We need to be obsess with building our mental and physical strength. We need to be obsess with learning more skills and traits. Will be much needed in coming years.
@@doernbecherr I didn’t say they get the most girls..I said I see short men with women everyday..there’s more short men then tall men in the world so the odds are a woman will end up with a shorter man
@@vjones34 yea Ik I didn’t say that ur implying short men get the most girls, I’m saying for me PERSONALLY that Ik, the dudes who get the most girls are shorter dudes
My father is 5:'5 and he remarried a model of a woman, 12 years younger than him, they've happily had 6 more kids and live a happy life. How did he do it? Charm, humor, confidence.
I’m 5’6 and walked in a Karaoke bar Saturday and all the woman were looking at me like I was food. You know why? Because I’m in shape I look good smell good and feel good.
The problem with most of us shorter guys is that we tend to attribute everything to our height. If she rejects you "it's because of my height" no, its not always because of that, once you level up immensely you'll start to notice that your height don't matter all that much anymore. So let's be on our purpose fellas!
Have an abundance mindset when dealing with women. There's 4 billion of them here! Strive to be the best version of yourself in every way possible. With that, women choosing you for you shouldn't be a problem at all. Like I always say, "Her choice is my rejoice" 🎯🎯🎯
One of the chicks in the PTB show called a guy out for being too skinny and he non-chalantly said “I can pick you up 5 different ways.” You could see in her eyes that she wanted to take it back but her pride told her no. PTB Episode 26 around 24:56
I'm 6'2 and the thing is. You notice some women really like the height thing more than others. Whenever I'm more bulked up I've gotten more attention than when skinny. The difference is large. Which proves to me body game is superior than just being tall. Even as a kid I didn't get a ton of attention for being tall and handsome, until I was 17 and started lifting weights. And wasn't even big, just more built and posture/walk changed. Big thing about being tall is presence, but if you're just skinny you're a leaf blowing in the wind.
The height obsession is that bad that’s why I just check out completely and stay on my purpose. I could be wrong by being skeptical on my height in the dating market but I don’t always have the energy to proof them wrong. Forget not even being 6 ft I’m 5’8 on a good day so i tune out the whole height argument about being at least being taller than them and what is acceptable it’s all nonsense. I will continue to pursue things and people who appreciate me and help me grow
5'7" in HTX. I don't let my height stop me from anything, but dating is getting ridiculous. I did way better my whole life up until ~5 years ago. Since then, I've more than doubled my income into netting 6 figures, lost 20 lbs, bought a house, bought a rental, bought and paid off a luxury coupe, stepped up my style and grooming ... And I still get WAY less play now than I did before. I don't focus on my height, but what else is it? This shyt doesn't make sense. I'm objectively better now in every way, but I'm getting like 1/4 the play from when I was chubby, broke and driving a beater.
It’s cause YOU levelled up brother. Your standards are higher now. Maybe the Universe and God want you to conserve your energy cause clearly It seems you use your energy well to improve yourself.
Same for me bro. I’m better in every way yet. It seems harder. I think there’s something to be said about most women not wanting to deal with a quality man. Theyd rather deal with a broken man or a man less developed so that maybe they have a sense of control. Either way keep pushing.💯🫡 7:42
When you stand at the top of the pyramid versus when you was at the bottom with the crew, you used to rock with everybody started looking at you different. Who is this guy? What makes him different from us not know the answer. Everybody else needs to figure out, but keep doing you, brother.
@@johneta7665 it’s because quality men hold them accountable. Even when we become quality men we want those women just for fun but it’s as if the Universe is saying “nah you’re too good to just mess around with that now” gotta find a woman(women) on the same wavelength
I am 5'7", wife is ,5'2" and son is 6'3". My mom's twin was 6'2". I have been called a beast by people I work with. Ladies look at the build just as much as the height. But after that it's up to other things to continue the interaction between the man and the woman.
I had a friend in middle school he was 4'11 and had all the girls checking for him. He practiced body game aswell. Most of the time, you have to take a woman's word and reverse it. What they say they want, is usually, the opposite of want they really want. The women who says she wants a man that 6ft or above, he has to look like a model or Chad. If you look at their baby fathers they look totally the opposite.
I’m 5’7 … I didn’t know this height preference was a thing until after Covid, I’ve gotten woman taller then me of all races, woman my same height or shorter then me lol most woman just cared I was taller even if it was one inch. Most of the biggest players I knew was around my height a little taller or shorter. Like Rom says all the time you need to find your tribe! If a girl used your height against you she wouldn’t have chose you even if you were 6 feet or taller, if it’s an insecurity I suggest to get it together cuz short dudes been winning since the beginning of time.
