Never Too Late To Come Out As Transgender: Heartfelt Stories

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  • @KristyMcClellan
    @KristyMcClellan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    I just came out MTF last year at 56.

    • @Ewoorg
      @Ewoorg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Gongratulations to be free you

    • @astralcamisado648
      @astralcamisado648 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Congratulations! ^_^

    • @jakeb.2057
      @jakeb.2057 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      My Genderation Gross

    • @MarleyDrives
      @MarleyDrives 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thats awesome!

    • @amybarnes3052
      @amybarnes3052 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Well done congratulations I came out last year at around the same age

  • @poe9753
    @poe9753 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    I started socially transitioning at 14 and medically at 18 and it's always great to see older trans people, its interesting also to see how different people's experiences are

  • @allyhouser1495
    @allyhouser1495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Just starting my HRT at 47. It's never too late. Another very relavent video. Keep up your great work.

  • @thelastunicorn4
    @thelastunicorn4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just want to give all these people a hug. Thank you for sharing your stories.

  • @lillianroux2747
    @lillianroux2747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    I’m 63 and I finally got the opportunity to transition. God I needed this and finally I’m on my way m/f 💕💓

    • @astralcamisado648
      @astralcamisado648 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Congratulations, I'm really happy for you ^_^

    • @lillianroux2747
      @lillianroux2747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Astral Camisado thank you 💕💓

    • @lillianroux2747
      @lillianroux2747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My Genderation I thank you for the film 💕💓

    • @allyhouser1495
      @allyhouser1495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hey, Lillian. Pleasure to see your comments here. Im not quite as late of a starter on my transition as you ( just starting at 47) but I can relate quite a bit to you and the men and women in this video. Sooo many wasted and unfulfilling years.
      I don't think I have congratuled you yet on starting your journey, so congratulations, sister.
      I look forward to your next post on Q.

    • @lillianroux2747
      @lillianroux2747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Derek Bowling thank you for your response. I often wondered if anyone really read my comments but I see someone does. I’m almost rid of all my man clothes which helps me deal with a dysphoria I had to live with. I feel amazing with the help of many of my friends. My immediate family is behind me on the transition which is a blessing for me. 💕💓

  • @Aeroductile1
    @Aeroductile1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    24 y/o transman here! hearing the stories of older trans people is so so important. it's such a shame that there are so many hurdles to get past to even start your treatment. i got referred when i was 18 and only managed to start testosterone 4 months ago. i have nothing but respect for my elders who finally managed to take that step in their 40s/50s/60s. it's such a huge thing to do and the improvement to my quality of life has been noticeable already. much love

  • @Sara_PY
    @Sara_PY 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I transitioned at 56. I'm now 68. I've never questioned doing this. Never.

  • @Bree12am
    @Bree12am 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    These people are all heroes. I have the utmost respect for older trans people, taking the leap to be who they are later on in life. As a 22yo trans girl, seeing everyone here gives me much more confidence to be me.

    • @avz1153
      @avz1153 ปีที่แล้ว

      What?

  • @handiable
    @handiable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Such beautiful transformations. I transitioned at the age of 54 and what's ironic is that I look more beautiful than I ever have hahaha. People think I'm in my late thirties. What's more important than physical looks is the beauty that's inside and the freedom like you have been let out of a cage. I love my trans brothers and sisters. Keep shining your light.

  • @cmralph...
    @cmralph... 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I am in the US. Over 65. my first attempt at transitioning FTM in my late 50's was stopped due to health issues I was having on testosterone therapy while working a high-stress job in Silicon Valley. I've managed to stay sane by living a virtual life as a man online for 9 years. But the loneliness I feel being stuck in the wrong body at this final stage of my life and having to accept that no one will ever want me as a partner is sometimes almost unbearable. Thank you for making this video.

    • @Jan-go6sr
      @Jan-go6sr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I began transitioning at age 65... and had to stop T for a year, and now have re-started.... wanting to find more folks in my age bracket, and to be able to address the issues of making changes at this stage, loss/change of career, healthcare, etc.
      And now the pandemic and social isolation....

    • @ALopez-oy8hl
      @ALopez-oy8hl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There is someone for everyone
      Some people like myself prefer older individuals. Think outside of the box. Know there is someone for you out there💕

  • @bigcas78
    @bigcas78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is so heartening to behold. I discovered my true self at 34 and worried about it being too late to be seen as anything but the mask I've been wearing for so long.
    Hello, I'm Cassidy. I'm 35, genderfluid, and no longer afraid of who I am.

