Melanie Reclaims Her Confidence After Having 14 Lbs Of Excess Skin Removed | My Extreme Excess Skin

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  • @ReallyTVuk
    @ReallyTVuk  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

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  • @katewest130
    @katewest130 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +824

    Has anyone mentioned just how beautiful this woman is? I mean, oh my gosh! And she has the sweetest disposition.

    • @queensjayworldwheelchairli3575
      @queensjayworldwheelchairli3575 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’ll wold treat u like a Queen I would go through it with u I own everything i have I would love to make u my queen ❤

    • @queensjayworldwheelchairli3575
      @queensjayworldwheelchairli3575 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      U r beautiful ❤

    • @thebryans8081
      @thebryans8081 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I swear that is all I’m seeing…her beauty natural beauty ❤

    • @diopfifi4937
      @diopfifi4937 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yup and her skin is amazing

    • @laglendareed8086
      @laglendareed8086 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes she is beautiful…

  • @TheLoveweaver
    @TheLoveweaver 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +482

    No one's skin would bounce back after 360lbs lost. She's a beautiful woman.

    • @bee6684
      @bee6684 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Yes, I really hope a medical professional did not tell her this nonsense!!!!

    • @whosaidthat9265
      @whosaidthat9265 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Not completely but you have less excess skin when you lose weight slowly over time. Rapid weight loss causes extreme excess skin

    • @ShanediaD
      @ShanediaD 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Especially if you’ve been that weight for years

    • @ShanediaD
      @ShanediaD 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@whosaidthat9265the point is you’ll still have loose skin

    • @whosaidthat9265
      @whosaidthat9265 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@ShanediaD i see you made a conscious decision to misread what I typed or don't know what the word 'less' means

  • @kaleakalaulena7023
    @kaleakalaulena7023 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    She is brave to show nearly her entire body to the internet. I could never 😭

  • @dayum_mi
    @dayum_mi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +221

    Dr. Now loves hearing about people who follow the protocol after weight loss surgery. That's the only excitement we see from him. Congrats Mama on your new body and journey.

    • @tylociraptor8131
      @tylociraptor8131 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Honestly I think it really hurts and is hard on him to see people suffering with weight issues and refusing to change... you can tell dude cares

  • @Feed-My-Mind-Not-My-Ego
    @Feed-My-Mind-Not-My-Ego 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +291

    People shouldn't be judging you; they should be congratulating you.

    • @GB2139
      @GB2139 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      REALLY?? I’m judging the F

    • @jprime007
      @jprime007 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      ​@@GB2139 why tho? She felt she made a mistake that greatly affected her life and is working on fixing it. What is there for you to judge her for?
      And even if she still weighed 500 lbs, what's it to you? mind your business.

    • @Liz-ic6jb
      @Liz-ic6jb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She exchanged one bad body type for another. I think just being fat is better than a weird body shape with pounds of wrinkled flab.

    • @kellymillet7387
      @kellymillet7387 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Blessings ❤ 💙🙏🏽

    • @giorfi-n7v
      @giorfi-n7v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@GB2139 we judge others out of pure ignorance. Obesity is caused by genetics plus environment. Some people are genetically predisposed to it, just like some people are predisposed to other addictions...we live in an addictive environment....surrounded by bad cheap food, alcohol, drugs, shopping, gambling. It is just that food addiction is visible. What are YOU addicted to?

  • @theL0VERS
    @theL0VERS 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +255

    This would be so defeating after all that hard work. I absolutely think that insurance should always cover removal in cases like hers even if skin infections were not an issue. This would be so detrimental to someones mental health.

    • @elenalizabeth
      @elenalizabeth 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Especially because that excess skin can get infections and trap sweat etc which can cause bed sores type of wounds.

    • @kathyflorcruz552
      @kathyflorcruz552 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      It's a health issue as well.

    • @giorfi-n7v
      @giorfi-n7v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yes, we need to stop judging obesity...it is genes plus environment, neither of which a person chooses. And it is basically food (carb+fat) addiction, just like any other addiction except it is visible.

