed honestly. Even tho eht felt good i was shy about eht. I wish i wasn’t tho... i wish i had more courage because i think i aided in this whole ordeal. I’m only NOW at this big age tryina help wombmen get right in that department.
This guy is insanely addictive. Barely 100k subs in august. Average at best drops 7 months later he’s over 600 K 🤯 Ladies go back 3 years ago it’s in his catalog, he use to give it to men just as straightforward with no hesitation
@@frivolousarguments8578 because the pretty girls too busy getting the men or at the very least being the side piece to one to be having time to call in
@@hofAMVS Yes!!! Girly girls that have some kinda fitness get noticed before those that aren't. Then will figure out or do our best to figure out the level of crazy afterwards.
I never said I wanted that... I also never said I wanted to be a stay at home mom.. In fact I made it clear that I don't when he asked....I make over 100k... My man literally only Needs To be making 50-60k..but did you notice how the original question wasn't even about me... He asked do you think they can choose to be one and my answer was yes... But he turned it about me
@House of Guards no I was trying to correct his assumptions and keep the conversation focused on the question he asked... Hense why I kept saying so back to the question you asked...
I’m a genXer and my high school didn’t have home economics. Instead, they had something called Singles Living. I remember thinking it was a peculiar shift but now the idea (combined with the marketing of our generation) has taken on a more ominous tone.
The wounded women's currency which wounded men will provide - while both think their "success" with the opposite sex has something to do with their personal worth instead of it being a replay of childhood traumas and dramas.
The Nigeria woman just made a fool of herself. She said she has one kid without a man and turn to say who says I don't have a high value man,simply contradicting herself.
I never said I didn't have a man🤷🏾♀️... He never asked if I had a man... He asked if I was currently married to a HVM... To which I said no..not currently.. I have a child because I was married.... Marriage came first.. And naturally a baby came second... So I'm sorry how did I contradict myself (genuine question) . Perhaps I missed something.
@@burningwolf5805 a very big shame if she is in Nigeria she will be the object of ridicule if she opened her womb to a man without him wifing her up,such cases of a woman getting pregnant out of wedlock is usually covered up by immediately giving her out for marriage and the man that impregnated her has to marry her
@@Prime.Emperor.Victor interesting how you skipped over me saying I was married to the father of my child.... Marriage came first... Baby second.... But carry on
@@naijaempress6700 u have given birth is the case whether you were married or not makes no difference,no one owes anyone any understanding and certainly not men with options.i hope you understand even if you were married ur womb has been given up and u must understand that in this modern period women make a profit from leaving their husband that any man with something that hears that shit will quickly assume that ur one of them no one is ur father, mother or relation,most people don't have to say ohh!! what's her story in this period where baby Mama's are rampant just find a regular dude like the rest of the Nigerians,what ticked me off was that ur a Nigerian getting influenced by Western society knowing full well that we don't roll that way or engage in this type of talk we value ourselves, marriages and traditional values before in some cases the money I HOPE U UNDERSTAND MY SISTA
Men want women who are: 1. BEAUTIFUL 2. FIT 3. SUBMISSIVE 4. COOPERATIVE I would even say some high value men, especially athletes, are happy to cede on the beautiful criterion as long as you are reasonably fit and look after your appearance, submissive and cooperative.
Kevin should build an empire. Image consulting, personal trainers, therapists, life coaches, marriage coaches, femininity coaches, masculinity coaches, business coaches etc.
I think a lot of women want to have a wedding, not a marriage. Being a wife and a mother is hard work. It is not for the faint at heart!
Truer words have never been spoken, they are only after the Disney wedding, marriage is an after thought
They just like the title and showtime when the event invites start rolling in
Amen
That sad for something that women have done for centuries
You can definitely tell this by the communication from the women on the show. Being a “stay at home mom” for a high value man is a full time job! It’s like managing a small business. They will definitely not have time to sit at home or “play” house.
This mans channel has grown over 500k subs in less than a year after his passing. Never seen anything like it. His message will never die. RIP!
It’s the women. They didn’t want to contribute to him and his channel while he was living. Now that he’s passed they’re flocking to his channel for guidance.
Word of mouth is the best advertisement, good or bad. One thing Kevin accomplished effortlessly was gaining attention. The more people talked about him the more traction his platform gained. Rip Godfather your words are still inspiring and changing lives.
@@shamakiooglesby6418 I just the people that interacted with him encouraged him to not chug so many red bulls, he probably would have still being alive. Unless he was k1ll3d for trying to fix the families.
@@moneroai
Yeah man all those expensive restaurants loaded with salt and fats and meats and all those energy drinks.. at his age that is very risky behaviour. It just caught up to him imo, I don’t believe he was taken out by anyone.
Wow, Exactly 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯
when my daughter was ready to get married I made sure that she know how to buy groceries, keep a budget, keep a household and how to cook. I approved her husband, she got married at 24. She then went to HIS MOTHERS house and got recipes and trained on how HIS mother cooks for her son. He comes from a family of 9 brothers and sisters. He is a successful man, he already had a house for her when they got married and he just bought her a new SUV. I do not have to worry about her. I also taught her to take care of her man, never let him leave the house un satisfied. People need to talk directly to theor daghters and teache them how to be good wives.
Your last name says it all📈
you gave your daughter what she needed to be a wife thank you for making her valuable for her husband...
Big bro...I APPRECIATE YOU SHARING...I'm on it. Excellent work good brother excellent.
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Support ✌🏾👊🏽
I remember when Kevin was at 60k and now he’s at 601k. Much success, brotha.
The dude was at 25-40k yesterday to me
I do as well, its been an incredible ride and I am so happy to see him succeed.
Word been watching for a year
602k 🧨
He was at 30k getting 3k watching his lives when I ran across him
Strict Christian parents: "You're too young to date, focus on finishing college."
Also strict Christian parents: "You're 30. Why aren't you married already?"
These woman start out the gate confused. 🤦🏽♂️
@House of Guards "their parents are telling them to be more judicious in what men they have relationships with in school"
That's absolutely not what I saw them being told growing up, and it's not what I see them being told today. Literally what most of the women in my Catholic high school were told was "Do not date until you have a degree", and probably 50% of them actually obeyed until graduation. Judging by my experiences in college they usually crack by the second year and hop on the carousel. Overstrict parents, especially overstrict mothers, really screw daughters up badly because they don't trust their kids to be able to comprehend nuance at all.