  • @robertcrusher1972
    @robertcrusher1972 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Glad that barriers are talked about here.
    Is there a link for this artist's work? Her work is gorgeous

  • @antoniaroraback5420
    @antoniaroraback5420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you so much for your film. I live in California which is a blessing because our major hospitals are very well prepared to help us transition. I always felt I was too old and feared I would die with huge regret. When my 71-year-old brother passed away a year ago it was my wake up call. To die with no authenticity or memory of who I really am was not going to happen. While my trans life goes back many years I am now living authenticity. I turn 75 in 5 days. PS: I have found huge support from family and friends as I move forward. My FFS is only 21 days away. YEA!

  • @Robin07014
    @Robin07014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This needs so much more attention

  • @pablobratcat
    @pablobratcat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I'm 50 and married to a cis het male, he keeps saying how much he loves my body, my hips and my boobs, but I have always hated them. I don't want to transition into a male but I am non binary and all the sexual characteristics of being female have always bugged me. How can I talk to my husband about this? I have adhd and aspergers and people think I'm stupid but I never thought of myself as a girl from primary school.

    • @coffehbear3359
      @coffehbear3359 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same boat. astonished to hear such similarity, even same age

  • @ohdarling6657
    @ohdarling6657 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    His face at 4:10 when se says he is her hero 😭😭 too cute, i hope they are having a happy life toguether

  • @saraannefay2196
    @saraannefay2196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Wow, that's interesting! I thought I was the only one who worried if I got Altzhiemer's, would I remember that I was trans? Would I get gender dysphoria all over again? I brought it up with my therapist once, but she just laughed it off. It's a real concern for me.

    • @saraannefay2196
      @saraannefay2196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@LucaDavid855 Thanks for the advice. I exercise both my mind and body. I am doing all I can to enjoy the last 1/3 of my existence as myself. The further I get in my transition the less it worries me.

    • @emytann7838
      @emytann7838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      this is a terrible terror film that you have put together in your head.😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
      I can only tell you you will always be who you are.
      the souls have no color or gender, they can feel feminine or masculine. You will never lose your soul so you will never lose yourself.
      I wish you the best.
      ps: training is a very good thing

    • @solsystem1342
      @solsystem1342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You'd be no less likely to forget your gender then a cis person would be. So in other words, you'll be fine. Hugs!

    • @PrinceLemantis
      @PrinceLemantis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      1st. Get another therapist. 2nd. Get another therapist👊

  • @afiomai69
    @afiomai69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Congratulations and Blessings to ALL!!!! AWESOME video! THANK YOU!!!!

  • @hannahb4669
    @hannahb4669 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    In 2018 30th of June I went to see my doctor and told her I was trans at that time I was 48 I am now 50 M"T"F I have got another 6 months to go to wait for a letter to turn up for me to go to the gender clinic I would have come out as trans many years ago but there was three parts of my life that I couldn't come out .. now I am out who I am and being who I am and truly being who I am I am very happy.... so this is from me to tell you all trans people out there give yourself a big hug and be proud of yourself just like I am wishing you all the best from me hannah

  • @reginaphillips5329
    @reginaphillips5329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm 75 and have been on estrogen therapy for 2plus years and I hear every thing you're saying.

  • @maiaautumne2167
    @maiaautumne2167 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Im glad they are all happier now, there is no better feeling than being able to be yourself. I wish them all the very best ❤️

  • @katie2858
    @katie2858 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Another really lovely and interesting film from, My Genderation. Thank you so much for uploading this. x

  • @jane-yz2yj
    @jane-yz2yj หลายเดือนก่อน

    fabulous film, why am I just seeing this now, I'm 58 and been on HRT for 2 years

  • @mimmimamma
    @mimmimamma 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    oh my this video is so moving, crying all my tears. thank you Fox and Owl for this!

  • @jwenting
    @jwenting 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Starting my social transition at 51. Hoping I'll be accepted by the gender clinic when I get through the waiting lists in 3 years, and not rejected because of my age or medical history.
    When I grew up it wasn't just illegal to be transgender (yes...) but the very words to express the concept didn't exist in my language so it was impossible to even tell people what you were.
    Several decades of mental health problems later and just admitting to myself I am what I am, a transwoman, and having built up the guts to expose that to the world did a lot of good already.

  • @duvine3882
    @duvine3882 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wonderful; thanks for working in creating this kind of cultural anecdotes; amazing work!.

  • @SARA-dd8jm
    @SARA-dd8jm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    At the first images of this video I immediately felt a great affection for all of you, a kiss from Italy.

  • @isamarks7773
    @isamarks7773 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Good on them! It's never too late to be yourself and be happy 😊

  • @cledwynstafford4819
    @cledwynstafford4819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ...such heroes, each and every one. Blessings and love from Father Francis.

