Accept he's gone out of your life, live within your means and explain to your kids that things have changed. I raised my four kids alone after my husband left. They were under 10 years. I cried alot until I let go. I interacted with people and my mindset changed. .change starts with you. Today am a proud mother of beautiful youths and today one is a pilot
just my 2 cents. you can relocate to a place where its normal to have mixed race kids. like mombasa or malindi there are so many such kids some somali, arabs, european, barawas, indians so you wont stand out and look unique. and your kids and yourself you will have a normal life. i personally know several single ladies ambao they are just hustlers wamepata watoto na people from europe, america etc na wanaishi maisha ya kawaida tu and their kids go to public school in malindi and mombasa but in other parts of kenya especially if you're not well of financially you might look out of place with mixed race kids coz in other towns it's not an ordinary thing. watoto hua wanaadapt any lifestyle you give them
I have three kids and I have raised them alone my daughter is in form four and my twins in class six and am a single mother hata sitaki kufwatilia about there father
Pls, these kids were born here...help them to know, colour does not matter they are Kenyans. Stop thinking of going to Spain, please Kenya is the best country. You didn't learn a lesson being discriminated! East or west home is best
Why care of spain after all that u passed thru🤔 ati watoto warudi kwao spain yet there born here in Kenya. Its just 2 kids mama hustle acha maringo ya colour, private school if u have reached a place ya kulala njaa u shouldnt even have time kuthink sijui there father ni mspain or whatever kaa maisha rahisi even in America we have whites who are in streets yaani tu kenya ndio mtoto hawezi enda public juu ni mixed race 🤨 sorry for my comment but as a mother cant understand u got a job even kuja mathare uone waliachiwa watoto 5 na kazi kupika chipo n life goes on.
I agree with you , she need to stand the gap for her children , it seems like even after going thru hell and such scary things she still want the creature to back . I lived in that Spain and it wasn't such a good country , I saw many homeless Africans in the street .
I second you what wrong with her going all through abuse domestic violence she's still thinking about nassist husband for the sake of kid's...wewe mami you should start selling miraa right now to give the kids good education...wachana na napapa
Its sad the mentality some of these parents who have mixed race kids have here in kenya.i don't see anything wrong with a public school in here,after all there are other kids going to the same school.This kind of thinkng is even dangerous to the upbringing of those kids ,other women are hustling and raising doctors,pilots,engineers and even Presidents alone.
I sympathise With you and it’s very unfortunate you have had to go through this ordeal .. but I don’t understand why the kids can’t study like other kids in Kenya . Skin colour dosent define success! I just don’t get it
When people shows you who they are believe them the first time, when he went back to Spain the first time and he went quite that was the first sign to show you he isn't a trustworthy,you can do better without that man
May God help you to get a good job so that you take care of children. Never think of taking your children to Spain thank God you are alive. Bye the grace of God you get help from a good Kenyan
@@isoomena3511 which Europe? Wangu nimeny'ang'anywa na Mjeremani.3 kids. I have faced a lot of discrimination. In fact Kuna mtoto mmoja sijaona for 3 years now.
She needs to accept her situation, and hustle for her kids. There are a lot of single moms who are hustling for their kids. A lot of mixed kids being brought up in Kenya, and African in general and they attend local schools like other kids. Saying that her Kids should attend private school because they are mixed sounds to me like she has a complex, and feels her kids are more special than other kids.
As a person with mixed children myself I would never ever consider sending my children to a public school in Kenya, the constant racism from other children, taunting and calling them "mzungu" every two minutes would negatively affect their mental health.
@@shikoladob2337 My Children are black in a white school in the UK. At one time my daughter was the only black girl in her class. She did well regardless , and was very popular, because I have taught my children to embrace who they are and know they have equal rights to be in the world. Sometimes we project our insecurities and complexes on our kids and they suffer for it.
@@MrMaboboz I went to school with a few mixed children and they coped well. Just teach your children who they are and let them know they have equal right to be in whatever space they inhabit.
My heart goes to this lady n her kids....she mentioned an important aspect that through experience i respect so much...she said that she don't want her kids to be taken away as a form of help...she would rather take care of her kids. Please well wishers never give a mother an option of giving away kids.
Dating a white guy doesn't guarantee you a ticket to good life.Lea watoto and forget about him.Nimeona ma dame wengi wameashwa kwa mataa hapa Nairobi after kulingia wasee hapa
There is a law that was passed in Europe about parent having children with European nationality, that give you rights to apply for European residents permit. Ruth research on that and you can be able to come back to Europe and probably with your story go to a different country and start a new life with you kids. After your children get the passport approach different European embassy there in Kenya and try to find help.
She's better off back home than in Europe there's nothing here, I remember this woman from tuko talks thank God she made it out of Spain ALIVE with her kids 🙏🏾💯
Ruth home is the best feel comfortable and let the girls know they're Africans and be proud of it. Dig yourself in prayer and let God drive you and never think of taking those kids back to Spain raise them in Kenya when they grow up and they want to go there it will happen. Sweetheart you're capable of doing all things through Christ don't worry about anything you're not alone God bless you and your beautiful girls. Jeremy thank you for the highlight something good will come out it be blessed and may the KDM family do something. Lots of love ,hugs and kisses. ❤❤❤❤❤🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭
Exactly. Finally someone who's not afraid to state ukweli as it is. Choices have consequences. I have no sorry words for watu kama hawa, though wanafanya watoto wao wateseke bure.
