When A Man Doesn't Value You, Do This || Coach Ken Canion

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  • @christinelawrence4315
    @christinelawrence4315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +319

    If a man doesn't value you .. LEAVE!! A real man will see your internal beauty and worth and not play silly games!

    • @useruser-zi4fr1um9o
      @useruser-zi4fr1um9o ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What if he is your husband? 😂 Such a pain in the neck it is

    • @sharonnialarkins9205
      @sharonnialarkins9205 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@useruser-zi4fr1um9o geesh. Lol

    • @dawnuncles8563
      @dawnuncles8563 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      FACTS

    • @christinelawrence4315
      @christinelawrence4315 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@useruser-zi4fr1um9o If your husband is a narcissist sadly you will have a lot of problems. When my ex started really mistreating me I didn't stick around to find out when the next assault was going to happen. I divorced my husband to protect my children .... NOBODY deserves to be mistreated, hurt or abused there is NO excuse whatsoever. I truly hope you will be alright .. maybe read up on some books about narcissism... boy is it an eye opener!!

    • @gapeach7814
      @gapeach7814 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💯🎯

  • @oldangels444
    @oldangels444 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    1) Stop initiating any type of conversation. (Conversation, call, text, making plans) You are chasing him, anything you chase runs away from you. 2) Stop making yourself so available.Stop answering the calls when he calls right away, you don't have time all the time for him ( Dating is collecting data. ) 3) Don't ever initiate plans (let him buy the tickets wtc) or dont ever cancel your plans for him unless he is willing to do the same 4) Continue dating when collecting data. Don't date just one man when you are collecting date to see if they are a match for you. (no sex with them, get to know them better) You will really found out what a man's thought process is when you take sex of the table. 5) Mirror his behavior when he doesn't value you.

    • @hennesseyme9112
      @hennesseyme9112 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So date multiple men so he can end up calling you a whore? Ladies, please.

    • @cherrydeleon9646
      @cherrydeleon9646 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Old Angel's, I like your comment. So true!!!
      Peaches

    • @OiVinn-eq1ml
      @OiVinn-eq1ml ปีที่แล้ว +1

      These are good tips but are a bit overboard

  • @ysmithriley
    @ysmithriley ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Ummm, that's very easy. If he doesn't see my VALUE, I'm not going to try to CONVINCE him. I'M OUT‼️ I USED TO BE A CHASER, BUT NO MORE❗

    • @TM-se5jf
      @TM-se5jf ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Facts

  • @TG-et9ns
    @TG-et9ns หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I have been MARRIED for 9 years. I've been asking for the same things for about 5 of these years. In this last year, I've gotten extremely vocal about my needs & now I have asked for a divorce. He then decided to start doing the things I asked only to stop a month later because I wasn't responding in the way he wanted. After attempting to manipulate & bully me into staying he's now calm & "working on himself" to try to keep me. I feel he has done so much damage in the process that I can't recover from. I now feel guilty like I'm the one breaking up our family.

    • @aquiliaringwood6532
      @aquiliaringwood6532 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Don't apologize for his selfish, self centered, arrogant, and vile behavior. Love GOD before Anything!!! Then yourself and your kids. I understand the pain and the false promises that makes you keep hope. Trouble don't last always ❤

  • @jasenapearsey5510
    @jasenapearsey5510 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    If the man doesn’t value, “Get the hell outta dodge”.

    • @teresacolston7810
      @teresacolston7810 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That’s exactly what I did.

  • @ayand.3174
    @ayand.3174 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    “Mirror his behavior” PRICELESS ADVICE!!! 🔥🔥🔥 As women, we were NEVER MEANT to be the chasers, but be chased as the QUEENS we are. We are RECEIVERS, PRICELESS. Even in the Bible, you don’t see women chasing men but men going out of their way to find that special one. Fearfully and Wonderfully made daughters of the Most High hold your position 👸🏽 ❤️❤️

    • @pegs3711
      @pegs3711 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen ☝️ 🙏

