@@beardifull462 I´ve seen it actually happen lol & they were the same exact ones quick to call somebody a square because they didn´t give into peer pressure 😂
I’m definitely a square and I’m proud of it. I stay out the way and mind my own business. I don’t drink, smoke, go out clubbing, etc. instead I Work my 9-5, I box 🥊, I go jogging 3x a week, I take my seamoss, water, vitamins, read, play guitar, I love protecting my peace and I’m not afraid to walk away from anything that disturbs it. Peace and love family 💯🙏🏽☮️
I'm a prior military and most dudes that are in special operations units are normal looking dudes. Not yolked, not loud but always situationally aware. The more anonymous the better.
One of my first jiu jitsu instructors spent 20 years in the Army Special Forces. He had a black belt in jiu jitsu and shotokan karate. When Sept 11 happened, the US selected the baddest 200 (approx) soldiers to send in and he was one of them. He was already in his 40s at this time and literally all these dudes did was hunt. An absolute high level killer and you would never know it. So unassuming and not physically imposing in the least. I promise you better not judge men based on their looks because you will be humbled
If someone didn't know your story, Big Herc, they may make the mistake of thinking you're a square from how you speak .. Then if they made the mistake of crossing that line, then it's wigsplit time.
Most fighter's rather they've trained and competed in pro or amateur boxing,high level grappling and other disciplines, possess a calm and confident poise but will wreck you in a physical altercation. Sparring extensively, and having such a high fight I.Q create self awareness,which provides no need to over compensate in other areas.
"A 9 to 5 will beat 10 to life any day." plus, u can always legal hustle on the side to get successful/follow your dreams even if it takes a while. I took the square route, thank God, and my life is good.
I'm a trained martial artist and made the mistake of betting some noodles with this cat. When I hit his chest, I thought my knuckles broke. When he hit me. I thought my soul left my body. All bad. Definitely an ego check. I was 32 and he was 52. I figured "it's just jail right?" WRONG. He had already been down 25 years. In his past. He was just passing through. I was hitting STEEL. Push-ups on his knuckles for decades. Pull ups on his fingertips. Best chess player. Speaks 6 languages. Great mentor. He gave me the best advice ever! "If you ever come back in here.... I'll kill you!" Been a square ever since. ❤
After I graduated college with a degree in accounting my cousin acted like It was some kind of L, and I was stupid for falling for the college scam and he was going to be a big player with no degree. Here we are 30 years old, I work from home 2 days a week and pull 6 figures before taxes. And he drives for Amazon for 18 dollars an hour and still struts around like he is king sh!t lol. It’s pretty sad
That totally cool, look into becoming a translator so you can make money off doing something you enjoy. And also hit the gym and take boxing or mma classes so you know how to defense yourself. If a bully tries to test you because he thinks you’re a nerd show him whats up.
"It's hip to be square!" Some of the most solid men I have ever known were "squares" and they don't give a DAMN what anyone else thinks- they are there to protect their family and community. Point blank, period. And as far as throwing down? I remember watching this unfold at wrestling tourney's as a kid.....you learn real quick to respect that "nerd" with the glasses who is sitting on his daddy's knee, when he gets up, removes his glasses and steps to the center of the mat to whoop that ass in 30 seconds flat. Humility and humbleness are straight ALPHA characteristics, no doubt. Big Ups Big Herc, bringing the heat!
I love how these videos are the types of videos that Wes Watson should be listening to. Herc put Wes on game years ago and Wes has become the loudest asshole on the internet. Much love to herc for always keeping it 100
I'm in agreement with BigHerc. For me, Alpha is about mastering, or being at the top. There are two forms of Alpha(I'm making this up as I type). There is mastering of ones' self, and mastering your environment. While it is okay to be emotional, if you cannot master your emotions and how a person reacts to given situations then the outcome will end badly. It will needlessly escalate to a much bigger problem. Mastering the environment is learning a skill that allows the person to overcome and succeed in that environment. People that are repeated offenders, angry and chaotic, are riding the waves of their environment. They do not have a paddle and the destination will not be good. There is a side note, which is, that mastering your environment does not mean you are an alpha is another domain. The greatest UFC fighter is not going to win against a Ranger Vet in their own expertise. The last point would be that being an Alpha does not mean only about beating the breaks off of someone. There is one guy by the name of Norman Borlaug, who altered the genetics of wheat to increase the yield in difficult to grow places. Googled him just now, and it basically says he's save 1 billion lives by preventing starvation, death from disease. That is power. Being square is being Alpha.
