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Navy. All of the points in your video are spot on for distinguishing the difference in pursuing and chasing. Thank you for another fine video. Please have a great weekend and God bless you. 🙏
@Jay L - The way she is treating me has not changed at all. Super-nice, friendly, joking around, touching, all those signs - and she hasn't changed at all. But she declined to go out. She declined twice - saying maybe another day (that is NO). But her behavior has not changed at all. She always tries to be near me. So???
Hi Amy I like listening to you while I'm getting ready for work I tend to listen better to you when I'm not paying such close attention to my screen and I love your outtakes you're not only an attractive woman but your laugh is contagious ❤
My first time watching you n wanted to say NAVY so you know I made it to the end of the video, totally enjoyed it. Well worth it if not just for the bloopers you guys air back were pretty funny. TU C.Rodriguez
Hello Melannie! Thank you so much for all your advises! They have been helping me alot. Thank you so much from a christian Fire Artist in Sweden :D God Bless!
The thing about the navy I'd that they know who the captain is be for they go to sea. I on the other hand was trying to steer the boat from my heart space and ran the vessel aground. Waiting for my ships to come in and help me to get back on course😏
The darkness of a star lit sky, can appear black when you’re on your own. But viewed together with the one who loves you, the way you love them, well the sky ceases to be black and becomes navy. Pin-pricked with specks of light and wonder as one. Hope the wall looks as good as you imagined.
Another great video, thank you again! CHASING NAVY is about the last thing I want to do wasting my time. Your videos are real time savers, giving some great ideas.
Navy. Coach Melannie, I am a little tiny bit confused, because it seems like chasing, pursuing, terminology, concept wise, is the same thing, and that saying not to chase seems to contradict saying to pursue. Isn't chasing, pursuing the same thing, as long as your not being desperate, needy, clingy, suffocating, taking away space, as long as not rush, and not become too emotional to quickly. If you chase, pursue, flirt, talk to ask on date, go on dates at the right kind of frequency, way, every 2.5, 3, 5, 7, 9, etc, days, and do so in a confident, honorable, proper, masculine, etc, way, then isn't chasing, pursuing, the same thing, ok, good. But yeah, chasing, pursuing, women to the point of suffocation, etc, is bad. I just got my legal separation today, after about 11 months ago that wife said was divorcing me. Legal separation is cheaper then divorce, and can be turned into divorce for cheap. Me and soon to be ex wife are going to change legal separation that filed today in court to a divorce ASAP. So until that happens, not sure if ok to take your masterclass, join your academy. Maybe it is, as long as it's just to prep, get knowledge for when divorce finalized. Also do you have videos for divorcee's, that can help us get past baggage, etc. Half of me wants to learn what you teach, start dating after divorced, especially since I am 51 now, and don't want to get too old. But part of me is afraid, scared to date, get married, wonders if the next marriage gonna lead to divorce, etc, like the previous one. Part of me is scared to get my heart broken again by, via a divorce, etc. I know that because I got the same church as you, that I guess it's lack of faith, maybe, and should just have more faith. Just think some videos by you, addressing divorce baggage, and overcoming it, and how to overcome it, would be good for those who have gone thru a divorce. Thanks for the video and what you do. Sorry if this is too long.
I'm so sorry for all you're dealing with right now. Many of the men in my Academy have been through very difficult divorces and it has helped them so much! If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀
Brilliant stuff as usual. My GF is a mild avoidant. Try holding out on her. Strap in but if she's worth it then she's worth the wait. So wait. Love from the UK ❤️
@Coach Melannie >>> At about 18:20 in this video: *_MOUTH ENGAGED,_* but *_BRAIN_* ceases supplying *_WORDS_* to *_VERBALIZE._* *_"Been That, Done There."_* 😊😊😊
How long do you PURSUE @ a reasonable pace before it becomes too long? We have both been married twice & agree that our ages ( 60 +) we can't afford more failure & heartache.
No no it’s not like that I’m not doing that if it’s who I think it is she literally melts me every time I hear her saying and I didn’t even know who she was until like maybe a couple weeks ago and it was just random and I just it showed up and I’m like what and I was like just mesmerized but I could be wrong I probably need to shut up😅
Hi my friend Melanie, for most of my adult life I mostly stopped pursuing and for sure chasing women and I started asking God to show me who he wants me with friend who I should pursue I wish we could talk about that so I could get your input thanks
I think I like watching your videos not only because of how you come across, but also I'm looking at it from the perspective of you teaching me more about understanding women. So thanks for sharing your input
No it’s not that I’m chasing there’s been so many different ones and I’m confused by it all and I feel like some of them are messing with me a little bit and then maybe some or not but it’s so confusing I don’t know so I am really trying to do I guess is fish for information I know that sounds horrible but ⚓️
Chasing. Something that has occurred to me; maybe you could show some video clips showing your point, e.g. a video/film clip of a couple doing what you mention after, or even as you mention the behaviour you describe. Navy.
