me as a guy watching these episodes to know and Atleast learn more about girls mentality and emotional behaviors to better my relationships going forward. 💆♂️♥️
Its Hard for Christian right now. I was also feeling the tiredness and yes Caiah it is in the atmosphere, but that means that your relationship with God is not on strong hold. I came to realize that the reason why I felt tired(not a physical tiredness) is because I had open a door for the enemy through negative emotions. Luckily for me I had a friend who helped me out through prayer and ladies I've never felt revamped in my Spirit.
My dad passed on 14 days after I found out I was pregnant. Couldn't fully mourn his passing and now everytime I think of his passing I can't help but breakdown
"YOUR EXPERIENCE IS NOT UNIQUE"....Loved that especially because I found myself using my trauma as an excuse to push people away, which is NOT OKAY....I needed to do the work and I'm still doing the work to be better ❤
My dad left when I was still an infant.This trauma made me work extra hard,to show he didn't affect me,I built up walls and never dared to show any form of falling apart or vulnerability.I worked so hard got to varsity and its my third year I feel like I just woke up,because I have to figure out what I want,I was so focused on proving that I'm good without him. Now having to live my life for myself feels weird.💯😂
I would like to share something .. i listened to the long conversation topic and all that was said is true but one thing has been completely erased from human brain is that being open about troma does not lead to healing it's what was said by someone who used it and it worked for him or her so we then took someone's story and made it the solution..everytime something bad happens we run to words or quotes but have anyone of y'all sat down took a deep breath and asked "what feels right in me without me having to see or hear someone's words ".. basically words have limited our natural ability to can think and now all we do is seek answers from as close as possible
Example we wouldn't have known that they is such as suicide or the fact that you can kill yourself if it wasn't for someone telling us about it or doing it or rather telling us at which stage you can do it.. we now know that if i feel like I'm being hated, I'm being blamed, being abused, feel lonely i must kill myself ..think out of the box don't wait for someone's solution to work for you
Caiah at 35:57-36:04 so real sis!!🥺🥵. Mpho at 47:07-47:22 & 48:35/37!🥺❤🩹(twin). This Pod is one of my favourite spots to hang. S/O to Mpho-mpho, Caiah, Malume T and the team💢🔥. Every week it's a Romans12:2 kinda Monday - I learn something new and get some wisdom and I can't lie, I appreciate the mirror the ladies hold up for me to see myself in them, so represented, so real and so VALID! and the laughs?! tell me why I am having inside jokes with peoples on my screen? Kumnandi bandla, ngicela ningayeki.♥
I think the topic about body count and waiting in regards of intimacy would’ve been nice to hear it ,especially us teenagers who really don’t know the importance of this topic because not everyone can afford the memebership . As much the majority is grown women and young adults mostly I think now slowly there is an audience of young people watching
My trauma was in grade 1. My dad had dies a fews years back then 2 of my grandmother's died when I was in grade1(one in October, my grand aunt in November) Not justifying my actions but I became a bully. I had so much anger in me and I'd verbally and sometimes physically bully kids. I hated who I was bless the lord I fully stopped bulling kids at school in grade 5. God helped me ; I used to always hit my sister (even cause her nose bleeds) to feel less of my personal anger. 🙃 I just wanted to share this. Ok maybe its not trauma but what caused me stress but I just waned to share this
Thank you Caiah for bringing more clarity when it comes to trauma. Trauma is the most well known and misunderstood topics. Most people do not understand how deep trauma is and how to use self healing methods like EMDR, Meditation and somatic exercises to heal from trauma
During COVID 2019-2020/2021 i also didn't know my dad existed i almost hated him until I found out my mom is the one who kept him away and didn't pass the messages he sent....till this day i don't know how to feel
Caiah sweetheart I love how you recommend books for every matter dealt with(topic/heading) This week is ATOMIC Habits ❤and please remind me the one from last week
Cust your problems to the Lord, perseverance shows how much you have faith. And sister NEVER FEAR DEATH , once one has lived their purpose. Their time shall come. Live to understand that even though it isn't easy.
