Hello my angels ❤❤❤ THANK YALL SO MUCH FOR WATCHING!🫶🏻 I WANT EVERYONE IN THE COMMENTS TO KNOW I WAS NOT OFFENDED!! ME AND MY DAUGHTER HAVE THESE TALKS ALL THE TIME!! THIS WAS JUST A REAL TALK VIDEO!! WE LAUGHED THROUGHOUT THIS VIDEO AND AFTERWARDS!!! THIS IS A HEALTHY MOTHER DAUGHTER TALK!! Neither of us let Kaiser cuss!! we just discipline him differently
You and Nique supporters understand. Because you asked for feedback, I stand on my sentiments. You raised your children the best way you could and you’re feeling the benefits by being able to be present and watch them grow into the amazing people they are. Just listen more, critique less and allow your children, Nique in this case, to parent how she wants to. I don’t wish this on you but if you continue to invade, it will cause issues. Also, I notice your emotions are very raw and you seem extremely vulnerable. I can’t imagine the pain you went and healing you’re still going through. I also see from your videos, and I don’t mean any harm, you seek validation a lot. I wish you nothing but the best through your journey and hope you continue to heal gracefully. God got you!!!
❤❤ I Love U 2 for doing these talks. Thank You Nique for Popping in 🥰. That Last question I was like Nique 😢 So Sad. I know we never met but I was so excited for you being in Love with Love. I was Sad, Mad, and Hurt for you. I wanted u to win in that relationship. But Baby U really dodged a mess 😢. In 2025 the best is yet to come. I want u 🥰 to have an Amazing Weekend ✌🏽❤️🙏🏽🖤💛⚜️
Kaiser is tremendously smart and his vocabulary is broad. I believe he can still be himself without cursing. Words are powerful (even on a spiritual level) and curse words are called “Curse” for a reason. Great video overall. Really enjoyed the open dialogue.
Ms. Cindy please listen to your daughter. I understand that your feelings were hurt but sometimes it’s just best to listen, acknowledge, accept and continue to improve . You never want to push your kids away by being overbearing. We can all see that you raised your children right and you’re a GREAT MOTHER ☺️ continue to pray for them & trust that’ll do right 😌
Cindy is just so loving she’s looking forward to receive it in the same way she gives, but everyone is different. Nique is so blunt and straight forward while Cindy would choose her words wisely. She also feels like she’s not getting the right answers from nique about her situation but then again everyone is different. I hope nique knows she has such a great mother and sometimes she needs to give her some grace ❤️
I agree with nique. Respect my decision as a mother because I feel like the grandparents overstepping their boundaries teaches the child to disrespect the mother or father.
There’s grandparents out there who don’t see their grandbabies yet alone have a bond like you and Kaiser! You’ve taken on a major role in Kaisers life! I’ve been watching Nique before Kaiser was born so I understand why you so devoted Cindy💪🏽
I think the issue with Mama Cindy is, She wants to be Nique’s friend when Nique wants her to just be her Mother.. Because letting a 6yr old Cuss is Crazy Work!! It’s not about a Safe Space.. More about being respectful to others.. And if his parents aren’t okay with it..Mama Cindy you just gotta respect that..
I absolutely agree with Nique. Allow her to be her own mother and critique less. You’re listening to respond. When you say it’s a safe place, it needs to be just that even if you don’t like what’s being said.
Ms. Cindy, it seems like if Nique doesn’t answer your questions the way you want, you’re not pleased with her answers. I can see this tying into you not respecting her boundaries as an adult as she said. It’s time to let her grow her wings ❤️
Especially that first and last question. I get her on the 1st question, but we do have to respect the parent, especially when it's nothing that's hurting the child. And the last one she wanted Nique to elaborate, but Nique did answer the question. 😂 This was a cute and fun video. ❤
Yes because my mother still thinks I’m a child and I literally have to keep reminding her that I’m a over grown azzzzezzz woman I’m 44 and she still thinks I should tell her where I’m going and who I’m with smh it’s irritating asf
I agree with Nique but I can tell you mean no harm you’re just very loving and protective over your family. It’s great to have these kind of conversations. I love y’all’s relationship. Peace and blessings to you both
Niqqqqquuuueeeee, I love you girl. I just wish she was a little more gentle with Ms Cindy. Your mom loves you sooo much!!! I wish I could go back and have this with my mom!!!
I can tell that Cindy is still hurt, the topic is still so hard to discuss without crying. I hope she’s okay, and I hope that Miquel is more comforting behind the cameras. I just wanna hug her😭
I agree with nique let her be the parent she is the mother and that's right you can't always go against the mother she had him she is right Cindy in that.
But if the kid is living with You or Mostly with you is it not only right for you to raise them your way? These are not visits, he lives/lived with Cindy!
