Sheena, the "switch flick" strategy and not comparing ourselves to our partners as to who does what, is definitely something i think we learn as we get older. I used to get so frustrated by the fact that there were certain tasks i always ended up doing, until i actually sat back and realised there were certain tasks HE was always doing too. I dont want to mow the lawn or take the garbage out. He doesnt want to clean the bathroom or wash the bed sheets. Having accepted that, life is much less frustrating.
Wow - the entire family/relationship dynamic is playing out before our eyes and I'm here for it all. This is SO important for all of us. Don't change.❤ Also, we need a blooper reel! Imagine all the things that get omitted! 😂
Fantastic episode! I really enjoyed your approach of integrating self-reflection as you communicated your thoughts and feelings. I wish I had been able to watch this 40 years ago.
Sheena I have to say that you moved me to tears when you sang Fight Song because that was my theme a couple of years ago when I had some major health issues. Fortunately, things are better
I really enjoyed this episode. I am in a new relationship and I had been really worried about what that first argument is going to be and how were we gonna handle it. This episode helped me a lot, gave me some things to think about when that argument happens. Thank you so much for sharing your life with us, you have helped me greatly.
Ag1 needs to make it more affordable for the people. This seems to be the main complaint is the price for Ag1. Love watching you guys. Keep the videos coming in.
That was part of my thinking, but also the amounts of various vitamins are FAR too high. I did look over the percentages. I understand water-soluble vitamins can be expelled from the body in excess amounts. But, I think the smarter play is to instead take less of that and add/increase amounts for other things that would be healthy for you. I have a great multi-vitamin I take and I did the same research. It's much cheaper and it is also effective. When it comes to what you ingest, if you don't need the excess ingredients, less is more. Same with OTC medications. If you don't have a headache, fever, or temperature related issues, why would you take medicine that had an anti-pyretic in it? Bundles are not always necessary and can further complications or create new ones.
27:45 actually, I also read an article backed by research, starting that the number 1 thing that "most households" fight about is chores, and who would do it, and how it is to be done.
Such an interesting blend in this conversation. Thanks for sharing♥♥♥ Love the sunrise and birds chirping alarm clock idea. And yes, prepaving your day in moments of stillness without being attacked by electronic messages and videos is a healthier way to live. Too many live in social media and it shows in their comments or even DMs to others. Set the electronics aside......go live life♥
I love this series so much. It has helped put a lot in perspective for me in my own relationship. Tone is also something that can cause the argument to go even further and in the wrong direction, especially for me. My tone makes my better half withdraw and i have to back pedal and try to save discussion progress. Can you do a follow up episode about HOW to argue, please ma'am?
I love your podcast Sheena! Always look forward to it!^-^ Always freaking hilarious with your husband Trid as well. You guys never never never fail to make me laugh no matter what. Haha love it❣️☺️
This is my first time watching you guys in this setting. Loved it! And really appreciate all the great insight on both your parts. Especially the bit about the phone usage being something you have to lead by example on and not really “complain.” Definitely changed my perspective on that!
How rude that women message Sheens about TRID (& conversely). The appropriate message-you are a blessed couple/blessed to have each other. The wit/humor and laughter has us hooked😂❤
🎉🎉🎉 Poor Sheena 😢😢😢 You will NEVER Win an argument with the MASTER TRID 😊. If TRID opened his own church ⛪️, well I’d become a member 😂😂😂 Blessings,Carlos ✝️🙏❤️😊🇺🇸
25:50 Sheena: "I was right!" Also Sheena: "What was I right about?" 😂😂😂 Wow. It's really appreciated that you both allow people to see that a great relationship isn't just fairy dust, unicorns, and rainbows. Great job guys. People who are happy together still have disagreements.