@@joannekui1 Respect is EARNED, and not demanded. It's even sad that you can't even see what's right in front of you. However, in today's and future generations, it doesn't surprise, but rather expected. What's even worse, is that it's not EVER going to get better, until space time is no more.
Ruth, am sorry kwa yake ilikupata. If you want peace, tell yourself you have no husband. If you keep thinking of somebody who is not thinking about you, you will just hurt yourself. He is a merciless person from all angles. Wengi wamelea single handedly even 5 children and they have managed. Jipe nguvu you will go far. May God heal your stomach sooner than you can imagine.
*Sioni sababu ya kufikilia kurudi spain na ile mateso yote umepitia huko karibu kupoteza maisha. Mummy hii life ni kung'ang'ana 💪 watoto kuitwa wazungu na wenzao wakienda public school itafika mahali wazoee, bona unajiua na shule za bei ya juu ilhali ata chakula mnakosa? Mungu akufungulie jia upate kazi ulee malaika wako bila stress🙏* Nima kindu no mwene Jeremy ukifanyisha interview huwa ina flow vizuri 👌
I have a problem with you saying that children have to go to a Private school because of their colour. Why don't you teach them to accept that they are "black" children and are accepted anywhere in Kenya. Believe you me, in the West, your children are black. But let us start with you allowing them to be Kenyan children. You are black. You live with them. Colours does not make you a black person. We come in all colours. Black, Brown, Dark Brown light Brown. God created a unique being labelled by others Black. Allow them to mix with their own. They are not used to a Western lifestyle. They were born in Kenya. Visited their abusive father briefly and now live in Kenya. Allow them to embrace their culture. Let them get a Spanish passport since its their birthright and maybe they can go there for further studies when they are adults and their father can't harm them. Lakini wacha nikwambie Spain is a Western country but they have not got much there. Without tourists they are just peasant farmers. They come to the U.K to search for work. You seem to have a job. Take your kids to a school because it performs well not because that's their right because of their colour.
Very true. She's not telling the whole truth and expects people to help in sending her children to private schools just because they are half white. Ours are in public schools.
Daughter of the most high God May God be your strength as you raise and protect your two beautiful girls. It’s so sad how the Father of your girls mistreated you. Forgive him . I thank God that he protected you. Many women in similar situations face their worst. Be encouraged God will make a way for you and your children. Shalom, Much love and prayers❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕🙏❤️💕🙏💕❤️🙏
This gal has changed her body a lot may God see her through but saying baba yao inaniudhi pretend you geri them from irungu or kimathi like any other lady out here don’t hold on the colour that because they are white be you and yourself
Kenyans kenyans kenyans Ladies Hw many time did I called you oohhh Pliz kenyans men are vry sweet why are you not comfortable wth this good mens in kenya am happy to have my kenyan man oooooh olekeni tuuu kenya yawa😢😢
I had a seen her interview on tuko last year with Lynn ngugi ,her body has totally changed. My fellow meru don't give up in life ,trust in God everything is possible
People should be careful someone can't disappear 3 yrs and then pap atokee and then you fall in love again unless you stupid...if we dont tell people truth others will fall on the same ditch.....sasa watoto dio wanateseka cause of poor decisions
Racism is everywhere even in America, and not every part of the land of the white people u can settle in, some people in the village are very Conservative,so don't be scared if you ever wanted to visit Spain it very beautiful country
Ruth this is what I can share with you... "Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be CONTENT: I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. EVERWHERE and in ALL things I have learned BOTH to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me." Phillipians 4:11-13.
My sister ety umesema unaeza rudi Spain 😳😳😳😳upatane na ule mwanaume mwenye alitaka kukukata shingo?🤦🤦🥱ingekuwa ni wewe sigewai think about tht man ata kama niko na watoto nayeye ...I wish unaweza kuishi maisha Ile uko comfortable nayo bila stress , anyway pole Sana everything gonna be well.
Hii maisha Una faa kukaa ngumu watoi hua tuna lea peke yetu na ss ni hastle life watoi niwa mama mtoto ana ishi vienye Una mlea tafuta job dear Wanaume Wana fanana
God be with you brave mum. You survived that odeal because there is a future for you and the beautiful souls. Thst man will regret his evil actions. Utasaidiwa. Please display the number again.
It's sad how fellow women have no empathy for Ruth. Why push the idea of her going back to a country that she experienced so much trauma unless her inner guts gives her an ok. She's asking for help from those willing to help her and kids continue living in Kenya. Only Ruth knows how the trauma has internally affected her and her beautiful kids. Please be sensitive as you make comments (to the point of telling her to take the kids back to their father if she can't take care of them) why? why? If you can't help don't make them feel like people don't like them especially now.
It is true she’s in need, but hapo ati kids need to attend private schools because of their colour is nonsense. Kids will always understand their situation if she lives a realistic life. Awachane na Spain for now, atie bidii alee watoi kama single mother. She needs to ACCEPT that life happens and mtoi ni vile utamlea. Stop paying money that she doesn’t have to private schooling yet hakuna food kwa nyumba. Priorities??? She needs to focus on her health so she can be there for her kids always. 🙏🏾
@Carolik Delish yeaaa the venom from fellow women is unbelievable. Gosh! Sad! Are they holier than thou??? This woman is desperate the least she needs is bad vibes. She could be depressed. Waaah! Women pls pls.
