Wow! What a story. I feel so much pain for your mother, but at the same time, how can you get mad at him for being so truthful and justly. Thank you for sharing your family story. May you always stay close and care for each other.
It's good your dad is able to open up and be himself finally. I can't imagine keeping it to himself all these years. Best of luck to the family. Thanks for sharing your family story.
I don’t blame your dad, he sacrificed his whole life to your mom and his children, now he should be able to live with his lover and live his life. I feel sorry for your mom but back then your dad didn’t have a choice to be himself. So just be happy for him.
It is so unfair to your mom, it is the same as your dad was cheating on your mom with a woman but instead of with a man. Either way you look at it he was cheating all those years, it is so unfair for your mom. She is now without a husband or a man in her life, what about her needs of a man? No wonder men can cheat and marry a second wife now a man, it is so sad and heartbroken either way marry to a man or woman now. What your dad did is still cheating!!!!
It would be as unfair for the father if he had to live in the closet for the rest of his life. It would also be more unfair for the mom if she continued not knowing the truth.
This story brings tears to my eyes. Everyone is hurt and everyone has to find their own way to keep on living for the goods of everyone. We recently had an aunt who was in similar situation. She was in love with another woman, but couldn’t be together because this was unheard of and unaccepted back in those days. The other woman went and got married and have children, but our aunt never got married and stayed truthful to her words and self. She just passed away a few months ago and looking forward to meeting and be with her lover in the after life and we hope that they find each other.
What a beautiful and understanding story, highlighting the commitment and sacrifices made by the 'uncle'. Instead of having a father who hasn't been there, you all have two loving fathers. It’s also sad for your mom, but she did receive and continue to be love by your father. Maybe there’s no intimacy but being love comes in many ways.
The fact that your dad has been cheating on your mom this whole time and bringing his lover around all of you guys all this time is fucked up! Don't matter if he's gay or not.
How sad for your dad but he stood there this long for you guys so now he can finally express himself and also deserve to be happy too. Good you all understood your dad.
Of course there is no shame! Your father is brave. It takes court come out and live authentically. Thank you for sharing your story for others to learn.
thanku for sharing this delicate situation with the rest of us. it is heartwarming that ur fam decided to allow ur father to live out his wishes as he desired.
I think thats a lie, they just partner in crimes. Going to Laos together and hunting and fishing partner without the wife calling and yelling 🤣. smart move.
The gay ppl actually very nice and kind .. Your dad could confess this to your mom at a early age ..so she could moved on with someone..No one should be alone.. Why wait till now... I understand if your dad didn't want to neglect the kids..But it your mom that is gonna be alone in the end..
It is ok. He is a good father and took care of his responsibilities to your mother and all of you guy's his children. He still taking care of all of you and gave everything to your mom.
So sorry for your mother. If it was a woman the outcome might be different. The culprit is your father. He should had let your mother leave in her early years but now she's in the same situation as his other partner that he had on the side for all those years.Your mother deserves to be love. She got marry young and never experience what love actually is. Its wonderful that your family was able to accept your father for who he is and for him to finally coming out but its unfair for your poor mother.
Hlub nej ob leeg txiv rau nrog nej niam os mog💕 Yeej tu siab thiab zoo siab vim qhov vim "txhua yam twb yuam kev thaum pib" lawm.. ces kawg muab lub neej faib ua 2 ntu li no es sib hlub xwb.. yog paub tseeb tias muaj lwm tiam tiag ces tsis faib los tau thiab💔
If my husband was gay, I think I would feel hurt and sad. However, I think I would be forgiving and understanding. As long as, he gives me all his money lol and support my kids. It’ll take time to digest all this but I’ll be ok. I may sound double standards but if he cheated on me with a girl I’ll be very disappointed!!! At least I was the only woman in his life! 😊😂
zoo saab tuaj ua si pem Green Bay. in the future move to Wisconsin, and I hope I can meet you someday Nancy. I live in Wisconsin. have fun and enjoy your trip. love listening to your stories and your voice and take care!!❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
Don’t give him a hard time. He tried to live a normal live and gave 40 yrs of his life. It is hard to under but your love should be enough to let him live his live the way he wants to live.
