Casket Lowering in a Conventional Cemetery Burial

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  • ‪@GailRubin‬ recorded this example of how a casket is lowered into the grave in a conventional cemetery burial.
    A team of two workers for the cemetery remove the supports under the casket, allowing the weight of the casket to be supported by the green lowering straps. The metal framework around the grave has poles that rotate, allowing the straps to extend downward, lowering the casket into the grave. Once the casket touches the earth, the straps are pulled out from underneath and rewound on the poles. The team removes the metal framework before the completion of the funeral service.
    This example is typical of burial in a conventional cemetery. In a green burial, often individuals with hand-held ropes or straps lower biodegradable caskets into a shallower grave in a green or hybrid cemetery.
    For more information, read this blog post: agoodgoodbye.com/funeral-home...

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  • @ImGoingSupersonic
    @ImGoingSupersonic หลายเดือนก่อน

    Always likes the cheesy blue velvet covering the casket lowering apparatus.
    Its a touch of your subconscious and makes it look more professional.

  • @cfbodman2
    @cfbodman2 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Back in the early 90's I didn't have a helper, had to do it all by myself. It was hard doing the children's burials

    • @theknight45videos
      @theknight45videos 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did two myself back to back a month ago

    • @Ele11527
      @Ele11527 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That means you have a heart. It would be very difficult for me to do that as well.

    • @ImGoingSupersonic
      @ImGoingSupersonic หลายเดือนก่อน

      Seems like those being smaller, they would be easier.

  • @michaeld.5699
    @michaeld.5699 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Rest in peace

  • @michaelaburns734
    @michaelaburns734 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I just buried my mom and Grandma today. I was sad to see them go in July alone.

    • @marciojjj
      @marciojjj 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😢. Espero que você fique bem!
      🫂 desde São Paulo city/BR

  • @kevinbriner3811
    @kevinbriner3811 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This was literally what I was looking for, I always wondered how they put the casket in and removed the metal frame.
    My Dad just passed away A week and a half ago and I just visited his grave today and was kind of thinking about that. Sometimes it's easier to think about the process and take a break from thinking about the huge loss of a great person.

  • @SpongeBobNumber1Fan2004
    @SpongeBobNumber1Fan2004 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is what I want when I pass away and of course I wanna be buried in the casket but I wonfmder how many feet does it take to go down???

    • @JohnDoe-gh8sk
      @JohnDoe-gh8sk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      6 ft I think

  • @katieweller5943
    @katieweller5943 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Gail, my mom passed away on Thursday, October 19th, 2023.

    • @GailRubin
      @GailRubin  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh, I am so sorry to hear that. My condolences.

    • @kimberlyrichardson4462
      @kimberlyrichardson4462 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am sorry to hear that. It's a lonely feeling, but you will be ok

  • @theresachiorazzi4571
    @theresachiorazzi4571 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Why do they wait for everyone to leave then lower the casket.

    • @madeleinebaier5347
      @madeleinebaier5347 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It doesn't always happen like that. When the casket containing my mom's remains(which also contained my dad's ashes), we stayed until the casket was lowered and it looked exactly like this.

    • @bjorndahl3912
      @bjorndahl3912 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If Something goes wrong:)

    • @Coordinator61
      @Coordinator61 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thats the fun part.

    • @theknight45videos
      @theknight45videos 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Sometimes it can be a not-so-pretty process like if the hole was dug in a bad spot. Maybe that spot is wet, lots of rock, caving in etc. maybe the casket goes in cockeyed and one of the guys goes “hey jerk if toward the left a little” and you hear a loud thud. Just not the prettiest look when paying for a premium funeral. Deaths aren’t cheap, and most funeral homes cemeteries etc often try to sell a luxury appeal. The lowering wouldn’t necessarily fit that appeal. Death is supposed to be a gentle and delicate time, and lowering the body could be not pleasant especially with how rough it’s handled, which is inevitable. It also gives us more privacy when doing our job which helps with concentration. We’re not heartless, I promise that. Imagine if you had an extremely upset and grieving family watching you while you worked. That kind of pressure could potentially lead to someone screwing up. It all really just comes down to a safety thing

    • @billydixon7380
      @billydixon7380 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Equipment most time are old the maintenance is not up to date so to prevent the casket from falling and strap’s giving away the just wait for everyone to leave

  • @Tatortot318
    @Tatortot318 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I always thought they laid 2x4 under the casket to make the straps slide out easier, could be wrong?

