What is stonewalling??
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 มิ.ย. 2024
- In this episode of the Richer Marriage Show, Tyler answers the questions why does my partner shut down? As part of the Better Relationship Communication Series, this videos offers marriage advice on stopping shutdown from happening.
One of the marriage communication issues in marriage is when your partner shuts down. This shutdown is called Stonewalling. Within this video Tyler explain what stonewalling is, why stonewalling happens. Points out stonewalling behavior, and most importantly how to stop stonewalling in your marriage.
If you follow these stonewalling/shutdown antidote you will be on the path to manage conflict in marriage, and start to develop a healthy marriage.
Question of the Day - How does stonewalling show up in your relationship?
Top Takeaways From This Episode
1:30 - Quick review from the better relationship communication series
2:44 - What is stonewalling?
3:01 - Stonewalling behavior - Being Gone
3:15 - Stonewalling behavior - Self Medicating
3:33 - Stonewalling behavior - Cell Phones
4:05 - Stonewalling behavior - Leaving
5:03 - Why is stonewalling so bad?
5:35 - Questions of the day!
5:53 - Why does stonewalling happen?
7:05 - How to stop Stonewalling
7:22 - Stonewalling Antidote - Soothe Yourself - If your the stonewaller
8:34 - Stonewalling Antidote - Picking the right time
9:22 - Stonewalling Antidote - Taking A Time Out
11:55 - Stonewalling Antidote - Give your Partner Options
12:24 -Stonewalling Antidote - Lovingly Share
13:09 - Stonewalling Antidote - Focus on the Here & Now
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About Richer Life Counseling
Richer Life Counseling is group psychotherapy practice located in Las Vegas, NV. Our therapist specializes in a number of mental health and relationship issues. Our channel is built to share knowledge about all things mental health. You can learn more about our group practice at www.RicherLifeCounseling.com
The Richer Marriage Show is a weekly show that is devoted to help form strong relationships. Our goal is to teach the world about having strong relationships.
Tyler Rich is Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of Nevada.
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Question of the Day - How does stonewalling show up in your relationship?
Thank you so much for all of this. I'm frustrated with my constant relapses and I know I can't do this alone.
Very helpful advice, sir. 💯🙏🏿
I stonewall for sure. I get flooded with negative emotions and just shut down. At times I’ve left or picked up my phone or turned away and focused on work (I work at home.)
great video
Husband gets on his phone, refuses to discuss anything with me, leaves the room, has driven off, does anything he can to avoid the conflict. Its kills me emotionally inside. I hate it. I can't feel love for someone who isn't there for me emotionally.
I now am very cut off and this is matter of fact because I am so hurt by giving myself in the process. And being cut down.
These videos are super helpful for me right now. When can we expect other videos? It can solve my relationships of 8,5 years....😔
Thanks for watching. I am actually filming this weekend and new videos should be posted weekly starting in March!
@@richerlifecounseling great. Thank you very much 🙏 This information is gold
I over work and I get into my daughters. I disconnect. He just say, I'm not doing this. I have to go to bed. I'm not fighting with you. You just want to fight and I'm not going to this. He does his own thing after work up to bed time. Then blaming me for wanting to talking about our relationship. I need to go to bed and you are holding me back from what is needed.
Reactive abuse, we discussing something, he says something that triggers me, I react, then he says I am abusing him.
he is reading this
Yes we read all our comments.