Hello! I want to buy one of your books Fareen, I’m wondering do you speak on earning money in a feminine way? Or can these be applied to working? (I am a chronic underearner and need to uplevel my business and move out of low income)
Let me tell you, there are men who self reject themselves cos they like you so much they expect you to reject them and they would rather not ask you out to avoid that even if they like you. I've had atleast 2 high value business men really get weak and afraid to take me on a date... The one said to me.. "What if I lean in to kiss you and you reject me? I wouldn't be able to handle it" and I just listened and let him be, I can't convince someone to be brave, but I'm just saying they can be seriously interested but find you too good or intimidating.
Exactly. I have experienced something along the lines of what you are describing as well. If you come across as good looking, happy and successful in your own right, men often put you in the "out of my league" category and it can take them years before the find the courage to speak up and they admit fearing rejection. The super confident men are usually less invested. They don't really know anything about you besides your looks so they just go for it. So it is really a lot more nuanced.
I like how him not wanting to get hurt by rejection is a "silly game" men have emotions to, & a good man doesn't want to overstep a womans boundaries who he feel has value. He was afraid to lose you, & embarrass himself in front of you. I can assure you he most definitely could have had the courage to do it, he just didn't know if you felt/wanted the same.
"What if I lean in to kiss you & you reject me, I wouldnt be able to handle it... I couldn't stand that feeling, because I want this moment to be perfect between us, & it might be childish of me asking, but I just need to know that you're okay with being close to me, because I don't want to put any unexpected pressure on you... we had the most wonderful date... & I just need to know if you're ready for me." Was probably how he was feeling deep inside. Lol
For some reason I get the feeling you're baited then into asking you out, then you get that ego boost all to yourself, while they get rejection. Haha 😂
The better explanation is if a man doesn't ask you out, it likely means he's not interested, not interested enough to want to see you or spend time with you, or perhaps he's interested but currently unavailable for some reason!
Schedule a 1/1 call with me if you need specific guidance… I worked with my ex as well. I have to say it’s not the best place to meet someone because it can get very complicated. Keep me posted!!!!!
P.S. A perspective I didn't learn or realize until much later in life. Growing up - I was the eldest child, only girl + an Aries - with four (4) younger brothers; so taking care of boys / men was second nature! Great in a family dynamic, but not so healthy as a woman in relationships with (some wounded) men! ❤️🩹
So you say if a guy likes you he's not going to waste time chit-chatting he's going to ask you out, but what if he's shy and he's trying to figure out if you're going to reject him or not so that's why he's spending a lot of time chit-chatting? Would'nt you be in your masculine to ask the guy who is shy out (he's noticeably a shy person around others as well)? How would you suggest dealing with the shy guy you like and sees all the signs he's crushing on you as well?
Well once you show a man you’re interested, he’ll take the next step. As long as you are warm, happy and have given him signals (I go into more in the book) he’ll take it from there 🤍
If he was actually interested in you, he would actually take the time to "chit chat" with you, because he would want to know more about you. I get the point of a date is to get to know the person more, but imo, I would want to know the person before hand to ask on a date. If you can find similar interests & genuinely show your interest in his life, the shy guy will be more open to conversing with you, & be patient with him.
It’s this economy. I give them 5-7 days and if not I wish them the best of luck and move on. Ans I realize I have a really hard time with long distance as well because its a gamble and they just wanna keep texting and you never know when they’re gonna be willing to meet you or if they’re even ready to progress the relationship
Do you have advice on going from reconnected friends to dating? We've started dating for about a month and it seems to be going well. We're very comfortable with each other and he's doing the good traits you've listed in this video and others. I'm just unsure how I should gauge the progression since we aren't going from strangers and the superficial getting to know each other phase.
I would need to know your specific situation. You can schedule a call or purchase an email question and send it in via email and I’ll send you my input 🤍 - you can find the links in the description
Hey Fareen, I found a cute guy on ig and liked some of his pictures. He liked mine and followed me and I followed back but hasn’t messaged me yet. Is it bad for me to initiate conversation?