It all comes down to the overall aura. And with that rejection thing you never can tell the reason. Just gotta focus on the women who show obvious interest. YET☝️anotha great car video! Peace and blessings, Uncle Rom!
My grandma always said that if a woman worries about your height or weight, it’s because she doesn’t feel safe around you. And if that woman doesn’t feel safe around you, it’s because you don’t give off the energy of being someone safe to be around. It doesn’t matter how tall or short you are, how much you weigh, how much money you have, or even if you’re covered in muscles. What truly matters is how you make her feel. My grandfather was 5'2'', and my grandma was 5'6'', yet she felt extremely safe around him because he had that look, that energy. It’s hard to explain, but women know exactly what THAT energy is because they can feel it. It’s not a logical thing-it’s a vibe, an energy that is calm and controlled. Look at guys who fight in the UFC, for example. You can kind of sense that energy they carry. They’re calm, collected, and composed, even though they’re capable of so much. That’s the type of energy a woman recognizes as safe and trustworthy. Be yourself at the end of the day.
I’m 6’5 and height only matters seriously to taller women. Short women love height too but realistically women 5’4 and below can’t tell what’s really tall lmfao you could be 5’10 and a short chick would think you’re 6 foot. 5’5+ women is where height kind of becomes a requirement
I'm an example of what you mentioned. I'm 6'4, but neither my father nor my mother even approached that height. It was my mom's dad that was close to my height and I happen to look like him in other respects too.
My Pop always jokes about how we got the runt gene. He said his Pop was only 5'7, yet his 5 brothers were 6'3 and up. My Pop had 2 brothers and one is 6'3 the other was 5'9 and my Pop is 5'9. None of them ever had issues with women.
I don't think Bolo The Entertainer (or ANY "short" male exotic dancer) is worried about their height. They're too busy picking money up off the floor. It all starts with the mindset 🦍#PCM
I'm a 6ft Tall woman. When I was younger, height seemed important ,but as I grew wiser and wanted different things personality was more important and shorter men tend to be funnier lol
It's only an internet thing. I'm 5'6 and in real life it's never been something that people have clowned me about. Maybe it's disqualified me from some women in the past but oh well.
Facts you speaking O.G. Just have confidence in yourself. I am 5'4 and my aura, and my cocky attitude be having me like i am 6foot Lol. And women will pick that up about a man if you have no confidence in yourself. It don't matter if you are short or even you are tall. It be some tall men that have low confidence in they self.
Women say they want 6’0+ but a lot of the times they don’t marry those guys. Not to say they’re all bad or anything. The women who really stick to that rule, got mental issues and have masculine traits. That’s like me saying I only want women 5’2 and shorter(good luck).
As a short king(5.6) in real life it’s never really been a problem but on the internet it’s a whole different thing..women be expecting too much regarding height.abit like some men expecting dimes lol
4'11 saying that man was too short at 5'9 "is ridiculous. Just because a man is 6+ doesn't mean the children will get his height. Prime example Will Smith. His two kids took Jada height, not his.
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These ridiculous standards are made for the men they are not attracted to. Sexual Attraction blows away a lot of dating standards.
We need to be obsess with building our mental and physical strength. We need to be obsess with learning more skills and traits.
Will be much needed in coming years.
I’m 6’3 I watch women walk around with short men everyday..don’t believe the hype
Deadass in fact, ironically some of my good friends who are short actually get the most girls of any dude I know💀
@@doernbecherr I didn’t say they get the most girls..I said I see short men with women everyday..there’s more short men then tall men in the world so the odds are a woman will end up with a shorter man
What about the women who swipe left on short guys?
@@vjones34 yea Ik I didn’t say that ur implying short men get the most girls, I’m saying for me PERSONALLY that Ik, the dudes who get the most girls are shorter dudes
What’s a short man? 😂
My father is 5:'5 and he remarried a model of a woman, 12 years younger than him, they've happily had 6 more kids and live a happy life. How did he do it? Charm, humor, confidence.
I’m 5’6 and walked in a Karaoke bar Saturday and all the woman were looking at me like I was food. You know why? Because I’m in shape I look good smell good and feel good.
All about confidence. There’s a scene in modern family where Gloria says he doesn’t like him for money, but because he gets things done.
I’ve noticed in the past 8-10 years that these preferences from women is just a big echo chamber imo
Spot on. Work with what you got, don’t worry about the stuff you can’t control like height. Confidence and charisma trumps all else
If she doesn’t want you
She Doesn’t Want You
Next on the way Up 💯
The problem with most of us shorter guys is that we tend to attribute everything to our height. If she rejects you "it's because of my height" no, its not always because of that, once you level up immensely you'll start to notice that your height don't matter all that much anymore. So let's be on our purpose fellas!
