Will Cheaters Always Be Cheaters?! (Pt. 2) | Dear Neri | Neri Miranda
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 พ.ย. 2019
- Neri Miranda on Cheating and Cheaters
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Id been in that situation with my ex for 7 years. An on & off relationship. Yong mag flirt in front of you with other girls, or hiding something from you. Yong naging martir ka for 7 loooong years until 1 day you wake up na ayaw mo na kasi napagod kana. And then he tried chasing you but wala ng trust. Cheating is a choice. Kaya mahirap magpatawad kasi yong trust wala na.
Psychological damage that's the effect of being traumatized from being cheated on... Don't cheat if you don't want woman to nagg.
Tama
It takes a strong woman to forgive the man who terribly hurt her.
Very well said chitto.
Kasi for me, pwedeng sabihin ng guy na wala lang yun. Ok maaring totoo wala lang yun para sa kanya, mahal nya pa rin si partner nya. Pero ang pinaka point kasi ay, maaring sa guy wala, eh paano sa point of view or sa feelings ni girl. Once na may pain doon sa partner, ayun na yun eh. Hindi kyang ijustify na wala alng yun. Hindi tayo ang makakapagdecide kung ano ang msakit or hindi sa partner. Love is about knowing the other person, knowign what they want and hate. Hindi yung
Guy: wala lang yun, kaya wag ka masaktan.
Girl: It doesn't matter kung fling lang yun. Basta ayoko ng ganoon, nsasaktan ako.
May iba namang partner na, pag sinabi mo na wala lang yun. It doesn't matter na sa kanila.
So its all about knowing your partner at wag gawin ang ayaw nila. Kasi kung talagang mahal mo ang isang tao, ang pinaka ayaw mong mangyari sa kanila ay masaktan.
Don't stay in a relationship dahil tingin mo hindi mo kayang mag isa. Kayang kaya mo. 😊
Alvin Aniceto true 🙅🏻♀️
I cry.
A person can love you and still cheat. It's like you love God and still sin. 😬😢
Thank you for this. Ive been there. 😔 I never asked my husband kung may iba siya since we all have that "instinct". One day, (ewan ko kung bakit), hinahanap ko ung husband ko kasi 2 days na siyang di nauwi. Imagine me, 5 months pregnant, walking and roving around his friends' houses asking kung nakita siya or nakasama siya. Until one time, siguro dala ng instinct, napadpad ako sa old house nila (wala nang nakatira dito). Nakita ko sila, magkayakap, tulog. 😭😭😭
Gusto kong umiyak!! Gusto kong sumigaw!! Pero naisip ko, bat ko ibababa ang sarili ko.
So, ginising ko sila. Alam niyo sinabi ko sa girl???
Putiks, nag- HELLO ako with matching smile!!!
Grabe.. akala ko sa movies lang to nangyayari. Until now, sobrang nagfa flashback sakin everytime na napapatunganga akom imagine the trauma na dinulot sakin.
Thanks for your time reading..
Sorry napa-comment ako ng mahaba.
-Jaja
Janine Layugan korek nakakatrauma talaga lalo na kung hindi lang once twice o trice umabot pa sa five haist inisip k n lang mga ank ko kahit na me lamat na last chance na to sarili k naman isipin ko 😍goodluck satin
Kayo pa rin po ng hubby mo?
Ohmgee..ang sakit nito😭😭😭😭 naiiyak ako sa experience mo sis!! Di ko yata kaya yan...ang sakit..!huhu
Ang sakit.. Pero girl i know lahat may reason at purpose at for that im proud of you sa pagiging strong mo..
OMG!!! This hurts so bad ate!!! Im so sorry to hear this! Kaya ito ang lagi kung kinakatakutan makipagrelasyon. Im 24 na pero wala pa sa isip ko ang pag aasawa. Isa na to sa mga lagi kung naiisip.
Dont cheat in a relationship,if your not happy then just Leave😊
So true. Very simple yet so difficult for them to do. 🤪
Please continue to do content like this very helpful..parang may pa free counselling😂
True
agree
True
true
to keep it simple.
mahilig talaga sa chicks ang mga boys.
pero ang totoo sa disente at matinong babae parin talaga sila ngseseryoso.