    • @PlayshotKalo
      @PlayshotKalo ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes. We want a man who has better judgement than us. A man with leadership qualities that we can wholeheartedly trust taking over control behind the wheel. Reliable, takes his responsibilities seriously, provides a safe place for us to be vulnerable, protects our vulnerabilities, is accountable, values cooperation and working as a team over competing _against_ us. A man devoted to his passions, works towards growth and fights for what he believes is right. This is the type of man we can be feminine and nurturing and supportive towards, this is the type of man who’s judgement we can wholeheartedly respect. I want to support that man to be his best self, for our family and for me and for himself, and I want to trust that he has good intentions for us. That’s all we want. Quit allowing men who lack those qualities to touch your wheel and drive you into a ditch in the meantime, save your feminine energy for a masculine man.

    • @lydiasparky
      @lydiasparky ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes

    • @lucy-fl9zv
      @lucy-fl9zv ปีที่แล้ว

      This didn't help me. I started to mirror his behavior, and suddenly I was the wrong one who didn't value him.
      When I opened a conversation that he doesn't value me, he admitted it and said he expects me to be the better one to forgive him the mistakes and show him "the better way". What do you think about this?

    • @inettawalker9387
      @inettawalker9387 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@lucy-fl9zvguilt tripping you. I'm going through that same situation. I hope you've figured it out by now and just remove yourself. Forget about him❤

  • @Babyluv_
    @Babyluv_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    BLOCK, DELETE, MOVE ON!

  • @englishgirl87ify
    @englishgirl87ify 2 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    1.stop initiating contact (calls, texts)
    2.stop being so available
    3.don’t initiate in person contact or cancel plans
    4.continue dating other men
    5.mirror his behavior

    • @shakira5872
      @shakira5872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Coach. How about if you have chosen to be exclusive the dating multiple ppl obviously shouldn’t apply 🧐

    • @triciagamble3818
      @triciagamble3818 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      When you deal with a narcissistic person all he'll do is turn it on you and make you feel guilty.

    • @pegs3711
      @pegs3711 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@triciagamble3818 hmmm that is what am dealing with 27 years since am with my husband, don't matter what he does he never takes responsibility for his actions, and when I find out he cheated on me he turned everything on me to the point where he was mad because I caught him cheating so he started acting withdraw hardly speaking to me he stopped discussing anything is like he wanted her and me. I now fully understand how these people mind work and I don't think I wants to be part of that anymore .

    • @mightyfineanderson
      @mightyfineanderson ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@pegs3711, he's a narc and he's gaslighing you

  • @lashontaylor3075
    @lashontaylor3075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I used this advice and as of today he wants to take me out on a date Thursday 😂 I told him thanks but I have plans. When I was available to do things with him lately, he wasn’t feeling it. Well, too bad.

    • @CoachKenCanion
      @CoachKenCanion  2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Great job!

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's right because you are the prize

    • @reneebrown9451
      @reneebrown9451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Awesome! Make his ass feel how u were feeling….

  • @moniqueplair
    @moniqueplair ปีที่แล้ว +27

    You don't have to beg for him to value You. Know your worth. I meet them with the same energy. There's no need to walk around with the PICK ME Syndrome. You are the prize, and if he doesn't recognize it, oh well...his loss ladies
    NEXT!

  • @Pacifica74
    @Pacifica74 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    It takes a man to speak into the lives of women like this. Much respect.

    • @lolafalana9144
      @lolafalana9144 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely true when a man can balance his Ego and pride allowing intimacy to clear the way... He is more then a man.

  • @samarapr4u962
    @samarapr4u962 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I was w someone who didn’t value me and I did exactly all these things before watching this video so now I’m more confident that I did the right thing by walking away from this person 💪 he who does not value dont deserve me

  • @aleciamoten6867
    @aleciamoten6867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    When men are playing games they don't want 🙄 to get exposed. Thanks! 😊

  • @Pacifica74
    @Pacifica74 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    When he makes it up in his mind "I got her", isn't that the aim?? How long do we act like the deer fleeing from the tiger? Eventually we have to get caught, right? I no longer believe we can MAKE a man who already does not value us VALUE US. Once they form that perception that we are low priority, it's dead in the water.

