Congrats! For those reading and thinking: "Wow, homebirths are crazy! Just because of how it's done, doesn't mean they're safe!" I want to emphasize that, specifically in the Netherlands homebirths are proven to be very safe. Midwifes are profesionally trained (specialised nurses, with a college degree), and very capable of assessing whether your pregnancy is safe enough for a home birth. The fact that it is very hard to live more than an hour away from a hospital (maybe even more than half an hour), helps with getting laboring people to the hospital quickly in case there are unforseen complications. You will also absolutely get more than 3 ultrasounds if they are needed and risks in pregnancy are taken very seriously. This video is great! But I wanted to emphasize that the culture around pregnancy is still very much science-based, while also being laid-back.
If hospitalisation can't happen in the required time, for whatever reason, there are various emergency helicopters on 24/7 stand-by, strategically based throughout the country.👴☺
There is an other reason for opting for home-birth. Hospitals aren’t really healty. There are a lot of virusses and bacteria floating around. Someone who has just given birth or babies are a bit more susceptable for catching an illness.
@@Arnaud58 Those can't come out at night. Also they can't land everywhere, especially not in urban areas. And I've yet to hear of them ever being called out for a birth.
@@emmajones8590 Absolutely they can! Our helicopter, the Airbus H135, is fully equipped and optimized for night operations, allowing our teams to land at the scene of an incident in the dark and effectively bring the hospital to the patient. Previously, we could only fly between hospitals from lit helicopter landing pad to lit helicopter landing pad. Air ambulances are legally allowed to fly at night. However, all pilots must first be trained in night flying before they are allowed to do so.👴🤨
@@Arnaud58 You say "bring the hospital to the patient" .... is that a mistake ? Because ambulances carry way more equipment than the heli's. Sp if anything is bringing the hospital to the patient it is 100% the ambulance. Also ambulances offer a way better "ride" to the hospital than heli's. The ONLY thing (to my knowledge) where the heli excels is to bring a specialized doctor (arts) to the scene in record time. That doctor is then qualified to do medical procedures at the spot of the incident that an ambulance crew with a medic (verpleegkundige) and driver are not allowed to. I would say more than 95% of "trauma heli" flights do not carry a patient back to hospital. Their aim is to bring a doctor to the scene who can "stabilize" the patient for transport by road in an ambulance. Area's that an ambulance cant not reach, like the Wadden Isles, would be an exception.
You can’t not have health insurance in the Netherlands. Even if you don’t have it, you still have it. The only difference is that the government chases you down and makes you pay the standard monthly premium, about € 130.
@@Rrrrrrricky56789 I'm curious what religions will not allow collectively sharing medical expenses? But about the exemption: you can replace the cost for insurance by an additional tax of the same amount. Seems to me, you can only have the insurance rebranded. Put another sticker over it to obfuscate what it is. You'll be paying your part in any case.
There are a few sides to being kicked out of the hospital rather quickly. One is the obvious one: A hospital bed is expensive, and you are a patient here, not a client. Another one: you are much less likely to attract all kinds of infections at home. A hospital is a place for sick people, so sicknesses are rampant. Another thing is that, you are more likely to be active at home. Which increases blood flow and speeds up recovery. Also movement promotes wound recovery.
In The Bahamas, we have an older relative that comes to help after the baby is born. So in most cases, families with a newborn usually have help as well.
Gefeliciteerd! Mooi hoe jij kan verwoorden en beschouwen wat je ervaring is en het delen met de kijkers. Echt knap! Veel succes samen met het ouderschap. Ik kijk uit naar de verhalen die nog komen.😊
Wrapping the baby is a few 100 dollars? Pfff. Im Dutch, gave birth to all my 3 girls at home, the 2nd was so quick, the midwife was too late, I gave birth in my bathtub with only my husband and he wrapped her in a cloth 😁
Congratulations to the three of you. When we had our daughter, we were both sent upstairs to get some sleep. Meanwhile the kraamverzorgster took care of our daughter. She also told us to set good boundaries related to how many visits you wanted. She told us: ‘You need take care of you and your baby. That takes already a lot of energy’. I enjoy your vlogs a lot, it gives me insight in how the American way of live and culture.
Haha. I do still love the 'consternatie bureau' joke. But to be honest I must say that I didn't feel there was any 'issue' with both my children. Granted, I had it easy with to healthy and problem free kids. But still the vibe I got was "Don't worry so much as a parent. It's all fine". That was basically the response on every question we had. "Sir, your children are growing fine (along their own scales) and they seem happy and responsive. Keep doing what you are doing." So, pretty calming and reassuring really.
@@33lex55 My point, though, is that this €385 plus change isn't even the biggest part of what we pay for health insurance. I'm not complaining. Just pointing it out.
You don't pay out of pocket cost for anything birth related. When you want to give birth in a hospital without medical reason, you pay somewhere between 400 and 600 euros depending on which hospital you go. When there is a medical reason for giving birth in a hospital, then you pay zero euros.