Have an abundance mindset when dealing with women. There's 4 billion of them here! Strive to be the best version of yourself in every way possible. With that, women choosing you for you shouldn't be a problem at all. Like I always say, "Her choice is my rejoice"
🎯🎯🎯
One of the chicks in the PTB show called a guy out for being too skinny and he
non-chalantly said “I can pick you up 5 different ways.” You could see in her eyes that she wanted to take it back but her pride told her no. PTB Episode 26 around 24:56
I'm 6'2 and the thing is. You notice some women really like the height thing more than others. Whenever I'm more bulked up I've gotten more attention than when skinny. The difference is large. Which proves to me body game is superior than just being tall.
Even as a kid I didn't get a ton of attention for being tall and handsome, until I was 17 and started lifting weights. And wasn't even big, just more built and posture/walk changed. Big thing about being tall is presence, but if you're just skinny you're a leaf blowing in the wind.
True
The height obsession is that bad that’s why I just check out completely and stay on my purpose. I could be wrong by being skeptical on my height in the dating market but I don’t always have the energy to proof them wrong. Forget not even being 6 ft I’m 5’8 on a good day so i tune out the whole height argument about being at least being taller than them and what is acceptable it’s all nonsense. I will continue to pursue things and people who appreciate me and help me grow
5'7" in HTX. I don't let my height stop me from anything, but dating is getting ridiculous. I did way better my whole life up until ~5 years ago. Since then, I've more than doubled my income into netting 6 figures, lost 20 lbs, bought a house, bought a rental, bought and paid off a luxury coupe, stepped up my style and grooming ... And I still get WAY less play now than I did before. I don't focus on my height, but what else is it? This shyt doesn't make sense. I'm objectively better now in every way, but I'm getting like 1/4 the play from when I was chubby, broke and driving a beater.
It’s cause YOU levelled up brother. Your standards are higher now. Maybe the Universe and God want you to conserve your energy cause clearly
It seems you use your energy well to improve yourself.
Same for me bro. I’m better in every way yet. It seems harder. I think there’s something to be said about most women not wanting to deal with a quality man. Theyd rather deal with a broken man or a man less developed so that maybe they have a sense of control. Either way keep pushing.💯🫡 7:42
You're standards have risen my guy. Differnt bracket of life including women. Good job
When you stand at the top of the pyramid versus when you was at the bottom with the crew, you used to rock with everybody started looking at you different. Who is this guy? What makes him different from us not know the answer. Everybody else needs to figure out, but keep doing you, brother.
@@johneta7665 it’s because quality men hold them accountable. Even when we become quality men we want those women just for fun but it’s as if the Universe is saying “nah you’re too good to just mess around with that now” gotta find a woman(women) on the same wavelength
I am 5'7", wife is ,5'2" and son is 6'3". My mom's twin was 6'2".
I have been called a beast by people I work with. Ladies look at the build just as much as the height. But after that it's up to other things to continue the interaction between the man and the woman.
I had a friend in middle school he was 4'11 and had all the girls checking for him. He practiced body game aswell. Most of the time, you have to take a woman's word and reverse it. What they say they want, is usually, the opposite of want they really want. The women who says she wants a man that 6ft or above, he has to look like a model or Chad. If you look at their baby fathers they look totally the opposite.
💯
I’m 5’7 … I didn’t know this height preference was a thing until after Covid, I’ve gotten woman taller then me of all races, woman my same height or shorter then me lol most woman just cared I was taller even if it was one inch. Most of the biggest players I knew was around my height a little taller or shorter. Like Rom says all the time you need to find your tribe! If a girl used your height against you she wouldn’t have chose you even if you were 6 feet or taller, if it’s an insecurity I suggest to get it together cuz short dudes been winning since the beginning of time.
It all comes down to the overall aura. And with that rejection thing you never can tell the reason. Just gotta focus on the women who show obvious interest. YET☝️anotha great car video! Peace and blessings, Uncle Rom!
Nothing new under the sun. Get the fundamentals right. Body game, self confidence, hygiene, work towards your goals. They will come.
Indeed on the topic... Furthermore, the most unfair thing is the economic pressure. Money is purposely rare, yet men are always expected to have it.
I'm about 6'1.5 - 6'2 and I noticed it only mattered after I became fit
My grandma always said that if a woman worries about your height or weight, it’s because she doesn’t feel safe around you. And if that woman doesn’t feel safe around you, it’s because you don’t give off the energy of being someone safe to be around.