Sorry, but forget this ‘husband’. The man does not love you nor his children. Focus on raising your kids with whatever little you have. They will understand. No need to send kids to Spain and go suffer there. You will still struggle there without Spanish language. You almost lost your life there.. Abroad is not all that. Your kids need you. Don’t take them back to the mzungu that doesn’t even care about them.
Unless she goes to Spain and lives alone with the kids and try to struggle alone but not take them back to that man. If he can try to kill her in front of them, then they won't like their father. They will be depressed. Kids can live in Kenya and survive if only she has a good job.
True bora she has a job that can maintain her and her two kids that all akae alee watoto wake if they grow up and want to find there dad they will at there own free will
I really hope the lady can be able to pick up her pieces and move on ..for me i would never want my kids to a man who treated me like that -i wish she accepts her situation as it is and helps kids adopt this life as we hope for better future- counseling for herself n kids is key.
Ruth youre a strong woman, you've been handling alot of things at the same time for a long time, the beauty of it is every time you're not where you we're yesterday, your tomorrow is brighter, just take heart , it's has not been easy but you've been making it,
Sorry for what you went through mom.I live in Spain and I use public transport everyday na sijawahi fungiwa nje na bus na pia hosi i'm attended like any other person have all the rights here.They are racist it is true but that mzungu ni evil sana
Ng'ang'ana Mami..Kuna wengi wako na watoto na wanapitia mengi zaidi..for me i don't see the difference of your children and the other black children, they are all the same but as long as they have good health there is no problem....
No no no! Watch out. If if your discriminated even by those who could not let you board matatu, follow your conscience. At this time am sure it hard to make a "decisio" due to hardships. But with God everything is possible. Let those in spain and ready to assist assist you while in kenya.
Also in UK there are some villages u can not settle as a foreigner, some village people are very Conservative, the same in usa a foreigner can not settle every where, I been to Spain in big towns I have never been discriminated, and the biggest problem with her case the kids were born in Kenya and then she left Spain without the right documents, if she could have had a chance to mingle with other Africans she would now be settled in Spain
@@mariawanjiru1275 hataki should not be an option,hiyo ni right yake coz watoto ni half Spanish,so baba yao ni a must amlipe child Support na pia she has a right too to live in Spain with her kids She just need a very good lawyer coz hao watu(I mean the spanish) they normally want foreigners out of their land:(
@@Karedi_redi True she should move on but that baby daddy wake lazima alipe child support!but hizo ni vitu they normally solve kwa court na CPS juu sasa hao ndio wata deal na yeye
We had a family that used to rent from us in Kabete, they were half white half black. They all went to public schools and that was in the 80's and 90's. Just let them attend public schools. kids get bullied for all kinds of reasons. They will become strong. They will also have kids who will really stand with them.
Wacha kujistress..I have a neighbor who has a boy&a girl born by a German dad,na wanasomea shule ya public huku githurai... leave the way things are for now dear...
am so sorry for what you have gone through but. if i were you I would just asume The baby daddy is dead dead dead! then pray to God for strength and His divine provision then move on with on with life..... Trusting God for and 'with all' you is the key in this life... dont go back to Spain... God will see you through...
Until you have a coloured child nobody can understand how Kenyans can be discriminating. As a mother who has mixed children and attended private schools in Kenya, teachers, other children and the community in general called them wazungu. Sometimes when you visit markets you find very vile people who will call the mother all sorts of names. How does this affect these children mentally, they lose their identity since their environment does not accept them as their own. As a mother you have to be very strong to educate your children socially, build their mental capacity to understand their environment and provide them with formal education. Spain is not a first world country most citizens are very poor, so please dont hold your breath build your life in Kenya, love, nurture, build your children confidence and all will be well. First forward when my coloured children migrated to a western country, they had no problems fitting in even though different they knew who they are and were content with it. We had a lot of discussions in our house supported them in all their needs. Now all mature, we talk and reflect. After visiting Kenya three years ago, they found it very difficult to cope with the home culture.
@@dollydolly1317 One of the biggest problem is that we focus on what other people think of us. If only we dont put too much effort thinking about our colour, live and enjoy our lives then this issue of being black should not bother us. With my work, we are very few blacks who undertake the work I do. However, I have a very good relationship with my colleagues and not even once I felt that because I am black I am treated differently. Having said that, I also call it out if at all anybody would dare say something which I regard as unfair. I know my rights and a strong woman who knows what she wants in life. I educated my children of the same and I must say they are fine. Mature now and they dont have one black friend they see themselves as people, we might be different and I tell them thats ok but we are all human beings. Thats why I really struggle with women who bleach their colour to be white yet we have such a beautiful skin, why cant we love and accept ourselves the way we are. I remember when I first met my mother in law years back, I think she did not know how to handle me, the reason was that she had never met a black person before. I never blamed her we had chats of different things and she was my best friend ever till she died. Its the same thing with us if a muzungu went to remote areas of Kenya, people are curious to know about them and shout muzungu at them.
