If he loves you, he will ignore you because...| psychological facts about human behaviour

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  • @doneshacotton4725
    @doneshacotton4725 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    If they truly like you they won't ignore you.

  • @emmanuellaguerrero557
    @emmanuellaguerrero557 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +89

    This is exactly what I experienced..the person is trying to be angry, aloof and harsh sometimes.. But i am not convinced of the actions that the person shows me externally. I am fully aware he hide deep inside. There are times spontaneously the person was very caring.. He confused me..But i know the energy never lies. It just he was trained to hide the emotion.

    • @dilsenavirathna5960
      @dilsenavirathna5960 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🤟🏻💞💏💞👌

    • @idolcarol5264
      @idolcarol5264 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      I can relate,from the words,angry,aloof but sometimes harsh, caring!

    • @ayenvizco3489
      @ayenvizco3489 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hey same here OMG!❤

    • @amandasantana5602
      @amandasantana5602 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I can relate too...totally

    • @siddhiagrawal8114
      @siddhiagrawal8114 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Same things happening with me..rn..he tries to be harsh stone hearted sometimes...but in another place he calls me a lot and was saying that I am with you..tmhare pass hu kahi nhi gya hu

  • @AnupamaSriranganath45678
    @AnupamaSriranganath45678 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    ❤❤Love isn't always loud, it's often found in the quiet moment of understanding and patience ❤❤

  • @Mahi_Mahiiiii
    @Mahi_Mahiiiii 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    I was once fooled into believing the notion that if someone ignores you, it means they're interested in you. I fell victim to this misconception and convinced myself that this person had feelings for me, only to be shocked when they confessed their love for someone else and revealed they were already purposed the girl he actually loves. It turned out they never had feelings for me from the start. I was left feeling foolish for buying into this myth. I implore you: let's put an end to spreading this false idea that ignoring someone is a sign of affection. It's time to stop playing with people's emotions and be honest with ourselves and others.
    Spread Peace! ✌️
    😔🙏🏻

  • @lynnhall8720
    @lynnhall8720 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    Five years ago, a dear friend started "ghosting" me. When I asked him if there was something wrong, he told me that he couldn't be friends with me anymore because he couldn't stop thinking about me and could no longer cope. I was devastated. I haven't heard from him again, but I still miss him and it still hurts enough to bring tears 😢 to my eyes. 😞💔

    • @stephaniescott5757
      @stephaniescott5757 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      I’m sorry! I pray one day he comes forward with how he truly feels. My sister is I walked away from my best friend. We were dating then we broke up. Then one day he called me years ago and we started back hanging out. Fast forward I walked away in January 2021 because God spoke to me and told me he was seeing someone else. And I found out he was. That relationship didn’t last at all. So we haven’t spoken to one another and go to the same church. A few months ago my credit card went to his house and I didn’t know. And he gave it to the Sunday school secretary and she gave it to me. After church, I thanked him. And asked him how long he had the card. I can tell by his eyes he stills love me. And I still love him. I pray one day he would just reach out to me and talk. But oh well.
      I pray you are doing okay

  • @aichasenhaji6850
    @aichasenhaji6850 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    That's has put my mind at peace...
    He is definitely holding his feelings in a very subtle way🤭
    All my gratitude for this explanation🙏

  • @NibuniPfithu-nd5nk
    @NibuniPfithu-nd5nk 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Couldn't agree more... this is wat exactly happened in my life...n we are together again ❤😊

  • @vickyferreira3259
    @vickyferreira3259 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    This is the first video I've seen explain his absence in this way. It is giving me hope. He's ghosting me after an argument, but he hasn't blocked me on social media and he hasn't taken his things back. He does have depression and ptsd from past traumas. He tells me he loves me and things about his past and his concerns about his life in the future.

    • @parishadnz.6048
      @parishadnz.6048 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Don't t fool yourself...the video does't speak about arguing..

