I'm also an unwelcome daughter- in-law. I have 5 children, raised them on our own, own my own $450,000 house and live out of state from all the relatives. No one is in my business and I owe no one any favors. That is how you live when you're rejected. They missed out not us. Leave people that pushes you out and you will find happiness and sucess. Give them no opportunity to opress or sabotage your life.
It’s sad to be the least favorite nyab, even if u do your best and the same as others and yet u are the last they think of when they have something good to give. I’m in same boat but I just do my best and hope one day they will see, even when you know they only love u when they want something from u. We still have that one last hope that one day, just one day it will make their eyes open for u. Be the best Nyab u can be and if it’s not enough to them. At least u can say u gave your best.
Lilly Heu be a good enough person but no need to go the extra mile for people who have no love and respect for you. Build healthy boundaries and cut people who don’t benefit your life and don’t care for you. There’s no need trying to prove anything.
Hmong ppl needs to change this stupid rule that if a girl goes out late with her bf then they HAVE to get married. The girls parents are just ruining her life by forcing early marriage on her. This is AMERICA Hmong peeps. Your stupid rules don't apply here and you're NOT above the law.
Well brother or sister I have see Hmong have change the culture now about force young girl and boy marry very young. They know now they will go to jail fast. Parents know the kids have their right too. This story back in 1983-1990.
bchang, I think this story is old. The newer generation of parents now don't do that anymore. Otherwise, they should get jail time. That's plainly child abuse.
Your story made me sad because I can relate. Once upon a time many life time ago, I lived your life. I have left the Hmong community and left my parents. I am now living my life and remarried to a wonderful Meka husband. We own two business and live a good life, I live a good life now. Have big house, 20 acres land, many cars, big mobile RV and sport toys. Can afford anything I want. Never have to desire anything else while Everyone else in my past still living the same life & struggling. Still hurts me when I hear stories like yours and mine.
Always karma. Neeg siab phem tiag2. My MIL is passive aggressive. Act nice, but talk shit to me and behind my back. Then acts like she never did no wrong or hurt anyone. Me... I don't care for fake relationships.
Kuv xa kom cov me nyuam yuav poj niam hlua2 locas lo aws twb tsis kam li yog yus ua niam phem pem qaug yug ua dab tsis ma yus ua lawv nyab lawv pem npau li ntawv rau yus lo yeej yuav tsis taus thiab nws puayog poj niam ao
There are some mother-in-law witches in this world including mine. Being a Hmong daughter-in-law is something I would never want to become again if there is another lifetime. Hated by the MIL, SIL, and relatives because they just hate something about you, whether it is your age, your face, your last name, your family, etc. And the greatest pain is you are expected to take care of everything about them and for them. So heartbreaking and unfair. Some Hmong people are too entitled and privileged. I am proud of you sister, people who hate you will always do. You deserve love and happiness. Don't please anyone, just live your life the way you want. The pain may never heal or a scar may remain, but evolve and treat your daughter-in-laws well, perhaps we CAN be the change for our young Hmong women.
I feel like you told the husbands version of this story. I applaud these brave women that got married so young and had such a hard beginning but continued their education and lifted their life and status. So in awe!!
kuv lub neej zoo li koj thiab tab si wb sib yuav tau twb tsis nrog lawv nyob ib tsev wb mus nyob ib qhov lawm kuv niam pog ces yeej txaub kuv thiab cem los tau 30 lub xyoo no niaj hnub no nws twb laus2 lawm los tseem cem kuv rau tus ub tus no li cias li ua rau tu siab txaus2 lawm os 😭😭
Viv ncaus cas koj lub neej zoo li kuv lub thiab yus niam yus txiv los tsis hlub hos niam pog txiv yawg los tsis hlub li thiab tsis paub koj hos kuv kuj los nyob tau 22 lub xyoos lawm thiab
Dam sis! A PA-C?! That’s a big accomplishment! You’re a provider and they don’t even know what that is or the meaning of it! That’s hard work. Be proud:)
You definitely made a big mistake by marrying young, but I'm even prouder to see that you were able to used that mistake to better your life. Life happens and as long as your able to improve from it is all that matters. Most people would never make it that far in life with such an early mistake like yours, but you are the few lucky one with potential.
Hmong only look short term. They don't look 10 to 30 yrs down the road. This parents forgot they are not education persons too. They still think back of old life in Laos. People the more you hurt them. The more they will proof to you. They can change their life around.
Sister what your real mom and dad did what wrong. They should protect you from your husband parents. I am glad you 2 have good life now. Teach your kids about life. You have to work your way up. Don't go hate other people.
Where should I start from here? My ex in laws are disrespectful & bullies the same as your mother-in-law no matter what you try to do & help them. When I first got married to my ex husband his parents told everyone I didn't eat Hmong food because I only ate American food since I grew up Americanized. My ex husband's two brothers got married before us within the same yr & we both were the least favorite of the four couples. They told everyone that our couple name was called "the slow turtles" since we never talk back. Whenever I told them the truth they would say I lied. Whenever their families tell a lie my ex in laws would believed it. It caused a lot of tension & dramas. About 2 yrs later, their first favorite daughter-in-law from Laos divorced their son, the second daughter-in-law divorced their next son, & at the end I divorced my ex husband. All the disrespect, bullies, & shit talking got old especially when the husband's don't defend you as his wife. I gave up the Hmong OG traditional life & live more peaceful now. Don't get me wrong, not all Hmong families are this way but most. Seen & heard too many stories like this. At the end of the day, you be the awesome respectful kindness you & know that it will kill these type of ppl. 😇🙏 Pray for them.
Wow, what a sad experience. Good job staying positive and not giving up on your goals and your husband. Also so thankful that at least your husband showed you what love is. ♡
Txhob tu siab os tus me viv ncaus aw peb cov no twb muaj 50 xyoo los muaj ib co niam tsev dev tseem hais tias peb tsis paub Ua noj thiab Ua los tsis Ntxim qab li no mas. Cov neeg phem yeem phem os. Hauv Tulsa,OK no es tus bien dev Judy Love thiab Kou Xiong Vang ntawv mas phem tiag2 nawb leej twg tuaj Ua haujlwm nrog nkawv mas nkawv Ua phem2 thiab txeeb luag tej diav Ua kom luag Nyob tsis taus Es tawm txoj haujlwm no kiag. Cov neeg no phem kawg os lawv aw
Nam Ntsuab Teeb aws tsis muaj Moob Ntsuab existed lawm os. Peb yog Moob Leeg just so you know. Moob Dlawb yuav tau stop using the word Moob Ntsuab bcuz none are existed today. Moob Ntsuab is a Cannibal Tribe back like 500 yrs ago and none are living today.
