Writer here, I am in agreement. This is one of the best I've seen on TH-cam so far. I pray that God has this pop up for his precious children who need this life-giving advice. Thank you Lord for this man, I pray he is blessed abundantly.
@RedPilledReyes u never know it might be .....maybe you aren't choosing the right person....I had an aunt that had her first child at 42 then another one at 43 she got married at 41 she already passed she was past her 70s....don't give up put God first and He will give u the desires of your heart
1)He will allow them to hurt you 2)God will talk to you In your dreams 3) Your life will fall apart 4)They'll use you and still reject you 5)They will push you away from christ
If you are reading this, the most POWERFUL prayer you can pray to God is to remove negative influences and unnecessary people from your life. You will lose your friends and loved ones. It will be very difficult. Situations can get nasty. But keep and hold the faith.
To anybody out here listening here’s some advice If you are in a relationship and you feel in your gut something is wrong it is don’t feel like you’re overthinking especially if you’re not a insecure person. Also ask GOD to show you a sign on if that person is for you or not he will reveal it trust me And never ever go back to a relationship you had to pray your way out of
Thank you for the advice. Man, I'm struggling with how I want to pursue this 2 year relationship. Although we are compatible and supportive of each other, there are moments of confusion. The biggest issue is her lack of accountability. This has brought resentment since conflicts always revolve around my behavior. As a man, Ik we all hate to see what we invested in go to waste but I desire peace and tranquility.
@@zeusdazzy945 I’ll just tell you this. Ask GOD to reveal it to you. Say lord of this person is for me show me a sign. If they aren’t then remove them from my life. But once he remove them you can’t get upset or try to fight for them because he’s saving you Just look up and say thank you lord and press on. Nobody is worth your peace brother
So True! I knew there's was something not right , I knew it but i didn't listen to the warning & I had learn the hard way . But I know now He was protecting me !
@@mommae295 there you go all the lord want us to do is follow his lead he will order our steps if we stay close to him but the farther we stray away from him the harder it is for us to see what’s he’s showing us
Righteous & Masculine thank you for your words. I'm struggling to accept my behavior & action that lead to all this but I know im a child of God & He will help me overcome 🙏
Not true. He allows a lot of things BUT, we have to love Him more than anyone or anything else! Someone or something you love may be stronger HOWEVER, God will remind us who HE is! He will remind us OF his love for us! But He will also take away when he put things and someone before Him.
I was warned and warned over and over again and I never listened until now. But I personally believe my life needed to be shaken up until I finally choose me. I’ve seen all of these signs happen to me.
God warned my 2 week old brother over and over again to i don’t know stop being a baby i guess because crying is such a forsaken sin but he couldn’t stop being a baby so god sufacted him 🤯😱
Sometimes rejection can also be god’s protection….imma remember that quote from you Edit: aye thank you all for the likes may god bless all y’all heart’s mind’s and soul’s
He definitely warns us through dreams it’s like with the men Ive dated ,He showed me things about them in my dreams … Praise The most high for his love and protection .
He showed me the first girl I loved, Courtney Dumont, wasn’t what I originally thought she was, turned out that I thought she liked me back but she only liked this guy who flunked out in 12th grade several times
@@heatpete5106 It's *SIMPLY* stated..... *"The LORD is a man of war: the LORD is his name."* Exodus 11: 3. Kjv1611 *The LORD is a 'man'...the LORD is 'his' name.* *FACTS.* *Case Closed*
God showed me so many things about my husband in dreams that were really going on with him. I wouldn't let go no matter what. I was willing to keep living in pure narcissistic hell. I believe God turned my husband's heart extremely cold and he left me. I don't think I was ever gonna walk away, even after the chronic cheating and mental abuse.
Feel like I'm going through this with my wife, she is a narcissist and plays "victim" all the time leaving me to feel like I'm the enemy all the time. She never takes accountability for anything.
@@StromLxrd6 my husband was always the victim. I was trapped with feeling so bad for him because he's been the victim since childhood it seems. I always felt like I was doing something wrong and walking on eggshells. He always told me I wasn't the problem but his actions screamed hate at times. I was taught to stay married no matter what so that's what I was willing to do. I was dying inside daily and one night God let me see the demon in my husband while we were in bed. After that I prayed for God to set me free. I set boundaries and my husband became evil. I'm waiting on my divorce to be final because I want no ties to that spirit. I'll take Jesus until forever!
@@JaidaAnn Amen, I just had a talk with God in prayer asking Him to protect me and remove me from this situation if my wife has hidden evil agenda's against me. I'm sad because we share two children together and her daughter before me, in which, me and my step daughter are close. I don't want to rob them of a two parent home and family but I dont know how much I'm able to endure and I don't want to self destruct. Your testimony encourage me to trust God through it all.
We must not forget that God still wants us to pray for and love these individuals through it all. If we aren't able to do that...we might have to look within ourselves also. We have to see how Godly our walk is before we can discern another's. The enemy may be the one working through your SO and hardening their heart. God leads with light and love for those who believe and act in his will. So if our spouses are doing evil and we aren't working with God to cast away said evil then we might be working in the guidance of the enemy as well. Just something to think about.
I’m talking to this girl right now and she hasn’t done anything except make me smile and feel accepted and she’s also brought me closer to God. I hope it all works out!
If you ask the Holy Spirit to reveal things about the person you have questions about. Buckle up! He will give you receipts. Every time I’ve asked the Holy Spirit I have asked him to give me the strength to be able to stand for what he tells me.
@wenta you pray to god, open up bible , random page, and mostly it talks abt your current situation or in close relevance to it. Then you attend the church service with a question in yourmind, which gets answered. Miraculously. Are all the work of holy spirit. Your prayer can be as simple as let the holy spirit guide me through the righteous path.
My dad was just telling me to be careful with my ex, who I was missing… he actually called him a parasite, which is unusual language for my very loving/accepting dad to use. Hearing that specific word right now kind of triggered the light bulb for me. Last night I was crying and telling God how sad I am to be single at this point (I just turned 30), and I thought I’d have a different life by now with a home and a husband and maybe children 🤷🏾♀️ I feel behind, and I regret wasting time, so my new prayer is for God to reveal what I need to do to be ready for the good things He has for me.
DONT GO BACK! Whatever you do! Block him! Change your # and don’t answer his moms calls! They Don’t change! They suck your happiness away and make you angry and depressed to the point people won’t recognize you anymore. My kids dad cheated and cheated and I FINALLY gathered the courage to leave him and like a fool I returned after a year and a few months thinking he had changed, but when he got me where he wanted me, he switched and his old ways came back. I hate myself for allowing him to fool me again and for allowing him to waste my time and energy. God gave me dreams over and over again, and it’s not that I was being disobedient to God, I just thought that I was having bad dreams bc it was in my mind so much. I just had faith that God could change him, but I realize God can’t make him change. He has to want to change. And he don’t. He is fine with the current state because he lives rent free, pays no bills, gets food, has his own car and comes and leaves as he pleases. I battle suicidal thoughts and it’s really hard to deal with the pain that I go through daily watching him careless about my suffering. My stepdad warned me. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Learn from my mistakes, PLEASE!
@@loveoneanother133 he’s blocked on everything, but he emailed me TODAY. Last night I had a scary dream that I was a slave running from hounds… I woke up in a panic like I haven’t since we lived together. It was so strange and in the back of my mind until I read his email today. I didn’t respond, and I won’t… the timing is surreal.
@@WholeHeartily yeah when I was pregnant with my son he would leave saying he was "working" and eventually I discovered he was cheating. While I was having dizzy spells from not eating enough, he would leave me at home to work by myself and watch our 2 girls so they can do home school during COVID. SMH. I Was so angry I yelled and literally sounded like a demon. I had NEVER been brought to such a level of anger. I was afraid of myself. My mom called me one day and told me that she had a bad dream and that he was killing me by forcing me to drink gas sitting g in a chair tied down. I remember distinctly feeling like he was killing me slowly by making me deal with his toxic ways. When my lease wS up I was leaving him but I didn't have support and I ended up getting manipulated by his smooth talking ways. I forgave him and he has done it again. I'm just disgusted at this point. I don't even like seeing him or being near him. I feel like I am paying for someone else's sins sometimes.
This is 100% what happened to me. I was broken but God knew what he was doing. He allowed me to learn so much through this experience too. God bless you brother. He also miraculously put me back together again stronger than before.
I was in such an ungodly, toxic relationship that when I found out he cheated for the last time, I was standing in front of a gate listening to the ex he couldn't leave alone. I felt my breath leave me. It's not worth it. I finally let him go and reaffirmed my relationship with God. Great, timely video.