@andreavfirst he lives with nique and lived with Cindy last year for school nique raised Kaiser. At the end of the day nique has custody of her son school would call her if Kaiser did something like cuss out his teacher or do something they would go after nique. Last year he lived with his grandmother because the school he was in and yes then in her house her rules but still understand nique parenting he can use other words to express his self other then cuss words that he learned from adults kids is kids just because they see adults do something don't mean they do it. Like they see adults driving right can they drive no they are not old enough.
You’re a good mom/grandma Ms.Cindy. You give good advice and you want nothing but the best for your family…..remind me of my mom. 💝 Nique and your other kids are bless to have a mother like you.
Hi Cindy, I’m a grandmother as well and I agree with Nique 100%. Kaiser is a child so it’s important to act as such. Bad language is inappropriate for children. He is a child for a short time period & has forever to cuss when he becomes an adult. As the adult in the matter we have to teach and encourage children to mind their manners. When he is at school he will take learned behavior to school. You want him to show up as the best version of himself and not be labeled as a child with bad manners . No judgement just sharing my thoughts from grandma to grandma. Hoping for your healing. You didn’t deserve what happened to you. Stay strong ❤
@@Val-jk7wn love your comment but nique cuss around him a lot when she’s with her friends and just drinking it happened I was the same eat and o had to stop in think I’m being a friend more than a mom to my child . Once I stopped all the cussing around my kids they changed aswell
I understand both sides Ms. Cindy saying she has to learn to view Nique in the lenses of not just daughter anymore but as an adult now let alone a mother. It took a while for my parents to deflect the two and learn to respect boundaries aswell when I became an adult and a mother to my kids. They constantly tried to overpower and dismiss what i said because they “know more” or “we’re experienced “ in raising kids but once they understood I have to learn mistakes as a mom or learn my way of doing what works for me and not just for them. I believe with daughters it is more expected for moms to be too involved in their daughters life. Great video love you guys!
I can relate to nique 1000 percent, my mom can be overbearing at times too. It’s all out of love but it can be a bit much at times, but I know she loves me. Ms. Cindy loves you girl ❤
As parents we have to step back and let our kids learn life on there own. Of course we don't want them to hurt but we had to go through to get to too.❤
I think this is adorable because you can see the love and mutual respect they have for one another one thing about a mom they will always be overbearing/protective but it's all love
I think you are a caring and good grandparent. However, Nique is his mother and you need to respect that. As a grandparent, I’m experiencing this now with my 25 year old daughter who just gave me my 1st grandchild. Sis, it’s hard to let my babies grow as adults.
I agree with nique mama Cindy…kids need that discipline they will continue to embarrass you it’s ok for him to be a child but at the same time he need strictness
Cindy this conversation is so normal. I felt like I was watching my kids talk with me. While I’m not a grandma yet I do feel like you don’t have to feel sad about what’s being said, you have to give yourself grace. Like myself you had your children young and our kids have to understand they were raised by a child we learned as we went along. You ARE A GOOD MOM simply because you are trying to respect your daughter’s boundaries that she has requested and that is so important. My kids are between the ages of 19-27 and they want us to love them differently and it is hard.
Mamá Cindy we love you. You said a safe space and you don’t ever want nique not to feel comfortable talking to you. I shut down with my mom and sometimes won’t talk to her because of that. The good thing about that is you took accountability. Also, if your feelings are going to get hurt. Make sure to be aware of your emotions as well before you ask. Yall are blunt. Love yall .
Yea until they become adults and have their own minds and can’t be manipulated my mom thinks my children are so disrespectful all because they don’t allow her to control their lives and their money smh 🤦🏾♀️ my mom is like that I don’t know if anyone else parents are like that
Listen, I am here for these mother/daughter moments! Mama Cindy, I just love how you love on your children/family. How u are there for them every step of the way ! Continue to strive and know that it’s okay not to be perfect that is why we serve the one tru perfect one Jesus, so that we can aspire to be better! Also, listening is key bc we need to hear acknowledge and grow from where we once overstepped and it seems you’ve done just that as Nique was explaining! I love yall bond and overall love language! It is real raw truth and uncut, yet healthy and healing ❤! Real family ! Oh and it’s not only you as a grandparent, my mom and mom in law changed drastically when it comes to the grand-babies! I be like oh we acting real “brand new” 😂😂😂
Nique, we totally get where you’re coming from, but try to say it in a more loving tone since it hurts her feelings. A lot of us go through the same exact things as you. They were raised differently and think their way is the right way when we all have different lives and different parenting styles, and they have to learn to accept it, but we have to be more patient with our moms. They’re not as tough as the generations after them. They take everything to heart.
Cindy I am a mother & also I have 1 grandson. Us as being grandparents. You have to learn to stay in your lane. They have their way of how they want to raise their child. As long as they not hurting that child. We have to Respect their boundaries and the decision they want to make for their child/ kids.