I like to think of women as fish in the ocean, i think you should mostly make the first move but just because you are trying to make them notice you, that's the bait on the hook. After that just laid back, relax & wait. At some point in time a fish will be caught. 😉
Hi Coach Melannie!! The most surprising thing I learned in this video was: Pursuing a woman show her you are mature, capable, protective and invested in the relationship. Thanks for opening our eyes. A lot of things make sense since I have been watching your videos. ---------- Have you ever played videogames about warships? Sometime ago I played a videogame about World War II, but only NAVY vs NAVY, no planes, no tanks, no troops just ships vs ships.
After High School I began "Chasing" my dream to join the Marines. Well I did and traveled aboard ship with the "Navy" desperate for a girlfriend, came home on leave, met a girl but I acted too needy & it's when she "Ghosted" me. I cried, sent emails, flowers & texts. Feeling pity for me, she instead placed me in the "Friend" zone😳Now I sit home alone viewing Melannie's bloopers 🧐
Chasing. Coach I have a kinda relationship question. I have this friend who has this boyfriend. Her boyfriend doesn’t want her being friends with me. He doesn’t let her talk to me or really anything and she goes along with it out of respect to him. But he seems controlling as he doesn’t like it when she does anything he doesn’t want her doing and he usually starts arguments with her and they break up and then he comes back to her later and they get back together. From what I’ve learned from your videos he seems toxic and I worry she’s in for alot of hurt down the road. I’ve talked to some of her girlfriends about it and they’ll just tell me it’s not my business to stay out of it. Should I stay out of it or should I talk to her about it as a friend?
Melanie, pleas help me. I get scared when I see her and I also get scared when I talk to her. I don't even know what to do. I'm just too scared to talk to her. Pleas help :(
Chasing! Hi Melanie, great video...., I've had a massive crush on a girl at work for a good couple of years now and I know that the situation is very delicate as she has not beennthe biggest fan of men ever since her marriage ended. It so hard to be her friend when I know we get on so well and I'm sure there is something there. It's like there is an awkwardness between us and neither will say how we feel. I could of course be completely off track but I'm sure she does like me to a certain extent. She's a closed book so I don't think I'll ever know but I honestly love her so much but at the same time I don't want to scare or lose her. Such a nightmare and such a rollercoaster of emotions. Sorry for the essay......... Rich.
Story time: That blessed hippopotamus that recently got puppies he was keeping in green boxes, and was painting a picture of his friend the pufferfish holding the puppies in front of a sign that said 200k and a lamp, realized that he ran out of apples and bananas. He decided to run out to the store for more. On his way he passed a beach where he saw the Navy running training exercises just off shore.
I always forget what to say when I’m with her.. and she doesn’t make it easy for me she stays quiet.. I’m the one asking questions and she doesn’t ask anything… Some days she seems interested and some days she pretends she didn’t see me.. it’s so confusing to a point it awkward when I say hi or bye 😞
*I immediately make a woman feel that she has merit in our short and brief chat, I than openly call the bartender or waitress to close my tab, pay it and proceed to leave.........40%-50% of the time I get stopped by 1, 2 or 3 women whom I had the pleasure to chat with prior to leaving!!* *Hint: Before leaving your house to go out.......HAVE at least 5-main topics of convo that is present.....AVOID POLITICS!!!*
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I subscribed beautiful 😍
CHASING!😀
It would be super helpful if your videos had clearly labeled chapters. You kinda drone on and on.
I gave up on chasing Navy women. They just ship out when you least expect it.
Ur a real Dad! 😂
Actually that's the coolest Dad Joke I've heard so far
😂😂Way to go, dad.
Good joke Dad
I guess you could say _"That ship has sailed."_
😊😊😊
I'm scared to chase women. It's always "ohhhhhhh he's a nice guy. He deserves a good woman. " And my personal favorite "he's not my type."
@Coach Melannie >>> At about 17:59 in this video:
(1) RETRACT TONGUE
(2) THEN SPEAK.