    • @deeptibhongade9760
      @deeptibhongade9760 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I m going through the same , it has been 1 year now

  • @chuchualemayehu6029
    @chuchualemayehu6029 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I send for all of you divine love and acceptance who have been alot in there life . Its so painful the person you love the most start to ignore and never tell why.

  • @anushreeroy6040
    @anushreeroy6040 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    yes it helped me a lott.. As I m passing through the same situation

  • @Abirami-b5v
    @Abirami-b5v 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Once we are in a long distance relationship... I don't think so he loves me still... "It's an infactutaion. Take care of ur family. Don't think about me anymore" he said and left me without proper reason. I can't forget him. He's still on my mind. And he is happy now I konw he is happy without me😔😓But I'm still in love with him😢 How can I change my mind?? I'm trying a lot to forget him but I can't😕

  • @dogs7542
    @dogs7542 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes it helped me understand why he is being silent. Thank you!

  • @kasiastar552
    @kasiastar552 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    IT LOOKS AND SOUNDS LIKE WE ARE ACTUALLY THE SAME. I LOVED HIM SO DEEPLY ( STILL do ) and was behaving like this. Being afraid of loosing him, thinking if he really loves me, feeling so vulnerable and scared ….
    Not knowing how to fully express my feelings 🥹

    • @annabellaaryee3707
      @annabellaaryee3707 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Same for me😢

    • @maristella525
      @maristella525 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😥

    • @clover1310
      @clover1310 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same , I'm also behaving like this towards the person I like.

  • @KanchanKumari-eq6nl
    @KanchanKumari-eq6nl 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Very nice vedio
    My partner sometimes ignores me.Watching this vedio,I understand the reason,why he ignores me .I really miss him.He give me a personal space to improve myself.❤❤❤❤❤😊🎉

  • @mitulsunderaj2150
    @mitulsunderaj2150 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Oh God!!!! You made me see the other side of the coin...Oh God!!! How lo....ng have I been misjudging my husband and causing misery to myself and to him too!!!! I shall mend my ways and become more kind hence forth!!!! Thank you dear Akka, who ever posted this. You have truly de bugged my mind!!!! Thanks a lt.

    • @parishadnz.6048
      @parishadnz.6048 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ..don't fool yourself..this video Is about early stage of a connection...usually after a short break a man could turn back the either with a yes or with a no...or Never come back which means no.

  • @abiephil
    @abiephil 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you so much it gives me a relief i was confused

  • @nargishnusrat8197
    @nargishnusrat8197 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I misunderstood him but this video helped me to view my unconditional love from a different angle,Thanq for uploading this video.Thanq Universe,Thanq God for our positive reunion and reconciliation 100 percent.I strongly claim it positively and release all the bad karmas1000000000000000000000000000000000percent.

  • @ankitkullu9811
    @ankitkullu9811 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thanks a lot for the well explanation...... though he has been sharing every plan of his life I feel he doesn't have any interest on me. But this of your video gives me hope of our love. God bless you

  • @cryptozain-6069
    @cryptozain-6069 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    In my own case, I had someone I really love. Two years ago we met up, had great time, the next day he went back to his base and after some weeks he stopped talking to me. I began calling and texting but he wouldn't reciprocate. Then some months later I stopped to see if he would care the check up on me but he didn't till date. He left without an explanation and it hurts so bad, the silent rejection hurts. It's been two years now I'm still trying to heal, I can't even open my heart to anyone because I love him so much. I feel so miserable while he's there posting on social media and enjoying his life.

  • @falgunidhruwe7376
    @falgunidhruwe7376 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh my god.. i found this in correct timing.. he is not even confessing me nor he is talking to me.