Letting a child curse is insane and then to call it a safe place. He’s in elementary school. If your grandchild was a little girl you wouldn’t be encouraging that kind of behavior.
Now Don’t take this the Wrong way… Because y’all love to take observations as insults.., But Cindy.. You need a Therapist!!! Because you tend to ask questions, that you don’t really want Honest answers to!!! Because if the answer doesn’t align with how you feel.. You tend to poke until they agree with you.. And Nique started off Really Honest with you, But you went so hard on that first question, to the point you turned yourself into a victim, ( Your Calling Me a Bad Grandma) That is just made her passive & agree with everything else you said after that.. No a 6yr old shouldn’t cuss!! You absolutely should not let him do that!! Because why does he even need to??? And then You felt your relationship was Type Perfect.. But would your Ex Partner have agreed??? Sometimes we have to Self Evaluate! Start listening to her.. If she feels you can be over bearing sometimes, Just loosen, You don’t need Elaboration for that.. I’m sure if she needs your advice, she’ll seek it.. But in the meantime, you have to respect her wishes
Cussing may be to far, other then that I love the bond you have with your grandson. Personally, my grandma was someone that I could open up to with my mom being strict. My grandma would always be the one to defend me and could talk to my mother as a woman about how I felt. The grand parent is usually the person that a grandchild would love so much growing up and want to be around. You both are great mothers💓
I understand you clearly Ms. Cindy. Nique is mad because Kaiser is cursing but all she does around him is curse. So if she does not want him to curse she needs to stop cursing around him. Also Nique basically giving she wants to learn on her own. Like she telling you to respect her boundaries which is fine but let you tell her you can not babysit or do not want to get Kaiser or just start taking more time to yourself watch how she switch. You are in a transition right now. You went from the love of your life to not knowing who you was dealing with. I feel your pain. I pray this pass over and I pray you find your happy ending Ms. Cindy! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
lol I totally understand where nique is coming from. Every time we tell our parents what they do, or have done. It’s always “ oh it’s because of” or “That’s not true” Dismissing what we are saying NOOO just take accountability, listen to comprehend and not respond. This is why a lot of children cannot freely talk to parents, because yall don’t listen to us lol and then try to guilt us.
Outside looking in.. i definitely agree with nique with the learning boundaries. I may ask my mom for advice, but the decision making is still always up to me. ESPECIALLY when it comes to my child.
I love watching you both . I had this conversation with my cousin yesterday . She got mad because her mother allowed things she didn’t like her child doing and I explain to her yes you have desires as a parent but you can’t be mad when grandma is doing the raising of the child when your away .if you want it strictly your way raise your child instill your rules and allow grandma to be grandma not the third parent
I love you both so much I toooo am a Capricorn so I understand both of you so much lol. Especially when it comes to being a mother. Ms.Cindy you should be so proud of yourself. She was raised right and it shows ❤❤
Cindy, now you know she’s not saying you’re a bad grandparent 😂😂 As grandparents yes we are more lenient and we allow them to get away with things. But she’s saying let her be the mother, let her discipline without you going around her and undoing the discipline. You love hard. But Nique is the mother. Give your kids space and boundaries 😂😂 Take in what she’s saying and receive it in love ❤❤
I hope Ms. Cindy is okay that long time relationship really still hurt 💔 you can tell. But I also can say that being a Mother of two daughters it’s hard parenting even when they get grown…all we can do is step back and Let God take Control and 🙏🏾 Pray❤
Poor Nique I definitely agree with her Kaiser is nique son… it was hard for her to even answer the question due to her mom being very hard to communicate with without getting offended… can we get over janae because she’s clearly have gotten over the situation… try getting a therapist because this relationship has made you on edge with those who love you dearly…
This is a great idea to do with mom and daughter. No attacking but I recall Nique letting him curse also in one of her vlogs. Regardless you both are great parents❤
Lmfaoo omg Nique is so blunt/ lw harsh w the responses but I love that for her!! 😭 my ol people pleasing ass could neverrr loll Mama Cindy you’re doing justtt fine just let her breathe a little when it comes to parenting & let her do things her way just be there if she ever needs someone to fall back on like you’ve always been 🫶🏽 I’m the same way w my dad but in the back of my head I gotta remind myself that he means no harm when going against what I tell my child to do or not to do… imo kids need that balance bc sometimes us mothers get overstimulated or overwhelmed & snap quick forgetting they’re kids still learning right from wrong 🤗
As far as the boundaries, I get it too. My mom doesn’t know her boundaries, but it is like I call her for everything, so I know it is hard for her to understand her boundaries.
Very good video due to I have a young adult daughter and now giving me my first grandchild 🎉very excited. Love nique been watching since awhile as well . Love yal mothers n daughters relationship I always make sure my daughter watches. Nique very inspirational ❤ mama 🥰👍
No, my grandparents are like that too. My grandma is our safe place; she raised us and cared for us as well, so even now, she’ll still go against my mom and aunt, lol.