  • @elspethfougere9683
    @elspethfougere9683 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is so beautiful. What a wonderful project to hear about. Its so positive to think about a future where people are properly cared for in old age, and respectfully treated, including all of who they are as a person 💖 I'm so inspired, thank you 🙏✨

  • @cindypackard9597
    @cindypackard9597 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You came out beautiful absolutely beautiful ❤

  • @talbottlin
    @talbottlin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this insightful, helpful, and immensely encouraging interview segment. ❤️

  • @vitazissel3671
    @vitazissel3671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's so frustrating that it's not even a question about if your going to pay for transition in the states

    • @solsystem1342
      @solsystem1342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We don't even have universal healthcare, it's crazy

  • @OwlPsalm
    @OwlPsalm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God Loves you no matter what you have done. You are never too old, or too far gone to go to God. Freedom awaits

  • @mickeykrahulec7014
    @mickeykrahulec7014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I recognize the woman to the left of Fran at 11:31 ! She's in a trans short film that I can't remember the name of! but I still love it!

    • @Enemyoflactose
      @Enemyoflactose 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She was in get off my turf! I watched it right before this video

  • @bhappy2338
    @bhappy2338 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm 65 and hopelessly stuck.. someone please help!

  • @markreilly52
    @markreilly52 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such courage!

  • @vc5940
    @vc5940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks for sharing this. I'm a 30 year old who realized I'm a non binary person and this gives me so much hope. Thank you from Uruguay

    • @solsystem1342
      @solsystem1342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      From your sib from another crib hugs and best of luck!

  • @cactusbuds2979
    @cactusbuds2979 ปีที่แล้ว

    So glad they can feel so happy in their own bodies. I am a trans man and I am so glad I have such great influences like Dave :)

  • @davefitzgerald5334
    @davefitzgerald5334 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love, peace, friends.

  • @iamanillussion
    @iamanillussion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i didn't cut onions why my eyes in tears

  • @azillliasmith2734
    @azillliasmith2734 ปีที่แล้ว

    The dogs are so cute....🌸

  • @tessdecarlo666
    @tessdecarlo666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I transitioned 42 years ago as a teenager - why wait!

  • @kristenconnors2260
    @kristenconnors2260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tell me about it I started HRT at 76 after my wife passed, she was aware from day one. I held off just for her. I wish I had started earlier but such is life.

  • @omnifay469
    @omnifay469 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish I could find out more, being that I am in the age bracket you mentioned. I know nothing about it, but thank you for the video, thank you.

  • @modmutha8608
    @modmutha8608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Cat has a lovely smile 😊

  • @davefitzgerald5334
    @davefitzgerald5334 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't understand the extremism. SUCH an extreme thing to do with your life. I'm a part time MTF myself called Marisa. God bless you all with best wishes and understanding and compassion.

    • @jupiterchild3848
      @jupiterchild3848 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What you mean you don’t understand the extremism?

  • @meat7361
    @meat7361 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    4:13 Totally caught him off guard.

  • @DJTheBlondeSpirit
    @DJTheBlondeSpirit 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lacville987
    @lacville987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    46 year old Trans man and 4 weeks post op today! He’s got a good good woman in his life. I to feel like a new born baby. So happy for him and want to thank his wife for her genuine support 💙💙💙💙

  • @apocalypse12345
    @apocalypse12345 ปีที่แล้ว

    Realize im trans at 29 . Come out as 32 years old 😅

  • @teleamor
    @teleamor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    People over age 20- can you remember even ONE "trans" kid growing up?? Me neither.

    • @krimmer66
      @krimmer66 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it's called being in the closet... Christine Jorgensen (May 30, 1926 - May 3, 1989) was an American trans woman who was the first person to become widely known in the United States for having sex reassignment surgery.
      She had a career as a successful actress, singer and recording artist.

    • @teleamor
      @teleamor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@krimmer66 It's called BRAINWASHING by the satanic lib media. No one should permanently mutilate their genitals, least of all minors. Notice that when the mind an body are out of sync, the DISEASED lib media always promotes mutilating the body, rather than fixing the mind.

    • @seldooddoodles2000
      @seldooddoodles2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because it wasn’t as accepted then, so people either A) were to scared to come out or B) had never heard of being transgender so they didn’t know how to explain their feelings. The reason older people are just now coming out is because it’s finally because acceptable to do so, so they feel safe enough to finally be themselves

    • @teleamor
      @teleamor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@seldooddoodles2000 - Nope. It's PHYSICALLY IMPOSSIBLE to change your gender. People before now knew that. People today have been deceived by the satanic lib media.

    • @TravelsWithBunnies
      @TravelsWithBunnies 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Then you were not paying attention. This is most definitely NOT a fad, not new, and you'd be hard-pressed to find anyone who has gotten this far without a tremendous amount of thought and difficulty.

