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This is actually a pretty good representation of what traumatic (PTSD) breakdowns can look like. It’s not all flash backs and hazy vision. Sometimes it’s outbursts like this.
One of my closest friends has PTSD, she went through times that I cannot say for understandable reasons. This led to outbursts and fights with other pupils probably because they offended her and how she felt towards people in moments such as this. Because of this we talk much more often when we need to and also when things get down and become really tough, and I’m really great full of our friendship.
It has been confirmed the character has ADHD
@@emilyryan892 yes the character has ADHD, but this sort of outbursts can happen when u have bad ptsd coming from someone with serious ptsd I have had outbursts just like this because I couldnt control what was going on around me and I couldn’t control what was going on inside my head and it also comes down to the people around u not understanding what’s going on and not understanding how to deal with someone with this sort of illness, in fact ptsd is 10x worse then ADHD, this is mild compare to what ptsd can do
@@Alice12369 yeahh! i dont have ptsd that bad but when someone triggers you, you get soo mad. it affects you for the whole day
Wow
The teacher was so ignorant when she said “I’m not gonna have you ruin it for everyone else” that right there could send an already emotional person over the edge. People have to watch what they say and how they say it. She just better be glad what Kelly sent flying through the window didn’t go through her.
obviously but if someone doesn't know that shes mentally ill its easy to assume shes is completely selfish and literally ruining it for others.
That’s why she needs to be in a hospital instead of ruining everyone else’s good time
The teacher is ignorant? She would be out if I was in charge she is danger to everyone in that room.
wow yeah we must all be grateful that we're not brutally assaulted by some lunatic
@@pragatisingh8467 "some lunatic" thats right, be ignorant of mental health you pos
The actress who plays kelly jo is incredible👏👏👏 I'm glad waterloo road is back and raising awareness for teenage mental health
Even though Kelly Jo reminds me of a friend of mine called Holly Wilde at Foxes Academy because Holly Wilde the same thing every day
I cried as well😢😢😢😢. "Stop that silly cow" WTF was that 😡😡😡
@@macsonchung2937 and he was supposed to be a teaching assistant!
Did the previous version of this show end with a teacher jumping into a canal? or did it end later? I'm in the US and it was on BBC America at the time
Only when she broke a window (and potentially harm the others) did they start doing anything sensible, that's wonderful
And scarily realistic
@@Jme_hdeik
Or it's only when someone's attempted suicide that they're taken seriously.
That’s literally how it is. It’s so upsetting not to be heard until you do something over the top it feels like.
A coworker I had was easily emotionally overwhelmed. My other coworkers often complained about her behind her back for it, but she’s a great person, and just needed patience sometimes. At those times I simply offered to help her out or offered an ear so she didn’t feel alone. Our response to someone losing control shouldn’t be losing control of our patience. Sometimes you just need to feel a moment of support. ❤
Youre an angel, from someone who can become very emotionally overwhelmed and have meltdowns, you make all the difference ❤
Is she okay now Im glad she is fine now
I understand and am empathetic but sometimes, especially when work gets busy, you either have to toughen up or expect people to get upset at you. I work in fast food and sometimes we’ll hire people like this and it’s more of a disturbance than anything. We are there to work, not to take care of other peoples trauma.
Your trauma is yours only and you should never make your trauma someone else’s problem.
lol no
I completely agree with what you said dear friend. Absolutaly true.
“I wonder what hole you’ll end up in.” Wow, that was unbelievably cruel!
What does that mean when he say that to Kelly Jo ?
@@hassantumbo6616 He was pretty much saying that she'll have no future
@@charliemcadoo4746 what a d*ck should get punch the face for that.