Koj tseem menyuam Tau xwbbvim li cas txawm siv than hluas nraug koj Ryan heev tsis Tau paub tab Kev UA nyab tsis yog UA so.koj niam tsis tsum nyog yuam koj yuav txiv.luag thiaj Tia's UA nyab thiaj paub tab UA vauv thiaj paub qauv.txhob sib than ntxov y yuav txiv ntxov y Nov yog USA tsis yog nplog teb es yuav mus UA teb xwb.koj UA neej yuam Kev vim tuam y tsis paub tab txawm siv yuav txiv thiaj Tau Kev lwj siab.txhob tu siab koj niam koj txiv twb tsis hlub koj niam pig twb tsis yog koj niam luag thiaj tsis hlub
Kuv xav mas koj txhob tu siab tas2 rau koj niam koj txiv thiab tsam tej tej thaum lawv yeej pom qhov tseeb lawm...tsuav hnub no lawv txawj thov txim ces yog qhov zoo lawm no...rau ncoo siab2 es ua tib zoo xav dua ma...vim neb 12 / 14 xyoos neb sib tham lawm nav...tej zaum yus yeej tsis paub dab tsi tiag2 tej laus thiaj ua zaj ua zus hais yus thiab os...
Yog lawm nawb koj pom koj niam Pog niamtais ua Tsis yog koj Txhob xyaum nawb. Yog koj xyaum ces koj cov ntxhais thiab cov Nyab yuav tusiab ibyam nkaus koj. Nyob Ntiajteb no cas peb cov hmoob mas Tsuas hnov ntiajtog paumpes cav tias niam Pog thiab Nyab tsis sib haum xwb?? ntshe nej yuav tau hloov nawb es nej lub npe tsis sib haum thiaj yuav ploj mus... vim nej yog pojniam ibyam ntshe yuav tau sib hwm no nawb. nej tsis sib haum ces ua rau peb cov txivtsev los tsis pom qab txiav plaub rau nej tus niam Pog thiab nyab no mas nyuaj peb siab kawg nkaus li vim peb cov txiv tsev no yeej hlub Ob leeg xav kom sib haum nawb es kom nej kaub nej xwb zoo dua. Xav kom peb cov tiam tshiab no yuav tau hloov txhua Yam ntawm nej obtog es thiaj sib haum nawb...
Peb cov niam pog no tsis nco qab tias lawv los twb yog ib tus ntxhais thiab. Yog tsis nyiam leejtwg los ua nyab ces koom kiag lawv cov tub xwb txhob yug tub los rau peb cov ntxhais hmoob yuav li. I had an evil mother-in-law as well and my ex-husband was such a mamaS boy. They can have each other!
Ib tug niag pog zoo li koj tus es niam yuav ua tau dab tsi rau koj os tus sister aw. Don’t worry about her, she’s saying all that shit because she’s old and she can’t do what you do. This is America, you don’t need her, she’s only gonna need you in the near future. Twb nyob teb chaw Meka es tseem muaj tej tug niag niam pog ntxim txub npaum no thiab.
Kuv pom koj mas yog koj ob tog niam txiv hlub neb mas neb tsis muaj hnub no nawv es tsis txhob tu2 siab nawv. Ua noj tswv mas yog koj txoj hmoo hos ua niam tais yawm txiv ua niam pog txiv yawg ces yog neb muaj me nyuam yawm ces : yeej yuav paub xwb22 los mas nawv nyab McDonald's e!!!.
Lub neej thaum i tus me nyuam 12 xyoos ntse thiab paub tab dua hnub no lawm. Vim culture hloov lawm, thaum i, tej me nyuam muab 7-8 xyoo xwb twb raug ua noj ua hauv pab nus tsev neeg thiab zov me nyuam lawm. Hnub no, tus 12 xyoos es twb tsis tau txawj ua dab tsi hlo li, lub tswv yim los poob qab thiab.
......Don't feel bad. It's not you that your in-laws disrespect. It's his son who she disrespect. Your husband is not a man, too gullible and a mamma's boy. But don't worry you should be happy now because you're success. Successfully is the best revenge in life. A physician Assistant is hardwork and earns 100k+. You're a good nyab. You're not a nyab McDonald in our eyes at all. You are a pearl.
Tus viv ncau nyob li koj lub neej koj piav no mas kuj tseem kawg thiab vim koj tus niam pog ib leeg tsim koj xwb koj tseem tsuav koj tus txiv ua koj lub zog thiab nws tseem hlub koj thiab pab koj mas koj lub neej phem los tseem tshuav kuv lub neej tseem phem tshaj koj lub kuv twb tseem ua neej nyob nrog kuv tus txiv nyob li kuv lub neej mas tag nro kuv tus tsev neeg nrog rau kuv tus txiv ua phem rau kuv los kuv tseem ua kuv rau rau siab lub neej koj zoo dua li qhov lawv xav es txog thawm kawg koj lawv rov tuaj muag rau kuv thiab kuv ntseeg tau tias lub ntuj muaj qhov muag lub ntuj yeej yuav qhib ib txog kev rau lawv taug thiab es hnub no lawv ua mob kuv los tag ki lawv tus mob uas lawv tsim rau kuv tau noog ntawd yuav thig rov mus xau tus neeg tsim tus mob ntawd tshwm tusk ce thaum no tsis tus pab tau nws es yus mas li tuaj ib cag saib pab nws ti siab rau NWS txoj kev phem ua nws ua es rov npam nws
What a evil mother in law. Just because you don't like your daughter in law. It doesn't mean for you to treat your daughter in law like shit. That mother in law got what she deserved. Geesh. 😤😤😠😠😠
Txhob tu siab thiab koj xav mas yog lawv tsis ua li rau koj tej zaum koj twb tsis zoo li ko kuv hais qhia koj tias kuv tus niam pog tsis ua li ko tab sis kuv cov niam tij tij laus ua phem txawj tshaj li koj qhov ko rau kuv kuv tu siab kawg nkaus tab si ziag no kuv mas cav tias yog lawv tsis ua phem ntshe yus lub neej tsis zoo li h ub no ua tsaug rau lawv cov tau ua phem rau kuv no os me nyab aw...
Ntuj os teb aws niam pog dab tsi es yuav phem tag npaum li naj nim cem luag hais tias pog nplim nplim nyob nplim es leej twb kom yus mus cuab nplim rau hauv yus lub tawb maj pog phem dhau lawm os
zaj neej neeg ko ma yog kiag Li kuv lub neej uas kuv Los uas niam pog tus nyab txawg niam pog tsig kuv ma tu siab thiab mob siab tshaj kuv tus niam pog ma niag hnub niag hmo hais tias peb ma yog hnub nom noob RW
This is a very good story. My life is simliar to that. Some inlaws are never happy and some never want to accept thier WRONGS- BUT this story teaches both parties: sons, daughters, moms, dads (in-laws) to not force and to discourage eachother- in the future! Everyone will get to be a IN-LAW one day so just don't put yourself or your own child in that situtation. Teach them about safe XXX and tell them that education will always be KEY to a good future. We all have to learn somewhere; we can't always be in LA-LA Land.
These idiots parents who don’t like their daughter in law, I hated and sick of them. Well heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim..what goes around goes around and it’s more bitter
I hate both parents. Should've let the mom call the cops. The cops would tell her she needs to chill because both kids are minor. The elders are all dumb in this story. I am happy she never give up and work hard to better her life.
I don’t understand these type of mother-in-laws when they are still able-bodied, they mistreat their daughter-in-laws but when they get older, that’s when they want you to fell sympathy for them. 🤦🏼♀️
This story is almost like mine. I'm not a nyab McDonald but she calls me an ugly midget. She tells everyone im too short and not pretty enough for her son. She's never liked me, but now she's living with me. You guys can make the rest of the story. Lol. Forgive them. Without them, you wouldn't be where you are even if it's wrong.
