Bambi this man has made me cry coz even my son munyivu gyendi I left him 2years doesn't want to talk to me am going back I want to bond with him he's now 7years kinuma
Mukwano just keep in touch with your son , when you come back try to kwegula jali , be close to him , the love will come back slowly. It will take time so you have to be patient with him. I have been there naye kati tulinga baluganda nemuwala wange.
My dear wokomawo yogera nomwanawo in a good way nabo bantu ngaffe ababazaala mutuzze mubulire ensonga lwaki walina omulekawo ajakutegera kuba akyali muto
This is very touching. Looks like the mum was going through alot when she had that first born and being a boy he kept reminding her of the father's misdeeds. How i wish you could get the mum to also open up, that would be a great step to reconciliation between son and mum.....Thanks Ruth
His story is like mine only that me i wasn't shown my dad and his family,i wasn't taken to school i stopped in s.2, and now everything rotates on me in terms of money. I leaned a lesson out of this i will love my kids with all my heart.
Thank you for your kind words. Forgiveness is indeed a powerful virtue. While the relationship with my mother has been a challenge, I believe in working towards healing and understanding. Family dynamics can be complex, but I'm committed to fostering love and compassion wherever possible.
Its that they want you to make them happy in a defined way, a way they have cooked up that only serves them, with me it wa " if you want me to love you, don't follow your passion and instead do what I want, if not that, you are a failure." In fact, my mother tried so much to make me believe I was so bad, until I accepted, she hit a raw nerve. Lucifer is now my other name.
Childhood Traumas sometimes affect the way we behave and the way we treat our children. Its a painful story, but the fact that he is able to talk about it, he will find healing.
Bro, i peeped the tshirt and i just wanted to send you lots of bliss even if you dont get to read this. Just so you know, mine did the same to me, turned everyone against me, cursed my children and all that was to break me but i overcame and finally let it and them all go and your tears will ease your soul so its alright as long as you keep moving forward, you will build your clan and escape the generation curse because you will do better. Heal the mother wound and remember to continue to do the shadow work. Well done for speaking your truth unapologetically for us all.
Oh God! I don't know why I am tearing. Situations like this can lead to depression, committing crimes, ... My bro. Ssentongo, Thank you for sharing. You are a step towards healing. You may never forgive, but your road to achieving much better is getting clear.
Your emotional response is understandable. Life's challenges can indeed weigh heavily on us. I appreciate your empathy and encouragement. While forgiveness may be a journey, I'm focused on finding peace and moving forward positively. However this is not about me, it's about all of us that go through this, mothers, fathers, and children. We all have to heal.
We need to hear from the Mum on this. Most of us who grew up in that generation as first borns were treated the same. Mothers had no attachment. Some women used to walk out of marriages and leave kids behind mbu babalese mubeewaabwe meaning their dad’s side. Which is wrong. If you leave a relationship go with your kids. As we’ve grown up no matter how much the Mums try to build that link, it gets to a point where it’s too late and you just respect them as your mother but no attachment or genuine love.
It's particularly painful when a parent has turned herself and all those around you, who could have offered support against you, they get disinterested in helping you find a positive path forward. It's even more disheartening when they discourage seeking assistance from others outside the family.
You can see his pain in his speech. So many people have gone through this and I am happy you are bringing this to light on your program. I wish you can get the opportunity to find the mother and host her too. She needs to seek forgiveness from her son
sincerely this man is sooo brave: i am happy he has come out and shared his story very raw. Naye kuluno Ruth you have tried to stand in for the mom...the emotional emptiness is real..
@@ignatiusnkoyooyo969 I know myself better than anyone else and that's all that matters. Thats why I sought help from people who will not judge me like priests do. Kapish?
@@ignatiusnkoyooyo969 A preist, as our mum told me advised her to separate me from you, I can remind her that anytime bro. But am not here for that, this is bigger than you and me, did you know that there are countless others who have gone through the same and are doing it to there children, do you, do you, do you? And what can you do about it, pray? I chose action.
@@ignatiusnkoyooyo969 And I respect that you are a priest, am 100 percent okay with that, I mean it has been your dream, but why can't I have mine, why am I supposed to be a lab technician like father? Why don't I have to be with my kids but your mother? Why don't I have to choose my life like everyone else. WHY?
Those are traumatising memories to have growing up. I am glad my parents showed me love and care, and I felt loved. I pray he heals through the kids he has now, although I know it won't be anytime soon cz his memories are still so vivid
And mum ruth for me my grand mother never loved my mother nga amuvuma ngatulaba namulangila ngatulaba mum ruth that situation touched me alot until now my mum is no more bt i hv alot of qns yyyy😭😭😭😭
Praise God family🙏🙏🙏Mum Wuffi wange ❤bambi even boys betaga to be loved but this society yabafirika make boys hold pain and some of them think boys are not humans to be showed love.Bambi😢rejection from parents eluma paka kufa
Bambi let the holy spirit our comforter comfort him deeply. I can relate people who are not loved they bring it all to their families too and it goes on and on.love is the only medicine to heal the broken heart 💔. I did not grow with both my parents so I didn't have any feeling of true love until I got married and my husband became like a dad telling me I love you every day, now I can give back the ❤️
Thanks Ruth for this gentleman. Men don’t know much how to express emotions in public. Also take it into account that narcissism exists in both females & males and those females maybe be someone’s mother. Listen to the interview of singer Kappa Kat & Shamim Mayanja. Till now, such children have never en will never have answers why their mothers treat them like “non-existence “ . Much ❤
This guy has made me cry coz we in the same shoes thou my mother never told me face to face that am a bastard but she used to tell my siblings Wabula obunaku buluma , am in my late 30s and has done everything I can to my youngesters but she say sibaagala yet all my youth money I spent it on them plus her but she doesn’t love me at all. Obunaku buluma u cry and lick your tears ya Allah. I have 2 kids naye nsaba mukama abaana bange abanungamize nkadiwe nabo I feel like writting a book mazima u give out all u have but nga omuntu akulaga u must do it coz u don’t have a family kyokka nga muzadde wo!!!
