I feel absolutely awful for his little brother. He has to share a room with two people and a baby! Why didn’t they apply for housing at the start?Or stay at her parents house?
No shit! Parents shouldn’t of agreed to that not fair on the brother. They got themselves into that situation the brother shouldn’t have to cop it because of their irresponsibility.
They’d have been to Young to get the house at the beginning. I also wondered why they couldn’t be with her family, maybe they’re in a worse position, who knows. I do feel for the brother.
He’s a good dad, good partner and he’s trying to support his family. That’s more than most teenag moms get. She’s definitely got a keeper that’s for sure.
I mean they're idiots for landing themselves in this situation but seem to have good hearts and they are trying. At least they're mature enough to be down citizens advice and having a good crack at it. Best of luck to them.
What a lovely lad! I truly hope this beautiful young family have all the luck in the world. Love and respect are a good starting point, the fact that things are hard to begin with will make eventual success so much more worthwhile.
Very true I'm just old fashioned brought up by very strict parents (but yes I had to do things behind my parents back) at least this girl is mature and has family support I suppose being pregnant with family support is better than not having any at all
I find her very mature for her age the young family deserve an amazing life only wish they both did whatever they wanted beforehand good on you both ❤❤❤
I'm not your mother, but I 100% support you watching this show. Pay attention to what 99% of these young ladies have in common: they're uneducated or under-educated. Promise yourself that you will take full advantage of the education your parents and your country are offering to you. Yes, it's hard at times, but you need a basic education and higher education to succeed at life. Good luck to you, doll. Work hard in school.
I'm 25 and 34 weeks pregnant .....during a global pandemic I wanted a baby .....did I know there would be a fucking pandemic NOPE! moral of the story dont get pregnant or the world might litterally end
Tegan Leigh You watching @ 13y/o is the reason they make these shows.. for other young ppl to see & learn from the mistakes of others in their age group. You keep right on watching these & make something better of your life!!
If my son will be dad at 15. My husband and i will be 50 and 51 and we can definitely support him financially. But I can’t be more desapointed by how irresponsable he is.... i ‘m surprise how calm those new and premature grand-parents are! Having kids itself is happy event. But this is way too early. They are not even able to provide the basic to their child today...how they will do in the futur? They should be at school building their dream career and not waiting for maturity age to get benefits. What a bright futur! And that baby? will he have the best education to success also? I doubt. Just start a vicious cercle.
nice to see him trying to support his family. Though it may not be a long term solution but why couldn't of they stayed in the caravan in the garden to have some space.
In America, they would remove the 14 year old from the home, if the girl didn't move out. You cannot legally have that bedroom arrangement here....and for good reason.
I think the girl handled him wanting to go to the army pretty badly she should have been on board that's just my personal opinion he would get more money for them in the army than benifts
She is a child herself. You are most likely older than she is in this vid so thinking like a mature being. I'm with you, baby first steps can't pay bills.
@@emilyjefferies4536 Wow judging how someone speaks real big and mature of you. NOT some people are dyslexic or English is not their first Language. Imagine someone saying to you that you can't spell because you put BC instead of because.
His parents encouraged him to quit school,so not helping. He could also take some sort of general education class. In the USA we have a GED thats the same as a diploma. I am sure Britain has the same thing with a different name. Btw he can get college credits from military service.
@@3monsters014 Nope nothing like that in the U.K. at all. We don’t have GED’s - it’s just not a thing here. We can also leave school at 16 to go into training or work (England is different from Scotland where they live - you can just leave at 16 in Scotland but England requires you do further education or training or some sort until 18). We don’t have high school graduation either. You do exams at 15/16 and that’s your education. Your results are posed to you and that’s it. You can choose to stay in school an extra year or two for additional exams and qualifications (generally needed if you want to go to university). He didn’t drop out of high school and neither did she. They stayed the legally required years and left. Many people do and not everyone wants to persuade academic careers. Also the army credits thing isn’t the same here - the army do train people themselves specific jobs. The U.K. education system is nothing like the USA at all. Also Scotland is very different from the rest of the U.K. and we have a different education structure, exams, even university degrees are completely different in Scotland than England.
I'd have put mum dad and baby in the caravan, charged them 100 a month (put that in a pot for them towards for when the get their own place) they'd soon figure it out for themselves. 🤷🏾♀️
Adrianna Frankk agreed! Put them in the caravan they got themselves into that situation. Them in the little brothers room would be the last option if I was the parents. He didn’t choose to get a girl pregnant he shouldn’t have to also deal with a crying baby at night.
@@soapiesoap5649 right! had I been a teen parent I'd be so happy with living in a caravan. May not be ideal but it'd be somewhere safe and it'd give me the change to save some serious money... 🤦🏾♀️
Everyone saying put them in the caravan but you have to be careful with a baby because they can die from poor temperature control - I know they got themselves in this mess but it's not the baby's fault and safety of an infant has to be a priority.
Every single documentary I watch on teen pregnancy I the UK.. Every one of them says "We used a condom, But it split"..... honestly I think it's an excuse they use because they didn't use any contraceptives. What kind of condoms are they using!? I know how condoms are made and tested, it's pretty rare that they just "Split".