@@YaLittleFriend Thank you. It was the ultimate life crossroad moment of compromise. Whether I was going to stay with God or follow my own lustful interests. I had to kick that spirit out for good, but the situation humbled me, gave me a lot of pause, and I went into silence and solitude. It almost cost me my life. I didn't realize I was in so much danger. Be safe!
@@rinzler9775 Absolutely. I learned that later in life because I never had to deal with the issue directly. But I know now. I'm not putting up with a man who makes an ex a priority. Nope!
Here’s an anecdote: One weird thing that happened to me is I remember praying with one of my devout christian friends when I was still with my last ex and we basically said “god, if I am not meant to be with this woman, separate me from her” and my ex literally dumped me the next day. I was so devastated that I went through denial followed by several stages of grief but in hindsight I’m glad she let me go because the woman I’m with now is such an upgrade. I can’t begin to describe to you how good she is to me and we’ve been together for years at this point so I think it’s fair to say that she’s the one. It’s wild too because it took me a few years to recover from the trauma I experienced from my ex and it took me a long time to actually let the woman I’m with now into my heart I mean she wanted me before I had a car, a job, money…she would spoil me with food and gifts and as much as I doubted it, deep down I knew what I wasn’t initially willing to believe. Material things were not her motive and she was persistent and after a few years I gave in. She helped me heal before we started dating. Idk what all of this was I mean it could have been a coincidence but like, it happened almost like someone planned it so idk. Even though I’m spiritually lost right now I still think a higher power probably had something to do with it.
some people are sent straight from God as an answer to your selfless and genuine prayers about what you know you need and deserve in your life. he rewards us when we ask him for things with patience and purity in our heart
I left my ex years ago and always felt guilty. Years later we rekindled our relationship but I started experiencing all these signs with him. Even with the dreams, I’d have dreams of him doing something to hurt me all the time. We had an argument over these very issues and he walked away and all of a sudden I had dreams of someone else loving me and being happy together. That was my sign from god.
One thing I LOVE about the lord. Is he PLAYs NO GAMES. Get close to God, you will feel him love you, and through that love he will teach you the understanding of love
Amen Bro...everything has a season.....we get hurt by situations when we refuse to see the TRUTH......I myself have to ask the FATHER to forgive me for staying in bad situations too long....His ways are not ours....stop leaning on my own understanding, and TRUST HIM...
These are so very accurate. That double-minded is the one that gets a lot of us. They say one thing and do another. Be careful of spouses who only mention God or Christ around you, if God is your love language and they know that, they use him to keep you hooked.
I agree with a lot of this, but we have agency. So I don’t believe that God ALLOWS them to hurt us, WE allow them to hurt us and God can’t protect us from ourselves. He can only guide us and help us.
He will allow certain things if you don't move. If he telling you to walk away and you keep holding on...he will move his hand from over you so you can see who or what you dealing with. So he does allow things to happen
Violent behavior and adultery or "cheating" or stealing money are some of the ways God shows a person that the one they are involved with is not for them. For anyone out there experiencing domestic violence, leave that situation immediately and do not give any advanced notice/warning to the abuser. Just leave. Preferably, leave town.
This is impowering. Me and my boyfriend have been together for the last year and a half and God has convinced me its good. I am very proud and stable in my situation and knowing that God has guided me here
I married a woman who has exhibited all of these characteristics! Now this person has left me and I have two young children! Take heed to this message! It’s a very difficult time in my life!
I’m Muslim and all these things are true as they happened to me before he left me out of the blue last October. I was ignoring the signs because love is truly blind. I’m still heartbroken but I know God will give me an amazing man
Yes yes tell the truth I have be warned and finally that devil left and I started to realize he was evil and to this day he’s trying his hardest to get back but I see his downfall his evil. You are so right every since he left my life has gotten better
@@trollbaby8122 I know you're not asking me, but I'd like to answer. For me, it was hard when I knew God didn't want me with someone that I liked (we were gonna be unequally yoked). I think I was definitely stubborn for a while, but then things happened (not seeing each other frequently, disagreeing on certain essential topics like sin, him getting angry and not talking to me for a long time) and I started to lose feelings for this guy. I tried to rejuvenate those feelings but I guess they were already gone, cuz I just didn't like him the same.
I’ve been seeing this on my feed for about a week now. I needed to hear this again, because there’s a guy who popped back up in my life and I allowed him back in knowing good and well God did not ordain us to even pursue each other. Every point hit home, and I know that nobody but Holy Spirit was speaking through you. Thank God for your obedience and wisdom 🙏🏽💙.
The fact that I’m going through some crazy things right now and this randomly popped up on my feed is nuts! I never see this on my feed! Idk if it’s TH-cam listening or God but I’ll take it!
This exactly what happened in my last relationship and only pushed me closer to god. I thought that because she was Christian like me and went to the same church I went to that she was good for me. She always did every favor I asked for but at the same time the relationship had all these signs. I also had a dream that someone from the church told me she’s been sleeping around with her ex and was just using me. It felt like a 3 year relationship but we were together for only 3 months. I decided to let it go and now I know god didn’t want me with this person. But this built me to be stronger and have self respect and set boundaries. I hope for people currently in a relationship like this watch this video and walk away.
I’m in this situation right now I had lost myself last year I’m now getting everything back but idk why I’m still in the relationship I’m trying to get out
@@Zyair_king Get it out of it now before it gets worse. At least you know you’re not in a good relationship. Sometimes we think that maybe we could be wrong but just follow you’re intuition most of the time it’s god saying you need to let it go. This is why boundaries are important in a relationship and see if they’re being met.
The last girl I dated which was April of 2021 I kept getting a feeling that something wasn’t right she wasn’t a bad girl. She just showed red flags 🚩 like wanting to go thru my phone I always put my foot down with any woman Sometimes people can’t go where GOD is trying to take u
These are signs id had to learn the hard way myself last year honestly... but once i finally did, met someone who is the opposite of all of this and we are so happy and doing great and im always with him ❤😊
Every point made was spot-on. God revealed his true colors to me two years ago, and we'd known each other for almost a decade. Our friendship was so intricate and neatly-woven, that when I'd asked God to reveal and separate me from anyone who could hurt me, he was the very first person to do so and I'm still winded from the attack. I let him back in after countless revelations from God revealing who he was because I thought maybe it was a mistake, maybe I read the signs wrong, but I hadn't. God is never wrong. Now I'm struggling to fully detach myself. If I had listened the first time maybe it wouldn't hurt this bad but the toughest lessons are learned through the pain. Thank you for uploading this and spreading God's word.
@@kililahbromley9085 I put my full trust in God and let him go. I kept telling myself that there was a reason God removed him, and even if I couldn't see it myself (and I prayed constantly/fasted to see new revelations to make the process easier), I realized I can't lean on my own understanding, but God's. I had to remember the reasons why he had been removed in the first place and recognize that even if he had changed, he wasn't meant to be in my life. At first I hated that all of this had to happen, but now I'm glad it did. My faith in God skyrocketed as he saw me through all of it. Now, I'm about 95% healed and all glory is given to the Most High. I commented on this 5 months ago and it's amazing to see the work God has put into me. Whatever you don't have the strength to let go of, God will see you through it. You just have to give it to him.
In Jesus name amen. I was led to rev 2 19-23 & so much more. God never breaks a promised. Keep holding on in your faith. Trust in God! All of you are into my prayers because we are all going through it but also take time to hold accountability for your actions because my 20 years of experience with one person I too am to blame & I have broken all the commandments myself but I will use this for my testimony in life. My calling! To help other seek Jesus Christ as there lord & savior & share a story what lord Jesus & god the father did for me! Pray for them so god can do the rest! Don’t go back there that door is close. Seek god for own actions & repent. He will lift you as long as you give him all of you 🙏🏽💯🚪⚔️
I remember I used to always have dreams of this guy that I was so in love with dissing me, or walking away from me. No matter what scene we was in, in my dreams he would always leave Me, when I wake up. He was laying beside me. I never expressed my dreams to him. But in reality he did leave me with excuses on and off for 11 years. I finally ended it for good he can no longer come back
Jesus I thought it is just that my dreams are the representation of my thoughts, and my thoughts about this guy that I've been with for 2 years were haunting me because he cheated on me and I went back to him. Today we are planning to meet, and I've had AGAIN another dream about him walking away from me, dissing me and laughing at me that he already found someone new. While in reality he's the one who's begging me to come back. I've had these kind of dreams even during our relationship time, and ive always pushed it aside, saying it's just all in my head, but I know that it's not a coincidence that I've had so many dreams like that. He was always rude to me, walking away with another woman, heartless and cold, complete opposite of what he is in reality! That's insane and I don't know that to think about it...