    • @Rustycat69
      @Rustycat69 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes this is my question. Surely a guy will treat you right anyway if he's a good guy... When does the chasing stop...

    • @PlayshotKalo
      @PlayshotKalo ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I think this is more early dating advice. Allow the man to chase and initiate in the beginning. This won’t always be the case after the dating phase is over and you’ve established a more meaningful relationship though. This is affected more by your personality type than whether you’re a man or a woman. An ISFJ man wants that comfort of knowing you’re going to cooperate and stick around. And he’s going to take care of your needs and devote himself to keep you around if he’s already begun investing in you. Allow the man to invest. Not everyone wants to chase tail their whole lives but you still have to sit back and let the man choose you and invest in you, not the other way around. Just how it is

  • @miracle2038
    @miracle2038 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Thanks for this… my man was messing with my mind….am grateful for this❤️

  • @cytinachavis9157
    @cytinachavis9157 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Well I can't date more than one person at a time. When I find out that the one I'm with is not the one, then I collect myself and keep living. Another man will approach me.

    • @CoachKenCanion
      @CoachKenCanion  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It makes sense if that works for you

    • @KereolaPatunia
      @KereolaPatunia ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here! It's also hard to find someone I'm willing to give a chance to!

  • @mylife2022
    @mylife2022 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    So many stupid mind games, I'm going back to being single, less of a mind $%#@.

  • @belindamorales481
    @belindamorales481 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I did and he gave me less and less... he didn’t like it and well it did show his true heart and that heart was empty as heck

  • @JuiceeFruit
    @JuiceeFruit ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mr. Ken I really am happy that I was led to your channel. Your inspiration, encouragement, and advice means everything to me. 😊🙏🏾 Thank you so much you are truly a blessing to all the women. I’m definitely here for it

  • @crystalbutler659
    @crystalbutler659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love everything this man said..💜

  • @sherryng458
    @sherryng458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is great content! I’ve recently come across a man who did the sweetest, most attentive gestures in the first month; then showed no value towards the relationship and eventually broke it off after a month. I’ve always been told date to marry. After watching your videos; it’s been an eye opener! Especially the one with common lies men say.. he told me all of that and I naively reassured him that he does deserve love, he does deserve care, he IS worthy. Now I know he was just bluffing the entire time and he just didn’t want to commit to me. Thanks for the content! I’ve been doing this all wrong for 10 years!

  • @reeseyanceyms.rayiamwhoiam100
    @reeseyanceyms.rayiamwhoiam100 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This video is on point. Ladies and men let’s get our stuff together and be grown women and me. 🤩💪🏽💯🙏🏽💗. Thank you!

    • @MelissaSmith-qk1ip
      @MelissaSmith-qk1ip 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank u. We gotta get it together

  • @sweeetsherrie88
    @sweeetsherrie88 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Realist advice I’ve ever heard

  • @annmillingtonhicks921
    @annmillingtonhicks921 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am married to a man who is always looking for ways to pull me down.Is that what you want for yourselves,ladies.

  • @DebdyutiDas-cf5qc
    @DebdyutiDas-cf5qc 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Remember what Mother Swift says
    The more you give , the more he wants u less ......
    So love yourself bbg . You're worth it .

  • @JuiceeFruit
    @JuiceeFruit ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That’s exactly what I do, and he be in his feelings because I don’t make time for him anymore due to his wishy washy behavior and thinking he can just call me when he feels like it. Nope don’t think so.

  • @Chronicallyugc
    @Chronicallyugc ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Because I am at the point. That's too much work and there is a man that will know my worth the first time.

  • @Aleesha579
    @Aleesha579 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely Love his Energy and Advices ❤❤❤

  • @jenmariepete7621
    @jenmariepete7621 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Explain why does a man think that I should want to sleep with him and we haven't shared a meal or deep conversation.

  • @empressnaja
    @empressnaja 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is very extremely damn good advice , this couldn't be more truer. Yes I'll stand in it on great advice like this.