I have grown as mixrace child in Kenya the life I had has growing up, From shule My famliy members church members,,Teachers God forgive them,Now Iam in Europe aki nani kama God. CHANGE THE LIFE OF THIS KIDS.
I would advice her to go back to Spain to a different city . And after she can try a way of coming to Germany . She is allowed to live in Germany .she will be comfortable here and there are many paid job she can do. Her children will make her live any country in Europe that is in European Union.
Thats true if her children get spanish passport she can also apply for documents of staying with European children and with that documents she can come back to Europe.
Accept he's gone out of your life, live within your means and explain to your kids that things have changed. I raised my four kids alone after my husband left. They were under 10 years. I cried alot until I let go. I interacted with people and my mindset changed. .change starts with you. Today am a proud mother of beautiful youths and today one is a pilot
Wao
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You're a super woman. 💪🏾
Wao that's very nice 🙂
I think i know you Lucy,i have been trying to reach you in seatle
If you managed to get out of Spain along with your kids after all you went through............I confirm God's power and protection.
I went through the same with a German man mbaka I took my kids hocha! For 13 years .Alhamdulillah he brought himself back na akaanza kuwasaidia!
just my 2 cents. you can relocate to a place where its normal to have mixed race kids. like mombasa or malindi there are so many such kids some somali, arabs, european, barawas, indians so you wont stand out and look unique. and your kids and yourself you will have a normal life. i personally know several single ladies ambao they are just hustlers wamepata watoto na people from europe, america etc na wanaishi maisha ya kawaida tu and their kids go to public school in malindi and mombasa but in other parts of kenya especially if you're not well of financially you might look out of place with mixed race kids coz in other towns it's not an ordinary thing. watoto hua wanaadapt any lifestyle you give them
That guy is a Psychopath,a Narcissist. lea watoto wako mummy.Gods grace is sufficient.
I have three kids and I have raised them alone my daughter is in form four and my twins in class six and am a single mother hata sitaki kufwatilia about there father
Pls, these kids were born here...help them to know, colour does not matter they are Kenyans. Stop thinking of going to Spain, please Kenya is the best country. You didn't learn a lesson being discriminated! East or west home is best
You can say that again
Why care of spain after all that u passed thru🤔 ati watoto warudi kwao spain yet there born here in Kenya. Its just 2 kids mama hustle acha maringo ya colour, private school if u have reached a place ya kulala njaa u shouldnt even have time kuthink sijui there father ni mspain or whatever kaa maisha rahisi even in America we have whites who are in streets yaani tu kenya ndio mtoto hawezi enda public juu ni mixed race 🤨 sorry for my comment but as a mother cant understand u got a job even kuja mathare uone waliachiwa watoto 5 na kazi kupika chipo n life goes on.
Sarah, i conquer this one with, kwani watoti wanyeuthi sio watoto?? Ati mashinda zingine nizakujiletea anyway wacha nikomee hapo otherwise mawe zitarushwo nimalizie kaghetto kengine hapa kalikuwa kamambati
That's true wamama wanahustle uku nje
I agree with you , she need to stand the gap for her children , it seems like even after going thru hell and such scary things she still want the creature to back . I lived in that Spain and it wasn't such a good country , I saw many homeless Africans in the street .
I second you what wrong with her going all through abuse domestic violence she's still thinking about nassist husband for the sake of kid's...wewe mami you should start selling miraa right now to give the kids good education...wachana na napapa
Its sad the mentality some of these parents who have mixed race kids have here in kenya.i don't see anything wrong with a public school in here,after all there are other kids going to the same school.This kind of thinkng is even dangerous to the upbringing of those kids ,other women are hustling and raising doctors,pilots,engineers and even Presidents alone.
I sympathise With you and it’s very unfortunate you have had to go through this ordeal .. but I don’t understand why the kids can’t study like other kids in Kenya . Skin colour dosent define success! I just don’t get it
True kenya is good enough
Yeye tu dio ana wapatia watoto stress. Ata ocha wanaweza somea tu
Who feels it knows it better. The rest are opinions of no useful consequence to current situation. Help if you can, otherwise hush it. 😅
When people shows you who they are believe them the first time, when he went back to Spain the first time and he went quite that was the first sign to show you he isn't a trustworthy,you can do better without that man
May God help you to get a good job so that you take care of children. Never think of taking your children to Spain thank God you are alive. Bye the grace of God you get help from a good Kenyan
Single mothers bring up kids up to university..Fanya kazi Ruth..May God gives you healthy to manage this case.
Very true
Well said
Pls do not take those beatifull girls to their mad musugu pls to avoid abuse.pls take care of your kids
True!
Very true
Very true
In Europe the mothers makes the decision, pending the capability of the children.
@@isoomena3511 which Europe? Wangu nimeny'ang'anywa na Mjeremani.3 kids. I have faced a lot of discrimination. In fact Kuna mtoto mmoja sijaona for 3 years now.
She needs to accept her situation, and hustle for her kids. There are a lot of single moms who are hustling for their kids. A lot of mixed kids being brought up in Kenya, and African in general and they attend local schools like other kids. Saying that her Kids should attend private school because they are mixed sounds to me like she has a complex, and feels her kids are more special than other kids.