Omg this is so truuueee
@@utpalninjajedi 🤣 Agreed! I have some Punjabi and Trinidadian-born Indians in my extended family so I briefly see that side and...wow...those girls go through it. A date? Sure. Alone, no chaperone? Nope. Not even the 20 year old.
@Dark Warlock If you're talking people actually using the internet, you're looking at 15-20 years. If you're talking about apps, the first iphone was 2007, almost 14 years ago, and youtube was created 1 year before that.
Even then, just reflecting on how we use social media, allot has changed in the past 5 years, let alone the past 10.
So to add to your point, yeah, we've had basically 1-2 decades to catch up AT MOST. Rapid evolution, massive generational differences, and a huge disconnection from reality.
@@datanon3059 Exactly, my mom would also tell me I shouldn't even think about boys until I'm a doctor 😂 and remain a virgin and all that jazz. I remember asking her point blank "You don't want me dating until I'm done with medical school, but expected me to be married right after. How does that work, are you planning on putting me in an arranged marriage?"
Needless to say, I lost the conviction to follow through in middle school but didn't have the means to keep it a secret if I started dating unlike now. Can't imagine how it would feel to actually go through with it and then be scolded for it and struggling in the danger zone. Though when they crack they can go crazy and hot girl summer, but they can also go conservative like Canada Dry girl.
"I want to raise my kids with two parents." Now that's one of the most refreshing statements from a caller.
@EIM The world needs more loving and selfless mothers like you. Your children (and husband) are lucky. All the best to you.
I don’t recommended anyone staying in a unhappy/unsatisfied marriage just for the kids. Children are smart and pick up on everything. If anything you’re teaching them to put up with people who may treat them badly. It seems women are so desperate to keep a no good husband by any means that they’ll put their self respect on the back burner to hang on to him.
That’s not refreshing that’s normal
Kevin never says you need to be a 8, 9, or 10 to get a husband all he says is to be fit, feminine, friendly, and cooperative. It shouldn’t be this complex ladies
I have plenty of fat friends that are married. And plenty of slim women getting cheated on.
@@mscourt
Getting married to who though?
@@mscourt have you verified that the fat ones are not being cheated on?. Do you find the husbands of the fat ones attractive
@House of Guards generally, men cheat. So what does that mean...a woman should give up waiting to meet a faithful man?
@@mscourt instead of just accepting it, here comes the horror stories and the argumentative behavior.. lol you cannot make this shxt up.
They don't say they want to be a wife, they only say they want to be married. Pay attention!!
Interesting ‼️🤔
Or sometime they won't say either and just say "he better put a ring on it or I don't see a ring on my finger"
Lol Lol this man is on point! Fact they all say they want a beta male provider to be their pet wallets. None of them want to be an actual wife and do any work.
Some care way more about the wedding than the actual marriag, it's supposed to be the best day on a woman's life why?
Is it bc all the attention they get that day? Show people all the money someone spent on them?
And divorce 2years later...
@@TheChocolateChamp They want a slave to provide but don't just the fact to be a housewife give them the impression of being a slave what a logic...
Home Economics & Cookbooks are okay...but getting in the kitchen with mama & grandmama...priceless!
@Melissa Oestreich haha.. Yes but there is a recognition upon some that maybe that a a skill they should learn.. If they can’t figure it out.. Then take what life gives you.
Only if your momma n grandma can cook ☠️mine can’t so im taught myself lollz
Unfortunately, the standard of a housewife has been determined by shows like the RHOA. That’s why we keep hearing these delusional expectations from the callers.
Unfortunately you are correct
As a woman who watches that show, you are spot on. People look at Nene Leakes and think "damn, she was a stripper who found a rich man to save her...."
Exactly!!
I've said that several times these housewives shows got women completely delusional
@Rudy The Red Pill Beta Real Housewives of Atlanta
"Men will go down in looks to go up in cooperativeness and niceness" - KS
Yep. Even a good looking nag is a nag.
Agree 100%
Straight facts!
Women don’t realize a bad attitude can make a man have permanent Ed towards you
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It’s called dating until their is a marriage proposal. In some cultures/religions their isn’t boyfriend and girlfriend because that’s not a real status. Sort of like when people say they’re single until they’re married. If someone is your boyfriend you can’t visit him in hospital in critical condition because a girlfriend isn’t next of kin. If he passes the girlfriend gets nothing etc. That’s why her father doesn’t want her to have a boyfriend because that’s basically free sex without her getting the benefit of provision, protection etc.
Say it LOUDER this needs to become a solid part of American culture.
Yup no dating in Islam. Thank God we don't face any heartbreaks or hot girl summer type things b4 marriage. Stay safe yall
Here in America few men want to date unless they're getting their physical needs met. There is little dating for marriage especially among people under 30.
That only works if the woman is a virgin. If she’s not a virgin there’s no sense buying something (marriage) that someone else got for free.
We need to do better as people who call themselves Christian. I used to subscribe to the nonsense of this world but since being saved the LORD has renewed me internally. Honestly, “boyfriend and girlfriend,” that’s man-made nonsense, God doesn’t recognise that. There’s no where in the bible where you’ll find girlfriend and boyfriend, it’s Husband and Wife. Millions and millions of people who aren’t married are doing married people stuff and it’s wrong hence a lot of the problems they face and the countless abortions and children born out of wedlock.
Ladies who want marriage and children... listen up👂
Stop wasting so much time trying to live your best life and figure out how to become a mans best wife.
You can do both simultaneously
They're going to come for you. Lol
@@kevinlee9929 that’s fine. I’m married and don’t care about hurting anyone’s feelings with honesty; especially if any of them claim to be Christian women.
@@K_Marie79 Married!? That makes it even worse! 😂
They are gonna call you a "Pick Me"....but then again you've been "Picked" and they've been "Picked Over "....🙂🙂🙂🙂
@@K_Marie79 Ma’am that is me, I’m currently in college but when I get out I want to prioritize a relationship with a career. I think one of the problem’s nowadays a lot of people are not willing to put in effort into a relationship and being a good partner. People don’t have balance anymore.
