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You mentioned not having a leg and I started crying. I've been bullied or misunderstood for it. I don't have friends who aren't toxic and I can't find anyone. This helped me out. Thank you so much.
I don't get why so many people look at aging so negatively. Getting old is beautiful! There are people that die way too young. We gotta be more grateful.
What an excellent video Penny. You’re such a smart gal. You have wisdom! And you share it with your viewers, which is so appreciated. Thank you for being so raw and real and funny!
To anyone out there thinking they are to old- Im turning 30 in a week and I still dont have life 100% figured out. Im In the middle of switching careers and following my passions. So keep your head up and just follow your heart. When it comes to self deprecation, When you find your self thinking negatively about yourself, replace your name with your best friends name in that thought. Do you feel the same? Would you say that about your best friend? Probably not. So show yourself the same respect you show those people you love.
JeniferGamelli yess girl we are all just slowly growing and making it through life and its challenges! But you are truly kind to post this for other people to read cause I needed to know that😇
This honestly couldn’t have come at a better time. I’m only just realizing how little I value and respect myself. I feel like a lot of my friends don’t care about me and to be frank, I’m sure they’d ditch me for a grape. I’m not very skinny, I don’t fit in my small parish, I don’t wear brands, I’m as far from vain or ostentatious as can be, so I guess in their eyes I’m less than them. I guess my opinion of myself is greatly influenced by the way those that surround me treat me. But you know what? When I watched your video, it all clicked: I’m over it, those putas are shallow and they ain’t shit and I’m done feeling like a damn tissue. Peniel, this auspicious video helped me realize that I deserve to be loved and respected, not only by others, but most importantly, by myself. I can’t tell you how much this means to me, I’m in tears.
Wow. yesterday i cried and had a panic attack because i recorded my self in class. when i went back home and watched it i thought i looked so fat and i couldnt hear myself talking because i hated my voice and i literally laid in the ground crying because i called myself so many ugly words and today watching this video makes me feel so much better and just thank you so much i love you.
"Jealousy is counting someone else's blessings instead of your own". Love this quote & really relates to your video. Reminds me to count my own good qualities/features and not just focus on other people. Best thing I ever did was to delete all social media accounts (apart from YT of course) because it's all just a bunch of fake depressing BS. I've never been happier! :)
I told my friend I was crying because I wanna be so pretty like the girls I see at my school and he sent me this. Thank you so much, I feel so much better now❤️
Dear funny, pretty Penny, your words put me in mind of an ancient native American nugget of wisdom, which places each of us at the centre of the universe, rather than being inconsequential to it, and only a tiny spec - which is often how we can all feel. I looked it up, because I think it's relevant today, and to all of us sitting here watching, feeling whatever we're feeling about ourselves: “The first piece, which is the most important, is that which comes within the souls of people when they realise their relationship, their oneness with the Universe and all its powers and when they realise that at the centre of the Universe dwells the Great Spirit and that this centre is really everywhere, it is within each of us.” - Black Elk, Oglala Sioux
This was so helpful, i am a 14 girl in 9th girl right now and this is so inspirational. So thank you Curly Penny,you inspire me and i love you so much❤
same ♡ her beauty could not be compared to other girls, she's irreplaceable herself. for me she's a zillion more blessed, beautiful. and lucky than i will ever be, and i pray she wouldn't change. i pray she wouldn't be like the other girls.
you started massaging your scalp, I started massaging my scalp. you started braiding your hair, I started braiding my hair. yikes! loved this video and wish it was longer.
Found this based on the title. Grown ass woman looking up "I wish I was pretty" on TH-cam at 2:00 in the morning. Thank you so much for being you. I've seen your videos before this, absolutely subscribed.
1:04 I'm 15 and I'm seriously at that point right now. I don't even have friends in my high school cause I think everyone hates me. It's stupid I know, but sometimes when you tell yourself so many negative things you start to believe them and then its hard being positive about yourself again... aahhh this video is really inspirational tho.
I’m in my 30s and while I don’t “look my age” I don’t cry and commiserate about being older. In fact I love GROWING OLD. Being older has given me more blessings. Being young I found it to be hard. I spent my 20s learning super hard lessons and having Low self esteem.
There's an Arabic saying :"Contentment is an eternal treasure" .. if you learn to accept yourself and love yourself .. you're good to go all those around won't matter anymore .. i take the good from them and leave the bad .. like if i see someone successful i'll wish them all the best and i do wanna learn how to be as successful for me but seeing a super model and trying to be like her ?? why would i do that beauty is subjective and it could fade in an instant but being genuinely good and aspiring to be the best for myself that is what our focus should be on Plus if you start loving yourself people will follow ;)
When you started saying that we're worth it and everything I almost started crying because I needed to hear that. Right now I'm battling with depression and an ED but thanks to you I'm getting my confidence back. Thank you so much for being so real and sharing who you remember are.
I love this series! I can't believe youtube would demonetize it. It's not like you were cursing or naked... these types of videos could be the difference between someone wanting to hurt themselves and finally feeling like they are enough. I may not be one of those people but I enjoy hearing what you have to say. You are so positive and can bring up anyone who may feel down. Thank you for the videos!