I am a nyab myself. And it’s never easy. Everyone has a different situation but our emotions are relatable. I am a young adult myself and it does get so hard. I mean really hard. Because a lot can be expected out of a nyab. When I hear this sister story. I cried and it send a message to my heart because I know exactly how it feels. But you know, God is so Good! You do good then good come back. Like the old people saying. Because God always treasure and help the humble and eventually the in laws will see the good in you. And if they don’t, that’s a them issue. Keep working the best you can and live life happy. It not easy but God always count the tears and he will turn them into bundle of joy. Blessings to you sister and to those who goes thru the situation. Thanks to the sister also who give the time to tell the story as well. Thank you!
Congrats on your accomplishment of PA! You so brave to go through this hard life. Our parents married so young at age 13 back in their country. Why would they want to force their kids to be like them, they should change and support their kids to be successful.
You’re mother-in-law is evil! I’m so happy that your husband loves you and stood by you. I’m so happy you got your PA degree and you have a wonderful life to show your mother-in-law. God bless you and your husband!
So sad that the parents are horrible parents putting you through so much. And your Mother in law so damn cruel to you and your kids. Smh it is very hard to forgive your parents and the in laws.. you don’t need to prove to them. If your heart still have room for forgiveness then do what your heart allow, no more. Love yourself. Forget MIL.
Nyab McDonald thiab cov me nyuam nplib Aw.....nej Tsi need txais tos niam pog McDonald li lawm os yog nej tseem txais nej niam pog McDonald thiab ces kev npam kawg poob rau nej xwb lauj😥😥😥😥
Wow, yog ib zaj kwv huam lub neej ua nyab mos mos uas tu siab kawg. Nplog muaj ib zaj lus piv txwv txhais ua lus Hmoob hais li no "Kev ua neej yog kev sib tw, luag thuam/ntxub yog tshuaj muaj zog rau yus lub siab kom peem tsheej tau ua neeg zoo." Tus niam pog no yeej yog ib tug ntawm cov niam pog phem phem uas peb yeej hnov hnov los. Yeej tsis muaj neeg pab tau/tsis kam pab ua rau zoo nkaus li yus ib leeg tawm tsam lub ntiaj teb (you against the world), tab sis kuv ntseeg tias yog nws niam pog thiab niam thiab txiv txhob ua phem phem li tej zaum nws yuav tsis muaj lub tshuaj muaj zog txhawb nws lub siab peem kom mus txog nws lub hom phiaj. Qhov niam pog cem, ntxub nws npaum li cas los nws tsis khiav, qhov loj tshaj ces yeej yog nws tus txiv los yeej hlub nws, tab sis qhov ntxiv mus ces yeej yog qhov tias nws tseem yau ces nws thiaj xyaum ua txhua yam kom luag nyiam thiab haum nrog rau luag tsev neeg. Qhov no thiaj yog ib qho laj thawj "reason" uas tej laus thauv thiaj txhawb "encourage" kom tej tub yuav nyab yuav tsum yuav cov mos mos luag thiaj los yoog tau yus tsev neeg. Nyob lub neej/ntuj ntawv neeg yeej coj tus yam ntxwv li ntawv. Vim lawv ntseeg tias nyob lub ntiaj teb no, tsuas muaj 2 tug neeg thiaj hlub koj ti txha xwb; xws li tus 1) yog tus yug yus; tus 2) yog tus yus yug xwb. Yog yus khiav tawm ntawm yus niam yus txiv mus ces lwm tus los yeej hais tias yus tsis yog neeg zoo ces yus mus txog twg los luag tsuas ntxias siv yus xwb. Lawv lub ntiaj teb yog ua kom yus tau kev tws ces ua neeg zoo/zoo li lawv kom yus ua xwb. Yog nws lub neej yog ua nyob rau teb chaws no/muaj McDonald, tab sis tsev neeg yog tsev loj hlob rau lub neej qub qab.
Nyab McDonald's thiaj muaj nyiaj tsis muaj nyiaj tsis tau mus noj McDonald's li os good for you, and that's why you work hard for your life that how you learn in life
Ntuj teb taag quas ncuas os puab awd.....aub, aub!! Caag mej ob paab tuab neeg nuav es yuav phem kawg ntuj kawg teb, kawg plaab kawg plawv nrho le os puab. Mej puas yog tuab neeg muaj sab muaj ntswg tag naj. Tsis khoi pum ib tse tuab neeg lub sab yuav lim ham npaum le ko le os. Tsis ua le caag nawb kev zaam txim yog ib qho tseem ceeb peb txhua tug yuav tau zaam txim rua tug lim ham rua yug txhaj le tau koob moov.
Tus niam tsev, niam tais niam pog lawv tsis hlub los koj tus txiv tseem hlub koj koom siab nrog koj ces twb zoo lawm mas mog. Zoo li peb cov no niam tais los tsis hlub niam pog los tsis nyiam niag txiv los siab phem ces qab ntuj no tsis muaj chaw cia siab lawm. Tsuas muab txoj sia khi rau tej me nyuam xwb.
Txhob tu siab os tus me Viv ncaus, vim koj mus nrog koj niam pog nyob nws yog tus niam tsev tab cuab thiaj raug tsim, muaj ib txhia nyab Los ua neej niam pog Los nrog nyab nyob nyab ua tus tab lub neej tab si twb tseem raug niam pog tsis nyiam thiab os, ua li koj hais nco tias yus Los ua nyab luag twb tsis nyiam yus ces yus muaj nyab thaum twg txhob tsim lawv xwb ces zoo heev li os, zoo siab uas koj tseem muaj siab hlub koj niam pog zam lub txim rau nws
Tus nyab me dav naum.koj txhob tu siab cas koj hmoov yuav phem ua luaj koj tus niam.tais lo tsis pab koj ho koj tus niam.pog lo ntxub koj ua luaj niam pog yog koj tus yeeb ncuab niam pog tsim koj lo laus tag li no ho niam tais lo thaum hluas tsis hlub tsis pab tsis rub koj tes thaum.koj raug luag tsim es twb yog koj niam yug koj cas tseem ua phim nkaus li koj niam.pog thiab nkawb 2 tug no tsis tsim nyog koj hlub nkawb lawm nim no koj twb laus tag koj tus txiv twb hlub koj lawm.ces ua 1 siab mus nyob nrog nws mus 1 txis ho niam.pog ces ph cuag tus poj dab xwb koj nyab tib neeg muaj siab muaj ntsws ces txhob hlub txhob khes txog koj tus niam.pog vim.nws saib koj zoo li me nyuam.yaus xwb yog koj tseem txais nyiaj thiab rub koj niam pog nrog koj nyon ces ntse koj tsuav lawb nqe os koj niam yug koj lo siab phem.kawg li tso pluav koj 2 tug niam.no pov tseg kab tsij mus ua neej zoo rau koj tus txiv xwb niam pog ces txhob quav ntej nws
Ua tsaug koj lub neej muab piav rau peb kawm os tus niam tij mloog koj lub neej xwb twb tu siab kawg li lawm thov kom Lwm hnub koj ua niam Pog koj hlub2 koj cov nyab os mog
Muab hais los cov nyab Hmoob lees siab yeej ntev dua lub neej nyab Hmoob Lees kuv paub zoo vim lub neej no kuv tseem nyob. Nyob kom yeej ntag txhob tu siab os mog
Nej cov niam pog uas tsis nyiam nej tus nyab yog koj xav li cas yog tsis muaj koj tus tub luag tus ntxhais yeej tsis los nro nyob hauv koj lub tsev zaug li. Yuav xav kom zoo2
I feel like there's always two sides to a story. I am a nyab and I'm also a niam pog. I love my grandson, he is my everything. I know some niam pog can dislike the nyab but not the grandkids. Some nyab are very lazy n dont cook at all too. If you dont cook then you embarrassed to come out to eat. Even her parents didnt have a relationship with her until the end too. Not saying she made everything up, but just saying maybe not everything is true. Again her mom didnt want anything to do with her too. As mothers we can never stay mad at our daughters for long...something's not right.
