Narcissistic society. Smart phone and social media = it’s all a silly GAME Also , be the backup QB or Alpha “Guy friend” as it’s the best job in dating. It’s almost like being a real boyfriend but without the headaches or responsibilities
Good points Lloyd. Many people pick their job/career based on what they’re passionate about/interested in and not because of how much money it makes. This is why I think people in general shouldn’t put so much emphasis on how much their potential partner makes
The top reasons why women don’t find men attractive feminism, the media, the government, technology, and if you want me go in to detail in each one why I would be more than happy to explain my statement
Depends where you go. Latin social dance classes and socials are like 60:40 women to men. Rock climbing gyms are pretty even gender ratios. Wine bars are even gender ratios, but guys there tend to be gay so it's a great spot for straight guys to meet straight women. Theater groups are similar; even gender ratios but the guys are normally gay.
@@NelsonHopp i dont doubt that, however, these places are not made to find a partner specifically. Doing this in such places could land you in trouble or make things awkward for everyone. Women dont go out to meet men, they dont put themselves out in such situations. Thus my conclusion - women arr not interested in that.
Which life is more painful to live for people who are about to die or pass away? Is it their unbearable regrets while they have freedom? Or life in prison?
Fact 1: There's no greater time in history to be a woman than today. Fact 2: Being successful and good looking isn't good enough and we have to adapt to that. It's sink or swim as a man for dating, which one is it gonna be?
Those are your opinions dude. Not facts. You’re entitled to your opinion but not to list them as facts. Sexual assaults are on the rise again. Women are at least 7 times more likely to be victims. That’s easy? How do you define successful and good looking? Successful at what? Clearly not with women. And looks only get you so far. You have to have substance and emotional intelligence. And take what you learn from these influencers with a grain of salt
@@JohnPickup-CDHS-ze6qdboo hoo. A man can ruin a woman’s life too. A man getting ghosted by a woman is hardly ruining your life. A women getting SA’d by a man certainly is
@MrCjchamp - untrue. Reports of sexual assaults are up. If you include child molesting by women and prison rape, men are actually more likely to be victims than women. Not only that, but men and boys are less likely to taken seriously by authorities and women who assault boys not only do less time (even no time at all), even on the rare occasion of a conviction, but women who get pregnant by raping boys can (and have) sue said victim for child support once the victim turns 18. Yes! What a horrible place to be a woman!
i once observed in a crowded train station that when women who were not particularly pretty, received much more attention from the men in the crowd than men who were considered to be quite handsome, received little or no attention from the females in the crowd. this confirms the fact that men will hit on any women wether attractive or not.women on the other hand are much more fussy in this way
@@TheSingleGuy Can you please do a video on which life is more painful to live for people who are about to die or pass away very soon? Their unbearable regrets while having freedom? Or life in prison?
@@ghostflame9211 Unbearable regrets but have freedom vs life in prison, which one of these two is more painful to live for people who only have 1 or 2 years left to live?
There's really only one reason: all women now believe they are perfect and deserve a perfect man. They might settle for a 9 out of 10 for a one night stand and once she gets old enough, she go as low as an 8 out of 10 to marry, though she'll prob leave in 6-7 years, taking all his money and property with her. But a 10 or 11 out of 10 isn't settling for most of us.
I believe one reason is that women are attracted to personality more than looks. You can't really know someone's personality by looking at their profile on a dating app
I joined the Level Up Academy. If I think it will benefit me, I'll stick with it. I'm in a good spot when it comes to my dating profile as I'm getting dates almost every weekend and whatnot. Also because I am being careful avoiding something stupid, like that I dislike social media and not revealing too much about myself, like that I have a cute pet blue sartin. 🕊️ Just holding the women's interest is the hard part. From my experience, women in the city are easily overwhelmed and distracted compared to the ones in the burbs.
This guy cant perform miracles with advice some men gamed alot in youth, had bad luck with dental work, just overall had bad luck with the left and right connections of the body due to using one side more, and even more posture bullshit! THANKS THOUGH, THANKS FOR BEING YOU MY GUY
It’s not that they don’t like you. It’s just soo much competition so they can be picky asf. As long as a man of his purpose and confident you will attract some women.
FACTS. FOCUS on YOUR grind, and the women that SHOW interest in YOU. If you're not interested in the women interested in you, FOCUS back on your grind. There WILL be attractive women who are into you. You just gotta be patient, and NOT thirsty.