She is being selfish if he thinks the army is the best thing for his family then she should expect it I understand that she don’t want him to miss it but there are ways for him to see it when he comes home. Like record it or something I know it not the same but she needs to let him do what he thinks it’s right for his son she should be lucky that she has someone that wants to help her let alone her son father
She was saying about the cons of being in the army like what if he dies and their son grows up without a dad? Not only that it depends what type of army you are looking for because to join the army it's 16-17 with parental consent.
I pay taxes but child benefit has been taken away from me. These kids are making babies they are not able to support themselves as they are still young. I hope other young people can learn from this as life is about choices we make whilst we are young, they come to bite when we are older.
jen scaff and reusable wipes... and breastfeeding (although I know it’s not a possibility for all mothers, uptake rates in the UK are abysmally low). Honestly, I don’t know how teen parents do it; I found being a first time mum hard enough at 26.
Ali V. I had my baby at 16, i didn’t have much trouble as I have money as I’m a wellbeing officer and her dad is a engineer, so we didn’t struggle, but i bet your s great mum!
Ridiculously expensive though, and if she's broke she might not be able to afford that money all at once. It'll be like a week or more worth of the money she gets.
The common denominator in most of these stories is an impoverished background with little/no education, and a pattern of underage childbirth going back 1-2 generations at least. It's normalised in these low class communities, they know no better and not much else is available to them, realistically.
Yes sex ed is taught in UK schools, including puberty at the end of primary school. I imagine we actually are one of the most comprehensive in the world in that area. Abortion is also legal until a liberal 24 weeks. Still didn't stop like 70% of the people from my year at school having a kid before they were 25. Honestly, I don't know what the solution is. I think people are comforted when they grow up around other people who have kids young. It makes them think 'well if they can do it, so can I'.
I had my son at 16 I stayed with my parents till he was 5 when me and my sons dad got married. My husband didn't move into my parents house but her visited often and helped but went home to his own bed at night. These are children and I dint think it's a good idea to move out. She should have stayed with her parents and him with his sharing a room with his brother is so wrong. These people get congratulated for getting pregnant young claiming benefits and getting a council house. They haven't a clue about life.
Laughing at the end there about how he wants to take her out for a meal and then it shows them eating greasy junk food on a bench. Ah, to be young and think that's actually a meal!
They are struggling for money but the baby father has had his hair dyed. Someone should be living in the caravan. I had to stay with my parents and I lived in a caravan with my 3 year old son for 3 months.
Back when this was filmed, students left school aged 16. They could either go to college or get a job. If his grades weren't high enough, he wouldn't get in to college and would be left with just the work option. It's a little different now, students don't leave until 18 now. Still wouldn't have helped him provide for his child.
When I was first looking for a job I asked for help and didn't get any. I wasn't as nieve as him though. Depending on where you apply the company will have a form for you to fill out so no need for a CV But when you don't know and your parents haven't worked a day in their life it might take a little while to figure things out. Still he's 'trying 😊'
I never understand why parents want to join the military. They're likely to be gone from their family for months or years at a time and can die if they're in war, plus many end up getting PTSD. I know you can make money that way, but there are other jobs that would at least pay minimum wage and you can work up from there.
The father of my twins is in the army and was when I gave birth however we live in a beautiful property can treat the girls to everything and were only 17, don’t be so negative
Because it really offers a lot of opportunities, especially to young people in economically depressed areas. Guaranteed steady income, housing, food allowance, medical benefits & vocational training or college credits/degree. Armies have always been run on the blood of the poor. The trade off being someone with only a high school diploma has an increased chance of making a career outside their tiny podunk town where there is little opportunity for advancement.
My dad was kind of opposite... he found out my mom was pregnant and after 9 years in the Air force, he left. My mom wanted him to stay in the force because he was making good money. She said that she would move in with her sister and they would just raise us and her kids together. It’s a common practice in her culture. But my dad couldn’t fathom not being in our lives. He’s been very active in our lives since. It was hard for them financially, because when he left, all they had for him was an empty apartment with a mattress on the floor. But he did his best to provide for us and as an adult, I appreciate every fiber of his being. I’m glad that he was there every moment of our childhood.
For everyone on here judging these young people, yes, they are young, but a baby is never EVER a mistake. There are accidents, but to call a child a mistake is dehumanizing and intolerable. Believe me, I was unwanted and called a mistake all through my childhood. Both parents are there and trying. There is love, and that is what counts.
You mean you get a choice of what type of public housing is offer in England, hmmmm ... well; We are applying for a two storey, four bedroom, with en-suite for the master bedroom with walk in wardrobe, built in wardrobes ... three way bathroom , separate toilets upstairs and down...separate lounge and dining rooms.... entertainment room....state of the art stainless steel kitchen with built in kitchen island - oh...don’t forget the white picket fence please ... and how long is the wait? With that said, I do wish Jordan and Natasha all the best that life can offer. Focussing on their responsibilities as young parents and moving forward is a big plus...