It doesn’t matter how tall or short you are, how much you weigh, how much money you have, or even if you’re covered in muscles. What truly matters is how you make her feel.
My grandfather was 5'2'', and my grandma was 5'6'', yet she felt extremely safe around him because he had that look, that energy. It’s hard to explain, but women know exactly what THAT energy is because they can feel it. It’s not a logical thing-it’s a vibe, an energy that is calm and controlled.
Look at guys who fight in the UFC, for example. You can kind of sense that energy they carry. They’re calm, collected, and composed, even though they’re capable of so much. That’s the type of energy a woman recognizes as safe and trustworthy.
Be yourself at the end of the day.
Great comment bro
I'm 5'11". My oldest nephew is 6'4".
I’m 6’5 and height only matters seriously to taller women. Short women love height too but realistically women 5’4 and below can’t tell what’s really tall lmfao you could be 5’10 and a short chick would think you’re 6 foot. 5’5+ women is where height kind of becomes a requirement
Genetics are unpredictable
At the end of the day, regardless of height, you still gotta have your physique conditioned to it's greatest version.
My grandad (Fathers dad) was over 6ft I was told he was 6’5 . My older brother 6’2 and our dad stands at 5’11. I’m also 5’11
My dad is 5’7” and I’m 6’1”. There’s no telling with genes
exactly my cousin is 5"8 his dad is 6"3
Thanks!
Thanks for your support.
just on focus yourself it about a winner mindset .
I'm an example of what you mentioned. I'm 6'4, but neither my father nor my mother even approached that height. It was my mom's dad that was close to my height and I happen to look like him in other respects too.
I’m 5’7. I always thought i was going to be a bit taller based on my family. Turns out im adopted. It sucks but can’t be mad at the cards i was dealt
Michael Jordan is another example. Both parents are under 5’9, his brother is 5’8 and he(MJ) is 6’6. 🤷🏾♂️, you never know.
My Pop always jokes about how we got the runt gene. He said his Pop was only 5'7, yet his 5 brothers were 6'3 and up. My Pop had 2 brothers and one is 6'3 the other was 5'9 and my Pop is 5'9. None of them ever had issues with women.
I don't think Bolo The Entertainer (or ANY "short" male exotic dancer) is worried about their height. They're too busy picking money up off the floor. It all starts with the mindset 🦍#PCM
I see guys 5’5 in relationships everyday. They’re too many insecure men not going outside
I'm a 6ft Tall woman. When I was younger, height seemed important ,but as I grew wiser and wanted different things personality was more important and shorter men tend to be funnier lol
Rom, should I buy a small gift for the girl that I like for Christmas?
However, I don’t really know how she feels about me but I don’t really care
Buy a small gift and suggest she go out with you if she declines at least you’re out the cost of a scarf or something small and you can move on.
It's only an internet thing. I'm 5'6 and in real life it's never been something that people have clowned me about. Maybe it's disqualified me from some women in the past but oh well.
Real talk.
Facts you speaking O.G. Just have confidence in yourself. I am 5'4 and my aura, and my cocky attitude be having me like i am 6foot Lol. And women will pick that up about a man if you have no confidence in yourself. It don't matter if you are short or even you are tall. It be some tall men that have low confidence in they self.
BIG BROTHER !!
It's not the real issue...
Women say they want 6’0+ but a lot of the times they don’t marry those guys. Not to say they’re all bad or anything. The women who really stick to that rule, got mental issues and have masculine traits. That’s like me saying I only want women 5’2 and shorter(good luck).
It’s called Confidence 😎💪🏼plus too many women in this world 🌎. They must be looking at a pond, look at the ocean 🌊 don’t limit yourself only live once
5’10 and I’ve never had any issues with dating due to my height. According to the internet, anything under 6’1 it’s over.
As a short king(5.6) in real life it’s never really been a problem but on the internet it’s a whole different thing..women be expecting too much regarding height.abit like some men expecting dimes lol
Height stuff don't mean nothing. If the women likes u, she likes u!
Im in nyc.. im 6'3...i see short dudes walking with pretty broads just as much as tall dudes....
They all be Dominicans and Puertoricans 5’7-5’10 handsome walkin around with a bad latina 5’-5’5😂 all over da bronx
@@PrinceoftheLightSkins they are allowed to be short lol
4'11 saying that man was too short at 5'9 "is ridiculous. Just because a man is 6+ doesn't mean the children will get his height. Prime example Will Smith. His two kids took Jada height, not his.
Great example.
As an autistic person, the fact that he was saying all that "on the spectrum" stuff at the beginning of the video was hilarious 😂😂😂
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Im a woman and I never care about height as long as he is taller than me face is way more important
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