How to be: SITUATIONSHIP PROOF((HIGHLY REQUESTED))

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  • @AshaChristinaFoster
    @AshaChristinaFoster  2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Hi Angels, thank you for being here with me today! I hope this message resonates with you! I love you and I'm eternally grateful for you all! Make sure you gibe this video a thumbs up and turn on your post notifications, and share this video!!! WE ARE SO CLOSE TO 200K my angels!!!!!!

    • @Kemi116
      @Kemi116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so excited for the content, thank you Asha!! 🙌🏽❤️

    • @cindy4694
      @cindy4694 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pp pop

    • @larissahanson3404
      @larissahanson3404 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great work and great content Asha!

  • @BrittnieSoKawaii
    @BrittnieSoKawaii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +492

    Don’t give anyone more than 2 months. If at 2 months a relationship isn’t something they want, LEAVE. They aren’t going to change their mind by you being MORE available. Leave them before your own feelings get too deep. Men that want you don’t leave anything up in the air, don’t let any man have a chance to get close by leaving you single. Move on before you start feeling used. Don’t circle back either!

    • @Similo
      @Similo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      2 weeks max.

    • @evaedw5362
      @evaedw5362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      damn its been 2 months for me today. how do I talk to him about what we are?

    • @suitemeek
      @suitemeek 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@evaedw5362 just be straight forward about what you’re looking for and ask where are y’all at in that process. Be mindful of what he says. If he says he’s not ready then he’s not ready. Also too I’ve had some men say that they will agree to a relationship even when they aren’t ready bc they don’t want to hurt the girls feelings and then act a fool the whole “relationship”. Use your discernment.

    • @neyaaa7
      @neyaaa7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@evaedw5362 just be direct, it's okay. If it's not what you want you need to have the courage to walk away. Going forward make your intentions clear from day one. Things will only get easier :)

    • @elizas1301
      @elizas1301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sometimes them men already be in relationships or married. That happened to me. Found out he was married almost 4 months in. But I wasn’t looking to be in a relationship we never discussed it. I told from beginning I’m just looking for fun. He told me he was divorced which he was honest because he was married before to his children’s mom.

  • @dianaz3493
    @dianaz3493 2 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    "you have to be okay with walking away" YES!

  • @carolynmcintyre2199
    @carolynmcintyre2199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    “ how can you see me as your wife when you haven’t even gotten to the girlfriend stage?”Factsssssss !!!!!! Guys just be chatting 🤣

  • @Chigirlll
    @Chigirlll 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Dating has been so trash, I don’t even allow it to get to a situationship. The longest I give a guy now is a month. By then if there’s no progress then I’m out ✌🏾

    • @ka8155
      @ka8155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here

  • @leenawalker753
    @leenawalker753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    ...And no sex whilst dating, that’s where we lose our power.

  • @Yikkoofficial
    @Yikkoofficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I’ve always been in situationship and I can say that I don’t do it purposely. I want a connection but I find it with the wrong men who don’t reciprocate. Thanks for the video

  • @riagreen9294
    @riagreen9294 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Stop trying to be the exception to the rule 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @allys.5235
    @allys.5235 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    The quality of this video is immaculate.

    • @AshaChristinaFoster
      @AshaChristinaFoster  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you!!!! It’s so obvious when my editor is in town 🤣🤣🤣🤣 he’s the best

  • @vernitadavis4115
    @vernitadavis4115 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This was perfect timing. I just got rid of my situation ship yesterday. It was too stressful and heartbreaking 😢 but I am not turning back.

    • @Caleb_Marlena
      @Caleb_Marlena 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Girl same, is almost been 2 weeks for me and I'm so miserable lol hope I can get over it soon

    • @annahuacuja1615
      @annahuacuja1615 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      me too but I feel so much peace! They did us a favor by clearing the path.

  • @Jagnant28
    @Jagnant28 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    This video is QUALITY! It just looks so crisp and clean. Very professional.

  • @Zee-dp1jm
    @Zee-dp1jm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Yeah I know a guy that tried it with me, I never really invested my feelings into him but he tried to act like a bf but telling me we’re just friends like??? Why are u jealous I went out with someone else if you can’t do relationships we’re just friends? He was giving off a lot of mixed signals.

  • @Kayla-ul4br
    @Kayla-ul4br 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    The new set up is cute!

  • @RickiThomas1
    @RickiThomas1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    can we take a second to appreciate this quality and set up!