    • @paulroy9148
      @paulroy9148 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No the vault bottom that was put in the grave that they didn't show, has ribs formed in the bottom that raise the casket just enough to pull the straps out.

  • @RicardoManuelArana
    @RicardoManuelArana 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How do funerals work?. I mean, Why some have processions and graveside services?, while others have it at a Church?...
    Others are buried without people present, or probably one member just watching from a distance?... Just seeking info.

    • @GailRubin
      @GailRubin  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There are a wide range of options for funerals and memorial services, based on the deceased and the family's preferences, religion (or lack thereof), disposition method, etc. You might want to check out my book, A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don't Plan to Die, which covers many of your questions.

  • @thomastrainsmore2010
    @thomastrainsmore2010 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why do they put vaults over the casket for?

    • @GailRubin
      @GailRubin  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The vault or liner helps hold up the earth as the casket and body decompose. It prevents graves from sinking or collapsing over time, keeping an even surface in the cemetery grounds.

    • @thomastrainsmore2010
      @thomastrainsmore2010 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@GailRubin Oh wow

    • @johnblaesel5493
      @johnblaesel5493 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GailRubinHow long have they been using burial vaults? I’m guessing about 70 years.

    • @r.j.dunnill1465
      @r.j.dunnill1465 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@johnblaesel5493 They've been in use a lot longer than that.

  • @mollybrennan5453
    @mollybrennan5453 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm glad i didn't see my 3 grandparents go down we in the chapel area and the casket left us

  • @thomasthompson5546
    @thomasthompson5546 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's not 6 feet anymore because they have vaults in the ground 4 feet now

    • @johnblaesel5493
      @johnblaesel5493 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think the 6 foot standard was established before burial vaults so animals could not dig up the remains.

  • @user-mi9qs5dp5m
    @user-mi9qs5dp5m 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In the city they wait till everyone leaves but they don't do it in the country I wonder that myself

  • @natalieryan6026
    @natalieryan6026 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So if it goes down 6ft how do they get those green straps back so fast? I mean 6ft seems far down

    • @Lugh444
      @Lugh444 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Each bar rolls up some of the slack on each side.
      The bars are already several feet apart from each other.

    • @johnblaesel5493
      @johnblaesel5493 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Actually they don’t necessarily bury people 6 feet down anymore because they put the casket in a burial vault. It could be shallower. The 6 foot standard was established before vaults so coyotes or dogs or bears, etc. could not dig up the remains.

    • @teachccd
      @teachccd 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Lugh444you’d still need six feet on each side if the casket is lowered a full six feet.

    • @shaynewheeler9249
      @shaynewheeler9249 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @ItsMyLifeDaralynn
      @ItsMyLifeDaralynn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@johnblaesel5493 Thanks for sharing this information .

  • @mikecooper5604
    @mikecooper5604 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i dont know why we dont use them lifts in the UK much easier

  • @copper12heavy69
    @copper12heavy69 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't understand what mechanism is used. Friction, hydraulic, electric? How does it lower so slowly but is easily wound up by hand?

    • @GailRubin
      @GailRubin  ปีที่แล้ว

      That's a great question - I didn't see an electrical connection. Not sure - will try to find out.