Ob tus ko ces twb yeej sib deev puag thaum me2 los lawm. Tsam tej tub tej xeeb ntxwv ho ua li nej txiv ua thiab no los tsis ua cas no mas yom, vim yawg tub ua tus qauv qhia ua ntej lawm ne. Yawg ua tau ib tus qauv zoo rau tej me nyuam xyaum, nrog nej tsev neeg zoo siab os
Every gay story/life has its own different version of their own personal life. Let’s not rush and judge. I read most comments here are more angered to the dad. To some you may think he’s been cheating for 40 years. But for the wife he has loved and took very good care of her for 40 years. Maybe even better than some normal straight couples. How can it be cheating when you yourself believed he loved you wholeheartedly for 40 years? We need to have an open mind for these type of lifestyle too. And don’t be quick to judge. In my opinion, the husband is the one that is suffering for 40 years. Because he had to played the perfect role for everyone so they can all be happy. He has served his sin and now just wants to be free to enjoy the last few years of his truthful life. Yes, it is not fair for the wife (now). But it was also not fair for the husband for 40 years too. We all know how people treated life as gay 40 years ago….
Tsis muaj kev ncaj ncees rau leej niam li os lawv aws om. Cas twb los ua neej laus tag li lawm es txog hnub no tseem yuav tso yus tseg. sij hawm laus no twb really need each other tshaj ne. Tsis tag li los the uncle was always in their life from day one why not just continue that way til the end so won't hurt the wife or the kids in any way
Thank you for sharing your family story. It must have been a great shock to you. I’m sorry that happened to you but it’s not I put fault. You were definitely fraud to believing a false standard family but it’s not the way it looked. You have to move on and life your new life so that you can get over the trauma. God bless you.
don't said your father marry mom for 40 years before your father go stay with his lover your mother just the second wife to your father. I feel your mom pain sad that your mom never what that someone very love you like
What a slap on the face and dignity for his mother. Pog mag yuam los ua txiv neej niag niam yau so phev xya tsheej pab mi nyuam. Thaub laus coj nws niag txiv niam yau los xyov thaub yog niag txiv niam tuaj nplawm pog lub ntsej muag ruam ntawd txhua zaus ua thaj uncle siab zoo. Oh my GOSH! And even put on a party to celebrate his dumping her to collect $12k for her buy out. Wow, just wow. See, i don’t care if you gay, double gay, how many times gay. You don’t pretend and use someone until old and then announce you all time lover and then use your past provision as a ticket for empathy. That’s just a no-no.
Tus me tub, koj zaj no kuv yeej ntseeg tias Gay yeej muaj rau lub ntuj qub qab tabsis vim peb Hmoob tej kev coj noj coj ua tsis tso kev dav xwb. Nov yog ib zaj uas tsim nyog peb sawvdaws yuav tau qhib peb txoj kev xav kom dav thiab deb. Es nej tus uncle no puas muaj txiv nkawm thiab los tsis muaj? Zoo li koj hais no mas nws yeej ib txwm nyob ze nej es koj txiv txoj kev phooj ywg nrog nws thiaj pheej tsis tu. Zoo siab uas koj muab tuaj qhia rau peb sawv daws tau paub.
He is bisexual, and in love with his male lover who he was denied the opportunity to openly pursue the relationship 40 years ago because homosexuality is considered abnormal and not socially accepted.
Wow many of the older generation are coming out of the closet nowadays 😮txhob tu siab os its a normal thing xwb just learn to accept the fact and reality xwb os..😊
Niam tais ci nplas peb tsis thuam lawv cov gay tiam sis peb yuav tsis txhawb nqa rau txojkev uas pojniam yuav pojniam thiab txiv neej deev txiv neej nws txhaum rau hauv phau vajluskub, ntuj tsim teb raug yog yawm saub tsim tus pojniam los rau tus txiv neej thiab tus txiv neej los ua txij ua nkawm nrog tus pojniam. Vajtswv txojlus tau txwv tsis pub tibneeg mus deev tej tsiaj yog leej twg ua li ntawd ces yuav tau xyob txhiaj los rau nws lub neej vim nws raug foom tsis zoo los ntawm yawm saub lawm. Txawm koj txiv yog gay los nws twb nrog tau koj niam pw thiaj li muaj nej cov me nyuam 8 leej diam, raws hnov luag tej hais mas cov gay no lawv tsis nyiam pojniam lawv tsuas nyiam txiv neej xwb. Cas koj niam tsis thov sim koj txiv tus hlub seb puas haib li koj txiv cas koj txiv yuav xum tso koj niam nej tseg mus nyob nrog nws. Qhov koj niam ua siab tso koj txiv mus raws li nws txojkev npau suav lawm mas vim koj txiv tso txhua yam rau koj niam thiab nws tej nyiaj tom qab tsis muaj koj txiv lawm ces koj niam thiaj txaus siab hlo yuav li no, tab sis tshuav ib qho nej tsis tau tham txog yog koj niam ho nco txiv neej es mus tham hluas nraug no koj txiv puas hais dabtsi ?