  • @larichou25
    @larichou25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Thank you for the consistency and for having your girls' back.

  • @homonovusdmn
    @homonovusdmn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    you have no idea how many peoples lifes you are saving. straight up respect

  • @catyp25
    @catyp25 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “How can you make someone miss someone that they never wanted”!!!!!

  • @kaytooreal
    @kaytooreal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You and Tony Gaskins are the best!

  • @nicholekeith411
    @nicholekeith411 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “I see you as my wife one day” ouch that one hit hard😂

  • @clairebarker1660
    @clairebarker1660 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I agree with so much in this video, I am guilty of doing what you say the guys do... I keep them around for whatever reason in may be in the moment. However when the the pages are reversed I conveniently put on my rose colored glasses and think I can change the guy and make his beliefs different.. so stoops on my end but Im learning aha

  • @Lizzyfl
    @Lizzyfl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So true! putting too much energy in not wanting to be played means neglecting other aspects of getting into a relationship

  • @sarahortez1191
    @sarahortez1191 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I needed this video 8 months ago I ended it by ghosting him then when he came back around I told him I felt like he was just using me .. 😂 we never really had a conversation about it bc I was too scared to bring it up 😭

  • @yasmins5623
    @yasmins5623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    You just keep blessing us with amazing content!! wow

  • @jenniferthompson5146
    @jenniferthompson5146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    You have such clarity and deep understanding of this topic and it is very comforting to hear you explain my last relationship so perfectly. Keep doing what you do! Women need to hear this. You are an inspiration 😊

  • @eisraa.8105
    @eisraa.8105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I appreciate her sense of humor 😂

    • @AshaChristinaFoster
      @AshaChristinaFoster  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I appreciate you appreciating my sense of humor 😉

  • @alohasophie
    @alohasophie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I found this very comforting. Thank you Asha! You're truly like a big sister

  • @erikaenchante
    @erikaenchante 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Every single word was.... powerful! Thank you x

  • @jennyli7701
    @jennyli7701 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Asha and the Angel Community for always keeping it real! Out of all the channels, instagram pages and podcasts I’ve listened to… I must say genuinely Asha your podcast truly changed my life for the better! You helped me get my dream job, you are right focusing on yourself gives you more self confidence! Keep upgrading ladies as you upgrade your life and mental state, you won’t have any room for any crap - this includes crappy friendships and crappy relationships with f boys ☺️🙏💗

  • @mali8273
    @mali8273 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your personality; feminine, charismatic, sophisticated and sarcastic, I effing love it. You’re a solid person asha and I appreciate your videos ! Please, moreee!!

  • @ShiaGirl18
    @ShiaGirl18 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi, Asha! Thank you so much for this video. I like the setup of this video in terms of quality and lighting.

  • @ryliebolling7698
    @ryliebolling7698 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It’s actually so interesting, because as you weren’t posting i stopped watching videos about leveling up because realized I was too logical in relationships and it was affecting my mental health. A lot of level up videos don’t talk about emotions and how important it is to express them. Now that you’re back and I’m starting to watch them again seeing that you yourself have realized the importance of emotions, and to be transparent and emotional as well as having boundaries rather than being cold and and neglecting your feelings in order to not get played is so amazing😍

  • @SS-in1ts
    @SS-in1ts 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ooops. Found this video a day too late. Texted him we needed to talk😂 I don’t agree about him not missing me though. He’s not able to have a relationship but he does miss me- I do believe that. He’s afraid of intimacy and I know this for a fact. He also admitted that he didn’t realize he’s even playing games and was frustrated about it.

    • @PoSHEmediaglobal
      @PoSHEmediaglobal 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yh that happens. Some don’t actually don’t know what they doing. The pair don’t. We women don’t too sometimes and that’s why we are watching this video

  • @Cookiedesigns254
    @Cookiedesigns254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This video & your set is amazing! Especially the ending about where we obsess over not wanting to get played just to get played in the end. It’s interesting because when I went months not watching “signs to watch for” to avoid certain men, I pretty much started attracting better men since I wasn’t so hyper focused in “not getting played”. Ladies, let go of that mindset and trust yourself that you will walk away if he’s not your cup of tea and COMMUNICATE. Do not ghost.

  • @healinggirldiaries
    @healinggirldiaries 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Definitely need this !!!

  • @kaylahamlett1175
    @kaylahamlett1175 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Okay new set up! Missed you Asha💖!!!