    • @sunfloweralpacas
      @sunfloweralpacas หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And when medical expenses go over 7.5% of one’s income they are generally deductible from taxes, but not in the case of this type of skin removal surgery. Ask me how I know.

  • @grudge0132
    @grudge0132 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +365

    Bless her, I hope all her dreams come through after all that work 😢

    • @RoyalJewels-xy9il
      @RoyalJewels-xy9il 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Amen🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️

  • @shellyb.8387
    @shellyb.8387 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    She's overcome so much. May God continue to heal her body and soul

  • @alessiazanda7357
    @alessiazanda7357 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

    Wow, what a progress😳. Congrats to her and to the doctors also for this results❤

  • @AstraSystem
    @AstraSystem 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    If i saw someone in the pool or gym with a lot of loose skin, I would honestly feel so proud of them for working so hard. Even if they were at the beginning of their weight loss journey, I'd feel really proud of them for just showing up and trying their best.

  • @GodisLovetoo
    @GodisLovetoo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +461

    My sister told me if she’d known her skin was going to look like that after losing 300 pounds she wouldn’t have had the surgery unless she could have afforded the skin removal.

    • @ariesluv
      @ariesluv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

      If she lost 300 lbs, she really needed that surgery to save her life. It's either lose the weight or die early. I'm sure she wouldn't want the latter.

    • @GodisLovetoo
      @GodisLovetoo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

      @@ariesluv She had it about 20 years ago and unfortunately passed away two months ago to a cause unrelated to weight. She lived a beautiful life and maintained about 170 pounds until her demise.

    • @ariesfairy4444
      @ariesfairy4444 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      @@GodisLovetooi’m so sorry for your loss🥺🙏🏾

    • @LifeWithMeesh33
      @LifeWithMeesh33 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      @@GodisLovetooMy condolences to you and your family ❤

    • @JulianaBlewett
      @JulianaBlewett 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      My insurance says they'll pay for it but every time I call one of the people on their list those doctors say they don't accept my insurance. I've lost 130 lb and I am extremely frustrated. The closest one that I called that didn't tell me they don't take. My insurance is over 3 hours away from me. One way. I have an 85-year-old mother and two dogs to take care of. 3 hours. Might as well be 3,000 mi.

  • @carolinegallegos_
    @carolinegallegos_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +120

    Who tf told her that her skin would bounce back after a 374lb weight loss?!

    • @uniquely__awkwardsimply__b2701
      @uniquely__awkwardsimply__b2701 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      😂😂😂 girl I said the same thing! I said why they lie to that baby like that!

    • @Myopinionmattersthemost
      @Myopinionmattersthemost 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      If they loose weight slowly and weight trained and exercise they wouldn't be so saggy

    • @pamelaliegh
      @pamelaliegh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I think the saying is Black don't crack - referring to how the skin of African Americans doesn't wrinkle or show age as much as other ethnic backgrounds.

    • @carolinegallegos_
      @carolinegallegos_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@pamelaliegh I know they’re talking about black don’t crack but black don’t crack will do nothing for a 374lb weight loss.

    • @minacakes2
      @minacakes2 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@Myopinionmattersthemost it doesn't matter how slowly you lose weight or how much you weight train, if you have over 100lbs to lose you are going to have extra skin. Our skin has great capacity to stretch and grow larger but little capacity to recoil.

  • @pendersweetz
    @pendersweetz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    My future! ♥ I am down 250lbs with more to go. I started at 490 and am currently 240, the weight of my skin on my belly and thighs makes mobility very difficult. I'm so happy for her and it gives me so much hope for my future! She looks amazing! What a relief it will be to join her!

    • @Laurie-gw8jl
      @Laurie-gw8jl หลายเดือนก่อน

      Rooting for you!!!!!!

  • @einahsirro1488
    @einahsirro1488 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +136

    She looks so much happier!

  • @Amazingvideoos3
    @Amazingvideoos3 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +129

    I’m happy the surgery went well!

  • @oliviad.2975
    @oliviad.2975 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    WOW!!! What a fantastic first result from this surgery!! And the fact that she lost the initial weight on her own is amazing too. It takes a lot of discipline and determination. Congrats to her!🎉

  • @Elemenohpea440
    @Elemenohpea440 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    What a gorgeous woman inside and out! Well done Melanie! This internet stranger is so proud of you!