I'm so proud of you girls ❤ The way each episodes you guys literally bare your souls to us ,I am learning so much. Forever grateful for this podcast 🙏 🙌 love you girls
I'm with Mami Dearest on the toothbrush chat fr 😔 I once washed my teeth with my face cloth ( my grandma's hack), trust it was not a face cloth anymore after that.
@CIAH @MPHO The facts and myths were somehow off.. Number 1 boiling does kill certain germs, and those that are highly resistant to increased heat are normally autoclaved. Moreover, you stated that the normal vaginal pH is 7, however the normal vaginal pH is moderately acidic due to the presence of lactobacilli, which inhibits the colonization or overgrowth of normal vaginal commensals. And probiotics are usually advised..
Hey hey ! We got our information from health information websites , so we were going off that. I’m not an expert in the subject, I have no clue which one of us is REALLy correct🤷🏽♀️ Thank you for sharing❤️
I feel you hey, I'm also tired. In all ways possible. Didn't go to work today and certainly not going again tomorrow. This is my first time off this year, I work Mon to Fri. I hope these two days will help. I ain't lifting a finger!!
I love you guys and I enjoy listening to you guys, the way you talk doesn't cause a person stress about what has happened to them or even what they have caused others being in a good sense or in a bad way you invoke peace instead and I love it❤
31:27 - did you know you can get contiminate the ability to get cavities from sharing toothbrushes? Human beings dont naturally have the bacteria to get cavities, they usually obtain it from animals or other human beings who have it
Caiah my angel you're a very composed human being. You're a ball of light, I really didn't like what they did to you on spreading humors. I hope you okay I kinda wished Adeola would pop out and say hii😂😂
Litmus paper can be used or a swab to test your pH levels. The pH in your vagina should between 3.8 and 4.5. So basically acidic. And the pH is affected by a lot of things. Including the food we eat. The normal flora in the vagina flourishes in acidic environments. That's the pH level is under 7. Higher pH level causes infections.
No Mpho is cooking guys and being someone who suffers from eczema and visits the dermatologist regularly, she is right. I am a germophobe though so unfortunately I do not follow all the doctor's orders😂
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Hello everyone I have a question for those who stil don’t believe in God the Father , the Son and the Holy Spirit. Where do you believe that you will go after your death ? If you say Heaven ! You should know what way lead people to heaven it is not just the fact of being kind to people . God bless you
❤️Hey guys, I didn't know from which video to comment on! Guys I need help with navigating my way through music, what is secular music and how do we move around it and and I'm just a baby🥹🥹 need big sis advice One album has been in my mind for the longest but it's by an artist who's "secular" kopang thuso moo🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
I cant be the only guy that watches this podcast weekly 😭
You not alone my brother 😂
Chomi, it's that good😆
Not every week but definitely every episode😅
You are not alone bro😅😅😅
you not alone chief
The question”Are you okay or are you choosing to avoid it??” Reminds me of the question “ Are you healed or you just haven’t been triggered yet ???”
same or something like " Are you healed or just don't have anyone to trigger you"
me as a guy watching these episodes to know and Atleast learn more about girls mentality and emotional behaviors to better my relationships going forward. 💆♂️♥️
“Your trauma is not a license to mistreat other people.”
Yes, yes, yes.
Its Hard for Christian right now. I was also feeling the tiredness and yes Caiah it is in the atmosphere, but that means that your relationship with God is not on strong hold. I came to realize that the reason why I felt tired(not a physical tiredness) is because I had open a door for the enemy through negative emotions. Luckily for me I had a friend who helped me out through prayer and ladies I've never felt revamped in my Spirit.
" I don't think my parents were present enough to be parents , they were present enough to be partners to themselves" is so real.