Why don’t women realize that the fake voices they put on are ANNOYING AS HELL?
@ROSCOE JENKINS but my point is that it’s annoying initially...
@ROSCOE JENKINS Proverbs 5:3-4...Damn, the Bible was like a Red Pill book on women, ain't it?
@@pjludda4323 My son, pay attention to my wisdom,
turn your ear to my words of insight,
2 that you may maintain discretion
and your lips may preserve knowledge.
3 For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey,
and her speech is smoother than oil;
4 but in the end she is bitter as gall,
sharp as a double-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death;
her steps lead straight to the grave.
6 She gives no thought to the way of life;
her paths wander aimlessly, but she does not know it.
7 Now then, my sons, listen to me;
do not turn aside from what I say.
8 Keep to a path far from her,
do not go near the door of her house,
9 lest you lose your honor to others
and your dignity[a] to one who is cruel,
10 lest strangers feast on your wealth
and your toil enrich the house of another.
11 At the end of your life you will groan,
when your flesh and body are spent.
12 You will say, “How I hated discipline!
@@mojojojoblackbro8388 Amen!
@@tedwardedits especially them ones with deep voice trynna sound feminine. 😂🤣🤣im like damn gurl nooo.
My wife married me at 19 without a job after our love developed through dating and paid for the ring and the wedding. Why? I told her my goals. 21 years later she is a housewife, we have 2 kids, and living in a large house with all she needs to be happy. She treats me like a king, and she is my queen. We still date to this day, celebrate the wins, and work on the fails. Set goals together and teach our kids about life. Women these days do not look for a potential and long term, they look for a quick fix, and when they get a quick fix they complain.
You should share with the viewers how you supported a wife at 19 with no job. Perhaps they will accept the reality of couples first starting out
@@keishapuryear8180 During that time I was drawing art on people's clothes, I used to make a lot of money by painting females nails with scorpion and birds. I was an art graduate at that age, but eventually became a Graphic Designer and now I am a small business owner, and also work for the government.
@@AcheliusDecimus your story is a perfect example of parlayjng skills into a viable income, working together and allowing room for growth. I commend you and your wife for valuing and holding on to what you have at home.
@@keishapuryear8180 Thanks for asking, and thanks for responding. We are very happy, and our two children are also very happy with us as parents. We managed to attain a comfortable life as we both communicate and spend money as wise as possible. Debt free, and our kids futures are secure. It takes a lot of communication and WE concept, and removing the ME concept.
@@AcheliusDecimus I agree. We raised 2 happy children. It wasn't without challenges and unexpected costs but WE had goals for them and didn't allow anything to deter us. Now we'll soon be empty nesters so we have to figure out what we're doing next
I’m glad Kevin decided to skip the Derrick Jaxn topic. That was very big of him. Too many content creators have no regard(s) for facts while in pursuit of “likes” and views. “We hungry - but we ain’t starving” is the best motto.
@@sugarsweet196 Derrick Simpson was never high value. High earning yes. High value no.
I believe hes doing that tomorrow
@@sugarsweet196 You still have a high value if you make a high income. Money talks. Honesty and loyalty never paid the bills.
Look at how most of the fortunes in this country were made. Look at the economy and how it functions. Look at the wars that are waged and have been. Look at the victors in history. Tell me where there was honesty and loyalty? Its few and far between.
Not saying that I don't value honesty and loyalty, but we don't glorify the trappers and scammers, or the wolfs of wall street for nothing.
You gotta do what you gotta do to make it, loyalty and honesty aren't always a part of that. By your definition, the majority of high income men aren't high value.
I disagree personally.
Canis canem edit - Dog eat dog.
@@ViolentMLG facts, women think being HVM revolves around how you cater to women and it doesn’t lol. Just cuz you don’t wanna stick to one woman doesn’t make you non high value 😂😂kings and conquerors all throughout history have had multiple women..I guess that made them non-high value too🙄. If honesty and loyalty truly mattered the dating scene would look way different
Because he's a man with class
If “you can’t make this sh!t up” were a show.
The toxic lawyer threw me for a loop. I literally said “it can’t possibly get worse than that broad” & than the damn PhD lady who wants 6 kids said “hold my beer”
@@olaakande5581 😂🍾😂
It could be a weekly episode and make a series out of it. The best of the week lol.
"2 ears 1 mouth, listen twice as much as u speak" best advice I was ever given
@@marcusmajors6196 🤜🏾💯🤛🏾
I wasn’t raised to be a housewife at all. My mother in law (who Is Filipino ) actually taught me how to be a wife to my husband. I’m very thankful for that. We’ve been married 8 years now and I’m a stay at home mom who does real estate on the side. 😄
Living the life sis 🤩
So proud and happy for you Zara
What did she teach you? Share with the ladies what it means to be a wife.
Run and tell everyone you know, we have to end the myth that housewives are just slaves to men! Keep bragging about it to these corporate women who think you’re beneath them. God bless
This is the way! Women feel more rewarded by being a caretaker than a provider. The stress of being a provider isn't much fun, now is it?
Why are so many of these highly educated Sisters having a hard time answering YES/NO questions? The "yeah, but" responses are staggering!
How about, "I feel that"
Answering questions in that context means giving up their mental frame of reference. Solipsism will not generally volunteer for this.
You forgot the classic "So can I ask you a question?"
Because it forces many of them to come to terms about who they really are & they don't want to face it. Remember a couple of back when he told the "I'm going to adopt kids" chick the truth, she almost cried.
@@hofAMVS YES!!! That's their greatest deflect. Answer a question with a question.
Modern women: Overweight and under skilled. It's a sad state of affairs.
And $40,000 in college debt
I would definitely attend “Wife Academy”. Let’s make it happen!
Always remember fellas Tyrone , chad , brad, athletes, wanna be rappers, the bum across the street and etc didn’t need to be high value to put a baby in them .
@House of Guards "do not worry baby girl you will get it".
Yup... 3-figure men eating good in today's time..... dudes be having $243 in the checking account with 2 educated babymamas
😂😂😂😂😂
Wow, you said that!!! 💯
@@NeferkareDessalines yea ghetto
Many women - "I am not going to be submissive or a slave to my husband even though I require him to pay the mortgage, all dinners, vacations, valentine/anniversaries/Christmas/birthdays."