CurlyPenny We definitely appreciate it! 😁 It's honestly not all about the money, you are right about that. That's how you know you do it for your subscribers. Thank you! ❤
Thank you Penny, your videos always make my day better. I had a similar revelation with the whole makeup thing. From age 12-15 I didn't want to go anywhere without a full face of makeup because I thought I was nothing without it after a boy told me "You know you're really not that pretty" when I showed up to school with no makeup one day in seventh grade. Then one day in tenth grade I had my hair in a ponytail and thought I looked ugly so I needed to put more makeup on to compensate. It helped me realise how my obsession with my looks and how others may perceive me was tearing me down and affecting everything I did. Next day I came to school with no makeup and didn't show up to school with it on after that. Now I'm eighteen, don't wear makeup and walk around in tee shirts and I don't pay any mind to what people might think about me. Everyone can deal with my acne and scars and freckles, if they see flaws then that just shows how poorly they feel about themselves, not my problem.
You are so wise for your age, most females don't get to this point until they are in their mid-twenties or older. It's such an amazing feeling when you get there though, and know what you want and who you are and know your worth. Thank you for sharing this, so many need to hear this. ❤💪🙏
I am 20 now and I think I'm in the same spot as you, completely happy with who I am. Yes, I change the things that needs changing but not looks or body. It's the mindset I want to have in this life and my compassion for others that grow. Thnx penny for your wise words. 😘😘😘
I don't care either and I'm 13 😅. I always thought there was something wrong with me for loving everything about me since people think bullying me could ever bring me down, but it makes them just more upset when they get no reaction from me because it doesn't matter whether people like the way I look because I'm not dressing and doing what I do for people who won't like me. Who ever does like me just will and I shouldn't have to prove it to people who are only bullying me because they wish they could feel the same about themselves.
I love your message. I wish every young, or old person for that matter, would watch this and realize their worth. This coming from a 60 yr. old woman who started watching your videos for advice on how to take care of her curly hair. Keep up the good work!
That is so crazy. I felt the same way about myself at 14. N still do sometimes. My goal is to not have to wear foundation anymore n I’m making those baby steps day by day!!
This is a fantastic series, keep going boo, and you are far from old and far from ugly in any sense of the imagination, your beauty is most definitely from the inside out, so fucking nice to see a young lady being herself and just being a real human being instead of miss plastic doll, love your comment about how we are all just a speck in the universe, that whole thing was great, you must make so many people smile and laugh, well you do me boo, you do you boo! I think you are fucking awesome!
The first time I heard you say you live in US, I couldn't believe it!! Like HOW?! How a girl like you lives in that culture,is beyond me...But I love you and all you stand for!:)))I'm sooooooo grateful for this video...really... most of the time I do exactly what you said "don't consume garbage" I don't watch VS shows etc but yesterday I was watching TROY for the first time and seeing all those skinny and pretty actresses with their nudity, and the topic of that movie(the Trojan war started for a beatiful woman)gave me all the bad feeling a girl could get about herself...So please do continue #deep
I was crying almost every night because my skin, especially my eczema, are acting up so bad but now that i watched your video im feeling sooo much better. Thank you 🌼🌹😄
I am a 38 year old woman who is learning to re-embrace her curls after about 15 years of flat irons.. I came across your channel and have learned a lot. But, this video!!!! If only most 22 year old girls had the mindset that you have. This was so beautiful and so true. You are such a beautiful woman, inside and out. You remind me of myself when I was younger. I am darker skin/hair/hairy. I felt so different. I didn't embrace my different looks until I was 19ish. I realized that I didn't have to look like "them" to be beautiful. I only hope my daughter grows up to have your strong and wonderful state of mind.
I love this so much! It took me SUCH a long time to embrace my appearance. In middle school and high school, I covered my freckles with foundation and straightened my curly hair every day (i also BEGGED my mom to let me dye my red hair a different color.) it makes me so sad when i think about how ugly i thought i was. Iearning how to embrace those natural features made me realize that they actually made me unique (lol sounds cheesy). now i even see people on Instagram/youtube painting on fake freckles with makeup, and it made me realize how truly arbitrary beauty standards are haha
I’ve watched several of your videos. This one convinced me to subscribe. You have great wisdom for one so young. You’re beautiful, funny, creative, intelligent, and have awesome curly hair. I like the accent too. It has taken me decades to accept myself for what I am - not what I could be, what I “should” be, wish I was, whatever. I’m 57 years old and wasted years not liking this or that about me. I encourage all of your young subscribers to allow themselves to not give a €%@& about those who look down on them. You are perfect the way you are at this very moment - even with the struggles. Never stop growing. Grow by learning. Use mistakes to learn. And always be brutally honest with yourself. Only then can you see what truly needs extra attention. Finally, I’m learning a great deal from you about caring for my own curly hair. Dang! I admit I have some hair envy, but I *will* find my own awesome hair. 🙂
I came over from BiancaReneeToday. I’m a curly haired 70 year old; old people are online watching young, middle age & other old people. It’s nice to hear your perspectives. You’re a wonderful role model.