We pass thru alot with our parents but we stories to tell ,me i have grown up by mercies of God ,thanks lord for loving me, i have both parents but i prefer being an orphan 😢
Hello madam ruth i love your show ,much respect @rkb Naye eno story just ezuukusizza enaku gyenina ku mutima ne baganda bange Oyinza okugamba omukazi baamukaka otukutuzaala buli kiseera abeera atukaabiira akolima Banange may God have mercy She hate us like satan We are suffering she doesn’t listen to us Kwegamba ffe tuli bisiraani… we try our best to give her depending on our status but she doesn’t appreciate. Omukazi yatuuka nokunemesa okufumbirwa mbu ye tayagala basiraamu era nekumikolo tajja kubaawo Era nomusajja kati twayawukana 😭😭😭😭😭
That's the same story to me, now she loves me, she calls me my daughter. But by the time i wanted her shoulders, she wasn't there anymore. She expected much in his two sons but God is full of wonders. Yes am the first born and only girl to her. Currently am the one with fruits and she's proud of me but heart is not so comfortable with her though she's trying to be good
Emma, try your best bro to salvage what can still be salvaged. Ekigaanye nga okita. Love your children with all you've got because its that which they will carry in their hearts all their lives. Take heart bro
The exact thing that came to my mind is what he said,some parents are crazy, this story is making me cry,the way I love my boys amidst all that comes, I don't even care what people say.
We should let children be children. Let's not expect them to learn things by their own. Let's learn to teach them and be patient with them. But Let's let children be children.
Toli wekka bro nange ndi mwana wabuwala naye ebisinga obunji nabiyitamu nze yantwala ewa chair man bangobe kukituntu mbu mwesibako, yangoba kunjuze nentandika osula mu bibanda byamanda nabana nga omu wa 4month katono anfeko olwempewo ate nga nayo onondelalayo nze I have alot to ask God lwendimusisinkana ebibyo bilabika bitono mkn 😢 nze nakyawa both my parents sili bubinyo mukama yanjawula ku family nantwala wabweru we gwange naye nayo still asigala agamba ojavayo okomewo wano ngatolina kyolina😢
God give us your grace as parents,this adult has deep deep pain that needs more spiritual interventions,he loves his parents but rejection was built from home .painful
Emma I send you the song for rema namakula ampisawo awo your story has made me to cry bt for give your mum bcz sm of us we dnt hv mother's 😭😭😭. We miss them alot. Bt forgive and for get
I was also imprisoned by my own mother without asking wot happened, am now abroad for 4 years but the only time she calls is when she is asking for money 😢anyways I love her
Sorry friend, I know how you feel, you can't hate your mother, it's just wrong. But the way these people hate us when we do wrong is as if we shall never amount to anything helpful in the future, only to discover later in life. That's when the old adage starts biting them, THEY START RIPPING WHAT THEY SOWED, my mother who always prayed in my presence to God to give her someone to take me away and save her from me certainly got plans involving me, plans like staying together in OUR hospital business. A hug and I love would be doing her magic now, she chose the easy path, hate and unforgivingness she sowed, what to do?
This is too much pain.....I can feel it myself. Imagine am just watching how about this man who was going through this live? God bless all mums who are present in their kids lives. I do my best and thank God each day for the gift of life and children.
Like two yrs back maama wange yaronda omwana ku police. Taata womwaana yo yamutwara ku police namusiba mbu ye tamwagara. Maama Nabi wurira mubantu agenda ku police namusabayo, aba police nebamumuwa. He is fine now
Mmy Ruth it's so emotional for that guy the same story to me😭😭😭Mmy Ruth nze sirina mukwano gwa Maama I feel wat his passing through 4years now no communication with my Mum naye nga waali it's the same story to me Abazadde tulimba twedeko kubanga nange kati ndimuzadde but missing that love of my parents especially Maama💔💔💔
Naye nze mbabulire,abazadde abamu baali tebasaana kubera abazadde,ffe one day maama waffe yagamba mbu tuli loss naye imagine wabaako kyatusaba tumuwa naye tasiima ate tayina love yaffe tetwakula naye,tumulabye bukulu naye kati nasigaliza kumuwa nganina wamba sirina sewola period
I know what this man is pass through coz I also pass through the same thing sometimes I feel 2 much pain and heart broken 💔 naye every time I pray to God to heal me maybe one day I will get the ability to tell my story the bad thing nebwemukolera ekirungi tasima bange it's not easy to heal from trauma😭😭😭😭
Even his mom has to go for therapy goes she is not okay towards him bambi ... imagine he still crying ...bambi....mom please treat your heart ..for his peace 🙏he needs help ...bambi 🙏😢😢 Jesus 🙏
This is sad. Nezo empisa mbi zeyalina it was bcoz of yo parents. It was never your fault. I wish sm1 can hug you everyday and tell you that you’re loved.
