Im a white mom to a mixed son. His bio father and my insane parents and sister filled my sons mind with lies til he cut me out of his life. I went no contact with him 7 years ago and refuse to help him in any way. To all the people he and they hurt. I'm somehow still the one in the wrong for choosing myself and my health and mentality. Oh well
NTA OP's daughter made her bed, let her lie in it while OP protects her mental health. Reminds me of the movie "Imitation of Life" about a girl who passes for white and a real life story a colleague told about friends who lived in apartheid South Africa. The family had relatives could pass for white and who were given the option of officially being reclassified as such. That branch of the family choose to be known as white. 10 years later my colleague's friends get a knock at the door, late at night. They open the door and it's their white relatives, on their doorstep, in tears, begging to be let back into the family because "the whites are horrible! We had no idea". Without a word being spoken, the door was shut in their faces. You pays your money and you takes your choice.
Boyfriend story, Please, listen to the commenters that said to run. His behavior will NOT get better and WILL escalate. Furthermore, when/if you have children, it will transfer to them. Again, please run. I have been through this.
Im a white mom to a mixed son. His bio father and my insane parents and sister filled my sons mind with lies til he cut me out of his life. I went no contact with him 7 years ago and refuse to help him in any way. To all the people he and they hurt. I'm somehow still the one in the wrong for choosing myself and my health and mentality. Oh well
College fund story,
What you do is, wait until she turns 18. Then she can take over the account without fear that her father will take it.
NTA OP's daughter made her bed, let her lie in it while OP protects her mental health.
Reminds me of the movie "Imitation of Life" about a girl who passes for white and a real life story a colleague told about friends who lived in apartheid South Africa.
The family had relatives could pass for white and who were given the option of officially being reclassified as such. That branch of the family choose to be known as white.
10 years later my colleague's friends get a knock at the door, late at night. They open the door and it's their white relatives, on their doorstep, in tears, begging to be let back into the family because "the whites are horrible! We had no idea". Without a word being spoken, the door was shut in their faces.
You pays your money and you takes your choice.
Ì HATE OP'S BOY-FRIEND
FOR STEAL OP'S
TRAIN SET THAT SHE
INHERITED . I HATE HIM
EVEN MORE FOR SELLING
THE TRAIN SET.
Boyfriend story,
Please, listen to the commenters that said to run. His behavior will NOT get better and WILL escalate. Furthermore, when/if you have children, it will transfer to them. Again, please run. I have been through this.
Why is the voice so high and fast? Its almost unlistenable:(