Penny, The rant starting at 3:57 with "You are worth it..." spoke to me so deeply. "If anyone says otherwise, cut them out of your damn life." My inner voice is the one saying otherwise. Why the hell should I not cut that voice out? "They are poisonous, they are toxic; and they don't love you for you." I've heard that same sort of reasoning before, but it's never made as much sense as it does now. Thank you for saying this in the way that you did. I don't know how you have managed to be only 24 and already be so aware and confident and be able to express it and inspire it in others. I came for your curly hair knowledge; I'm staying for who you are. :)
Thank you for this. It made me tear up a bit!! I really needed to hear this after last week, and I'm so glad I did ❤ I do love this #DEEP series!! You should definitely continue it, girl!!
This seriously helped me ! Today I just felt bad over some guy who didn’t care about me and lied and weren’t anything I knew that but then I realized there’s no point in investing time on a little “mind” game. I cried some , didn’t eat until 2 pm and then after eating I watched your video and I realized I got to respect myself again, I lost myself for a moment but I’m back. I’m happy and I’m beautiful. Sometimes it gets hard to not compare yourself to other people but then I realized that I am me and it’s good that I’m different and I have my own path. I do want to change for the better, been trying to lose weight by making food at home to save money and eat healthier. As well as going back to the gym and it feels good :)
Yeah I hated my hair..... I’m still struggling to learn to love my hair. I never liked curly only on me because I didn’t know how to style it out deal with it. But I been watching TH-cam videos on how to treat and care for it and for once I actually am starting to like my hair 😛
SimplyCindy I used to hate my hair too. My mom has straight hair and would try to brush it and I always hated it, but it was because she didn't know how to take care of it. I straightened it for like 2 years in middle school because of peer pressure, but when I got to high school I didn't want to be like those girls so I cut it off and started to wear it curly. Now I love my curls (on most days) and feel like it better shows who I am
You really are a gem among youtubers. Penny's videos are my go-to when I'm feeling down or can't sleep 'cause I'm anxious. Whatever the subject, you're filling my happiness bank. Thanks for being out there 💝
I really needed this. I’ve always been super insecure growing up & this made me realize I need to love myself the way I am no matter what and it made me feel so much better about myself. thank you so much for this video!💛 I immediately subscribed to you(:
Wow!! I really admire what you do. The fact of teaching how to love ourselves in invaluable Penny. I'm 19 years old and all my life I've been rejected from my older sister, I've got comments like you're ugly, nobody loves you, you'll always be alone and that really affected me a lot and knowing there is someone like u encouraging us is so beautiful. I LOVE WHAT U DO. KEEP ON DOING IT.
I have Gad low self astern since I was 12. My acne was really bad. I gained weight and was one of the first people in my grade to get. Every time it starts to get better I get my hopes up and it comes back. I know that it matters what is on the inside but sometimes I can’t help but but be shallow and wish I was pretty on the outside. I’m 18 and it’s hard to walk into school everyday with acne. No one says anything. It’s nice to hear from you that you went through something similar.
With all the superficiality being pumped out everyday it's really inspiring to see a young lady who is pumping out deep truth and values. You are officially the only "beauty channel" my daughter's permitted to watch. We need more God fearing, self and other valuing human beings living their truth out there,. I'm glad my sister tuned me into your channel. Keep up the locura and living your truth out loud and with confidence--- you're a supa star spec mama 😉. Que el Senor la bendiga.
I never comment on videos but I had to tell you that I love this and I love the fact that you made this video because so many people in general not just females tare themselves down because they think they’re not beautiful enough or not worthy and that’s not the case. Even though I don’t struggle with this before in my life I did and I love the fact that you’re talking about it because that’s not something everyone is willing to talking about. I hope you make more videos like this :)
Penny, as a silver curly lady old enough to be your momma, I am so proud of you!! You're so positive and lovely. I love watching your videos and your personality shines. You have much wisdom for a young person! Keep being you! You're the one by you we have!! #beautiful
I was late in the beauty department, I was weighing 127lbs at 15, and I didn’t start wearing makeup until I was 14. I was bullied for being different. I’m 25 and people that I never thought would like me ended up liking me and although I’ve never been in a relationship, I would rather be alone than be with bad company. Great Video Penny!😃❤️👏👏👏
Girl you made me cry. Definitely not having the best of luck with dating atm and that has really brought my self worth down. I know I shouldn't use that as a basis to measure my self worth but its something I cant help.
I needed this so much. I’m about to go back to school and there are these people who are my “friends,” but they treat me like crap. I’m tired of the drama and of them saying that I’m fat when I’m already hella insecure. I wish that I could hang out with you. Even though you’re twice my age, you seem so fun and just a positive person to be around. Btw your videos give me life(and my hair😂)
Gurrrl I think you are beutiful!!!!! Sometimes we don’t see our own value bc all the preasure we got from society (specially us women). It is expected from us to always look hot, beautiful young, skinny etc. We need more videos like this in youtube empowering women to be confident and to embrace themselves 💪🏻👩🏻
I started watching your videos for your curly hair advice. I knew you were hilarious and had great hair...I didn't know you were so effing WISE, lol. I'm so glad you're here on TH-cam, especially for your younger viewers who might be going through exactly what you did when you were a teen. We don't have enough voices counteracting the barrage of negativity that young people (especially young women) face on a daily basis.