  • @eaglespreston8056
    @eaglespreston8056 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brother Ken, You are truly a blessing! Shalom! I worked two jobs to save money for a down payment on a house for my husband and me, although he made more money than I. I pursued my second Master Degree, cooked dinner, and stayed loyal to my husband. When he started engaging in multiple affairs outside of our marriage and treated me disrespectfully, I left him although he did not want a divorce. How stupid! He created that mess! Therefore, he should pay for it. Brother Ken, I have nothing but love and respect for you and your wisdom. Your wife is blessed to have you as her husband. Shalom!

  • @toniaparker3543
    @toniaparker3543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    EXCATELY this is some good stuff!!

  • @dianaandrew4002
    @dianaandrew4002 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much❤❤, I have learnt a lot from this , all you have spoken was happening in ma life😢 , am so happy now to know the difference .

  • @ItsSoarTime
    @ItsSoarTime 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    THIS WAS EXCELLENT. PURE EXCELLENCE!!!!!!
    i watched a video before this one by a dude who said he is a psychologist. throughout the entire video i kept saying, he's talking about playing games, not implementing change. my comment said so. watching this video i felt the EXACT OPPOSITE. maybe the other guy intended to talk about change, but his presentation or delivery of information made it seem like he was encouraging women to play games!
    VERY GRATEFUL FOR COACH KEN!!!!!

  • @tyresecarter5539
    @tyresecarter5539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Luv it! As always Big Ken! Better than reading boring relationship books!

  • @theroyalcoach
    @theroyalcoach 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have thoroughly enjoyed this video!!

  • @andreaj5067
    @andreaj5067 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is good advice! I feel so much better.

  • @shantavalentine9537
    @shantavalentine9537 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was advice I wish my parents gave. I come from a religious background and I always dated to marry . My whole family married I’m the only single one ☝️ essentially it causes guys to feel I’m needy and run. I am well put together and have a lot going for my self and I tend to start dating one guy and gif everyone off and then I get ghosted. I collected data from several guys who ghosted me and the answer was all similar I was tooo nice. I just been ghosted again and out of all the TH-cam videos I came across this one helped

  • @GG-rk1bu
    @GG-rk1bu ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Best advice Coach! Thank you for talking simple sense 👍🏾☺️

  • @shannonl9633
    @shannonl9633 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I so appreciate and value this information... it's so simple and true.

  • @sabrinacampbell329
    @sabrinacampbell329 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I like him..he is str8 to the point

  • @patricetrotter
    @patricetrotter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It hurts but I get it

  • @debsmith2789
    @debsmith2789 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Traditional women date with the intention of enjoying themselves on a date. Women need to stop immediately having coitus to snag a man. If both communicate with honesty collecting data is good!

  • @betsymendez4939
    @betsymendez4939 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love his word don't ever changed you plans

  • @mamaknow8056
    @mamaknow8056 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Avoidants.. whole other topic, but they need the initiation cuz they can’t, won’t n don’t.

    • @lolafalana9144
      @lolafalana9144 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very insecure then whatever cobwebs in the way. Very sad all around. And you know it's not always men. There's women also that behave as such❤ and for ever reason these women are acknowledged valued etc. A vicious cycle.

  • @joycenash372
    @joycenash372 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was just talking to myself about that very thing: investment. Men and women want the benefits without any investment or work.
    No ma'am and sir. Nope.
    I am not giving my all for minimal effort. No.

  • @ChannelMARIA531
    @ChannelMARIA531 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very well said ❤ Thank you so much 💕

  • @travelchannel304
    @travelchannel304 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! Thank you!! This really helps in mental space getting out of emotional space. This also occurs in the work place even on just professional level or at the mechanic. How invested is he in it. Just male behavior.

  • @tanyab7069
    @tanyab7069 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's true chasing I did that too much no good luck from it

  • @yvettebernard4112
    @yvettebernard4112 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh my God my kindness have ruined me.I have used all these tips but nothing happened.