You don’t get to choose (how many rooms yes but that’s only depending on how many people would be living there ) and they are far from luxurious but they do the job !
@@chloerose3521 gettin anything for free is a luxury but id rather earn and spend than be stuck at home wondering how to save money from 70 squid after spending it on nappies rather hit the drive thru in maccys and buy ten cheesburgers for me and my mates the chill life
@@crazygazz you dont get it for free, you still need to pay rent, rates, electric, gas, internet, phone, groceries, childcare, clothing and basic baby needs, believe me UC and child benefit only goes so far
Watching this I’m only 13 and I’m pregnant this has given me extra support I’m already 8 months and don’t show but this took a real weight of my shoulders
How is your baby now? I am in my mid twenties and had an older sister get pregnant at 17. Just remember, age doesn't define you as a parent. You do what you need to, to give your child the love and only you as the mother can. You have a lot of support from us here backing you up. Keep strong and don't let anyone tell you that they know better for your child. Only YOU as the parent knows what your child needs.
I was a young single mom. I don't understand why these moms who were my age at the time chose to bottle feed. It's expensive. Time consuming and labour intensive. I struggled but kept at it for 18 months. The alternative would have been way harder. Still....good effort on their part.
She may have no choice but to formula feed. Maybe she struggled to produce enough/any breast milk to feed the baby. What can be done in a situation like this?
From the narrative at the beginning of the video, there are far too many wishy-washy excuses as to how baby Leo came to be born. At least Jordan's family is being supportive by taking them in, and this includes Jordan, thankfully. How viable the relationship will be long-term, heaven only knows. It's not a good start for anyone! He seems a bit lacking in any common sense or ambition but appeared to be trying hard to make his construction course work for him.
@Laney Yuh oh I thought she said she only gets 71 a week from benefits and he only gets 50 and has to attend classes in order to recieve but in my currency shes getting $120 and hes getting 85 so it's actually not that bad depending on the cost of stuff there 200 a week wouldnt feed my family or pay any Bills but whatever counsel housing is makes it sound like they dont have to pay much rent if they got in , but this is also from like 2005 so benefits would be much more these days I would assume. Dont know what Bill's they would have other then baby formula and diapers since they live with the mother so no rent or groceries to buy .but sorry coulda swore I heard them say she only gets 70 amd he only gets 50
@Laney Yuh it says she cant support the family with only 70 a week and that they have 3 left after buying the baby's stuff nothing about paying any bills and only have 70 left after ,says she gets benefits but struggling to support the family off of 70 a week right in the beginning and he said he didnt qualify for benefits but turned out he didnt go to his appointment and that's why he didnt get it ,then when he did it was 50 a week amd he had to go to class
From my understanding a counsel house is the UK version of section 8 housing in the US. So they would pay minimal rent to nothing depending on what they qualify for
Lots of teen JUST LEARN HOW!! Cuz if u do for them how will they learn!! Just be there to help them along the way. They will do ok. They seems like good kids!!ok ok they made a Mistake having a baby at a yg age but our grandparents got married at a yg age back in the 20, 30& 40 ies they all survived!! Lol
Maybe the right authorities should do some research of how this works for the young lads? It is very obvious, seeing all the shows, that something is happening with the young boys when the make a girl pregnant.
@@CraftyWitch1990 Plenty of other Scottish accents are clear and beautiful - e.g. Edinburgh, Perth accents. Check out Ewan McGregor, for example, he speaks very well. This, on the other hand, is a low class accent.
These days it isn’t normal for a 13/14/15 year old to be playing dolls and barbies🤔no they want real babies that are all so cute when there born but what about when the kid is like 2/3/4 then see how happy there doing ✅ kids need to be kids and not be having sex you should be educated about sex not having it 💯
They never played with dolls and barbies past the age of 11 anyways. They are suppose to be more focused on school, having fun with friends, and doing whatever other stuff teenagers do. Still doesnt consist with having babies though but we really shouldnt judge them anyway. Most people have tried sex at a young age. Most of those people are just lucky enough not to get pregnant either.
@@kaylarobbins9204 Thanks plus I'm 13 and pregnant and chose to keep my little girl Zora. I just relied on condoms it did not work for me and I ended up getting pregnant but after Zora's born I am heading to the planned parenting and putting myself on the inplant.
@@jaebird789 first of all I am 13 I am 14 in August. Second of all I haven't ruined my life I think in my opinion that my daughter is gaining me a purpose in life. Plus I'm not going to ruin my daughter's life I believe she's going to have a great life and the reason why I chose Zora as a name is because I liked it. Also I am still pregnant 28 weeks and 5 days.
You cant talk logic and reason to the teenage brain - they know everything about everything, as we can see right here. Straight to the Dr with long term birth control measures until they can own the consequences of their choices….