I know. Some parents want to live through their kids or for their own prestige or image. It’s common in some cultures where parents want their kids to be doctors, engineers, lawyers etc. even the institutions they end up in matter so the parents can have something to talk about but it’s not what their kids want. We experience Asians do the same. Here in the uk they push them to go to Oxford, Cambridge etc just so they can say their kids have succeeded. They don’t see things like arts as an achievement which makes kids resent their parents and some have committed suicide for not going to a university their parents wanted.
Mukwano I travelled to Ug nga ndi pregnant for my 2nd born and happily told my mother can u imagine the lady of 6 kids never even bothered buying for me emmumbwa of 5k kyokka nga mulaga nti mwagala , have done everything I can for her , namuzimbira etc and for the 1st born she left me in hospital while having labour pains and she went to attenda wedding hehehe . Wabula mummy wange yandwaza omutima
Brother, there is freedom in forgiveness and toxic parenting is much in African society, some parents need to heal from their past and seek help about parenting, parents our main job is to love our babies no matter what and even if.believe it some parents weren't loved enough and they are toxic too
I think He needed a male figure in his life , mum was busy making ends meet and stressed. A woman will never fill that gap of a father figure. God touch his soul. Thanks Ruth God bless you too.
This guy has a story like for my Daddy 😢even us we grow up without going to our grandmother's place 😢even our grand mother was wishing as dead 😢she started 💔 doing witchcraft......so what this guy is saying is so really
I remember I use to hurt my father because of the things he did to me but the moment I give my life to jesus I forgive him and am blessed to have him in my life but it was not easy only jesus can do it
@@TumusiimeRitah children dont know difficult times. The child never asked her to give birth to him. That guy is even kind nze i throw u in the gutter and move on with my life.
MY brother parents are source of our blessings please for give her infact buy her some staff like gomesi sugar and others,go kneel before her and apologise for any wrong you have ever done that annoyed her. Ask her to pray for you a blessing trust me things will change on your side.and a sign that shows that you have forgiven stop talking bad against her to other people. Yes mistreated you bad God forbids us from cursing our parents. Leviticus 20:9, Exodus 21:17 and proverbs 30:17
@mrsizi, hopefully I have mentioned your name properly,it's had I also have issues with my mum but I stopped talking about her negatively to d public but my hrt has it, Secondly the only way to prevent her curses attacking u, forgive,that is the biggest helmet and weapon to overcome her and u also become successful in this life, This a principal of God. U either get it or fail
As anation were fighting alot of issues as aresult of broken families .. we really need to do afavour to our next generations, so much broken hearts , childhood traumas are breaking our nation
Me too I went through the same till naw I know I’m a bustard child , my mum yaneganako nti I’m not her child in front of her ka boyfriend,she used to say that am ugly till naw i kno that am ugly 😢😢Nze gwolaba naffa okwagala omusajja nebwankwana mba manyi tanjagala , one day yangamba nti okuzala gwe singa nazalamu ffene era nze siyina love ya mama sili mwagala nga abana abalala webagala ba mama babwe 😢😢😢
This is painful to watch , most times parents fight and separate or divorce in a brutal way and then instead of protecting our children or help our children to over come the trauma then we resort to hurting doing things to hurt kids . Mothers especially let’s love , protect our children even when marriages fail . Even if men hurt us so much let’s help our children in tbe hardest time
Your mother might be a sister to my mum. Mine yatulaganga nti teyeguya but seriously am traumatized era nze siyina Love. Our mum showed her favorite child but regardless We move.
You hit right on the nail. ADHD needs someone who understands it. Our african parents have no idea on how to handle it. He should have been on treatment. That's the reason your mum did that to u
Madam Ruth webale kutuwereza.Bambi mr.Emma yetaaga deliverance from rejection because he rejected by their parents from the womb ate alina nobukyaayi ku maama we nze ndowoza agende emutundwe ewa Pastor Tom Mugerwa aja kuwona omutima ate asumululwe ne mu rejection ate era ayambeko ne maama we okuwona (omutima gwe mulwadde nogwa maama we betaaga YESU teri musawo asinga YESU KRISTO).
Thanks Rehemah, About Christ, am not so okay, I am what you would call an introvert and you know our churches don't cater for this personality type, church to me is a strange place, I can't stand very many people, I always feel out of place. I need therapy, I think.