  • @JonnieQ.01
    @JonnieQ.01 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Her smile in the after clips says it all! Great job Melanie, hope you reach your goal and live your best life

  • @frenchloveboutique5853
    @frenchloveboutique5853 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    I learned in life if its not 1 thing its another, she is a fighter and deserves happiness!!!!

  • @georgeL56426
    @georgeL56426 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    You are an inspiration you did it girl I did the same when my husband passed away I just ate I know what that’s like up to now I’ve lost 26 lbs Wishing you all the best from Gina in the uk 🇬🇧

  • @LePetitChatNoir79
    @LePetitChatNoir79 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Melanie is gorgeous. What a battle she fought to get where she is! Amazing.

  • @smith3329
    @smith3329 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    This woman is absolutely amazing.

    • @lorebay2593
      @lorebay2593 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, really brave to put it all out there like this, I never seen nor gave thought to what happens to large folks when they lose the weight.

  • @VivianMorrisInADream
    @VivianMorrisInADream 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    I do NOT understand why these doctors do these weight loss surgeries and leaving these people with all that extra skin. It's cruel!!!

    • @kiki11974
      @kiki11974 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Just because someone has surgery doesn’t mean that they will lose weight. Some lose, some dont

    • @jumbo6487
      @jumbo6487 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      uhh they meant the loose skin that the doctors leave?? ​@@kiki11974

    • @patriciaarps5815
      @patriciaarps5815 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So they can come back and spend more damn money 💰

    • @maryannkom299
      @maryannkom299 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      They do them to save their lives. Every organ they have suffers from obesity, it leads to death. So yes you’ll have extra skin and that’s too bad, but their bodies are healthier and their lives will be longer and happier.

    • @smith3329
      @smith3329 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This beautiful lady's accomplishment is a step short of a miracle. But I would hazard a guess that there is a high failure rate. And even if they succeed in losing a great deal of weight, they may not be well enough to have the surgery. Go Fund Me is a great idea

  • @kimmytaime
    @kimmytaime 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I would have nothing but positive judgement if I saw someone who looks like her at the pool because that is a badge of hard work and dedication which is immensely admirable. I only see strength.

  • @tylociraptor8131
    @tylociraptor8131 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Breaks my heart to see how her skin looks to start and how much it must cause her emotional and physical pain. We all, as a society, need to remember... when we see someone with loose skin like this, those are battle scars. That means that that person worked their ass off to save their life, and we should absolutely have a lot of respect for that. Melanie seems to have such a lovely disposition and kind soul, I'm so glad she was able to get skin surgery, and feel as beautiful as she is.

  • @beeticket
    @beeticket 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I can't believe how bad that date made her feel about herself! 😢 She changed the direction of her life and is a beautiful lady - if he couldn't see that, he's not the one. Rejection is protection. I hope she finds the one who will treasure her. ♥️

  • @The_Werbenjagermanjensen
    @The_Werbenjagermanjensen 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    She’s beautiful and seems so sweet. I hope she gets all of her confidence back! You got this girl!! ❤

  • @xlgoldfish
    @xlgoldfish 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +173

    Why don't insurance cover this? WTF is wrong with American health system?

    • @michellesmith6558
      @michellesmith6558 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      It’s not to help people. It’s a money making machine. People can’t afford it but must have it. They see universal healthcare as a big scary socialism. I’m an expat in Australia and trust me I’m very happy with the healthcare system here. It’s not perfect but I don’t really have to worry about hundreds of thousands of dollars in a visit to the hospital.

    • @marilynsummit1764
      @marilynsummit1764 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      They do. My Medicare said if my doctor gives me a referral, they'll give me tummy tuck surgery. I had a double mastectomy two years ago and they paid for breast reconstructive surgery. I not only didn't pay a dime for that surgery but I have new perky breast at 64 yrs young. Bigger than before. I don't have to wear a bra if I don't want to. They said if it's too much skin on my face the will give me a free excess skin removal. I don't know what insurance she has but many insurance plans pay for the tummy tuck. They said it causes pain in the back from pulling on the back. So it's a medical procedure for pain. I don't know who told her because she's African American that her skin would just bounce back. I could've told her that wasn't true.