Whether someone is lazy or not, it's not anyone's place to criticize anyone. No one is perfect. If you dislike your daughter-in-law because she is lazy, then you should live on your own. This is America, there are plenty are apartments, and nursing homes too. Or, ask them to move out!
I personally know a mother who does not love her own daughter. Just because the daughter was the reason she had to marry the father. 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ so just because the story isn't similar to yours don't mean there are lies.
Va Thao I agree! My own mother told me she hates me. I am her first-born but she always treated me differently from my other siblings after me. When I got married to my husband, she didn’t even cry. Not all mothers are created equal.
I'm also an unwelcome daughter- in-law. I have 5 children, raised them on our own, own my own $450,000 house and live out of state from all the relatives. No one is in my business and I owe no one any favors. That is how you live when you're rejected. They missed out not us. Leave people that pushes you out and you will find happiness and sucess. Give them no opportunity to opress or sabotage your life.
It’s sad to be the least favorite nyab, even if u do your best and the same as others and yet u are the last they think of when they have something good to give. I’m in same boat but I just do my best and hope one day they will see, even when you know they only love u when they want something from u. We still have that one last hope that one day, just one day it will make their eyes open for u. Be the best Nyab u can be and if it’s not enough to them. At least u can say u gave your best.
Lilly Heu be a good enough person but no need to go the extra mile for people who have no love and respect for you. Build healthy boundaries and cut people who don’t benefit your life and don’t care for you. There’s no need trying to prove anything.
Hmong ppl needs to change this stupid rule that if a girl goes out late with her bf then they HAVE to get married. The girls parents are just ruining her life by forcing early marriage on her. This is AMERICA Hmong peeps. Your stupid rules don't apply here and you're NOT above the law.
Well brother or sister I have see Hmong have change the culture now about force young girl and boy marry very young. They know now they will go to jail fast. Parents know the kids have their right too. This story back in 1983-1990.
bchang, I think this story is old. The newer generation of parents now don't do that anymore. Otherwise, they should get jail time. That's plainly child abuse.
Your story made me sad because I can relate. Once upon a time many life time ago, I lived your life. I have left the Hmong community and left my parents. I am now living my life and remarried to a wonderful Meka husband. We own two business and live a good life, I live a good life now. Have big house, 20 acres land, many cars, big mobile RV and sport toys. Can afford anything I want. Never have to desire anything else while Everyone else in my past still living the same life & struggling. Still hurts me when I hear stories like yours and mine.
Always karma. Neeg siab phem tiag2. My MIL is passive aggressive. Act nice, but talk shit to me and behind my back. Then acts like she never did no wrong or hurt anyone. Me... I don't care for fake relationships.
Nyab Mes Dav Naum mas tseem khees nawj! hos yog niam pog mes dav naum mas nyuaj siab nawj cov bawg.
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Kuv xa kom cov me nyuam yuav poj niam hlua2 locas lo aws twb tsis kam li yog yus ua niam phem pem qaug yug ua dab tsis ma yus ua lawv nyab lawv pem npau li ntawv rau yus lo yeej yuav tsis taus thiab nws puayog poj niam ao
There are some mother-in-law witches in this world including mine. Being a Hmong daughter-in-law is something I would never want to become again if there is another lifetime. Hated by the MIL, SIL, and relatives because they just hate something about you, whether it is your age, your face, your last name, your family, etc. And the greatest pain is you are expected to take care of everything about them and for them. So heartbreaking and unfair. Some Hmong people are too entitled and privileged.
I am proud of you sister, people who hate you will always do. You deserve love and happiness. Don't please anyone, just live your life the way you want. The pain may never heal or a scar may remain, but evolve and treat your daughter-in-laws well, perhaps we CAN be the change for our young Hmong women.
“Kill with kindness” is the best vengeance. Love wins because evil never prevail.
I'm so proud of you! Job well done you did it for yourself . As long as your husband loves you!
I feel like you told the husbands version of this story.
I applaud these brave women that got married so young and had such a hard beginning but continued their education and lifted their life and status. So in awe!!
kuv lub neej zoo li koj thiab tab si wb sib yuav tau twb tsis nrog lawv nyob ib tsev wb mus nyob ib qhov lawm kuv niam pog ces yeej txaub kuv thiab cem los tau 30 lub xyoo no niaj hnub no nws twb laus2 lawm los tseem cem kuv rau tus ub tus no li cias li ua rau tu siab txaus2 lawm os 😭😭
Viv ncaus cas koj lub neej zoo li kuv lub thiab yus niam yus txiv los tsis hlub hos niam pog txiv yawg los tsis hlub li thiab tsis paub koj hos kuv kuj los nyob tau 22 lub xyoos lawm thiab
Dam sis! A PA-C?! That’s a big accomplishment! You’re a provider and they don’t even know what that is or the meaning of it! That’s hard work. Be proud:)
Cov Niam Pog uas ntxub2 nyab mas thaum ub lawv ntxub2 nws thiab es nws thiaj txawj2 tsim yus li thaum ub lawv tsim nws thiab.
thov txim tau hais li nawb, kuv yeej hais tseeb nawb cov hmoob dawb lawv mas ntxub hmoob lee tiag tiag li nawb, tej niam ntxawm niam hlob los yeej pab niam pog ntxub tus nyab hmoob lee. Tabsis kuv yeej hais ncaj qha hais tias cov nkauj hmoob dawb lawv yeej heev tshaj nkauj hmoob lee, nyab hmoob dawb los lawv lub qhov ncauj yeej heev tshaj plaws li os. Nov tsis dag kiag li nawb mog kuv pom kiag ntawm kuv qhov muag.
I’m gonna share my story one day. It will be the most tu siab story ever told
I look forward to it.
We are waiting lol
Shared I want to hear it👌
Please share
Pls share
You definitely made a big mistake by marrying young, but I'm even prouder to see that you were able to used that mistake to better your life. Life happens and as long as your able to improve from it is all that matters. Most people would never make it that far in life with such an early mistake like yours, but you are the few lucky one with potential.
Hmong only look short term. They don't look 10 to 30 yrs down the road. This parents forgot they are not education persons too. They still think back of old life in Laos. People the more you hurt them. The more they will proof to you. They can change their life around.
Thanks! Everybody have their good part of life. But it only short period of time not forever.