  • @Mrgothvampireglenn
    @Mrgothvampireglenn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It don't better how old we R any age have a sex changed if they what too

    • @day-jay1630
      @day-jay1630 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I think they tried to say : it doesn’t matter how old we are, a person of any age can change their sex if they want to

    • @beastinfection638
      @beastinfection638 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@day-jay1630
      Thank you for translating that to English

  • @quasi8180
    @quasi8180 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This makes me feel better having only just found out at 24

  • @The.Pickle
    @The.Pickle ปีที่แล้ว

    I was extremely naive and unprepared for the psychological trauma from witnessing medical "professionals" do things to intentionally cause harm and prevent access to care for transgender people, that GP's do actively allow their personal predjuces to dictate the level of care trans people recieve.
    These are things that would result in medical negligence charges if done to anyone else.
    In my naive mind, I never imagined that medical professionals could do such things, and it permanently destroyed my trust in humans.
    I am 42 and transitioned at 30. the way trans people are treated, I don't expect there will be any "care" as an elder; I've always imagined I will end things to retain my dignity.

  • @mk5294
    @mk5294 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am an alcoholic, and therefore denied testosterone and ftm surgeries...
    LIFE REALLY SUCKS!!!! 😢😢

  • @ReikkiKyraJonsun
    @ReikkiKyraJonsun 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's worldwide..am and have experienced this first hand...if you pay..could be OK.. maybe...even within transcommunity...age discrimination exists...even worse as in my case..if you are intersex & find yourself transitioning- as a result- of prescribed medications post covid vaccination. Do not think myself unique..in this situation..there has to be others.

  • @justynjonn
    @justynjonn ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm not so sure if dressing them up and supporting delusion is the way to go. They're not fooling anyone you know. Treat them dignity as a human and I'm sure many will. However looking this way, a child will always tell and many others can see it , no matter how many hormones or surgeries you do. I have a friend who is like this and the surgeries just keep coming and she's never satisfied.

    • @The.Pickle
      @The.Pickle ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm afraid you are still failing to grasp the point. Being transgender is not about trying to deceive or satisfy others, nor is it about conforming to external standards of what a woman should look like. Rather, it is a deeply personal quest for authenticity. Every individual possesses an innate sense of self, a unique internal blueprint. For transgender individuals, honoring this blueprint is a biological and psychological imperative. In essence, it is an unwavering commitment to living a truthful existence, regardless of others' opinions or expectations. In light of this, I hope you treat your transgender friend with the respect and understanding they deserve. By doing so, you will demonstrate the true qualities of a loyal and supportive person and friend.

    • @mk5294
      @mk5294 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@The.PickleVery well said!!

  • @briancampbell6156
    @briancampbell6156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I came out at 53 started hormones at 55 and quit when I was 62 because I had nothing to show for it, it's definitely too late to come out when you're in the mid fifties

  • @ephebofreedomfighter2430
    @ephebofreedomfighter2430 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    u ppl think ur so open minede... u full of ship

  • @catherinekershaw903
    @catherinekershaw903 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Poor Dave first bloke couldnt get a word in edgeways!!!!

  • @97warlock
    @97warlock ปีที่แล้ว

    just be yourself. i gotta get tf off here now

  • @helenalovelock1030
    @helenalovelock1030 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hope that GP got the sack

  • @dianecockerell1156
    @dianecockerell1156 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love being a women women woman women I no what I am don't need to be told gender I am women had baby's and I am women

  • @catherinekershaw903
    @catherinekershaw903 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Poor Dave. His wife is nice, but she cant half talk.

  • @marcielynn4886
    @marcielynn4886 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you wait till you are 60 that is at least 40 years of suffering.

  • @audig393
    @audig393 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nobody cares

    • @JoeParrish-un4gn
      @JoeParrish-un4gn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are stupid idiot you cared enough to make that kind you don’t care why comment like you really should listen to

  • @perry3556
    @perry3556 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    who cares? a documentary about a lumberjacks working routines would be more groundbreaking nowadays....

  • @janoss-zk5fk
    @janoss-zk5fk ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah I would have to disagree that it’s never too late. I’m 50 and it’s way too late for me mentally and physically.

  • @avz1153
    @avz1153 ปีที่แล้ว

    Huh?

  • @davefitzgerald5334
    @davefitzgerald5334 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well it just seems very extreme to cut up your genitalia and have gender reassignment surgery. I don't think I will ever go that far myself. But I am on estrogen hormones for the last four months now . Not sure about surgeries. Maybe an orchiectomy. I might like that. Love and peace from Marisa Fitzgerald from Ireland.