I'm 1 minute and 48 seconds in and you want your wife to look in the direction that she is being authentic again while you hide behind a cartoon character version of yourself Just stating the obvious and the hypocrisy Edited to add: I still absolutely love these videos!! You seem like real people; well, she does, at least; she isn't blocked out as a cartoon charicature. Uhhh, Ok!. I'm 3:05 minutes in now.... I think I'm invested to finish out this deeply energetic "love" connection
The secret in this relationship is that you share a family business where The competition is transformed into cooperation with "yes". Humor and improvisation and presence and bliss. All is music
Beautiful convo, specifically around the phone. I felt your vulnerability there, and it was relatable. Unsolicited whathaveyou: AG1 message from sponsor just blended into the episode like it's a natural part of your conversation about fights felt a little weird (vomit, plastic, paper?) But ... one llama's opinion and we're all learning. Angelbabes, thanks for sharing your lives.
I really believe the last 30 to 60 minutes of the day follows you into sleep. I was told to ask a life changing question or problem to solve for the sub conscious to work on. The first moments to wake up is the time the sub conscious can be heard/remembered to get the needed answers.
Yes I can hear the lawn mower next door.....makes me feel really at home with you guys.....love your laughter Sheena and Trid is a nut..makes us all laugh. I follow you guys all the time. Love Naughty Nana Jude from Australia 🇦🇺 xxoo
I love how during the "being on your phone" convo TRID checked his phone lol and arguing over money was a BIG deal in my marriage and ultimately divorce, what sucked is I stayed with him through the lean years (worked as a nurse to put him through school) and the minute he became an architect, someone else enjoyed the spoils. just sayin (low key though he's her problem now)...not everyone can wait until their spouse gets a "number one podcast in the World". If that hadn't happened, would you and TRID still be together? If he were working as an attorney and you DIDNT find SM (because singers are a dime a dozen and making it big is difficult hence why shows like AGT and Idol were so big) but what would you have done instead of Influencer (and btw I feel bad for influencers as they get used to big money coming in and someday that's going to be gone because ppl move on fast these days-the easy answer would be keep content fresh, hmmm well good luck) no really, I do wish you good luck, I enjoy listening to you guys.
So when my daughters turned 15 one them become quite selfish, she’s 18 now it’s gotten worse!!! 😢 As a mom how do I correct that calmly? Currently I’m trying to hold it in as long as I can then one day I’ll snap, sit myself down & try to figure out how I can calmly approach this (bc she’s gotten so touchy that she’ll snap & we end up not talking for weeks) then approach her. She then will just sit there & not say anything. UGH!!!! 😩 What can I do? 🤷🏻♀️❤❤❤
2 things I'll just make a comment about: 1) You said one of the child's is selfish and it's okay for them to be at this age, I get what you're saying and where you might be coming from but I respectfully disagree, if they don't get the reprimands or correction now it's only going to get worse as they get older and then it just becomes their personality. So I would highly suggest getting rid of or minimizing that as much as you can in them now while it's still something they're probably trying out. 2) You mentioned you still hadn't gotten the new teenager a phone yet, idk how I feel about smartphones for kids mostly because aged 13/14 when they're in yr 8 (I'm in England) is when they start getting curious about "getting jiggy with it" and start watching all that crap (Saying this based on my own experiences + with people I know both friends and family), their little brains are still developing with no need for that highly addictive crap that's readily available....... but I think you said he already has an IPad so idk, I would just be cautious and definitely have "the talk".
And on top of ALL the Mom stuff, we are human. And my husband and I dont always agree with discipline styles either and we have a handsome son and beautiful daughter and money does cause super stress❤
I am thrown by the window behind TRID , it feels like he is up in the kitchen or something, but occasionally you see the tips of his fingers in Sheena's window. Trippy! Oh! And now he has suddenly appeared in the basement!
I remember you saying you're from Boston, I'm guessing it's the suburbs because I can't imagine you two sending your kids to Boston public schools😮, They are a mess. ... I love your podcast
Get your son a phone. Especially if he’s going HS and playing sports. So if case of an emergency he can get in touch with you. Just my opinion. That’s what I did with my children.
I like the podcast but I absolutely love chaos in the kitchen and Asinine advice and really miss it.
Agree!!!!!
@@jetson10100
I agree as well.
Thank you for mentioning that. Blessings,Carlos ✝️🙏❤️😊🇺🇸
I know right
was amazing to see the ling and lamb collab was amazing
Same. Would love some Indian recipes.
