"If You Can't Have S*x Before Marriage You Should Discuss It" Psychologist Bountiful Taiwo Adelanwa

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 ก.ค. 2024
  • Social Worker/ Psychologist Bountiful Taiwo Adelanwa discuss How women can do more for themselves and take charge of their relationships.
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  • @kumayonkumasi5966
    @kumayonkumasi5966 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    THE MOST EFFECTIVE ORGAN OF SEX IS MIND. As a COUNSELLING Psychologist, situation can increase or decrease LIBIDO.

  • @adeolaibigbemi8612
    @adeolaibigbemi8612 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    The most important perspective you guys are not talking about is that human beings will change, your libido can even change a lot of things can change during a marriage. How you handle change is the most important thing we should teach singles and married. I keep saying this.

  • @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518
    @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Amaka 'disappoint' me!😂 What a BOUNTIFUL fellow IYABEJI! Awesome social work amd psychology talk. We need her back EVVEY QUARTER! ❤

  • @ololadebello5207
    @ololadebello5207 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Weldone Dr Adelanwa, the dynamics have indeed changed

  • @akinseyi7886
    @akinseyi7886 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    A Sound Woman (Psychologist)

  • @ngoziuguru1734
    @ngoziuguru1734 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Good to see you here sis Adelanwa..We were in joyful mother's forum together in daystar

  • @apoloniuskemahs9394
    @apoloniuskemahs9394 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Tope came correct on this one.

  • @samueleleko8228
    @samueleleko8228 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Tope, that is wisdom. "100% at the beginning can change along the journey". That is the reality, how many "cars" do you want to test before buying one? Cars have a guarantee humans have none.

  • @onifadeidris7803
    @onifadeidris7803 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Amazing discussions from my Amiable Doctor but I strongly feel we should have a second phase of the topic

  • @chiomanwachukwu6744
    @chiomanwachukwu6744 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I can't contain my gratitude for all that I've heard and learnt from the session of My View. Dear hosts, you're all amazing (including those not here on this show). To Dr Adelanwa, you are greatly admired. Thank you for sharing so much of your insight and personal values. I could relate to quite a number of things and I sincerely have gained salient knowledge from your contributions. Ladies of Your View, thank you for asking the right questions. Cheers 😊.

  • @kumayonkumasi5966
    @kumayonkumasi5966 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Good topic from wonderful women. I appreciate your discussion.

  • @estherpickard
    @estherpickard 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Congratulations Dr Busayo!

  • @tessynwolisa4026
    @tessynwolisa4026 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Bountiful you are awesome

  • @aanuoluwaomilani7517
    @aanuoluwaomilani7517 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wisdom 💯

  • @Cerebralpalsy35
    @Cerebralpalsy35 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes we want to see more of this woman, i really enjoyed this segment today. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @adeyemititilope1950
    @adeyemititilope1950 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Nice one

  • @olowoaye
    @olowoaye 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Hmm. Some products are not meant to be fully tested or they end up losing their new tag and becoming used and second hand.

  • @victoriaadebiyi1142
    @victoriaadebiyi1142 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    God's standard will never change for any man on judgement day he said I honour my words than my name.

  • @chimarokeufomadu
    @chimarokeufomadu 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dr, you are good

  • @oluwatobilobaayofe6303
    @oluwatobilobaayofe6303 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    She's going "like this, like this and like this" because you kept interrupting her thus making her to digress. Can you all learn to be professional and allow her to complete whatever point she's trying to put forward.

  • @abiodunbabalola1413
    @abiodunbabalola1413 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This would have been a more beautiful episode without the interruptions in between diacussions. But it was a good watch at the end.

  • @kumayonkumasi5966
    @kumayonkumasi5966 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    TESTING CAR BEFORE BUYING in the context of SEXUAL INTERCOURSE before marriage has robbed some women of their VALUES.
    WHAT HAPPENED AFTER TESTING AND THE BUYER REFUSED TO BUY?
    EMOTIONAL BROUHAHA

    • @cyndynnadi626
      @cyndynnadi626 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      My dear that's my fear I don't want sex again before marriage and you will them running and you have your peace and space in one till person wey sabi comes around

  • @DoubleTeeOye
    @DoubleTeeOye 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    @ Tope brain is too much for you😂 I love you already 🎉❤

  • @bogblessblessed3828
    @bogblessblessed3828 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    These women have a clear problem of interrupting each other. I stopped watching a while ago, hoping they have changed.