As a person with mixed children myself I would never ever consider sending my children to a public school in Kenya, the constant racism from other children, taunting and calling them "mzungu" every two minutes would negatively affect their mental health.
Well I guess that's her experience. Mignon Mignon is that also your own personal experience or is it from what others tell you.
@@shikoladob2337 My Children are black in a white school in the UK. At one time my daughter was the only black girl in her class. She did well regardless , and was very popular, because I have taught my children to embrace who they are and know they have equal rights to be in the world. Sometimes we project our insecurities and complexes on our kids and they suffer for it.
@@MrMaboboz I went to school with a few mixed children and they coped well. Just teach your children who they are and let them know they have equal right to be in whatever space they inhabit.
Let everyone with mentality like hers remain in suffering.this, their stupid complexion pride must not be tolerated!
My heart goes to this lady n her kids....she mentioned an important aspect that through experience i respect so much...she said that she don't want her kids to be taken away as a form of help...she would rather take care of her kids. Please well wishers never give a mother an option of giving away kids.
I agree with you. Dignity first
Wish apewe job tu
Dating a white guy doesn't guarantee you a ticket to good life.Lea watoto and forget about him.Nimeona ma dame wengi wameashwa kwa mataa hapa Nairobi after kulingia wasee hapa
Wameachwa
There is a law that was passed in Europe about parent having children with European nationality, that give you rights to apply for European residents permit. Ruth research on that and you can be able to come back to Europe and probably with your story go to a different country and start a new life with you kids. After your children get the passport approach different European embassy there in Kenya and try to find help.
True Children Born in European Union are european citizens.
She should go to Spanish embassy .
Yes she can but it's difficult a bit don't you know they separated with EU brexit 😉
Ll ll lol lolj
She's better off back home than in Europe there's nothing here, I remember this woman from tuko talks thank God she made it out of Spain ALIVE with her kids 🙏🏾💯
This is helpful, pursue this
Even if the world ends today I can't be married 💍 by a mzungu never
Oonanie reke nemwo😮
@shikungukagichannel5651 pia mimi akii
Beautiful kids ,watching from saudia Arabia
Side iiriku mwari wetu?
@@redbutterfly4939 mi nko hafar Al batin and am doing good 🤗hope you're fine
Ruth home is the best feel comfortable and let the girls know they're Africans and be proud of it. Dig yourself in prayer and let God drive you and never think of taking those kids back to Spain raise them in Kenya when they grow up and they want to go there it will happen. Sweetheart you're capable of doing all things through Christ don't worry about anything you're not alone God bless you and your beautiful girls. Jeremy thank you for the highlight something good will come out it be blessed and may the KDM family do something. Lots of love ,hugs and kisses. ❤❤❤❤❤🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭
I have hard you Mathina,! kindly, better
This life is not a Walk in park... people suffer..but God will help us 🙏🙏
Beautiful girls...be strong mamma😉God is in control..
Mtaacha kuabudu wazungu wakenya.. Cheiii
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Exactly. Finally someone who's not afraid to state ukweli as it is. Choices have consequences. I have no sorry words for watu kama hawa, though wanafanya watoto wao wateseke bure.
Pls respect
Woiye please please nawaomba just respect. I don't think her story is 'kuabudu wazungu'. Tafathalini
@@joannekui1 Respect is EARNED, and not demanded. It's even sad that you can't even see what's right in front of you. However, in today's and future generations, it doesn't surprise, but rather expected. What's even worse, is that it's not EVER going to get better, until space time is no more.
Beautiful children watching from Spain Barcelona
Are they racist there Tracy?
@@Future88746 no dear am here with my children and they are going to school here people are friendly
@@tracynjeriwanjiru5754 its a lie.That country is racist asf
Ruth, am sorry kwa yake ilikupata. If you want peace, tell yourself you have no husband. If you keep thinking of somebody who is not thinking about you, you will just hurt yourself. He is a merciless person from all angles. Wengi wamelea single handedly even 5 children and they have managed. Jipe nguvu you will go far. May God heal your stomach sooner than you can imagine.
I think Spain embassy in Kenya can intervene and reach out to that deadbeat
Worst embassy in the world
Yaaaani hawa wazungu!!!!!, i love and respect them coz Am married to them but they give some ladies so much pain !!!!!, God help us
Breaks my heart. But also gives me strength to know that I'm not alone. Pole mummy things will workout for you.
*Sioni sababu ya kufikilia kurudi spain na ile mateso yote umepitia huko karibu kupoteza maisha. Mummy hii life ni kung'ang'ana 💪 watoto kuitwa wazungu na wenzao wakienda public school itafika mahali wazoee, bona unajiua na shule za bei ya juu ilhali ata chakula mnakosa? Mungu akufungulie jia upate kazi ulee malaika wako bila stress🙏*
Nima kindu no mwene Jeremy ukifanyisha interview huwa ina flow vizuri 👌
Utimo sacco umoja we love you RUTH....you kids are always cute and I adore them....mwaaaaest 💕
I remember her story she look very different,I believe Ruth can do better in Kenya than in Spain
I agree.