  • @NanaMartinsonKankahMensah
    @NanaMartinsonKankahMensah 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Hmmmm, I am really blessed by this message. It really helped me over my great worries

  • @Creophagous
    @Creophagous 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    No, someone ignoring someone is just an idiot. It may work on women who are superficial. But on me it doesn't. I take it at face value that they are not interested and move on. Simple as that.
    Psychological Impact on the Ignored Woman
    -Hurt and Rejection: Ignoring someone can be interpreted as a form of rejection, leading to feelings of hurt, sadness, and lowered self-esteem.
    -Confusion and Anxiety: Being ignored can create confusion and uncertainty. The woman may wonder why she's being ignored and what she did wrong, leading to anxiety and stress.
    -Anger and Resentment: If the ignoring continues, the woman may become angry and resentful towards the man. This can lead to further conflict and damage the relationship.
    -Self-Doubt: Prolonged ignoring can erode a woman's self-confidence and make her question her own worth.
    This suggests that the man is intentionally ignoring the woman to diminish her value, both in the eyes of others and in her own self-perception.
    What happens when a woman who loves herself is ignored?
    When a woman who loves herself is ignored, she is likely to respond in a way that prioritizes her own well-being and self-respect. Here are some potential outcomes:
    1. Disappointment and Disengagement:
    -Initial Disappointment: She may feel disappointed and hurt, especially if she valued the connection.
    -Emotional Detachment: She will likely begin to emotionally distance herself from the person ignoring her.
    -Reduced Effort: She will reduce the effort she puts into the relationship, as it's clear her efforts aren't reciprocated.
    2. Setting Boundaries:
    Clear Communication: She may directly communicate her feelings about the situation, setting clear boundaries.
    Reduced Availability: She may limit her availability to the person, prioritizing her own time and energy.
    Cutting Ties: In severe cases, she may choose to completely cut ties with the individual, recognizing that the relationship is not healthy or beneficial.
    3. Self-Focus and Growth:
    -Prioritizing Self-Care: She may turn her attention inward, focusing on self-care, hobbies, and personal growth.
    -Strengthening Self-Worth: She may use this experience to further strengthen her self-worth and confidence.
    -Seeking Support: She may seek support from friends, family, or a therapist to process her emotions and gain perspective.

    • @LadduXt
      @LadduXt 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      So basically it's your pov ... And it shows that you are narcissist
      If she truely* loves u then she I'll never ignore u and never stop doing efforts on her relationship/love ....
      That's my pov~👍

  • @prathimapai3118
    @prathimapai3118 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very good reasoning.
    Loved it. 👍👌❤️

  • @UmarSaleem-ep9op
    @UmarSaleem-ep9op 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I luv psychology as a Great Subject of Interest!

    • @Jojo_45413
      @Jojo_45413 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Me too

  • @donnameyerssister2018
    @donnameyerssister2018 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you so much ❤ this video helped me to understand the silent distance taking place.

  • @anshekaupmanue7427
    @anshekaupmanue7427 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yes this is soo true❤nice video❤

  • @virgosep10
    @virgosep10 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Haven't you heard the term SITUATION SHIP?? In our generation people are more interested in having fun rather then something long lasting and seriously stable. Don't fool us.

    • @parishadnz.6048
      @parishadnz.6048 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ..what Is fun about not hearing or seeing spmebody you are supposef to have fun with?? Even when we play with cards we get serriously focused so that we enjoy really playing!

  • @poetgallery
    @poetgallery 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Very helpful especially at a time as this. Thanks bunch!😊❤

  • @SuraviDe1111rk
    @SuraviDe1111rk 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Pulling away is not respecting others individuality or independence. It is most hurtful by the way. Actually it is his insecurity, his illusion what he has not healed.😮‍💨😓

  • @sadiyyahgovan7661
    @sadiyyahgovan7661 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I really appreciate this positive energy
    healing message ✨️ Thank you understand
    alittle better now❤❤

  • @YOLO09122
    @YOLO09122 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Yes, he checks on me indrectly
    Yes, he supports me silently
    Yes, he listens even when he doesnot speak much.
    But all I want is him. I can tell him what he wants to know; I can explain his misunderstanding; why doesn't he choose to ask me directly? Before I met him, I handled my own problems. It matters to feel love, not to help me solve my problem.

  • @mebithajames6010
    @mebithajames6010 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's very true... Thank you for sharing this.. I didn't even know about this part..