Omdat jij niet snapt dat een kind krijgen 35000 dollar kost in de usa .En als er iets.ziekenwagen 30 minuten Dan kost het je 10.000 dollar .En dsn ben je een zwerver .En happens vaak.
Hoezo?ze is aan het vergelijken en dan heb je het natuurlijk over de kosten. U doet wat veel hollanders doen, nl zichzelf en hun land kleineren.. Waarom? Helemaal niet nodig. Ons land is klein, maar erg groot tegelijk. Denk daar maar eens over na. Fijne dag nog
Gefeliciteerd! All the best in this wonderful and challenging stage of life. I was so impressed with the Dutch kraamzorg - I remember thinking “this woman is the most emotionally and practically intelligent person I’ve ever met. To integrate into a highly-emotional and sleep deprived household and solve problems all day is the most valuable asset in our whole society”.
This brings back memories... I love the Dutch system. It is totally down-to-earth and practical. And as you say, they treat a pregnancy as something good & natural, instead of a medical condition.
Congratulations to both mothers! And enjoy the 'kraamzorg'. We had given ours a key to our home so one morning after a particular difficult night she brought breakfast in bed to my wife and me after having taken care of the newborn. These people are a godsend, so enjoy it while you can.
Dutch guy here. My sister has 4 daughters. She opted for hospital delivery everytime. With 3 of them it was a single night at the hospital and then off to home. But with one, who was premature, they've spent a week in hospital before going home. About the costs. I'm following an American couple on TH-cam who just had their second baby. She spent two nights at the hospital and they've got charged just over 10k Dollars. I really got a WTF moment there. Healthcare is so much better here in the Netherlands.
I want to add that a 'kraamverzorgster' makes sure you can really enjoy that first week. She looks after you, pamper you and makes sure you take your rest
Your best video yet! First, we rejoice knowing you, wife, and baby are all doing well (been nervously awaiting news!). Second, your comparison between the two systems identifies ways the U.S. could improve. Your previous videos inspired me to take a 10-day bike trip around the country this summer and return home with a Nijntje doll. Dank je!
Kraam used to be an independent word indicating the post-birth period. We nowadays only use it as a prefix. Kraamzorg is one example, kraamvisite is another. It's visiting to meet the newborn.
@@Arnaud58 etymologie "Mogelijk heeft het Nederlands kraam ontleend aan het Duitse woord Kram, dat op zijn beurt verwant is met een Slavisch woord voor tent. Ook in het Nederlands betekende kraam oorspronkelijk tent. Op markten werd zo'n tent gebruikt ter bescherming (tegen neerslag) van de koopwaar van een markthandelaar." . Kraam = tent.
First of all, congratulations to both of you on the birth of your daughter. Such a first child in your family means a whole change in your life. But the nice thing is that you grow with your child. I am a grandfather of a beautiful grandson who is now 2 years old and who lives with his mother, our daughter, at our home. Father lives on his own and they no longer have a relationship. In short: I have ended up in the role of father and grandfather. A kind of reliving of when we had our daughters :-) It is tiring, but oh so grateful. Have fun and happiness with your daughter.
Van harte gefeliciteerd met de geboorte van jullie dochter! Ik wens jullie een hele fijne kraamtijd samen. Als Nederlandse ben ik heel blij met de systemen die we hier hebben en ben ik onze kraamverzorgster ontzettend dankbaar voor de goede zorgen in onze eerste week met onze dochter. Ik zou het niet anders willen hebben.
Congratulations to you and your wife🫶🏻31 years ago I got so many great tips from my maternity nurse, like were to put stuff in drawers, what to put nearby so I could use one hand to hold our daughter while changing her diaper. And she changed my bedlinen every day!🥰She also instructed the new father😉
Eva, congratulations to you and your partner for being a new Mum! Congratulations also with this video. It is a must see video and so wholesome. Enjoy this precious amazing time together with the little one.
Congratulations on your new family addition! ☺I gave birth to my first (also a daughter) a little over 6 months ago. I'm a Californian (who loves her green juice 😛) living in Amsterdam, but my intention was to delivery in a birthing center. To my knowledge those aren't a common option in the US either, but I thought it was a great compromise between hospital and home. Of course things rarely go to plan, and my labor was so fast I ended up with a very Dutch delivery (at home without painkillers) anyway 🤣 My kraamzorg experience was also eye-opening in the way the Dutch handle post-partum care, and I loved it! Looking forward to seeing more of your adventures with a new little one (when you are ready!)
Gefeliciteerd!! For you and .your partner! And for the newborn... we need to know her name.....Becoming a parent is one of the best things you experience in your life. Enjoy the moments, cause the grow up so fast. I can say that having 3 homeborn kids... and now being a grandfather of 8. 1 thing I missed in this video is that kraamzorg also assists during labour. Back when my kids were born kraamzorg was even 10 days. You emphysized very well in this video that having a baby here is not anything medical, but a natural thing. We say... het is een gezonde ziekte :)
Congratulations to you and your wife! We're also a 2 mums family, though our sons were born 34 and 30 years ago. My wife had 2 very complicated pregnancies, so we never saw a midwife. The first one I saw was with our daughter-in-law when she was pregnant with our granddaughter. But yes, the Dutch system is not perfect, but pretty wonderful anyway.