@@MrSiiZiTherapy is better. Church sometimes hurts people more. And some things need therapy to work through things and learn coping strategies going forward
We're many bro same to me both parents 😢😢😢 mama yatuuka kuffa nga sifunye ku love yee taata gyali naye alinga ataaliwo ne bukojja ba mpitta mwana kyiibi 😢😢😢
@@MrSiiZi That is very kind of you but you can not pour from an empty cup. Healed people heal people. Even your relationships will be much better. I felt pain listening to your prayer and I pray that things get better. sometimes we forgive for our sake,not because they deserve it
Nze byenina ku mutima bingi naye mukama wansasira nenva ebweru nga setugidde mukiyumba kyomuwalabu nkimanyi nti lwendiyatula nditerera coz njagala peace of mind nkoye nange neyagaleko nga omuntu i have tried alot to pretend but mbulako kimu kugwa ddalu imagine a girl like me and a mother at that nemala like a year nga sinaba mumutwe wadde okwetekako akazigo nasiwuka depression yafuka mere jendi naye kaninde okwatula
Naye abazadde ekintu kuba ne favorite kids nemukitulaga kiruma ,i really know how this man is feeeling am also not mums favorite the only difference nti nze maama tayongerezako bigambo ,but actions ohhh but still era mwagala munange ,and i care more than her favorite
I hear some pipo comment Mbu he is just attention seeker Bakwano u never been there that’s why boogera batyo naye nga abazadde banji especially ba maama batulwaza nyo emitima . We love them to the moon but they repay us with hatred
Bambi this man has made me cry coz even my son munyivu gyendi I left him 2years doesn't want to talk to me am going back I want to bond with him he's now 7years kinuma
Mukwano just keep in touch with your son , when you come back try to kwegula jali , be close to him , the love will come back slowly.
It will take time so you have to be patient with him.
I have been there naye kati tulinga baluganda nemuwala wange.
@@Drakegon1 olaba even if they tell him katukube ebifananyi tukiwereze maama wo agaana obukyayi bunji bwaninako
@@badrushamirah5777 bwebaba like i said bwokomawo mukwate mpola mpola love ejakuda
My dear wokomawo yogera nomwanawo in a good way nabo bantu ngaffe ababazaala mutuzze mubulire ensonga lwaki walina omulekawo ajakutegera kuba akyali muto
@@badrushamirah5777akyali muto ajakukyuka
This is very touching. Looks like the mum was going through alot when she had that first born and being a boy he kept reminding her of the father's misdeeds. How i wish you could get the mum to also open up, that would be a great step to reconciliation between son and mum.....Thanks Ruth
But whatever you went through as a mother still this child is innocent. infant the child should act as the comfort and happiness
@sylvianabukenyae1471 exactly the children are innocent more so when a child is of good behavior but u choose to hate them
Abazadde batusosolera ddala mwana gwe
Yes, I can understand this man….. I have lived with this pain all my life
His story is like mine only that me i wasn't shown my dad and his family,i wasn't taken to school i stopped in s.2, and now everything rotates on me in terms of money. I leaned a lesson out of this i will love my kids with all my heart.
Just 4 give dear and let go
This guy is intelligent and brave may Allah give you a forgiving heart and u forgive your mother and distance yourself and family from your mother
Thank you for your kind words. Forgiveness is indeed a powerful virtue. While the relationship with my mother has been a challenge, I believe in working towards healing and understanding. Family dynamics can be complex, but I'm committed to fostering love and compassion wherever possible.
@@MrSiiZilam apparently battling with it too but l have fast learnt to love myself fast and remember Allah those shy people like us fear to air out
Kiluma 😢
Some parents are impossible even if you try making them happy they end up hurting your feelings 😢
Oooooh yes 😢😢😢
True
Naye katonda atusasire ffena abali ngoyo omwami
Mwana!!
Its that they want you to make them happy in a defined way, a way they have cooked up that only serves them, with me it wa " if you want me to love you, don't follow your passion and instead do what I want, if not that, you are a failure." In fact, my mother tried so much to make me believe I was so bad, until I accepted, she hit a raw nerve. Lucifer is now my other name.
Childhood Traumas sometimes affect the way we behave and the way we treat our children.
Its a painful story, but the fact that he is able to talk about it, he will find healing.
So true
So true
Very true I grew up when a bitter child kwegamba nga ndi mukambwe
Just sooooo emotional 😢😢😢 can't stop the 😭
Bambi so emotional. Ruth thanks for calming him down.tuyita mubinji mwana
Aunt Ruth that's the situation l passed through he needs time to heal l have the same wounds on my heart because of my mother.
Bro, i peeped the tshirt and i just wanted to send you lots of bliss even if you dont get to read this. Just so you know, mine did the same to me, turned everyone against me, cursed my children and all that was to break me but i overcame and finally let it and them all go and your tears will ease your soul so its alright as long as you keep moving forward, you will build your clan and escape the generation curse because you will do better. Heal the mother wound and remember to continue to do the shadow work. Well done for speaking your truth unapologetically for us all.
Oh God! I don't know why I am tearing. Situations like this can lead to depression, committing crimes, ... My bro. Ssentongo, Thank you for sharing. You are a step towards healing. You may never forgive, but your road to achieving much better is getting clear.
Your emotional response is understandable. Life's challenges can indeed weigh heavily on us. I appreciate your empathy and encouragement. While forgiveness may be a journey, I'm focused on finding peace and moving forward positively. However this is not about me, it's about all of us that go through this, mothers, fathers, and children. We all have to heal.
We need to hear from the Mum on this. Most of us who grew up in that generation as first borns were treated the same. Mothers had no attachment. Some women used to walk out of marriages and leave kids behind mbu babalese mubeewaabwe meaning their dad’s side. Which is wrong. If you leave a relationship go with your kids. As we’ve grown up no matter how much the Mums try to build that link, it gets to a point where it’s too late and you just respect them as your mother but no attachment or genuine love.