The biggest cause of fights in relationships is unmet expectations. The solution is communication and compromise.
TRID as Voldemort and Sheena as Harietta Potter? The Girl Who Laughed and The Dork Lord? 🤣
Sold
Her glance to the camera is her acknowledging her audience. I concur.
Sheena, the "switch flick" strategy and not comparing ourselves to our partners as to who does what, is definitely something i think we learn as we get older. I used to get so frustrated by the fact that there were certain tasks i always ended up doing, until i actually sat back and realised there were certain tasks HE was always doing too. I dont want to mow the lawn or take the garbage out. He doesnt want to clean the bathroom or wash the bed sheets. Having accepted that, life is much less frustrating.
I was just scoutmaster for a troop full of teenagers at camp last week. Thank you, parents, for disciplining your kids. Every little bit helps.
Love how TRID, even during an intense podcast, asks you to sing at the end of it!!!
Wow - the entire family/relationship dynamic is playing out before our eyes and I'm here for it all. This is SO important for all of us. Don't change.❤
Also, we need a blooper reel! Imagine all the things that get omitted! 😂
Fantastic episode! I really enjoyed your approach of integrating self-reflection as you communicated your thoughts and feelings. I wish I had been able to watch this 40 years ago.
Sheena I have to say that you moved me to tears when you sang Fight Song because that was my theme a couple of years ago when I had some major health issues. Fortunately, things are better
Trid’s voice and accent needs to whisper adult bedtime stories for ASMR …………LOL 😂
I really enjoyed this episode. I am in a new relationship and I had been really worried about what that first argument is going to be and how were we gonna handle it. This episode helped me a lot, gave me some things to think about when that argument happens. Thank you so much for sharing your life with us, you have helped me greatly.
Great episode! Could you all do an episode on how you all stay so fit despite crazy schedules and kids
I'm greatly enjoying how they mutually feel about and are discussing their feelings!!!
Ag1 needs to make it more affordable for the people. This seems to be the main complaint is the price for Ag1. Love watching you guys. Keep the videos coming in.
That was part of my thinking, but also the amounts of various vitamins are FAR too high. I did look over the percentages. I understand water-soluble vitamins can be expelled from the body in excess amounts. But, I think the smarter play is to instead take less of that and add/increase amounts for other things that would be healthy for you. I have a great multi-vitamin I take and I did the same research. It's much cheaper and it is also effective.
When it comes to what you ingest, if you don't need the excess ingredients, less is more. Same with OTC medications. If you don't have a headache, fever, or temperature related issues, why would you take medicine that had an anti-pyretic in it? Bundles are not always necessary and can further complications or create new ones.
You guys brighten my day with podcast being random and the fact that Trid is just the way he is makes it more hilarious
27:45 actually, I also read an article backed by research, starting that the number 1 thing that "most households" fight about is chores, and who would do it, and how it is to be done.
Such an interesting blend in this conversation. Thanks for sharing♥♥♥ Love the sunrise and birds chirping alarm clock idea. And yes, prepaving your day in moments of stillness without being attacked by electronic messages and videos is a healthier way to live. Too many live in social media and it shows in their comments or even DMs to others. Set the electronics aside......go live life♥
I love this series so much. It has helped put a lot in perspective for me in my own relationship. Tone is also something that can cause the argument to go even further and in the wrong direction, especially for me. My tone makes my better half withdraw and i have to back pedal and try to save discussion progress. Can you do a follow up episode about HOW to argue, please ma'am?
I cant get enough of you two... Trid has me laughing the WHOLE WAY THROUGH!!!!
Anyone notice "Trid" picked up his phone while talking about being on the phone too much?! lolol
I thought he did that on purpose to mess around with Sheena 🤣 But it looks like he really had to check it
I love your podcast Sheena! Always look forward to it!^-^ Always freaking hilarious with your husband Trid as well. You guys never never never fail to make me laugh no matter what. Haha love it❣️☺️
This is my first time watching you guys in this setting. Loved it! And really appreciate all the great insight on both your parts. Especially the bit about the phone usage being something you have to lead by example on and not really “complain.” Definitely changed my perspective on that!