I don’t have a relationship with my birth mother, but my foster mother gave me the best Mom daughter relationship.. I wish I could have been this close with my birth mom but that’s that
I love watching you and your daughter's videos❤ I know your daughter loves you, but there will be a time in her life where she will understand just how much you love her!!! And then everything you've ever done will make perfect sense to her❤
Oh my gosh I love yall relationship this video was so transparent and reminds me of me my daughter deference it's crazy how much I can relate as mother growth is never ending thing
Cindy i definitely get it. ive been there with my kids ,somtimes we jus want to show or teach our kids different things where we made our mistakes so you wont do the same but..its her child so you hav to let her be a mother to her child no matter how hard it is oowee chile🤦♀️ i knw exactly how you feel but nique is rite 🤷♀️let her do it now, as far as letting him curse is crazy. teach him to be himself without cursing is way smarter 💯 teach him to use his words will be a better outcome😍 we love you guys you dd an awesome job with nique she very respectful i love tht
Idk how these kids do it, even tho I love someone so much, and respect them so much once they hurt my mother it’s a wrap. That’s my Mother!!! I’m sorry but they are very mature. Couldn’t be me.
This video was good however just only thing I can say about the cussing thing if it is really a problem no one should really be cursing in front of him. everyone should be on the same page. I get it. Things happen and adults tend to say it regular conversation, but if it’s enough for you to feel like your mom is going against your word. It should not be said in front of him at all because kids learn from so many different aspects, just food for thought
I feel like that's grandparents for you. My parents are the same with their grandkids and my grandparents were the same with us. We would get away with ANYTHING!
My mom would say too, I already raised mine so now I am here to spoil my grandkids. So if I bring them to her I have to understand that she will be that a Grandparent!
Now Niiiique you know you cuss dooooown lol in front of Kaiser. But I understand both sides though! Ms Cindy you do be up in Niques bizniee alot but also yall grew up together and seem like friends so maybe thats why its hard. But you both making valid points but yall also alike maybe thats why yall disagree in those spots
We get both sides being a grandparent is better than being a parent because we don't have to say no 😂 and the cursing is just a no go just on a respect factor I taught my kids by example I don't curse in my parents face to this day so nique keep that rule and Cindy please back her up on it. But letting him freely express himself is the 💯 best way to raise children and grandchildren hands down.
Hello my angels ❤❤❤ THANK YALL SO MUCH FOR WATCHING!🫶🏻 I WANT EVERYONE IN THE COMMENTS TO KNOW I WAS NOT OFFENDED!! ME AND MY DAUGHTER HAVE THESE TALKS ALL THE TIME!! THIS WAS JUST A REAL TALK VIDEO!! WE LAUGHED THROUGHOUT THIS VIDEO AND AFTERWARDS!!! THIS IS A HEALTHY MOTHER DAUGHTER TALK!! Neither of us let Kaiser cuss!! we just discipline him differently
You and Nique supporters understand. Because you asked for feedback, I stand on my sentiments. You raised your children the best way you could and you’re feeling the benefits by being able to be present and watch them grow into the amazing people they are. Just listen more, critique less and allow your children, Nique in this case, to parent how she wants to. I don’t wish this on you but if you continue to invade, it will cause issues. Also, I notice your emotions are very raw and you seem extremely vulnerable. I can’t imagine the pain you went and healing you’re still going through. I also see from your videos, and I don’t mean any harm, you seek validation a lot. I wish you nothing but the best through your journey and hope you continue to heal gracefully. God got you!!!
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We are straight up talking to our moms like that but it doesn't mean we don't love our moms. We're just being honest. 😂❤
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❤❤ I Love U 2 for doing these talks. Thank You Nique for Popping in 🥰. That Last question I was like Nique 😢 So Sad. I know we never met but I was so excited for you being in Love with Love. I was Sad, Mad, and Hurt for you. I wanted u to win in that relationship. But Baby U really dodged a mess 😢. In 2025 the best is yet to come. I want u 🥰 to have an Amazing Weekend ✌🏽❤️🙏🏽🖤💛⚜️
Kaiser is tremendously smart and his vocabulary is broad. I believe he can still be himself without cursing. Words are powerful (even on a spiritual level) and curse words are called “Curse” for a reason. Great video overall. Really enjoyed the open dialogue.