I admire this couple. They’re very true. No sugar coating at all. Thank you for sharing your experiences. Looking forward for the part 3 of this video.
PS: Guys piliin natin kung sinong vlogger ang payayamanin natin. Hahaha make sure na if you watch a vlog you will gain something. It should be a win win situation.
Uu nga naman..olryt
cheating is when you start entertaining the tukso. whether u intentionally or unintentionally hurt someone, its already cheating... no excuse.. but I love you both
Wala na kong masabi lhat on point 😊 saludo ako sa inyong dlawa.
Badass ni neri ❤ napatino c Chito yun ang priceless 😉
Cheating is cheating! Walang justify justify diyan.
Such an eye-opener, a balanced argument and a great testimony of a cheater once. 💕
I am so blessed binigyan ako ni lord ng hubby na kahit ang ubod ng pogi never sya nagloko or nag cheat Praise the Lord🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕💑
Pls pls dont ever hurt Ma'am Neri again Sir Chito... She really deserves all your love.
Hi neri, gusto ko tong topic na to kasi naka relate ako dito, yung asawa ko napaka babaero nya talaga since nung boyfriend ko pa lang sya hanggang sa kinasal kami at magkaanak, sabi nya magbago na sya lalo pa't babae yung anak namin, but he failed many times, ilang bese ko din syang pinagtakpan sa family ko, nili-lift up ko sya prati ganun ko sya kamahal, hanggang sa na realize ko parang tenotolerate ko na ata sya sa mga pinag gagagawa nya kaya ako ng nagpasya na mafhiwalay kami. Good thing lang is napatawad ko sya, naging magkaibigan ulit kami bago sya binaril at namatay. No regrets kasi nagkapatawaran kami. Happy to hear chito admitting that he changed. Goodluck and God bless you.❤❤❤
Chito is very well spoken, knowledgeable and smart.. Of course so charming din kz. Now I understand why Neri loves him. On the other hand, Neri is so calm, loving, no pride, forgiving and did everything to keep the relationship intact. Both well deserved.. I learned a lot! Thank you so much! Respect for both of you :-)
Ang hirap po talaga ibalik ng trust lalo na't di lang iisang beses nangyari. Kahit napatawad mo na sya once may kunting bagay na magpapaalala sayo, naluluha ka nalang dahil bumabalik lahat yung sakit at magseself-pity ka na naman😭
Ang cute ng smile ni Ms. Neri pag may sinasabi si Sir Chito and feeling ko may nagflaflashback sa kanya kasi nakasmirk siya 😅 naaalala niya haahha
Thank you Ms. Neri and Chito for this videos. I watched it with my boyfriend, pinapanuod q tlga sknya. I’ve read your blog ung about kay “Sadako” and nainspire ako sa kwento nyo, how you were able to overcome the problems na naencounter nyo. For us it was 2yrs ago when we had cheating issues muntik na kming maghiwalay pero I guess I loved him enough to forgive him. Like you said I never gave him reasons para magcheat. I wasn’t nagger, hindi ko sya pinipigilan to do what he want ang gusto ko lang iupdate nya ako sa whereabouts nya that’s all I asked. Sabi ko sknya I’m doing all of this kasi ayoko dumating s point na pag nagcheat ka isusumbat m sakin n kc ganito aq, ganyan ako, hindi pag nagcheat ka kasalanan mo, ginusto mo. So when he cheated he knows na it was all his fault. But then I loved him so much that the pain of losing him is more than the pain that he caused me, kaya I chose to forgive him which some of my friends didn’t understand. Now I know he’s doing his best to gain back my trust completely and so far we are happy. Pag napapraning ako he understands it and sinisecure nya ako. Ayun hehehe sharing my experience and to say na nainspire tlga aq sa inyong dalawa.
Grabe 😭 naiyak ako. Sobrang hanga ko sa inyong dalawa
Ganda ni neri..even without make-up☺️
Yes maganda tlga
Pwedeng life coach ang mag asawa na ito, hands down kay Chito...dilemma tlaga ng mga nagbabanda yung habulin ng chicks, good thing he changed.