How rude that women message Sheens about TRID (& conversely). The appropriate message-you are a blessed couple/blessed to have each other. The wit/humor and laughter has us hooked😂❤
I agree. Scheduling it is weird. If they want it to happen it’ll happen.
Thankyou guys so reflective.
Even through all the funny banter you do get some really good ideas to handle life and life with a family...
🎉🎉🎉 Poor Sheena 😢😢😢 You will NEVER Win an argument with the MASTER TRID 😊. If TRID opened his own church ⛪️, well I’d become a member 😂😂😂
Blessings,Carlos ✝️🙏❤️😊🇺🇸
Just became happy when I saw you've uploaded a video ❤love you guys.
25:50 Sheena: "I was right!"
Also Sheena: "What was I right about?"
😂😂😂 Wow. It's really appreciated that you both allow people to see that a great relationship isn't just fairy dust, unicorns, and rainbows. Great job guys. People who are happy together still have disagreements.
I'm real, I'm sticking all the way😂😂😂
This was a good and hilarious 😂 episode as always... well done Sheena and my man Trid! Greetings from Canada 🇨🇦!
0:01 TRID pracicing a unique mating call 🤣🤣🤣
I'm 1 minute and 48 seconds in and you want your wife to look in the direction that she is being authentic again while you hide behind a cartoon character version of yourself
Just stating the obvious and the hypocrisy
Edited to add:
I still absolutely love these videos!!
You seem like real people; well, she does, at least; she isn't blocked out as a cartoon charicature.
Uhhh, Ok!. I'm 3:05 minutes in now....
I think I'm invested to finish out this deeply energetic "love" connection
Thank you for the extra long podcast🥰 appreciate it!
i love AG1!! i'm less bloated.
The secret in this relationship is that you share a family business where The competition is transformed into cooperation with "yes". Humor and improvisation and presence and bliss. All is music
I love watching you both. Thankyou so much for the laughs.
This episode was such a good one! i had to share!
I really loved this episode!! So many great points, so much was well said. This really helped me! Thank you!! ❤❤
Yay! You got sponsors!
it works! the hankpanky calendar! or like set days! lmao
Great episode! Love from TO 🇨🇦
Beautiful convo, specifically around the phone. I felt your vulnerability there, and it was relatable. Unsolicited whathaveyou: AG1 message from sponsor just blended into the episode like it's a natural part of your conversation about fights felt a little weird (vomit, plastic, paper?) But ... one llama's opinion and we're all learning. Angelbabes, thanks for sharing your lives.
This has been very useful! I love you guys💥💥💥💥💥
Great episode guys! Thanks.
This amazing couple are south amazing it’s like funny therapy it’s amazing to hear them how well they get alone amazing
Ok....this is "stupid".
I'm only 29 seconds in,...
And I'm now liking all your vids!!
Me and my husband have a 4 year old that sleeps in our room we have to put it on the calender to have a "sleepover" in the living room that night😂😂😂
Valuable podcast 🙌❤️🙏
I really believe the last 30 to 60 minutes of the day follows you into sleep. I was told to ask a life changing question or problem to solve for the sub conscious to work on. The first moments to wake up is the time the sub conscious can be heard/remembered to get the needed answers.
We all agree with Trident 😂 all of me does for sure 😂😊
Yes I can hear the lawn mower next door.....makes me feel really at home with you guys.....love your laughter Sheena and Trid is a nut..makes us all laugh. I follow you guys all the time. Love Naughty Nana Jude from Australia 🇦🇺 xxoo
I miss the times when you could only use the internet at home on a desktop, before everyone having a smart phone was a thing. 😩
I would hear it outside my room. I barely hear on my night stand next to me.
I love how during the "being on your phone" convo TRID checked his phone lol and arguing over money was a BIG deal in my marriage and ultimately divorce, what sucked is I stayed with him through the lean years (worked as a nurse to put him through school) and the minute he became an architect, someone else enjoyed the spoils. just sayin (low key though he's her problem now)...not everyone can wait until their spouse gets a "number one podcast in the World". If that hadn't happened, would you and TRID still be together? If he were working as an attorney and you DIDNT find SM (because singers are a dime a dozen and making it big is difficult hence why shows like AGT and Idol were so big) but what would you have done instead of Influencer (and btw I feel bad for influencers as they get used to big money coming in and someday that's going to be gone because ppl move on fast these days-the easy answer would be keep content fresh, hmmm well good luck) no really, I do wish you good luck, I enjoy listening to you guys.