Loved this topic! It was amazing having you talk directly to us like "You are worth it". I got chills dude! For a futur ep, I would love the topic : "Dealing with failure" #DEEP
You know what i looove most about you penny is the fact that you are making everything that you put in your channel so real. I am from Morocco and i have whole different life style (as well as a different curl pattern) but i really learned a lot from you and i am still learning. You helped me a lot, which is basically your goal from all this so congratulations on that. I respect you for who you are and i love you the way you are. Keep going. And i am always going to be a big fan of yours and will always wait for new things from you. Much love ❤⚘🌹
I don't care if youtube demonetizes your videos, for me they are of great value and I know for other girls out there too,specially those of your age, we all need THIS. In an era of competitiveness, of getting a good body is better than education, of having 1k followers is more important than real friendship, having you in the media is a bless! So keep going, please don't be discourage by YT stupidity, we need you!
Dealing with PCOS can hinder my confidence in every way possible but thank you for videos like this where I at least have one moment where I know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and some people are just blind jaja. Thank you penny ❤️
I am the same age as your dad, but I learned from you in this #deep msg. Thank you for putting this out there. When I was young I never listened to ppl older than me. Thought I knew it all and they couldn't relate. I would have listened to someone like you though! I 100% agree that beauty is who you are inside,at your core. I 've met ppl who look flawless on the outside...but as they say , some ppl needa Eat make up cuz they Ugly on the inside!
I was countouring my fat middle eastern nose while I watching this and I realized my fat nose is worth it
yassss hunny
😂😂
I like your uncontoured (not)fat nose. It’s beautiful. It’s a nose!
same here ikhti
SLAYYYYY
YASS GIRL, that's why I broke up with my boyfriend, nobody gonna tell me other girls are prettier than me or that my ideas are shit
he sounds horrible, good thing you left
Mime did the same thing. He been gone.
Y’all the Illuminati did not want this video up. Everything that could go wrong went wrong while trying to get this video up. It’s even demonetized :/ show ya boi some support by smashing dat like button so drunk uncle TH-cam can stop being a jerk. If you like this, please lemme know so I can make more (:
EDIT: drunk uncle TH-cam has sobered up! The video was released from demonetization! Thank you all for your support
CurlyPenny uncle TH-cam is an asshole :)
Queen Mistic we have a love/hate relationship
TH-cam IS SLACKING, uggggh.
If you don’t make any more of these videos I’ll snort tide pods
CurlyPenny DO FAKE FRIENDS, PLEASE!!!!
You mentioned not having a leg and I started crying. I've been bullied or misunderstood for it. I don't have friends who aren't toxic and I can't find anyone. This helped me out. Thank you so much.
XxAnime FreakxX sweetie I'm so sorry I'll be ur friend
God bless you. You are more than enough!!!! 🙏❤️
Ahhh I didn't see the friend thing. My insta is xbreakinggracex
Penny doesn't have a leg??!! I wasn't aware
*queen of doggos* she does have a leg
"I smell like McDonalds"
so thats why u a snacc
@It_meh_your_girl 213 same xd
Ahhhh I LOVE YOUR PROFILE PIC❤❤❤❤
Omg Penny. My 18-month-old is watching this video with me, & when you said “you are valuable” she kissed the screen. ❤️
Sure that happned.
@@endmylifefam2913 ikr
Awwh that's so adorable!
I don't get why so many people look at aging so negatively. Getting old is beautiful! There are people that die way too young. We gotta be more grateful.
Comfortably Plump I love your name 😊😍😊
Yeah but I be 14 and I have wrinkles already soo
❤
So true❤️
Thanks for positivity..
"Pero, I'm fun, okay?!" Haha I love you 😂
CoreOfTheStar "I'll buy you taco bell. I'm that kind of girl."
#TEAMACNE
#TEAMSTRETCHMARKS
#TEAMCELLULITE
Katy Parker and #TEAMMUSTACHE (at least me) hahahaha
#TEAMACNE 🙌🏼
Alexandra Gomes me too sis,if I let my mustache grow out, I have a bigger mustache than all the boys in my grade 😤😤😤
What an excellent video Penny. You’re such a smart gal. You have wisdom! And you share it with your viewers, which is so appreciated. Thank you for being so raw and real and funny!
"I'm a little speck like everyone else, just trying to float through life" preach🙌🏻❤️❤️
Bailey Ruen I wrote that down, it's so true
To anyone out there thinking they are to old- Im turning 30 in a week and I still dont have life 100% figured out. Im In the middle of switching careers and following my passions. So keep your head up and just follow your heart. When it comes to self deprecation, When you find your self thinking negatively about yourself, replace your name with your best friends name in that thought. Do you feel the same? Would you say that about your best friend? Probably not. So show yourself the same respect you show those people you love.