I used to be a real wild card. Off the hook. Now I’m all grown up and a family man. It’s hip to be square. Just can’t be afraid to sew your wild oats. I feel if we are lucky enough to grow up as men we tend to calm down and become more centered. Life is good these days no more nights in jail, no more narcotics and time with the kids. That’s what’s up.
Going legit and having money and safety. I thought that was the goal to taking all these dumb risks. Taking care of your family and not having a boss is alpha.
The Idea Is To Defuse Hyper Situations And Control Your Emotions in A Way Where You Don't Effect Snybody Else In A Disrespectful/offensive manner. Peace!
Thats the gnarliest thing with those special forces guys, they could have killed dozens of people and you really wouldnt even know it unless the word gets around
Hi, Bigherc916, my name is Malcolm White, and I just wanted to say that I am such a big fan of your TH-cam educational channel. The contents that you post about are so amazingly spot-on, and also, the value that you add to your video topics are so absolutely incredible, and insightful, as well. Please keep continuing to do this brilliantly motivational channel up, and running, my good friend 💯👍💯👍💯👍!!! PS: Do you think that you can please do a video topic, and analysis, about why men should have street smarts in their own lives? If you don't mind?
Not ever danger's person is some one who can beat you. the can sure make your life a living hell. Try to be friends with every one you never know who you may make an enemy of.
Except it does sometimes. This is why young kids get violently bullied into that life. You have to be criminal to avoid being predated on if you live somewhere like that.
I don’t consider my self a alpha or beta male . I’m an omega male. And if your omega. The average man can’t be this. A lot of platforms don’t even talk about this type of man.
Herc, when you mention who you would call a "beta", you are really just describing that somebody that is way too insecure about being disliked. They're the kinds of people who don't realize that the people who are meant for them will be meant for them and those who aren't just aren't. It's better to be the square with self-worth.
With me being Black, I'll have to say that maybe 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 it's something for enough of the Black community to hear. Though, FYI, he is not directing anything towards the Black community with this video. It's a teaching moment with the video.
It's better to be a square then to act gangster and end up early in a rectangle box
Or end up getting locked up & going to protective custody 😂🤣
@king_oxj lol that to lol good point 😅
@@beardifull462 I´ve seen it actually happen lol & they were the same exact ones quick to call somebody a square because they didn´t give into peer pressure 😂
@king_oxj lol in that case a square is now my favorite shape 😂
Right
9 to 5’s saves lives.
I’m definitely a square and I’m proud of it. I stay out the way and mind my own business. I don’t drink, smoke, go out clubbing, etc. instead I Work my 9-5, I box 🥊, I go jogging 3x a week, I take my seamoss, water, vitamins, read, play guitar, I love protecting my peace and I’m not afraid to walk away from anything that disturbs it. Peace and love family 💯🙏🏽☮️
Rather be a square than end up in a 6x8 square.
Long-term discipline is Alpha
Crashing out for clout is Beta
The ones that follow have no courage.
I always was taught loud is usually weak quiet can be very VERY dangerous
Talking the MOST while, reflectively speaking 🪞🪞🪞🪞🪞 in regards to their own everyday lives, having the MOST problems in life
speak softly and carry a big stick
The ones who are loud are usually the first to fold in a real situation
The Alpha/Beta idea is used way too much on the internet. Humans aren't wolf packs.
I'm a prior military and most dudes that are in special operations units are normal looking dudes. Not yolked, not loud but always situationally aware. The more anonymous the better.
One of my first jiu jitsu instructors spent 20 years in the Army Special Forces. He had a black belt in jiu jitsu and shotokan karate. When Sept 11 happened, the US selected the baddest 200 (approx) soldiers to send in and he was one of them. He was already in his 40s at this time and literally all these dudes did was hunt. An absolute high level killer and you would never know it. So unassuming and not physically imposing in the least. I promise you better not judge men based on their looks because you will be humbled
What does this have to be with being a square exactly?