Well if you are Believe In Christ and he's not a believer let me tell you there's different ways to be unequally yoked with them you know what your make and that's one of them believer but you are a believer that's certainly meaning you all are unequal yoke and you can being unequally yoked in more than one way but that's that one right there that's a struggle because if he's not a Believer then it appears that he might be a 80s baby that is a struggle right there but then the Bible does it tell you if you can win him over so be it to me that simply means he's an atheist you know that started at this point in my life and the way the world is going today its destruction all over the world I wouldn't want that fight no not at all
God does not allow anyone to hurt you. YOU allow someone to hurt you. Your life will fall apart because YOU allowed it. People will use and reject you when YOU allow it. YOU allow people to push you away from Christ. Accountability.
@@jasibae00 well "jasibabi09" , you are exactly right. I should elaborate & it's really no shade to you or your comment, sis. However, NOT everyone is you or is equipped with the tools that YOU may possess to be able to discern these type of situations. It is very true that we are ALL granted free will and have the ability of choice, etc..& yes, let's be accountable WHEN WE KNOW BETTER & EVEN WHEN WE DIDN'T but if there's no test there's no testimony, hun. God ALLOWS us to be placed in certain situations for us to LEARN and for HIS WILL to be done whether we need to take accountability or not. Guess you weren't aware that ALL things go thru GOD LOL....the enemy can't even get to you WITHOUT HIS permission. So, that, is what I meant by try again. Love & light! 💖💫
Everything mentioned in this video this is exactly what I have been going through for the past 4 years my husband walked out on me 4 days ago for a woman he met on Facebook dating and he acts as if I don't exist has me blocked and won't even check on me and that's the part that hurts but this video popped up at the perfect time and I am trying to keep my strength to keep him gone I know God got me
I never get any religious videos in my recommendations on youtube. God sent me this video because He knew I needed to see and hear what this man said. Thank you for the video.
I can attest this is 100% accurate. Also, most times we choose not seek first the kingdom of God, we go off our own selfish desires leading to the pain 😢. You live and you learn. There is light at the end of the tunnel. We just need to be obedient and repent of our sins. Heavenly father's arms are always opened waiting for us.
I been dating my current girlfriend for 5 months... for a while I thought she was the problem... Until God made me realize that the real problem was me.... Cuz I had turned the girl into an idol... trying to please her even at the cost of compromising what God says....as a result...the relationship was draining, and just tiresome.... It wasn't until I stopped compromising and put Christ first did everything slowly change... The girl right now is fully committed to walking with God
I am going through a very similar situation.. not sure if we could talk more about this together or what, but this comment strikes me more than any other
@@christiangonzales5612 brother... ultimately. ..the cure is put God First.... your partner should never be the center of your life... or the prime pursuit of your heart that's God's territory......so don't stress about pleasing her.... stress about pleasing God... period Number 2. love your partner the way God says you should... 1. "'corintians13", ..and don't stress the outcome....if your partner leaves because you decide to play by God's rules ....then she ain't the one for you..... Get it stepping... you'll be fine
This literally happened to me last year. I was mentally messed up but now I can't put to words how relieved I am that I am free of that person and I thank God for that
So true! Same thing happened to me. I knew it was God. Made the healing process easier knowing he was protecting me. I prayed and asked him to show me who this person really was and he did!!!
The timing of this video could not be any more perfect. Just the other day, I had to make the hardest decision ever - I had to let go of an almost 10 year long friendship. Everything that you mentioned in your video happened. This person used me, rejected me, confused me, and even appeared in a dream. This dream was just toxic. I was in my old neighborhood walking in the rain with shackles on my hands dragging behind me and I was walking with my ex-best friend (who was abusing me verbally in the dream), his new toxic girlfriend, and his group of friends. The entire walk was miserable, but I waited until I got to the door of my community that I decided to snap and end things with him. All in all, I knew I made the right decision, but the pain I felt along the way was the worst pain I’ve ever felt. It’s the pain of ultimate betrayal, but I know that I don’t have to worry or stress anymore. Thank you for the video. I enjoyed watching and listening to it. Have a great day!
I am sure I am not here by accident, so let me just say "Thank You". I have came across this video and another that speaks to my current situation, the red flags were there, well are there. Asking GOD to give me the strength to keep going forward and to release this person from my heart, mind and soul. I thought they were heaven sent but now I am not so sure! How did this even happen??? 🤦🏾♀️, How did I attract such a person!
Been there! You wanted something- a connection, something real. The fake came first and we didn’t know what red flags were, now we’re experts, we see pink flags. I prayed that person out of my life so I know I can pray a good one in after my season of healing.
But in every relationship there is happiness and sadness.... Sometimes we both get hurts, also sometimes we be happy.... Not all relationships are perfect .... I don't completely agree with the 1st point unless they cheated and we get hurt.
Well articulated brother... I'd like to add that Sometimes we Christians are the problem...cuz we end up prioritising pleasing our partners above Christ .. and that creates chaos in a relationship........ as long as pleasing Christ remains your priority in a relationship ,the wrong partner will reveal themselves... Cuz they will try to force u to compromise in order to please them... whether directly or indirectly
I experienced everything on your check list when I was in a relationship with a narc for 20yrs. U SPOKE FACTS!!! Because I was married to him and God forgives, I gave him chances and with every chance the hurt got worst. God showed me things in dreams and never made me feel loved 🗣🗣I'll never go thru something like that again 💯 I heard God the whole time but when I finally obeyed him he changed me and protected me in so many ways. So when he talks I listen and follow thru with anything he says. Praise God!!! I'm so grateful to be out of that situation!!😇
Damn bro. I needed to hear this. Praising my Lord and Savior Christ Jesus for this message. My kid's mom and I have been living together for 20 years and we haven't truly gotten married but we have four children together. We both grew up catholic, went astray, she became an atheist and I never left the faith though I became a prodigal and then in 2018 we both along with our two oldest were baptized in the Name of Jesus Christ in a Christian Church. Since then it's been a roller coaster for the both of us, still not legally married, still not at peace with each other one day it's all love next day she hates me. She doesn't have compassion or empathy for others, is always filled with anxiety and anger and it confuses me because I watched her get saved and profess her faith in Christ publicly. Through out our relationship I've had this same dream (though a bit different every time) even last night 6/6/22 that she's leaving me and refuses to reconcile. She refuses to marry me because of things I did in the past (cheating) that she doesn't truly forgive me for. I don't know what to do. Lord Jesus please help me. My name is Inosensio Avila and her name is Frances Valdivia. Please pray for us. ✝️❤️🙏🏽
If you guys are saved, then you both would know that you cannot be living in your current situation and be in Christ. All the activities being done OUTSIDE of marriage are sin and if you two have a heart for God, then you both would see it and want to do what is right in the Lord. This is not a condemnation but an encouragement for you both to seek God and his word more closely. We'll keep you two on prayer as well.
I’m going threw all this right now with my child’s mother . Been trying to get my family back together but I was blind by the signs god was giving me this whole time .
We allow these things 1st. God allows it so we can learn discernment.. For we have free will. This can apply for people, places, or things. The wrong job can do the same. The wrong foods can. The wrong habits. The wrong music. The wrong crowds. The wrong medicines. The wrong knowledge...U name it🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
THANK U FOR UR MESSAGES THEY HAVE BEEN SO HELPFUL TO ME IVE BEEN STRUGGLING WITH A DRUG ADDICTION AND UR VIDEOS HAVE HELPED REMEMBER HOW MUCH GOD LOVES ME AND THAT HE HASNT LEFT MY SIDE PLEASE KEEP ME IN PRAYER
Many of us are inflicted with many things but that does not mean we are not good enough for the world and society. Some of the most successful people to have ever lived started their lives as the worst of the worst but they have become the best of the best. Life is not determined by experiences, it is determined by the person living those experiences.
Dudeee WTF 😳 you just woke me up from a confusing, manipulative, toxic relationship God Bless your heart I needed this , I was so confused for months and in darkness I lost soul , you helped me!!!!
You cannot be certain all the time, sometimes confusion brings reflection. Sure, you cannot be with a person that changes everyday; as Marc says: one day 'I love you', the next day I do not love you"
The dreams are soo valid..He will show you things before they happen. Especially if are gifted like Joseph. Oh man I even got the Lord 4am tap to pray.
All these happened to me with the last person I dealt with. I had angels come to me in two separate dreams telling me what was happening behind my back & to let go of him. I’ve never had that happen before.