Sister what your real mom and dad did what wrong. They should protect you from your husband parents. I am glad you 2 have good life now. Teach your kids about life. You have to work your way up. Don't go hate other people.
Cov niam pog no yog cov niam pog tom taj laj tshav puam xwb tiag. Tos peb yuav muab lawv ntsab ua hmo os yeej zoo li ntawv tiag hmoob aw....
Kev npam Los txog lawm os! Kuv ntxub2 cov niam pog zoo li no kawg thiab tiag
Leej twg tsis tau raug niam pog tsim txhob rawm tuag.
Where should I start from here? My ex in laws are disrespectful & bullies the same as your mother-in-law no matter what you try to do & help them. When I first got married to my ex husband his parents told everyone I didn't eat Hmong food because I only ate American food since I grew up Americanized. My ex husband's two brothers got married before us within the same yr & we both were the least favorite of the four couples. They told everyone that our couple name was called "the slow turtles" since we never talk back. Whenever I told them the truth they would say I lied. Whenever their families tell a lie my ex in laws would believed it. It caused a lot of tension & dramas. About 2 yrs later, their first favorite daughter-in-law from Laos divorced their son, the second daughter-in-law divorced their next son, & at the end I divorced my ex husband. All the disrespect, bullies, & shit talking got old especially when the husband's don't defend you as his wife. I gave up the Hmong OG traditional life & live more peaceful now. Don't get me wrong, not all Hmong families are this way but most. Seen & heard too many stories like this. At the end of the day, you be the awesome respectful kindness you & know that it will kill these type of ppl. 😇🙏 Pray for them.
Wow, what a sad experience. Good job staying positive and not giving up on your goals and your husband. Also so thankful that at least your husband showed you what love is. ♡
Yog tus menyuam tub luag ntawv tsis txhob rho phom loj tshoob heev2 mus rau looj ceeb ces looj ceeb yeej tsis tawg li los mas lawv aw...Kuv twb yog ib tug ntxhais thaum ntawv kuv muaj13 lub xyoo xwb thiab kuv txiv pheej rho phom loj tshoob heev2 rov qab mus rau looj ceeb es kuv thiab li tau txoj kev hlub uas kuv tsis tau muaj dua li tiag lawv aw.....hehehehe....
Both of these parents should get under arrest. These kids did not know their right. They force kids marry kids. This story must be back 1983-1990.
Txhob tu siab os tus me viv ncaus aw peb cov no twb muaj 50 xyoo los muaj ib co niam tsev dev tseem hais tias peb tsis paub Ua noj thiab Ua los tsis Ntxim qab li no mas. Cov neeg phem yeem phem os. Hauv Tulsa,OK no es tus bien dev Judy Love thiab Kou Xiong Vang ntawv mas phem tiag2 nawb leej twg tuaj Ua haujlwm nrog nkawv mas nkawv Ua phem2 thiab txeeb luag tej diav Ua kom luag Nyob tsis taus Es tawm txoj haujlwm no kiag. Cov neeg no phem kawg os lawv aw
Nam Ntsuab Teeb aws tsis muaj Moob Ntsuab existed lawm os. Peb yog Moob Leeg just so you know. Moob Dlawb yuav tau stop using the word Moob Ntsuab bcuz none are existed today. Moob Ntsuab is a Cannibal Tribe back like 500 yrs ago and none are living today.
Qhov tsis make sense yog koj twb hais tias koj yuav txiv rau koj puag pw thiab koj tus txiv puag koj pws xwb no tiam sis koj ho pheej hais qhov tu siab, tu siab es quaj thaum lawv tsis nyiam koj. Yog koj twb ntseeg tias koj yuav txiv rau koj xwb es ho pheej tu siab dabtsi ma?
Koj hais tias kom txhob judge tiam sis koj twb prejudice lawm thiab nev, twb pib txwv koj cov me nyuam lawm thiab nev.
Me nyuam yog God muab los rau niam txiv kom lawv saib xyuas cob qhia kom loj hlob mus cuag lawv lub purpose. Me nyuam yuav tsum tau obey niam txiv lub authority. Thaum lawv tawv dhau lawm ces thiaj ntsib kev txom nyem li no. Yog hnub koj xaiv yuav mus puag txiv puag poj niam pw lawm, txhais tias koj xaiv tawm mus ntawm koj niam koj txiv txoj kev responsibility es koj choose to mus responsible for koj tus kheej lawm. Koj tsis muaj cai chim thiab tu siab rau niam thiab txiv niam pog txiv yawg.
Yog, yug log ua neeg lawm yeej yuav muaj hnub mus muaj txij nkawm, tiam sis hnub ntawd yuav tsum yog hnub koj responsible tau koj tus kheej.
Yus qhia yus li ko thiaj paub meej paub ntxhaws tiag. I hope your experience will help you guide your own offsprings.
Koj tseem menyuam Tau xwbbvim li cas txawm siv than hluas nraug koj Ryan heev tsis Tau paub tab Kev UA nyab tsis yog UA so.koj niam tsis tsum nyog yuam koj yuav txiv.luag thiaj Tia's UA nyab thiaj paub tab UA vauv thiaj paub qauv.txhob sib than ntxov y yuav txiv ntxov y Nov yog USA tsis yog nplog teb es yuav mus UA teb xwb.koj UA neej yuam Kev vim tuam y tsis paub tab txawm siv yuav txiv thiaj Tau Kev lwj siab.txhob tu siab koj niam koj txiv twb tsis hlub koj niam pig twb tsis yog koj niam luag thiaj tsis hlub
Kuv xav mas koj txhob tu siab tas2 rau koj niam koj txiv thiab tsam tej tej thaum lawv yeej pom qhov tseeb lawm...tsuav hnub no lawv txawj thov txim ces yog qhov zoo lawm no...rau ncoo siab2 es ua tib zoo xav dua ma...vim neb 12 / 14 xyoos neb sib tham lawm nav...tej zaum yus yeej tsis paub dab tsi tiag2 tej laus thiaj ua zaj ua zus hais yus thiab os...
Yog lawm nawb koj pom koj niam Pog niamtais ua Tsis yog koj Txhob xyaum nawb. Yog koj xyaum ces koj cov ntxhais thiab cov Nyab yuav tusiab ibyam nkaus koj. Nyob Ntiajteb no cas peb cov hmoob mas Tsuas hnov ntiajtog paumpes cav tias niam Pog thiab Nyab tsis sib haum xwb?? ntshe nej yuav tau hloov nawb es nej lub npe tsis sib haum thiaj yuav ploj mus... vim nej yog pojniam ibyam ntshe yuav tau sib hwm no nawb. nej tsis sib haum ces ua rau peb cov txivtsev los tsis pom qab txiav plaub rau nej tus niam Pog thiab nyab no mas nyuaj peb siab kawg nkaus li vim peb cov txiv tsev no yeej hlub Ob leeg xav kom sib haum nawb es kom nej kaub nej xwb zoo dua. Xav kom peb cov tiam tshiab no yuav tau hloov txhua Yam ntawm nej obtog es thiaj sib haum nawb...