I have a problem with you saying that children have to go to a Private school because of their colour. Why don't you teach them to accept that they are "black" children and are accepted anywhere in Kenya. Believe you me, in the West, your children are black. But let us start with you allowing them to be Kenyan children. You are black. You live with them. Colours does not make you a black person. We come in all colours. Black, Brown, Dark Brown light Brown. God created a unique being labelled by others Black. Allow them to mix with their own. They are not used to a Western lifestyle. They were born in Kenya. Visited their abusive father briefly and now live in Kenya. Allow them to embrace their culture. Let them get a Spanish passport since its their birthright and maybe they can go there for further studies when they are adults and their father can't harm them. Lakini wacha nikwambie Spain is a Western country but they have not got much there. Without tourists they are just peasant farmers. They come to the U.K to search for work. You seem to have a job. Take your kids to a school because it performs well not because that's their right because of their colour.
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Very true. She's not telling the whole truth and expects people to help in sending her children to private schools just because they are half white. Ours are in public schools.
Sio yeye peke yake ako single mother, so ina faa single mother wote waje kwa media for help? At kwasababu watoto ame zaa na mzungu 🙄
Very true private school doesn’t make them whites, they are topical Kenyans …..
Daughter of the most high God May God be your strength as you raise and protect your two beautiful girls. It’s so sad how the Father of your girls mistreated you. Forgive him . I thank God that he protected you. Many women in similar situations face their worst. Be encouraged God will make a way for you and your children. Shalom, Much love and prayers❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕🙏❤️💕🙏💕❤️🙏
Good to see you my sister.Bless you.
Try to come to uk. I can invite you to my house until you get help.
Please talk to her and provide ticket. But the best thing is to fund her to start some business in Kenya.
This gal has changed her body a lot may God see her through but saying baba yao inaniudhi pretend you geri them from irungu or kimathi like any other lady out here don’t hold on the colour that because they are white be you and yourself
They're black.
Alafu Spain is such a poor country.
@@sarahnjeri105 I would rather go to Arabic countries than Spain
Woiye surely there is a God in heaven... May God restore all that has been lost❤️
Kenyans kenyans kenyans
Ladies
Hw many time did I called you oohhh
Pliz kenyans men are vry sweet why are you not comfortable wth this good mens in kenya am happy to have my kenyan man oooooh olekeni tuuu kenya yawa😢😢
Bad men come in all skin colours.
The earth is hard.ati watoi hawaezi enda public school juu ni mix?
Wooi jeremy maya maundu maaah....may our lord bless the work of your hands...wairimu God is in control
Home is the always best l love kenya
I had a seen her interview on tuko last year with Lynn ngugi ,her body has totally changed. My fellow meru don't give up in life ,trust in God everything is possible
I have noticed too, she have lost weight woiie
@@maggienjenga3949 yes ,but we pray for her to get quick recovery in her stomach in jesus name 🙏
True she have changed alot 😭anakaa amefinyika na maisha woie
@@sarahraymond7719 Hope all shall be well soon for her .she is a intelligent lady 👊
Aki let keep waiting upon our God 🙏
I saw her on Tuko...please let go and let God...Let Him fight your battles...May God heal you and all suffering in Silence...
Me too and am shocked nothing has changed since then woiye
Someone goes for 3 yrs no communication anarudi unapata another kid men..
Don't judge
People should be careful someone can't disappear 3 yrs and then pap atokee and then you fall in love again unless you stupid...if we dont tell people truth others will fall on the same ditch.....sasa watoto dio wanateseka cause of poor decisions
si ata wa chile alirudi after 3 years na akapata mtoto mwingine
I am already annoyed halfway. What? I didn't know such racism exists in the world. Spain, I have stopped supporting their football team, Barcelona
Racism is everywhere even in America, and not every part of the land of the white people u can settle in, some people in the village are very Conservative,so don't be scared if you ever wanted to visit Spain it very beautiful country
Kkkkkkk....kkk most europeans are racist kwanza Spain the atrocities the did during colonial time washa tu!
Europeans my foot !
Hi Ruth, take your children and yourself for counselling. This trauma is real.
They are such beautiful kids.
Wafrika mutachana kufuata white skin juu unaona feature will be bright
Ruth this is what I can share with you...
"Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be CONTENT: I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. EVERWHERE and in ALL things I have learned BOTH to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me." Phillipians 4:11-13.
Very strong words here ,be blessed dear
@@zippykaruthu1505 Thank you my sister! God bless you and your family too!!
So sad . May heavenly father see you through & fulfill your heart desires...
Subhanaallah yaarabi wanawake tunapita maisha mangumu sana tukisha pata watoto pole sana dada
My sister ety umesema unaeza rudi Spain 😳😳😳😳upatane na ule mwanaume mwenye alitaka kukukata shingo?🤦🤦🥱ingekuwa ni wewe sigewai think about tht man ata kama niko na watoto nayeye ...I wish unaweza kuishi maisha Ile uko comfortable nayo bila stress , anyway pole Sana everything gonna be well.
Kabisaa hata mi namushangaa ashukuru mungu hakuwawa
Thank you Jeremy for the support and gd work
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Get Span and after go to any Europ and you can go to any Europ country you don't need that man
Her story was in Tuko i think 🤔 these are the wazungus people die for 🤦🏿♀️.
Round hii Ruth ameisha.... Ni stress ama...God help her
I am a chotara and I went to a public sch
Life has to continue .