😉😉
{TRUST ME on this one. I CONSTANTLY do that myself...😊}
Navy. All of the points in your video are spot on for distinguishing the difference in pursuing and chasing. Thank you for another fine video. Please have a great weekend and God bless you. 🙏
Thank you so much! I'm happy you liked the video! God bless! 😀
Great. Your advice is by far the ery best. THANKS for being "You"
Definitely, more videos will help, thanks
Thanks!
I would never chase a woman it wouldn’t get me anywhere.
Chasing. Good info. Opps! I see some mistakes from past relationships. Thank you once again.😅❤🎉
Chasing NAVY yes more information regarding this aspect of life
Watching this again. This video is so helpful and relieves a lot of my anxiety
Great advice!! Thanks
Chasing🔥😎. Excellent video!!!!💪
Navy. It's a good color. Keep singing 🎶 😆 Thank you for today's advice 🙏.
Chasing! Love you Melanie Super thanks!
@Jay L - The way she is treating me has not changed at all. Super-nice, friendly, joking around, touching, all those signs - and she hasn't changed at all. But she declined to go out. She declined twice - saying maybe another day (that is NO). But her behavior has not changed at all. She always tries to be near me. So???
Excellent help, thanks!
God bless you coach Melannie
thank you for clearly explaining the difference between chasing and pursuing. interesting that i didn't notice until now, that your wall became navy
Sure, let’s talk more about chasing! Great job on your video👏🏻👏🏻 Wish you good luck on painting your wall Navy!💪🏻💪🏻
I wouldn’t just want something from a woman.
You have a wonderful sense of humor Coach Melannie.
Chasing! Thanks Melannie!
What’s the difference between Chase and Pursue?
Yet another good video it’s really good advice and extremely helpful NAVY
Madam You are right Thanks a lot I am just experiencing and learning all these things in my life
Hi Amy I like listening to you while I'm getting ready for work I tend to listen better to you when I'm not paying such close attention to my screen and I love your outtakes you're not only an attractive woman but your laugh is contagious ❤
My first time watching you n wanted to say NAVY so you know I made it to the end of the video, totally enjoyed it.
Well worth it if not just for the bloopers you guys air back were pretty funny.
TU
C.Rodriguez
Chasing, this is good stuff!
Chasing, coach I am pursuing you
Thanks Melannie
CHASING 🗣️‼️
Chasing❤❤❤
Hello Melannie! Thank you so much for all your advises! They have been helping me alot. Thank you so much from a christian Fire Artist in Sweden :D God Bless!
The thing about the navy I'd that they know who the captain is be for they go to sea. I on the other hand was trying to steer the boat from my heart space and ran the vessel aground. Waiting for my ships to come in and help me to get back on course😏
i love your bubbly personality and your great sense of humour and that smile is heavenly you really are so cute !! (navy)
I enjoyed the video and its teaching
Informative video , as usual. Beautiful color that suits you ! ( lovely zipper ! )
YOU ARE EXCELLENT THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU
Great advice! Btw these bloopers never disappoint LOL
Thank you Melanine 🌷
Truth
The darkness of a star lit sky, can appear black when you’re on your own. But viewed together with the one who loves you, the way you love them, well the sky ceases to be black and becomes navy. Pin-pricked with specks of light and wonder as one.
Hope the wall looks as good as you imagined.
Hey coach! Hello. Is that like you make me feel.? Anyway god bless you. Be safe .... ❤
Another great video, thank you again! CHASING NAVY is about the last thing I want to do wasting my time. Your videos are real time savers, giving some great ideas.
NAVY!
I love your video very interesting ,it teaches me to look at women in a different light and understand a woman better! Thanks🤔👏👏👏👏 👍👍👍
CHASING!
NAVY!!
Amazing video and I appreciate your hard work. Thanks again Coach Melannie :)
Chasing
What should a man do if she declines dating but is always super nice - even when I don't try to pursue her? Confusing, to say the least.
Question, was she always super friendly before you asked her out or has she become so much more nicer to you since she decline the date?
@@jasonlui I had this happen once in college. Confused the heck out of me.
Please... more on chasing vs pursuing..thx
Chasing, and .... Go Army, beat Navy. Very interesting perspective on pursuing and women wanting to feel protected.
FWIW, I was actually in the U.S. *NAVY* for three years before joining the U.S. COAST GUARD for 17 years...👍🇺🇲
Navy. Coach Melannie, I am a little tiny bit confused, because it seems like chasing, pursuing, terminology, concept wise, is the same thing, and that saying not to chase seems to contradict saying to pursue.