  • @k.amshellssaetan9275
    @k.amshellssaetan9275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just fully admitted to myself that I’m in a situationship and stopped making excuses for them.
    Thank you for this video

    • @sherryrinkwest5132
      @sherryrinkwest5132 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girl, update- you trying to leave ?
      I left I was TIRED I was fucken drained. I stayed for years! Worst waste of my youth., if anything- leave as soon as you can’t be exclusive or have to hide or be weird.

  • @tahneemickelson4222
    @tahneemickelson4222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Keep up the good work. One can tell your energy has shifted and you're so powerful, queen. 💕🙏🏼

  • @timesha4782
    @timesha4782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Loving the content and consistency!❤

  • @mariedunkley4750
    @mariedunkley4750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I Love you Asha!!!! Thank you for keeping us tight!!! 🥰💪🏼🥺💃🏽🤺

  • @Missknottylocs
    @Missknottylocs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Asha this was very good to watch 🥰

  • @Lauren_22613
    @Lauren_22613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh I’m all here for this!!! 🍿🍿🍿

  • @g0llygi
    @g0llygi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I tell you I neeeded this video today! Thank you so much! 🙌🏽

  • @mariahere6984
    @mariahere6984 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Asha 😩❤️

  • @tammi5494
    @tammi5494 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It’s the camera quality for me, a quality queen needs quality picture, purrr 😭💕🔥

  • @jessicamarie6886
    @jessicamarie6886 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You’re coming with all the videos 💗

  • @Miss.T.Teaches
    @Miss.T.Teaches 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Im sooo ready cause because the situation that I’m in right now is moving very slowly and I don’t want to just come out and ask what are we because I don’t want to seem desperate or crazy

    • @Cocoshenelle876
      @Cocoshenelle876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Girl it’s not crazy. You’re supposed to always do check ins, to see where you both are.

  • @bethaniesharyne6932
    @bethaniesharyne6932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The quality and set up of this video 👏🏻 the advice. 👏🏻 Asha you are looking amazing! Glowing goddess xx

  • @damarii.estradaa
    @damarii.estradaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    YESSS I CANT WAITT

  • @lolahpearl6679
    @lolahpearl6679 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Growth Asha,I’m here for it 🥺🥺 I actually haven’t Listened to sermons in a while ,but this 🥺🥺. I’m usually very calm about situations and negative emotions,but my last breakup I said some very nasty things to my ex and till this day I regret it ,I still love him but I truly understand we are not good for each other ,really ,And I guess he didn’t want me that much and I had to accept that as part of my growth ,I’m sharing this because I always read people’s comments and they help me out with my situation and maybe I’ll help someone else . Emotional maturity is everything,always stay true to yourself,there is immense peace in that . I think we women really need more accountability of our doings too ,well that’s for me . I was a little too passive (not a doormat though !)but not anymore ,growth is essential!

  • @mariedunkley4750
    @mariedunkley4750 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    And I love you harsh truths!! Thanks babe💕

  • @reneew06294
    @reneew06294 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Came across your page at the perfect time! I love your content 💕

  • @anasthcasia7232
    @anasthcasia7232 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Asha you are amazing!!!

  • @daijebanks3045
    @daijebanks3045 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this was good. I loved every bit, you are a true friend. as I watched the entire video I had this particular person in mind and they have to GO. sad to say its been going on longer than it should've but now I am okay with walking away.

  • @baeshathebrand6192
    @baeshathebrand6192 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow I love you so inspiring GROWTH!!!!

  • @ariya444
    @ariya444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh this video is going to BANG!

  • @SoufyAsth
    @SoufyAsth 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video Asha, happy to see you back

  • @user-he5se3yh1l
    @user-he5se3yh1l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    love the videos Asha, you’re always in sync with what i wanna watch 👏👏

  • @jeanonaichimatira8679
    @jeanonaichimatira8679 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Loving the braids and the content Asha🤗

  • @etsuviolin
    @etsuviolin 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the best dating advice I've ever seen on TH-cam. Thank you angel!