Parents can be your closest enemy and drain you. They can say the most hurtful things yet you love them. It hurts
It's particularly painful when a parent has turned herself and all those around you, who could have offered support against you, they get disinterested in helping you find a positive path forward. It's even more disheartening when they discourage seeking assistance from others outside the family.
You can see his pain in his speech. So many people have gone through this and I am happy you are bringing this to light on your program. I wish you can get the opportunity to find the mother and host her too. She needs to seek forgiveness from her son
I just posted the same comment. They need to sit down together and talk.
Ruth look for the mum
Emma, thank you so much for coming forward. Ruth thank you for your enlightening shows
You are so welcome!
He speaks what we kept in silence for so long....
sincerely this man is sooo brave: i am happy he has come out and shared his story very raw. Naye kuluno Ruth you have tried to stand in for the mom...the emotional emptiness is real..
@@ignatiusnkoyooyo969 I know myself better than anyone else and that's all that matters. Thats why I sought help from people who will not judge me like priests do. Kapish?
Acknowledge that I am your brother and also my title @@MrSiiZi
@@ignatiusnkoyooyo969 A preist, as our mum told me advised her to separate me from you, I can remind her that anytime bro. But am not here for that, this is bigger than you and me, did you know that there are countless others who have gone through the same and are doing it to there children, do you, do you, do you? And what can you do about it, pray? I chose action.
@@ignatiusnkoyooyo969 And I respect that you are a priest, am 100 percent okay with that, I mean it has been your dream, but why can't I have mine, why am I supposed to be a lab technician like father? Why don't I have to be with my kids but your mother? Why don't I have to choose my life like everyone else. WHY?
Mukama omwana we kibi yaliwa u carry achild for 9months no muyita ekyo eeeeeh katonda atubele God will bless you more Ssentongo❤❤❤❤
Those are traumatising memories to have growing up. I am glad my parents showed me love and care, and I felt loved. I pray he heals through the kids he has now, although I know it won't be anytime soon cz his memories are still so vivid
After healing my heart now I stay with my children
My brother was stubborn ,kuzunga and bibanda ,my parents purnished him as any child but he was loved more especially by Mom
This guy I don't get his point, he just wanted to be a mummys boy I think!!
And mum ruth for me my grand mother never loved my mother nga amuvuma ngatulaba namulangila ngatulaba mum ruth that situation touched me alot until now my mum is no more bt i hv alot of qns yyyy😭😭😭😭
Praise God family🙏🙏🙏Mum Wuffi wange ❤bambi even boys betaga to be loved but this society yabafirika make boys hold pain and some of them think boys are not humans to be showed love.Bambi😢rejection from parents eluma paka kufa
Bambi ka taata😢😢 abazadde abamu tulimba
I can't wait to meet my dear son muwe ku mukwano ❤❤
Dear Emma God heals the broken hearted n boundages their wounds that will happen to you too...
Am also going through the same situation but by God's grace am surviving
Bambi let the holy spirit our comforter comfort him deeply. I can relate people who are not loved they bring it all to their families too and it goes on and on.love is the only medicine to heal the broken heart 💔. I did not grow with both my parents so I didn't have any feeling of true love until I got married and my husband became like a dad telling me I love you every day, now I can give back the ❤️
Thanks Ruth for this gentleman. Men don’t know much how to express emotions in public. Also take it into account that narcissism exists in both females & males and those females maybe be someone’s mother. Listen to the interview of singer Kappa Kat & Shamim Mayanja. Till now, such children have never en will never have answers why their mothers treat them like “non-existence “ . Much ❤
😢😢😢😢😢 i can fill he's pain
This guy has made me cry coz we in the same shoes thou my mother never told me face to face that am a bastard but she used to tell my siblings
Wabula obunaku buluma , am in my late 30s and has done everything I can to my youngesters but she say sibaagala yet all my youth money I spent it on them plus her but she doesn’t love me at all. Obunaku buluma u cry and lick your tears ya Allah. I have 2 kids naye nsaba mukama abaana bange abanungamize nkadiwe nabo
I feel like writting a book mazima u give out all u have but nga omuntu akulaga u must do it coz u don’t have a family kyokka nga muzadde wo!!!
We pass thru alot with our parents but we stories to tell ,me i have grown up by mercies of God ,thanks lord for loving me, i have both parents but i prefer being an orphan 😢
So sorry about what u went through dear Emma. Please forgive mummy and continue praying for her
Hello madam ruth i love your show ,much respect @rkb
Naye eno story just ezuukusizza enaku gyenina ku mutima ne baganda bange
Oyinza okugamba omukazi baamukaka otukutuzaala buli kiseera abeera atukaabiira akolima
Banange may God have mercy
She hate us like satan
We are suffering she doesn’t listen to us
Kwegamba ffe tuli bisiraani… we try our best to give her depending on our status but she doesn’t appreciate. Omukazi yatuuka nokunemesa okufumbirwa mbu ye tayagala basiraamu era nekumikolo tajja kubaawo
Era nomusajja kati twayawukana 😭😭😭😭😭
That's the same story to me, now she loves me, she calls me my daughter. But by the time i wanted her shoulders, she wasn't there anymore. She expected much in his two sons but God is full of wonders. Yes am the first born and only girl to her. Currently am the one with fruits and she's proud of me but heart is not so comfortable with her though she's trying to be good
I can't stop crying 😭😭😭
Me too have never been loved by my parents. It hrts alot 😭😭😭😭 u even find yo self not loving yo self. God have Mercy on us🙏🙏
Emma, try your best bro to salvage what can still be salvaged. Ekigaanye nga okita.