@@ronmckoy7085 Did you watch the video at all?
If someone didn't know your story, Big Herc, they may make the mistake of thinking you're a square from how you speak .. Then if they made the mistake of crossing that line, then it's wigsplit time.
I'm a square. Mom's always told me, to watch out for the quiet one's
Look at Wes Watson. All muscles tattoos and screaming but no real men respect that. A solid man is well put together and respectful.
Being a square millionaire is dope
It’s been harder to be square than anything else in my life. It so easy to just say “f it”
#Factz Saying "F it" is easy to do, hard to get out of.
Most fighter's rather they've trained and competed in pro or amateur boxing,high level grappling and other disciplines, possess a calm and confident poise but will wreck you in a physical altercation. Sparring extensively, and having such a high fight I.Q create self awareness,which provides no need to over compensate in other areas.
"A 9 to 5 will beat 10 to life any day." plus, u can always legal hustle on the side to get successful/follow your dreams even if it takes a while. I took the square route, thank God, and my life is good.
Thank You for making this video sir. This is much needed information for all young men going down the wrong paths in life.
I'm a trained martial artist and made the mistake of betting some noodles with this cat. When I hit his chest, I thought my knuckles broke. When he hit me. I thought my soul left my body. All bad. Definitely an ego check. I was 32 and he was 52. I figured "it's just jail right?" WRONG. He had already been down 25 years. In his past. He was just passing through. I was hitting STEEL. Push-ups on his knuckles for decades. Pull ups on his fingertips. Best chess player. Speaks 6 languages. Great mentor. He gave me the best advice ever! "If you ever come back in here.... I'll kill you!" Been a square ever since. ❤
After I graduated college with a degree in accounting my cousin acted like It was some kind of L, and I was stupid for falling for the college scam and he was going to be a big player with no degree. Here we are 30 years old, I work from home 2 days a week and pull 6 figures before taxes. And he drives for Amazon for 18 dollars an hour and still struts around like he is king sh!t lol. It’s pretty sad
I’m a nerd in general my mom got pissed off at me for learning a different language which is Japanese shit Is sad.
That totally cool, look into becoming a translator so you can make money off doing something you enjoy. And also hit the gym and take boxing or mma classes so you know how to defense yourself.
If a bully tries to test you because he thinks you’re a nerd show him whats up.
"It's hip to be square!" Some of the most solid men I have ever known were "squares" and they don't give a DAMN what anyone else thinks- they are there to protect their family and community. Point blank, period. And as far as throwing down? I remember watching this unfold at wrestling tourney's as a kid.....you learn real quick to respect that "nerd" with the glasses who is sitting on his daddy's knee, when he gets up, removes his glasses and steps to the center of the mat to whoop that ass in 30 seconds flat. Humility and humbleness are straight ALPHA characteristics, no doubt. Big Ups Big Herc, bringing the heat!
✅POSITIVITY
✅MOTIVATION
❌AVERAGENESS
YOU KNOW HOW WE DO IT OVER HERE
I love how these videos are the types of videos that Wes Watson should be listening to. Herc put Wes on game years ago and Wes has become the loudest asshole on the internet. Much love to herc for always keeping it 100
We have to get back to just being a MAN and stop placing it in "boxes" with names that have connotations of receiving less favor in life.
I'm in agreement with BigHerc. For me, Alpha is about mastering, or being at the top. There are two forms of Alpha(I'm making this up as I type). There is mastering of ones' self, and mastering your environment. While it is okay to be emotional, if you cannot master your emotions and how a person reacts to given situations then the outcome will end badly. It will needlessly escalate to a much bigger problem. Mastering the environment is learning a skill that allows the person to overcome and succeed in that environment. People that are repeated offenders, angry and chaotic, are riding the waves of their environment. They do not have a paddle and the destination will not be good.
There is a side note, which is, that mastering your environment does not mean you are an alpha is another domain. The greatest UFC fighter is not going to win against a Ranger Vet in their own expertise.
The last point would be that being an Alpha does not mean only about beating the breaks off of someone. There is one guy by the name of Norman Borlaug, who altered the genetics of wheat to increase the yield in difficult to grow places. Googled him just now, and it basically says he's save 1 billion lives by preventing starvation, death from disease. That is power. Being square is being Alpha.
