I have been looking for a channel like this for a long time, and relate immensely with you. Thank you for the conversations so many women need to hear/have thank you for your honesty and lessons. You are more inspirational than you’ll ever know x
Enjoyed your video. Lol, girl I'm gonna use you. One child at 36 and I'm done. We do everything together, will travel the world with him. His dad great too. We are no longer romantically involved but I'm still single because I feel fulfilled. And you're right on the self love. It makes all the difference.
Just because someone has kids don’t mean they sleep around casually . Each person I had a child with I was with for years . I just wish I had better discernment with the men I were in a relationship with . Thanks for your comment 🫶🏾
Same. Two and done. Both 1 year and half apart. Same dad. Pushing 38 and they both heading to college in one year. I got to enjoy them and build our bonds so closely through travel. I had enough money to pay for summer programs and after school, music classes and boxing classes. When women are reckless about motherhood the kids suffer! Now I am building for my future grandchildren and enjoying the freedom. ❤
I’m 22 I don’t have children and I don’t want any children I feel I’m too young and I still want to live for myself not no one else I’m just not ready but I’m not going to judge anyone who has children I don’t understand the black dudes in the comment section bashing black women as if we all made the same life decisions on top of that black dudes are also having children out here like crazy too it’s not ok on both sides and bashing each other won’t help any way I wish you and your children the best ❤
I been looking for content on this topic because of the shame bashing and scrutiny behind this topic! I’m a mom of 4 boys all different fathers my two oldest are grown 23 and 20 they’re doing in great in life oldest one working on his masters degree and the 20 yr old in the Airforce I raised them with little to minimal help from their dads! My last two youngest are 11 and 3 and I pray 🙏🏾 they grow up just as successful as their older brothers! I started out as a young mom and still managed to make a successful living for me and my sons today Im a registered nurse and one day want to be a nurse practitioner, im saying all this to let you know that it’s possible to make it and it’s really no ones business how many bd you have as long as the kids are loved and cared for! Society places women like you and me as low value based off of past choices but it is what it is! I was raised with both parents in the house hold loving caring parents I think most women with multiple bd didn’t learn how to properly self validate and it’s ok no one’s perfect today I choose not to date and have no desire to have anymore kids! Your beautiful and still valuable in Gods eyes anyone who says different doesn’t deserve to be in your life! ❤
Ooops.... mother, could just be in a toxic relationship. Im really proud of you, I remember when you got pregnant with Elijah. What a blessing to see how you evolved, keep being great and loving yourself. Yes....communicate with your children, unfortunately we came from a family that didn't handle the honest conversations well. Im guilty of it myself but anyway.... have an awesome day!!! Love 💘 you!!!
You are responsible for their emotional damages of the kids all 4 of them…. You thinking you can raise a child without a home with his/her parent…it’s not magic it’s logical you are responsible for their trauma 😅
What I minute a father doesn’t talk to his daughter about men. That is the main responsibilities a father has. Wow just wow of course it will end up bad.
Picking the money up to keep it. Then laugh in his face. Especially, my dude, got me f up. 😂 love your transparency, enjoy seeing your glow. Please show up your bookshelf.
I don’t think that’s fair. They never looked for the boy n told his family or something ???! ( talking about ur parents in reference to the first baby’s dad and family )
Enjoy babe. Im 32 with a 16 year old. Im going to spend the next year, socialising, networking, travelling etc. My daughter eill stay with family for a few months. Will never be this age again.
So happy for you and this new venture. I know it’s been a MINUTE since we’ve been in touch lol, but I love seeing your bubbly personality through your content. 🤎
I have 2 kids with a woman that has two with someone else and 1 with another man and another with another man but she jumps between me and the other dad that she has 2 with no contact with the other dads its hard cos we both wanna be with our kids and she uses that to her advantage using then dropping both of us as and when she pleases.
My birth mother had 5 kids with 5 different men. Different circumstances than yours. But It’s embarrassing for the child.