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Don’t pursue him- he obviously saw you liking his pictures and following him back, if he was interested for real he would have messaged you first, cos that’s what a masculine man does. If he doesn’t -he wants to be pursued meaning he’s in the feminine energy - relax and let the chics come to me.
???? This is a real thing? Men just yipping on the phone with no purpose? I thought that was social media fiction. I might be too generation X ,but I'm very confused.😮
are like the sun ☀️ is shining May please ask you a question : How long did it take you to get where you are in the meaning of self confidence? 😁🙈 Or you were raised perfectly or there probably was a lot of inner work ? Thank you !
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Hello! I want to buy one of your books Fareen, I’m wondering do you speak on earning money in a feminine way? Or can these be applied to working? (I am a chronic underearner and need to uplevel my business and move out of low income)
Let me tell you, there are men who self reject themselves cos they like you so much they expect you to reject them and they would rather not ask you out to avoid that even if they like you. I've had atleast 2 high value business men really get weak and afraid to take me on a date... The one said to me.. "What if I lean in to kiss you and you reject me? I wouldn't be able to handle it" and I just listened and let him be, I can't convince someone to be brave, but I'm just saying they can be seriously interested but find you too good or intimidating.
I agree and some men work super hard for a living and pull away because they are just bone tired. Mature love requires empathy not these silly games.
Exactly. I have experienced something along the lines of what you are describing as well. If you come across as good looking, happy and successful in your own right, men often put you in the "out of my league" category and it can take them years before the find the courage to speak up and they admit fearing rejection. The super confident men are usually less invested. They don't really know anything about you besides your looks so they just go for it. So it is really a lot more nuanced.
I like how him not wanting to get hurt by rejection is a "silly game" men have emotions to, & a good man doesn't want to overstep a womans boundaries who he feel has value. He was afraid to lose you, & embarrass himself in front of you. I can assure you he most definitely could have had the courage to do it, he just didn't know if you felt/wanted the same.
They can be crippled with shyness, which means a lot of patience and encouragement from us !
"What if I lean in to kiss you & you reject me, I wouldnt be able to handle it... I couldn't stand that feeling, because I want this moment to be perfect between us, & it might be childish of me asking, but I just need to know that you're okay with being close to me, because I don't want to put any unexpected pressure on you... we had the most wonderful date... & I just need to know if you're ready for me." Was probably how he was feeling deep inside. Lol
Powerful statement (paraphrasing) - "Women in their masculine energy attract wounded feminine men!" 🤯
Guys ask me out all the time. Doesn’t mean they are interested. Just an ego boost if I say yes. Then I don’t hear from them again.
For some reason I get the feeling you're baited then into asking you out, then you get that ego boost all to yourself, while they get rejection. Haha 😂
That makes absolutely no sense. Maybe just admit your kind is trash. Let’s start there.
Don’t manipulate. Just let things evolve naturally
The better explanation is if a man doesn't ask you out, it likely means he's not interested, not interested enough to want to see you or spend time with you, or perhaps he's interested but currently unavailable for some reason!
The exceptions are men who can be crippled with shyness, which means a lot of patience and encouragement from us !
Why bother. What exactly will a man crippled with shyness do for the woman ? Absolutely nothing.
i like u bcs u r not fake fareen
I’m so happy that reflects through the camera!!!!
He likes me, but I only ever see him at his work. I want him to ask me out but I also understand him wanting to keep his job 😂
lol! Working together complicates the situation….
@@fareenashofficialI’m curious to see how he handles it 😊
Schedule a 1/1 call with me if you need specific guidance… I worked with my ex as well. I have to say it’s not the best place to meet someone because it can get very complicated. Keep me posted!!!!!
