What a Real Japanese Wedding Is Like

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  • I take you along with me to an actual Japanese wedding in Tokyo, and share what it's like to RSVP and attend the ceremony and nijikai, or afterparty. Congratulations to Kousuke and Hotaru!
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    Intro: 0:00
    RSVPing to a Japanese wedding: 0:19
    Attending the ceremony: 1:08
    Wedding reception: 2:18
    Nijikai afterparty: 3:29
    Return gift: 4:18
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ความคิดเห็น • 45

  • @CxMinette
    @CxMinette 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This is really interesting - similar to the West in some ways and super different in others.

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah I agree. There’s a lot of influence but certain things are still really Japanese.

    • @ayushjaiswal9863
      @ayushjaiswal9863 ปีที่แล้ว

      costumes and in church is common

  • @ClearBrookRae
    @ClearBrookRae ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Congratulations...Lovely wedding ceremony and all the best in your marriage life 💕💕

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks but this isn’t my wedding…

  • @trkimura
    @trkimura 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That’s wild that they spend so much on a thank you gift!

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, I’m wondering if it’s because gifting is a big part of Japanese culture…

  • @Warclimb64
    @Warclimb64 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    3:01 I've been asking in Spain and all the fancy caterings are offering sushi tables at the reception (sometimes with a chef) :)

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow that’s interesting! I don’t think sushi is that common at Japanese weddings actually, this couple did it because they thought it’d be fun. I’m curious to see that in Spain now!

  • @aNkaritravel
    @aNkaritravel 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've been to many weddings in the states and one time I got invited to Japan for a wedding. I was so surprised how everyone dressed very formal. I feel like in the states, not everyone wears a suit or tuxedos, but most men at the wedding wore tuxedo and some in suits. On top of that, the meal was phenomenal! It was a French course meal with the finest quality ingredients and meat from different parts of Japan. Japan just do things at a different level, I was so impressed.

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, the food is so good! I’m from Hawaii so it’s really different… Hawaii weddings have people in Aloha shirts and food is almost always a buffet. Definitely a different level in Japan

  • @etherdog
    @etherdog 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice contrast to Oriental Pearl's wedding she just posted. Thanks for pointing out the Japanese cultural norms!

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I didn't get to see that but I'm glad you enjoyed the contrast! Thanks for watching!

  • @unisangalaxystudio
    @unisangalaxystudio ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's sad I will never experience getting married but am happy for those who are.
    My dream wedding is having it in Akihabara , having the song Austria-Hungary National Anthem play when I go on stage

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm sorry to hear that. Interesting song choice!

  • @Chocolatel0vr
    @Chocolatel0vr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wow this is really interesting! Would you say that most weddings in Japan are now more westernized? Are there stigmas against this type of westernized wedding vs a more traditional one?

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’d say most fall into the westernized category, at least in the city. People still do traditional ones and some prefer it because it’s more authentic to the culture. Others will do photo shoots in traditional purified but their wedding will be a more western one. I’m not sure about stigmas, I’m sure some parents/grandparents want at least a traditional photoshoot done though.

  • @orsonsadler
    @orsonsadler 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    that's so much commitment. i ain't coming to your wedding unless we're getting married 😂

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well marriage is a commitment lol. But yeah, there’s even a word in Japanese for going broke because of weddings!

  • @petercastellino6997
    @petercastellino6997 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    FROM MR PETER CASTELLINO , BOMBAY , 24-1-2024.
    IT FOR SURE WAS VERY INTERESTING AND UNIQUE WITH MUCH TO LEARN.

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for watching!

  • @user-kl3ho7qb6l
    @user-kl3ho7qb6l ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, would love to know the venue of the wedding and the nijikai ❤

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  ปีที่แล้ว

      Sure, the wedding venue was Classica Omotesando, and the nijikai was NOS Bar&Dining Ebisu.

  • @020untitled
    @020untitled 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting…what about yours?

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Didn’t have one (yet?)

  • @Aspiret620
    @Aspiret620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "30k yen for presents"
    come on man that's my monthly food!

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol yeah it's not great but that's the cultural norm

  • @ashwinmiyer6159
    @ashwinmiyer6159 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's sad that the weddings are getting Westernised, traditional Japanese costumes are love

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, most have become something like this but there are more traditional Shinto-style weddings that take place, just a lot less. I don’t know why, it could be that some don’t view the Shinto-style ones as an event that has a happy or celebratory feeling, I’m not sure though.

  • @thesiwi
    @thesiwi ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm an Indian
    And I saw Japanese wedding in Naruto series🤣🤣🤣

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  ปีที่แล้ว

      Not sure how it was since it’s a cartoon but Japanese people have a few different styles of weddings that they do. “Western” ones are most common though.

    • @thesiwi
      @thesiwi ปีที่แล้ว

      @@barrettish yeah really this wedding was very western style
      Do yo have traditionally wedding video

    • @thesiwi
      @thesiwi ปีที่แล้ว

      @@barrettish you gave me reply but not a heart 😢😢😢

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thesiwi Most Japanese have this type of wedding so I’ve never been to a Shinto one…
      lol I generally heart compliments

    • @thesiwi
      @thesiwi ปีที่แล้ว

      @@barrettish 🤣🤣
      Lol

  • @candicecaravelle9854
    @candicecaravelle9854 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So your wife could not attend the wedding with you?

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah just me. I guess it makes sense in a way since the bride and groom have no relationship with my wife really.

    • @TeeBoyd88
      @TeeBoyd88 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@barrettish I kind of agree with this one. It's awkward trying to build a relationship with strangers over a few hours of a wedding etc. Also good to save money this way, lol.

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TeeBoyd88 Yeah, unless there’s already a relationship with them, it’s kind of like having strangers there.

  • @me12-17
    @me12-17 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why are they doing weddings in a chapel if theyre not Christians

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  ปีที่แล้ว

      Probably because they like the image of it. After all, it’s often shown in western movies and portrayed as elegant, so it’s kind of a foreign culture that’s been exported to places like Japan.

  • @ahmedjapon4512
    @ahmedjapon4512 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

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    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      To the sound of sizzling spam?

  • @redeemandregenerate322
    @redeemandregenerate322 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry, but the title is misleading. This cannot be termed as a "real" Japanese wedding. If it was traditional, then it would have.

    • @barrettish
      @barrettish  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      No, this is a real Japanese wedding because roughly 80% of Japanese weddings are done in Christian or Western styles (with a Japanese twist). Some other English videos showing a wedding in Japan were of international couples, this is not.
      You’re confusing the meaning of “real” and “traditional”, and I think you mean Shinto-style weddings, which account for a little less than 20% of Japanese weddings according to studies. As this video isn’t a fake wedding and one that is similar to the vast majority of Japanese weddings today, the word “real” was used and the thumbnail image reflects the wedding that is shown.