No. They don't want to actually do anything to earn the money. They just want the govt to give them money and the govt's money is mostly from men. More and more men are not even in the workforce.
This is all cool but the main problem I have is when women attribute poor character traits to you on the fact they just don’t find you attractive. Also add condescend to you as well(“well if men took better pictures, or if you had better hygiene” etc)
@@TheSingleGuy I want you to do a video on which one of these two life is more painful to live for people who are about to die or pass away very soon whether it's their unbearable regrets while having freedom or life in prison.
I don't know but I've noticed something new or probably I never noticed it because it didn't happen to me before but its almost as though now when you talk to women some of them think of it as war; like if you've just started a conversation and you don't even know but you're in war. I don't know if this makes sense but it wasn't like this before.
It's a competition between the two usually for some weird reason, it's something both my friend and I have noticed. A lot of the girls him and I have gone out with have each told us how "we work with them instead of compete against them" on dates and how it's a breath of fresh air. Pretty interesting to see someone else mention this... gonna screenshot it and show him 😂
Attracting women is very easy. Just flip the script, instead of putting women on the pedestal and hoping to be evaluated as a good boyfriend by the woman you like, do the exact opposite: put yourself on the pedestal and evaluate women, they must hope to be chosen by you and you will see that they will go crazy and will start chasing you like there's no tomorrow
Lol I think you are right. I did something similar to a massage therapist by accident then few minutes later it was already doggy style. Wtf if you don't put them on pedestal they can biologically feel it. It's easier if you are handsome bc it's real. Lol if you dislike them I think it's even stronger bc the odds are even worse to attain it.
@@danielszngirls you are 100% right, women are smart, they immediately feel and understand if you are a desperate guy willing to do everything just for sex or if you are a guy who does selection and is worth of chasing, this is the mistake that most guys do, they put women on the pedestal and the game is over just right from the beginning
How is that supposed to work if you’re an average guy? They will think an average guy doing this is being narcissistic, but if Chad does it, hes being confident.
@@MB_Biggie_Cheese "average guy" if you really wrote this and I am not drunk it already means that you see yourself as an average guy, and so you have a confidence problem, work on your confidence and you'll never see yourself as an average guy
Bro if you found your ideal girl, would you stay with her? Is it so difficult to find her? I mean you have a game and you are dating a lot, or you just don’t care and you happy where you are. Asking for curiosity
Women say they want a man to make 200k a year another said 500k a year preferably a Millionaire. Some said a billionaire or a trillionaire. Also be 6'5 feet and have 6 pack abs have a 6 inch Johnson and be 6 months out of a relationship.
The internet is not a representation of how the world really operates. The people that are being interviewed on the Streets or on these podcasts are chosen because they generate the most views. There are good men and women out there that arent so superficial as the people on the internet but ofcourse they are the loudest and it seems like everyone is like that. If all women were after millionares then humanity would not survive yet here we are. Stop watching these shit shows that turns people into pessimists
@@TheSingleGuy- sure if you’re over 6 foot tall and make a lot of money I’m sure you can. But if you don’t have those things I just don’t see how it’s possible in this day and age. So please tell me for a man that’s not 6 foot tall and doesn’t have a lot of money, how can he rig it in his favor?
You can’t generalise all women. It’s just not true. Go to the gym. Wear clothes that fit. Have a stubble bear. Wear a subtle cologne. Walk with confidence. Make good eye contact. It’s really simple. Unsubbed.
There is an exception to every rule and pattern. That said, if you can't engage in general statements, you can't discuss any rule or pattern in the world. Your advice is valid, but it is not so simple to follow. For many men, they have a lot of work to do to reach that point. I value your perspective, but it seems you are speaking from an outdated perspective. You are an older fellow, and expectations in dating were very different for your generation.
Yes fair enough. Yes 40 years old been studying dating content since 2013. It’s not easy but what I said is most of it. The rest is flirting, non verbal and verbal combined with playfulness and active listening.