  • @adeniyitunde4744
    @adeniyitunde4744 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Awesome discussions! Wives to husband in polygamy is like children to women.Woman love her children equally like men love their wives.I therefore beg to disagree with Dr.Taiwo on lack of affection after second wife from men.

  • @user-vq9os9kh9r
    @user-vq9os9kh9r 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I agree wirh amaja, discussing about sex is different from physical experiences.

  • @Astfhz
    @Astfhz 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Amaka is not a good counsellor.

  • @Oreoluwa255
    @Oreoluwa255 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Bountiful? Is that her name?

  • @ladymariamoa
    @ladymariamoa 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Amaka is making me laugh with her persistence on tasting and tasting. Ha!!! Why do you want to do that? Can't you discuss all sex talks with your man whom you are interested in or the men who are interested in you,to make a decision? Rara ooo( No ooo) my people will say or Nba ( No ooo) as your people will say. Why tasting and tasting. Not even accidental taste but tasting and tasting. Na wa ooo.
    Even Islamically it isn't allowed as my religion says, as even Ramatu has stated, so society doesn't approve or there will be chaos and the world will end with many horrible sins, if everyone thinks to be tasting and tasting before they settle for Marriage. Aoo'thu bilahi minar shaytani Rajeem.

  • @oladimejiolasunkanmi8035
    @oladimejiolasunkanmi8035 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You guys should let your guest land. Too much of side talk.

  • @simenioyinuah8532
    @simenioyinuah8532 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    How do men learn if there's no feedback from women.... are men supposed to learn about women from men?

    • @bountifulevents
      @bountifulevents 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      There are a lot of resource centers online for all genders

  • @jaywon_optimum
    @jaywon_optimum 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The guest only makes noises...

  • @toughcookii
    @toughcookii 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    PHD holders without experience always know the theory of everything they researched. Doesn’t make you an expert. “How many people would you do” is a very unprofessional and judgmental statement to make, I do hope you don’t infact give anyone any counseling as you have no self control of your mouth and emotions.

    • @ccmma1844
      @ccmma1844 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      How do u mean? She has done justice to her work. Please can u elucidate where u think she did wrong with ur judgement. I really did not comprehend u here.

    • @estheraleghe3301
      @estheraleghe3301 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      This is an unnecessary attack on this wonderful guest. She is well informed in her professional views based on her research. She must be brought back to the show. We would rather listen to informed guests than views without factual backing!!
      In regards to the guest responding to Amaka’s statement, there is absolutely nothing wrong in the guest asking how many people will she do, that question is very on point especially when the Bible teaches us that sex (as allowed in a marriage is a covenant with God) is to be enjoyed between a man and a woman in a marriage context. Let us please be guided by truth as it only can set us free!
      Let us be well informed before we start throwing unnecessary stones. It’s not too late to fix our lives if we have derailed from the original course put forth by God who made us and gave us the manual to help us navigate life.
      Culture and social media should not determine how we live. Just like we would not consult an android manual when trying to operate a new iPhone!! Mtcheew!!

    • @_TerryFerdinand
      @_TerryFerdinand 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @toughcookii
      Evidential and experiential knowledge comes from learning practical lessons in real-life situations.
      Sex education and human psychology do not bend to the type of stereotypes that gag liberal expressions and cage the mind.
      Take note, when you contribute to public discussion guard your speech, and be mindful because the internet has a long memory.

    • @bountifulevents
      @bountifulevents 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      @toughcookii Don't be hasty to judge others without having your facts intact. My PHD may be fresh but I am not a rookie in practice, I pride myself in over 10 years of success in professional practice, with over 75% successful casework closed. My response to Amaka's thought on testing "How many will you sample" was in no way intended to be judgemental rather it is better objectively viewed as a challenge to her thought which may aid validation of her thought on the subject matter. kindly spread more love and positivity always. cheers.

    • @adeadewusi5300
      @adeadewusi5300 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@@bountifuleventsCongrats our own Dr. Busayo .... Watched you from Ibadan - Aromolaran Street, Old Ife Road ... Hope to see you soon. Well-done