  • @continechestnut5845
    @continechestnut5845 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg you have really taught me some things

  • @joansam2964
    @joansam2964 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This doesnt help me
    Im married. Have been for 25 yrs
    Been neglected for the past 10.
    Im just ready to give up

    • @lacey-annharvey132
      @lacey-annharvey132 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think u should try it see his reaction

    • @feliciaallen6228
      @feliciaallen6228 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      10 years is too long. Talk to him about it and then leave. You deserve better.

  • @Z.Theory
    @Z.Theory 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Whereeeeeeeeeee you been alllllll my lifeeeee

  • @feliciaallen6228
    @feliciaallen6228 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    All this is a bit much. If he is not invested, just leave the guy alone and find another person who values and knows how to treat women. No one has time for all the game playing and rules.

  • @PatriciaPeck-j3u
    @PatriciaPeck-j3u 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless you for this message, I appreciate it very much.

  • @sade700
    @sade700 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh wow it make sense now

  • @viveesha4352
    @viveesha4352 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    NUMBER 1 Suggest is completely wrong.
    When your partner ghosts you, , text short msg letting him know that he initiated the silence, and you accept his decision for whatever reason and don't care.
    Then say that this will be your last communication, as after this msg, you will delete him from your phone, heart and all memories.
    THEN BLOCK HIM AND FROM HERE ON, NEVER EVER MAKE ANY CONTACT.
    This is to bring him down on his knees that instead of you breaking down, crying or begging, you have instead moved on.
    HIS EGO WILL BE CRUSHED THAT ACTUALLY YOU DUMPED HIM AND ARE HAPPY TO MOVE ON.
    (And yes, I am a doctor, psychotherapist and a counsellor)

  • @mariacernov9172
    @mariacernov9172 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a great video🤩🙏! A new subscriber here!☺️⭐🙋‍♀️
    Have a blessed Easter everyone and be blessed🌸🌺🌷💃🏻🥰

  • @LoneWolfManny187
    @LoneWolfManny187 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Coach Alex. I WILL contact you as soon as I can

  • @healthysessionz6346
    @healthysessionz6346 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I pulled back in chose me!😂😂

  • @Tifinee76
    @Tifinee76 ปีที่แล้ว

    What happens when you been married for over 6 years, been together for over 12 years and the ignoring and leaving the house when mad just started in the marriage ?!?!

  • @bonniehill9518
    @bonniehill9518 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the insight

  • @joycemorgan5039
    @joycemorgan5039 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Coach K! Very valuable information

  • @JuiceeFruit
    @JuiceeFruit ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He says I’ve changed because I’ve set strong boundaries oh well if he knew better he would do better

  • @PatriciaPeck-j3u
    @PatriciaPeck-j3u 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Over 3 months in and only 1 short call. Contact is only with text message. I’m over it doing the week with no contact.

  • @angelfire402
    @angelfire402 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Play stupid games; Win stupid prizes..

  • @user-nl3uv6yz9c
    @user-nl3uv6yz9c หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks

  • @ladyjen1980
    @ladyjen1980 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless you for this great masssage

  • @Chantilly777
    @Chantilly777 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok, I tell myself I don't care about him at all🤙and yes, mirroring is the best choice

  • @pegs3711
    @pegs3711 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If you stop initiating things in your marriage will that cause more problems 🤔🤷‍♀️

    • @uzuruth5437
      @uzuruth5437 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think he's not addressing marraige

  • @ewm4266
    @ewm4266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Does this apply to husbands too?, Ie give the same energy he's giving to the relationship

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes indeed husbands are the worst not all of them but some of them like the one I married smh

    • @queenchica6623
      @queenchica6623 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sadly, yes. This applies to those worthless jokers too

  • @charlenecolyn5395
    @charlenecolyn5395 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow I wish I had this advice 26 years ago.

  • @soyou3999
    @soyou3999 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So true 👍

  • @sharonbartley808
    @sharonbartley808 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can't go on dates with more than one person at a time though. I'll mess up the names. If one don't work out, then I'll move on till.I find the one.