  • @Thoughtful-thirstle
    @Thoughtful-thirstle 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My married friend ended friendship with me because he is not able end the day with out talking to me, he thought he is addicted but I am still in pain and not able to move on, he is happy in his life. Don’t get attached to anyone

  • @JJ-nn3xi
    @JJ-nn3xi 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Be realistic folks. If someone ignores you, it does not mean anything other than the fact that they are ignoring you. Just leave the person and walk away maintaining your dignity! don’t fall into the toxic trap. If they like you they will follow you, otherwise they won’t, be happy either way!

  • @pkp1865
    @pkp1865 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you 😊

  • @franleibhardt141
    @franleibhardt141 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes. ❤

  • @dominiquelavoie6648
    @dominiquelavoie6648 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Real!🎉

  • @Missbrdl
    @Missbrdl 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    He already clearly said there's nothing between us, these are only attraction, this is not love, go live your life happily, he is ignoring me and he is silent because he doesn't love me I'm not the person he wants😂 but he should clear all these things before we attached to each other😢

  • @JannlyGetsie
    @JannlyGetsie 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much because I deeply in trouble with my boyfriend

  • @YOLO09122
    @YOLO09122 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Even I understand him; I cannot build a relationship when he insists on ignoring me. I change my reaction in too many ways to find a road for our relationship, to make him feel comfortable. But nothing works. What should I do? Left and convine myself that I am nothing to him.

    • @anzu6895
      @anzu6895 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm in the same situation as you

    • @Monika23ization
      @Monika23ization 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      He's definitely not in love with you!

    • @YOLO09122
      @YOLO09122 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ only he knows that

    • @YOLO09122
      @YOLO09122 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@anzu6895 God bless you😘

    • @anzu6895
      @anzu6895 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@YOLO09122 for the time being, ignore him. If he values you he will come, he will reflect on what you have done for him.

  • @ss-xe4jn
    @ss-xe4jn 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so so much...am so relieved bcoz i had been overthinking lot.....been experiencing same for some years...anger,pushing away etc

  • @MonicaGomes-l3i
    @MonicaGomes-l3i 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Yea this msg has helped me for understanding ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Isjmj
    @Isjmj 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He does all the above❤I am blessed, and so is he😘🙏🤝

  • @angeltaurus58
    @angeltaurus58 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I wish this all is True in Zee nd my case ...
    Missing u Zee seriously 😔

    • @louisehamilton1286
      @louisehamilton1286 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Trust keep Trusting l will be praying and know nothing is impossible with God and like that beautiful song by Don Moen GOD WILL MAKE A WAY. God bless you xx❤️❤️🙏

    • @angeltaurus58
      @angeltaurus58 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @louisehamilton1286 Thnku so much for ur prayers

  • @louisehamilton1286
    @louisehamilton1286 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This is sy beautiful and l have been experiencing exactly what this beautiful blessing and message has said to me I am speechless as it has confirmed so much what is happening with me with an amazing person, who l love passionately and intensely. I can't thank you enough for confirming something that has bothered me not knowing what was going on but now l know. Whoever you are who brought brought this amazing message l love you and may God bless you so very much as l can't control my tears 😢 l knew My Heavenly Precious Father would show me 😂 what was happening. Thank you My Loving Lord and KING OF KINGS AMEN ❤😂👑❤️🙏⚔️🛡️

  • @mariacristinaorgasan7855
    @mariacristinaorgasan7855 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for enlightenment ❤ i overthink the situation even if i don't have proof enough. ❤❤❤

  • @jenniferjulian4119
    @jenniferjulian4119 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for this video ❤I am going through the same thing

  • @marysuzettecatipon6147
    @marysuzettecatipon6147 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You have a point there. ❤

  • @F16wing
    @F16wing 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My husband loves me all the time, so this post is not for me. This post need a person 's critical thinking to figure out what the truth is. Ppl who ignore a person is mostly for a man who has low self esteem and mostly the guy has nothing to offer. My former classmate is like this with horrible low esteem and low confidence. I think ppl who are diagnosed with terrible vitrovirus disease has been suffering mental illness. Folks, never pick someone who could not spend time with u or they are mute weirdo. I never consider any guy who is shy or quiet as someone special or someone to whom i want to get to know about. I have no time to deal with any weiro with dysfunctional personality. The korean dramas are not realistic, and please do not allow anyone u care to watch them.