Isn't chasing, pursuing the same thing, as long as your not being desperate, needy, clingy, suffocating, taking away space, as long as not rush, and not become too emotional to quickly.
If you chase, pursue, flirt, talk to ask on date, go on dates at the right kind of frequency, way, every 2.5, 3, 5, 7, 9, etc, days, and do so in a confident, honorable, proper, masculine, etc, way, then isn't chasing, pursuing, the same thing, ok, good.
But yeah, chasing, pursuing, women to the point of suffocation, etc, is bad.
I just got my legal separation today, after about 11 months ago that wife said was divorcing me.
Legal separation is cheaper then divorce, and can be turned into divorce for cheap.
Me and soon to be ex wife are going to change legal separation that filed today in court to a divorce ASAP.
So until that happens, not sure if ok to take your masterclass, join your academy.
Maybe it is, as long as it's just to prep, get knowledge for when divorce finalized.
Also do you have videos for divorcee's, that can help us get past baggage, etc.
Half of me wants to learn what you teach, start dating after divorced, especially since I am 51 now, and don't want to get too old.
But part of me is afraid, scared to date, get married, wonders if the next marriage gonna lead to divorce, etc, like the previous one.
Part of me is scared to get my heart broken again by, via a divorce, etc.
I know that because I got the same church as you, that I guess it's lack of faith, maybe, and should just have more faith.
Just think some videos by you, addressing divorce baggage, and overcoming it, and how to overcome it, would be good for those who have gone thru a divorce.
Thanks for the video and what you do.
Sorry if this is too long.
I'm so sorry for all you're dealing with right now. Many of the men in my Academy have been through very difficult divorces and it has helped them so much! If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀
Chasing!!!
Very good!
Brilliant stuff as usual. My GF is a mild avoidant. Try holding out on her. Strap in but if she's worth it then she's worth the wait. So wait. Love from the UK ❤️
Mr. Simo or Mr. Simp?
Chasing! Navy!
@Coach Melannie >>> At about 18:20 in this video: *_MOUTH ENGAGED,_* but *_BRAIN_* ceases supplying *_WORDS_* to *_VERBALIZE._*
*_"Been That, Done There."_*
😊😊😊
Hey Melannie, by chance 🤔 or circumstance, are you doing experimental messaging on Facebook dating?
I definitely would like to see more of these thank you so much your the first honest dating advice teacher I’ve found thanks melannie 🙂 navy
just i ❤yo. beautiful woman Cohch Melan👸
I love it when you laugh, and Navy gets my seal of approval! Thank you again for a great video, and have a great day! God bless! x
How long do you PURSUE @ a reasonable pace before it becomes too long? We have both been married twice & agree that our ages ( 60 +) we can't afford more failure & heartache.
A LOT of men don't know the difference between chasing and pursuing women.
I like your educational content miss Melanie. Keep up the good work 😊
No no it’s not like that I’m not doing that if it’s who I think it is she literally melts me every time I hear her saying and I didn’t even know who she was until like maybe a couple weeks ago and it was just random and I just it showed up and I’m like what and I was like just mesmerized but I could be wrong I probably need to shut up😅
Great video! More videos on pursuit and connection would be awesome!
Chasing....I'm tired of chasing..
Yes
Hi my friend Melanie, for most of my adult life I mostly stopped pursuing and for sure chasing women and I started asking God to show me who he wants me with friend who I should pursue I wish we could talk about that so I could get your input thanks
Sorry voice activated text a lot of times text what I didn't say silly me😊
I think I like watching your videos not only because of how you come across, but also I'm looking at it from the perspective of you teaching me more about understanding women. So thanks for sharing your input
i dont understand. what is the difference between chasing and pursuing ? can you guys give me a few clear explanations ?
These lectures youre giving is really interresting and helpful!
Chasing! ❤️🌷
Melanie....the "right pace" truly depends on the woman, don't you think?
Don’t chase, but pursue? Aren’t they synonymous?
No it’s not that I’m chasing there’s been so many different ones and I’m confused by it all and I feel like some of them are messing with me a little bit and then maybe some or not but it’s so confusing I don’t know so I am really trying to do I guess is fish for information I know that sounds horrible but ⚓️
Chasing. Something that has occurred to me; maybe you could show some video clips showing your point, e.g. a video/film clip of a couple doing what you mention after, or even as you mention the behaviour you describe. Navy.
Navy. Word up.