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Ms. Cindy please listen to your daughter. I understand that your feelings were hurt but sometimes it’s just best to listen, acknowledge, accept and continue to improve . You never want to push your kids away by being overbearing. We can all see that you raised your children right and you’re a GREAT MOTHER ☺️ continue to pray for them & trust that’ll do right 😌
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Cindy is just so loving she’s looking forward to receive it in the same way she gives, but everyone is different. Nique is so blunt and straight forward while Cindy would choose her words wisely. She also feels like she’s not getting the right answers from nique about her situation but then again everyone is different. I hope nique knows she has such a great mother and sometimes she needs to give her some grace ❤️
I agree with nique. Respect my decision as a mother because I feel like the grandparents overstepping their boundaries teaches the child to disrespect the mother or father.
There’s grandparents out there who don’t see their grandbabies yet alone have a bond like you and Kaiser! You’ve taken on a major role in Kaisers life! I’ve been watching Nique before Kaiser was born so I understand why you so devoted Cindy💪🏽
I think the issue with Mama Cindy is, She wants to be Nique’s friend when Nique wants her to just be her Mother.. Because letting a 6yr old Cuss is Crazy Work!! It’s not about a Safe Space.. More about being respectful to others.. And if his parents aren’t okay with it..Mama Cindy you just gotta respect that..
I didn’t teach him cuss words!!! We just don’t discipline him differently!!! 😊 we said that in the video
I absolutely agree with Nique. Allow her to be her own mother and critique less. You’re listening to respond. When you say it’s a safe place, it needs to be just that even if you don’t like what’s being said.
Ms. Cindy, it seems like if Nique doesn’t answer your questions the way you want, you’re not pleased with her answers. I can see this tying into you not respecting her boundaries as an adult as she said. It’s time to let her grow her wings ❤️
Especially that first and last question. I get her on the 1st question, but we do have to respect the parent, especially when it's nothing that's hurting the child. And the last one she wanted Nique to elaborate, but Nique did answer the question. 😂 This was a cute and fun video. ❤
She’s her mom whatever she choosing she dose it
Yes because my mother still thinks I’m a child and I literally have to keep reminding her that I’m a over grown azzzzezzz woman I’m 44 and she still thinks I should tell her where I’m going and who I’m with smh it’s irritating asf
How she says “questions” always makes me 🤭🤭
She says it like “quekshuns” 😂 makes me cringe a little lol
I agree with Nique but I can tell you mean no harm you’re just very loving and protective over your family. It’s great to have these kind of conversations. I love y’all’s relationship. Peace and blessings to you both
Niqqqqquuuueeeee, I love you girl. I just wish she was a little more gentle with Ms Cindy. Your mom loves you sooo much!!! I wish I could go back and have this with my mom!!!
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I can tell that Cindy is still hurt, the topic is still so hard to discuss without crying. I hope she’s okay, and I hope that Miquel is more comforting behind the cameras. I just wanna hug her😭
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The mother/daughter bond is real!!
Your resiliance as a person in general is A1 💯
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I agree with nique let her be the parent she is the mother and that's right you can't always go against the mother she had him she is right Cindy in that.
But if the kid is living with You or Mostly with you is it not only right for you to raise them your way? These are not visits, he lives/lived with Cindy!
@andreavfirst he lives with nique and lived with Cindy last year for school nique raised Kaiser. At the end of the day nique has custody of her son school would call her if Kaiser did something like cuss out his teacher or do something they would go after nique. Last year he lived with his grandmother because the school he was in and yes then in her house her rules but still understand nique parenting he can use other words to express his self other then cuss words that he learned from adults kids is kids just because they see adults do something don't mean they do it. Like they see adults driving right can they drive no they are not old enough.
You’re a good mom/grandma Ms.Cindy. You give good advice and you want nothing but the best for your family…..remind me of my mom. 💝 Nique and your other kids are bless to have a mother like you.
Hi Cindy, I’m a grandmother as well and I agree with Nique 100%. Kaiser is a child so it’s important to act as such. Bad language is inappropriate for children. He is a child for a short time period & has forever to cuss when he becomes an adult. As the adult in the matter we have to teach and encourage children to mind their manners. When he is at school he will take learned behavior to school. You want him to show up as the best version of himself and not be labeled as a child with bad manners . No judgement just sharing my thoughts from grandma to grandma. Hoping for your healing. You didn’t deserve what happened to you. Stay strong ❤
@@Val-jk7wn love your comment but nique cuss around him a lot when she’s with her friends and just drinking it happened I was the same eat and o had to stop in think I’m being a friend more than a mom to my child . Once I stopped all the cussing around my kids they changed aswell
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Lmao Nique is silly, her face when Cindy started crying at the end 😂😂
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I understand both sides Ms. Cindy saying she has to learn to view Nique in the lenses of not just daughter anymore but as an adult now let alone a mother. It took a while for my parents to deflect the two and learn to respect boundaries aswell when I became an adult and a mother to my kids. They constantly tried to overpower and dismiss what i said because they “know more” or “we’re experienced “ in raising kids but once they understood I have to learn mistakes as a mom or learn my way of doing what works for me and not just for them. I believe with daughters it is more expected for moms to be too involved in their daughters life. Great video love you guys!