    • @slobodanmilosevicsrj41
      @slobodanmilosevicsrj41 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The poles turn, unraveling the support therefore lowering the casket into the grave

    • @forkidzbykidz2024
      @forkidzbykidz2024 ปีที่แล้ว

      It can either be lowered by a hand crank or the self lowering mode. I think the self lowering mode is used when the casket is on the straps and the worker flips the switch to unlock the moving parts and the weight of the casket pushes the straps causing the poles to turn and allow the straps to go lower until the casket reaches the bottom

    • @forkidzbykidz2024
      @forkidzbykidz2024 ปีที่แล้ว

      I bet if they pulled the trigger more, the casket would go faster. I lost my great uncle recently and went to his funeral and looked closely at the machine that lowered him to the ground and there was a small trigger on the end that unlocked the machine. His casket lowered fast. That casket in that video either moved slowly because the machine triggered wasn’t pulled enough, or it was pulled enough but the casket weight wasn’t that high causing the machine to lower the casket more slowly.

    • @forkidzbykidz2024
      @forkidzbykidz2024 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And if a family member or friend of yours was in the casket, just wanted to say I’m sorry for your loss. I get the feeling. Like I said I lost my great uncle who was like a second grandfather to me and always said that I was his main man. I was very close to him and I will miss him like heck. 2022, 2021, and 2020 were not the greatest years for me. 2020 was the worst for the world. But if that was a person close to you, that person would want you to stay strong in the tough times and keep going on, doing the right thing. That’s what my great uncle would want for me. I’m just trying to say that I am sorry for your loss.

  • @MrMatthewmullen100
    @MrMatthewmullen100 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is the puepose of the green carpet ?

    • @GailRubin
      @GailRubin  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The green carpet covers the dirt that was excavated from the grave. Once the funeral attendees leave, the workers remove the carpet and replace the earth.

    • @paulroy9148
      @paulroy9148 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Astetic just to cover the dirt so you don't see it. Plainly just for looks and keep your shoes clean.

    • @vincentnichols402
      @vincentnichols402 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sumple to hide the ugly dirt from people DA

  • @ellexking9136
    @ellexking9136 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    With all of the horror stories about what happens to Loved Ones after years of The Casket being underground, and the Burial Vault isn't garenteed to Protect the Remains, I'm Getting Cremated!!

    • @actual_doge3221
      @actual_doge3221 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's also why I'm afraid of being buried. Also I would prefer if my family wanted to visit me they don't have to go in public do it.

    • @JohnDoe-gh8sk
      @JohnDoe-gh8sk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m gonna get cremated and probably have my urn buried at a cemetery

  • @dougdreyer4962
    @dougdreyer4962 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The round corners are better

  • @thomastrainsmore2010
    @thomastrainsmore2010 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Do they have caskets in 2023

    • @GailRubin
      @GailRubin  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes, there are lots of caskets these days. Not sure I understand the question.

    • @thomastrainsmore2010
      @thomastrainsmore2010 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@GailRubin It's the right question

    • @johnblaesel5493
      @johnblaesel5493 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@thomastrainsmore2010What do u mean “Do they have caskets in 2023”? Of course they do. Cremations and urns are becoming more popular but caskets and wakes will never go completely out of style.

    • @paulroy9148
      @paulroy9148 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes the one pictured looks like the ones manufactured at Angola prison in Louisiana. If you don't believe me look up caskets made at Angola

    • @r.j.dunnill1465
      @r.j.dunnill1465 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@paulroy9148 Jewish burials tend to use plain caskets, which will return to the earth.

  • @user-ed6wu1ev8p
    @user-ed6wu1ev8p 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    C est tout ce que vous,s avez a lldmontrer😢

  • @sallydeppe8575
    @sallydeppe8575 ปีที่แล้ว

    This must be a national veterans cemetery cus all headstones are flat and in a line and all flowers have been removed. Starkness...not for me and my family!

    • @GailRubin
      @GailRubin  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Actually, this is in a Jewish section of a memorial park. The tradition is to leave a stone rather than flowers.

    • @RicardoManuelArana
      @RicardoManuelArana 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GailRubin I realized from the star in the casket/coffin.