Congratulations from a Dutch father working now temporarily in The States (Tampa, Florida). The next chapter of the whole process gonna be the 'consultatie bureau' which my wife and I like to call ' het consternatie bureau' little Dutch word joke. Try to find out 😊. One tip when you go to that bureau: talk with your parents in law before instead of just copy-paste everything they tell you to do. The consternatie bureau😅 is set up in such a way that it can help and monitor the most brain-dead people. So, their advice is basically tuned for that part of the population. Good luck and much love for your baby
Haha. I do still love the 'consternatie bureau' joke. But to be honest I must say that I didn't feel there was any 'issue' with both my children. Granted, I had it easy with to healthy and problem free kids. But still the vibe I got was "Don't worry so much as a parent. It's all fine". That was basically the response on every question we had. "Sir, your children are growing fine (along their own scales) and they seem happy and responsive. Keep doing what you are doing." So, pretty calming and reassuring really.
congratulations to the three of you. It is such a joy to watch your video's because they make me (re)appreciate the blessings one takes for granted being Dutch.
congratuations with your baby girl. I am a kraamverzorgster, we learn the parents so much, for health reasons. But i stop now, because i can talk about it for hours. i wish you and your wife an baby girl a great start.
9:24 They test is you might have problems making a home birth dangerous and thus out of the question, and if something does go horribly wrong at home, a hospital is way closer then in the US.
Congratulations Ava and wife and your daughter. You are gonna be such great parents. Of that I'm sure. Wishing the 3 of you, so much the best of all 💖💖💖
Congratulations to you and your wife! Thank you for another great video! As a family physician in US, I am very impressed and I love the Dutch process for delivery, it absolutely makes sense. I wish things were like this here, another reason I am planning to move to NL.
Congratulations to the parents and the baby! Welcome to the world little one. Tip for the parents: do everything you would usually do, like vacuum, clean, walk around, listen to music, and so on. Do it at the times you would usually do too. The baby will get used to noise and sleep like a baby should. In the USA I see parents do the opposite and when the baby is asleep everything has to be quiet. Because the baby gets used to that, it wakes up from all sounds. I used to vacuum especially when the baby was asleep and even next to his bed and he slept through the night within a couple of months.
Congratulations for the both if you on the birth of your daughter! You radiate happiness and relief so I expect it al went well for yoy three. Enjoy a happy kraamtijd and a nice and cozy startup after that ❤
Congratulations to you and your partner with your new daughter. The beginning of a new adventure. May the future be bright for you and your family. Don't forget to look into the maternity boxes that are offered. They may help reduce some of the initial costs for you as new parents.
The cost for health insurance is around 130 E a month. It is also the biggest cost for the government around 100 Billion a year. So we actually pay a lot more if you would add up all the taxes that are needed to fund the system. However, paying tax is a lot better then getting hit with 10s of thousands of euros bills from the hospital. It spreads the risk around which makes it affordable for almost everyone.
Congratulations with your little girl. How nice for you and your wife that you have new life in your home and that it all went well. Thanks for your explanation of the differences on this between the US and the Netherlands. I like your openminded and positive approach in general.
Congratulations to you both and welcome to the world little daughter (I had two). may you all be healthy and happy. Cheers from the Pacific West Coast of Canada.
Congratulations with ypur newborn! I'm so glad your Dutch birthing experience was to your liking. I gave birth to my two children at home also and I've never regretted it. I've such nice memories of my home births!
Congratulations to you both! Becoming a parent is such a special event, don't forget to have fun together and to enjoy it! It is the cutest nursery room ever!
Gefeliciteerd met de geboorte van jullie dochterje! Het eerste half jaar voor een baby zorgen is best vermoeiend, maar het wordt alleen maar leuker en leuker! 🥰
Congratulations to you and your wife with your daughter! Enjoy all the time with her, our daughter is now 21 years old and her birth was like yesterday.