@@ahsenkhan5386 Yes, it's not very nice
Yeah I haven't seen this before who was that and why was she angry at him in the start when he only tried to help?
students who struggle like this usually just get punished for their behaviour. Teachers aren’t trained to help kids at all specifically they aren’t trained on trauma or on the wellbeing of children.
education courses (in some countries) definitely include modules about disorders that may afflict students, recognising the same, how to help or deescalate + where to go for additional support, etc. but, unfortunately, more in-depth study is usually undertaken via electives
Depends on the country, and the situation. They are required to be trained, but they are so underpaid, I can understand being hesitant. And a lot of the time, it is just anger and disrespect. This is an obvious moment of PTSD and not blatant anger. Though, we watched both sides and the teacher wouldn't have that luxury
teachers aren't paid enough to deal with this bullcrap.
@@pragatisingh8467 then they shouldn't be teachers.
These people are paid to teach children about the future and by acting like this they could destroy or even end lives.
they should be punished tbh
Teachers should not be shouting at her if she's having a breakdown
Yeah. Shouting has never worked. The best thing to do is to take them outside for a little walk in the fresh air and then if that doesn’t work then they should be taken to a quiet room and be allowed to calm down.
I’m not a teacher but I am neurodivergent (autistic and dyspraxic) and that’s what the SEN did with me before and after they knew I was autistic (I was diagnosed aged 18)
That teacher is stupid
She should watch what she say to a girl like Kelly or the consequences could be fatal. It could risk the lives of her students, I mean what if Kelly grabbed a sharp tool from the box or something that would harm the others. Kelly could’ve possibly hurt the teacher or the students or the support teachers with a pair of scissors or a rock or a hammer.
@@destinydarrling9276ye and what's that gonna change huh
@@BakiHanma-tg9tk you mean to say having some time to cool off has never worked for you?
@@BakiHanma-tg9tka hell of lot more than shouting at them in a room of people and making them more overstimulated does
This is an example of provoking someone with a verbal attack and then attacking them for responding to your attack.
something that makes me angry beyond belief, is that if you look at the man's face at 1:51, you'll see he's actually smiling. It's for a brief moment, but kelly is in a state of extreme distress, and he, along with another boy, find it funny. It urks me so much
My dad would do this. Just like that guy, when everyone was turned away he’d rile me up until I started freaking out like that girl so he could run to mommy and tell her how crazy and fucked up I am. And every single time his smile would slip out. Like it was so funny to put me in that mental state that he couldn’t contain his smile. Crazy.
I used to be like this at home sometimes in my darkest roughest times. It’s a real thing. It hurts.
How u feeling now
I have ptsd and expleted like this before
Same
me too :(
same
love to see how people dont understand just how traumatic it can be
For everyone involved...
Imaging being the person who gets yelled at by the psychologically unstable pt and then getting stuff thrown at you
The teacher is at fault but definitely not the other students - you can't be expected as a teenager to just sit there and let someone have a mental breakdown @ you and just take it.
lol there's people fighting in war zones yet people like this having mental breakdowns over nothing
@@egg-iu3fe that… that causes PTSD… that is this
@@animenome308 especially as some of those other students may have mental health issues too and may be traumatised by her behaviour.
If they hugged her from the very beginning when things started to go a bit strange and reassured her that no one is actually against her ~ things would not have escalated to all of that afterwards at all.
Obviously she needs more assistance afterwards with a real genuine loving therapist or emotional healer but the least thing if they did take it seriously from the beginning and offered the hug and the reassurance things will take another path and not the extreme worst path that they portrayed which is because they didn't take it seriously from the beginning and chose the gentle way to deal with it.
Emotions are everything and they need to be healed and dealt with the proper healthiest and gentlest way possible, humans are not robots never will be and emotions are genuine and they are what we live for and by so if they don't start teaching such stuff there will always be such problems forever unless they take it to heart and install it in education systems.
That’s not how it works in schools. If you think teachers can go around hugging students.. you must be living on another planet.
Teachers get sacked just for tapping a kid's arm let alone hugging them 😂
She absolutely needed understanding and compassion, but don't be too fast to rush into a hug. While they may take it as the act of protection and consoling that you intend it as, they can just as easily take it as a feeling of being trapped, a violation of personal limits, and a physical reminder of the trauma. Offer affection, but let them have a sense of control over what happens to them. Don't expect them to know what they want or need in that moment; but most often, they just need some reassurance of safety (words, a trusted person, solitude in a place they feel like they can protect themselves in, etc.)