You so love❤😍
GOOD EVENING ✨🌆 I'M. GOING TO. TRY. A. FEW. OF. NOT 🚭. CHASING OVER. WEEK. END. 🎉😢😮😅😊
I like to think of women as fish in the ocean, i think you should mostly make the first move but just because you are trying to make them notice you, that's the bait on the hook.
After that just laid back, relax & wait.
At some point in time a fish will be caught. 😉
CHASING
Hi Coach Melannie!!
The most surprising thing I learned in this video was:
Pursuing a woman show her you are mature, capable, protective and invested in the relationship.
Thanks for opening our eyes.
A lot of things make sense since I have been watching your videos.
----------
Have you ever played videogames about warships?
Sometime ago I played a videogame about World War II, but only NAVY vs NAVY, no planes, no tanks, no troops just ships vs ships.
Chasing.
I never did understand the chasing thing...all my navy friends were confused too.
After High School I began "Chasing" my dream to join the Marines. Well I did and traveled aboard ship with the "Navy" desperate for a girlfriend, came home on leave, met a girl but I acted too needy & it's when she "Ghosted" me. I cried, sent emails, flowers & texts. Feeling pity for me, she instead placed me in the "Friend" zone😳Now I sit home alone viewing Melannie's bloopers 🧐
I love you 💞 navy 💕
Chasing. Coach I have a kinda relationship question. I have this friend who has this boyfriend. Her boyfriend doesn’t want her being friends with me. He doesn’t let her talk to me or really anything and she goes along with it out of respect to him. But he seems controlling as he doesn’t like it when she does anything he doesn’t want her doing and he usually starts arguments with her and they break up and then he comes back to her later and they get back together. From what I’ve learned from your videos he seems toxic and I worry she’s in for alot of hurt down the road. I’ve talked to some of her girlfriends about it and they’ll just tell me it’s not my business to stay out of it. Should I stay out of it or should I talk to her about it as a friend?
Stay away from women that focus on dogs. Women with fur babies check out of what a man needs
Melanie, pleas help me. I get scared when I see her and I also get scared when I talk to her. I don't even know what to do. I'm just too scared to talk to her. Pleas help :(
I understand. These videos will be a big help. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-W_e1sSY8-UDYrC3VBdGUNS.html
Chasing Navy
Chasing! Hi Melanie, great video...., I've had a massive crush on a girl at work for a good couple of years now and I know that the situation is very delicate as she has not beennthe biggest fan of men ever since her marriage ended. It so hard to be her friend when I know we get on so well and I'm sure there is something there. It's like there is an awkwardness between us and neither will say how we feel. I could of course be completely off track but I'm sure she does like me to a certain extent. She's a closed book so I don't think I'll ever know but I honestly love her so much but at the same time I don't want to scare or lose her. Such a nightmare and such a rollercoaster of emotions. Sorry for the essay.........
Rich.
If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀
Story time:
That blessed hippopotamus that recently got puppies he was keeping in green boxes, and was painting a picture of his friend the pufferfish holding the puppies in front of a sign that said 200k and a lamp, realized that he ran out of apples and bananas. He decided to run out to the store for more. On his way he passed a beach where he saw the Navy running training exercises just off shore.
@Glenn Mcgee It makes sense to those in the know. 🤷♂️😂😂 I'll just say have a good memory, a sharp mind, and watch the videos fully. Lol
@Glenn Mcgee sorry to hear that! Hopefully it straightens out soon.
This is awesome! Have a happy day! 😀
@@CoachMelannie you as well.
Melannie, any chance we could see a video of how to flirt while at the gym? Seems I spend a good deal of time there 😊
I always forget what to say when I’m with her.. and she doesn’t make it easy for me she stays quiet.. I’m the one asking questions and she doesn’t ask anything…
Some days she seems interested and some days she pretends she didn’t see me.. it’s so confusing to a point it awkward when I say hi or bye 😞
Navy!!
Hey, CM if a girl has a lot of guy friends. Is that/can be seen as a Red Flag? How would a guy pursue her then?
It's not usually a red flag. These videos will help with pursuing. th-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-UMVqc5Y0QDhYxWRW-2yKT8.html
*I immediately make a woman feel that she has merit in our short and brief chat, I than openly call the bartender or waitress to close my tab, pay it and proceed to leave.........40%-50% of the time I get stopped by 1, 2 or 3 women whom I had the pleasure to chat with prior to leaving!!*
*Hint: Before leaving your house to go out.......HAVE at least 5-main topics of convo that is present.....AVOID POLITICS!!!*