I no supported your gay advertisement to all the men and women out there. Why not keep it to your self. You are helping promoted Democrats policy LGBTQ.
The father should’ve divorced his wife when she was young so she could find her true love too instead of using her for 40 years!
I feel sorry for the wife of 40yrs of marriage I would be very upset
This guy is a real-life Bruce Jenner. Kudos to him for being a responsible father and raising his kids.
Wow! What a story. I feel so much pain for your mother, but at the same time, how can you get mad at him for being so truthful and justly. Thank you for sharing your family story. May you always stay close and care for each other.
It's good your dad is able to open up and be himself finally. I can't imagine keeping it to himself all these years. Best of luck to the family. Thanks for sharing your family story.
I don’t blame your dad, he sacrificed his whole life to your mom and his children, now he should be able to live with his lover and live his life. I feel sorry for your mom but back then your dad didn’t have a choice to be himself. So just be happy for him.
It is so unfair to your mom, it is the same as your dad was cheating on your mom with a woman but instead of with a man. Either way you look at it he was cheating all those years, it is so unfair for your mom. She is now without a husband or a man in her life, what about her needs of a man? No wonder men can cheat and marry a second wife now a man, it is so sad and heartbroken either way marry to a man or woman now. What your dad did is still cheating!!!!
It would be as unfair for the father if he had to live in the closet for the rest of his life. It would also be more unfair for the mom if she continued not knowing the truth.
This story brings tears to my eyes. Everyone is hurt and everyone has to find their own way to keep on living for the goods of everyone. We recently had an aunt who was in similar situation. She was in love with another woman, but couldn’t be together because this was unheard of and unaccepted back in those days. The other woman went and got married and have children, but our aunt never got married and stayed truthful to her words and self. She just passed away a few months ago and looking forward to meeting and be with her lover in the after life and we hope that they find each other.
Your dad, mom and uncle are all good people. Its just sad they could not never express their true love openly.
What a beautiful and understanding story, highlighting the commitment and sacrifices made by the 'uncle'. Instead of having a father who hasn't been there, you all have two loving fathers. It’s also sad for your mom, but she did receive and continue to be love by your father. Maybe there’s no intimacy but being love comes in many ways.
This is such a happy story. I'm glad the kids accept and support the parents as the parents would support the kids.
The fact that your dad has been cheating on your mom this whole time and bringing his lover around all of you guys all this time is fucked up! Don't matter if he's gay or not.
True and feel sorry for the mom he ruined her whole life
Right?!?! I was thinking the same thing. Everytime they were alone.......my heart hurts for the mom.
Wow!! What amazing story!!
Thanks for sharing. Interesting!
How sad for your dad but he stood there this long for you guys so now he can finally express himself and also deserve to be happy too. Good you all understood your dad.
What a beautiful story of mutual understanding.
Glad that you and siblings accepted your dad’s decision. It’s a lesson learned…
Wow this is the first gay story of a married gay man. I'm happy he finally came out
Your mom is so big hearted. ❤
Of course there is no shame! Your father is brave. It takes court come out and live authentically. Thank you for sharing your story for others to learn.
thanku for sharing this delicate situation with the rest of us. it is heartwarming that ur fam decided to allow ur father to live out his wishes as he desired.
I think thats a lie, they just partner in crimes. Going to Laos together and hunting and fishing partner without the wife calling and yelling 🤣. smart move.
The gay ppl actually very nice and kind ..
Your dad could confess this to your mom at a early age ..so she could moved on with someone..No one should be alone..
Why wait till now... I understand if your dad didn't want to neglect the kids..But it your mom that is gonna be alone in the end..
WOW! When you’re naive and think you heard it all. Thanks for sharing your story. God bless you grama bling bling!
I want to hear more of their backstory in Laos
Your dad should not merry Your mom in the first place
Qhov ntawd yog neeg tsis puv 100 lawm xwb. Kuv tsis ntseeg yam ntawd.
It is ok. He is a good father and took care of his responsibilities to your mother and all of you guy's his children. He still taking care of all of you and gave everything to your mom.
I’m totally approve. Your business
So sorry for your mother. If it was a woman the outcome might be different. The culprit is your father. He should had let your mother leave in her early years but now she's in the same situation as his other partner that he had on the side for all those years.Your mother deserves to be love. She got marry young and never experience what love actually is. Its wonderful that your family was able to accept your father for who he is and for him to finally coming out but its unfair for your poor mother.