    • @marilynsummit1764
      @marilynsummit1764 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I think Medicaid and some personal insurance pays also. A girl at college in 2015 told me her insurance is paying for a tummy tuck from her giving birth.

    • @goldengoddess1723
      @goldengoddess1723 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@marilynsummit1764well you are one in a million because almost all don't cover any of these type of surgeries. At best they will only cover a small portion of the cost.

    • @Vicki1930
      @Vicki1930 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@michellesmith6558 In Canada we have universal health care and this year we received universal basic dental care..I went to get my teeth cleaned and instead of almost $300 it was $22

  • @linda-wi1oz
    @linda-wi1oz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I am so happy for you!!!! Keep eating healthy, exercise regularly and you will maintain your weight loss. I did the gastric bypass in 2007 and is a good option to loose a lot of weight but it doesn’t mean that the weight will not come back. I gained a few pounds and I am working in loosing the weight because I do not want to go back to the same weight. God bless you and keep working on you!

  • @vaemcdowell6205
    @vaemcdowell6205 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She's so pretty, plus her voice, and manner of speaking, and that lovely smile! I wish her all the best for her life.

  • @deidreshepherd3776
    @deidreshepherd3776 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Proud of you, Melanie. You were always beautiful, but now you have confidence. Be well!

  • @nildabridgeman8104
    @nildabridgeman8104 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your honesty and willingness to accept responsibility is a real help to me.. it's time for me to accept I got myself in this situation and I'm responsible to get myself out

  • @gingerfellah5665
    @gingerfellah5665 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This woman is such a sweetheart a good soul

  • @cripplecreekqueen
    @cripplecreekqueen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This lady is amazing. Willpower, strength and determination with support of family and friends is so inspiring to witness. God bless you. Enjoy your life and dance like nobody is watching!! Great story.

  • @cynthiablandford6213
    @cynthiablandford6213 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    To a long life and good health!❤

  • @mamayake
    @mamayake 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Unfortunately WE do this to ourselves. Whether we know it's right or wrong, WE DO IT. And by the time we realize that we're trading one poison for another....we're so broken, lost, confused, stuck and against some wall that wants to cave if we don't move but there seems like nowhere to go. Good job Melanie! I'm so glad you started making healthier choices and you look fantastic. I hope you find someone who will appreciate YOU, walk with you, hold your hand, be your confidant and bring laughter and joy.

    • @ruthhogg6423
      @ruthhogg6423 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thanks for the lecture 👏

    • @mamayake
      @mamayake 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ruthhogg6423 Is it hog -pig? Anyway, oink oink along to your garbage piggy bath and chill. It’s an order!

    • @ReneTupper
      @ReneTupper 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So true

  • @catherinemaas9757
    @catherinemaas9757 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    So happy for you that you lost over 350 lbs. and maintain a healthy lifestyle. You deserve the surgery and I hope all your dreams come true.

  • @lizblodgett3336
    @lizblodgett3336 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are absolutely an inspiration. Not to mention, BEAUTIFUL both inside and out

  • @dmorcouture
    @dmorcouture 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So brave. She got rid of somethings, but kept that beautiful smile and disposition. You go mama.

  • @michalvazquez7893
    @michalvazquez7893 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If I saw someone like this I would hug them and tell them I’m so proud of them of their courage and determination. I love these stories.

  • @bebomora7391
    @bebomora7391 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You look gorgeous, and your confidence makes you shine!!

  • @Dontcallmekellz
    @Dontcallmekellz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Such a beautiful soul! May God continue to bless you

  • @oluronkeoke8926
    @oluronkeoke8926 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh, you have come a long way lady. Congratulations you got your life back! Keep going and never stop looking after yourself! God richly bless you!

  • @juliatripp2010
    @juliatripp2010 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for sharing an unvarnished look at what happens after massive weight loss. I admire you. I cant lose 20lbs!!! But i am going to double my efforts now. Thank you and good luck on your continued journey

  • @justasking3877
    @justasking3877 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wonderful. Hoping she got the rest of the surgery. She's earned it. She deserves it.