@432HzForYou while in the first dream an angle came through someone else to deliever the message which was my sister. she said “your angles wanted me to tell you that you’re not meant to be, that you think this is your end all be all but it’s not” in the second dream I was bike riding & the angles voice came in my head. It said “you’re not the only one he’s giving time & attention to, there are other people involved” I’ve always been really connected to my dream space & usually receive messages through there. I had plenty of other dreams about things he was doing as well.
Thank you , more confirmation, it took me a while, I got it finally and let him go . I will never let anyone anything or any place come before my Almighty Father . Thank you again.
Ive had all those signs in my last relationship and it was toxic and his family almost killed me and he enabled it, all i wanted was the best for him and i.. Now im by myself healing from a car accident and 37weeks pregnant.. Living on my own but im happier. I finally listened to all the signs.. Im better by myself. Those people was evil, demonic and draining me of my great energy and positive intentions, get to a point were i couldnt recongnize myself. I went from happy to despressed, angry, sad, ect. My life was great until i let him in my life. Broken people only want to break others. I love myself and he didnt want me to love myself or find my way before "taking care of him" i hated it.. I was being used and i couldnt allow that to happen anymore. The lord is with me all the time and ive been doing great and happy in my own. I have my mom, my brothers and sister to help me.. I love myself and im happy. Theres more but thats just the just of it.. You not wrong. I wish i seen this video a year ago. But you are right. 👏👏
God is using you as a vessel to teach so many and I have been so badly off the path he's waited me on for many years and it's just recently I'm enjoying being alone and it's Saturday night and I got one of your videos on TV up, this one on my phone, my Bible next to me with a a book about spiritual warfare and another book that's fiction but based on ancient Rome and Christianity. I have been feeling the Lord is calling me to do something to reach an audience with prayers. I'm not ready yet but I feel like he's making a way for me. I've been in such a dark place and deep pain but it's only recently that I'm good with my life. I was so mad at the Lord for isolating me and leaving me to rot. But I'm 100 percent better and thanking God for my time being single. No longer do I want a husband or even a relationship with a man. I just want to follow what God wants for me.
I used to have vivid dreams but I don’t anymore for some reason. Hopefully they’ll return soon because I need God to speak to me everywhere, even in dreams. Love your channel brother. You’re a smart and insightful man. Keep on spreading the truth. ❤ 🙏
Thank you so much for sharing this. Just experienced this a month ago. I had dreams, I noticed so many red flags/attachment to flesh, confusion, draining energy, distraction, double minded, hurt. All the things you mentioned!! I also experienced physical symptoms in my body (sick to my stomach gut feelings, anxiety, burning sensation in my throat)! I tried to work things out and to communicate with compassion, and this person continued to cross my boundaries- more signs that this is not the person God wants me to be with. Truth be told I knew that. I feel that is always there too isn’t it? We always know deep down if we are honest with ourselves, that this person is not right for us. I prayed and listened to the signs and ended things early before things got too invested. Grateful for all the signs and guidance, getting me back on track with staying focused on my path.
I've been through all of this ignorance is bad I was ignorant and sentimental but thank God I'm free still healing though but I know God has someone good reserved for me. Glory to God
8.2k vieuws and only 887 likes?
This content is one of the best on TH-cam at this moment, keep it up! Realtalk!
Cmon somebody
Yeah I liked the vid I like guys message
Writer here, I am in agreement. This is one of the best I've seen on TH-cam so far. I pray that God has this pop up for his precious children who need this life-giving advice. Thank you Lord for this man, I pray he is blessed abundantly.
Yes this is a true message for me
facts
'Sometimes Rejection can also be God's protection ' wow🔥🔥
So true👍🏽!
@RedPilledReyes is everything ok buddy?
Relax it’s a common saying. Katy Perry even says it.
Yep
@RedPilledReyes u never know it might be .....maybe you aren't choosing the right person....I had an aunt that had her first child at 42 then another one at 43 she got married at 41 she already passed she was past her 70s....don't give up put God first and He will give u the desires of your heart
1)He will allow them to hurt you
2)God will talk to you In your dreams
3) Your life will fall apart
4)They'll use you and still reject you
5)They will push you away from christ
missing 2 more lol
7. They will distract you from godly thought
6) They will call confusion
Thank you, I have forbidden love for someone.Trying to get over him .
@@moonfish8229 Ask God to break the soul tie.
If you are reading this, the most POWERFUL prayer you can pray to God is to remove negative influences and unnecessary people from your life. You will lose your friends and loved ones. It will be very difficult. Situations can get nasty. But keep and hold the faith.
To anybody out here listening here’s some advice
If you are in a relationship and you feel in your gut something is wrong it is don’t feel like you’re overthinking especially if you’re not a insecure person. Also ask GOD to show you a sign on if that person is for you or not he will reveal it trust me
And never ever go back to a relationship you had to pray your way out of
Thank you for the advice. Man, I'm struggling with how I want to pursue this 2 year relationship. Although we are compatible and supportive of each other, there are moments of confusion. The biggest issue is her lack of accountability. This has brought resentment since conflicts always revolve around my behavior. As a man, Ik we all hate to see what we invested in go to waste but I desire peace and tranquility.
@@zeusdazzy945 I’ll just tell you this. Ask GOD to reveal it to you.
Say lord of this person is for me show me a sign. If they aren’t then remove them from my life. But once he remove them you can’t get upset or try to fight for them because he’s saving you Just look up and say thank you lord and press on. Nobody is worth your peace brother
So True! I knew there's was something not right , I knew it but i didn't listen to the warning & I had learn the hard way . But I know now He was protecting me !
@@mommae295 there you go all the lord want us to do is follow his lead he will order our steps if we stay close to him but the farther we stray away from him the harder it is for us to see what’s he’s showing us
Righteous & Masculine thank you for your words. I'm struggling to accept my behavior & action that lead to all this but I know im a child of God & He will help me overcome 🙏
If there’s something I’ve learnt it’s, God will never let you love someone more than him.
Truth Indeed AMEN 🙏
Not true. He allows a lot of things BUT, we have to love Him more than anyone or anything else! Someone or something you love may be stronger HOWEVER, God will remind us who HE is! He will remind us OF his love for us! But He will also take away when he put things and someone before Him.
God allows idolatry, look around you, there’s a lot of it occurring.
Love is not about controlling someone against their will.
Not true
I think what you meant is
He will allow. But by doing so, you'll suffer.
I was warned and warned over and over again and I never listened until now. But I personally believe my life needed to be shaken up until I finally choose me. I’ve seen all of these signs happen to me.
Same 🙏🏾
Same
Same
God warned my 2 week old brother over and over again to i don’t know stop being a baby i guess because crying is such a forsaken sin but he couldn’t stop being a baby so god sufacted him 🤯😱
@@Yccteal my deepest condolences bro, and I’m sure he’s in heaven and I hope you’ll get to see each other again
When you are with the person God created for you happiness will shine from every aspect of your life.
my dad, Second aunt and my grandma
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I had this experience with someone.. a man I saw in my dream and a month later i met him...What can I do now to bring him back to my life?
Apparently theres no one for me
@@Lucidmoon7 yea i feel you, I think my husband died before I met him.
Sometimes rejection can also be god’s protection….imma remember that quote from you
Edit: aye thank you all for the likes may god bless all y’all heart’s mind’s and soul’s
same here
@Yoboi_Tearell, the feeling of rejection sucks & is hurtful, but, there may be some truth to this statement. Be well!
@@dammac5446 aye you right
Capital G
And redirection
He definitely warns us through dreams it’s like with the men Ive dated ,He showed me things about them in my dreams …
Praise The most high for his love and protection .
He showed me the first girl I loved, Courtney Dumont, wasn’t what I originally thought she was, turned out that I thought she liked me back but she only liked this guy who flunked out in 12th grade several times
You have officially lost touch with reality
Agreed especially when your heart is so genuine towards them and they out in the world Wilding out just being foul
I don't like cringe menbashing comments like yours as if u weren't aware who you were dealing with....multiple men, ur words not mine
Who has?officially lost touch with reality? Lol smh
God is *ALWAYS SPEAKING* to us.
Question is:
Are we *ALWAYS LISTENING* for him.
How do you know God is "him" God could be "her" 🤷♂️
@@heatpete5106
It's *SIMPLY* stated.....
*"The LORD is a man of war: the LORD is his name."*
Exodus 11: 3. Kjv1611
*The LORD is a 'man'...the LORD is 'his' name.*
*FACTS.*
*Case Closed*
Yes when I’m hard head he send random strangers he work in mysterious ways
@@dariusdavidson8422 cmon Darius! >:v
@@evidenceunseen1575 Ong🙏🏾
God showed me so many things about my husband in dreams that were really going on with him. I wouldn't let go no matter what. I was willing to keep living in pure narcissistic hell. I believe God turned my husband's heart extremely cold and he left me. I don't think I was ever gonna walk away, even after the chronic cheating and mental abuse.