Good story ❤
Hlub nej ob leeg txiv rau nrog nej niam os mog💕
Yeej tu siab thiab zoo siab vim qhov vim "txhua yam twb yuam kev thaum pib" lawm.. ces kawg muab lub neej faib ua 2 ntu li no es sib hlub xwb.. yog paub tseeb tias muaj lwm tiam tiag ces tsis faib los tau thiab💔
If my dad was gay... I'd still love him with all my heart. 😢
If my husband was gay, I think I would feel hurt and sad. However, I think I would be forgiving and understanding. As long as, he gives me all his money lol and support my kids. It’ll take time to digest all this but I’ll be ok.
I may sound double standards but if he cheated on me with a girl I’ll be very disappointed!!! At least I was the only woman in his life! 😊😂
zoo saab tuaj ua si pem Green Bay. in the future move to Wisconsin, and I hope I can meet you someday Nancy. I live in Wisconsin. have fun and enjoy your trip. love listening to your stories and your voice and take care!!❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
Sister Nancy, you have the millions dollars weather. Everyone dream to live in your area, we can’t have everything in life.
Wow cas yuav txawv tag npaum,
OMG, your poor mother!
ONG this men is crazy
Nancy, WI and MN weather is NOT recommended for retirees. Please stay where you are. I wish I can afford to live where you are so please don't move.
😥❤
Welcome to Green Bay, WI! My hometown!
Oh my God
After 40 years. Koj txiv twb ua rau nws niam thiab txiv lawm ces txog caij nws muaj kev kaj siab ua ntej txoj sia tu.
Don’t give him a hard time. He tried to live a normal live and gave 40 yrs of his life. It is hard to under but your love should be enough to let him live his live the way he wants to live.
Ob tus ko ces twb yeej sib deev puag thaum me2 los lawm. Tsam tej tub tej xeeb ntxwv ho ua li nej txiv ua thiab no los tsis ua cas no mas yom, vim yawg tub ua tus qauv qhia ua ntej lawm ne. Yawg ua tau ib tus qauv zoo rau tej me nyuam xyaum, nrog nej tsev neeg zoo siab os
Kuv muaj hnub nyoog lawm, kuv yeej paub thiab pom cov poj niam thiab txiv neej zoo li no coob lawm, kuv txais tau lawv txoj kev xav thiab kev nyiam. Kuv txoj kev xav, kuv tsis blame cov LGBT vim tsis yog lawv xaiv los yug. Raws li kuv xav, niam thiab txiv yug, nkawd cov roj ntshav thiab nkawd txoj kev xav mus rau sab seem no ntau tshaj, yog li no, ib feem ntawm cov niam txiv , thiaj yug nkawd tus menyuam zoo li ntawd. Niam/txiv yuav tau blame nkawd thiab thiaj yog!
Wow…..what a story….
Where will you be staying in Michigan?
Ntuj os teb aws yog kuv ib leej txiv zoo li ko kuv tsi ntsia li lawm os txaj muag dhau lawm
Every gay story/life has its own different version of their own personal life. Let’s not rush and judge. I read most comments here are more angered to the dad. To some you may think he’s been cheating for 40 years. But for the wife he has loved and took very good care of her for 40 years. Maybe even better than some normal straight couples. How can it be cheating when you yourself believed he loved you wholeheartedly for 40 years? We need to have an open mind for these type of lifestyle too. And don’t be quick to judge. In my opinion, the husband is the one that is suffering for 40 years. Because he had to played the perfect role for everyone so they can all be happy. He has served his sin and now just wants to be free to enjoy the last few years of his truthful life. Yes, it is not fair for the wife (now). But it was also not fair for the husband for 40 years too. We all know how people treated life as gay 40 years ago….
Cas kuv yuav nrog nej Niam tu siab ua luaj os
Tsis muaj kev ncaj ncees rau leej niam li os lawv aws om. Cas twb los ua neej laus tag li lawm es txog hnub no tseem yuav tso yus tseg. sij hawm laus no twb really need each other tshaj ne. Tsis tag li los the uncle was always in their life from day one why not just continue that way til the end so won't hurt the wife or the kids in any way
Feel sad for your mom
Thank you for sharing your family story. It must have been a great shock to you. I’m sorry that happened to you but it’s not I put fault. You were definitely fraud to believing a false standard family but it’s not the way it looked. You have to move on and life your new life so that you can get over the trauma. God bless you.
don't said your father marry mom for 40 years before your father go stay with his lover your mother just the second wife to your father. I feel your mom pain sad that your mom never what that someone very love you like
He lucky 10 year ago he would had no support from his family but to be honest people's are more open minded
Stay in beautiful weather California. Spend One winter there and you will see and regret ever wanting to live there 😂
What a slap on the face and dignity for his mother.