Also many women - "I prioritize getting a job where I have to work 8-12 hours a day, follow corporate rules/guidelines, for the next 30-40 years...that is independence and freedom."
I want to see a video on ladies asking about how to get an average man because I’m an average woman. I want a plumber/electrician/ fire fighter I don’t understand how women are saying they would be “settling”.
Yes please. I love my 'average' husband. The type of guy I like (who I'm lucky to be with) is an actual grafter I love a hard working man. And man in a physical job. I think the basics are the same though hunni. Fit friendly and femanine. Be his home. Know that it's work. And be will to work. And know that we ladies don't bring to the table, we build the table we use what is provided for us to make bigger and better for our families. And as the available resources grow we build a bigger table. You'll get there hunni. Educate your self in home management there are plenty or resources out there. Learn how to run a home and everything that comes with it. Men truely are simple people of habit. Listen to and think back to your grandparents. Warm comfy home watch the purse strings so ur not dragging your home into debt. Food available. Watch him (to see where u can help.... His drinks low fill it. Said his back hurt rub it etc..) and for god sake make time in ur life to be intimate with him. It's not hard. We've realy made life harder for ourselves than it needs to be xx
I think only women who aspire to real housewives lifestyle are looking for that. They don't realize how scarce those men are nor how difficult that lifestyle may be if that man chooses to exercise his options
Kevin is showing us Exactly ‘what the French toast’ is going on out here
“ I Rebuke”
Night after night after night after night 🤦🏾♂️
Man...now i want some french toast....
@@carlforpresidentanthony4574 The sad part is it never stops 🤦
Yes he absolutely is!!
I'm French but I don't understand this sentence. Can you explain me ? thanks ! :)
I think a lot of us women can learn something from the Nigerian woman. Being passive agressive, is very off putting. I don't ever want to give off this type of attitude. I'll be more mindful of how I speak and respond to people in the future.
I respect that
Yes. Especially with answering questions
What a wonderful smart thing to say. I pray you do so, be mindful of how you as a woman speak to man...anybody infact.
Nigerians aren’t exactly the epitome of grace
@@peachycalmable lmao. Sharap, we are.
Instead of going to get another degree...modern women can take cooking class, yoga, fitness, book club, etc.
Yes cause some of these “degrees” are useless
That smile tho 😍
@A C my response had nothing to do with a man. It was a focus on self-care without going into debt or making a 2-4 year commitment. Him “cheating” has nothing to do with your improvement on becoming a better woman. Better yet it may be a time to go get some counseling instead of another degree to avoid spewing toxicity.
@A C not a KS “fan”, but there is some truth in his content. I’m American...however I live in Berlin, Germany. I have degrees but feel being feel being fit, cooperative, friendly is equally important. I wish you nothing but that best and hope you have a great day. :-)
@@mackmittenz01 thank you.
Whenever Kevin say “let’s do this “ you know he bout to turn up 🤣
Insert Leeeeerrrrroy Jenkins!
How much you weigh?, height?, dress size?. "Cue 🐘 music lol.
😂😂
"Men will rather have a prostate exam with an egg beater, than deal with an argumentative women " 😂
DAMN that's serious
Modern twist to Proverbs 21. Love it!🤣
DAMN!
Its true though.
Unfortunately there’s more egg beaters in the world than non argumentative women.
Who else was rolling from this video 😂😂😂. Great video. Let’s get it together ladies.
Thanks Kevin for keeping everything real with us. You don't seem like the grifter type and try to bombard us with products. you are doing the best thing for men and women. Having both sides listen and observe. All that is left is to put it in action. That is all that dating comes down to when it is just a man and a woman. Thanks for never bs'ing us with bogus products and "online courses." This truly is the only place on youtube where we get genuine advice without the shady sales. You are not only helping men, but women too. Bless brah.
Kevin Lee agrees with your statement completely. I made a statement like that in my book that you can find on the link below.
Tyler Perry women are always saved by the janitor who treats them well 😂
Good point and true.
Proverbs 21:19
“It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.”
Amen
Fair enough
King Solomon was fed UP with mean women 😂💀
Amen.
My friend married a high value man ($400k+ a year). While it was not her original plan, after giving birth she decided that she would not go back to work, because she realized that she could not entrust the families future (their children) with anyone but themselves. When you enter the upper echelon of the top 10% of households in the WORLD, you suddenly realize how important it is to stay there, not just for duration of your life, but for your children’s lives too. Your not just a “house wife”, but rather the first teacher, the first steward, the first lady, and the first guardian of the families future. It’s not something to be taken lightly and certainly not something to look down upon.
I agree...I struggle with this because I don't want to stop working but I am thinking about the family. I think I have two years to figure it out.😊
Women dont care about your struggles. They just wait at the finish line to take the winners.
Couldn't have said truer words!!! This is the sad truth.
The winners will choose the high value women while the other average women are going to be standing around with the winners not choosing them.
Powerful and true
Very true
That's the idea, but most woman can't afford to do that honestly.
I am currently a house wife. I keep house, cook, garden, and care for the animals. My children are young adults, so their independent. I did work when I met my husband and through the first 18 years of marriage. I still cooked at least 3 times a week, cleaned house, and paid for child care. I didn't garden back then. Neither then or now did I ever feel like a SLAVE. My hubby did a little more around the house before I stopped working to continue my education. Now I believe he shouldn't have to do as much since he is carrying majority of the load. I still make side money doing hair and body sculpting. I still contribute but not as much. I love your show. The women who are arguing with you are not listening. They are waiting to speak. They have taken the facts and statistics personally and it has plugged their ears. I did make the mistake of advising my girls to have fun while they are young without taking into account that they might want families. I never took into account the info you are sharing from the male perspective. I never meant to ill-advise and plan to share your show with them. I have always taught my children to recognize the truth when they hear it. I definitely hear truth in the message you are sharing. Thank you.
So on point i respect your honesty&clarity!!