This is Deep
Feel like I'm going through this with my wife, she is a narcissist and plays "victim" all the time leaving me to feel like I'm the enemy all the time. She never takes accountability for anything.
@@StromLxrd6 my husband was always the victim. I was trapped with feeling so bad for him because he's been the victim since childhood it seems. I always felt like I was doing something wrong and walking on eggshells. He always told me I wasn't the problem but his actions screamed hate at times. I was taught to stay married no matter what so that's what I was willing to do. I was dying inside daily and one night God let me see the demon in my husband while we were in bed. After that I prayed for God to set me free. I set boundaries and my husband became evil. I'm waiting on my divorce to be final because I want no ties to that spirit. I'll take Jesus until forever!
@@JaidaAnn Amen, I just had a talk with God in prayer asking Him to protect me and remove me from this situation if my wife has hidden evil agenda's against me. I'm sad because we share two children together and her daughter before me, in which, me and my step daughter are close. I don't want to rob them of a two parent home and family but I dont know how much I'm able to endure and I don't want to self destruct. Your testimony encourage me to trust God through it all.
We must not forget that God still wants us to pray for and love these individuals through it all. If we aren't able to do that...we might have to look within ourselves also. We have to see how Godly our walk is before we can discern another's. The enemy may be the one working through your SO and hardening their heart. God leads with light and love for those who believe and act in his will. So if our spouses are doing evil and we aren't working with God to cast away said evil then we might be working in the guidance of the enemy as well. Just something to think about.
I’m talking to this girl right now and she hasn’t done anything except make me smile and feel accepted and she’s also brought me closer to God. I hope it all works out!
That's awesome good to hear. Good luck in life
Same here bro🙏🏾
How’s it going so far
Did it work out 👀
Truly Found God Yesterday He Was Waiting For Me. Only took 28 years. Glory To God and God Bless All of My Brothers & Sisters 🥰
Praise His Name!!! 🎉🎉 I celebrate THIS relationship. how did you know this is what you were experiencing?
Praise God!!!
Awesome!🥰🙌🙌💪
Im on the same boat hoping you feel the peace and self love I hope I too can find!
Blessings and congratulations 🙏🥰
Better late then never, right?!!🤗Sending you and yours SO much LOVE~~~>💓°•○☆💕
If you ask the Holy Spirit to reveal things about the person you have questions about. Buckle up! He will give you receipts. Every time I’ve asked the Holy Spirit I have asked him to give me the strength to be able to stand for what he tells me.
How do you know.... How does the holy spirit answer.... I am still waiting for answers...
@wenta you pray to god, open up bible , random page, and mostly it talks abt your current situation or in close relevance to it. Then you attend the church service with a question in yourmind, which gets answered. Miraculously. Are all the work of holy spirit. Your prayer can be as simple as let the holy spirit guide me through the righteous path.
That’s last sentence…. Asking God to help you stand for what he tells me..
Hmm... I will try.... Difficult right now
@@jemimacatherine2719 literally always happens like this! God so good to us!
Everything he says is true. I lived through it. Currently recovering. I thank the LORD GOD for bringing me out.
My dad was just telling me to be careful with my ex, who I was missing… he actually called him a parasite, which is unusual language for my very loving/accepting dad to use. Hearing that specific word right now kind of triggered the light bulb for me.
Last night I was crying and telling God how sad I am to be single at this point (I just turned 30), and I thought I’d have a different life by now with a home and a husband and maybe children 🤷🏾♀️
I feel behind, and I regret wasting time, so my new prayer is for God to reveal what I need to do to be ready for the good things He has for me.
DONT GO BACK! Whatever you do! Block him! Change your # and don’t answer his moms calls! They Don’t change! They suck your happiness away and make you angry and depressed to the point people won’t recognize you anymore. My kids dad cheated and cheated and I FINALLY gathered the courage to leave him and like a fool I returned after a year and a few months thinking he had changed, but when he got me where he wanted me, he switched and his old ways came back. I hate myself for allowing him to fool me again and for allowing him to waste my time and energy. God gave me dreams over and over again, and it’s not that I was being disobedient to God, I just thought that I was having bad dreams bc it was in my mind so much. I just had faith that God could change him, but I realize God can’t make him change. He has to want to change. And he don’t. He is fine with the current state because he lives rent free, pays no bills, gets food, has his own car and comes and leaves as he pleases. I battle suicidal thoughts and it’s really hard to deal with the pain that I go through daily watching him careless about my suffering. My stepdad warned me. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Learn from my mistakes, PLEASE!
@@loveoneanother133 he’s blocked on everything, but he emailed me TODAY.
Last night I had a scary dream that I was a slave running from hounds… I woke up in a panic like I haven’t since we lived together. It was so strange and in the back of my mind until I read his email today. I didn’t respond, and I won’t… the timing is surreal.
@@WholeHeartily yeah when I was pregnant with my son he would leave saying he was "working" and eventually I discovered he was cheating. While I was having dizzy spells from not eating enough, he would leave me at home to work by myself and watch our 2 girls so they can do home school during COVID. SMH. I Was so angry I yelled and literally sounded like a demon. I had NEVER been brought to such a level of anger. I was afraid of myself. My mom called me one day and told me that she had a bad dream and that he was killing me by forcing me to drink gas sitting g in a chair tied down. I remember distinctly feeling like he was killing me slowly by making me deal with his toxic ways. When my lease wS up I was leaving him but I didn't have support and I ended up getting manipulated by his smooth talking ways. I forgave him and he has done it again. I'm just disgusted at this point. I don't even like seeing him or being near him. I feel like I am paying for someone else's sins sometimes.
@@loveoneanother133 I’m
That last part is good.My new prayer is for God to reveal what i need to do, to be ready for the good things he has for me. I
This is 100% what happened to me. I was broken but God knew what he was doing. He allowed me to learn so much through this experience too. God bless you brother. He also miraculously put me back together again stronger than before.
Yesssssss🥰🥰🥰🥰
Yes my brother 2019 i turneš 33 and then my learning started i thought i list everything but acrutally i GET everything
@@drazenstefanovic6122 amen! That’s how it works so often.
Same!
Same here! Got back to my Father! Amen!
Currently going through this. All saints in Jesus Christ Please lift me up in Prayer. Clara
I was in such an ungodly, toxic relationship that when I found out he cheated for the last time, I was standing in front of a gate listening to the ex he couldn't leave alone. I felt my breath leave me. It's not worth it. I finally let him go and reaffirmed my relationship with God. Great, timely video.
Amen sister! So glad you didn’t succumb.🕊
@@YaLittleFriend Thank you. It was the ultimate life crossroad moment of compromise. Whether I was going to stay with God or follow my own lustful interests. I had to kick that spirit out for good, but the situation humbled me, gave me a lot of pause, and I went into silence and solitude. It almost cost me my life. I didn't realize I was in so much danger. Be safe!
@@reginayfavors 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
My standing rule: if they cant let their ex go, you have to let them go.
@@rinzler9775 Absolutely. I learned that later in life because I never had to deal with the issue directly. But I know now. I'm not putting up with a man who makes an ex a priority. Nope!
God always shows us signs, he always talks to us. We need to listen to him.
You mean "her" yes, it is true... God is in fact female with some tig ol bitties 😍 lawd
Amen 🙏
God gives us signs yes, but he does not directly speak too us.
@@bribba01 not always, sometimes He does through the dreams or by people that we know.
@@Thegazelle1000 from where do you get this? Any references in the bible? Im not a christian but i geuss you are.
This is true learned by experience. Take everything to God and pray about it. Seek his word. And he will show u.
Here’s an anecdote: One weird thing that happened to me is I remember praying with one of my devout christian friends when I was still with my last ex and we basically said “god, if I am not meant to be with this woman, separate me from her” and my ex literally dumped me the next day. I was so devastated that I went through denial followed by several stages of grief but in hindsight I’m glad she let me go because the woman I’m with now is such an upgrade. I can’t begin to describe to you how good she is to me and we’ve been together for years at this point so I think it’s fair to say that she’s the one. It’s wild too because it took me a few years to recover from the trauma I experienced from my ex and it took me a long time to actually let the woman I’m with now into my heart I mean she wanted me before I had a car, a job, money…she would spoil me with food and gifts and as much as I doubted it, deep down I knew what I wasn’t initially willing to believe. Material things were not her motive and she was persistent and after a few years I gave in. She helped me heal before we started dating. Idk what all of this was I mean it could have been a coincidence but like, it happened almost like someone planned it so idk. Even though I’m spiritually lost right now I still think a higher power probably had something to do with it.