  • @vikki92411
    @vikki92411 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel your pain. Just know that you are strong and you will get through this. I’ve lost about 125lbs and I am still losing. I will have to get skin removed also. You are my inspiration. Thank you for sharing 😊

  • @myrabruner3882
    @myrabruner3882 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im so proud of you! You have done an amazing job. I am doing weight loss drugs & have lost 60# so far. I am seeing the excess skin too. Im 66 & have health issues that will keep me from skin removal. I would have it myself in a heartbeat when I get to goal weight if I could. You go girl! Enjoy your best life.

  • @Dixiedream
    @Dixiedream 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are a BEAUTIFUL, STRONG Woman! Your story is an inspiration for others… keep up the great work! God Bless You! 🙏

  • @SistersSpeakingInPower
    @SistersSpeakingInPower 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so happy for her. You never know what people are going through and the last thing we need is negative energy especially nowadays. Sending love and high vibrations to everyone❤

  • @JediFight
    @JediFight 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Awesome. She is a truly beautiful young lady. Those eyes. Best wishes.

  • @gloryakiepper7918
    @gloryakiepper7918 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    I wish you a great life filled with joy and happiness. You deserve the very best.G/d bless you and yours. 🎉🎉😊

  • @karenkayyen3361
    @karenkayyen3361 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    people who are judging you are out of place....you actually succeeded in that consistent weight loss!! you lost a huge amount of weight, let's celebrate that! congratulations beautiful woman

  • @jeanesepesina6746
    @jeanesepesina6746 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Beautiful, you did such an amazing job! Blessings, confidence, and encouragement ❤

  • @MichelleBeaty-k9z
    @MichelleBeaty-k9z หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are GORGEOUS!! Congratulations to you and effort you put into all this. Nothing can stop you now, you’re ready for world! You go girl!!!

  • @becareful8235
    @becareful8235 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Her Father is definitely Proud of her and so am I! ❤❤ 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @natashaalexander4651
    @natashaalexander4651 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I want to get skin surgery, but it is so darn expensive. I've just had to accept and embrace it 😊

    • @Healthyvibe25
      @Healthyvibe25 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Contact the burn centers and donate your skin, they may cover the cost of surgery. I have other ideas as well.

    • @angelasmith1394
      @angelasmith1394 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      If u complain about tge skin to the Dr's and say it's bothering you so deem medically then they may pay for skin removal

    • @natashaalexander4651
      @natashaalexander4651 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @angelasmith1394 my loose skin isn't extreme enough to be covered by insurance.

    • @tylociraptor8131
      @tylociraptor8131 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I hope you can get it, but I want you to remember that extra skin means you worked hard and saved yourself from a very short life of pain and discomfort. I don't know you, but I am proud of you, and I hope you are proud of yourself as well!

    • @Arnelle_S
      @Arnelle_S 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If you make multiple complaints to the Dr insurance will cover it. My friend had weight loss surgery and told me it’s a long process to get insurance to cover the skin removal.

  • @meekyw.4010
    @meekyw.4010 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    3:16 "laugh at you" FRUCK them!
    Congratulations on all of your hard work and continued prayers to you for the next journey.👏🏽👏🏽 You're still young and there is plenty of time for the husband and the kids!🙏🏽

  • @NancyW96CatLady
    @NancyW96CatLady 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am so happy for Melanie. She has worked so incredibly hard to get to where she is now. I hope she is able to get the other skin removal surgeries and have a good healed result. ❤

  • @a.n4710
    @a.n4710 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was a long and painful journey, but you didn’t give up and you kept fighting. I am very happy for you ❤. Greetings from Germany

  • @erycavallejo6912
    @erycavallejo6912 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow! That is a big change! You are amazing. Thanks for sharing this journey!