Congrats with the daughter, I'm so happy for you both. And so proud you did the homebirth. Not that it should be seen as an accomplishment, but there are so many forces working against what really is the most natural way. If it doesn't work out, that's OK, but if it does, like with our two, it's heaven, so relaxed. Looking forward to see more evangelizing home birth ❤ Meanwhile, enjoy the little brat, some nights you would hope they grow faster, but it's short and intensive joy, the "kraamtijd"
My congratulations on the birth of your Daughter to both you and your Wife, Ava.. Your story took me back to the birth of our child many years ago, that was intended to be at home, but ended up in a battle of over 14 hours in Hospital due to complications. But, man, after she was born... such bliss. Different from what you described, before birth, we were able to follow a practical course in basic baby-care (with dummy-babies), provided by the "Kruisvereniging".. Ofcourse we also had Kraamzorg which was absolutely great. But now for you and your Wife the long journey of parenting begins, which will get more complicated when your Daughter grows older. In many cases that parenting journey is also a journey into yourself.. for you will be confronted with yourself from time to time. "Teach your parents well Their children's hell will slowly go by And feed them on your dreams The one they pick's the one you'll know by" ( Teach your children - Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young)
I am youngest of three. My mom wanted me to get born at home but due to prenatal issues I was born at a hospital trough a caesarean section. An older brother was actually born at home. Congratulations to both of you with your daughter. 😻❤
Funny that I see your video, I remember well that my daughter was born (in 2000) in the house and there was an intern there and she came from New Zealand. That shows how our care is and that many can learn from it. And so every country has something that another country can learn from. and congratulations by the way
Congrats to you Ava and your lovely wife, you two will be amazing mothers :D I cannot wait for the first videos about how raising a little bundle of joy here, in the Netherlands, is different from the USA. So again, big congrats and enjoy every single second of it, even if will be draining at first, the rewards will be worth all of it.
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Congrats! For those reading and thinking: "Wow, homebirths are crazy! Just because of how it's done, doesn't mean they're safe!" I want to emphasize that, specifically in the Netherlands homebirths are proven to be very safe. Midwifes are profesionally trained (specialised nurses, with a college degree), and very capable of assessing whether your pregnancy is safe enough for a home birth. The fact that it is very hard to live more than an hour away from a hospital (maybe even more than half an hour), helps with getting laboring people to the hospital quickly in case there are unforseen complications.
You will also absolutely get more than 3 ultrasounds if they are needed and risks in pregnancy are taken very seriously. This video is great! But I wanted to emphasize that the culture around pregnancy is still very much science-based, while also being laid-back.
If hospitalisation can't happen in the required time, for whatever reason, there are various emergency helicopters on 24/7 stand-by, strategically based throughout the country.👴☺
There is an other reason for opting for home-birth. Hospitals aren’t really healty. There are a lot of virusses and bacteria floating around. Someone who has just given birth or babies are a bit more susceptable for catching an illness.
@@Arnaud58 Those can't come out at night. Also they can't land everywhere, especially not in urban areas. And I've yet to hear of them ever being called out for a birth.
@@emmajones8590 Absolutely they can! Our helicopter, the Airbus H135, is fully equipped and optimized for night operations, allowing our teams to land at the scene of an incident in the dark and effectively bring the hospital to the patient. Previously, we could only fly between hospitals from lit helicopter landing pad to lit helicopter landing pad.
Air ambulances are legally allowed to fly at night. However, all pilots must first be trained in night flying before they are allowed to do so.👴🤨
@@Arnaud58 You say "bring the hospital to the patient" .... is that a mistake ? Because ambulances carry way more equipment than the heli's. Sp if anything is bringing the hospital to the patient it is 100% the ambulance. Also ambulances offer a way better "ride" to the hospital than heli's. The ONLY thing (to my knowledge) where the heli excels is to bring a specialized doctor (arts) to the scene in record time. That doctor is then qualified to do medical procedures at the spot of the incident that an ambulance crew with a medic (verpleegkundige) and driver are not allowed to. I would say more than 95% of "trauma heli" flights do not carry a patient back to hospital. Their aim is to bring a doctor to the scene who can "stabilize" the patient for transport by road in an ambulance. Area's that an ambulance cant not reach, like the Wadden Isles, would be an exception.
congratuations to you and your wife.
Thank you ☺️
You can’t not have health insurance in the Netherlands. Even if you don’t have it, you still have it. The only difference is that the government chases you down and makes you pay the standard monthly premium, about € 130.
and a fine
Well, you can not have it for a short amount of time, but indeed after some warnings you're forcibly ensured.
You can get an exemption for religious reasons though
@@Rrrrrrricky56789 that is true, but then you pay in taxes what you should've paid for insurance, so you can be helped anyway...
@@Rrrrrrricky56789 I'm curious what religions will not allow collectively sharing medical expenses? But about the exemption: you can replace the cost for insurance by an additional tax of the same amount. Seems to me, you can only have the insurance rebranded. Put another sticker over it to obfuscate what it is. You'll be paying your part in any case.
Congratulations to you and your partner. May the future for your daughter be a bright one filled with love, friendship, family and fun.
Congrats with your daughter! And to your little one: welcome to this world!
Aww, thank you so much!
gefeliciteerd! wat fijn
There are a few sides to being kicked out of the hospital rather quickly. One is the obvious one: A hospital bed is expensive, and you are a patient here, not a client. Another one: you are much less likely to attract all kinds of infections at home. A hospital is a place for sick people, so sicknesses are rampant. Another thing is that, you are more likely to be active at home. Which increases blood flow and speeds up recovery. Also movement promotes wound recovery.
In The Bahamas, we have an older relative that comes to help after the baby is born. So in most cases, families with a newborn usually have help as well.