JeniferGamelli yess girl we are all just slowly growing and making it through life and its challenges! But you are truly kind to post this for other people to read cause I needed to know that😇
❤
This honestly couldn’t have come at a better time. I’m only just realizing how little I value and respect myself. I feel like a lot of my friends don’t care about me and to be frank, I’m sure they’d ditch me for a grape. I’m not very skinny, I don’t fit in my small parish, I don’t wear brands, I’m as far from vain or ostentatious as can be, so I guess in their eyes I’m less than them. I guess my opinion of myself is greatly influenced by the way those that surround me treat me. But you know what? When I watched your video, it all clicked: I’m over it, those putas are shallow and they ain’t shit and I’m done feeling like a damn tissue. Peniel, this auspicious video helped me realize that I deserve to be loved and respected, not only by others, but most importantly, by myself. I can’t tell you how much this means to me, I’m in tears.
so happy for you! you deserve happiness and respect.
CurlyPenny ❤️❤️
“I’m a little speck just like everyone else, just floating through life.” This is going on my tombstone
Damn...didn't come here expecting all of that. I loved it!
Wow. yesterday i cried and had a panic attack because i recorded my self in class. when i went back home and watched it i thought i looked so fat and i couldnt hear myself talking because i hated my voice and i literally laid in the ground crying because i called myself so many ugly words and today watching this video makes me feel so much better and just thank you so much i love you.
You are a beautiful person and deserve good things!!
"Jealousy is counting someone else's blessings instead of your own". Love this quote & really relates to your video. Reminds me to count my own good qualities/features and not just focus on other people. Best thing I ever did was to delete all social media accounts (apart from YT of course) because it's all just a bunch of fake depressing BS. I've never been happier! :)
I told my friend I was crying because I wanna be so pretty like the girls I see at my school and he sent me this. Thank you so much, I feel so much better now❤️
The best friend ever😭😭
KEEP UP DA SERIES CAUSE YU KEEP SHOWIN ME DA WAE
mickey mouse. WOOOO PREACH
Agh I almost started crying, I wish we were actually friends. I needed this. If you had a podcast I would totally listen.
LOVE THIS FREAKEN SERIES
Dear funny, pretty Penny, your words put me in mind of an ancient native American nugget of wisdom, which places each of us at the centre of the universe, rather than being inconsequential to it, and only a tiny spec - which is often how we can all feel. I looked it up, because I think it's relevant today, and to all of us sitting here watching, feeling whatever we're feeling about ourselves:
“The first piece, which is the most important, is that which comes within the souls of people when they realise their relationship, their oneness with the Universe and all its powers and when they realise that at the centre of the Universe dwells the Great Spirit and that this centre is really everywhere, it is within each of us.”
- Black Elk, Oglala Sioux
jenny taylor That’s so beautiful :,) thank u
This was so helpful, i am a 14 girl in 9th girl right now and this is so inspirational. So thank you Curly Penny,you inspire me and i love you so much❤
:')
Same
I'm 16 in 10th grade and damn, that stuff hits home!
X2 this girls is lit 💗
AH SAMEEE
I love the way she gets straight to the point 😍
I was just about to cuddle up in bed and cry myself to sleep AND THEN A NOTIFICATION FOR YOUR VIDEO POPPED UP. Thank you so much I really needed this❤
“YOU ARE WORTH IT. YOU ARE ENOUGH”. Thank you Penny, I needed to hear this❤️🙏
Same here :,)
Penny is the most beautiful person inside and out!!! I would kill to be her friend and spend a day with her ❤️❤️❤️
same ♡ her beauty could not be compared to other girls, she's irreplaceable herself. for me she's a zillion more blessed, beautiful. and lucky than i will ever be, and i pray she wouldn't change. i pray she wouldn't be like the other girls.
This is the best video of the 2018 so far
Dubraska Mendoza still the best video of 2018
you started massaging your scalp, I started massaging my scalp. you started braiding your hair, I started braiding my hair. yikes! loved this video and wish it was longer.
Found this based on the title. Grown ass woman looking up "I wish I was pretty" on TH-cam at 2:00 in the morning. Thank you so much for being you. I've seen your videos before this, absolutely subscribed.
1:04 I'm 15 and I'm seriously at that point right now. I don't even have friends in my high school cause I think everyone hates me. It's stupid I know, but sometimes when you tell yourself so many negative things you start to believe them and then its hard being positive about yourself again... aahhh this video is really inspirational tho.
I’m in my 30s and while I don’t “look my age” I don’t cry and commiserate about being older. In fact I love GROWING OLD. Being older has given me more blessings. Being young I found it to be hard. I spent my 20s learning super hard lessons and having Low self esteem.
There's an Arabic saying :"Contentment is an eternal treasure" .. if you learn to accept yourself and love yourself .. you're good to go all those around won't matter anymore .. i take the good from them and leave the bad .. like if i see someone successful i'll wish them all the best and i do wanna learn how to be as successful for me but seeing a super model and trying to be like her ?? why would i do that
beauty is subjective and it could fade in an instant but being genuinely good and aspiring to be the best for myself that is what our focus should be on
Plus if you start loving yourself people will follow ;)
When you started saying that we're worth it and everything I almost started crying because I needed to hear that. Right now I'm battling with depression and an ED but thanks to you I'm getting my confidence back. Thank you so much for being so real and sharing who you remember are.