Love your children with all you've got because its that which they will carry in their hearts all their lives. Take heart bro
The exact thing that came to my mind is what he said,some parents are crazy, this story is making me cry,the way I love my boys amidst all that comes, I don't even care what people say.
We should let children be children.
Let's not expect them to learn things by their own. Let's learn to teach them and be patient with them. But Let's let children be children.
Toli wekka bro nange ndi mwana wabuwala naye ebisinga obunji nabiyitamu nze yantwala ewa chair man bangobe kukituntu mbu mwesibako, yangoba kunjuze nentandika osula mu bibanda byamanda nabana nga omu wa 4month katono anfeko olwempewo ate nga nayo onondelalayo nze I have alot to ask God lwendimusisinkana ebibyo bilabika bitono mkn 😢 nze nakyawa both my parents sili bubinyo mukama yanjawula ku family nantwala wabweru we gwange naye nayo still asigala agamba ojavayo okomewo wano ngatolina kyolina😢
Oooooh bambi I understand the pain ffe owaffe bwaatyo ffe tuli bakulu naye atuuka natweefulira natuvuma vuma natuzaalukuka
And ekyo ekya ojjakuvaayo nga tolina kyoolina gwe silika weekwase mukama katonda yekka naange owaange yakingaambako yasooka bagaamba mbu nebwenkola sijja kufuluma gwaanga naye namara nenfuluma then bagaamba mbuno tebajja kunsasula naye nze silina mweezi gwemaanja...so yamara nanvaako era yakakkana yekka
Hoo naye koba kiki
Mukama nkusaba owangaze my mum coz tatusosola akwagala ngabwetuli.
Wabula banaye 😢😢😢rip swt moma i really miss you nyoooo u were such adarling ...
This guy pass through like me 😢😢bro even me mama tanjagala out of 7 of us 😢😢even up to now but me my grand woz there for mi I know how it hat's 😢😢😢😢
Some parents need to know that listening is a therapy,
God give us your grace as parents,this adult has deep deep pain that needs more spiritual interventions,he loves his parents but rejection was built from home .painful
Bambi madam Ruth nze npa enumber ya Ema nja mwagalila yoo nga bwali ❤
😂😂naye Annet kyogamba maama tomitide
Mummy Ruth njagara kwogerako nawe osanga nange nakakana
Ekituufu this man has gone through a lot all the time may God see you through and prosper in whatever you do, how can a mum be with all dat heart 😢
Emma I send you the song for rema namakula ampisawo awo your story has made me to cry bt for give your mum bcz sm of us we dnt hv mother's 😭😭😭. We miss them alot. Bt forgive and for get
Thanks for the song dia.
I was also imprisoned by my own mother without asking wot happened, am now abroad for 4 years but the only time she calls is when she is asking for money 😢anyways I love her
Sorry friend, I know how you feel, you can't hate your mother, it's just wrong. But the way these people hate us when we do wrong is as if we shall never amount to anything helpful in the future, only to discover later in life. That's when the old adage starts biting them, THEY START RIPPING WHAT THEY SOWED, my mother who always prayed in my presence to God to give her someone to take me away and save her from me certainly got plans involving me, plans like staying together in OUR hospital business. A hug and I love would be doing her magic now, she chose the easy path, hate and unforgivingness she sowed, what to do?
Mine combined with the man she forced me to get married and tried to imprison me both but I forgave her but never forget it
Nze maama yankyawa nga nkyali mutto kati nkuze Nina abaana tabagala naye ayagala mbu nyambe brother waffle atte suwataata waffe
@@SumahwaAmba truth be told, sorry bambi
@@KyohairweCarol nange tayagala bange but God is great i can support them in all
He speaks like my daddy all the questions he is asking you a bout forgiving there the some with my daddy
This is too much pain.....I can feel it myself. Imagine am just watching how about this man who was going through this live? God bless all mums who are present in their kids lives. I do my best and thank God each day for the gift of life and children.
Some parents made us cry on a daily yet deep inside we genuinely love them,Emma i understand ur pain bro but pray
Banange Emma byayitamu nange byempitamu nange neegomba da okufuna Maama omulala nesonyiwe eyanzaala😢😢😢
Mukama yamba Ema,🙏
Like two yrs back maama wange yaronda omwana ku police. Taata womwaana yo yamutwara ku police namusiba mbu ye tamwagara. Maama Nabi wurira mubantu agenda ku police namusabayo, aba police nebamumuwa. He is fine now
Everyone needs that sense of belonging. İt affected me as a child too
Mmy Ruth it's so emotional for that guy the same story to me😭😭😭Mmy Ruth nze sirina mukwano gwa Maama I feel wat his passing through 4years now no communication with my Mum naye nga waali it's the same story to me Abazadde tulimba twedeko kubanga nange kati ndimuzadde but missing that love of my parents especially Maama💔💔💔
Naye nze mbabulire,abazadde abamu baali tebasaana kubera abazadde,ffe one day maama waffe yagamba mbu tuli loss naye imagine wabaako kyatusaba tumuwa naye tasiima ate tayina love yaffe tetwakula naye,tumulabye bukulu naye kati nasigaliza kumuwa nganina wamba sirina sewola period
Wama Emma 🏃♂️ vanish and never look back..through experience
I like mummy ruth atukila kumulamwa takuba bya advert mu interview kwegamba tewetamwa video ze thx dear
Nange nzuuno ntuuse temundeka rkb nkwagala nyoo ❤
I know what this man is pass through coz I also pass through the same thing sometimes I feel 2 much pain and heart broken 💔 naye every time I pray to God to heal me maybe one day I will get the ability to tell my story the bad thing nebwemukolera ekirungi tasima bange it's not easy to heal from trauma😭😭😭😭
Even his mom has to go for therapy goes she is not okay towards him bambi ... imagine he still crying ...bambi....mom please treat your heart ..for his peace 🙏he needs help ...bambi 🙏😢😢 Jesus 🙏
This is sad. Nezo empisa mbi zeyalina it was bcoz of yo parents. It was never your fault. I wish sm1 can hug you everyday and tell you that you’re loved.