I understand nique so well. I try to tell my mom the same thing but she's just like you Cindy 😂 I understand both honestly.
I am blessed to have a mom who helps me & loves her grandchildren & I'm sure nique is as well . We mean no harm ❤️
I can relate to nique 1000 percent, my mom can be overbearing at times too. It’s all out of love but it can be a bit much at times, but I know she loves me. Ms. Cindy loves you girl ❤
Miss Cindy loves her babies, cant fault her for that!
My mom is the same way with my daughter. She’s her only granddaughter. It’s okay Nique. Grandmas are going to be more lenient. Love you both!❤️
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For real ! My mom use to tear me up for everything but she let my kids get away with murder 😂
As parents we have to step back and let our kids learn life on there own. Of course we don't want them to hurt but we had to go through to get to too.❤
I think this is adorable because you can see the love and mutual respect they have for one another one thing about a mom they will always be overbearing/protective but it's all love
I think you are a caring and good grandparent. However, Nique is his mother and you need to respect that. As a grandparent, I’m experiencing this now with my 25 year old daughter who just gave me my 1st grandchild. Sis, it’s hard to let my babies grow as adults.
Yessss!! I’m really working on that 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love their relationship and nique is so beautiful and transparent
I agree with nique mama Cindy…kids need that discipline they will continue to embarrass you it’s ok for him to be a child but at the same time he need strictness
Cindy this conversation is so normal. I felt like I was watching my kids talk with me. While I’m not a grandma yet I do feel like you don’t have to feel sad about what’s being said, you have to give yourself grace. Like myself you had your children young and our kids have to understand they were raised by a child we learned as we went along. You ARE A GOOD MOM simply because you are trying to respect your daughter’s boundaries that she has requested and that is so important. My kids are between the ages of 19-27 and they want us to love them differently and it is hard.
Mamá Cindy we love you. You said a safe space and you don’t ever want nique not to feel comfortable talking to you. I shut down with my mom and sometimes won’t talk to her because of that. The good thing about that is you took accountability. Also, if your feelings are going to get hurt. Make sure to be aware of your emotions as well before you ask. Yall are blunt. Love yall .
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I feel like grandmas are lenient with grand babies.
Yea until they become adults and have their own minds and can’t be manipulated my mom thinks my children are so disrespectful all because they don’t allow her to control their lives and their money smh 🤦🏾♀️ my mom is like that I don’t know if anyone else parents are like that
Listen, I am here for these mother/daughter moments! Mama Cindy, I just love how you love on your children/family. How u are there for them every step of the way ! Continue to strive and know that it’s okay not to be perfect that is why we serve the one tru perfect one Jesus, so that we can aspire to be better! Also, listening is key bc we need to hear acknowledge and grow from where we once overstepped and it seems you’ve done just that as Nique was explaining! I love yall bond and overall love language! It is real raw truth and uncut, yet healthy and healing ❤! Real family ! Oh and it’s not only you as a grandparent, my mom and mom in law changed drastically when it comes to the grand-babies! I be like oh we acting real “brand new” 😂😂😂
Nique, we totally get where you’re coming from, but try to say it in a more loving tone since it hurts her feelings. A lot of us go through the same exact things as you. They were raised differently and think their way is the right way when we all have different lives and different parenting styles, and they have to learn to accept it, but we have to be more patient with our moms. They’re not as tough as the generations after them. They take everything to heart.
Im so happy Ms Cindy is doing vlogmas such a great surprise. Even though we didn’t get the part 4 this makes up for it.
I knowwwww lol court!!!
Our grandparents just do that because they love us even more 😂❤
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Ms Cindy my mom is the same way and their dad’s mom. Let us be MOTHERS to our own kids. You can still be a great grandmother and have boundaries.
Cindy I am a mother & also I have 1 grandson. Us as being grandparents. You have to learn to stay in your lane. They have their way of how they want to raise their child. As long as they not hurting that child. We have to Respect their boundaries and the decision they want to make for their child/ kids.
Omg ms. Cindy your so strong and such a great mother❤❤
Thank you so much❤
Letting a child curse is insane and then to call it a safe place. He’s in elementary school. If your grandchild was a little girl you wouldn’t be encouraging that kind of behavior.