Gurl you don't know how much I needed this. Thanks (in)consistent queen ily
thank fammo :')
Cassey Steph Ikr!!! Wow!!! Amen!♥️should check out my channel?
Dear Penny, you seem to have a wonderful relationship with your husband. Would you make a #DEEP about insecurity in relationship/jealousy?
I love this series! I can't believe youtube would demonetize it. It's not like you were cursing or naked... these types of videos could be the difference between someone wanting to hurt themselves and finally feeling like they are enough. I may not be one of those people but I enjoy hearing what you have to say. You are so positive and can bring up anyone who may feel down. Thank you for the videos!
Thank you. I don't understand either, but I put this out because I know it's important, money or no money (:
CurlyPenny We definitely appreciate it! 😁 It's honestly not all about the money, you are right about that. That's how you know you do it for your subscribers. Thank you! ❤
Thank you Penny, your videos always make my day better. I had a similar revelation with the whole makeup thing. From age 12-15 I didn't want to go anywhere without a full face of makeup because I thought I was nothing without it after a boy told me "You know you're really not that pretty" when I showed up to school with no makeup one day in seventh grade. Then one day in tenth grade I had my hair in a ponytail and thought I looked ugly so I needed to put more makeup on to compensate. It helped me realise how my obsession with my looks and how others may perceive me was tearing me down and affecting everything I did. Next day I came to school with no makeup and didn't show up to school with it on after that. Now I'm eighteen, don't wear makeup and walk around in tee shirts and I don't pay any mind to what people might think about me. Everyone can deal with my acne and scars and freckles, if they see flaws then that just shows how poorly they feel about themselves, not my problem.
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No idea why this was demonetized. Girl, you a motivational speaker!!
I've always struggled with low self esteem but after seeing this video I'm starting to feel better about myself
You are so wise for your age, most females don't get to this point until they are in their mid-twenties or older. It's such an amazing feeling when you get there though, and know what you want and who you are and know your worth. Thank you for sharing this, so many need to hear this. ❤💪🙏
I am 20 now and I think I'm in the same spot as you, completely happy with who I am. Yes, I change the things that needs changing but not looks or body. It's the mindset I want to have in this life and my compassion for others that grow. Thnx penny for your wise words. 😘😘😘
I don't care either and I'm 13 😅. I always thought there was something wrong with me for loving everything about me since people think bullying me could ever bring me down, but it makes them just more upset when they get no reaction from me because it doesn't matter whether people like the way I look because I'm not dressing and doing what I do for people who won't like me. Who ever does like me just will and I shouldn't have to prove it to people who are only bullying me because they wish they could feel the same about themselves.
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I love your message. I wish every young, or old person for that matter, would watch this and realize their worth. This coming from a 60 yr. old woman who started watching your videos for advice on how to take care of her curly hair. Keep up the good work!
I was like 🤤 watching you use that scalp massager thing & I ordered one on amazon right away lol this was a beautiful video!
Which is it though?? The link gave a different one. :/
That is so crazy. I felt the same way about myself at 14. N still do sometimes. My goal is to not have to wear foundation anymore n I’m making those baby steps day by day!!
This is a fantastic series, keep going boo, and you are far from old and far from ugly in any sense of the imagination, your beauty is most definitely from the inside out, so fucking nice to see a young lady being herself and just being a real human being instead of miss plastic doll, love your comment about how we are all just a speck in the universe, that whole thing was great, you must make so many people smile and laugh, well you do me boo, you do you boo! I think you are fucking awesome!
The first time I heard you say you live in US, I couldn't believe it!! Like HOW?! How a girl like you lives in that culture,is beyond me...But I love you and all you stand for!:)))I'm sooooooo grateful for this video...really... most of the time I do exactly what you said "don't consume garbage" I don't watch VS shows etc but yesterday I was watching TROY for the first time and seeing all those skinny and pretty actresses with their nudity, and the topic of that movie(the Trojan war started for a beatiful woman)gave me all the bad feeling a girl could get about herself...So please do continue #deep
I was crying almost every night because my skin, especially my eczema, are acting up so bad but now that i watched your video im feeling sooo much better. Thank you 🌼🌹😄
seriously Penny, finding your youtube channel is the most positive thing that happened to me in 2020
"Jeeez are you dead or something" AHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAH I can't 😂😂😂😂
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You're the only channel in my TH-cam feed that says something POSITIVE
I never commented on your videos ,but this one really touch me..keep up with the series...hugs from the united kingdom
I am a 38 year old woman who is learning to re-embrace her curls after about 15 years of flat irons.. I came across your channel and have learned a lot. But, this video!!!! If only most 22 year old girls had the mindset that you have. This was so beautiful and so true. You are such a beautiful woman, inside and out. You remind me of myself when I was younger. I am darker skin/hair/hairy. I felt so different. I didn't embrace my different looks until I was 19ish. I realized that I didn't have to look like "them" to be beautiful. I only hope my daughter grows up to have your strong and wonderful state of mind.