People don’t understand supply and demand. Like anything in life it’s a supply and demand issue. Do I believe that men are also to blame for them not getting laid? Yes sure. But really it’s a supply and demand issue. If there are 100 men to 90 women. I’m sorry but u gonna struggle no matter what u really do. I’ve heard stories of chads straight 10 out of 10 dudes really struggling in dating just cause the options for women are never ending. If a chick is talking to let’s say 5 dudes and can be on dating apps etc and can basically have sex at a drop of a hat what chances do most average guys really have? Yea sure u can do all the red pill improvement crap which might key word is “ might” improve your chances with women. But at the same time not by that much. Again supply and demand. Also I’m not a black piller neither I think that crap is kinda dumb but black pill does have a lot of straight facts that are hard to argue against
Narcissistic society. Smart phone and social media = it’s all a silly GAME
Also , be the backup QB or Alpha “Guy friend” as it’s the best job in dating. It’s almost like being a real boyfriend but without the headaches or responsibilities
You mean the guy friend that plays cleanup whenever the girl gets ghosted?
Damn what a flex, “I was the one guy out of 1000 that got swiped right on” savage AF 😂.
This was an anomaly. I am not that great looking lol
@TheSingleGuy yes you are, stud muffin 😍
Ya I’m not surprised. I’m sure this is a
Frequent occurrence for him.
He didn't say she actually did it, only that she said she did.
Good points Lloyd. Many people pick their job/career based on what they’re passionate about/interested in and not because of how much money it makes. This is why I think people in general shouldn’t put so much emphasis on how much their potential partner makes
The top reasons why women don’t find men attractive feminism, the media, the government, technology, and if you want me go in to detail in each one why I would be more than happy to explain my statement
There are no women going out. All I see outside are old people, families, couples, groups of friends doing something together and single guys.
Like a night club has 90% dudes, and one or two attractive women. I don't go to clubs because it's a waste of time.
Depends where you go. Latin social dance classes and socials are like 60:40 women to men. Rock climbing gyms are pretty even gender ratios. Wine bars are even gender ratios, but guys there tend to be gay so it's a great spot for straight guys to meet straight women. Theater groups are similar; even gender ratios but the guys are normally gay.
@@healthiswealth6237the clubs are now a big cock party 😂
@@healthiswealth6237 thats what I heard of clubs too. I dont go there but that would corelate with my irl observations.
@@NelsonHopp i dont doubt that, however, these places are not made to find a partner specifically. Doing this in such places could land you in trouble or make things awkward for everyone. Women dont go out to meet men, they dont put themselves out in such situations. Thus my conclusion - women arr not interested in that.
Lloyd always has wisdom for all aspects of dating. Keep up the great work.
Which life is more painful to live for people who are about to die or pass away? Is it their unbearable regrets while they have freedom? Or life in prison?
He is clueless
Fact 1: There's no greater time in history to be a woman than today.
Fact 2: Being successful and good looking isn't good enough and we have to adapt to that. It's sink or swim as a man for dating, which one is it gonna be?
They'll ruin your life either way
Fact 3- Men are a lot happier alone than women are.
Those are your opinions dude. Not facts. You’re entitled to your opinion but not to list them as facts. Sexual assaults are on the rise again. Women are at least 7 times more likely to be victims. That’s easy?
How do you define successful and good looking? Successful at what? Clearly not with women. And looks only get you so far. You have to have substance and emotional intelligence. And take what you learn from these influencers with a grain of salt
@@JohnPickup-CDHS-ze6qdboo hoo. A man can ruin a woman’s life too. A man getting ghosted by a woman is hardly ruining your life. A women getting SA’d by a man certainly is
@MrCjchamp - untrue. Reports of sexual assaults are up. If you include child molesting by women and prison rape, men are actually more likely to be victims than women.
Not only that, but men and boys are less likely to taken seriously by authorities and women who assault boys not only do less time (even no time at all), even on the rare occasion of a conviction, but women who get pregnant by raping boys can (and have) sue said victim for child support once the victim turns 18.
Yes! What a horrible place to be a woman!
Any comments on soccer player Kaka's ex-wife saying she divorced him because "he was too perfect for her"?
Thank you Sir, I learned more from you with this video than the past 37/38 years of my life to date
i once observed in a crowded train station that when women who were not particularly pretty, received much more attention from the men in the crowd than men who were considered to be quite handsome, received little or no attention from the females in the crowd. this confirms the fact that men will hit on any women wether attractive or not.women on the other hand are much more fussy in this way
A girl swiped left on 999 guys?? Dang
then she goes "there are no guys out there" ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
She did.
I didn't know there was a counter
@@TheSingleGuy Can you please do a video on which life is more painful to live for people who are about to die or pass away very soon? Their unbearable regrets while having freedom? Or life in prison?