Wow did he ever pay you back? I'd be so resentful :(
One of my favorite song ❤
So when my daughters turned 15 one them become quite selfish, she’s 18 now it’s gotten worse!!! 😢 As a mom how do I correct that calmly? Currently I’m trying to hold it in as long as I can then one day I’ll snap, sit myself down & try to figure out how I can calmly approach this (bc she’s gotten so touchy that she’ll snap & we end up not talking for weeks) then approach her. She then will just sit there & not say anything. UGH!!!! 😩 What can I do? 🤷🏻♀️❤❤❤
Loved this episode....well done.
I so looked forward to the Tuesday posts❤❤❤❤
Trid is in love with his tongue. He is sticking it out all the time now.
@Sheena Interrupted Sheena do you take the kids to school or do you send them off to school?
Hot apple cider with cinnamon. I don't know about apple cider popsicles.
🎶 Na na na na na I wanna start a fight 🎶
Could you link the alarm clock with the birds chirping.
Apple cider juice ... I am dead! :P
2 things I'll just make a comment about:
1) You said one of the child's is selfish and it's okay for them to be at this age, I get what you're saying and where you might be coming from but I respectfully disagree, if they don't get the reprimands or correction now it's only going to get worse as they get older and then it just becomes their personality. So I would highly suggest getting rid of or minimizing that as much as you can in them now while it's still something they're probably trying out.
2) You mentioned you still hadn't gotten the new teenager a phone yet, idk how I feel about smartphones for kids mostly because aged 13/14 when they're in yr 8 (I'm in England) is when they start getting curious about "getting jiggy with it" and start watching all that crap (Saying this based on my own experiences + with people I know both friends and family), their little brains are still developing with no need for that highly addictive crap that's readily available....... but I think you said he already has an IPad so idk, I would just be cautious and definitely have "the talk".
I respectfully disagree
I wouldn’t try a foot sweat popsicle even if i was dehydrated in the dessert
Foot swear 🤢🤮omg trident you are hilarious 🤣
And on top of ALL the Mom stuff, we are human. And my husband and I dont always agree with discipline styles either and we have a handsome son and beautiful daughter and money does cause super stress❤
Hi Sheena, which filter do you guys use on trid's face?
Apple cider my face😂😂😂
Depends always depends
I would listen to you guys if you just sat down silent the whole time😂 ❤❤❤
Hairy Portal 😂😂😂
I am thrown by the window behind TRID , it feels like he is up in the kitchen or something, but occasionally you see the tips of his fingers in Sheena's window. Trippy!
Oh! And now he has suddenly appeared in the basement!
I “wet” myself watching, hearing and laughing”. Mrs. Patouse Melwani Mcgore.🧐
Yes we can hear the lawn being mowed but it's a very dull sound in the background
I wish I was on that lawnmower. lol
No we dont hear the lawn mower.
TRID is the G.O.A.T not Lord Voldemort 🙃😉😜😂
First 500
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I too love the podcast but I really miss Asnine advice.
Avoiding conflict by doing it all does not seem right.
guaze. HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA
I remember you saying you're from Boston, I'm guessing it's the suburbs because I can't imagine you two sending your kids to Boston public schools😮, They are a mess. ... I love your podcast
I could hear the lawn mower
You guys need other couples on your shows and I need more laughs
Does he end up reading acotar? 😂
Video starts at 5:22
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what is trid's job
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😂 0:11
Where is Amrican Bob???
Before you get married, clear your opinion together about children, money and sex. Then you are on the save side.
I like that he is old :D but in the brain he is 16 year old :P like every man :D :D :D
Get your son a phone. Especially if he’s going HS and playing sports. So if case of an emergency he can get in touch with you. Just my opinion. That’s what I did with my children.
9th
she lost when she talked .