  • @margielulu1366
    @margielulu1366 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing. the elasticity of our skin. The important thing is. You just extended and save your life. 👏🏽

  • @imanimcdonald4200
    @imanimcdonald4200 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are such an inspiration. Blessings

  • @melissamcintyre2574
    @melissamcintyre2574 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A miracle, and thank you Dr Now, for helping her, and of all thank you Father for giving her the push.❤

  • @rtslick73
    @rtslick73 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She has such a beautiful spirit! I hope she goes to a cosmetic surgeon for the other surgeries. Dr Now Is purely for function not aesthetics. I wish for her to be as beautiful on the outside as she is on the inside after all that hard work, she deserves it🥰

  • @seandammschmitt4159
    @seandammschmitt4159 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are still a good person. No matter what you look like Really great job.

  • @breezluize3282
    @breezluize3282 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very sweet and pretty lady. It's amazing how the face always goes back to normal, no matter how much loose skin there is from a major weight loss.

  • @rayarena879
    @rayarena879 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love these stories with happy endings [although her story has still not ended] she is on the right track and her mid-section looks great after the surgery. I love to see how she looks after they remove the rest of her extra loose skin.

  • @countryroad9827
    @countryroad9827 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm so very proud of you, and I hate how ugly hearted people use their mouth to wound such beautiful souls. You are a beautiful woman with light in your eyes. Always remember that and know ugly mouth folks are haters. They want a perfect 10 woman or man but fail to see the woman or man before them that would be by their side forever and fulfilling what an awesome wife or husband would be. They don't see beauty fades, and sometimes, it's not by age. I don't wish this on anyone but the ppl who make fun of others could wake up the next day and be in a car accident on the way to work and leave their body and face full of scars, or worse their limbs cut off. Lord, help us to see beauty in every living thing because you made us all different, but love us all just the same. 🙏❤

    • @countryroad9827
      @countryroad9827 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​​​@marilynwillett804 Well first of all you don't know me at all because if someone can take my man he never really was my man. I'd rather someone take him off my hands before I said, I do than later. If you truly love a person no one can take them away from the other so I'd need to say thank you to that person for not letting someone destroy my life. By the way with your comment under my post makes it sound like you went through this. Beauty and ugly comes in all forms especially if a person has a ugly heart.

  • @ValerieReninger
    @ValerieReninger 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So proud of her!

  • @sandrak.robbins6305
    @sandrak.robbins6305 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow, what a strong and determined and beautiful person you are. Well done! You are an inspiration. Thank you for sharing.

  • @Lajai-x9r
    @Lajai-x9r 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She is so beautiful and I am so proud of her progress.

  • @cherrywhitaker7469
    @cherrywhitaker7469 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Melanie is such a beautiful person regardless of what her body looks like. You have such a beautiful Spirit as well. The skin removal surgery boost your confidence soo much more. I pray you one day get to finish what you started on your excess skin removal to continue being more confident and to one day have a husband and family of your own. Be BLESSED Beautiful! ❤❤

  • @alisahammons9949
    @alisahammons9949 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    She looks great

  • @hopetondelli5146
    @hopetondelli5146 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    you SHOULD be proud - amazing job you got done

  • @KimChi-wz7mk
    @KimChi-wz7mk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    14 lbs of skin around her midsection alone. WOW! This is such an impressive accomplishment.

  • @minervagalvez5937
    @minervagalvez5937 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR STORY WITH US-KEEP POSITIVE!!!

  • @tiaratauaese6197
    @tiaratauaese6197 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    Being black does not mean your skin or any other part of your body is going to bounce back.

    • @nunyafawkingbiz
      @nunyafawkingbiz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      Yeah anyone who loses almost 400 pounds is going to have extra skin !!!! It almost looks worse than being fat!

    • @shadesofshea888
      @shadesofshea888 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      your comment makes no sense. Any person of any race who weighs 400 pounds and loses weight will have loose skin.

    • @ChiChiGlamShop
      @ChiChiGlamShop 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sure doesn’t

    • @zenwilds2911
      @zenwilds2911 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      535 lbs is attractive to a lot of people, but it's not healthy.
      Losing some weight is healthy if done right, but no one finds loose skin attractive.
      Glad she was able to get the surgery to remove skin.

    • @brandywineblogger1411
      @brandywineblogger1411 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      And I believe black skin is prone to issues with keloids and hypertrophic scarring. But everything looks perfect. He's a skilled surgeon. So very happy for her.