I love this so much! It took me SUCH a long time to embrace my appearance. In middle school and high school, I covered my freckles with foundation and straightened my curly hair every day (i also BEGGED my mom to let me dye my red hair a different color.) it makes me so sad when i think about how ugly i thought i was. Iearning how to embrace those natural features made me realize that they actually made me unique (lol sounds cheesy). now i even see people on Instagram/youtube painting on fake freckles with makeup, and it made me realize how truly arbitrary beauty standards are haha
I’ve watched several of your videos. This one convinced me to subscribe. You have great wisdom for one so young. You’re beautiful, funny, creative, intelligent, and have awesome curly hair. I like the accent too.
It has taken me decades to accept myself for what I am - not what I could be, what I “should” be, wish I was, whatever. I’m 57 years old and wasted years not liking this or that about me. I encourage all of your young subscribers to allow themselves to not give a €%@& about those who look down on them. You are perfect the way you are at this very moment - even with the struggles.
Never stop growing. Grow by learning. Use mistakes to learn. And always be brutally honest with yourself. Only then can you see what truly needs extra attention.
Finally, I’m learning a great deal from you about caring for my own curly hair. Dang! I admit I have some hair envy, but I *will* find my own awesome hair. 🙂
This couldn't have come at a better time! Thank you! 💕💕💕
I came over from BiancaReneeToday. I’m a curly haired 70 year old; old people are online watching young, middle age & other old people. It’s nice to hear your perspectives. You’re a wonderful role model.
Love your spirit, penny! 😘❤️ you’re awesome!!
Penny, The rant starting at 3:57 with "You are worth it..." spoke to me so deeply. "If anyone says otherwise, cut them out of your damn life." My inner voice is the one saying otherwise. Why the hell should I not cut that voice out? "They are poisonous, they are toxic; and they don't love you for you." I've heard that same sort of reasoning before, but it's never made as much sense as it does now. Thank you for saying this in the way that you did. I don't know how you have managed to be only 24 and already be so aware and confident and be able to express it and inspire it in others. I came for your curly hair knowledge; I'm staying for who you are. :)
Thank you for this. It made me tear up a bit!! I really needed to hear this after last week, and I'm so glad I did ❤ I do love this #DEEP series!! You should definitely continue it, girl!!
This seriously helped me ! Today I just felt bad over some guy who didn’t care about me and lied and weren’t anything I knew that but then I realized there’s no point in investing time on a little “mind” game. I cried some , didn’t eat until 2 pm and then after eating I watched your video and I realized I got to respect myself again, I lost myself for a moment but I’m back. I’m happy and I’m beautiful. Sometimes it gets hard to not compare yourself to other people but then I realized that I am me and it’s good that I’m different and I have my own path. I do want to change for the better, been trying to lose weight by making food at home to save money and eat healthier. As well as going back to the gym and it feels good :)
Yeah I hated my hair..... I’m still struggling to learn to love my hair. I never liked curly only on me because I didn’t know how to style it out deal with it. But I been watching TH-cam videos on how to treat and care for it and for once I actually am starting to like my hair 😛
SimplyCindy GIRL CURLY HAIR IS THE BEST I used to have curlier as a kid and I wish I still did!
I have natural hair and that’s worse to deal with
Me too omg same same i just cant afford the products even though ik exactly what i'd need😧😧😧
same just gotta learn to love and appreciate the beauty
SimplyCindy I used to hate my hair too. My mom has straight hair and would try to brush it and I always hated it, but it was because she didn't know how to take care of it. I straightened it for like 2 years in middle school because of peer pressure, but when I got to high school I didn't want to be like those girls so I cut it off and started to wear it curly. Now I love my curls (on most days) and feel like it better shows who I am
You really are a gem among youtubers. Penny's videos are my go-to when I'm feeling down or can't sleep 'cause I'm anxious. Whatever the subject, you're filling my happiness bank. Thanks for being out there 💝
I really needed this. I’ve always been super insecure growing up & this made me realize I need to love myself the way I am no matter what and it made me feel so much better about myself. thank you so much for this video!💛 I immediately subscribed to you(:
Wow!! I really admire what you do. The fact of teaching how to love ourselves in invaluable Penny. I'm 19 years old and all my life I've been rejected from my older sister, I've got comments like you're ugly, nobody loves you, you'll always be alone and that really affected me a lot and knowing there is someone like u encouraging us is so beautiful. I LOVE WHAT U DO. KEEP ON DOING IT.
I have Gad low self astern since I was 12. My acne was really bad. I gained weight and was one of the first people in my grade to get. Every time it starts to get better I get my hopes up and it comes back. I know that it matters what is on the inside but sometimes I can’t help but but be shallow and wish I was pretty on the outside. I’m 18 and it’s hard to walk into school everyday with acne. No one says anything. It’s nice to hear from you that you went through something similar.