Love your story and that you're now questioning what you taught your girls. I'm curious why you told them to have fun and reserve getting serious for the future. I suspect it's similar to what I was taught and told my son. When you're young you have no idea what can sustain a relationship long term nor what you really need. Even if you do there are few young people who are ready for commitment. Thus we were told that to protect us.
@@keishapuryear8180 I advised that way because I married before seeing any part of the world. I jumped into a ready made family at 20 and we were not traveling or being adventurous and I believe diverse experiences would build better humans. I don't think it was wrong teaching but I regret it was incomplete. I should have talked about being prepared for when the right one comes along while they are enjoying life and having adventures. I should have talked about being open to receiving someone who may come around before their older and ready to settle down. There is so much more, now that I'm older and more knowledgeable but hindsight is 20/20
@@chandrasmith4722 I understand your viewpoints and I don't think it's too late to have those conversations with your girls especially if they want marriage and children. As long as we're willing we can always recalibrate. It's true men are returning to traditional beliefs about marriage likely because they've tried it the modern way and the women have unrealistic expectations of them.
@@chandrasmith4722 we also encouraged our daughter not to seek out marriage too young. We want her to get her education and career path but be open to growing with her person should she find him earlier. It's likely getting married really young won't work for her career path unless she finds a man on the same track who doesn't see her goals as unnecessary. She wants to be a doctor, Ortho surgery.
Marriage is an insurance policy on a woman’s rapidly depreciating market value 😬
Damn thats a good one
BOOM.
Yet they keep trying to convince men that they're the prize. 🤦🏾♂️
Woah !! That’s heavy.. big facts
The best comment I've seen on TH-cam
We have forgotten about the home economics degree which was discontinued in the early 80s due to feminism.
my son is at a school now that teaches it. so i am happy about that.
yea but this video is saying women need to be in charge of the house , why can't men be LMFAO
Wow...I didn't know that
@@heatherwild2627 No one said men can't be. But the topic is women who want a traditional man. A man working 80 hours a week aint coming home to cook and clean
@@almorales7715 I've never heard of a woman who wants a "traditional" man. When I think. "traditional" man I think a sexist man who thinks women are his servants and that women are always below men and shouldn't have jobs, and should always stay at home to cook and clean. AKA this guy
I never get tired of this channel ☺️
Neither do I, the best thing that happened to TH-cam's manosphere.
Spittin fax!
@@juniorleslie4804 Best thing that happened to TH-cam, lad.
I'm 31, want 6 kids and he needs to be a millionaire lol. I'm much younger and don't even want a millionaire just a great kitchen and somewhere I can plant and I'm Gucci. If delusional was a person.😂😂😂😂
A real one.
Smart Lady
A millionaire is more likely you pick you, than her, based off of looks
This sounds like a trap, ain't no such thing as a woman this humble anymore!
@@Sp1n1985 not from America so that should explain it well just a little
Juwan Johnson an NFL player, and his wife posted videos of her cooking and cleaning. The responses from some bw that she is the maid tells you these women ain't about that life.
That's a stereotype that we don't need. Of course we cook and clean. Men don't do it so we have to do it? Why is that the most important thing a woman brings to the table? Post a video of what you do for a woman as a man. And then I'll criticize it just like you criticized the women who rejected that stereotype.
@@AllThingsSoul About the cleaning, on average, men are less bothered by messiness than women, so in a random relationship, women are just much more likely to get fed up with messy/filthy surroundings enough to do something about it sooner. Doesn't mean that every man is less bothered than every woman, just that if you take random two from those populations, the female is more likely to be the one with less tolerance towards untidiness and thus more likely to do something about it.
@@AllThingsSoul Who said it was the most important thing a woman brings to the table? If a woman wants to be a housewife and have the privilege of a HVM providing for her, then damn straight she's going to be cooking and cleaning.
Our females don’t think we deserve that treatment. Bc they do act totally different with other races. J Dupri couldn’t keep Janet Jackson from performing and tell her what to wear but that Middle East dude did that and more
Life Soul Centered That not true. Can’t say don’t do it but it plenty of single men and they have to cook and clean for themselves. Use the advice woman give men: Choose better.
I am a 25 year old stay at home mom of 1. My husband and I have been together for 9 years. My grandmother is 89 and my mom is 66 . I Do agree that you have to be raised that way to be able deal with all the responsibilities that come with it.
Married at 16?
Makes no sense
I think she means that her and her husband have been together that long, not that she actually got married 9 years ago.
even if kevin was talking to these women in person he’d still say “don’t over talk me” and then “unmute yourself”
🤣
Lol
"Turn TH-cam off in the background."
Ay youre right im fin start doing it lol
😂
17k subscribers in 48 hours! Let's help save the planet and make the Godfather the new Oprah
Crazy growth!!!
That's great. I'm happy for him. Meanwhile Derrick Jaxn is losing approximately 5k subs a day.
@@reliablemaid That's the way it should be.
@yafaiak fam, relationship channels are the 3rd most popular on TH-cam. You really don’t need to study anything to grow 😂. Not to mention, the most popular channels in this category have crappy presentations. This is light work!
His status is reaching god tier
she's a lawyer, she's naturally argumentative plus she went to school to learn to start an argument.
If they choose to be single, why are they calling you? Just to chat? Lol
They gain clout from it. Especially when he does it on ig live. These female gain tons of followers from Kevin
@@bigslimee7195 no smart man seeking out this foolishness, but a horndog could take advantage of it.
Ah my mgtow brother we both know that they didn’t choose shit. They are panicking about the decline in male attention as the years tick on by but they cannot show it or else she’s a desperate woman.
They call in to tell him he’s wrong and they’re happy being single. At the end of the call they end up proving the opposite lol
@@turdferguson5847 I am old af according to your standards (approaching 40) and I get tonnes of attention from... 50/60 y/o guys hehe. Sometimes younger guys also but to be fair I don't look for rich ppl because I don't meet them often anyways. So there is still hope for us old women...now I am in Europe so maybe it's different
You know it’s bad when Kevin walks off screen.
The last caller is living in a simulation world
Simulations are based on reality at the very least.
plot twist the machines want her out of the matrix
He has to take a walk to not embarrass them
😭😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣this shit is a war 😭😭😭☺️
@@clmk28 they are a enemy ☺️”
How do you live in this body , this filth “??? Agent Smith 🤣😭🤣😭🤣🤣✊✊
It is so refreshing seeing a black man speaking the truth and helping his own community come back from the brink of destruction.