There so calm and mild ,I can see them lasting as long as evil and evildoers stay away from them ! Evil is everywhere these day , the bible tellers unsewhen you feel that upset feeling ,bad feelings , that means he’s around , the Lord Tells us to yell at the evil to go get out and stay away from them and their home , the Bible tells us to yell at the devil in the name of Jesus Christ my Lord and saviour , and with that he has to go , but he will come back again , then you yell at him to go agian in the name of your Lord Jesus , it worked , if you be lieve in your Lord of course your life will be easier ,but there are times you’ll need to yell the Devil away , I know this sounds funny , but it’s true ,and works of course because the Lord tells us , !
Lots of teen JUST LEARN HOW!! Cuz if u do for them how will they learn!! Just be there to help them along the way. They will do ok. They seems like good kids!!ok ok they made a Mistake having a baby at a yg age but our grandparents got married at a yg age back in the 20, 30& 40 ies they all survived!! Lol
Lots of teen JUST LEARN HOW!! Cuz if u do for them how will they learn!! Just be there to help them along the way. They will do ok. They seems like good kids!!ok ok they made a Mistake having a baby at a yg age but our grandparents got married at a yg age back in the 20, 30& 40 ies they all survived!! Lol
Lots of teen JUST LEARN HOW!! Cuz if u do for them how will they learn!! Just be there to help them along the way. They will do ok. They seems like good kids!!ok ok they made a Mistake having a baby at a yg age but our grandparents got married at a yg age back in the 20, 30& 40 ies they all survived!! Lol
I feel absolutely awful for his little brother. He has to share a room with two people and a baby! Why didn’t they apply for housing at the start?Or stay at her parents house?
No shit! Parents shouldn’t of agreed to that not fair on the brother. They got themselves into that situation the brother shouldn’t have to cop it because of their irresponsibility.
They’d have been to Young to get the house at the beginning. I also wondered why they couldn’t be with her family, maybe they’re in a worse position, who knows.
I do feel for the brother.
Hey he stayed, he’s training and he is a good Dad and partner that’s more than a lot of grown people can say!
Me Rose What’s his last name 🤔
He’s a good dad, good partner and he’s trying to support his family. That’s more than most teenag moms get. She’s definitely got a keeper that’s for sure.
Could not agree more ! Good on him. Hope they are still going strong 💪💪💖💖
Why should the younger brother in school get the worst of this situation?
I was thinking the same!!! Why the heck did she move in with Jordan when Jordan shared a bedroom with his younger brother?
Probably because her parents would not let the boyfriend move in.
Hes a good kid, trying harder than lots
I mean they're idiots for landing themselves in this situation but seem to have good hearts and they are trying. At least they're mature enough to be down citizens advice and having a good crack at it. Best of luck to them.
They are such a lovely little family,
He is doing well to try and support his family
Hope you guys realize how wonderful those parents are to allow you into the family ! Thank you for sharing ! God Bless you all
I feel bad for the 14 year old brother!
Oh man. I'm trying to comprehend what they're saying. Lol. I put the subtitles on and it's no help. The subtitles are hilarious though. Lol.
Same. Can't understand a bloody word!
Yes. As much as I want to watch the episode I can't understand anything especially since they're speaking as if they're on their deathbed
@@bettyjeanzepeda4767 🤣Right? Lol
@@bettyjeanzepeda4767 what do you mean?
What a lovely lad! I truly hope this beautiful young family have all the luck in the world. Love and respect are a good starting point, the fact that things are hard to begin with will make eventual success so much more worthwhile.
Very true I'm just old fashioned brought up by very strict parents (but yes I had to do things behind my parents back) at least this girl is mature and has family support I suppose being pregnant with family support is better than not having any at all
I pray their all doing well, I'm so glad that he's being responsible for his family! 🤗💜🌷
There my family and they broke up when Leo was like 10
@@Jonnie691are you Jordan?
@@Jonnie691 My gosh, that's great that they stayed together for 10 years. Wishing you all the best 😊
I find her very mature for her age the young family deserve an amazing life only wish they both did whatever they wanted beforehand good on you both ❤❤❤
That’s a very great plan to teach him a trade ,while giving him a small allowance , great plan ! God Bless the young family .
Some people might disagree with me watching these at 13.. but hopefullythese will put me off of babies for another 15 years lmao🤣
Our World Is Dying honestly same-
I'm not your mother, but I 100% support you watching this show. Pay attention to what 99% of these young ladies have in common: they're uneducated or under-educated. Promise yourself that you will take full advantage of the education your parents and your country are offering to you. Yes, it's hard at times, but you need a basic education and higher education to succeed at life. Good luck to you, doll. Work hard in school.
I'm 25 and 34 weeks pregnant .....during a global pandemic I wanted a baby .....did I know there would be a fucking pandemic NOPE! moral of the story dont get pregnant or the world might litterally end
Tegan Leigh You watching @ 13y/o is the reason they make these shows.. for other young ppl to see & learn from the mistakes of others in their age group. You keep right on watching these & make something better of your life!!
You will not regret waiting until you're like 25-35 trust
He really took on responsibility that’s unusual and commendable
Honestly sharing a room with the Lil brother is good... he won't make the mistake that his big brother did...