Ba maama mweddeko naye muyitiriza obukambwe eri abaana bammwe ate abaana ennaku zino betuzaala bali sensitive nnyo basalawo mangu kati nkedde kulaba mwana yetuze olwokuba ma'am we yamulemeddeko okola sciences ngate omwana asobola arts bwatyo omwana neyejjawo....
Oh Noooo! 😢
😢
I know. Some parents want to live through their kids or for their own prestige or image. It’s common in some cultures where parents want their kids to be doctors, engineers, lawyers etc. even the institutions they end up in matter so the parents can have something to talk about but it’s not what their kids want. We experience Asians do the same. Here in the uk they push them to go to Oxford, Cambridge etc just so they can say their kids have succeeded. They don’t see things like arts as an achievement which makes kids resent their parents and some have committed suicide for not going to a university their parents wanted.
Walai no guy asana kuba brother wange nange maama wange yagamba oli mwana wakibi kati kinuma walai 😭😭😭😭kyoka tewogera now 10yeears
Some parents are stupid just
Mukwano I travelled to Ug nga ndi pregnant for my 2nd born and happily told my mother can u imagine the lady of 6 kids never even bothered buying for me emmumbwa of 5k kyokka nga mulaga nti mwagala , have done everything I can for her , namuzimbira etc and for the 1st born she left me in hospital while having labour pains and she went to attenda wedding hehehe . Wabula mummy wange yandwaza omutima
Brother, there is freedom in forgiveness and toxic parenting is much in African society, some parents need to heal from their past and seek help about parenting, parents our main job is to love our babies no matter what and even if.believe it some parents weren't loved enough and they are toxic too
Ruth i completely understand this guy
I think He needed a male figure in his life , mum was busy making ends meet and stressed. A woman will never fill that gap of a father figure. God touch his soul. Thanks Ruth God bless you too.
But why whenever there was a chance to be around him, she could just give him a negative energy 🤷🤷🙌🙌
Nedda maama abalenzi bangi abakuuze ne ba maama nga tebajjulirira ba taata
@@asiimwedorcus4499 It's because there mothers where successful in turning them against there fathers, from a father's point of view.
This interview made me cry so much
I wish you could know the other side of the story?
@@ignatiusnkoyooyo969 share it as well simple
This guy has a story like for my Daddy 😢even us we grow up without going to our grandmother's place 😢even our grand mother was wishing as dead 😢she started 💔 doing witchcraft......so what this guy is saying is so really
Sending you hugs Emma.
I remember I use to hurt my father because of the things he did to me but the moment I give my life to jesus I forgive him and am blessed to have him in my life but it was not easy only jesus can do it
Oh sweetheart, this guy deserved a better mother😢 i feel his pain.
The mother deserves a better son
@nakatoaerone what do you mean
The truth is he was big headed in his childhood yet her was passing through a difficult situation
@@TumusiimeRitah children dont know difficult times. The child never asked her to give birth to him. That guy is even kind nze i throw u in the gutter and move on with my life.
@@nakatoaerone7769 wow.......
Nze the day my father took me to prison and he also roped me sili musonyiwa but buli kyansaba nkimuwa ate talibeel na mwaana wange wade ne omu
MY brother parents are source of our blessings please for give her infact buy her some staff like gomesi sugar and others,go kneel before her and apologise for any wrong you have ever done that annoyed her. Ask her to pray for you a blessing trust me things will change on your side.and a sign that shows that you have forgiven stop talking bad against her to other people. Yes mistreated you bad God forbids us from cursing our parents. Leviticus 20:9, Exodus 21:17 and proverbs 30:17
I know, I want to give, naye how will you give omuntu akusilanya? I now stay with my mum who always you know, has this talent in cursing?
@mrsizi, hopefully I have mentioned your name properly,it's had I also have issues with my mum but I stopped talking about her negatively to d public but my hrt has it,
Secondly the only way to prevent her curses attacking u, forgive,that is the biggest helmet and weapon to overcome her and u also become successful in this life,
This a principal of God.