@@ghostflame9211 Unbearable regrets but have freedom vs life in prison, which one of these two is more painful to live for people who only have 1 or 2 years left to live?
There's really only one reason: all women now believe they are perfect and deserve a perfect man. They might settle for a 9 out of 10 for a one night stand and once she gets old enough, she go as low as an 8 out of 10 to marry, though she'll prob leave in 6-7 years, taking all his money and property with her. But a 10 or 11 out of 10 isn't settling for most of us.
I believe one reason is that women are attracted to personality more than looks. You can't really know someone's personality by looking at their profile on a dating app
1st Yes this is true. I tried to mention it at some point in the video
No they definitely swipe guys based on their looks
That is the biggest lie men have ever been told. They only care about a man’s looks and his height
I joined the Level Up Academy. If I think it will benefit me, I'll stick with it.
I'm in a good spot when it comes to my dating profile as I'm getting dates almost every weekend and whatnot. Also because I am being careful avoiding something stupid, like that I dislike social media and not revealing too much about myself, like that I have a cute pet blue sartin. 🕊️
Just holding the women's interest is the hard part. From my experience, women in the city are easily overwhelmed and distracted compared to the ones in the burbs.
i joined too. nothing to lose, i like the idea of having friends to wingman with.
Awesome guys. While the numbers in the group are low (like below a few hundred) I will answer questions that are posted.
I like the video. I don't even need to find a girl anymore but I still find this interesting
This guy cant perform miracles with advice some men gamed alot in youth, had bad luck with dental work, just overall had bad luck with the left and right connections of the body due to using one side more, and even more posture bullshit! THANKS THOUGH, THANKS FOR BEING YOU MY GUY
It’s not that they don’t like you. It’s just soo much competition so they can be picky asf. As long as a man of his purpose and confident you will attract some women.
FACTS. FOCUS on YOUR grind, and the women that SHOW interest in YOU. If you're not interested in the women interested in you, FOCUS back on your grind. There WILL be attractive women who are into you. You just gotta be patient, and NOT thirsty.
If youre ugly its over. No amount of money will make up for it
@@seaneckhart9914 nah bro it’s confidence regardless how you look you can attract some women
Not without good looks
@@moneytime1556No you simply cannot
Sad to see the script has been changed in the last 50 years. Before men were the prize and had all the options . Weak men did this
Now most men have given up, what now?
Women will try to figure out some way to get the govt to force more men to give them money.
@@StuJones-gn7te it’s called legalization of prostitution
No. They don't want to actually do anything to earn the money. They just want the govt to give them money and the govt's money is mostly from men.
More and more men are not even in the workforce.
This is all cool but the main problem I have is when women attribute poor character traits to you on the fact they just don’t find you attractive. Also add condescend to you as well(“well if men took better pictures, or if you had better hygiene” etc)
Absolutely. And the same thing happens in long term relationships too. Women select ambitious winners but later complain “He works too much”.
Hi bro big fan of you
Thank you!
@@TheSingleGuy I want you to do a video on which one of these two life is more painful to live for people who are about to die or pass away very soon whether it's their unbearable regrets while having freedom or life in prison.
@@TheSingleGuyYou need some serious education..The laws of attraction are not universal they vary through out the world..
Pew research shows over 50 percent of men have checked out of the dating pool the juice isn't worth the squeeze..This guy is out of touch...
There ARE NO good reasons.
I don't know but I've noticed something new or probably I never noticed it because it didn't happen to me before but its almost as though now when you talk to women some of them think of it as war; like if you've just started a conversation and you don't even know but you're in war. I don't know if this makes sense but it wasn't like this before.
It's a competition between the two usually for some weird reason, it's something both my friend and I have noticed. A lot of the girls him and I have gone out with have each told us how "we work with them instead of compete against them" on dates and how it's a breath of fresh air.
Pretty interesting to see someone else mention this... gonna screenshot it and show him 😂
He back or reupload?
Attracting women is very easy. Just flip the script, instead of putting women on the pedestal and hoping to be evaluated as a good boyfriend by the woman you like, do the exact opposite: put yourself on the pedestal and evaluate women, they must hope to be chosen by you and you will see that they will go crazy and will start chasing you like there's no tomorrow
Lol I think you are right. I did something similar to a massage therapist by accident then few minutes later it was already doggy style. Wtf if you don't put them on pedestal they can biologically feel it. It's easier if you are handsome bc it's real. Lol if you dislike them I think it's even stronger bc the odds are even worse to attain it.