Awww I’m sorry you were embarrassed . Hope you’re healing through it 🤍
Very embarrassing! I came from a similar upbringing and decided that I had to do better.
Awww I’m so sorry hun
VERY embarrassing and only a clown would play step dad
@@ThaBlackPill🎯🎯🎯
I love the transparency. I tell you all the time I think you’re a great mother and do it with grace and love. ❤️
You're the best!
I hope you don't have sons
Some people just don't know how to say "No, that's not a good idea".
I have been looking for a channel like this for a long time, and relate immensely with you. Thank you for the conversations so many women need to hear/have thank you for your honesty and lessons. You are more inspirational than you’ll ever know x
Awww that makes my heart smile . Thank you 🫶🏾
Some have different baby daddies but when a woman is single and no kids,the question is how come you have no kids???
Once you have a kid its not about you no more sweetie. Its about the kids
I disagree … but respect your opinion 💗
Of course she disagrees got four kids by different men ..no standards ...
@@UnapologeticallyYvettelol you disagreeing is exactly why you in the bad situation your in now. Listen to good advice please
@@juliansearcie1758she's a disgrace
🤣🤣🤣🤣 yall funny
Enjoyed your video. Lol, girl I'm gonna use you. One child at 36 and I'm done. We do everything together, will travel the world with him. His dad great too. We are no longer romantically involved but I'm still single because I feel fulfilled. And you're right on the self love. It makes all the difference.
I really love the honesty but it really is depressing that our women just sleep around so casually having kids smh
Just because someone has kids don’t mean they sleep around casually . Each person I had a child with I was with for years . I just wish I had better discernment with the men I were in a relationship with . Thanks for your comment 🫶🏾
@@UnapologeticallyYvetteit was casual you not married no ring you gave it up for what?..
Being in a committed relationship and living together is not casual
@@asjabutler it is when you got more than one kid with more than one guy
@@jayo3074 ikr, men, who are truly dedicated and committed to you will usually put a ring on it.
32 with one 16yr old daughter. I think im one and done. I dont have the patience lol.
Same. Two and done. Both 1 year and half apart. Same dad. Pushing 38 and they both heading to college in one year. I got to enjoy them and build our bonds so closely through travel. I had enough money to pay for summer programs and after school, music classes and boxing classes. When women are reckless about motherhood the kids suffer!
Now I am building for my future grandchildren and enjoying the freedom. ❤
@made432 Sounds amazing 👏 we sacrificed the first end of our life and now the second half is coming.
I’m 22 I don’t have children and I don’t want any children I feel I’m too young and I still want to live for myself not no one else I’m just not ready but I’m not going to judge anyone who has children I don’t understand the black dudes in the comment section bashing black women as if we all made the same life decisions on top of that black dudes are also having children out here like crazy too it’s not ok on both sides and bashing each other won’t help any way I wish you and your children the best ❤
Kudos to you for realizing your mistakes and being bold enough to speak to the younger women. We have to reverse this in our community.
My momma told me about you jezzabelles😂
BW are lost.
LIES YOU TELL
@@UnapologeticallyYvette nope
ikr
Worst woman you can ever get with on this planet they bring nothing but drama and other men’s kids
@@IdcreallybudI’m starting to think this is true but sad 💯
Thank you so much for your transparency 👏🏽✨
Thank you ! And you’re welcome 🤍
With no accountability 🤣
The streets is undefeated just like the wall
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I been looking for content on this topic because of the shame bashing and scrutiny behind this topic! I’m a mom of 4 boys all different fathers my two oldest are grown 23 and 20 they’re doing in great in life oldest one working on his masters degree and the 20 yr old in the Airforce I raised them with little to minimal help from their dads! My last two youngest are 11 and 3 and I pray 🙏🏾 they grow up just as successful as their older brothers! I started out as a young mom and still managed to make a successful living for me and my sons today Im a registered nurse and one day want to be a nurse practitioner, im saying all this to let you know that it’s possible to make it and it’s really no ones business how many bd you have as long as the kids are loved and cared for! Society places women like you and me as low value based off of past choices but it is what it is! I was raised with both parents in the house hold loving caring parents I think most women with multiple bd didn’t learn how to properly self validate and it’s ok no one’s perfect today I choose not to date and have no desire to have anymore kids! Your beautiful and still valuable in Gods eyes anyone who says different doesn’t deserve to be in your life! ❤
You clearly think it’s ok to form broken homes.