@@Legacy-sw7bv That is true, thank you for your added valuable information to this comment section. 👍🏻
Thank you *so much* for including the statement of “don't expect for them to know what they want or need”: I have complex trauma, and I rarely, if ever, know what I need during times where I need emotional/psychological assistance!! This is something that rarely gets talked about, even in trauma spaces - a person with a history of emotional/psychological trauma likely won’t know what they need/what would comfort them when upset, because they never had their needs met to help them figure that out.
I got so emotional watching this because I understand the pain, PTSD and breakdowns manifest in many ways and this unfortunately is the way hers is showing. I don't wish this on anyone because I know it all to well for myself
And I was made to believe I was simply having temper tantrums before I actually knew about PTSD. Now I understand some of the other kids I knew weren't being stubborn or naughty back in the day.
I have Asperger’s and this has happened to me before. Many times actually. It’s all a blur when you’re fighting or being destructive when triggered but after, it’s one of the worst things to feel because you know what you’ve done and you can’t reverse it. The pain after that lasts for weeks or even months. It’s hard sometimes.
Im 34 i have aspergers but I stay strong and make sure nothing gets on my path.
Putting up a wall after being traumatised is like trying to clean up a crime scene. You're always panicking and on edge. You can act like you are tough as nails but once someone flicks a switch inside you everything you have built up can come crashing down in an instant. PTSD is that demon over your shoulder whispering 'it's all your fault'.
I don't really understand what's going on in the video, but I feel sorry for whoever is having the breakdown
My mom is a special needs teacher I showed her this and she said some times her kids (she calls them her kids) act like this
People with disabilities have high rates of being abused. Even in some of those classrooms. I'm not surprised.
She is an angel
I'm not ADHD, but I do have ASD and I felt a lot of similar feelings. The accusation of 'it's always you.' 'You're the one acting up.' 'You're the one who made it worse.'
All those are such common things those who neurodivergent conditions hear and face. Not just from others students. But teachers as well.
And you don't see my head. You don't see her head. It's outburst after outburst because the body doesn't know how else to cope. It's too much. And then we're demonised for it... told we should've controlled it. That we should just behave... gods, so many people don't understand what drives us to this. That it's natural for us to do this because there IS no other way. We cannot help it and just shouting and telling us to be normal, or behave makes it worse.
And fyi, it's done in a twisty way to shift the blame onto us. It's so traumatising. That people shift the situation so that you're the guilty because you acted up even though you were emotionally hurt by what has happened.
My son has ASD and we have dealt with the same stuff for YEARS. School teachers always seemed to “forget” because he was so smart and looked “normal.”
Thanks to them when he could have been in special classes that really could have benefited him he was miserable in their classes. I feel like the worst mom.
At 31, I'm experiencing these things finding out I'm neurodivergent. Typical female experience. It's like workplaces don't even give me a chance or have found ways to create false claims about me that are punitive and intentional defiance. I have experienced also during the interview process as if they want to dodge a bullet but not breach any ADA or EEOC violations if they find a way of saying I intentionally did something wrong because they don't want to say they don't want to work with a neurodivergent person and adapt to their needs. More work for them, but really a listening, empathetic ear is the bare minimum.
I was almost completely mute in primary school, I only spoke to say "yes miss" or "yes sir" for the register. Other kids were bribed with stickers to get me to talk (spoiler alert it didn't work). I wanted to be able to speak as I spoke at home, but there was just something in my mind that wouldn't do it. I didn't have one friend in primary school, not one. It was a very lonely time and I still hurt for that child. At home, I would use an old landline telephone that was no longer being used and pretended I was talking to people from school and arranging plans. The only friendship I had back then were the ones I tried to invent. Watching Kelly Jo breaks my heart, because she needs empathy and understanding, not blame.