Gefeliciteerd! Mooi hoe jij kan verwoorden en beschouwen wat je ervaring is en het delen met de kijkers. Echt knap! Veel succes samen met het ouderschap. Ik kijk uit naar de verhalen die nog komen.😊
PS thank you for having Utrecht-born Nijntje (Miffi) around. That’s a nice both local and global commemoration of Dick Bruna.
Wrapping the baby is a few 100 dollars? Pfff. Im Dutch, gave birth to all my 3 girls at home, the 2nd was so quick, the midwife was too late, I gave birth in my bathtub with only my husband and he wrapped her in a cloth 😁
How much did he charge though?
@@RikSolstice He got the pick of the litter ;)
@@RikSolstice They have a third kid.
Van harte gefeliciteerd kersverse moeders ! En jullie kleintje van harte gefeliciteerd met haar nulde verjaardag!😉
Congratulations to the three of you. When we had our daughter, we were both sent upstairs to get some sleep. Meanwhile the kraamverzorgster took care of our daughter. She also told us to set good boundaries related to how many visits you wanted. She told us: ‘You need take care of you and your baby. That takes already a lot of energy’. I enjoy your vlogs a lot, it gives me insight in how the American way of live and culture.
Gefeliciteerd met de kleine, Verheug me nu al op de volgend video "het consultatiebureau"
Haha. I do still love the 'consternatie bureau' joke. But to be honest I must say that I didn't feel there was any 'issue' with both my children. Granted, I had it easy with to healthy and problem free kids. But still the vibe I got was "Don't worry so much as a parent. It's all fine". That was basically the response on every question we had. "Sir, your children are growing fine (along their own scales) and they seem happy and responsive. Keep doing what you are doing." So, pretty calming and reassuring really.
Remember that the €385 out of pocket costs is the total of all your medical costs throughout the year, not per procedure.
plus some small stuff that doesnt get (fully) covered.
Plus, of course, the monthly healthcare insurance charge that everyone needs to pay.
@@bobosims1848 True, but if your income is low, Taxes will give you an allowance that covers most of that.
@@33lex55 My point, though, is that this €385 plus change isn't even the biggest part of what we pay for health insurance. I'm not complaining. Just pointing it out.
You don't pay out of pocket cost for anything birth related. When you want to give birth in a hospital without medical reason, you pay somewhere between 400 and 600 euros depending on which hospital you go. When there is a medical reason for giving birth in a hospital, then you pay zero euros.
Proficiat met de kleine. Maarre. Je bent nieuwe ouder en het eerste waar je over praat zijn de kosten? Werkelijk. Je lijkt wel een Hollander. 😁
Omdat jij niet snapt dat een kind krijgen 35000 dollar kost in de usa .En als er iets.ziekenwagen 30 minuten
Dan kost het je 10.000 dollar .En dsn ben je een zwerver .En happens vaak.
Hoezo?ze is aan het vergelijken en dan heb je het natuurlijk over de kosten. U doet wat veel hollanders doen, nl zichzelf en hun land kleineren.. Waarom? Helemaal niet nodig. Ons land is klein, maar erg groot tegelijk. Denk daar maar eens over na. Fijne dag nog
@@hennymeijerink4173 Wel eens van satire gehoord? Denk aan je bloeddruk. Fijne dag nog.
@hennymeijerink4173
Wat zij doet is, laten we eerlijk zijn, bashing America.
@@passais klopt helemaal. Klagen is echt zo Ned.Wees zuinig .hh
Gefeliciteerd! All the best in this wonderful and challenging stage of life. I was so impressed with the Dutch kraamzorg - I remember thinking “this woman is the most emotionally and practically intelligent person I’ve ever met. To integrate into a highly-emotional and sleep deprived household and solve problems all day is the most valuable asset in our whole society”.
Gefeliciteerd met jullie baby en veel geluk en gezondheid gewenst!
Dankjewel!!
Very happy for the both of you. Enjoy this period in your life, you'll never forget.
This brings back memories...
I love the Dutch system. It is totally down-to-earth and practical. And as you say, they treat a pregnancy as something good & natural, instead of a medical condition.
Congratulations on the birth of your little baby girl 🤩🎉🍼🪅 much love, health and happiness for the three of you!!
Congratulations to both mothers! And enjoy the 'kraamzorg'.
We had given ours a key to our home so one morning after a particular difficult night she brought breakfast in bed to my wife and me after having taken care of the newborn.
These people are a godsend, so enjoy it while you can.
Dutch guy here. My sister has 4 daughters. She opted for hospital delivery everytime. With 3 of them it was a single night at the hospital and then off to home. But with one, who was premature, they've spent a week in hospital before going home.
About the costs. I'm following an American couple on TH-cam who just had their second baby. She spent two nights at the hospital and they've got charged just over 10k Dollars. I really got a WTF moment there. Healthcare is so much better here in the Netherlands.
Absolutely, but US hospitals bill insurance companies differently (yes, they are very greedy). The couple doesn't actually pay that much.