  • @chelseymoreno4853
    @chelseymoreno4853 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I rlly needed this😩💕

  • @girlymirage94
    @girlymirage94 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish i could give alot of thumbs up, right choice of words and you are on point 👍

  • @michellewilliams7007
    @michellewilliams7007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is such excellent advice. I enjoyed this video

  • @LoveVida707
    @LoveVida707 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow Asha this looks like tv quality

  • @katenhydris1226
    @katenhydris1226 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    “You have to be ok with walking away”-- so important

  • @bananali2676
    @bananali2676 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    your video quality is soo good 😍

  • @sandras.7147
    @sandras.7147 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    giiirl! i feel like God spoke to me through your YT Channel. I love you!

  • @jazzybeca7593
    @jazzybeca7593 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for the advice 🙃 🙏🏽🙌🏾

  • @helovesme946
    @helovesme946 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks a lot for ur video it really brought so much clarity into my situationships!the lord knows expressing my self excellently is not my strength but I am working on it.

  • @tarikavogel5973
    @tarikavogel5973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I enjoyed this very much😊
    Thank you Asha❤

  • @daishawilliams2575
    @daishawilliams2575 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    okaaaay professional videos! love you!

  • @saviashley
    @saviashley 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Asha 🙏🏾

  • @larissahanson3404
    @larissahanson3404 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like this instead of avoid... be upfront with what you want so you're attracting the positive/proactive than the latter.

  • @KaziniTalks
    @KaziniTalks 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I truly needed this

  • @fayadpalos2420
    @fayadpalos2420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of your smartest and on point videos👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 (“principal’s office”…Yo! Rolling 🤣🤣🤣)

  • @mntw6062
    @mntw6062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is EXCELLENT CONTENT ! Thank you

  • @wonttrickmea1869
    @wonttrickmea1869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loveee this set up!!!!!

  • @foreignbaby2878
    @foreignbaby2878 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Asha great points 👏🏿👏🏿

  • @lauragarcez7149
    @lauragarcez7149 ปีที่แล้ว

    addicted on your videos!!

  • @isabellekayden5847
    @isabellekayden5847 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you Asha. You're killin it girl

  • @lisa99chabrol93
    @lisa99chabrol93 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We miss you girl🤗🤗 awesome video ❤️❤️💖💖

  • @SisiphoAmelieLeeZinja
    @SisiphoAmelieLeeZinja 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such an amazing video 🤩

  • @keishawna100
    @keishawna100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Been subbed 4 over a year and needed this. Currently breaking one off now. Thanks Asha!!

  • @DiamondsRexpensive
    @DiamondsRexpensive 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Unrelated to the topic of the video: your hair reminds me of jewels lady and I love it.

  • @sarahschinkowski2336
    @sarahschinkowski2336 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I reaaally needed this video.🙏🏻

  • @Nurseaholic
    @Nurseaholic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Emotion over drama 😇

  • @AjaySharma-ul6ow
    @AjaySharma-ul6ow ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I so wish I heard it in 2021 💔 wasted 2 years on this man and still suffering

  • @louisitamerryln902
    @louisitamerryln902 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can we please get a full picture of your hair? It’s so beautiful 🥰🥰

  • @joya91
    @joya91 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yo Asha funny funny. This is equal parts informative, conversational, and comedy.

  • @Spicycooks
    @Spicycooks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You make a lot of sense

  • @lisa99chabrol93
    @lisa99chabrol93 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true girl the got all the talks but no action behind 😎😊

  • @leahsmith2078
    @leahsmith2078 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “What in the principal’s office is going on here?” 🤣

  • @maggief1851
    @maggief1851 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just love your hair.😍

    • @AshaChristinaFoster
      @AshaChristinaFoster  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much ☺️ I’m definitely keeping this style for a while!

  • @maryannkerubo8854
    @maryannkerubo8854 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely love her,

  • @priscillaxsafi
    @priscillaxsafi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The consistency ❤️

  • @kekemorgan
    @kekemorgan ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg I’m so happy I watched this. I’m so scared to ask him where are we?

  • @journey2health280
    @journey2health280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your braids 😍

  • @rickimcfarland2269
    @rickimcfarland2269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    These braids look good on you

  • @cristianaax9480
    @cristianaax9480 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wooow u re so gorgeous and the quality of the video is 😍💯 . Thank you for advice sis

  • @hanavaughan6956
    @hanavaughan6956 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this was sooo good

  • @thaddeusvaliantlilbodhi1223
    @thaddeusvaliantlilbodhi1223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🔑 to DIVINITY IN EVERYTHING THE GODDESS SPEAKS. I'VE SUBSCRIBED to THE CHANNEL & MESSAGE THANK U!!