@@BMass83as an educator myself who works with rooms full of students with a variety of conditions and disorders, yes some teachers are ignorant which is always unacceptable, but parents must keep in mind that their child is one student out of many in a school setting. When it comes down to it, the concern and priority is toward the safety of the entire class and staff when a situation arises. As cold and harsh as this truth is, nobody is special except in the eyes of the ones who have the closest relationships with them. Parents want their child given special attention/ accommodations which some teachers provide the best they can in their power, but in the real world, if an adult attacks another person and/or vandalizes property, it’s either the asylum or prison. I believe therapy and a healthy mind should be a requirement before being allowed to enter a school setting. It’s not healthy to force the student who is already overwhelmed into an intense setting along with fellow employees/ students being exposed to their episodes themselves. I do apologize if I sound harsh or unreasonable, my passion is working with Special Education, but I also don’t believe it is fair to subject anyone to this.
@@Kasey.Walker yah when I went to school and even now it’s so hard to be the person I am at home in public even though I so desperately want to and I’ve experienced things like in the video and that people in the comments are discussing and it’s still so lonely. I’m pretty sure I’m neurodivergent and as soon as I can I want help because I don’t want to hurt anyone or myself in such a detrimental way. ❤
I love it when people make videos like this, the meaning is easily understood and it spreads awareness
It’s a British soap called waterloo road
As the saying goes, “You wouldn’t like me when I’m angry.”
and this is why teen mental health needs taking seriously
Who doesn't take it seriously?
@@user-vh6ts9uf6c obviously not everybody but a lot of parents, caregivers, schools and health professionals don't take it as seriously as they should
@@user-vh6ts9uf6cAlready seen a lot of people in the comments who don't
Agreed
"I can keep her under control"
...
A few moments later...
Window smashed
My friend has PTSD as well. One time, the fire alarm went off in my school for a practice. And the noise of the alarm was so loud, she got really panicked and scared.
Hard to believe this is the same Donte who bullied a classmate for his bus pass back in 2006. The growth of his character is nothing short of incredible.
huhhh
Because it's... fiction?
@@Romy--- Well, that's on me I guess. I apologise for getting invested into characters' stories and arcs.
Yeah Donte’s lovely!
@@Romy--- bro's a soulless person who's never appreciated art and stories before
The lady who told her enough wtf is your problem
We should be respectful of other people regardless of what they have gone through or how they may behave. This perfectly represents that.
Id just like to give the actress who played Kelly Jo a standing ovation. Emotional scenes like this are so hard to do and she really smashes it.👏👏👏
I wish everybody was patient with people like this. Mental illness is such a real thing and we’re really not in any state of mind to be our own judge. If we’re not acting sane, should be helping us instead of arguing or ridiculing us. I struggle with ocd and it can get so bad I’m in a daze. I have also had angry outbursts.
Thats true we should be supportive but at the same time other people also have to protect their mental health as well. No reasonable person will subject themselves to constant random angry outbursts due to others trauma
Oh yeah I have OCD, ADHD, PTSD, and clinical depression. All 4 of them are extremely difficult and I have outbursts like this a lot. Mental illness is as real as cancer.
I know it's acting and all. But it gets on my nerves when someone is teasing a person who is having an episode. Also, you shouldn't get upset with the person who is having a mental breakdown. When I was little I wish I had someone like the guy at the end to talk to me and hug me like he did.
I have not seen this show and I'm really confused.
What's wrong with Kelly and why did she freak out immediatly when the other teacher came to her? And why was the guy that stepped in and helped all of a sudden going against her and treating her like she's crazy?
Me too I wanna know what this is about
i wanna too
Same
same
Right, from what I believe Kelly has some sort of PTSD and something triggered it
I went to school during the 80s/90s and i was just written off as a disruptive child and sent to boarding school, the education system failed me and many others back them. It was only in my 20s when i finally got diagnosed with ADHD, more shows need to follow Waterloo Road and highlight this.