You can tell you love you kids with all your heart ❤
Now Don’t take this the Wrong way… Because y’all love to take observations as insults.., But Cindy.. You need a Therapist!!! Because you tend to ask questions, that you don’t really want Honest answers to!!! Because if the answer doesn’t align with how you feel.. You tend to poke until they agree with you.. And Nique started off Really Honest with you, But you went so hard on that first question, to the point you turned yourself into a victim, ( Your Calling Me a Bad Grandma) That is just made her passive & agree with everything else you said after that.. No a 6yr old shouldn’t cuss!! You absolutely should not let him do that!! Because why does he even need to??? And then You felt your relationship was Type Perfect.. But would your Ex Partner have agreed??? Sometimes we have to Self Evaluate! Start listening to her.. If she feels you can be over bearing sometimes, Just loosen, You don’t need Elaboration for that.. I’m sure if she needs your advice, she’ll seek it.. But in the meantime, you have to respect her wishes
Exactly, You gotta answer the question the way she wants you to😂😂
Cussing may be to far, other then that I love the bond you have with your grandson. Personally, my grandma was someone that I could open up to with my mom being strict. My grandma would always be the one to defend me and could talk to my mother as a woman about how I felt. The grand parent is usually the person that a grandchild would love so much growing up and want to be around. You both are great mothers💓
I understand you clearly Ms. Cindy. Nique is mad because Kaiser is cursing but all she does around him is curse. So if she does not want him to curse she needs to stop cursing around him. Also Nique basically giving she wants to learn on her own. Like she telling you to respect her boundaries which is fine but let you tell her you can not babysit or do not want to get Kaiser or just start taking more time to yourself watch how she switch. You are in a transition right now. You went from the love of your life to not knowing who you was dealing with. I feel your pain. I pray this pass over and I pray you find your happy ending Ms. Cindy! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
lol I totally understand where nique is coming from. Every time we tell our parents what they do, or have done. It’s always “ oh it’s because of” or “That’s not true” Dismissing what we are saying NOOO just take accountability, listen to comprehend and not respond. This is why a lot of children cannot freely talk to parents, because yall don’t listen to us lol and then try to guilt us.
Outside looking in.. i definitely agree with nique with the learning boundaries. I may ask my mom for advice, but the decision making is still always up to me. ESPECIALLY when it comes to my child.
The tea room bout to caption this!! Nique and mom fall out over her being a bad grandmother 😳😳😂😂
Like fr I can’t even imagine how they gonna twist it 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@ mannnnnnnnnn I can’t wait!!
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I love watching you both . I had this conversation with my cousin yesterday . She got mad because her mother allowed things she didn’t like her child doing and I explain to her yes you have desires as a parent but you can’t be mad when grandma is doing the raising of the child when your away .if you want it strictly your way raise your child instill your rules and allow grandma to be grandma not the third parent
Why ima be the grandma like Cindy 🤣my grandbaby gonna be able to express their self and GMA gone be right there
Yes nothing is stronger than saying prayers ❤
Lmaoooo Nique is so funny.. y'all are so cute... Hey Cindy!
Cindy you made me cry at the end 😔
I love you both so much I toooo am a Capricorn so I understand both of you so much lol. Especially when it comes to being a mother. Ms.Cindy you should be so proud of yourself. She was raised right and it shows ❤❤
Cindy, now you know she’s not saying you’re a bad grandparent 😂😂
As grandparents yes we are more lenient and we allow them to get away with things. But she’s saying let her be the mother, let her discipline without you going around her and undoing the discipline. You love hard. But Nique is the mother. Give your kids space and boundaries 😂😂 Take in what she’s saying and receive it in love ❤❤
It's always a vibe with Ms. Candy & Nique ❤❤❤
I love you guys relationship ❤️
I hope Ms. Cindy is okay that long time relationship really still hurt 💔 you can tell. But I also can say that being a Mother of two daughters it’s hard parenting even when they get grown…all we can do is step back and Let God take Control and 🙏🏾 Pray❤
Poor Nique I definitely agree with her Kaiser is nique son… it was hard for her to even answer the question due to her mom being very hard to communicate with without getting offended… can we get over janae because she’s clearly have gotten over the situation… try getting a therapist because this relationship has made you on edge with those who love you dearly…
This is a great idea to do with mom and daughter. No attacking but I recall Nique letting him curse also in one of her vlogs. Regardless you both are great parents❤
Exactly! She lets him curse and stick the bird
I’m a grandmother sometimes we over step but it for the good not the bad .
Ms Cindy we listen and we don’t judge
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😂 no seriously
Cin, WE LISTEN AND POP OFF😂😂😂😂😂
yall seem to have a great mother daughter re;ationship. thats always good!
Lmfaoo omg Nique is so blunt/ lw harsh w the responses but I love that for her!! 😭 my ol people pleasing ass could neverrr loll Mama Cindy you’re doing justtt fine just let her breathe a little when it comes to parenting & let her do things her way just be there if she ever needs someone to fall back on like you’ve always been 🫶🏽 I’m the same way w my dad but in the back of my head I gotta remind myself that he means no harm when going against what I tell my child to do or not to do… imo kids need that balance bc sometimes us mothers get overstimulated or overwhelmed & snap quick forgetting they’re kids still learning right from wrong 🤗
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@@CindysChronicles you’re welcome 💖
Cindi I get it, grandparents should be the safe space for the grandkids. My mom is the same way with her grandkids, they can do no wrong in her eyes❤❤
As far as the boundaries, I get it too. My mom doesn’t know her boundaries, but it is like I call her for everything, so I know it is hard for her to understand her boundaries.