Miss Nigeria 🇳🇬 thought she was going to have a “I let him have it sis” moment 😂😂😂
Nigerian chicks especially in NY ain't getting married bro trust me
@@KoolKumasi facts and them west indies chicks too from nyc to nj. Trust me. Once they move this 1st world country they act like white supremacists out here smh
Or adapted to the feminist wave mindset
@@getithowyoulive2.
Ya giving them an out, this is proof that black men love black women, take notes ladies
@@getithowyoulive2.
Now the white supremacists part I disagree with, they just bougie
15% of men earn a $million+ a year.... 🤣 I'm still laughing
Yeah, she was definitely trolling.
It’s scary how uniformed the most school enrolled business starters in America are. 🤦🏾♂️ hopeless
what time stamp ? 😂😂😂
@@jay-t1030 nah she was serious, B
@@jay-t1030 Sadly no.
Lady: I don't want to be a housewife. Kevin: Do you want to work after you have more children? No......so you do want to be a housewife LOL!
"You ain't even fit for a conversation!" 🤣🤣🤣
That was a good line...
This show proved one thing the sheer amount of below average wife material women that are UNFIT and unqualified for an AVERAGE man let alone high value man sad
PURE FACTS
@az_koala a 42k brother that needs a working partner and helper.... rest are variables fit feminine friendly and co operative i'd actually take a 5/10 in looks if she just learns to listen with her ears and shuts up. Got better things to do that to constantly bicker about trash small things instead of moving forward
Thank you for speaking about home making with such esteem!
That smile u have, makes me smile.
Shoutout to the engagement queens. 🐕🦺
Lmao
Aka the french toast engagement queens
MÜNCHEN !
Who else looks at the swinging thing on his desk the whole time? 😂🤦🏽♂️
🤦♂️🤦♂️ I can't freaking focus 🤭
🤣🤣🤣
It’s there for a reason. It meant to keep your mind occupied during the slow times. Kevin did his research.
ME BRO ALL THE TIME😂😂🤣😂😂
I literal get lost in the cycle of oblivion
"You don't even have a male dog" 😂😂 you can't keep a Man. Lawyer lady started punching the air later on that night
Seriously, Kevin has made me start considering the financial aspect of marriage and family. It's a very real conversation that is often left out
Um? Are you American? Finances are the biggest reason for divorce in our capitalist society.
@@alp.9672 I'm Nigerian but live in America. Lol. I'm seeing how easily finances are what people divorce for and my mind is blown. Finances change overtime so it is hard for me grasping the level of importance and refusal to figure things out during the hardship phase.
The divorce laws is the biggest reason men won t marry. The liability is mostly all on the man. Women are actually financially incentivized to get divorced. Women file for almost 80% of divorces. If those laws would change to be more fair to men...then marraige rates would go up and make sense.
@@patrusso7278 that's so true.
@@izu874 I think the problem is that men often go all out in the beginning to impress undeserving women and then wonder why they keep ending up with gold diggers! My husband never spent a dime on me when we first got together because he didn’t have to. I’m very spoiled now, but in the beginning I asked for nothing because I only wanted him. Now, I constantly see his friends date women that are “boss chicks” who think they’re owed the world, but can’t do anything to support their man. So I now also tell my husbands friends that they need to start dating women that will meet them at the beach to enjoy a homemade sandwich and a glass of sparkling water or wine and be satisfied that the man even tried to make them a sandwich! If a woman can’t appreciate the little things, she doesn’t deserve the big things a man can provide. This way of thinking can help men avoid expensive divorces or being with women that will only ruin his finances.
Modern Women: "God, where have all the high value men gone?"
God: "I sent you one but you rejected him, chose a bad boy then gained more weight than Megatron"
...and more mileage
Megatron🤣🤣
@@MajesticChemist lmfao
Kevin is soooo right when he calls out these nurses. My ex was a nurse and this was her . Spoiled , entitled , combative and masculine after she became an RN. The nurses who were her friends were the same way..
All nurses are masculine and snarky no matter what they look like. With maybe one exception. Neo natal nurses. Since they care for kids. I learned to not ever date nurses at all. There’s no polarity and no peace with them
I'm going in the army to be a nurse/medic 😅 promise we're not all insane. I'm only going in there because I understand the era we're about to enter, and you have to get into a field that's skill based and highly paid
When Kevin brought up the idea of a Wife Academy, I instinctively reached for my wallet. I would THROW money at a business built around my need of a feminine woman.
The protests for the academy to be cancelled will be breathtaking 😂😂😂
Maaaaaan I would build a hedge fund around that!
So once again men have to save women....again 😂😂
@@TheUzamaki1234
So men have to teach men how to be men AND women how to be women too 😂
Kevins channel is entertainment gold for all men.
Hear hear 🤣
For women too 😂
My nightly entertainment while smoking a cigar and enjoying an adult beverage.
The woman who wanted the 1 million dollar man is crazy. Kevin almost made me crash my car, when she said I’ve done therapy and he said go back. 💀💀💀💀. Why would a man that makes a million want her. 🤷🏾♂️
Dawg!, That 31 year old women is what happens when attractive to above attractive women live in there “OWN WORLD” wayyy to long!! Smdh. I hope she really is in therapy.
This episode opened my eyes to how some women can be horrible at communication 🤦🏾♂️
Most episodes do that.
You must be new here
This your first episode?
So don’t blame yourself because they try to make you feel that way
Watch more episodes. You’ll find a lot of what you’ve been through with women in these episodes.
If a woman has a shaved side on her head she’s a angry lesbian . 😭😭😭
🤣🤣
🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣...What if both sides are shaved?
@@louisj4645 avoid at all costs she's nuts🤣
Met my boyfriend when he was down bad at 25 & 27 he had no car bad, but had iron work as a trade- now we own a company based in a major city and are getting engaged. Ladies yall ALL need to wake up
This is exactly why I agreed to be a SAHM and work at my hubby’s businesses; when I want. Not about to hire another women to do what I can.
Exactly!!