  • @DJUniMekaju
    @DJUniMekaju 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This actually sounds like what my husband and I were going through but that took some years after abuse and neglect. Now, my survival needs aren't being neglected anymore but he says he doesn't want to be with me yet he says he wants to take care of me for the rest of my life as a SAHM to our daughter in a house together... Not only that but my daughter and I have been noticing him looking at me in a way as if to get me to look back but it's so uncomfortable. It was funny cuz we were at a department store eating food. I was so hungry I kept moaning from enjoying it. He asked me what was wrong or going on twice. 😆 Can't deny this is way too confusing, and messes with my mind and heart too much though.

  • @nadjilab.madsig1231
    @nadjilab.madsig1231 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My current situation 💔😭

  • @franleibhardt141
    @franleibhardt141 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am confined to home because I'm unable to drive at present. Hes a good provider but would rather work constantly and see others without me. Never takes me out. I dont ask for much, would be nice once every 3 mths or so. No affection. I feel like the maid 🥺

  • @Isjmj
    @Isjmj 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I feel the same way🤝

  • @KoditsoeMorai
    @KoditsoeMorai 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much for sharing this helpful information I used to lose my mind when he starts ignoring me ❤❤❤

  • @DianeS-j3j
    @DianeS-j3j 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What about long distance relationships?

  • @JenkaMaria
    @JenkaMaria 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🙏 Thank you so much for sharing. I guess, that's the state, he's in for the last 4 weeks. Distant and calm.

  • @beenachacko4113
    @beenachacko4113 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Exactly...it's very true❤

  • @victorious-xs8od
    @victorious-xs8od 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you 😊

  • @lakshmipriya9855
    @lakshmipriya9855 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes ,of course it's true 😂

  • @mayizhikanswata9605
    @mayizhikanswata9605 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thankyou very much❤❤❤

  • @sangitasaikia2927
    @sangitasaikia2927 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much universe for everything ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Anjaliwhoelse_
    @Anjaliwhoelse_ 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ya that's helpful 💕

  • @stayreal120
    @stayreal120 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you beautiful soul ❤️

  • @berthavasquez1949
    @berthavasquez1949 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much for posting this because I don’t understand why a mango silent🎉

  • @idolcarol5264
    @idolcarol5264 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think it’s true!

  • @RukiJPT
    @RukiJPT 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank u for popping this video after everything happened😂💔

  • @journalistjude.ginuwinesqueen
    @journalistjude.ginuwinesqueen 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Okay!

  • @shrutisangavishrutisangavi965
    @shrutisangavishrutisangavi965 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    But he was obsessed withe that time but he is ignoring meike I am stranger....what to do?.....

  • @BananiRoy-u8h
    @BananiRoy-u8h 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is exactly

  • @DreemVandariya-l5g
    @DreemVandariya-l5g 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you 🤍

  • @Extraordinary15
    @Extraordinary15 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How much the time😊.....its a question in this journey😊

  • @tikatizyanendhlovu4607
    @tikatizyanendhlovu4607 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very wired just came across this video after being ignored, I can't take this anymore I feel like his messing around with my emotions. 😔

  • @vyshnaveenagakumar2928
    @vyshnaveenagakumar2928 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    GREAT ,GREAT, GREAT, GREAT, GREAT, MADAM SUPERB AND VERY ,VERY FANTASTIC, THANKS A LOT MADAM, A VERY GOOD VIDEO MAM, THANKS A LOT MAM, 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 NAMASTE

  • @sangeetadhar4127
    @sangeetadhar4127 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    He is doing the same with me.
    I am confused if he loves me❤

    • @tanjakramar9151
      @tanjakramar9151 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How about your inner feeling?