  • @jamiebrumant8512
    @jamiebrumant8512 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Take this data, ignore those confused low value men as much as possible,If you put money in a bag with holes you end up with nothing, if you build a house with plastic bags it would not even stand a week

  • @Melanie-b7d
    @Melanie-b7d 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great advice

  • @c24cm49
    @c24cm49 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My husband doesn't value me I asked him to leave my property but he will not leave.

  • @chiomachacha7837
    @chiomachacha7837 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are correct 💯

  • @KereolaPatunia
    @KereolaPatunia ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm cringing at myself rn 😂😂😂 thanks for holding the mirror up to my behavior. I come across like I want to wear his skin, but I'm just awkward and quirky lmaoooooo! Oh well, it can be charming, right? ☠️

  • @foster8610
    @foster8610 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What do you suggest if the couple is living together?

    • @enchanted963
      @enchanted963 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Interesting question. Suppose your partner knows what you value, because you have stated this. for example, during an argument he resorted to name calling and degrading and now doesnt seem to bother, or says its not that big of a deal or doesnt want to talk about it, comes home late from work and your left there wondering whether he registered or not?! I am currently looking for a place to stay, so this is just the current situation. What does one do or not do? I get it people argue with one another when in a relationship, we grow from it, but for me its like there is a certain way to argue and when one partner begins to name call or speak in a certain way then, the respect is not mutual. Thanks anyway

  • @starbright2683
    @starbright2683 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been the "I've got her" girl.

  • @lolafalana9144
    @lolafalana9144 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well some men whom supposedly read their bibles don't follow that. It's not just about the bible... There are many different beliefs that speak the same language,however it's mankind's ego along with pride that dimishes value of self as well others. It applies to both genders.

  • @thequeenofinsights
    @thequeenofinsights ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love his data driven approach to dating. Yes we need the data especially in this digital driven world where you can collect data in so many ways! Yes indeed take sex out of the table!

  • @indyd9322
    @indyd9322 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Does the advice still apply if the man is your husband? It seems the harder I try to save the marriage, the less he values it.

  • @madihadouah4691
    @madihadouah4691 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much 😊

  • @gapeach7814
    @gapeach7814 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What if this is your husband not just a boyfriend?

  • @margaretahogberg6869
    @margaretahogberg6869 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank You for telling me its not about sex, I guess Its what too many guys are looking for

  • @cynthiapeterson8817
    @cynthiapeterson8817 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can u do a video on Narcissists. They are a different animal.

  • @tessyogo6587
    @tessyogo6587 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is such a great lesson...
    Many thanks Coach 👍

  • @houston3rdwrdlouisiana371
    @houston3rdwrdlouisiana371 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank u appreciate you for this

  • @hluphekilepaulinamkwanazi3648
    @hluphekilepaulinamkwanazi3648 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @anastasiasharidaali8217
    @anastasiasharidaali8217 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    On point

  • @zannaadedigba3936
    @zannaadedigba3936 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach I need help… my husband … as my sister was dying from choking in my home, told me that he is not married to me anymore and Dosent want to be with me, after some time, I said , if your serious, then plz move out so I can heal and grieve … he so t move out and still has his wedding ring on I’m so sad

  • @stephaniecobb1497
    @stephaniecobb1497 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach, what if it's your husband ? The same applies

  • @IfeomaAgha-ho9st
    @IfeomaAgha-ho9st 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I caught him trying to kiss another woman in my present, he draw her close to his chest, hugged and told her come to me and she went to him.. I confronted him he told me he is a man right there I know he is a narcissist and he gat no value for me... Waiting patiently for my own God given man

  • @RochelleKnight-rz3jc
    @RochelleKnight-rz3jc 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    great topic

  • @nicoledunbar-williams8740
    @nicoledunbar-williams8740 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He wants me to pursue him and I'm not use to that

  • @wordyyou5617
    @wordyyou5617 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I so love the laugh at 08:54 😂😂😂

  • @erynebessette7283
    @erynebessette7283 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What if he’s like “well you didn’t txt me .. or you never call me”

  • @sheilazimmerman3905
    @sheilazimmerman3905 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Courting is for marriage. Dating is man made. Period! Blessings 🌸