But what a way to learn like tha
If my son will be dad at 15. My husband and i will be 50 and 51 and we can definitely support him financially. But I can’t be more desapointed by how irresponsable he is.... i ‘m surprise how calm those new and premature grand-parents are! Having kids itself is happy event. But this is way too early. They are not even able to provide the basic to their child today...how they will do in the futur? They should be at school building their dream career and not waiting for maturity age to get benefits. What a bright futur! And that baby? will he have the best education to success also? I doubt. Just start a vicious cercle.
4:32 the lassie at vodafone 'you need to bring in like a CV' 😂😂
nice to see him trying to support his family. Though it may not be a long term solution but why couldn't of they stayed in the caravan in the garden to have some space.
In America, they would remove the 14 year old from the home, if the girl didn't move out. You cannot legally have that bedroom arrangement here....and for good reason.
I think the girl handled him wanting to go to the army pretty badly she should have been on board that's just my personal opinion he would get more money for them in the army than benifts
kellie rouse tbh I understand her because she doesn’t want to loose him but I do get what you mean
I couldn't cope with the worry of losing someone I love.
She is a child herself. You are most likely older than she is in this vid so thinking like a mature being. I'm with you, baby first steps can't pay bills.
Mom is so young, she's still learning how to speak.
😂😂😂😂✋🏾
No, she’s is just from the Scottish Borders!
That is a Scottish accent she's not learn how to speak please educate yourself on accents....
@Abbie Greene you don’t seem to know how to speak either bc what you wrote made no sense
@@emilyjefferies4536 Wow judging how someone speaks real big and mature of you. NOT some people are dyslexic or English is not their first Language.
Imagine someone saying to you that you can't spell because you put BC instead of because.
Should have stayed in school and worked part time after school. Now he is a drop out without a job. Not too smart.
His parents encouraged him to quit school,so not helping.
He could also take some sort of general education class. In the USA we have a GED thats the same as a diploma. I am sure Britain has the same thing with a different name.
Btw he can get college credits from military service.
@@3monsters014
Nope nothing like that in the U.K. at all. We don’t have GED’s - it’s just not a thing here.
We can also leave school at 16 to go into training or work (England is different from Scotland where they live - you can just leave at 16 in Scotland but England requires you do further education or training or some sort until 18).
We don’t have high school graduation either. You do exams at 15/16 and that’s your education. Your results are posed to you and that’s it.
You can choose to stay in school an extra year or two for additional exams and qualifications (generally needed if you want to go to university). He didn’t drop out of high school and neither did she. They stayed the legally required years and left. Many people do and not everyone wants to persuade academic careers.
Also the army credits thing isn’t the same here - the army do train people themselves specific jobs.
The U.K. education system is nothing like the USA at all. Also Scotland is very different from the rest of the U.K. and we have a different education structure, exams, even university degrees are completely different in Scotland than England.
@@3monsters014 No such thing as a GED in the UK, or college credits from the military. Stop applying American rules to everyone else.
@@EC2019 Dont be a piece of shit. People can leave. I know mind blown but Airlines exist and so does immigration.
@@3monsters014 we do our basic school leaving exams at 16. He most likely already has those.
Someone could sleep in the caravan!
Maybe parents are being over-protective? You'd honestly think that would be first option, wouldn't you?
I'd have put mum dad and baby in the caravan, charged them 100 a month (put that in a pot for them towards for when the get their own place) they'd soon figure it out for themselves. 🤷🏾♀️
Adrianna Frankk agreed! Put them in the caravan they got themselves into that situation. Them in the little brothers room would be the last option if I was the parents. He didn’t choose to get a girl pregnant he shouldn’t have to also deal with a crying baby at night.
@@soapiesoap5649 right! had I been a teen parent I'd be so happy with living in a caravan. May not be ideal but it'd be somewhere safe and it'd give me the change to save some serious money... 🤦🏾♀️
Everyone saying put them in the caravan but you have to be careful with a baby because they can die from poor temperature control - I know they got themselves in this mess but it's not the baby's fault and safety of an infant has to be a priority.
Those poor parents look stressed beyond belief. I feel for them.
Every single documentary I watch on teen pregnancy I the UK.. Every one of them says "We used a condom, But it split"..... honestly I think it's an excuse they use because they didn't use any contraceptives. What kind of condoms are they using!? I know how condoms are made and tested, it's pretty rare that they just "Split".
That sucks for the brother. He didn’t get someone knocked up yet he has to live with it 🤣
She is being selfish if he thinks the army is the best thing for his family then she should expect it I understand that she don’t want him to miss it but there are ways for him to see it when he comes home. Like record it or something I know it not the same but she needs to let him do what he thinks it’s right for his son she should be lucky that she has someone that wants to help her let alone her son father
She was saying about the cons of being in the army like what if he dies and their son grows up without a dad? Not only that it depends what type of army you are looking for because to join the army it's 16-17 with parental consent.
I pay taxes but child benefit has been taken away from me. These kids are making babies they are not able to support themselves as they are still young. I hope other young people can learn from this as life is about choices we make whilst we are young, they come to bite when we are older.