Hii maisha Una faa kukaa ngumu watoi hua tuna lea peke yetu na ss ni hastle life watoi niwa mama mtoto ana ishi vienye Una mlea tafuta job dear Wanaume Wana fanana
God be with you brave mum. You survived that odeal because there is a future for you and the beautiful souls. Thst man will regret his evil actions. Utasaidiwa. Please display the number again.
It's sad how fellow women have no empathy for Ruth. Why push the idea of her going back to a country that she experienced so much trauma unless her inner guts gives her an ok. She's asking for help from those willing to help her and kids continue living in Kenya. Only Ruth knows how the trauma has internally affected her and her beautiful kids. Please be sensitive as you make comments (to the point of telling her to take the kids back to their father if she can't take care of them) why? why? If you can't help don't make them feel like people don't like them especially now.
It is true she’s in need, but hapo ati kids need to attend private schools because of their colour is nonsense. Kids will always understand their situation if she lives a realistic life. Awachane na Spain for now, atie bidii alee watoi kama single mother. She needs to ACCEPT that life happens and mtoi ni vile utamlea. Stop paying money that she doesn’t have to private schooling yet hakuna food kwa nyumba. Priorities??? She needs to focus on her health so she can be there for her kids always. 🙏🏾
@Carolik Delish yeaaa the venom from fellow women is unbelievable. Gosh! Sad! Are they holier than thou??? This woman is desperate the least she needs is bad vibes. She could be depressed. Waaah! Women pls pls.
Best comment here❤
My neighbour, we once visited her after her operation, May God see her through.
Sorry, but forget this ‘husband’. The man does not love you nor his children. Focus on raising your kids with whatever little you have. They will understand. No need to send kids to Spain and go suffer there. You will still struggle there without Spanish language. You almost lost your life there.. Abroad is not all that. Your kids need you. Don’t take them back to the mzungu that doesn’t even care about them.
Only God knows what people go through far away from home.
May God see u thru this soon in Jesus name 🙏🙏🙏🙏
In God's name
Ati juu niwazungu hawawezi kaa ghetto! The kids should learn thy r Kenyans!!
Its hard.
Mama psychologically hayuko poa. Watoto wanaadapt situation yeyote, usipowavuruga
Matatizo ya kukimbilia wazungu
Unless she goes to Spain and lives alone with the kids and try to struggle alone but not take them back to that man.
If he can try to kill her in front of them, then they won't like their father.
They will be depressed.
Kids can live in Kenya and survive if only she has a good job.
True bora she has a job that can maintain her and her two kids that all akae alee watoto wake if they grow up and want to find there dad they will at there own free will
Jeremy!!You so funny 😂 ati hata hakukuuliza umekuja na nini..
I really hope the lady can be able to pick up her pieces and move on ..for me i would never want my kids to a man who treated me like that -i wish she accepts her situation as it is and helps kids adopt this life as we hope for better future- counseling for herself n kids is key.
You are Blessed my brother 🙏
Ruth youre a strong woman, you've been handling alot of things at the same time for a long time, the beauty of it is every time you're not where you we're yesterday, your tomorrow is brighter, just take heart , it's has not been easy but you've been making it,
Malaaaaawi ni Kenya?? Jeremy🤣🤣🤣
This story sadness my heart ,mama there time mum was in need n you were there for her,,,may God remember you for the good deeds,,,🙏
Mwambie 🤣
Guess it sounded like Soweto...like one of the many slums in Kenya.
Malawi is a country by itself . it's not even a part of south Africa
God bless you ❤️🙏.. very sad for the kids..
the guy went for introduction and after that things became bad. may God punish the enemy!
Sorry for what you went through mom.I live in Spain and I use public transport everyday na sijawahi fungiwa nje na bus na pia hosi i'm attended like any other person have all the rights here.They are racist it is true but that mzungu ni evil sana
Kenyan ladies mkome na wazungu
God bless you my namesake and may His purpose be done in your life
Ng'ang'ana Mami..Kuna wengi wako na watoto na wanapitia mengi zaidi..for me i don't see the difference of your children and the other black children, they are all the same but as long as they have good health there is no problem....
True, there are many worse than her.
No no no! Watch out. If if your discriminated even by those who could not let you board matatu, follow your conscience. At this time am sure it hard to make a "decisio" due to hardships. But with God everything is possible. Let those in spain and ready to assist assist you while in kenya.
Haha..weu Jeremy,ati hakuulizi ni nny umekuja nayo?anyway take heart ma'am, your children will grow to be gr8 pple.
Wish you all the best mummy. Put God first in everything. Forget that white man kabisaa. Lea watoto.
Malawi is part of southern African countries just like we have kenya, Uganda or Tanzania as part of East Africa countries
Take care of your kids God will support you. .usitugemee mtu tumainia Mungu pekee
I would rather live alone period by Steve Irungu Jermaine
Wow very sad particularly for the kids
I would advise these lady to go back to Spain then go to uk and settle there permanently
Go to UK, do you know what's Brexit
Naielewa tena sana ndugu yangu
It's not easy even when UK was in Eu.