Irl teachers think when someone acts like this they're just some teen acting out disrespectfully but that's not always the case and teachers yell at them when they have a breakdown instead of calming them down and asking what is wrong
This reminds me of PTSD and ADHD, maybe a bit of Autism. I have all 3 of these things.
I have autism and ADHD, but not PTSD. I have a friend who is exactly like this though.
I have all three two with anger issues that have me with a currently broken foot and multiple trips to the hospital from hurting myself and destroying things in my path, it's awful, this video almost triggered me myself because this girl was doing and acting exactly like i was and i feel really bad for her, people really always do make you out to be the bad guy when you lash out but dont look at the pain
yeah she had undiagnosed ADHD at this point in the show
Girl: * having a panic attack *
Teacher: “ ENOUF”
This was literally my head of year when I was having a tic attack💀
@@Amberxxbbunni oh my days that's fucked up
Is that supposed to be... a teacher?
Which one? The guy who said the horrible thing to the student wasn't a teacher, he was hired for the workshop. The guy who calms the student down also isn't a teacher but the maintenance guy.
@charlestownsend9280 donte who's helping her is the caretaker of the school and fixes thing when broken. but he has a son Teddy in the show, and he has the illness, so he knows what to look out for.
donte handled this like a pro
as much i would like to say otherwise, i'd have no idea how to deal with someone that unstable
Don't worry, it is a confusing and upsetting situation to be in. I would say that the best thing to do in this situation would have been to get her out of the class as soon as she started showing signs of distress, bring her to a safe and quiet space with accesses to sensory toys and then just be there with the student. Sit or talk quietly, roll a ball back and froth, even just be in silence, just let the student know that they are not alone and that they are safe. It's tricky but staying calm and collected when working with struggling kids is always the best move.
I’m crying so much cause if everyone keeps pushing my patients, I feel like I will do this.
U probs won’t lol
You won’t . shut up :/
i feel the same way because i got bullled my whole life because im HFA and most most ppl look as me as a easy target but as soon as i turn into that RAGING TIGER everyone wants to act scared and innocent, if ppl still wanna keeping pushin me around then TIGER IS GONNA KILL YOU lbs
I have freak outs like that, and nobody does what he did for her. Nobody hurts me like that and tells me that I’m safe and that everything‘s gonna be OK and everything‘s gonna be all right. Nobody does that with me at all and it hurts because I need that too and nobody understands that or cares to do that with me!!!!!!!!!!!!! I get upset just like she got upset and nobody hugged me like he hugged her and reassured me that I am safe and that everything‘s gonna be OK and that everything‘s gonna be all right
I’m sorry that you haven’t been treated well 🤍
There are good people out there though, who will comfort you if you’re upset. I suppose it just takes time and effort to meet them.
I also have emotional breakdowns like that and it’s helpful for me to try and comfort myself rather than to rely on other people. Even though it can be more difficult.
I hope you’re well 🤍
@@vladimirfyodorov You are such a caring person!!!!!! 😁🤗💗😭
pretty much this EXACT same situation happened to me 3 years ago when i was in year 10. in january 2023, i was officially diagnosed with adhd and the reason why they even investigated the possibility in the first place was because i told them about what happened in that drama class. i always see people saying they think the show misrepresented adhd, and that the symptoms line up more closely with autism and it bothers me because there is a LOT of crossover in the symptoms for both conditions. adhd can ABSOLUTELY look like this, and i'm glad the show put the effort into representing it further than just being hyper or talking too much.
Yes I’ve seen so many posts about how people don’t realize how autism and adhd manifest in different ways. That’s why I’m so uncertain as to whether I have adhd, autism, or both
@@yusinu6642 there's actually a thing where if you have one neurodiversity, you're likely to have another! for example, if you have autism, you're more likely to also have adhd because of the sheer amount of overlap there can be. it can be really difficult to distinguish between those two specifically; my paediatrician went back and forth between pursuing an autism diagnosis or an adhd one for almost *7 years* before eventually deciding on both!
