Story 1 OP's brother is a loser. He dumped OP when she was 6, but now he expects her to raise all his children! She is already raising his eldest child! Finding a group home for the kids is a good idea. OP can visit them and oversee their welfare. OP is only 20 and trying to complete her education. She can't be expected to raise all her brother's children.
Story 2: I was gonna say YTA until OP said she’d pay the daughter and let her bring friends over. Sounds like a sweet deal to me. What more does the daughter want? What a brat!
Story 1: Sounds like Cousin #3 just volunteered to take the kids.
Story 1 OP's brother is a loser. He dumped OP when she was 6, but now he expects her to raise all his children! She is already raising his eldest child! Finding a group home for the kids is a good idea. OP can visit them and oversee their welfare. OP is only 20 and trying to complete her education. She can't be expected to raise all her brother's children.
Story 2: I was gonna say YTA until OP said she’d pay the daughter and let her bring friends over. Sounds like a sweet deal to me. What more does the daughter want? What a brat!
Mia, in the first story, sounds like a spoiled child.