My dad passed on 14 days after I found out I was pregnant. Couldn't fully mourn his passing and now everytime I think of his passing I can't help but breakdown
34:51 I am currently waiting for marriage / the right guy but society makes you feel like something is wrong with you
Caiah really loves Mpho ❤🤭you can see from the way she looks at her
"YOUR EXPERIENCE IS NOT UNIQUE"....Loved that especially because I found myself using my trauma as an excuse to push people away, which is NOT OKAY....I needed to do the work and I'm still doing the work to be better ❤
My dad left when I was still an infant.This trauma made me work extra hard,to show he didn't affect me,I built up walls and never dared to show any form of falling apart or vulnerability.I worked so hard got to varsity and its my third year I feel like I just woke up,because I have to figure out what I want,I was so focused on proving that I'm good without him. Now having to live my life for myself feels weird.💯😂
Don't make kids, please!
I love how raw and vulnerable you guys are. It really helps one introspect.
I just relived my trauma😢. This episode kind of triggered something, but what a safe space 🥺🫂❤️
This podcast comment section is slowly becoming my journal I am here being vulnerable about the long questions 😂
Same here💯😂
I'm here for being educated weekly, i love love this posdcast !!💕
I would like to share something .. i listened to the long conversation topic and all that was said is true but one thing has been completely erased from human brain is that being open about troma does not lead to healing it's what was said by someone who used it and it worked for him or her so we then took someone's story and made it the solution..everytime something bad happens we run to words or quotes but have anyone of y'all sat down took a deep breath and asked "what feels right in me without me having to see or hear someone's words ".. basically words have limited our natural ability to can think and now all we do is seek answers from as close as possible
Example we wouldn't have known that they is such as suicide or the fact that you can kill yourself if it wasn't for someone telling us about it or doing it or rather telling us at which stage you can do it.. we now know that if i feel like I'm being hated, I'm being blamed, being abused, feel lonely i must kill myself ..think out of the box don't wait for someone's solution to work for you
Caiah at 35:57-36:04 so real sis!!🥺🥵. Mpho at 47:07-47:22 & 48:35/37!🥺❤🩹(twin). This Pod is one of my favourite spots to hang. S/O to Mpho-mpho, Caiah, Malume T and the team💢🔥. Every week it's a Romans12:2 kinda Monday - I learn something new and get some wisdom and I can't lie, I appreciate the mirror the ladies hold up for me to see myself in them, so represented, so real and so VALID! and the laughs?! tell me why I am having inside jokes with peoples on my screen? Kumnandi bandla, ngicela ningayeki.♥
I think the topic about body count and waiting in regards of intimacy would’ve been nice to hear it ,especially us teenagers who really don’t know the importance of this topic because not everyone can afford the memebership . As much the majority is grown women and young adults mostly I think now slowly there is an audience of young people watching
Once again I don’t know how much memebership is but it was just an opinion so ngiyanicela don’t come for me 😭
My trauma was in grade 1. My dad had dies a fews years back then 2 of my grandmother's died when I was in grade1(one in October, my grand aunt in November)
Not justifying my actions but I became a bully. I had so much anger in me and I'd verbally and sometimes physically bully kids.
I hated who I was bless the lord I fully stopped bulling kids at school in grade 5. God helped me ; I used to always hit my sister (even cause her nose bleeds) to feel less of my personal anger.
🙃 I just wanted to share this. Ok maybe its not trauma but what caused me stress but I just waned to share this
48:58 I'm not crying you are😭 I'm so sorry that you went through all of this Mpho
I would rather share a face cloth ,I could never share a toothbrush 😭😭😭😭
Same😭
Thank you Caiah for bringing more clarity when it comes to trauma. Trauma is the most well known and misunderstood topics. Most people do not understand how deep trauma is and how to use self healing methods like EMDR, Meditation and somatic exercises to heal from trauma
Plain youghurt also helps with yeast infection. Eating it and also applying on the infection
I’ve heard of this too !
During COVID 2019-2020/2021 i also didn't know my dad existed i almost hated him until I found out my mom is the one who kept him away and didn't pass the messages he sent....till this day i don't know how to feel
Yohhh😢
Mom: bath before bed
Me: nah Mpho on thought digest said I don't even need to shower everyday 😂
Ahhhh😂😂
Mondays are for thought digest ❤
Mpho is actually smart ❤️
The trauma of finding my brother deceased in his bed I cant unsee that, ten years later 29/09/13 it hits me every year
I'm so sorry🥺🥺🥺🥺 Yoh!