She’s a real one if she was there when you never had anything to offer. That’s real love because it isn’t easy to do
Jesus
Definitely was a blessing
Trust me when I say it was God.
some people are sent straight from God as an answer to your selfless and genuine prayers about what you know you need and deserve in your life. he rewards us when we ask him for things with patience and purity in our heart
I left my ex years ago and always felt guilty. Years later we rekindled our relationship but I started experiencing all these signs with him. Even with the dreams, I’d have dreams of him doing something to hurt me all the time. We had an argument over these very issues and he walked away and all of a sudden I had dreams of someone else loving me and being happy together. That was my sign from god.
Everything wrote down on that white board reflects my last relationship. I’m glad God is giving me the strength to walk away.
One thing I LOVE about the lord. Is he PLAYs NO GAMES.
Get close to God, you will feel him love you, and through that love he will teach you the understanding of love
An affirmation as to why I made the right decision to leave a toxic relationship, God never lies 🙏🏾
God just made this pop up on my time line...God is so merciful
Be obedient as consistent as possible so when you encounter these enemies you have a strong foundation
Amen Bro...everything has a season.....we get hurt by situations when we refuse to see the TRUTH......I myself have to ask the FATHER to forgive me for staying in bad situations too long....His ways are not ours....stop leaning on my own understanding, and TRUST HIM...
This ! Me currently
@@MsThomaslive me too gurl
Amen
Amen 🙏!
Amen brother amen.
These are so very accurate. That double-minded is the one that gets a lot of us. They say one thing and do another. Be careful of spouses who only mention God or Christ around you, if God is your love language and they know that, they use him to keep you hooked.
that would be very dishonest wouldn't it? Wouldn't God make them reap what they are sowing? Wouldnt God protect us from this kind of fake Christian?
@@OrdinaryFemmale nooo we have to pass the test of discernment
I needed to hear that, as a man seeking a godly woman
@@Lex_Luthor777 🙏🏽
@Priscila Nascimento YES HE MOST DEFINITELY WOULD IF YOU ASKED HIM TO! PRAY FOR PROTECTION FROM GOD. 🙏 HE WILL NEVER LET YOU DOWN.
I agree with a lot of this, but we have agency. So I don’t believe that God ALLOWS them to hurt us, WE allow them to hurt us and God can’t protect us from ourselves. He can only guide us and help us.
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He will allow certain things if you don't move. If he telling you to walk away and you keep holding on...he will move his hand from over you so you can see who or what you dealing with. So he does allow things to happen
The book of Job is a prime example, God allowed Satan to do things to Job.
@@stephaniepeek2383 JOB kept his faith in Jah.JOB wife died ,and JOB received everything he lost 10x more
Violent behavior and adultery or "cheating" or stealing money are some of the ways God shows a person that the one they are involved with is not for them. For anyone out there experiencing domestic violence, leave that situation immediately and do not give any advanced notice/warning to the abuser. Just leave. Preferably, leave town.
This is impowering. Me and my boyfriend have been together for the last year and a half and God has convinced me its good. I am very proud and stable in my situation and knowing that God has guided me here
I married a woman who has exhibited all of these characteristics! Now this person has left me and I have two young children! Take heed to this message! It’s a very difficult time in my life!
Same here , verbatim . worst time of my life right now !
Prayers to you both
Same, stay strong 💪🏾❤
God can turn 🙏 things around
Praying for you to have strength and peace in Jesus name. Just let go of her and forgive her. God's gonna give you the right person in His time.
Thank the Lord for His signs. The Lord has delivered my heart from toxic relationships, which includes family members 🕊
I’m Muslim and all these things are true as they happened to me before he left me out of the blue last October. I was ignoring the signs because love is truly blind. I’m still heartbroken but I know God will give me an amazing man
Seek not an "amazing man"
Seek God, and God alone
@@momon_konp i have lived that way and now my love is for Jesus i let him lead my life .
To my people: Remember this could be you too! so pay attention if the enemy is trying to use you! Be in Christ and in Christ only!❤️
I had at least 4 dreams of my ex cheating with the same girl and every single one came true , God warns and always comes through
So true and its so hard to accept the truth but we gotta obey God .
Yes yes tell the truth I have be warned and finally that devil left and I started to realize he was evil and to this day he’s trying his hardest to get back but I see his downfall his evil. You are so right every since he left my life has gotten better
How do you cut your feelings long enough to wake up an let go?
@@trollbaby8122 I know you're not asking me, but I'd like to answer. For me, it was hard when I knew God didn't want me with someone that I liked (we were gonna be unequally yoked). I think I was definitely stubborn for a while, but then things happened (not seeing each other frequently, disagreeing on certain essential topics like sin, him getting angry and not talking to me for a long time) and I started to lose feelings for this guy. I tried to rejuvenate those feelings but I guess they were already gone, cuz I just didn't like him the same.
Ive been warned as well while i was with someone and im glad god did that and never left me and got me out of a bad situation
I’ve been seeing this on my feed for about a week now. I needed to hear this again, because there’s a guy who popped back up in my life and I allowed him back in knowing good and well God did not ordain us to even pursue each other. Every point hit home, and I know that nobody but Holy Spirit was speaking through you. Thank God for your obedience and wisdom 🙏🏽💙.
The fact that I’m going through some crazy things right now and this randomly popped up on my feed is nuts! I never see this on my feed! Idk if it’s TH-cam listening or God but I’ll take it!
@@RealMishoRed Fr😢
This is right on the nail I’ve experienced all 6 of those with one person and got away from that person.
Exactly what I needed to hear in a moment of weakness.
This exactly what happened in my last relationship and only pushed me closer to god. I thought that because she was Christian like me and went to the same church I went to that she was good for me. She always did every favor I asked for but at the same time the relationship had all these signs. I also had a dream that someone from the church told me she’s been sleeping around with her ex and was just using me. It felt like a 3 year relationship but we were together for only 3 months. I decided to let it go and now I know god didn’t want me with this person. But this built me to be stronger and have self respect and set boundaries. I hope for people currently in a relationship like this watch this video and walk away.
I’m in this situation right now I had lost myself last year I’m now getting everything back but idk why I’m still in the relationship I’m trying to get out
@@Zyair_king Get it out of it now before it gets worse. At least you know you’re not in a good relationship. Sometimes we think that maybe we could be wrong but just follow you’re intuition most of the time it’s god saying you need to let it go. This is why boundaries are important in a relationship and see if they’re being met.
@@Christstr3ngth facts
The last girl I dated which was April of 2021 I kept getting a feeling that something wasn’t right she wasn’t a bad girl. She just showed red flags 🚩 like wanting to go thru my phone I always put my foot down with any woman Sometimes people can’t go where GOD is trying to take u
@@Zyair_king well if you need any advice feel free tag me on here I’ll response and help u the best way I can be blessed
These are signs id had to learn the hard way myself last year honestly... but once i finally did, met someone who is the opposite of all of this and we are so happy and doing great and im always with him ❤😊
Every point made was spot-on. God revealed his true colors to me two years ago, and we'd known each other for almost a decade. Our friendship was so intricate and neatly-woven, that when I'd asked God to reveal and separate me from anyone who could hurt me, he was the very first person to do so and I'm still winded from the attack. I let him back in after countless revelations from God revealing who he was because I thought maybe it was a mistake, maybe I read the signs wrong, but I hadn't. God is never wrong. Now I'm struggling to fully detach myself. If I had listened the first time maybe it wouldn't hurt this bad but the toughest lessons are learned through the pain. Thank you for uploading this and spreading God's word.
Run!!!! They do NOT change. . Best for you to get close to the Lord , His Love is what you most need. He is your all in all. Blessings 💖🎄💖
How did you find the strength to leave?
@@kililahbromley9085 I put my full trust in God and let him go. I kept telling myself that there was a reason God removed him, and even if I couldn't see it myself (and I prayed constantly/fasted to see new revelations to make the process easier), I realized I can't lean on my own understanding, but God's. I had to remember the reasons why he had been removed in the first place and recognize that even if he had changed, he wasn't meant to be in my life. At first I hated that all of this had to happen, but now I'm glad it did. My faith in God skyrocketed as he saw me through all of it.
Now, I'm about 95% healed and all glory is given to the Most High. I commented on this 5 months ago and it's amazing to see the work God has put into me. Whatever you don't have the strength to let go of, God will see you through it. You just have to give it to him.