@@redkyl3 😭😭😭thank you so much for telling me. This is going to be so hard but I’m going to try to do a bunch of research on the both of them so when I finally get tested, I don’t have them dismissing me because I don’t have “typical behaviors” even though there’s a range❤️
@@yusinu6642 research is key! also, i'm obviously not sure of your gender lol but i thought i'd mention anyways; an insane amount of females with adhd are misdiagnosed with bipolar disorder as professionals often overlook adhd symptoms or misinterpret them. i would seriously suggest also researching bipolar just as a precautionary measure in case anyone tries to convince you its that instead, and you have the words to tell them if they're wrong about anything.
This is probably how most school shooting starts. Lots of gaslighting and bullying then the silent kid can't handle it anymore. Bullying needs to stop.
It needs too but schools don't do shit. Teachers turn a blind eye as it's easier.
@@ProphecyPhrase Which kinda contradicts the whole duty of care thing
It happens with me sometimes when I feel lonely , have a feeling of abandonment but it happens only in my home , I always burst out with a lot of mixed emotions , mental breakdown because of this .
this is exactly "you can't shoot me and then get shot" moment
I have internal BPD but one or 2 of my eposides have been similar. I am angry and need to hurt myself or break things and as soon as I do I'm calm and start crying and apologising.
Yeah this made me cry.
This had my heart moving 😢
“Everyone’s always blaming me” I felt that in my soul. I have adhd and it’s always the feeling that everyone’s out to get you even tho there not
This gave me a flashback to when I was in secondary school. I was always told it was my fault and the teachers used to yell at me. I wouldn’t have a meltdown but I was just go quiet and withdrawn. I wouldn’t want to speak because I was scared if I did I would get yelled at again. Only when I was in my late 20’s did a get diagnosed with autism and adhd.
I felt sorry for Kelly Jo. I don't know what was going through her mind.
Watch the full episode and find out
1:41 Me at school:
this show is quite good on the elements of how it affects others. it's serious support.
it's defininatelyagood representation of itall.
why are you typing like this ?
Yes. I. Agree v
i do feel really bad as i have autism, spd and severe anxiety and this has happend to me multiple times in school it's really hard work tbf i feel bad for her.
The teacher had no right shouting at Kelly like that it’s unacceptable and mean
The teacher is not fit to be called a teacher!
Donte was the sweetest character ❤
Donte was the sweetest character
Donte was the sweetest character on waterloo road...
I've got adhd and sometimes it really gets like this
Am I the only one lost in the youtube recommendations with out any context for this scene?
There's a boy in my year in most of my classes at school who has special needs and this kind of thing happens a lot when he gets too stressed out he starts throwing desks and chairs at people and they have to evacuate everyone out of the classroom without their stuff but I always feel really bad for him because I feel like no one gets him but my eldest brother has autism like him and I've grown up with that and know how to handle it but the teachers don't. Staff at school usually don't understand why a child does this and shouts at them and tells them off but that's not the right thing to do. You need to be understanding, patient and gentle which will help them calm down and recover better.
I'm like this even though I've haven't got autism but due to my disability I stim in class a lot because the noise gets to me a lot and sometimes I have breakdowns/ meltdowns because I can understand what Kelly is going through especially this because i've been bullied in the past
It’s super subtle but at the 0:32 mark Kelly Jo actually starts to ask “Can I please go outside?”
There’s a lot of criticism here at Kelly Jo but for someone with untreated ADHD (and likely Rejection Sensitivity Dysmorphia) to be forced to remain in such an environment when you have been publicly embarrassed and reprimanded, she was a ticking time bomb. (Also notice how no one else’s cruel comments about Kelly Jo are not publicly addressed.) If the staff had proper de-escalation training, allowing Kelly a break to leave and cool down could have helped tremendously. And her taking a break would not have “ruined the workshop for everyone.”