Also in UK there are some villages u can not settle as a foreigner, some village people are very Conservative, the same in usa a foreigner can not settle every where, I been to Spain in big towns I have never been discriminated, and the biggest problem with her case the kids were born in Kenya and then she left Spain without the right documents, if she could have had a chance to mingle with other Africans she would now be settled in Spain
Behaviours of a narcissist, appear, disappear..silent treatment...they are worse than murderers, you never know what's coming next!
may God see you through babygal 🙏🙏
Haki anafaa kuenda kwa embassy ya Spain na apply for child Support
And then CPS will track him down and he will be paying child support to her!
Atleast some good news here
Embassy ya Spain inasadia kweli
She should just move on. Ashaasema mzee ametoka familia msotomsoto
@@mariawanjiru1275 hataki should not be an option,hiyo ni right yake coz watoto ni half Spanish,so baba yao ni a must amlipe child Support na pia she has a right too to live in Spain with her kids
She just need a very good lawyer coz hao watu(I mean the spanish) they normally want foreigners out of their land:(
@@Karedi_redi True she should move on but that baby daddy wake lazima alipe child support!but hizo ni vitu they normally solve kwa court na CPS juu sasa hao ndio wata deal na yeye
Sad story but thank God you're alive
Accept tuu wapeleke public school,wacha kuwabeba na hiyo mentally ya rangi,they are normal children.
You are a strong woman ...
She should go to Spanish Embassy in Kenya to try get child support from the father for the kids!
The reporter ; Malawi 🇲🇼 ni Kenya 🇰🇪😂
Eee..anaeza peangwa monthly social help
Mama pls forget the past and hustle for your kids wachana na issue ya musungu hustle like a single mum
It's very hard for kids to adopt to new changes. I can tell from my own experience.. may they find grace to get through it all
We had a family that used to rent from us in Kabete, they were half white half black. They all went to public schools and that was in the 80's and 90's. Just let them attend public schools. kids get bullied for all kinds of reasons. They will become strong. They will also have kids who will really stand with them.
Wacha kujistress..I have a neighbor who has a boy&a girl born by a German dad,na wanasomea shule ya public huku githurai... leave the way things are for now dear...
Pole dada,I agree with you not easy God will see you through forgive wale hawaelewi about mixed coloured kids
am so sorry for what you have gone through but. if i were you I would just asume The baby daddy is dead dead dead! then pray to God for strength and His divine provision then move on with on with life..... Trusting God for and 'with all' you is the key in this life... dont go back to Spain... God will see you through...
Until you have a coloured child nobody can understand how Kenyans can be discriminating. As a mother who has mixed children and attended private schools in Kenya, teachers, other children and the community in general called them wazungu. Sometimes when you visit markets you find very vile people who will call the mother all sorts of names. How does this affect these children mentally, they lose their identity since their environment does not accept them as their own.
As a mother you have to be very strong to educate your children socially, build their mental capacity to understand their environment and provide them with formal education. Spain is not a first world country most citizens are very poor, so please dont hold your breath build your life in Kenya, love, nurture, build your children confidence and all will be well.
First forward when my coloured children migrated to a western country, they had no problems fitting in even though different they knew who they are and were content with it. We had a lot of discussions in our house supported them in all their needs. Now all mature, we talk and reflect. After visiting Kenya three years ago, they found it very difficult to cope with the home culture.
Congratulations on raising your kids so well 💕. R your children in Europe or America?
Even if your kid is black and lives in diaspora kenyans notices that, they always stare at my daughter and she is black
@@dollydolly1317 One of the biggest problem is that we focus on what other people think of us. If only we dont put too much effort thinking about our colour, live and enjoy our lives then this issue of being black should not bother us. With my work, we are very few blacks who undertake the work I do. However, I have a very good relationship with my colleagues and not even once I felt that because I am black I am treated differently. Having said that, I also call it out if at all anybody would dare say something which I regard as unfair.
I know my rights and a strong woman who knows what she wants in life. I educated my children of the same and I must say they are fine. Mature now and they dont have one black friend they see themselves as people, we might be different and I tell them thats ok but we are all human beings. Thats why I really struggle with women who bleach their colour to be white yet we have such a beautiful skin, why cant we love and accept ourselves the way we are.
I remember when I first met my mother in law years back, I think she did not know how to handle me, the reason was that she had never met a black person before. I never blamed her we had chats of different things and she was my best friend ever till she died. Its the same thing with us if a muzungu went to remote areas of Kenya, people are curious to know about them and shout muzungu at them.
I have grown as mixrace child in Kenya the life I had has growing up, From shule My famliy members church members,,Teachers God forgive them,Now Iam in Europe aki nani kama God. CHANGE THE LIFE OF THIS KIDS.
In kenya you white in a America you black
This is when family comes in. We are family.
I would advice her to go back to Spain to a different city . And after she can try a way of coming to Germany . She is allowed to live in Germany .she will be comfortable here and there are many paid job she can do. Her children will make her live any country in Europe that is in European Union.
Thats true if her children get spanish passport she can also apply for documents of staying with European children and with that documents she can come back to Europe.
I have a feeling she would really struggle. She first needs to get out of the victim mentality.
😥😥😥 aky mungu akukumbuke na awapee nguvu wewe na hao watoi
I know her but I lost her number..help me get her number..used to be with her in umoja
Pole Ruth....this too will also pass away.