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Ooops.... mother, could just be in a toxic relationship.
Im really proud of you, I remember when you got pregnant with Elijah. What a blessing to see how you evolved, keep being great and loving yourself.
Yes....communicate with your children, unfortunately we came from a family that didn't handle the honest conversations well. Im guilty of it myself but anyway.... have an awesome day!!! Love 💘 you!!!
Thank you cousin simone . I agree 100% love you !
Toxic relationship ?..
I love this 👏🏾👏🏾…So ready for the next episode! Love love your videos, you always keep it 💯
Awww thank you so much Brittany ❤️
You are responsible for their emotional damages of the kids all 4 of them…. You thinking you can raise a child without a home with his/her parent…it’s not magic it’s logical you are responsible for their trauma 😅
Yvette this segment was awesome, hope it helps someone and they don't have to be a young
Lol. I got my own kids n baby daddies so i know all about that💕
What I minute a father doesn’t talk to his daughter about men. That is the main responsibilities a father has. Wow just wow of course it will end up bad.
Good advice
Picking the money up to keep it. Then laugh in his face. Especially, my dude, got me f up. 😂 love your transparency, enjoy seeing your glow. Please show up your bookshelf.
AND DID ! Lmao but still disrespectful 🥴
I don’t have a bookshelf . But I need one … expeditiously !
I don’t think that’s fair. They never looked for the boy n told his family or something ???! ( talking about ur parents in reference to the first baby’s dad and family )
I love it!!
Thank youuuu !
Enjoy babe. Im 32 with a 16 year old. Im going to spend the next year, socialising, networking, travelling etc. My daughter eill stay with family for a few months.
Will never be this age again.
With family? Or with her father?
Same here! My daughter is 16 and I'm 32. I'm getting my freedom back and it feels wonderful ❤
Please do not end up as strongmommy chrissy
Ummmm okayyyy … I’m not sure what that means but thanks for the comment ❤️
@@UnapologeticallyYvette she has nine or 10 kids by nine or 10 men
you made me go search for her and she got 6 BD 9 Kids. wow😅
@@UnapologeticallyYvetteshe's saying stop getting pregnant in a nice way
@@UnapologeticallyYvetteyou will soon learn. You think you get it
I'm 30 year old Mom of 4, I have twins and I have 3 BD ❤❤❤❤❤ all love. I wish your family all the best! 🎉🎉🎉
Thank you so much 🫶🏾 and look at us ! Twinnin in life lol
Three different men congratulations women should look up to you
So happy for you and this new venture. I know it’s been a MINUTE since we’ve been in touch lol, but I love seeing your bubbly personality through your content. 🤎
Thank you so much!!
I love it here 💙✨
I’m glad you’re enjoying ❤️🫶🏾
was termination not an option? obviously you’ve done well to raise your kids 3 different fathers at 28…
Termination was an option … that I decided to not take .
@@UnapologeticallyYvette condoms are also an option
@All Things Yvette but women are lazy lol
I have 2 kids with a woman that has two with someone else and 1 with another man and another with another man but she jumps between me and the other dad that she has 2 with no contact with the other dads its hard cos we both wanna be with our kids and she uses that to her advantage using then dropping both of us as and when she pleases.
This sounds like complete chaos...wow. poor children.
@@yoursisesthermeyamess is an understatement
A circus
I am lost 😵💫
Stop simping 🤦🏾
🙌🏾
🥰🥰🥰🥰
No shame 🤦🏾
Eww
Lol modern feminism....mmm smells so nice
delusional 💩
They don’t even know how lost they are
Typical black “woman”