I LOVE THIS PLEASE KEEP BEING YOU AND HELPING US TO LOVE OURSELVES
I like how you do stuff while talking. Then im not staring at your mouth forming words cuz tjats the only thing changing in the picture
With all the superficiality being pumped out everyday it's really inspiring to see a young lady who is pumping out deep truth and values. You are officially the only "beauty channel" my daughter's permitted to watch. We need more God fearing, self and other valuing human beings living their truth out there,. I'm glad my sister tuned me into your channel. Keep up the locura and living your truth out loud and with confidence--- you're a supa star spec mama 😉. Que el Senor la bendiga.
I never comment on videos but I had to tell you that I love this and I love the fact that you made this video because so many people in general not just females tare themselves down because they think they’re not beautiful enough or not worthy and that’s not the case. Even though I don’t struggle with this before in my life I did and I love the fact that you’re talking about it because that’s not something everyone is willing to talking about. I hope you make more videos like this :)
This made me cry... I needed to hear this more than anything right now. Please never stop posting advice
You're so funny and my #1 OG INSPIRATION LOVE YOUUUU ❤️❤️❤️
Penny, as a silver curly lady old enough to be your momma, I am so proud of you!! You're so positive and lovely. I love watching your videos and your personality shines. You have much wisdom for a young person! Keep being you! You're the one by you we have!! #beautiful
I was late in the beauty department, I was weighing 127lbs at 15, and I didn’t start wearing makeup until I was 14. I was bullied for being different. I’m 25 and people that I never thought would like me ended up liking me and although I’ve never been in a relationship, I would rather be alone than be with bad company. Great Video Penny!😃❤️👏👏👏
I have never watched such a genuine video. Other people who have done similar things don't convey sincerity, but this was lit. Thanks, PT ;)
Minds minds minds minds *gasping for air* minds minds minds. Love you Penny!!
i’m still at the point where i hate leaving the house w out makeup. i cry looking at myself. you’re beautiful thank u for this
Girl you made me cry. Definitely not having the best of luck with dating atm and that has really brought my self worth down. I know I shouldn't use that as a basis to measure my self worth but its something I cant help.
You are wise beyond your years, a rare gem! So refreshing to know you are the youth of this nation!! Xxx
thank you penny:)) i have anxiety and so the tiniest things seem so bad to me and it’s nice to hear these things sometimes:) you are amazing love
I needed this so much. I’m about to go back to school and there are these people who are my “friends,” but they treat me like crap. I’m tired of the drama and of them saying that I’m fat when I’m already hella insecure. I wish that I could hang out with you. Even though you’re twice my age, you seem so fun and just a positive person to be around. Btw your videos give me life(and my hair😂)
Gurrrl I think you are beutiful!!!!! Sometimes we don’t see our own value bc all the preasure we got from society (specially us women). It is expected from us to always look hot, beautiful young, skinny etc. We need more videos like this in youtube empowering women to be confident and to embrace themselves 💪🏻👩🏻
I started watching your videos for your curly hair advice. I knew you were hilarious and had great hair...I didn't know you were so effing WISE, lol. I'm so glad you're here on TH-cam, especially for your younger viewers who might be going through exactly what you did when you were a teen. We don't have enough voices counteracting the barrage of negativity that young people (especially young women) face on a daily basis.
You're such an inspiration. I really really love you and your empowering content. Keep rocking it
Seriously the best TH-cam series of videos ever. Period.
Loved this topic! It was amazing having you talk directly to us like "You are worth it". I got chills dude!
For a futur ep, I would love the topic : "Dealing with failure" #DEEP
You know what i looove most about you penny is the fact that you are making everything that you put in your channel so real. I am from Morocco and i have whole different life style (as well as a different curl pattern) but i really learned a lot from you and i am still learning. You helped me a lot, which is basically your goal from all this so congratulations on that. I respect you for who you are and i love you the way you are. Keep going. And i am always going to be a big fan of yours and will always wait for new things from you. Much love ❤⚘🌹
Thank you for posting this please keep posting. You helped me I love you ❤
wow, this is so wholesome. Thank you for making this.
I love her thick accent and positive attitude💙💙💙
That anecdote about the universe is something ive never heard and i needed to hear that. Thank you penny your positivity is awesome.
I don't care if youtube demonetizes your videos, for me they are of great value and I know for other girls out there too,specially those of your age, we all need THIS. In an era of competitiveness, of getting a good body is better than education, of having 1k followers is more important than real friendship, having you in the media is a bless! So keep going, please don't be discourage by YT stupidity, we need you!
Such wise advice! I'm 32 years old and a mother of 4 and found this to be so inspirational, keep doing what you're doing and thank you 💗
You’re a beautiful kind person inside and out 🌸🌸
Dealing with PCOS can hinder my confidence in every way possible but thank you for videos like this where I at least have one moment where I know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and some people are just blind jaja. Thank you penny ❤️
Penny is AMAZING! Id love to have her as a friend😩😌😃💯
I am the same age as your dad, but I learned from you in this #deep msg. Thank you for putting this out there. When I was young I never listened to ppl older than me. Thought I knew it all and they couldn't relate. I would have listened to someone like you though! I 100% agree that beauty is who you are inside,at your core. I 've met ppl who look flawless on the outside...but as they say , some ppl needa Eat make up cuz they Ugly on the inside!