I want to add that a 'kraamverzorgster' makes sure you can really enjoy that first week. She looks after you, pamper you and makes sure you take your rest
Your best video yet! First, we rejoice knowing you, wife, and baby are all doing well (been nervously awaiting news!). Second, your comparison between the two systems identifies ways the U.S. could improve. Your previous videos inspired me to take a 10-day bike trip around the country this summer and return home with a Nijntje doll. Dank je!
Kraam used to be an independent word indicating the post-birth period. We nowadays only use it as a prefix. Kraamzorg is one example, kraamvisite is another. It's visiting to meet the newborn.
Kraamtijd, kraambed, kraamvrouw...😊
Kraam is (van oorsprong) synonym voor bevalling (denk aan miskraam).👴🧐
Oja... die heb je ook nog.
@@marieke3032 marktkraam! 😀
@@Arnaud58 etymologie "Mogelijk heeft het Nederlands kraam ontleend aan het Duitse woord Kram, dat op zijn beurt verwant is met een Slavisch woord voor tent. Ook in het Nederlands betekende kraam oorspronkelijk tent. Op markten werd zo'n tent gebruikt ter bescherming (tegen neerslag) van de koopwaar van een markthandelaar." . Kraam = tent.
First of all, congratulations to both of you on the birth of your daughter. Such a first child in your family means a whole change in your life. But the nice thing is that you grow with your child.
I am a grandfather of a beautiful grandson who is now 2 years old and who lives with his mother, our daughter, at our home. Father lives on his own and they no longer have a relationship. In short: I have ended up in the role of father and grandfather. A kind of reliving of when we had our daughters :-) It is tiring, but oh so grateful.
Have fun and happiness with your daughter.
Wonderful news. Congratulations with your daughter! Enjoy every moment.
Beide moeders van harte gefeliciteerd met jullie dochter. Dat ze een lang, gelukkig en gezond en voorspoedig leven mag hebben.
Wow, CONGRATS Eva, happy for you!! All the best and good heath to the new citizen!
Thank you!
Van harte gefeliciteerd met de geboorte van jullie dochter!
Ik wens jullie een hele fijne kraamtijd samen.
Als Nederlandse ben ik heel blij met de systemen die we hier hebben en ben ik onze kraamverzorgster ontzettend dankbaar voor de goede zorgen in onze eerste week met onze dochter. Ik zou het niet anders willen hebben.
Congratulations to you and your wife🫶🏻31 years ago I got so many great tips from my maternity nurse, like were to put stuff in drawers, what to put nearby so I could use one hand to hold our daughter while changing her diaper. And she changed my bedlinen every day!🥰She also instructed the new father😉
Eva, congratulations to you and your partner for being a new Mum! Congratulations also with this video. It is a must see video and so wholesome. Enjoy this precious amazing time together with the little one.
Congratulations! What a beatiful event. I wish your girl and her mommies a happy life ❤
Congratulations on your new family addition! ☺I gave birth to my first (also a daughter) a little over 6 months ago. I'm a Californian (who loves her green juice 😛) living in Amsterdam, but my intention was to delivery in a birthing center. To my knowledge those aren't a common option in the US either, but I thought it was a great compromise between hospital and home. Of course things rarely go to plan, and my labor was so fast I ended up with a very Dutch delivery (at home without painkillers) anyway 🤣 My kraamzorg experience was also eye-opening in the way the Dutch handle post-partum care, and I loved it! Looking forward to seeing more of your adventures with a new little one (when you are ready!)
Gefeliciteerd!! For you and .your partner! And for the newborn... we need to know her name.....Becoming a parent is one of the best things you experience in your life. Enjoy the moments, cause the grow up so fast. I can say that having 3 homeborn kids... and now being a grandfather of 8. 1 thing I missed in this video is that kraamzorg also assists during labour. Back when my kids were born kraamzorg was even 10 days. You emphysized very well in this video that having a baby here is not anything medical, but a natural thing. We say... het is een gezonde ziekte :)
Congratulations to you and your wife! We're also a 2 mums family, though our sons were born 34 and 30 years ago. My wife had 2 very complicated pregnancies, so we never saw a midwife. The first one I saw was with our daughter-in-law when she was pregnant with our granddaughter. But yes, the Dutch system is not perfect, but pretty wonderful anyway.
Bright blessings!! Thanks for the great video and this wonderful update 🎉❤🎉❤
Congratulations from a Dutch father working now temporarily in The States (Tampa, Florida). The next chapter of the whole process gonna be the 'consultatie bureau' which my wife and I like to call ' het consternatie bureau' little Dutch word joke. Try to find out 😊. One tip when you go to that bureau: talk with your parents in law before instead of just copy-paste everything they tell you to do. The consternatie bureau😅 is set up in such a way that it can help and monitor the most brain-dead people. So, their advice is basically tuned for that part of the population.