Thank you so much, Ive never spoken about it I feel so relieved that I got that out
So educational 😭❤️
Please I love being here❤🎉🥰
Caiah sweetheart
I love how you recommend books for every matter dealt with(topic/heading)
This week is ATOMIC Habits ❤and please remind me the one from last week
Last week was “The Picture Of Dorian Gray” by Oscar Wilde , and “The Unbearable Lightness Of Being” by Milan Kundera❤️
Cust your problems to the Lord, perseverance shows how much you have faith. And sister NEVER FEAR DEATH , once one has lived their purpose. Their time shall come. Live to understand that even though it isn't easy.
I'm so proud of you girls ❤ The way each episodes you guys literally bare your souls to us ,I am learning so much. Forever grateful for this podcast 🙏 🙌 love you girls
This podcast is such a wonderful space for young women🥺
Sending love to Mpho❤❤❤
I'm definitely with Mami Dearest on the never sharing a tooth brush with someone. Yoh I'd rather share my washcloths for life than a toothbrush 😭
No no no 😭😭😭😭
@@CaiahM I can't share a toothbrush too ngeke😭😭
Yho same, ain't no way I'm sharing a toothbrush, ngamene ngife!
😂I'm with Caiah on the toothbrush point, it depends whose toothbrush it is and your partners the go to cause of the kissing scene 🤣🤣🤞🏼
Don't share toothbrushes, that's nasty@@CaiahM
I'm with Mami Dearest on the toothbrush chat fr 😔
I once washed my teeth with my face cloth ( my grandma's hack), trust it was not a face cloth anymore after that.
@CIAH @MPHO The facts and myths were somehow off.. Number 1 boiling does kill certain germs, and those that are highly resistant to increased heat are normally autoclaved. Moreover, you stated that the normal vaginal pH is 7, however the normal vaginal pH is moderately acidic due to the presence of lactobacilli, which inhibits the colonization or overgrowth of normal vaginal commensals. And probiotics are usually advised..
Hey hey !
We got our information from health information websites , so we were going off that.
I’m not an expert in the subject, I have no clue which one of us is REALLy correct🤷🏽♀️
Thank you for sharing❤️
True👏👏👏
I can't get over Caiah's fit❤
Another week another BANGER!!♡
Using apple cider vinegar can help with your pH balance and assist with odour , you can add some to your bath water
"Your experience is not unique" 😮Uuuupppsss
I feel you hey, I'm also tired. In all ways possible. Didn't go to work today and certainly not going again tomorrow. This is my first time off this year, I work Mon to Fri. I hope these two days will help. I ain't lifting a finger!!
I'm being educated, love it❤
Such a safe space🥺❤
I love you guys and I enjoy listening to you guys, the way you talk doesn't cause a person stress about what has happened to them or even what they have caused others being in a good sense or in a bad way you invoke peace instead and I love it❤
We've seen Mpho with 6 hairstyles and Caiah with 4
Yoh guys Siya gowa 🥺🩷as a community can we please be more kind to one another because life is so hard on all of us ❤️
That is so true ❤
Ahhh I miss them now 😭
Whew what a triggering episode 😅. Thank you so much for your vulnerability ladies 🩷🥺
Loved this episode!
Yhooh this episode has me thinking 🥹
argh man i enjoyed this ❤️❤️
48:34 😢😢😢.God knows
Caiah yeses ✨
31:27 - did you know you can get contiminate the ability to get cavities from sharing toothbrushes? Human beings dont naturally have the bacteria to get cavities, they usually obtain it from animals or other human beings who have it
Not the pink sparkles when y’all introduced the long topic 😂😂😂
Mpho is really smart hey and she's a spiritual person too I love it. On the Andrew Tate that man is purely misogynistic it's scary hey.