Txhob tu siab os mog, luag tsis pab tsis hlub yus, thiaj tsis tshuav luag nqi os, zoo uas koj rau 2 siab ntawv, thaum kawg koj lub neej twb zoo lawm, nrog koj zoo siab lawm os!, twb yog koj ua taus siab ntev kawg, koj niam pog qhia koj ua neej xwb os!, yog tsis teev dab ces los ntseeg tus Tswv Yexus xwb mom, twb tsis yog koj xyav nws lub qe, ho nws rov xyav nws lub qe xwb
Peb cov niam pog no tsis nco qab tias lawv los twb yog ib tus ntxhais thiab. Yog tsis nyiam leejtwg los ua nyab ces koom kiag lawv cov tub xwb txhob yug tub los rau peb cov ntxhais hmoob yuav li. I had an evil mother-in-law as well and my ex-husband was such a mamaS boy. They can have each other!
Ib tug niag pog zoo li koj tus es niam yuav ua tau dab tsi rau koj os tus sister aw. Don’t worry about her, she’s saying all that shit because she’s old and she can’t do what you do. This is America, you don’t need her, she’s only gonna need you in the near future. Twb nyob teb chaw Meka es tseem muaj tej tug niag niam pog ntxim txub npaum no thiab.
Kuv pom koj mas yog koj ob tog niam txiv hlub neb mas neb tsis muaj hnub no nawv es tsis txhob tu2 siab nawv. Ua noj tswv mas yog koj txoj hmoo hos ua niam tais yawm txiv ua niam pog txiv yawg ces yog neb muaj me nyuam yawm ces : yeej yuav paub xwb22 los mas nawv nyab McDonald's e!!!.
Tus niam tsev koj niam pog hu hmoob Lees ua nplim txuas quav kuv yog hmoob Lees thiab cas hmoob Lees ho tsis paub txog nplim txuas quav nws ho paub ces nws yog nplim txuas quav ntag los mas. Tsis txhob cim leej twg paub hais ces yog leej twg yog nplim xwb nawb.
12 xyoo ces koj yeej yuav tsaug tsim os peb tej menyuam 12 xyoo tswj xeeb yog ntxhais los ua kuv nyab los kuv yeej tsi nyiam vim OMG tuag2
Lub neej thaum i tus me nyuam 12 xyoos ntse thiab paub tab dua hnub no lawm. Vim culture hloov lawm, thaum i, tej me nyuam muab 7-8 xyoo xwb twb raug ua noj ua hauv pab nus tsev neeg thiab zov me nyuam lawm. Hnub no, tus 12 xyoos es twb tsis tau txawj ua dab tsi hlo li, lub tswv yim los poob qab thiab.
Tus viv ncaus thaum kawg koj lub neej twb zoo lawm ces zoo lawm os. Yog koj niam koj txiv thiab niam pog txiv yawg lawm tsis ua li ntawv rau koj ntshe koj twb tsis mob mob siab mus kawm ntawv os mog. Chim thiab tus siab los tub ib txhia xwb. Qhov tseem ceeb ces koj tus txiv hlub hlub koj. Nrog koj zoo siab thias koj lus neej mus deb heev ua tau rau koj niam koj txiv thiab niam pog thov txim rau koj kiag lawm ces zoo lawm os mog.
......Don't feel bad. It's not you that your in-laws disrespect. It's his son who she disrespect. Your husband is not a man, too gullible and a mamma's boy. But don't worry you should be happy now because you're success. Successfully is the best revenge in life. A physician Assistant is hardwork and earns 100k+. You're a good nyab. You're not a nyab McDonald in our eyes at all. You are a pearl.
Txawm muaj ib 100 tug niam pog los yuav tsis muaj ib tug nyiam koj vim koj niam yug koj kiag los twb tsis nyiam koj lawm. Niaj hnub niam no los xyov koj puas muaj ib tug txheeb ze nyiam thiab swm koj li vim koj coj tus cwj pwm zoo li kiddos xwb txawm tias koj twb laus lawm.
Zaj neej neeg no txhob chim txhob tu siab. Hmoob los lus tias haiv neeg Heev muaj haiv neeg tsim ... cia tus niam pog thiab tus niam Tais no npam tees thib qhov yav laus tej lawv hlub thiab lawv pab2 yuav tsis xav hlub xav pab es cia lawv cov laus no kawm nawb. Hmoob lub siab lim hiam thiab coj li no tseem coob thiab phem Heev. Smh cov laus hloov nawb tsis hloov tuag tsis muaj neeg faus nawb.
Tus viv ncau nyob li koj lub neej koj piav no mas kuj tseem kawg thiab vim koj tus niam pog ib leeg tsim koj xwb koj tseem tsuav koj tus txiv ua koj lub zog thiab nws tseem hlub koj thiab pab koj mas koj lub neej phem los tseem tshuav kuv lub neej tseem phem tshaj koj lub kuv twb tseem ua neej nyob nrog kuv tus txiv nyob li kuv lub neej mas tag nro kuv tus tsev neeg nrog rau kuv tus txiv ua phem rau kuv los kuv tseem ua kuv rau rau siab lub neej koj zoo dua li qhov lawv xav es txog thawm kawg koj lawv rov tuaj muag rau kuv thiab kuv ntseeg tau tias lub ntuj muaj qhov muag lub ntuj yeej yuav qhib ib txog kev rau lawv taug thiab es hnub no lawv ua mob kuv los tag ki lawv tus mob uas lawv tsim rau kuv tau noog ntawd yuav thig rov mus xau tus neeg tsim tus mob ntawd tshwm tusk ce thaum no tsis tus pab tau nws es yus mas li tuaj ib cag saib pab nws ti siab rau NWS txoj kev phem ua nws ua es rov npam nws
What a evil mother in law. Just because you don't like your daughter in law. It doesn't mean for you to treat your daughter in law like shit. That mother in law got what she deserved. Geesh. 😤😤😠😠😠
Txhob tu siab thiab koj xav mas yog lawv tsis ua li rau koj tej zaum koj twb tsis zoo li ko kuv hais qhia koj tias kuv tus niam pog tsis ua li ko tab sis kuv cov niam tij tij laus ua phem txawj tshaj li koj qhov ko rau kuv kuv tu siab kawg nkaus tab si ziag no kuv mas cav tias yog lawv tsis ua phem ntshe yus lub neej tsis zoo li h ub no ua tsaug rau lawv cov tau ua phem rau kuv no os me nyab aw...
Ntuj os teb aws niam pog dab tsi es yuav phem tag npaum li naj nim cem luag hais tias pog nplim nplim nyob nplim es leej twb kom yus mus cuab nplim rau hauv yus lub tawb maj pog phem dhau lawm os
zaj neej neeg ko ma yog kiag Li kuv lub neej uas kuv Los uas niam pog tus nyab txawg niam pog tsig kuv ma tu siab thiab mob siab tshaj kuv tus niam pog ma niag hnub niag hmo hais tias peb ma yog hnub nom noob RW
Xob tu siab tu me niam tsev peb haiv hmoob yeej coj phem tsis tas tu tab sis yeej muaj coob niaj hnub no kuj tseem muaj qee vim yog peb hmoob yog ib haiv neeg tshav phem xob tu siab mog xam tias yog ib hauv tshuaj zoo heev rau koj xob mog
Mos txwv tua raug ib tug xwb hos phom loj yeej raug coob tshaj nej xav seb puas yog thiab ma lawv...