Favorite ko ung kahit na anong ginagawa nyo bilang mag-asawa pero dahil parents kayo, ititigil ang ginagawa para all ears and attention sa anak. I saw those with you both. Miggy is one blessed kid. 🥰
I love how you compose your content,Neri! Worth watching👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
More vlogs together with chito. Ang bigat ng topic pero ang daming lesson, both sides of the story and opinion ay naeexpress ng maayos. 👌👏👍
"You did the crime, do the time" 👍🏼
One thing Mrs Neri, your husband is blessed to have you, and he loves you 100 and 1% and as a man (from men to men),the way he looks and talks to you, we can surely tell you that.💯💯💯he would carry you the entire world just to see you smile.
Ang mabuting Asawa galing sa Dios..
So happy for the Part 2.🥰 Grabi taas ko ng respito ko sayo Ms. Neri and to Chito grabe.
Inantay q tlg ung part2 ... Ganda ng convo.. 😊 i learn alot. 👏👏👏 nice more vid plz
Ang ganda...very informative. Thank you so much Chito and Neri :-)
I admire this two. So inspiring to us! 😍😍😍
Sobrang natural ☺️ Thank you Zerr Chito & Mamsh Neri dami ko natutunan po. More to come. God bless 😇
In terms of "the time na nasasaktan na ang mahal mo" it only comes into play pag nalaman na un ng mahal mo e dba. Which means that if there is no knowledge di masasaktan.
Now, if magaling ba magtago and therefore di malalaman. Okay ba un? Does the separation/classification between the mahal and chicks lang justifiable?
Worth it yung 24mins ko😍 grabe nakaka inspire talaga yung story nyo.. Waiting for the part 3 po🤗
Thank you for this ms.neri,..worth watching po,may ntutunan ako
Very true! "If it's not worth it, STOP IT. 👏👏👏 worth sharing. Thank you. God bless your family.
May pang chix lang tas may pang seryoso. Hahaha. Eh kung girls naman kaya gumawa nun sa guys? Maling mali. Change that mindset.
may pang landi lang at may pang asawa
Thank you Ms. Neri and Chito, it's eye opener...
Grabeh from one vid to play all the playlist.... u both can have a podcast...super nice
Sobrang meaningful po netong part 2, even the part 1 din po :) very inspiring! Abangers po talaga ko dito e 👍✌
I love you both.. always a fan of parokya and never left even at dark times of you both. Even cried that time cause felt the pain of chito while watching him perform live muaaaaaaah
I love this content!!! Watching you both all the way from CANADA❤️ NERI LOOKS EVEN STUNNING AND BEAUTY WITH HER SIMPLICITY,no make up! No filter!
Hi Neri!😊 please do more of this kind of videos. Sobrang nkkatulong not just with us girls but also with the guys.😊 Thank you for sharing your thoughts and your experiences with us!🙂 sobrang daming mattutunan..☺
I can relate to the topic. I will try your advices. Thank you. Im super down today but hearing your vlog it makes me inspire. Thank you so much.
I'm starting to liking the both you after watching this video and the part 1. nkakarelate kami ng Partner ko. :) Godbless you both!
Its easy to forgive and give another chance.... Pero 'to forget??' malabo yun.... Cheating is cheating...Diba nga sabi sa kanta ng parokya:
Parang TIWALA, pag nasira na, mahirap ng ayusin pa, di kayang ipagdikit ang tiwala pag napunit...
Whats important is how big is your love for the person. If your love is bigger than your anger then madali magpatawad, syempre mahal mo... Lahat naman nagkakamali. Then move on.
But still hindi madali kalimutan ang pagche-cheat, ONE STRIKE na yun! We can forgive but we will never forget thats the truth. 😉
Yes po,hindi makakalimotan ang sanhi ng sakit,hirap,luha na nararanasan,dahil duon ko natutunan at nalaman na may kakayanan pala ako magbigay ng kapatawaran.