    • @tanjakramar9151
      @tanjakramar9151 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If you are confused, try to ask your inner feeling.

  • @Elizabethanadozie
    @Elizabethanadozie หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Nice

  • @happywanderer111
    @happywanderer111 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you

  • @MeA79
    @MeA79 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Is there any man if so then please do let me know if its exactly true because my man is showing mix emotions in front of me he forgets everything just reminding me and then on phone he shows mix emotion sometimes get ghost for 8 days then came back all this in loop

  • @joycegoes266
    @joycegoes266 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Today is 'our lady' at our house. You come for 'our lady'. Today evening at 6.30 is our lady.

  • @nurulnasrudin
    @nurulnasrudin 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes thank you because I love you full

  • @NehaRana-h8k
    @NehaRana-h8k 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you❤🌹

    • @suhaibkhalid2792
      @suhaibkhalid2792 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Are you doing job in Amazon olching dmu 1 , germany?

    • @suhaibkhalid2792
      @suhaibkhalid2792 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Are you doing job in Amazon , olching dmu 1 , germany?

  • @Gallorette11
    @Gallorette11 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think there's truth to this video, but that truth is a slippery slope. The kind of thing we hold onto when dumped and dont get the real reason from them why they left. We all hurt, we all screw up, but at the end of the day, my story is I had to quit investing in his coming back. Don't see him busting his butt to understand MY SIDE. All I ever got were lame excuses that rang false, and the person I was involved with disappearing. Occasionally a shell of him would reappear, never close to the bulldog I had known. Ah, sorry if I hurt your feelings, ah shucks...you guys know this kind of crap. I finally had to say to myself, whatever he feels (when we were together he seemed as in love as I was) his behavior is not invested in what we had. He's been safely behind a wall since the split. I've had enough. I loved him cared, hoped he'd come clean. Never happened. Ok, time to move in a new direction that supports me, meets MY needs. All that stand by your man stuff works best if HE STANDS BY ME reciprocally

  • @Che_etah
    @Che_etah 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Exactly 🎉

  • @ponakaveena2496
    @ponakaveena2496 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    S it is happening with me❤

  • @NJM2904
    @NJM2904 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am a female. In this whole video, same points but it's me instead of he🤣

  • @Renee-nt9ws
    @Renee-nt9ws 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amen 🙏

  • @sreeparnaray7512
    @sreeparnaray7512 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Redge-
    @Redge- 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How about telling you that he loves you,but blocked you as you told him..

  • @hee_ra107
    @hee_ra107 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Rite!!!❤️

  • @beautyfashionandvlogsbysamayra
    @beautyfashionandvlogsbysamayra 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    But when i purposed him he ssid he dont feel thd same for me

  • @Vetri567
    @Vetri567 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mother of two kids

  • @osasieimadonmwuyi4853
    @osasieimadonmwuyi4853 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @ligiaproenca1211
    @ligiaproenca1211 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It is two sided not one sided

  • @katarina7292
    @katarina7292 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I ❤ my husband only

  • @iulia4147
    @iulia4147 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Could be true in some situations. But when this silence is too prolonged, risking to loose everything already...must be an other reason to do this. This is a nonsense.

  • @diamondlove6891
    @diamondlove6891 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    And behind this video is a bread crumber of a man 😂😂😂😂

  • @kalaikalaiseivi8921
    @kalaikalaiseivi8921 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sry no idea.....

  • @Ventfulmuch
    @Ventfulmuch 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    this is so stupid if a male loves you it should be upfront and loud, he’s selfish and only thinks about himself.

  • @mrs.shaluverma7412
    @mrs.shaluverma7412 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😯🙄

  • @geekgoddess3738
    @geekgoddess3738 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I don't even know anymore. I just want to be free from this crap that's all I know. Lmao

  • @ChristinaLubumad-l7u
    @ChristinaLubumad-l7u 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😂 Wahahaha another one talking to herself 😂