  • @ARebuh
    @ARebuh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She is a strong woman. A good role model for the rest of us to make the change

  • @lindacarruthers3423
    @lindacarruthers3423 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a lovely person,both inside and out . By out I mean her beautiful face ,and with that level of commitment and with the strength she clearly possesses she will sail through her next surgeries to full all encompassing beauty.. God Bless you dear girl.

  • @WilliemeniaJones
    @WilliemeniaJones 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations! Sweetheart, the least of your concerns is what others say, think or feel. What you did for yourself took courage. Absolutely wonderful accomplishment. You are beyond beyond beautiful. Work it girl. What a blessing.

  • @soldierpsalmist
    @soldierpsalmist 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Congrats on your success. Keep up the good work

  • @christinerewell9954
    @christinerewell9954 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Some people have more elastic skin than others. It's sad that you were disappointed with such an amazing achievement. You preserved your future by losing the weight. You deserve to be happy with the skin removal surgery.

  • @selenamonrow8102
    @selenamonrow8102 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    God Bless, Proud of you.

  • @krstimobley-vt8nl
    @krstimobley-vt8nl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Bless your heart 💕❤️ you got this girl 💖😘, love and prayers 😊

  • @youtubischill1303
    @youtubischill1303 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This made me cry. I hope you can mentally come down now and be your fully self.

  • @moniquedavis177
    @moniquedavis177 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think you done a damn good job to loose that much weight by yourself and what a blessing that the doctors helped you. Keep it up. Good Bless

  • @aliceflanagan3672
    @aliceflanagan3672 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She rocks and deserves all good things.

  • @Ljounieh
    @Ljounieh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The results are INCREDIBLE

  • @brandywineblogger1411
    @brandywineblogger1411 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Melanie-
    Congratulations!
    You are truly beautiful inside and out.
    I can't imagine the pain you went through not only losing the weight but having the skin removed.
    God has given you a gift.
    Now thank God for His gift by giving back in some way.
    🙏

  • @winternightsky6945
    @winternightsky6945 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    She didn't think she had an eating problem🤨 She did what most couldn't with weight loss. I hope she can find the good mate she wants.

    • @jaxscales6158
      @jaxscales6158 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      You’d be surprised. A lot of people who get this big have some kind of trauma, so they think nothing of the mental part and only focus on the one thing that comforts them

    • @catrice1296
      @catrice1296 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@jaxscales6158yeah i havent really heard of someone whos weight had gotten that extreme without some loss/trauma attached to it. I mean tbf almost everyone has hard times but for some ppl its harder to control. For me i get nausea and stop feeling hungry bc everything turns to sawdust but for lots of ppl food still brings them comfort. But yeah i feel like its more rare to find someone whos root cause for extreme life threatening obesity to just be enjoyment of food it mostly seems to be used as a crutch for emotional baggage

  • @patricebrown777
    @patricebrown777 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Melanie is such a beautiful woman. She's a winner just for loosing all that weight! I love the look of confidence in her eyes❤

  • @Samiam173
    @Samiam173 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well done. For exercise, try line dancing, skating zumba, there are a lot of ways to firm up and exercise, the thing is to stay consistent. Great job, proud of you!

  • @DeeDee_Stands_On_Business
    @DeeDee_Stands_On_Business 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She should be proud...I'm proud of her. She did the work!!

  • @bellaolum9768
    @bellaolum9768 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow that is so.much skin! I am.glad her 1st surgery was a success😮

  • @lorettauppercue6400
    @lorettauppercue6400 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations, it's wonderful that there's surgery that can rid you of your excess skin. You look great

  • @carlagarrett3244
    @carlagarrett3244 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The difference for a person is night and day! Just the circulation and increased comfort would be so freeing

  • @d-snowflakeashton9056
    @d-snowflakeashton9056 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May God bless you Melanie with happiness and continued good health

  • @JessycaMarshall
    @JessycaMarshall 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She’s beautiful and that’s such an amazing story ❤️

  • @suegerman79
    @suegerman79 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations Melanie. You have always been a beautiful woman. Glad you finally feel it inside and out.