Good luck and much love for your baby
Haha. I do still love the 'consternatie bureau' joke. But to be honest I must say that I didn't feel there was any 'issue' with both my children. Granted, I had it easy with to healthy and problem free kids. But still the vibe I got was "Don't worry so much as a parent. It's all fine". That was basically the response on every question we had. "Sir, your children are growing fine (along their own scales) and they seem happy and responsive. Keep doing what you are doing." So, pretty calming and reassuring really.
congratulations to the three of you. It is such a joy to watch your video's because they make me (re)appreciate the blessings one takes for granted being Dutch.
Aww thank you!! ☺️
congratuations with your baby girl. I am a kraamverzorgster, we learn the parents so much, for health reasons. But i stop now, because i can talk about it for hours. i wish you and your wife an baby girl a great start.
Hartelijk gefeliciteerd met de geboorte van jullie kindje! 🥳 Heel veel liefde, geluk en plezier samen gewenst. 💜
Dochtertje meid, van harte gefeliciteerd met jouw twee fantastische liefhebbende ouders! ❤❤❤
Fantastic! A wonderful new life in The Netherlands! Lots of luck to the both of you. Geniet van jullie kleine!
Gefeliciteerd! Ik wens jullie dochter welkom op de wereld, en ik wens jullie alle drie veel geluk samen.
9:24 They test is you might have problems making a home birth dangerous and thus out of the question, and if something does go horribly wrong at home, a hospital is way closer then in the US.
Congratulations! A new Dutchie in the world with two loving parents.
I am so happy for the two (three?) of you!
Congratulations Ava and wife and your daughter.
You are gonna be such great parents. Of that I'm sure.
Wishing the 3 of you, so much the best of all 💖💖💖
Congratulations on the birth of your little girl! It's nice to hear that the care around it has been a good experience for you 😁
Congratulations! And enjoy the baby! Those first few years are just wonderful and I hope you both/three can enjoy these moments to the full.
Gefeliciteerd met jullie kleintje!! Veel gezondheid, geluk en liefde gewenst❤
Congratulations to you and your wife! Thank you for another great video! As a family physician in US, I am very impressed and I love the Dutch process for delivery, it absolutely makes sense. I wish things were like this here, another reason I am planning to move to NL.
Thank you! And how exciting that you're thinking of moving!
@@DutchAmericano I honestly can’t wait!
Congratulations on the little girl. I hope all three of you are doing well. Enjoy your baby, take care and take it easy!
Congratulations to the parents and the baby! Welcome to the world little one. Tip for the parents: do everything you would usually do, like vacuum, clean, walk around, listen to music, and so on. Do it at the times you would usually do too. The baby will get used to noise and sleep like a baby should.
In the USA I see parents do the opposite and when the baby is asleep everything has to be quiet. Because the baby gets used to that, it wakes up from all sounds.
I used to vacuum especially when the baby was asleep and even next to his bed and he slept through the night within a couple of months.
Congratulations for the both if you on the birth of your daughter! You radiate happiness and relief so I expect it al went well for yoy three. Enjoy a happy kraamtijd and a nice and cozy startup after that ❤
Congratulations with your daughter. Wishing the 3 of you good health and a wonderful long life 💖
Congratulations to you and your partner with your new daughter. The beginning of a new adventure. May the future be bright for you and your family. Don't forget to look into the maternity boxes that are offered. They may help reduce some of the initial costs for you as new parents.
The cost for health insurance is around 130 E a month. It is also the biggest cost for the government around 100 Billion a year. So we actually pay a lot more if you would add up all the taxes that are needed to fund the system. However, paying tax is a lot better then getting hit with 10s of thousands of euros bills from the hospital. It spreads the risk around which makes it affordable for almost everyone.
Congratulation!
I also had a daughter 2 months ago, her health notebook has Miffy on it .... we are in Japan 😂
I was surprised to see how much Nijntje stuff there is in Japan! Almost bought a t-shirt with her on it just because I could 😅
@@Nynke_K I went to the clinic today, the doctor has 2 stuff animals, one of them was Miffy! 🥳
Congratz to the both of you! Veel plezier , geluk en gezondheid ❤
Gefeliciteerd met jullie kleine dame! Congratz on the new edition to your family! ❤
Hello new baby, welcome to the world : ) and GEFELICITEERD!!
Van harte gefeliciteerd! Zo leuk om te horen hoe jij dit hebt ervaren. Veel geluk samen 🫶🏻
Gefeliciteerd met uw dochter. Ik hoop dat alles goed is gegaan bij de bevalling. Veel geluk met de kleine❤
Congratulations with your little girl. How nice for you and your wife that you have new life in your home and that it all went well. Thanks for your explanation of the differences on this between the US and the Netherlands. I like your openminded and positive approach in general.
Gefeliciteerd, jullie allebei. Fantastisch dat het allemaal goed is gegaan ❤
Congratulations to you both and welcome to the world little daughter (I had two). may you all be healthy and happy. Cheers from the Pacific West Coast of Canada.