I feel like people who live in extreme cold weather conditions are permitted to not bath everyday lol😂
Y’all look so good 😍 those colours are making you glow 😍 argh so beautiful. 🤗
Caiah my angel you're a very composed human being. You're a ball of light, I really didn't like what they did to you on spreading humors. I hope you okay I kinda wished Adeola would pop out and say hii😂😂
"are you okay or are you ignoring it" had me crying my eyes out 🤣🤣🤣
I nearly yelled “CUT” 😂
Litmus paper can be used or a swab to test your pH levels. The pH in your vagina should between 3.8 and 4.5. So basically acidic. And the pH is affected by a lot of things. Including the food we eat. The normal flora in the vagina flourishes in acidic environments. That's the pH level is under 7. Higher pH level causes infections.
my favourite ladies❤️
I once shared a toothbrush at some point
Personally i think sharing a toothbrush is better than sharing the facetowel
Rather not share anything.
Toothbrush guys noooo. What if the person has gum problems. And they bleed sometimes. Yoh 😭🤚
Angiyizwa kahle le conversation ye Amygdala, I think it got messed up by the anatomy class🙌🏽
Where would I be if I hadn't screwed up 💔 Ciah? I also don't want that answer😪. Yeaaaaa, 2017, me really messed up😢
2022 for me 😢to this day I'm still learning to forgive myself
I had a good laugh today
sharing the same toothbrush is crazy... 😭😭
No Mpho is cooking guys and being someone who suffers from eczema and visits the dermatologist regularly, she is right. I am a germophobe though so unfortunately I do not follow all the doctor's orders😂
You ladies are so beautiful ❤
Yoh Caiah the sharing a toothbrush chat?? Omg no ways sis🤢🤮
I've mistakenly taken the wrong tooth brush at home and I didn't feel OK the whole day 😭😭😭 I felt like my mouth wasn't mine
😭😭like your mouth wasn’t yours !? 😂I’m CRYING
This is such a golden episode I watched and listened to it twice because it really just hit the spot 🫂🌟
Some of these facts!? 😂😂 *side eye
Duuuuude !😂
Question I’m afraid to ask: Is any of this worth it?
Bathong guys ??? Why aren’t yall posting ?
Nah sharing tooth brush is wild😭
People who live in cold weather i think they are not premmited in bathing everyday 😂
@ 31:49 toothbrush carries your DNA dude. I could never use anyone's toothbrush.
I would rather use someone's face cloth not a toothbrush 😂
Aii Mpho is misleading us on not showering one 😂😂😂😂
True 😂😂😂😂
😮not the toothbrush bro
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I'm relating 😂
Just from the highlights, this one seems intense 😑
Theres no way someone baths 365 days😭especially in winter, theres no way
That was what was going through my mind 😂😂😂I know some people be skipping days just a vaslap to freshen up 💀💀💀
😳Yess ways😂aowa chomi l don't understand how someone skips a day without bathing
@babazilemngomezulu chomi in winter it's possible😭sometimes its too cold to bath. Just wash your face, brush your teeth and call it a day
Sexual attraction is in the medulla?
I think my amygdala is broken 🙂
noways Ciaih toothbrush is the worst prefernce
I refuse !😭😭 face cloth is
😢😢you promised us consistency but you haven't posted for 2 weeks
Hello everyone I have a question for those who stil don’t believe in God the Father , the Son and the Holy Spirit. Where do you believe that you will go after your death ? If you say Heaven ! You should know what way lead people to heaven it is not just the fact of being kind to people . God bless you
Tooth brush ❌❌ naaaah
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❤❤
🫂✨️
Face cloth is better. Toothbrush no ways that’s gross 🤢
😂clearly I’m alone on this one
❤️Hey guys, I didn't know from which video to comment on!
Guys I need help with navigating my way through music, what is secular music and how do we move around it and and
I'm just a baby🥹🥹 need big sis advice
One album has been in my mind for the longest but it's by an artist who's "secular" kopang thuso moo🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
Literally feeling like this episode was specifically made for me❤️🩹
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