I used to act up like that from ptsd breakdowns and yk what those teachers should be glad she didn’t knock one of them out cuz I would’ve 😂
yeah i would have really
I have Autism and that happened to me at school and the teachers knew exactly what to do! I wish that girl has a lot of teachers who are supportive as my teachers
Yet this is the state of a lot of teachers. Teachers believing they have the power to shout at students. They do not understand the effects they have on us.
Rejection anxiety expiosde, common in adhd
He shouldn’t have spoken to her like that tho that teacher
she said something offencive to him too, so it's partly her fault
@@sofiandolga What she said was from a place of hurt and being unable to cope with whatever she was going through; that teacher said something way worse and unwarranted when he was perfectly alright (mentally, that is). As the adult, it's up to him to understand that kid was not herself, and people say/do things that they normally wouldn't do when they have a breakdown. Some compassion goes a long way in situations like this. He could have definitely handled it way better than he did, without escalating the situation, if he had been nicer
@@a.f.2330 you dont know that, that teacher maybe it's not 'alright' mentally just like her and what he said could have came from a place of hurt. Its a pretty hypocritical mindset to expect people to help her when she hurt them with her words especially when the reason why she had breakdown was because someone hurt her (by rejecting her). If she can have a breakdown and hurt others because she felt hurt then why other people couldnt do the same to her when she hurt them??
well sadly the majority of people have their own traumas to deal with. So in the middle of the breakdown you can trigger some trauma in other people by your actions and they will hurt you back, its a possible consecuence of your behaviour
@@sofiandolga no he’s a teacher lmao
@@nl-ho4wm it doesn’t matter he’s a teacher
I don’t have ptsd but I remember going through the same exact thing multiple times as a child…. I am a victim of child abuse though with complex trauma 😮
Oh, so you have CPTSD then?
The teacher was not handling the situation very well the first time, she shouldn’t have yelled at her because she was having a traumatic breakdown.
Instead, it could’ve been handled like this
De-escalate the situation
Take the student away from the other students and have a talk
Talk down the the feelings inside that waste of the student will feel better and want to go back to learning
I myself am not a teacher, but this is not the way how things are handled
I don’t care if it’s a TV, show this kind of thing happens every day
It says on internet she has ADHD
Yeah she does
I have ADHD, PTSD, Depression, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Reactive Attachment Disorder, and I’m looking into a BPD diagnosis. Growing up in elementary school, I was A LOT like this in classes. I had to have my whole class removed from the room, many times. I was always asked by teachers why I acted the way I did. Which made things worse, because I didn’t know, and I don’t wanna be asked that. I was told I had really bad anger issues. When I got older and went to other schools, it got worse. Got on many medications, I was out of control, kicked out of schools, etc. teachers never did much of anything UNTIL I got out of control. Like they wanted it to happen it felt like. All of what I stated, is actually why I never went to college like I wanted to. I felt it wouldn’t be a good fit for me.
Travel and see the beautiful scenery. Try slow and long proper breathing techniques. Don't enclose yourself in the end it's only you who can help yourself. Don't try to get sympathy from others It will just make you weak it's harsh to say but toughened up yourself is the best way.
Go Donte this was only my second episode of Waterloo road but I have watched a few of the old ones I love it already reminds me of my school crazy 🤪
Donte knew what was happening as his son in waterloo road teddy he's called I think as the illness as well.
average day in my school
The guys who gets hold of her looks like he was on coronation street
His brother was.
Teachers should not have pushed her too far that's what's happened they could see it happening so why didn't they just be more understand rather than shout at her
I find Kelly Jo's character really realistic 🙌🏻
I’ve been in similar situations as Kelly Jo. I have outbursts and anger issues as well.
I thought this whole new season was really good !
Me if my instruive thoughts won:
Its like josh from the earlier seasons I want them to bring trenemen and rimmer
Question. Why does a whole class have to be policed and arguably pushed to do things that are not comfortable with in order to make one person comfortable? Speaking from personal experience where do you draw the line? Would it be alright if they berate someone? How about physical violence? No judgment. Genuinely curious
What do you mean exactly by “pushed to do things they aren’t comfortable with”?
people like that should be told to exit the classroom if they can't control themselves.