@@fareenashofficialdating a coworker, that would be an awesome topic for a video
Very easy to lose your power and reputation as a woman when you work with a man thats interested in you
P.S. A perspective I didn't learn or realize until much later in life. Growing up - I was the eldest child, only girl + an Aries - with four (4) younger brothers; so taking care of boys / men was second nature! Great in a family dynamic, but not so healthy as a woman in relationships with (some wounded) men! ❤️🩹
The best ❤ Everyone should jump on your inner work program!!!!!
Yup!!!! 🤍 you!!
You're absolutely right. Thank you Fareen. Your advice and perspective is so grounding 🙏🙏
Your very welcome Nancy 🤍🤍
So you say if a guy likes you he's not going to waste time chit-chatting he's going to ask you out, but what if he's shy and he's trying to figure out if you're going to reject him or not so that's why he's spending a lot of time chit-chatting? Would'nt you be in your masculine to ask the guy who is shy out (he's noticeably a shy person around others as well)? How would you suggest dealing with the shy guy you like and sees all the signs he's crushing on you as well?
Well once you show a man you’re interested, he’ll take the next step. As long as you are warm, happy and have given him signals (I go into more in the book) he’ll take it from there 🤍
If he was actually interested in you, he would actually take the time to "chit chat" with you, because he would want to know more about you. I get the point of a date is to get to know the person more, but imo, I would want to know the person before hand to ask on a date. If you can find similar interests & genuinely show your interest in his life, the shy guy will be more open to conversing with you, & be patient with him.
Really helpful! Thanks Fareen ❤ The books are super helpful too
Thanks Anita 😍😍😍
loveeee, thank you so much!! xoxoxo.
Yay!!! Your welcome 🤍🤍
Fareen.. I love this video.. so helpful.. thanks a lot ❤
Oh yay!!! Thank you for sharing :)
Yesss so simple! ❤✨
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It’s this economy. I give them 5-7 days and if not I wish them the best of luck and move on. Ans I realize I have a really hard time with long distance as well because its a gamble and they just wanna keep texting and you never know when they’re gonna be willing to meet you or if they’re even ready to progress the relationship
Do you have advice on going from reconnected friends to dating? We've started dating for about a month and it seems to be going well. We're very comfortable with each other and he's doing the good traits you've listed in this video and others. I'm just unsure how I should gauge the progression since we aren't going from strangers and the superficial getting to know each other phase.
I would need to know your specific situation. You can schedule a call or purchase an email question and send it in via email and I’ll send you my input 🤍 - you can find the links in the description
Yeah in person ill give it a week.
Hey Fareen, I found a cute guy on ig and liked some of his pictures. He liked mine and followed me and I followed back but hasn’t messaged me yet. Is it bad for me to initiate conversation?
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Don’t pursue him- he obviously saw you liking his pictures and following him back, if he was interested for real he would have messaged you first, cos that’s what a masculine man does. If he doesn’t -he wants to be pursued meaning he’s in the feminine energy - relax and let the chics come to me.
You're 100% right and I defo don't want someone in their feminine, even if they're cute lol. Thank you for the advice @@nastianastia9639
Hi Fareen. What do you think about men who will never call you but texts. Been 3 months of texting only.
Yuck!!! I say run away fast!
Thanks
@shiks456 “What Men Want” will be helpful ❤️
Did you try asking him if he would be down to call? & actually talk over the phone? Instead of wondering why he's just texting? Lol
He likes me, but he doesn’t want commitment? I don’t know what to do.
Yes you do. Move on.. you know what you want.
???? This is a real thing? Men just yipping on the phone with no purpose? I thought that was social media fiction. I might be too generation X ,but I'm very confused.😮
Tell us then since you are a man
It's a weak mans trait. And the young ones. Looking for attention/$ex... any man on social media unless it's for his money/business is low grade.
are like the sun ☀️ is shining
May please ask you a question :
How long did it take you to get where you are in the meaning of self confidence? 😁🙈
Or you were raised perfectly or there probably was a lot of inner work ?
Thank you !
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