Peb cov ua Niam ua Txiv yuav tau hloov, thaum ub cov laus tsis paub thiaj coj li ntawv xwb.
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Yog leej twg tsis tau muaj niam pog thiab muam cem thiab tsim txhob tu siab rau siab khwv kom muaj xwb zoo lawm
This is a very good story. My life is simliar to that. Some inlaws are never happy and some never want to accept thier WRONGS- BUT this story teaches both parties: sons, daughters, moms, dads (in-laws) to not force and to discourage eachother- in the future! Everyone will get to be a IN-LAW one day so just don't put yourself or your own child in that situtation. Teach them about safe XXX and tell them that education will always be KEY to a good future. We all have to learn somewhere; we can't always be in LA-LA Land.
These idiots parents who don’t like their daughter in law, I hated and sick of them. Well heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim..what goes around goes around and it’s more bitter
I hate both parents. Should've let the mom call the cops. The cops would tell her she needs to chill because both kids are minor. The elders are all dumb in this story. I am happy she never give up and work hard to better her life.
You two should be very proud of yourself! If your both parents love your guys in the first place? you both might not have a successful life right now.
I don’t understand these type of mother-in-laws when they are still able-bodied, they mistreat their daughter-in-laws but when they get older, that’s when they want you to fell sympathy for them. 🤦🏼♀️
I believed there's a mean niam pog like this, some of us living this life now a day..... Can't believed there's such a witches😣😣😣😣
Hais nyab McDonald yuav tsum hais niam pog Quav Binggo thiab ma....haha!
NIAG NTSEJ MUAG RUAM NIAM POG NTAWD SIAB PHEM HEEV RAU KOJ TSI TAG KOJ YUAV TIG ROV MUS HLUB NWS LI MOG...NEJ HAIS XWB TWB UA RAU KUV PAB KOJ MOB SIAB LI OS VIVCNAUS AW...
Glad u became a PA. If u did not succeed they would still not love u.
This story is almost like mine. I'm not a nyab McDonald but she calls me an ugly midget. She tells everyone im too short and not pretty enough for her son. She's never liked me, but now she's living with me. You guys can make the rest of the story. Lol. Forgive them. Without them, you wouldn't be where you are even if it's wrong.
Koj niam thiab koj niam pog ob lub siab ces phem ib yam nkaus li ntag
Tus muam. Koj cov neej neeg. Txaus
Tu siab heev.
Niam pig tsis hlub koj thiaj tsis tshiab nqi
McDonald's is expensive now. Can't even afford McDonald's nowadays. 😂🤣. A physician assistant is a great achievement.
Siab phem yeej tsis tau ntuj ntoo
Shit...both your mum and mil are cruel did it out of spite. So sad 😭
I'm so sorry you were mistreated, sister. May you continue to focus on your life and continue to be blessed.
Stand your own ground. My husband and i are a mcdonald couple too. I moved out after 2 months and he folllowed.
I'll take a big Mac with large frys and coke plus a successful wife togo.
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Hahah... that's a good tasty meal there.
Wow! You are strong and your man stand by you. Blessed you two!
I am a nyab myself. And it’s never easy. Everyone has a different situation but our emotions are relatable. I am a young adult myself and it does get so hard. I mean really hard. Because a lot can be expected out of a nyab. When I hear this sister story. I cried and it send a message to my heart because I know exactly how it feels. But you know, God is so Good! You do good then good come back. Like the old people saying. Because God always treasure and help the humble and eventually the in laws will see the good in you. And if they don’t, that’s a them issue. Keep working the best you can and live life happy. It not easy but God always count the tears and he will turn them into bundle of joy. Blessings to you sister and to those who goes thru the situation. Thanks to the sister also who give the time to tell the story as well. Thank you!
Congrats on your accomplishment of PA! You so brave to go through this hard life. Our parents married so young at age 13 back in their country. Why would they want to force their kids to be like them, they should change and support their kids to be successful.
True story my sister
Me and my wife go through the same route very sad
Daughter McDonald’s VS Mother McDonald’s = women
You’re mother-in-law is evil! I’m so happy that your husband loves you and stood by you. I’m so happy you got your PA degree and you have a wonderful life to show your mother-in-law. God bless you and your husband!
Holy shit, 12-13 yrs old and sib yuav🤪
Uas cas cov laus es yuav ruam thiab ohem uas luaj li thiab os
So sad that the parents are horrible parents putting you through so much. And your Mother in law so damn cruel to you and your kids. Smh it is very hard to forgive your parents and the in laws.. you don’t need to prove to them. If your heart still have room for forgiveness then do what your heart allow, no more. Love yourself. Forget MIL.
Nyab McDonald thiab cov me nyuam nplib Aw.....nej Tsi need txais tos niam pog McDonald li lawm os yog nej tseem txais nej niam pog McDonald thiab ces kev npam kawg poob rau nej xwb lauj😥😥😥😥
Wow, yog ib zaj kwv huam lub neej ua nyab mos mos uas tu siab kawg. Nplog muaj ib zaj lus piv txwv txhais ua lus Hmoob hais li no "Kev ua neej yog kev sib tw, luag thuam/ntxub yog tshuaj muaj zog rau yus lub siab kom peem tsheej tau ua neeg zoo." Tus niam pog no yeej yog ib tug ntawm cov niam pog phem phem uas peb yeej hnov hnov los. Yeej tsis muaj neeg pab tau/tsis kam pab ua rau zoo nkaus li yus ib leeg tawm tsam lub ntiaj teb (you against the world), tab sis kuv ntseeg tias yog nws niam pog thiab niam thiab txiv txhob ua phem phem li tej zaum nws yuav tsis muaj lub tshuaj muaj zog txhawb nws lub siab peem kom mus txog nws lub hom phiaj.
Qhov niam pog cem, ntxub nws npaum li cas los nws tsis khiav, qhov loj tshaj ces yeej yog nws tus txiv los yeej hlub nws, tab sis qhov ntxiv mus ces yeej yog qhov tias nws tseem yau ces nws thiaj xyaum ua txhua yam kom luag nyiam thiab haum nrog rau luag tsev neeg. Qhov no thiaj yog ib qho laj thawj "reason" uas tej laus thauv thiaj txhawb "encourage" kom tej tub yuav nyab yuav tsum yuav cov mos mos luag thiaj los yoog tau yus tsev neeg. Nyob lub neej/ntuj ntawv neeg yeej coj tus yam ntxwv li ntawv. Vim lawv ntseeg tias nyob lub ntiaj teb no, tsuas muaj 2 tug neeg thiaj hlub koj ti txha xwb; xws li tus 1) yog tus yug yus; tus 2) yog tus yus yug xwb. Yog yus khiav tawm ntawm yus niam yus txiv mus ces lwm tus los yeej hais tias yus tsis yog neeg zoo ces yus mus txog twg los luag tsuas ntxias siv yus xwb. Lawv lub ntiaj teb yog ua kom yus tau kev tws ces ua neeg zoo/zoo li lawv kom yus ua xwb.
Yog nws lub neej yog ua nyob rau teb chaws no/muaj McDonald, tab sis tsev neeg yog tsev loj hlob rau lub neej qub qab.
Very sad story 😭😭😭😭 but you make it. I’m so happy for you sister.