Pog mag yuam los ua txiv neej niag niam yau so phev xya tsheej pab mi nyuam. Thaub laus coj nws niag txiv niam yau los xyov thaub yog niag txiv niam tuaj nplawm pog lub ntsej muag ruam ntawd txhua zaus ua thaj uncle siab zoo. Oh my GOSH! And even put on a party to celebrate his dumping her to collect $12k for her buy out. Wow, just wow.
See, i don’t care if you gay, double gay, how many times gay. You don’t pretend and use someone until old and then announce you all time lover and then use your past provision as a ticket for empathy. That’s just a no-no.
Tus me tub, koj zaj no kuv yeej ntseeg tias Gay yeej muaj rau lub ntuj qub qab tabsis vim peb Hmoob tej kev coj noj coj ua tsis tso kev dav xwb. Nov yog ib zaj uas tsim nyog peb sawvdaws yuav tau qhib peb txoj kev xav kom dav thiab deb. Es nej tus uncle no puas muaj txiv nkawm thiab los tsis muaj? Zoo li koj hais no mas nws yeej ib txwm nyob ze nej es koj txiv txoj kev phooj ywg nrog nws thiaj pheej tsis tu. Zoo siab uas koj muab tuaj qhia rau peb sawv daws tau paub.
Yog nws qhia dawb paug li Los zam txim pub nws yog ib qhov zoo o mog …..!
The dad was wrong. He need to stick to his vows.
He is bisexual, and in love with his male lover who he was denied the opportunity to openly pursue the relationship 40 years ago because homosexuality is considered abnormal and not socially accepted.
Wow many of the older generation are coming out of the closet nowadays 😮txhob tu siab os its a normal thing xwb just learn to accept the fact and reality xwb os..😊
😂niam tais Nancy koj mas hais tsawg zaj los yeej lom zem li os
Niam tais ci nplas peb tsis thuam lawv cov gay tiam sis peb yuav tsis txhawb nqa rau txojkev uas pojniam yuav pojniam thiab txiv neej deev txiv neej nws txhaum rau hauv phau vajluskub, ntuj tsim teb raug yog yawm saub tsim tus pojniam los rau tus txiv neej thiab tus txiv neej los ua txij ua nkawm nrog tus pojniam.
Vajtswv txojlus tau txwv tsis pub tibneeg mus deev tej tsiaj yog leej twg ua li ntawd ces yuav tau xyob txhiaj los rau nws lub neej vim nws raug foom tsis zoo los ntawm yawm saub lawm.
Txawm koj txiv yog gay los nws twb nrog tau koj niam pw thiaj li muaj nej cov me nyuam 8 leej diam, raws hnov luag tej hais mas cov gay no lawv tsis nyiam pojniam lawv tsuas nyiam txiv neej xwb.
Cas koj niam tsis thov sim koj txiv tus hlub seb puas haib li koj txiv cas koj txiv yuav xum tso koj niam nej tseg mus nyob nrog nws.
Qhov koj niam ua siab tso koj txiv mus raws li nws txojkev npau suav lawm mas vim koj txiv tso txhua yam rau koj niam thiab nws tej nyiaj tom qab tsis muaj koj txiv lawm ces koj niam thiaj txaus siab hlo yuav li no, tab sis tshuav ib qho nej tsis tau tham txog yog koj niam ho nco txiv neej es mus tham hluas nraug no koj txiv puas hais dabtsi ?
Mekas yeej hais tias tej neeg hauv ntiaj teb no 10% yeej yog gay thiab lesbian no, hmoob los yeej muaj tib yam tab sis hmoob txaj2 muag thiab tsis kam qhia tawm xwb Kuv los yeej muaj ib tug tub gay thiab os
Es nej tus uncle gay ntawm lub family nev??
No, this a sin. God does not allow, he will face God. Satan is strong but you need to be stronger. Bless this family for the bravery.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Zaj neej neeg no yog ib zaj zoo zoo.qhia tau rau peb txhua tus hais Tias kev hlub muaj tseeb.kev ncaj ncees yeej muaj tiag.kev sib zaj Txim los sawv daws ua zoo Xav yeej zam Txim tau rau tus neeg uas yus hlub.
Good story
😂😂😂😂😂😂 🌈 🍇
I no supported your gay advertisement to all the men and women out there.
Why not keep it to your self.
You are helping promoted Democrats policy LGBTQ.
I like your house better NANCY its more real ❤ a real outside background look better
Yog nws xaiv lis ntawv lawm ce kav liam mog txhob tu siab 😊😊😊😊