U either get it or fail
As anation were fighting alot of issues as aresult of broken families .. we really need to do afavour to our next generations, so much broken hearts , childhood traumas are breaking our nation
😢😢😢😢 same to me my mom is like that
Mbambi blessings
What this man is going through I can understand cuz I have the same story
Me too I went through the same till naw I know I’m a bustard child , my mum yaneganako nti I’m not her child in front of her ka boyfriend,she used to say that am ugly till naw i kno that am ugly 😢😢Nze gwolaba naffa okwagala omusajja nebwankwana mba manyi tanjagala , one day yangamba nti okuzala gwe singa nazalamu ffene era nze siyina love ya mama sili mwagala nga abana abalala webagala ba mama babwe 😢😢😢
Eeeeeeh nze ndi mulungi boi evenif u tell me am not😂second am not in touch with mom too naye nze namutaaaaa nsaba abeerewo nga mulamu just
Wow I pray you heal am sorry you went through such things I didn't know such mom exsit
@@daphinenazziwa3542 they do munange kyoka nga I heard Mbu yamala ebanga nga anonya oluzalo lwange yanywa buli kika kyadagala naye bwatyo bweyampisa
@@balyebugajulie4477 ndowoza nange bwetyo bwendi simulowozako siyina katijjo kamama naye omukama yasinga okumanya munange namusinyiwa naye manyi nti Ndi kyana simwana nga abalala naye nina enkovu etali nvako ku mutima
@@MarvicNaava bambi!! Mothers banange olemwa
People are difficult so parents should try so hard to stay with their children and understand each other
Some parents have left a scar in our minds
Ruth nze maama owange nakula anangira mbu yanonda kukasasiro she never loved me naye mpaka kati siyina kwagala mumutima gwange
This is painful to watch , most times parents fight and separate or divorce in a brutal way and then instead of protecting our children or help our children to over come the trauma then we resort to hurting doing things to hurt kids . Mothers especially let’s love , protect our children even when marriages fail . Even if men hurt us so much let’s help our children in tbe hardest time
Your mother might be a sister to my mum. Mine yatulaganga nti teyeguya but seriously am traumatized era nze siyina Love. Our mum showed her favorite child but regardless We move.
All mothers have favorites and those kids end up being brats tebalina mpisa kibbi nyo
You hit right on the nail. ADHD needs someone who understands it. Our african parents have no idea on how to handle it. He should have been on treatment. That's the reason your mum did that to u
Madam Ruth webale kutuwereza.Bambi mr.Emma yetaaga deliverance from rejection because he rejected by their parents from the womb ate alina nobukyaayi ku maama we nze ndowoza agende emutundwe ewa Pastor Tom Mugerwa aja kuwona omutima ate asumululwe ne mu rejection ate era ayambeko ne maama we okuwona (omutima gwe mulwadde nogwa maama we betaaga YESU teri musawo asinga YESU KRISTO).
Thanks Rehemah, About Christ, am not so okay, I am what you would call an introvert and you know our churches don't cater for this personality type, church to me is a strange place, I can't stand very many people, I always feel out of place. I need therapy, I think.
@@MrSiiZiTherapy is better. Church sometimes hurts people more. And some things need therapy to work through things and learn coping strategies going forward
We're many bro same to me both parents 😢😢😢 mama yatuuka kuffa nga sifunye ku love yee taata gyali naye alinga ataaliwo ne bukojja ba mpitta mwana kyiibi 😢😢😢
Hugs to you bro or Sis
He just wanted to be seen and loved. Abazade basobya and they need to be accountable. We can do better
I just want to help as many people as possible who are suffering in silence problems that can be solved .
@@MrSiiZi That is very kind of you but you can not pour from an empty cup. Healed people heal people. Even your relationships will be much better. I felt pain listening to your prayer and I pray that things get better. sometimes we forgive for our sake,not because they deserve it
May Allah bless mai dad
Sorry bro too much pain
Oh dear.., I feel your pain
Ruth kwagala nyo mkn,ate kwagala akesuso coz abazala ba nsenene naye walai singa nsobola nange nadikuwadde story yange coz now am 31 naye nze mamaa twagana okwatagana simanyi lwaki ate nga nakula najjaaja siberangako naye naye omukazi tanjagala yalabi😭😭😭😭😭simanyi lwaki walai kinuma ate kilinuma mpaka lwendifa naye good enough ndi,mulamu
Being diagnosed with AHD is terrible and having a mother who is emotionless is a double diagnosis.
Maama woo nga mubi nyoooo 😢nze my son does wrong, but I don't see even look on them so much 😢😢
Nze byenina ku mutima bingi naye mukama wansasira nenva ebweru nga setugidde mukiyumba kyomuwalabu nkimanyi nti lwendiyatula nditerera coz njagala peace of mind nkoye nange neyagaleko nga omuntu i have tried alot to pretend but mbulako kimu kugwa ddalu imagine a girl like me and a mother at that nemala like a year nga sinaba mumutwe wadde okwetekako akazigo nasiwuka depression yafuka mere jendi naye kaninde okwatula
Naye abazadde ekintu kuba ne favorite kids nemukitulaga kiruma ,i really know how this man is feeeling am also not mums favorite the only difference nti nze maama tayongerezako bigambo ,but actions ohhh but still era mwagala munange ,and i care more than her favorite
Aunt Ruth nomuzadde asobya en we share the same situation with that brother and mpulira amaziga ku mutima 😢😢
I hear some pipo comment Mbu he is just attention seeker
Bakwano u never been there that’s why boogera batyo naye nga abazadde banji especially ba maama batulwaza nyo emitima . We love them to the moon but they repay us with hatred