I just went through this same exact cycle. Word for word. I walked away yesterday and I refuse to go back.
In Jesus name amen.
I was led to rev 2 19-23 & so much more. God never breaks a promised. Keep holding on in your faith. Trust in God! All of you are into my prayers because we are all going through it but also take time to hold accountability for your actions because my 20 years of experience with one person I too am to blame & I have broken all the commandments myself but I will use this for my testimony in life. My calling! To help other seek Jesus Christ as there lord & savior & share a story what lord Jesus & god the father did for me! Pray for them so god can do the rest! Don’t go back there that door is close. Seek god for own actions & repent. He will lift you as long as you give him all of you 🙏🏽💯🚪⚔️
This is great content. Slow down, calm down. Breathe. Don’t race to the finish line…. We’re rocking with you.
He’s so excited while talking about this but I agree slow down n breath 🙏🏽
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I understand him but I also speak fast if I am focused on a subject but thank you for the reminder
Haha no preachers don't slow down. He's a vessel
I was with someone who eventually checked off every single one of these boxes religiously/ everyday. Basically very sobering to hear. Praise the Lord
THIS MESSAGE ... OMG WAS EVERYTHING❤️
Yes it was
I remember I used to always have dreams of this guy that I was so in love with dissing me, or walking away from me. No matter what scene we was in, in my dreams he would always leave Me, when I wake up. He was laying beside me. I never expressed my dreams to him. But in reality he did leave me with excuses on and off for 11 years. I finally ended it for good he can no longer come back
Jesus I thought it is just that my dreams are the representation of my thoughts, and my thoughts about this guy that I've been with for 2 years were haunting me because he cheated on me and I went back to him. Today we are planning to meet, and I've had AGAIN another dream about him walking away from me, dissing me and laughing at me that he already found someone new. While in reality he's the one who's begging me to come back. I've had these kind of dreams even during our relationship time, and ive always pushed it aside, saying it's just all in my head, but I know that it's not a coincidence that I've had so many dreams like that. He was always rude to me, walking away with another woman, heartless and cold, complete opposite of what he is in reality! That's insane and I don't know that to think about it...
Sometimes the devil give you dreams
@Nasira Smih sometimes but you should always stop and discern
my boyfriend isn't a believer but since i got with him i feel like I'm closer to God and i wanna know more and more about Jesus
Well if you are Believe In Christ and he's not a believer let me tell you there's different ways to be unequally yoked with them you know what your make and that's one of them believer but you are a believer that's certainly meaning you all are unequal yoke and you can being unequally yoked in more than one way but that's that one right there that's a struggle because if he's not a Believer then it appears that he might be a 80s baby that is a struggle right there but then the Bible does it tell you if you can win him over so be it to me that simply means he's an atheist you know that started at this point in my life and the way the world is going today its destruction all over the world I wouldn't want that fight no not at all
God does not allow anyone to hurt you. YOU allow someone to hurt you. Your life will fall apart because YOU allowed it. People will use and reject you when YOU allow it. YOU allow people to push you away from Christ. Accountability.
Try again.
@@Bbfication Elaborate. Don't come on my post saying to "try again" when you haven't stated why I need to try again.
@@jasibae00 well "jasibabi09" , you are exactly right. I should elaborate & it's really no shade to you or your comment, sis. However, NOT everyone is you or is equipped with the tools that YOU may possess to be able to discern these type of situations. It is very true that we are ALL granted free will and have the ability of choice, etc..& yes, let's be accountable WHEN WE KNOW BETTER & EVEN WHEN WE DIDN'T but if there's no test there's no testimony, hun. God ALLOWS us to be placed in certain situations for us to LEARN and for HIS WILL to be done whether we need to take accountability or not. Guess you weren't aware that ALL things go thru GOD LOL....the enemy can't even get to you WITHOUT HIS permission. So, that, is what I meant by try again. Love & light! 💖💫
Preach
Do you know the story of Job?
God speaks to us in so many ways. We just have to pay complete attention.
I know right hes so playful when stuff like torture and murder is involved 😂🥰
Ngl “ A Rejection is also Gods Protection” is such a bar and the truth !!!!!
Everything mentioned in this video this is exactly what I have been going through for the past 4 years my husband walked out on me 4 days ago for a woman he met on Facebook dating and he acts as if I don't exist has me blocked and won't even check on me and that's the part that hurts but this video popped up at the perfect time and I am trying to keep my strength to keep him gone I know God got me
Amen. I was in your situation..... but I took my ex back 2 times and each time it got 100% worse (for real). Stay in prayer 🙏. God will guide you.
There's better days coming your way mam.
Omg,Are you serious? This social media
Ugh.I am sorry you endured this horrible ordeal. I'm Praying for you.God don't like ugly. Ugh
We must not only be believers, but also warriors of Christ! Sound teachings brother. Glory to God
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Amen!
Amen!!
I never get any religious videos in my recommendations on youtube. God sent me this video because He knew I needed to see and hear what this man said. Thank you for the video.
I can attest this is 100% accurate. Also, most times we choose not seek first the kingdom of God, we go off our own selfish desires leading to the pain 😢. You live and you learn. There is light at the end of the tunnel. We just need to be obedient and repent of our sins. Heavenly father's arms are always opened waiting for us.
I been dating my current girlfriend for 5 months... for a while I thought she was the problem... Until God made me realize that the real problem was me.... Cuz I had turned the girl into an idol... trying to please her even at the cost of compromising what God says....as a result...the relationship was draining, and just tiresome.... It wasn't until I stopped compromising and put Christ first did everything slowly change... The girl right now is fully committed to walking with God
This is beautiful
Good luck with that
I am going through a very similar situation.. not sure if we could talk more about this together or what, but this comment strikes me more than any other
@@christiangonzales5612 brother... ultimately.
..the cure is put God First.... your partner should never be the center of your life... or the prime pursuit of your heart that's God's territory......so don't stress about pleasing her.... stress about pleasing God... period
Number 2.
love your partner the way God says you should...
1. "'corintians13",
..and don't stress the outcome....if your partner leaves because you decide to play by God's rules ....then she ain't the one for you..... Get it stepping... you'll be fine
This literally happened to me last year. I was mentally messed up but now I can't put to words how relieved I am that I am free of that person and I thank God for that
Thank you Lord for drawing me away from a toxic relationship, and back to you. I am forever thankful for your Grace and guidance. 💕Amen.
Universe will bring you good people in peace and clarity. I'm healing damage from a narcissist split up
Me and you both I'm healing to from a narcissist from last year
I find this to be true. It's hard to leave when your heart is good and you are trying to save people especially when children are involved.
Very productive and useful video. Even as a Muslim, I took away a lot of good from this. Thank you!
Wonderful
The timing of this video is frightening they come so on point with my life
So true! Same thing happened to me. I knew it was God. Made the healing process easier knowing he was protecting me. I prayed and asked him to show me who this person really was and he did!!!
The timing of this video could not be any more perfect. Just the other day, I had to make the hardest decision ever - I had to let go of an almost 10 year long friendship. Everything that you mentioned in your video happened. This person used me, rejected me, confused me, and even appeared in a dream. This dream was just toxic. I was in my old neighborhood walking in the rain with shackles on my hands dragging behind me and I was walking with my ex-best friend (who was abusing me verbally in the dream), his new toxic girlfriend, and his group of friends. The entire walk was miserable, but I waited until I got to the door of my community that I decided to snap and end things with him.
All in all, I knew I made the right decision, but the pain I felt along the way was the worst pain I’ve ever felt. It’s the pain of ultimate betrayal, but I know that I don’t have to worry or stress anymore.
Thank you for the video. I enjoyed watching and listening to it. Have a great day!
I am sure I am not here by accident, so let me just say "Thank You". I have came across this video and another that speaks to my current situation, the red flags were there, well are there. Asking GOD to give me the strength to keep going forward and to release this person from my heart, mind and soul. I thought they were heaven sent but now I am not so sure! How did this even happen??? 🤦🏾♀️, How did I attract such a person!
Been there! You wanted something- a connection, something real. The fake came first and we didn’t know what red flags were, now we’re experts, we see pink flags. I prayed that person out of my life so I know I can pray a good one in after my season of healing.
Man will fail you. God will not. Forgive, and the Lord will forgive you.
But in every relationship there is happiness and sadness.... Sometimes we both get hurts, also sometimes we be happy.... Not all relationships are perfect .... I don't completely agree with the 1st point unless they cheated and we get hurt.