That baby 👶 is angelic😍😍
I’m calling bullshit on them sleeping in the brothers room when there in a caravan in the front garden! There is no way they aren’t utilising that
Thinking the same shit
So what, they need a house don't they?
I didn’t even notice that!
Cloth diapers would save them money
jen scaff and reusable wipes... and breastfeeding (although I know it’s not a possibility for all mothers, uptake rates in the UK are abysmally low).
Honestly, I don’t know how teen parents do it; I found being a first time mum hard enough at 26.
Ali V. I had my baby at 16, i didn’t have much trouble as I have money as I’m a wellbeing officer and her dad is a engineer, so we didn’t struggle, but i bet your s great mum!
Ridiculously expensive though, and if she's broke she might not be able to afford that money all at once. It'll be like a week or more worth of the money she gets.
I agree.
I used cloth diapers for my last son.
It's not that difficult, you make it part of your routine to do your washing.
That fish tank needs a water change and a clean
It seems to me that there are too many young girls pregnant in UK. Dont they teach contraception at school or talk to their parents?
The common denominator in most of these stories is an impoverished background with little/no education, and a pattern of underage childbirth going back 1-2 generations at least. It's normalised in these low class communities, they know no better and not much else is available to them, realistically.
It certainly isnt as common as this series shows. It was filmed over a decade ago too. But i have never met any kids who got pregnant so young.b
Some of these girls I DONT believe it was an "accident". They think having a baby with a boy will make them stay.. how wrong they are
Yes sex ed is taught in UK schools, including puberty at the end of primary school. I imagine we actually are one of the most comprehensive in the world in that area. Abortion is also legal until a liberal 24 weeks. Still didn't stop like 70% of the people from my year at school having a kid before they were 25.
Honestly, I don't know what the solution is. I think people are comforted when they grow up around other people who have kids young. It makes them think 'well if they can do it, so can I'.
They have a strong welfare system in the UK where people are financially incentivized to make bad decisions
I had my son at 16 I stayed with my parents till he was 5 when me and my sons dad got married. My husband didn't move into my parents house but her visited often and helped but went home to his own bed at night. These are children and I dint think it's a good idea to move out. She should have stayed with her parents and him with his sharing a room with his brother is so wrong. These people get congratulated for getting pregnant young claiming benefits and getting a council house. They haven't a clue about life.
Omg the baby is sooo cute!
All these couples on this channel definitely have the most adorableeeeeeeeee babies!!!!!
That 17year old guys looking so mature like 22-25year old.
Laughing at the end there about how he wants to take her out for a meal and then it shows them eating greasy junk food on a bench. Ah, to be young and think that's actually a meal!
At least they love their baby
They are struggling for money but the baby father has had his hair dyed.
Someone should be living in the caravan.
I had to stay with my parents and I lived in a caravan with my 3 year old son for 3 months.
IM RELATED TO THEM THATS MY AUNTIE AND UNCLE THEY BROKE UP WHEN LEO WAS ABT 10 BUT WE SPLIT CONTACT
Why isn't he going to school if he isn't working?
Back when this was filmed, students left school aged 16. They could either go to college or get a job. If his grades weren't high enough, he wouldn't get in to college and would be left with just the work option.
It's a little different now, students don't leave until 18 now. Still wouldn't have helped him provide for his child.
@@CraftyWitch1990 or he could of just not gotten a job or gone to college. Like he did.
He seems to have no idea how to apply for a job. Goes in looking like nothing on earth without a cv. Hasn’t anyone given him advice?
When I was first looking for a job I asked for help and didn't get any. I wasn't as nieve as him though. Depending on where you apply the company will have a form for you to fill out so no need for a CV
But when you don't know and your parents haven't worked a day in their life it might take a little while to figure things out. Still he's 'trying 😊'
I never understand why parents want to join the military. They're likely to be gone from their family for months or years at a time and can die if they're in war, plus many end up getting PTSD. I know you can make money that way, but there are other jobs that would at least pay minimum wage and you can work up from there.
I agree. It's all 'thank you for your service' , but what about the young children and wife/husband who could be left alone? I think it's awful
I think they think it is easy money....
The father of my twins is in the army and was when I gave birth however we live in a beautiful property can treat the girls to everything and were only 17, don’t be so negative
Because it really offers a lot of opportunities, especially to young people in economically depressed areas. Guaranteed steady income, housing, food allowance, medical benefits & vocational training or college credits/degree. Armies have always been run on the blood of the poor. The trade off being someone with only a high school diploma has an increased chance of making a career outside their tiny podunk town where there is little opportunity for advancement.
My dad was kind of opposite... he found out my mom was pregnant and after 9 years in the Air force, he left. My mom wanted him to stay in the force because he was making good money. She said that she would move in with her sister and they would just raise us and her kids together. It’s a common practice in her culture. But my dad couldn’t fathom not being in our lives. He’s been very active in our lives since. It was hard for them financially, because when he left, all they had for him was an empty apartment with a mattress on the floor. But he did his best to provide for us and as an adult, I appreciate every fiber of his being. I’m glad that he was there every moment of our childhood.