Congratulations with ypur newborn! I'm so glad your Dutch birthing experience was to your liking. I gave birth to my two children at home also and I've never regretted it. I've such nice memories of my home births!
Congratulations, I wish for you, your partner and child a lot of love and happiness.
Gefeliciteerd mama & mama! Alle geluk, gezondheid en liefde voor jullie alledrie! ❤🤍💙
Congratulations on your daughter. Glad you had such a good experience here in the Netherlands
Gefeliciteerd met de geboorte van jullie dochtertje.
Eva van harte gefeliciteerd met de kleine meid , en voor jouw vrouw natuurlijk ook , en dat zij in goede gezondheid op mag groeien .🥰
Congratulations to you both! Becoming a parent is such a special event, don't forget to have fun together and to enjoy it! It is the cutest nursery room ever!
Gefeliciteerd met de geboorte van jullie dochterje! Het eerste half jaar voor een baby zorgen is best vermoeiend, maar het wordt alleen maar leuker en leuker! 🥰
Congratz to you and your wife with the birth of your baby-girl.
Congratulations.
Hope you all three are doing well
Glad to hear you had such a positive experience.
Enjoy being parents
Congratulations to you and your wife with your daughter! Enjoy all the time with her, our daughter is now 21 years old and her birth was like yesterday.
Congrats with the daughter, I'm so happy for you both. And so proud you did the homebirth. Not that it should be seen as an accomplishment, but there are so many forces working against what really is the most natural way. If it doesn't work out, that's OK, but if it does, like with our two, it's heaven, so relaxed. Looking forward to see more evangelizing home birth ❤ Meanwhile, enjoy the little brat, some nights you would hope they grow faster, but it's short and intensive joy, the "kraamtijd"
Gefeliciteerd en heel, heel veel plezier en liefde met de kleine!
and don’t forget the deductible is a maximum yearly amount, so you won’t be paying that anymore for the rest of the year
Gefeliciteerd met de geboorte van jullie dochter 👶🏼🍼🍼👶🏼
Gefeliciteerd! en Heel veel geluk en gezondheid voor de kleine
Gefeliciteerd met de geboorte van jullie dochter!
Van harte gefeliciteerd met de geboorte van jullie dochter ❣️
Van harte gefeliciteerd met de geboorte van jullie dochter🎉
My congratulations on the birth of your Daughter to both you and your Wife, Ava.. Your story took me back to the birth of our child many years ago, that was intended to be at home, but ended up in a battle of over 14 hours in Hospital due to complications. But, man, after she was born... such bliss. Different from what you described, before birth, we were able to follow a practical course in basic baby-care (with dummy-babies), provided by the "Kruisvereniging".. Ofcourse we also had Kraamzorg which was absolutely great.
But now for you and your Wife the long journey of parenting begins, which will get more complicated when your Daughter grows older. In many cases that parenting journey is also a journey into yourself.. for you will be confronted with yourself from time to time.
"Teach your parents well
Their children's hell will slowly go by
And feed them on your dreams
The one they pick's the one you'll know by" ( Teach your children - Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young)
First things first: congratulations!
Welcome to this planet, little earthling!
Btw, it is like this in most of europe.
Not really, the role of the midwife and home births is not very common outside the Netherlands
@@eliseakerboom Um, midwifes are pretty common in Germany, too. Homebirths - well that's a personal decission, not many seem to go for here.
@@peter_meyer In the Netherlands you will always a midwife unless you have medical problems. And homebirths are very common as well.
Congratulations with the birth of your daughter. I love the the cradle or crib. It looks like the one I had . Very nice nursery as well.
Gefeliciteerd met de geboorte van jullie kleine meisje. Veel geluk met jullie gezinnetje
I'm sure the new lady will join a beautiful and inspiring environment. May she grow up as happy and cheerful as you two 🥰
Awww, thank you!
Hi Ava, congratulations to you both. Hartelijk gefeliciteerd met jullie dochter.
I am youngest of three. My mom wanted me to get born at home but due to prenatal issues I was born at a hospital trough a caesarean section. An older brother was actually born at home. Congratulations to both of you with your daughter. 😻❤
Van harte gefeliciteerd met jullie dochter.
Gefeliciteerd met de baby! Wat een leuk filmpje ook weer.
Congratulations! Gefeliciteerd! Mazel tov!
Funny that I see your video, I remember well that my daughter was born (in 2000) in the house and there was an intern there and she came from New Zealand. That shows how our care is and that many can learn from it. And so every country has something that another country can learn from. and congratulations by the way
Gratz to the both of you! and yes that Nijntje light rocks!
Congratulations to you and your wife, Ava! And welcome to your Hollarican baby girl!!! 💖💕🍀
Congratulations, mommy! Gefeliciteerd, mamma!
Congrats to you Ava and your lovely wife, you two will be amazing mothers :D
I cannot wait for the first videos about how raising a little bundle of joy here, in the Netherlands, is different from the USA.
So again, big congrats and enjoy every single second of it, even if will be draining at first, the rewards will be worth all of it.