Well articulated brother... I'd like to add that Sometimes we Christians are the problem...cuz we end up prioritising pleasing our partners above Christ .. and that creates chaos in a relationship........
as long as pleasing Christ remains your priority in a relationship ,the wrong partner will reveal themselves... Cuz they will try to force u to compromise in order to please them... whether directly or indirectly
true
Thiss
I experienced everything on your check list when I was in a relationship with a narc for 20yrs. U SPOKE FACTS!!! Because I was married to him and God forgives, I gave him chances and with every chance the hurt got worst. God showed me things in dreams and never made me feel loved 🗣🗣I'll never go thru something like that again 💯 I heard God the whole time but when I finally obeyed him he changed me and protected me in so many ways. So when he talks I listen and follow thru with anything he says. Praise God!!! I'm so grateful to be out of that situation!!😇
This was for me..I prayed for a sign woke up from a disturbing dream but I knew why..glory to God
The Holy Spirit will almost felt like it left you dormant when you are around these kinds of people. Their spirit truly is that cold and evil
Obviously he never leaves us, but it’s a feeling you get in your spirit / stomach sometimes that just don’t feel good
Damn bro. I needed to hear this. Praising my Lord and Savior Christ Jesus for this message. My kid's mom and I have been living together for 20 years and we haven't truly gotten married but we have four children together. We both grew up catholic, went astray, she became an atheist and I never left the faith though I became a prodigal and then in 2018 we both along with our two oldest were baptized in the Name of Jesus Christ in a Christian Church. Since then it's been a roller coaster for the both of us, still not legally married, still not at peace with each other one day it's all love next day she hates me. She doesn't have compassion or empathy for others, is always filled with anxiety and anger and it confuses me because I watched her get saved and profess her faith in Christ publicly. Through out our relationship I've had this same dream (though a bit different every time) even last night 6/6/22 that she's leaving me and refuses to reconcile. She refuses to marry me because of things I did in the past (cheating) that she doesn't truly forgive me for. I don't know what to do. Lord Jesus please help me. My name is Inosensio Avila and her name is Frances Valdivia. Please pray for us. ✝️❤️🙏🏽
If you guys are saved, then you both would know that you cannot be living in your current situation and be in Christ. All the activities being done OUTSIDE of marriage are sin and if you two have a heart for God, then you both would see it and want to do what is right in the Lord. This is not a condemnation but an encouragement for you both to seek God and his word more closely. We'll keep you two on prayer as well.
Will pray.
I’m going threw all this right now with my child’s mother . Been trying to get my family back together but I was blind by the signs god was giving me this whole time .
The more you listen to God the more peace starts to prevail even in the face of the storm.
I distrust those people who know so well what God wants them to do, because I notice it always coincides with their own desires.
Now this is the truth watch out for people who try to use Gods name
Thank you God! I prayed and asked God to show me, if my husband is for me or not. Two days later, he left me while I was at church.
This is so true looking back yes god warned me and eventually cut it off. I learned alot through pain. God didn’t want to hurt me but I didn’t listen
We allow these things 1st. God allows it so we can learn discernment.. For we have free will. This can apply for people, places, or things. The wrong job can do the same. The wrong foods can. The wrong habits. The wrong music. The wrong crowds. The wrong medicines. The wrong knowledge...U name it🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
There are no coincidences. God knows I needed this. Thank you!
This randomly popped up on my youtube feed…. And its exactly what i needed i to see…. Thank u Lord
THANK U FOR UR MESSAGES THEY HAVE BEEN SO HELPFUL TO ME IVE BEEN STRUGGLING WITH A DRUG ADDICTION AND UR VIDEOS HAVE HELPED REMEMBER HOW MUCH GOD LOVES ME AND THAT HE HASNT LEFT MY SIDE PLEASE KEEP ME IN PRAYER
I will pray for you. May God bless you and help you to be well again 🙏
@@diamichelle21 THANK U SO MUCH GOD BLESS
Many of us are inflicted with many things but that does not mean we are not good enough for the world and society. Some of the most successful people to have ever lived started their lives as the worst of the worst but they have become the best of the best. Life is not determined by experiences, it is determined by the person living those experiences.
@@ws6258 SO TRUE
Let your blessings continue brother.
God guided me to you, and you've helped me get to where I am.
The peace and love of God be always with you.
Dudeee WTF 😳 you just woke me up from a confusing, manipulative, toxic relationship
God Bless your heart
I needed this , I was so confused for months and in darkness I lost soul , you helped me!!!!
You cannot be certain all the time, sometimes confusion brings reflection. Sure, you cannot be with a person that changes everyday; as Marc says: one day 'I love you', the next day I do not love you"
I try to help people I was raised like that if I can't help u I will leave u alone 💯
WAIT! You got tears welling up in a young one’s eyes. “God is not the author of confusion” that really gutted me bro. Thank youu 🙏🏾 true Gems 💎
The dreams are soo valid..He will show you things before they happen. Especially if are gifted like Joseph. Oh man I even got the Lord 4am tap to pray.
I'm very critical of preachers and self ordained ministers. This guy is good. He understands God's nature and direction a good source for information.
THIS IS SOOOOOO TRUE! I HAVE DROPPED EVERYBODY IN MY LIFE THAT HAS TURNED ME IN THE WRONG DIRECTION AND IM SO HAPPY!
Amen... Me too there no one left now except me and my kids! Starting from fresh canvas with guidance.
All these happened to me with the last person I dealt with. I had angels come to me in two separate dreams telling me what was happening behind my back & to let go of him. I’ve never had that happen before.
@432HzForYou while in the first dream an angle came through someone else to deliever the message which was my sister. she said “your angles wanted me to tell you that you’re not meant to be, that you think this is your end all be all but it’s not” in the second dream I was bike riding & the angles voice came in my head. It said “you’re not the only one he’s giving time & attention to, there are other people involved” I’ve always been really connected to my dream space & usually receive messages through there. I had plenty of other dreams about things he was doing as well.
Thank you , more confirmation, it took me a while, I got it finally and let him go . I will never let anyone anything or any place come before my Almighty Father . Thank you again.
Ive had all those signs in my last relationship and it was toxic and his family almost killed me and he enabled it, all i wanted was the best for him and i.. Now im by myself healing from a car accident and 37weeks pregnant.. Living on my own but im happier. I finally listened to all the signs.. Im better by myself. Those people was evil, demonic and draining me of my great energy and positive intentions, get to a point were i couldnt recongnize myself. I went from happy to despressed, angry, sad, ect. My life was great until i let him in my life. Broken people only want to break others. I love myself and he didnt want me to love myself or find my way before "taking care of him" i hated it.. I was being used and i couldnt allow that to happen anymore. The lord is with me all the time and ive been doing great and happy in my own. I have my mom, my brothers and sister to help me.. I love myself and im happy. Theres more but thats just the just of it.. You not wrong. I wish i seen this video a year ago. But you are right. 👏👏
God is using you as a vessel to teach so many and I have been so badly off the path he's waited me on for many years and it's just recently I'm enjoying being alone and it's Saturday night and I got one of your videos on TV up, this one on my phone, my Bible next to me with a a book about spiritual warfare and another book that's fiction but based on ancient Rome and Christianity. I have been feeling the Lord is calling me to do something to reach an audience with prayers. I'm not ready yet but I feel like he's making a way for me. I've been in such a dark place and deep pain but it's only recently that I'm good with my life. I was so mad at the Lord for isolating me and leaving me to rot. But I'm 100 percent better and thanking God for my time being single. No longer do I want a husband or even a relationship with a man. I just want to follow what God wants for me.
I used to have vivid dreams but I don’t anymore for some reason. Hopefully they’ll return soon because I need God to speak to me everywhere, even in dreams.
Love your channel brother. You’re a smart and insightful man. Keep on spreading the truth. ❤ 🙏
Try fasting before bed. Don't eat after 6 am. One thing anyway
Thank you so much for sharing this.
Just experienced this a month ago. I had dreams, I noticed so many red flags/attachment to flesh, confusion, draining energy, distraction, double minded, hurt. All the things you mentioned!! I also experienced physical symptoms in my body (sick to my stomach gut feelings, anxiety, burning sensation in my throat)! I tried to work things out and to communicate with compassion, and this person continued to cross my boundaries- more signs that this is not the person God wants me to be with. Truth be told I knew that. I feel that is always there too isn’t it? We always know deep down if we are honest with ourselves, that this person is not right for us. I prayed and listened to the signs and ended things early before things got too invested. Grateful for all the signs and guidance, getting me back on track with staying focused on my path.
All praise to the most high ❤️
Amen 👏🏽
I've been through all of this ignorance is bad I was ignorant and sentimental but thank God I'm free still healing though but I know God has someone good reserved for me. Glory to God