Tama. Kahit bigyan mo ng chance, lagi ka na rin maghihinala. Kaya if ikaw na cheater humingi ng chance at binigyan ka, dapat alam mo na hindi na ganun yong trust ng partner mo sayo.
I cried 😭 On point lahat. Huhu. Thankyuu for this ❤ God bless your family 😇
I love the content. You guys have a very mature insight. I think it was important that Chito pointed out that when you cheated, you have to work so hard to gain trust and sometimes acknowledge that your partner will be tamang hinala. If I have a comment in the video, it will be to use different background music, but overall it's incredible!
Sana lahat Ng bloggers tulad nyo something to learn or to think after watching 😍,God bless to your family...continue inspire people para lahat May forever 🤪
I appreciate how he admits his imaturity and learn from it.
Thank you so much Mr. & Mrs. Miranda..
This will help me a lot.. I'm on a relationship right now, and I am trying my best to be the forgiver like ms.neri.and I am hoping for the big result one day, that he would be like Mr. Chito...a change man..I just wanted to have a simple family, full of love like what you guys have.. May the Lord God bless your family always.. 🙏😘💕
Sobrang bait ni Nerii!!! ang pure ng heart nya❤💯
"Pag mahal mo partner mo wala ng excuse for doing that"
19:00 til end! The best advice I've heard so far in youtube.. Kudos mga idols! Keep inspiring us 😊 Thank you!
the guilt always hunts me if you will eel that way you will never play on a relationship
Love is a decision..
Godbless u both Ms Neri and Mr Swave😊
Bro, though I'm older than you, your explanation struck my heart. Now I understood. as in now lang after I watched this video.
Looking forward for both Chito and Neri to stay together forever. God bless your family.
Very inspiring message,thank you nakakaiyak,yun lang makati siko ni boss chito,more power sa inyong dalawa
Ang galing. Sir Chito, parang kakwentuhan lang kita sa inuman. 😁😂 Love you both. Lalo na si Mrs. Neri Miranda so inspiring. ❤ Vlog pa more!! Ano pong next topic? 😊
Ngayon lang ako nanood ng vlog ni chito pero si neri lagi ko pinanonood ngayon natutuwa ako dahil magkasama kayong dalawa at may nilalaman ang mensahe nyo napaka ganda mature na kayo magbigay ng maganda at kapupulutan ng aral ang mga mensahe nyo.God bless your family and always keep safe.
Yay! Part2. Paabutin ng million subscribers si Mami Neri at si Dadi Chito. More videos pls Miranda fam! 💯🥰😍❤
Cute niyo hahahaha more vlogs like this together kay Chito please! Very educational 😊
Wow! Amazing couple. Change is possible.
I salute you neri and chito you deserve a chance. You know how to bawi sa asawa mo sa lahat ng ginawa mo. 👍👏
Ang strong mo Neri! Solid! huhu 😭
Hi Ms Neri relate n relate ako dito you are so brave na mkpagforgive ng tao...sa part ko hindi ko ngwa mgpatwad...galit agad pinairal..so many times na ngcheat ang father nganak ko yrs n kmi hiwaly nghiwlay ng di maayos pero kasal kami..dami ko learning sau..learn to forgive and forgive others..😢😢
God bless your family🙏
Interesting topic😍😍....wonderful couple..
Grabe, u two really knows how to choose the right words po and where to put them. Really helpful po. Godbless po!
More of this please 🙏🏻🙏🏻 love you both
i like na content na ganito.. like sitting tas uusap lang kayu sarap pakinggan po. parang free counseling lang...
Hope po ms.neri kasama nyo naman po ung tropang ABC,, with Ms.angel and bubbles bonding po kayo tapos usap about life for sure napakasaya non😀thnx po
Thankyou sir Chito at ipinaglaban mo ang tama..at sa maganda mong mga paliwanag.and GOD BLESS po sayo maam Neri sa tatag mo.pagpalain nawa kayo lagi..SALAMAT sa VLOG nato.