God bless you and your daughter, Cindy's Chronicles 🙌🏾🙏🏾💜👋🏾
Same to you!❤❤❤
THANKSSSS ❤❤❤ HOPE YOU ARE HAVING AN AMAZING DAY
@@CindysChronicles This is the day that the Lord has made,I will rejoice and be glad in it.
lol Mama Cindy it was not a safe place when Nique bought up you letting Kaiser cursing 😂
I wish I had a mother like you. ❤
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I love video's she does with her beautiful daughter nique.
Very good video due to I have a young adult daughter and now giving me my first grandchild 🎉very excited. Love nique been watching since awhile as well . Love yal mothers n daughters relationship I always make sure my daughter watches. Nique very inspirational ❤ mama 🥰👍
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🫶🏽 this conversation should have been live IM 9 mins in… ❤ Cindy!!! I feel your heart ♥️
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No, my grandparents are like that too. My grandma is our safe place; she raised us and cared for us as well, so even now, she’ll still go against my mom and aunt, lol.
Such a beautiful mother daughter duel ❤❤❤
I don’t have a relationship with my birth mother, but my foster mother gave me the best Mom daughter relationship.. I wish I could have been this close with my birth mom but that’s that
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My grandma is the same way with me. I literally always say she’s my safe space because my mom was so strict
I love watching you and your daughter's videos❤ I know your daughter loves you, but there will be a time in her life where she will understand just how much you love her!!! And then everything you've ever done will make perfect sense to her❤
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I 100% agree
Ahahahah I love how this video is so real 😂😂❤
i love ms cindy but she don't like the constructive criticism
We love u Cindy y’all both so beautiful ❤
Oh my gosh I love yall relationship this video was so transparent and reminds me of me my daughter deference it's crazy how much I can relate as mother growth is never ending thing
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The tea room bout to have a time with this 💯💯
I understand where u coming from miss Cindy my mom was the same way with me about my son and I understand what nique saying 2
Cindy i definitely get it. ive been there with my kids ,somtimes we jus want to show or teach our kids different things where we made our mistakes so you wont do the same but..its her child so you hav to let her be a mother to her child no matter how hard it is oowee chile🤦♀️ i knw exactly how you feel but nique is rite 🤷♀️let her do it now, as far as letting him curse is crazy. teach him to be himself without cursing is way smarter 💯 teach him to use his words will be a better outcome😍 we love you guys you dd an awesome job with nique she very respectful i love tht
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Yay another BANGER ❤
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Man I love yall relationship nique being mean asf ion like that
I know we get offended when our kids say they don't want to be like us but funny we raised them to not be lole us be better 💯 ❤
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Idk how these kids do it, even tho I love someone so much, and respect them so much once they hurt my mother it’s a wrap. That’s my Mother!!! I’m sorry but they are very mature. Couldn’t be me.
I was waiting for your video to post😂 love ya girl! ❤
You're the best!❤❤❤
This video was good however just only thing I can say about the cussing thing if it is really a problem no one should really be cursing in front of him. everyone should be on the same page. I get it. Things happen and adults tend to say it regular conversation, but if it’s enough for you to feel like your mom is going against your word. It should not be said in front of him at all because kids learn from so many different aspects, just food for thought
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I feel like that's grandparents for you. My parents are the same with their grandkids and my grandparents were the same with us. We would get away with ANYTHING!
You Are A Wonderful Mom💯❤
Wow, thank you
Niqueeeeeeeeeee😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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My mom would say too, I already raised mine so now I am here to spoil my grandkids. So if I bring them to her I have to understand that she will be that a Grandparent!
Now Niiiique you know you cuss dooooown lol in front of Kaiser. But I understand both sides though! Ms Cindy you do be up in Niques bizniee alot but also yall grew up together and seem like friends so maybe thats why its hard. But you both making valid points but yall also alike maybe thats why yall disagree in those spots
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We get both sides being a grandparent is better than being a parent because we don't have to say no 😂 and the cursing is just a no go just on a respect factor I taught my kids by example I don't curse in my parents face to this day so nique keep that rule and Cindy please back her up on it. But letting him freely express himself is the 💯 best way to raise children and grandchildren hands down.
THANKS & yes I do back her on that. We just discipline him different when he does cuss but I definitely back her on that.
I wish my mother and I bond were close like this
25:24 Nique hates seeing her ma cry she feels her pain thru there bond❤❤
Step bk from helping out be u and keep being great.
Hey Cindy I hope all is well I get so excited when I see your video