I tapped out when he told ole girl she need to be in the gym twice a day 🤣
The savagery is needed 🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yea that was HARSH!!kevin😉
She should do cardio in the morning and her workout in the evening
I stay fit working out once a day every day. Twice a day would be overkill for me. But maybe he just meant twice a day until she gets in shape. Once a day could definitely maintain it afterwards.
I love when Kevin repeats back to the woman her “dreams” or what’s she “really wants” in man , so she can stop for a second and really try & hear how stupid she sounds lol
The amount of excuses people have for working out. When I was in the army I’d do exercise with my unit at 6:00am. Work from 8:00am to 6:00pm. At lunch I’d hit the weights with a friend. After work I’d eat dinner and work out again at 8:00pm. That’s 3 times a day 3 days a week and 2 times a day 2 times a week working out.
These women work 8 hours days and work out zero times a week complaining they have no time 🤦♂️.
Indeed. People will take the time to do what they want to.
I have time, because I don't have to come home to a husband!
You didn’t have anybody to take care of but you. No kids no dirty house no homework and bedtime routines. How can that fact not make the difference?
I’m not worried about all that, I work out with my kids, my husband works out as well. At 8pm
I’m washing clothes by 8:30 there sex so....
@@mourepheen2308 yea ok
A wife and husband are already prepared when y’all meet. We have to stop with the “I’ll treat them better when I get a ring”
I've been a housewife and stay-at-home mom of two children for 10 years. My husband not only thought I was worthy but most importantly showed me in his actions. I don't know if 40 years old is considered modern by most but I'm college-educated as well. As my children are getting older, I'll focus more on real estate. The courses aren't financially taxing like a college education but the rewards are great and its a great business to hand down to your children. Everything we do is rooted in legacy. Ultimately, I support everything my husband does and have never regretted it. We make a great team with our traditional dynamic. He's an excellent leader; alpha male. I understand he's rare and that's what makes it effortless to appreciate and respect it. I'm so glad I refused to listen to the many older Black women that told me not to be a housewife.
Thank you Kevin: It is hard work! Many don't know what housewives do. People always ask me, "Whst do you do all day?" I don't have a home tutor, driver, maid and/ or private chef. This house isn't self cleaning. The meals don't cook themselves. The children don't have driver's licenses. And they definitely become AP Honors without me. I also don't have a landscaper, I do it because I love doing it! I just make it APPEAR effortless.
"You cant even get a male dog"
That laywer seem so sweet in her toxicity she remind me of the scary lady from Dont Be A Menace
She didn't realize she was arguing. Shes a lawyer so it comes naturally to her as a woman and worse being a lawyer.
@@3ddrew691 thats why they're on the list with nurse and others the Ego
@@Enigmajestic1 teachers are getting pretty bad too
Compare to inner city girls she's an angle lol
I remember reading the article about the Indian lady who was the CEO of Pepsi. She said her own mom cussed her out and reminded her that she is first a wife and mom.
You got a link for that article?
@@deemays12 I can find it if I look hard enough. I think it was in Newsweek or Times magazine about ten years ago when the Indian lady became the CEO of Coke. It was a big deal because she was their first female CEO
It was Pepsi Co, actually. Her name is
Indra Nooyi
She did a live interview about it. She did get real, and she did tell women you cant have it all and her daughters didn't like her to much cause of her career
@@winstonthomas4576 it's on TH-cam
So true, ladies dont be scared of older men(lmao well maybe some). my husband is 12 years older than me and I wouldnt have it any other way. I feel like I dodged so many heart breaks and games by getting with an older man straight away. Also learning to wife takes time so start asap, there is many online communities for women who want to learn to be good wives if you dont know anyone personally, i started to learn around 20, and im still training myself at 23. Start now. Decide what you want in life, if youre in your early 20s, its the perfect time for you to find a good provider man...dont waste time having hot girl 20s or working on a degree for something you dont want to do... dont waste your most beautiful years... just my opinion,
I’m in disbelief the last caller said “$1M” for the next man she is looking to date.. when the last man she dated was no where near making that much.... 🤦🏾♂️
She has a PhD. How are women so full of education so devoid of common sense
@@olaakande5581 I have no answer....
@Dark Warlock I know right.. and the fact that she said she wants 6 kids....
@Dark Warlock they teach a lot of theory.
@@rodneydunn8196 it's because they don't understand men and don't want to. That's what they want in a man and think that's what a man wants of them and they were told they can have it all
150k+ views in 4 hours. This man must be protected. He's a treasure.
TH-cam counts views by how many times your video gets clicks and by how many impressions. So, it could be 20k people clicking in and out of the video..all those clicks count as views. Just giving your some perspective.
@@sobc2737 some videos don't get even clicks.
@@sobc2737 that's not true. I think it has to be a certain amount of time before it registers as a view. He just gets more views quicker when he uploads at a time that people in USA AND Europe are awake at the same time
When he upload night shows the views are slower because we in Europe are sleeping
@@Bayo106 I have a TH-cam channel, I know how this works. To be specific, TH-cam will count up to a certain amount you come in and out or how many times you watch the video. For example, I personally watch Kevin's video once during the live and a couple of times through out the day after. TH-cam will count (up to a certain amount that they don't disclose) each time I click on the video and watch it for 30 or more seconds as a view.
i used to think my mom was strange for tryina teach me how to cook when i couldn’t even reach the stove yet.
The first time i had to cook a meal for my family of 5 i didn’t think i could do eht but she called me and calmly told me i already knew what to do (i was 12 at this point) - i cooked the meal effortlessly even tho i was anxious at first. My hands just flowed and i felt one with the wombmen before me. I felt highhhh honestly lmao i remember telling my friends at school and they were disgusted that i felt so good about cooking 😭😭😭 from that moment forward i definitely downplayed and worked my way up to not speaking on my domestic training. I was embarrassed honestly. Even tho eht felt good i was shy about eht.
I wish i wasn’t tho... i wish i had more courage because i think i aided in this whole ordeal. I’m only NOW at this big age tryina help wombmen get right in that department.
Learning house wife skills are vital in keeping a home.
Also learning how to write in English ✅
The last caller was so delusional I felt bad , help her Lord 🤲
It was like she had been in a coma for 25 years & just woke up
@@olaakande5581 lmao
@@olaakande5581 but during the coma, she came out with Masters degree📝📃📰
@@ElDonWillie chuckling since 3 minutes. Comment of the day!