I relate to Kelly jo so much
1:25 she was fine until she came along. She pissed me off just like she did to the girl, like she was fine until you came along?
THIS METHOD DOES NOT WORK WITH EVERYONE EXPERIENCING PTSD BREAKDOWN OR ASD MELTDOWN
Reminds me of me before DBT therapy and EMDR therapy. I have CPTSD and BPD, triggers can be so difficult to cope with in an effective way. It's like I try to get people to understand my emotional needs by blatantly telling them but when I'm not taken seriously and my needs still aren't met, I feel the urge to be more reactive to get my needs met. I've been in situations like this only I usually would start hurting myself to show how upset I am, after that doesn't work then I'd eventually start getting physical with others. These didn't benefit me much in the long term, only in the short term. People call me crazy lol yeah my brain doesn't work like other brains, I know it's crazy right 🙃
I’ve had outbursts similar to this at home, wondering if I should get that checked out
At least not everybody is making fun of her or belittling her in the scene. There are some people who are concerned. That’s pretty realistic. I would think.
This is so sad😢
I’m someone who has severe PTSD and Autism. I’ve only had violent breakdowns in the privacy of my own home because the fear of getting in trouble or potentially hurting someone is too strong for me
Me too. I've never gotten violent but I've gone under tables because I get so overwhelmed, it's frustrating because it's always seen as strange but Its like I'm autistic damn it! I am stressed and overwhelmed. Plus if I break down in class no one cares or they say things that truly don't help.
people in these comments really don't understand what ptsd can look like.... sorry trauma is ugly i guess lmao
Me: my classroom 😢
ngl this was me a week ago at school
So what actually happened to her why did she have PTSD? I really would like to know.
I’m at this stage in my life. I used to just get pissed off at people. But I’ve evolved. I’ve started to use my fists. Not on any girls. Just guys. I try to fight them when they’re avoiding from conflict. I’m such a monster. More of a monster than this girl. At least she doesn’t hurt anyone like me. She’s broken. I’m evil.
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Things will get better. Through time, therapy, and inner work I was able to change from this person as well. You are not a monster.
@@lisaraye6241 I am. I will never be able to do one thing right with my life.
dude get help... therapy? or might wanna listen to some calming songs? if you need someone to talk to, feel free to tell me.
@@randomland2775 you have a lot of life left to live. You can change and find a new path.
Prolly just me but idk why but I always thought that schools in general is just awful really, you get terrible teachers who either instead of helping you instead they are the ones who pull you down by deliberately not letting you pass, classmates on their diff types of bullying with their alienating social circles, the schools themselves who takes advantage on some of their students and teachers with their low pays on them to choke hold on students and parents with school debts, not to mention school bad experiences will be diff per county such as Gun Violence, school shootings, teachers and even students with questionable backgrounds etc...
A bit unnecessary take but yeah... 🙃
Prolly isn't a word
@@SandDancerHellie
Cearly you haven't searched it yet to confirm it, so it is an official word "GENIUS"...
What the episode of this?❤
I may not have ADHD, but I am Autistic a little bit and I do have similar problems as well but everyday I am able to take it step by step. I feel so bad for Kelly Jo.
I'm a bit like Kelly 😊😊
This randomly came across my recommendation 😳
This how middle school look like
I know I'm a bit new at this but what does the teacher mean when he says "I wonder what hole you'll end up in" to Kelly Jo ? Just wondering what he meant
i think he’s trying to say that she’ll end up like a druggie or something
Or mental institution
like what mental hospital shell end up in
It's a metaphorical phrase used as an insult to tell someone they end up having no job or no success in their future. It's like saying they will get stuck in a hole with no way out. Terribly abusive thing for a teacher to say.
As in hell hole,druggie or mental hospital