They should take Baby Leo on some auditions, he is just adorable & then the money would flow in
That would be classed as exploiting him
3:20 shoes off the bed mate.
I had to laugh,if someone said they were going to take me out for a meal I'd expect more than chip supper in the shopping centre
For everyone on here judging these young people, yes, they are young, but a baby is never EVER a mistake. There are accidents, but to call a child a mistake is dehumanizing and intolerable. Believe me, I was unwanted and called a mistake all through my childhood.
Both parents are there and trying. There is love, and that is what counts.
Amen
You mean you get a choice of what type of public housing is offer in England, hmmmm ... well;
We are applying for a two storey, four bedroom, with en-suite for the master bedroom with walk in wardrobe, built in wardrobes ... three way bathroom , separate toilets upstairs and down...separate lounge and dining rooms.... entertainment room....state of the art stainless steel kitchen with built in kitchen island - oh...don’t forget the white picket fence please ... and how long is the wait?
With that said, I do wish Jordan and Natasha all the best that life can offer. Focussing on their responsibilities as young parents and moving forward is a big plus...
You don’t get to choose (how many rooms yes but that’s only depending on how many people would be living there ) and they are far from luxurious but they do the job !
@@chloerose3521 gettin anything for free is a luxury but id rather earn and spend than be stuck at home wondering how to save money from 70 squid after spending it on nappies rather hit the drive thru in maccys and buy ten cheesburgers for me and my mates the chill life
Just as a point of reference, this video is in Scotland, not England.
@@crazygazz you dont get it for free, you still need to pay rent, rates, electric, gas, internet, phone, groceries, childcare, clothing and basic baby needs, believe me UC and child benefit only goes so far
I'm trying so hard to watch this but I can't understand more than half of what they say! 😭
Watching this I’m only 13 and I’m pregnant this has given me extra support I’m already 8 months and don’t show but this took a real weight of my shoulders
So now you 14 and u have a 7months old baby? No way
How's your baby now?
How is your baby now? I am in my mid twenties and had an older sister get pregnant at 17. Just remember, age doesn't define you as a parent. You do what you need to, to give your child the love and only you as the mother can. You have a lot of support from us here backing you up. Keep strong and don't let anyone tell you that they know better for your child. Only YOU as the parent knows what your child needs.
I was a young single mom. I don't understand why these moms who were my age at the time chose to bottle feed. It's expensive. Time consuming and labour intensive. I struggled but kept at it for 18 months. The alternative would have been way harder. Still....good effort on their part.
She may have no choice but to formula feed. Maybe she struggled to produce enough/any breast milk to feed the baby. What can be done in a situation like this?
Joining army is the only way of supporting his family ,his baby .
Their accent is crazy
Thats the borders for you!! Lol
@@lyndseyrobinson7491 I’m from the borders and sound nothing like them, so that’s an incorrect statement.
they have scottish accent for sure, but the way the talk is like someone who cant put a sentence together
From the narrative at the beginning of the video, there are far too many wishy-washy excuses as to how baby Leo came to be born. At least Jordan's family is being supportive by taking them in, and this includes Jordan, thankfully. How viable the relationship will be long-term, heaven only knows. It's not a good start for anyone! He seems a bit lacking in any common sense or ambition but appeared to be trying hard to make his construction course work for him.
Why do most of these people mumble?
Because thats how they talk in the uk i have family from ireland an thats how they sound they laugh at me when i visit saying i talk funny
They’re Scottish it’s their accent
@@lindasquibb5950 The UK is England Scotland whales and Northern Ireland. Saying that Ireland is a whole is in UK is so frustrating
They act like they are too lazy to actually talk
Both parents sound like they haven’t got an ounce of energy between them. I don’t know how they even managed to have a baby.
What I want to know is wtf happened to his hair
I refuse to believe that she found out when she was 7 months, she was massive
Some people are forgetting mixed up from being pregnant to being fat.
What's a counsel house ? Like how do they plan on paying rent with 70 a week ? It cost that to feed my 3 kids every two days ,
@Laney Yuh oh I thought she said she only gets 71 a week from benefits and he only gets 50 and has to attend classes in order to recieve but in my currency shes getting $120 and hes getting 85 so it's actually not that bad depending on the cost of stuff there 200 a week wouldnt feed my family or pay any Bills but whatever counsel housing is makes it sound like they dont have to pay much rent if they got in , but this is also from like 2005 so benefits would be much more these days I would assume. Dont know what Bill's they would have other then baby formula and diapers since they live with the mother so no rent or groceries to buy .but sorry coulda swore I heard them say she only gets 70 amd he only gets 50
@Laney Yuh it says she cant support the family with only 70 a week and that they have 3 left after buying the baby's stuff nothing about paying any bills and only have 70 left after ,says she gets benefits but struggling to support the family off of 70 a week right in the beginning and he said he didnt qualify for benefits but turned out he didnt go to his appointment and that's why he didnt get it ,then when he did it was 50 a week amd he had to go to class
@Laney Yuh I'm not going to fkn argue with you go watch the beginning amd not just read the title
From my understanding a counsel house is the UK version of section 8 housing in the US. So they would pay minimal rent to nothing depending on what they qualify for
@@ilovetotoro11they don’t have any bills, they live with his parents. She gets just enough to cover diapers, wipes, and formula.