@@danielszngirls you are 100% right, women are smart, they immediately feel and understand if you are a desperate guy willing to do everything just for sex or if you are a guy who does selection and is worth of chasing, this is the mistake that most guys do, they put women on the pedestal and the game is over just right from the beginning
That don't work
How is that supposed to work if you’re an average guy? They will think an average guy doing this is being narcissistic, but if Chad does it, hes being confident.
@@MB_Biggie_Cheese "average guy" if you really wrote this and I am not drunk it already means that you see yourself as an average guy, and so you have a confidence problem, work on your confidence and you'll never see yourself as an average guy
Very good, helpful video.
Value packed
0:07 If she do that to me despite not being my fault I'm just going to up and leave. Sorry, I value communication way more than such tantrum gesture
Get a Passport
Exactly. Go where you are actually in demand and actually appreciated. It's not America. Go to poor countries
Women overseas are no different
Bro if you found your ideal girl, would you stay with her? Is it so difficult to find her? I mean you have a game and you are dating a lot, or you just don’t care and you happy where you are. Asking for curiosity
I have a girlfriend now so yes I have found a girl and am staying with her
Women say they want a man to make 200k a year another said 500k a year preferably a Millionaire. Some said a billionaire or a trillionaire. Also be 6'5 feet and have 6 pack abs have a 6 inch Johnson and be 6 months out of a relationship.
The internet is not a representation of how the world really operates. The people that are being interviewed on the Streets or on these podcasts are chosen because they generate the most views. There are good men and women out there that arent so superficial as the people on the internet but ofcourse they are the loudest and it seems like everyone is like that. If all women were after millionares then humanity would not survive yet here we are. Stop watching these shit shows that turns people into pessimists
1st mistake : believing what they say.
🐐
This ultimately sounds like a distopian dating future. I don’t think a man can win. The game is rigged at least for now.
You can rig the game so it is in your favor. You absolutely can win
@@TheSingleGuy- sure if you’re over 6 foot tall and make a lot of money I’m sure you can. But if you don’t have those things I just don’t see how it’s possible in this day and age. So please tell me for a man that’s not 6 foot tall and doesn’t have a lot of money, how can he rig it in his favor?
they have bad eyebrows
You can’t generalise all women. It’s just not true. Go to the gym. Wear clothes that fit. Have a stubble bear. Wear a subtle cologne. Walk with confidence. Make good eye contact. It’s really simple. Unsubbed.
There is an exception to every rule and pattern. That said, if you can't engage in general statements, you can't discuss any rule or pattern in the world.
Your advice is valid, but it is not so simple to follow. For many men, they have a lot of work to do to reach that point.
I value your perspective, but it seems you are speaking from an outdated perspective. You are an older fellow, and expectations in dating were very different for your generation.
Yes fair enough.
Yes 40 years old been studying dating content since 2013.
It’s not easy but what I said is most of it. The rest is flirting, non verbal and verbal combined with playfulness and active listening.
Yeah for good looking men ofc it is
"Have a stubble bear"
With the recent feminist take, this lapsus is hilarious. 🤣
Joined. Anyone England based ?
Go look in the mirror and ask yourself "am i anyones first choice". If the answer is no....start improving yourself.
People don’t understand supply and demand. Like anything in life it’s a supply and demand issue. Do I believe that men are also to blame for them not getting laid? Yes sure. But really it’s a supply and demand issue. If there are 100 men to 90 women. I’m sorry but u gonna struggle no matter what u really do. I’ve heard stories of chads straight 10 out of 10 dudes really struggling in dating just cause the options for women are never ending. If a chick is talking to let’s say 5 dudes and can be on dating apps etc and can basically have sex at a drop of a hat what chances do most average guys really have? Yea sure u can do all the red pill improvement crap which might key word is “ might” improve your chances with women. But at the same time not by that much. Again supply and demand. Also I’m not a black piller neither I think that crap is kinda dumb but black pill does have a lot of straight facts that are hard to argue against
That’s why dating apps should be banned
People are not merchandise.
Many men act like autistic thirsthy alcoholic seeking a beer.
Half of this video is bullshit
Because of them and delusional expectations and they been ran through by the minority of men they sharing