Wow! Nplim txuas nplim txuas quav tabsis caag thaum kawg ho moog kom nplim txuas quav moog pes lug hab nrug Doctors sib thaam txug nwg tug tub hlub kws yog meb tug tij laug? Hab ua caag yuav muaj ntsej muag plhu yuav tuab ua luaj es tseev cav muaj ntsej muag tuaj demand kom nplim txuas rhu $20k lug rua yug? What kind of Evil mother in-law is this? Yog tau tug nyaab Moob Dlawb ntshe koj nam puj twb moog nyob qaab choj lawm os. Peb cov nam txiv Moob yuav tau hloov txawm yog Moob dlawb Moob Leeg os ua neej tsis pum Moov phem ib txha los tseg ib txha hab tsaam ib ntsiv yug rov cev twg pus yug qhov ncauj mag.
Tu siab kawg yus mus ua ib tug nyab niam pog tsis nyiam yus..tabsis zoo qho yus tus txiv hlub yus tuaj yus tog tsis mloog niam pog hais es thiaj lam nyob tau..hos yog tu txiv tuaj niam pog rog ces yus kawg tawm ntev nawb me sister aww
Nyab McDonald's thiaj muaj nyiaj tsis muaj nyiaj tsis tau mus noj McDonald's li os good for you, and that's why you work hard for your life that how you learn in life
Tau tus nyab zoo Los cas niam pog yuav phem ua luaj. Tau niam pog zoo Los cas tus nyab yuav phem txog qhov tsis ua mov rau niam pog noj.
Ntuj teb taag quas ncuas os puab awd.....aub, aub!! Caag mej ob paab tuab neeg nuav es yuav phem kawg ntuj kawg teb, kawg plaab kawg plawv nrho le os puab. Mej puas yog tuab neeg muaj sab muaj ntswg tag naj. Tsis khoi pum ib tse tuab neeg lub sab yuav lim ham npaum le ko le os. Tsis ua le caag nawb kev zaam txim yog ib qho tseem ceeb peb txhua tug yuav tau zaam txim rua tug lim ham rua yug txhaj le tau koob moov.
Tus niam tsev, niam tais niam pog lawv tsis hlub los koj tus txiv tseem hlub koj koom siab nrog koj ces twb zoo lawm mas mog. Zoo li peb cov no niam tais los tsis hlub niam pog los tsis nyiam niag txiv los siab phem ces qab ntuj no tsis muaj chaw cia siab lawm. Tsuas muab txoj sia khi rau tej me nyuam xwb.
Txhob tu siab os tus me Viv ncaus, vim koj mus nrog koj niam pog nyob nws yog tus niam tsev tab cuab thiaj raug tsim, muaj ib txhia nyab Los ua neej niam pog Los nrog nyab nyob nyab ua tus tab lub neej tab si twb tseem raug niam pog tsis nyiam thiab os, ua li koj hais nco tias yus Los ua nyab luag twb tsis nyiam yus ces yus muaj nyab thaum twg txhob tsim lawv xwb ces zoo heev li os, zoo siab uas koj tseem muaj siab hlub koj niam pog zam lub txim rau nws
Tus nyab me dav naum.koj txhob tu siab cas koj hmoov yuav phem ua luaj koj tus niam.tais lo tsis pab koj ho koj tus niam.pog lo ntxub koj ua luaj niam pog yog koj tus yeeb ncuab niam pog tsim koj lo laus tag li no ho niam tais lo thaum hluas tsis hlub tsis pab tsis rub koj tes thaum.koj raug luag tsim es twb yog koj niam yug koj cas tseem ua phim nkaus li koj niam.pog thiab nkawb 2 tug no tsis tsim nyog koj hlub nkawb lawm nim no koj twb laus tag koj tus txiv twb hlub koj lawm.ces ua 1 siab mus nyob nrog nws mus 1 txis ho niam.pog ces ph cuag tus poj dab xwb koj nyab tib neeg muaj siab muaj ntsws ces txhob hlub txhob khes txog koj tus niam.pog vim.nws saib koj zoo li me nyuam.yaus xwb yog koj tseem txais nyiaj thiab rub koj niam pog nrog koj nyon ces ntse koj tsuav lawb nqe os koj niam yug koj lo siab phem.kawg li tso pluav koj 2 tug niam.no pov tseg kab tsij mus ua neej zoo rau koj tus txiv xwb niam pog ces txhob quav ntej nws
If .
Ntiaj teb no muaj cov neeg phem li no thiab os ntuj Aw... cov niag neeg phem li no ces yeej phem2222 kom txog hnub nws siav tu nrho ☹️☹️
Koj tus niam pog ntawm kos nws tsis yog neeg muaj siab muaj ntsws xob. Quab ntsej nwg kag tuab neeg phem ces yeej phem od .xob tu sab mog siv siv zug ua neej xwb mog.
Ua tsaug koj lub neej muab piav rau peb kawm os tus niam tij mloog koj lub neej xwb twb tu siab kawg li lawm thov kom Lwm hnub koj ua niam Pog koj hlub2 koj cov nyab os mog
Muab hais los cov nyab Hmoob lees siab yeej ntev dua lub neej nyab Hmoob Lees kuv paub zoo vim lub neej no kuv tseem nyob. Nyob kom yeej ntag txhob tu siab os mog
Nyab Macdonald tsis phem kiag sav, koj mus thaum twg los twb yuav tau noj thiab nev???? Not bad at all...
Cov dab neeg Niam pog tsim nyab ib txheej tsim ib txheej tsis paub tus siab li Pog tsim nyab Los nyab kuj hnov tias thaum ub Pog Los UA nyab lawv tsim Pog thiab Mloog mob hlwb 😇😇 tos me kas lawv sib Yuav lawm ces lawv mus nyob lawv.
Nej cov niam pog uas tsis nyiam nej tus nyab yog koj xav li cas yog tsis muaj koj tus tub luag tus ntxhais yeej tsis los nro nyob hauv koj lub tsev zaug li. Yuav xav kom zoo2
Txhob ntxub kj ob tug niam yuav tsum ua nkawv ntaug vim muaj nkawv cem2 kj thiaj kawm ntawv siab lis kj yog nkawv hlub222 kj ntshe kj twb tsis kawm ntawv siab lis kj nawb
I feel like there's always two sides to a story. I am a nyab and I'm also a niam pog. I love my grandson, he is my everything. I know some niam pog can dislike the nyab but not the grandkids. Some nyab are very lazy n dont cook at all too. If you dont cook then you embarrassed to come out to eat. Even her parents didnt have a relationship with her until the end too. Not saying she made everything up, but just saying maybe not everything is true. Again her mom didnt want anything to do with her too. As mothers we can never stay mad at our daughters for long...something's not right.
Whether someone is lazy or not, it's not anyone's place to criticize anyone. No one is perfect. If you dislike your daughter-in-law because she is lazy, then you should live on your own. This is America, there are plenty are apartments, and nursing homes too. Or, ask them to move out!
I personally know a mother who does not love her own daughter. Just because the daughter was the reason she had to marry the father. 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ so just because the story isn't similar to yours don't mean there are lies.
Va Thao I agree! My own mother told me she hates me. I am her first-born but she always treated me differently from my other siblings after me. When I got married to my husband, she didn’t even cry. Not all mothers are created equal.