Michael Jai White is a square
plays billards
collects comic books
doesn't curse
speaks proper english
And that's why he's successful by living life on his terms
I used to be a real wild card. Off the hook. Now I’m all grown up and a family man. It’s hip to be square. Just can’t be afraid to sew your wild oats. I feel if we are lucky enough to grow up as men we tend to calm down and become more centered. Life is good these days no more nights in jail, no more narcotics and time with the kids. That’s what’s up.
Thanks!
Only people concerned with phrases like beta and square are mentally still in high school
Never wanting to make sh!t out of their life beyond high school
Going legit and having money and safety. I thought that was the goal to taking all these dumb risks.
Taking care of your family and not having a boss is alpha.
More people need to hear this
The Idea Is To Defuse Hyper Situations And Control Your Emotions in A Way Where You Don't Effect Snybody Else In A Disrespectful/offensive manner. Peace!
Thats the gnarliest thing with those special forces guys, they could have killed dozens of people and you really wouldnt even know it unless the word gets around
“Hip to be square” is more than just a song about society and the importance of trend, but also a personal statement about the band it self.
Money just enhances whatever you already are
Herc just dropped some real game
Hi, Bigherc916, my name is Malcolm White, and I just wanted to say that I am such a big fan of your TH-cam educational channel. The contents that you post about are so amazingly spot-on, and also, the value that you add to your video topics are so absolutely incredible, and insightful, as well. Please keep continuing to do this brilliantly motivational channel up, and running, my good friend 💯👍💯👍💯👍!!! PS: Do you think that you can please do a video topic, and analysis, about why men should have street smarts in their own lives? If you don't mind?
Not ever danger's person is some one who can beat you. the can sure make your life a living hell. Try to be friends with every one you never know who you may make an enemy of.
Being part of a gang is beta
The person who said that is insecure as hell
Why are those same types of people, who'll clown 🤡 the wrong person as being a "square", the most unsuccessful people in everyday life?
Herc have you seen new Wes Watson drama? It's priceless xddd
Most special ops guys, look like regular people
Except it does sometimes. This is why young kids get violently bullied into that life. You have to be criminal to avoid being predated on if you live somewhere like that.
Thanks Big Herc! 💪🏾💯
You bet
I love being myself
At 4:39, Wes Watson reference I'm sure.
I don’t consider my self a alpha or beta male . I’m an omega male. And if your omega. The average man can’t be this. A lot of platforms don’t even talk about this type of man.
Herc. Those guys you mention are no match for a trained fighter.
It doesn't. Being a square shows that you have enough discipline to stay focused on your goals and to avoid any bull junk that comes your way
In all reality, it is better to be real. So if you are a square, be so square that corruption cannot pierce your heart 😎
I was wondering when you were going to talk about Wes Watson!
Haha just kidding.
Big Herc can we get an update interview with “Benny Laws”??
wise words
Tell us about your life on the military base
The real ones are actually squares. Free Game
Herc, when you mention who you would call a "beta", you are really just describing that somebody that is way too insecure about being disliked. They're the kinds of people who don't realize that the people who are meant for them will be meant for them and those who aren't just aren't. It's better to be the square with self-worth.
So... the opposite of Wes Watson?
Hey Wes....
You can be the alpha male of all alpha males and still be a square 📦
Is this another video for the black community Big Herc?
This is an issue for all men
With me being Black, I'll have to say that maybe 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 it's something for enough of the Black community to hear. Though, FYI, he is not directing anything towards the Black community with this video. It's a teaching moment with the video.
@ true but it’s usually a black community acting a fool
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You're a square, man. You're a little Ewok square. So be a square and tell kids to be square
Hi Big Herc you are the squarest of squares I think you are lying about your criminal past
😬 Naw bigg Herc, I'm yoked and buffed and I'm benchin 425 Lbs my 19 inch Pythons intimidate weak weasels all day long, Kung fu Joe cant whup me.
They woop in other areas of life
Keep telling yourself that
We know you talking about WW haha ,you made him ,Steroids got into his head
Wow i see what ur doing man LORD JESUS BLESS U
U ARE A REAL BIG BRO TO ALL OF US
Appreciate you
U are a very kool dude bro