Lots of teen JUST LEARN HOW!! Cuz if u do for them how will they learn!! Just be there to help them along the way. They will do ok. They seems like good kids!!ok ok they made a Mistake having a baby at a yg age but our grandparents got married at a yg age back in the 20, 30& 40 ies they all survived!! Lol
Outrageous .
why do they all have playboy merch
in late 2000’s - 2010’s playboy was popular. my auntie was like 15 and her room was fully playboy themed even though she didn’t own any magazines
My god, they talk like they have mouths full of marbles.
I can’t understand the girls mumbling
Hhehe I feel bad for the little brother but also fourteen and sharing a room with a girl is some guys dreams
Maybe the right authorities should do some research of how this works for the young lads? It is very obvious, seeing all the shows, that something is happening with the young boys when the make a girl pregnant.
Those 3 quarter cream boots r awful
Welcome to early 2000s Britain
She looks like panda from skins
Wowzersssssss
God bless her for choosing life.
That's an odd accent, can barely make out what they are saying...
It's Scottish
@@CraftyWitch1990 Plenty of other Scottish accents are clear and beautiful - e.g. Edinburgh, Perth accents. Check out Ewan McGregor, for example, he speaks very well. This, on the other hand, is a low class accent.
@@EC2019 no. It is a borders accent.
Way too young.
Don't you say, you're watching underage and pregnant. Did you expect, they will be 30? 😂
Living on welfare. Yes that’s a career.
These days it isn’t normal for a 13/14/15 year old to be playing dolls and barbies🤔no they want real babies that are all so cute when there born but what about when the kid is like 2/3/4 then see how happy there doing ✅ kids need to be kids and not be having sex you should be educated about sex not having it 💯
They never played with dolls and barbies past the age of 11 anyways. They are suppose to be more focused on school, having fun with friends, and doing whatever other stuff teenagers do. Still doesnt consist with having babies though but we really shouldnt judge them anyway. Most people have tried sex at a young age. Most of those people are just lucky enough not to get pregnant either.
I agree with Alexis. Teenagers have been finding ways to have sex behind their parents back for decades.
@@kaylarobbins9204 Thanks plus I'm 13 and pregnant and chose to keep my little girl Zora.
I just relied on condoms it did not work for me and I ended up getting pregnant but after Zora's born I am heading to the planned parenting and putting myself on the inplant.
@@alexisdixon1799 You had a baby at 13? Oh my gosh, you've ruined your life! Furthermore, you named your baby Zora, essentially ruining another life.
@@jaebird789 first of all I am 13 I am 14 in August.
Second of all I haven't ruined my life I think in my opinion that my daughter is gaining me a purpose in life.
Plus I'm not going to ruin my daughter's life I believe she's going to have a great life and the reason why I chose Zora as a name is because I liked it.
Also I am still pregnant 28 weeks and 5 days.
77.69 isnt much a week for him and and the baby
You cant talk logic and reason to the teenage brain - they know everything about everything, as we can see right here. Straight to the Dr with long term birth control measures until they can own the consequences of their choices….
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There so calm and mild ,I can see them lasting as long as evil and evildoers stay away from them ! Evil is everywhere these day , the bible tellers unsewhen you feel that upset feeling ,bad feelings , that means he’s around , the Lord Tells us to yell at the evil to go get out and stay away from them and their home , the Bible tells us to yell at the devil in the name of Jesus Christ my Lord and saviour , and with that he has to go , but he will come back again , then you yell at him to go agian in the name of your Lord Jesus , it worked , if you be lieve in your Lord of course your life will be easier ,but there are times you’ll need to yell the Devil away , I know this sounds funny , but it’s true ,and works of course because the Lord tells us , !
white people old fast, I can't believe this is 15years old.
Probably the type to drink alcohol and do drugs too which will age them.
Weird thing to say. Some people age quickly. I've met teenagers in many races who look like they are in their 30s.
This isn't so much a racial thing as a "living in a shithole in impoverished conditions multiple generations deep" thing.
Lots of teen JUST LEARN HOW!! Cuz if u do for them how will they learn!! Just be there to help them along the way. They will do ok. They seems like good kids!!ok ok they made a Mistake having a baby at a yg age but our grandparents got married at a yg age back in the 20, 30& 40 ies they all survived!! Lol
Lots of teen JUST LEARN HOW!! Cuz if u do for them how will they learn!! Just be there to help them along the way. They will do ok. They seems like good kids!!ok ok they made a Mistake having a baby at a yg age but our grandparents got married at a yg age back in the 20, 30& 40 ies they all survived!! Lol
Lots of teen JUST LEARN HOW!! Cuz if u do for them how will they learn!! Just be there to help them along the way. They will do ok. They seems like good kids!!ok ok they made a Mistake having a baby at a yg age but our grandparents got married at a yg age back in the 20, 30& 40 ies they all survived!! Lol