Thanks for sharing Ms. Neri & Chito. Real talk ❤️
Experince is still the best teacher. I like how you genuinely share your thoughts towards the issue through you life experiences as a married couple. Thank you. Here's what I got on this:
Kaya if others would say, will cheaters always be cheaters? The answer depends on the kind of person who are in a relationship
It is YES, when the one who cheated doesn't really want to change and is not that mature enough to realize what he/she might be losing; and the one who had been cheated on does not really forgive but rather blame his/her partner for his/her sin
On the other way around
It is NO, if the one who cheated realized his/her sin and is mature enough to step out and change; and if the one who had been cheated on will give his/her partner another chance and support his/her partner's steps towards change
this is worth watching thank you ms.neri and chito.
sana madami kayong gantong video. para yung ibang taong walang makausap o ayaw mag open sa ibang tao ng nararamdaman nila katulad ganyang topic. maliliwanagan sila. Sa tingin ko makakatulong yung ganto. ❤☺
Ang sarap nyong panoorin at pakinggan.. worth yung haba ng video .. THERES NO SUCH THING AS PERFECT RELATIONSHIP.. Napakatotoo nyo parehas.. More inspiring videos po.. We learned a lot para sa mga Couple who need more counceling.. Salute Neri and Chito... ❤❤❤❤ Cutie miggy... 😘😘
Very inspirational talaga Itong mag-asawa na ito. 🥰♥️ Mabuhay kayo Team Miranda.
Sana all.. ❤
Godbless your family 😊
Thank you for sharing your life experience about cheating. Lalo may POV ng isang lalaki.
On point lahat e. 😄
Ang galing mag explain ni Idol.dami ko natutunan.Real Talk love it.
I am in the current situation of nagpatawad but keep on making sumbat.....I realied a lot sa mga sinabi nyo.Idol @chitomiranda thanks much and how be as patience as you are m.Neri😉😀
This is worth to share ❤
Chito & Neri forever ❤❤❤
Nice. I admire these two. Neri for forgiving and understanding, and chito for reflecting and choosing better choices ♥️
SLOW CLAP FOR CHITO, THAT IS REALLY AMAZING TO DO!!!
Wow!!ang galing ni chito&neri..hula ko lng s relationship nio may forever..hndi kau mghhiwlay..kc meron kaung understanding and patience s isat isa😍😍😍💏
Nashare koto sa mga friends ko dahil may mga couple friends ako na ganito ang problem. nice conversation very helpful 😊
Ang dami kong napulot dito. Salute mam neri.
Ngayon ko lang nakita to.
VERY WELL SAID kuya Chito.
I salute you chito... sana all. hehe.
Ang matured na ng isip nya. Grabe ang puso ni ms.neri sbrang taba sa pagmamahal ni chito..
Iloveyou couple...
Mag asawang tunay di pang showbiz love them
Before I am a Nagger. Kahit caring ka pa at supporta sa partner mu ay magkakaron xa ng way iwan ka. Pero nung nagkaroon ako ng spiritual consultant at nagbalik loob sa Panginoon, ung mga nanay at ate ko sa church natutulo ako maging relax sa relationship. Pag-wala pa ang partner at gabi na magpray lang ako,na sana umuwi na sya. Dati late nauwi kasi galing inuman, pero ngaun late na uwi kasi gusto kumita magkaroon ng extra income para sa family namin. That's also a matured man.
Hi po ma'am Neri. You are an inspiration po not only as a wife but also as a business owner. Such an ideal wife 🥰😍🌹❤️. God bless you both❤️🌹❤️
Cute.. Thanks for the advise Chito and Neri.. 😍😍😍
Emegeed. Thank you for this ma'am Neri 😇 I've been cheated for a second time around po. But a lot of lesson I've learned on your vid po 🙂🙂
aaaaw i love you neri naig miranda! sobrang fan ako ng parokya ni edgar ever since elementary days but i love you as neri naig sa star circle quest isa ako sa umiyak nung na out ka kasi dame vote sandara....and seeing you both as one makes me happy. Goodluck sa vlogs...hope to see you here in subic ng paulit ulit..go waisnamisis with madiskartengmister.=)
thank you guys for sharing it to us.. god bless ur family.. i salute u both