@@mattchannel7075 glad i could cheer you up
601k subscribers!! Hitting that coveted 1 million subs by July 4th. I’m calling it. Meanwhile, “get the likes up!”
that lawyer lady rubs me the wrong way 😕 seems like she’s wearing a mask
Never forget there are no women out there more beautiful than freedom…
NONE!!!!!
Nore more beatutiful than french toast
At the end of the day women just want a high paying exclusive client.
And men want a private high class hooker who can cook, clean and raise the kids... /so... who will win “da battle of da sexes”? lol
@@Z8terfix Except men actually want to play the role of a husband. Whereas women just want the benefits without the responsibility....
A prime example of why women don't get men. Yes. Is the super long nails that makes you look lazy? Nails that long can't do housework.
This guy is insanely addictive. Barely 100k subs in august.
Average at best drops 7 months later he’s over 600 K 🤯
Ladies go back 3 years ago it’s in his catalog, he use to give it to men just as straightforward with no hesitation
If you don’t become housewife in your 20s you not about to stop working in your 30s , y’all got life all the way the twisted
@Lina Mason 😂😂😂😂😂
You're on point brother
@Lina Mason Lmao he just repeats what every guy has been telling Kevin. Thirsty men will just lie to you.
Facts
@Lina Mason Just another man thinking they run shit. 🙄🙄
“You ain’t even fit for a conversation” 🔥 TELL HA ASS KEVIN🤣✅
None of these women calling in come close to being fine enough to get a dude making more than $100k so $400k + is delusional 💀
Why is it always the average to below average women doing this?
@@frivolousarguments8578 because the pretty girls too busy getting the men or at the very least being the side piece to one to be having time to call in
@@frivolousarguments8578 there are a lot of ugly dudes making 109k
@@codysimpson911 but is beauty really big factor for men in the dating scene?
@@hofAMVS Yes!!! Girly girls that have some kinda fitness get noticed before those that aren't. Then will figure out or do our best to figure out the level of crazy afterwards.
A mother of one wants a HVM earning over 300k. It's not even funny anymore those women today are INSANE!!!
I never said I wanted that... I also never said I wanted to be a stay at home mom.. In fact I made it clear that I don't when he asked....I make over 100k... My man literally only Needs To be making 50-60k..but did you notice how the original question wasn't even about me... He asked do you think they can choose to be one and my answer was yes... But he turned it about me
@@naijaempress6700 Nigerian and a single mom... Gurl you already know noe African man choosing you🤣🤣
@House of Guards no I was trying to correct his assumptions and keep the conversation focused on the question he asked... Hense why I kept saying so back to the question you asked...
Ain't choosing you*****
@@naijaempress6700 you definitely came off aggressively
I’m a genXer and my high school didn’t have home economics. Instead, they had something called Singles Living. I remember thinking it was a peculiar shift but now the idea (combined with the marketing of our generation) has taken on a more ominous tone.
Men's attention and validation is women currency.
Then her youth and beauty is what produces that currency
Well it seems like they’re getting attention (& validation) in 1’s & 5’s because they’re so happy to be broke(en)
The wounded women's currency which wounded men will provide - while both think their "success" with the opposite sex has something to do with their personal worth instead of it being a replay of childhood traumas and dramas.
That’s a bar right there
I’ve been watching this show for months now and I still find myself staring at that damn spinning thing at times....
Me too! Lol
Yep
I bought one for my own desk. It’s mesmerizing
Really I don’t see it anymore 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Djlofton how much are they
I knew immediately that Kevin would clash with that Nigerian woman 😂
She's masculine and controlling any guy would be stressed out with her.
I die every time he asks "do you have a cookbook?"
That New York chick with the braids on one side claimed she was with a “high value” man yet she looks like she is living in a closet 😂.
Hahahah that's funny🤣😭... Great eye you have... I was certainly sitting on the floor of my walk in closet...
The Nigeria woman just made a fool of herself. She said she has one kid without a man and turn to say who says I don't have a high value man,simply contradicting herself.
I never said I didn't have a man🤷🏾♀️... He never asked if I had a man... He asked if I was currently married to a HVM... To which I said no..not currently.. I have a child because I was married.... Marriage came first.. And naturally a baby came second... So I'm sorry how did I contradict myself (genuine question) . Perhaps I missed something.
@@burningwolf5805 a very big shame if she is in Nigeria she will be the object of ridicule if she opened her womb to a man without him wifing her up,such cases of a woman getting pregnant out of wedlock is usually covered up by immediately giving her out for marriage and the man that impregnated her has to marry her
@@burningwolf5805 exactly how it is in Nigeria ur correct bro
@@Prime.Emperor.Victor interesting how you skipped over me saying I was married to the father of my child.... Marriage came first... Baby second.... But carry on
@@naijaempress6700 u have given birth is the case whether you were married or not makes no difference,no one owes anyone any understanding and certainly not men with options.i hope you understand even if you were married ur womb has been given up and u must understand that in this modern period women make a profit from leaving their husband that any man with something that hears that shit will quickly assume that ur one of them no one is ur father, mother or relation,most people don't have to say ohh!! what's her story in this period where baby Mama's are rampant just find a regular dude like the rest of the Nigerians,what ticked me off was that ur a Nigerian getting influenced by Western society knowing full well that we don't roll that way or engage in this type of talk we value ourselves, marriages and traditional values before in some cases the money
I HOPE U UNDERSTAND MY SISTA
Men want women who are:
1. BEAUTIFUL
2. FIT
3. SUBMISSIVE
4. COOPERATIVE
I would even say some high value men, especially athletes, are happy to cede on the beautiful criterion as long as you are reasonably fit and look after your appearance, submissive and cooperative.
Omg him mimicing the nurse had me dying laughing 🤣
Update: so did the last caller 🙄🤣
I loved the voice imitation he did 😂😂😂
Kevin should build an empire. Image consulting, personal trainers, therapists, life coaches, marriage coaches, femininity coaches, masculinity coaches, business coaches etc.
I see where you're coming from, and even though he might have a head start, you can also build it too.