What's up Kevin? Digging your show brother, just wanted to drop one more baddy on you who was a 10 but from another era..Dorothy Dandridge in my opinion was on that top tier level as well. Hoping you would include her in your list in future, just a suggestion. Thanks brother and keep up the good work. 👍🏼 While Diane Carroll was also a beautiful woman in her day, I saw photos of them together from back in the day and Diane paled by comparison which was impressive. Oh...one more bonus baddy too I was in love with was Vanity to me she was also a 10. Curious to know what you think..
I’ve been telling the girl I like that she doesn’t need the fake eyelashes since we been talking. I find em and throw em away if she leaves them at my house. 🤷🏾♂️
Ladies just lose the weight. My husband dated me as a plus size woman an then Married me as a plus size woman. However one day out of no where he told me he rather I was smaller an it broke me. I gave every argument "you married me like this", etc. But at the end of the day if I had taken better care of myself it would never been a conversation. Never allow yourself to be less than you could have been, an not just for him but also for yourself.
As a plus sized woman I was thinking that while watching this. I started my weightloss journey earlier this year but have started to plateau and your testimony is right on time for me! Thanks for sharing.
@Honey Latte well said ma'am! I think a lot of guys find themselves in this position where they love a woman but aren't attracted or lose attraction to her because of the weight. Society has tried to indoctrinate guys into thinking its not a problem, if you love her you should be attracted to her no matter what, etc. But at the end of the day, you can't beat biology. And unless the man has an obesity fetish, he wishes you were smaller ladies.
Women in the USA and the Caribbean who are descendants of slaves have been adversely impacted by slavery and oppression. The DNA and psyche of their ancestors has been damaged and this creates behavior problems. They then repeat the negative behaviors of their mothers and grandmothers; while most times, fathers are absent. The home is thereby imbalanced and becomes a henhouse of sorts. Black women have been taught to confront, attack, deflect, and argue when they are angry or frustrated. They also have not been taught to manage interpersonal relations and these patterns are unfortunately passed down to the children. We must change these awful dynamics. Etiquette, good values, poise, discipline, sexual activity, etc., must be addressed.
These women need to stop lying about their weight! It's so annoying. I used to be a 4 and I weighed low 112-122lbs. Then I was a 6 as I got into the mid to high 120s. I was an 8 in the low 130s. Stop saying you're either 150 or 160 lbs and a size 6 😂
Exactly. Samething i have been preaching. Since covid i continue to work out with my fitness coach monday to Friday from 8am ro 9am by zoom. Prior to covid, i was up at 5am to get to workout with her for 730am. Its there for those who want it. Working out is an addiction for me.
After a man takes the time to make himself able to provide for a family comfortably, we want a feminine, cooperative, non-obese, childless, cute(6 plus) woman that’s in a healthy child bearing age bracket so we can have healthy kids of our own. Most Black women have the potential to be attractive if they had a healthy Body weight. Weight alone knocks out 80 percent, the 20 percent left we have to minus the those with kids, then minus the non-cooperative who came from broken households who can’t be trained. We are down to about 3 to 5 percent of Black women, if that. Then everybody looking at Black men crazy when statistics now show that over 1/3 of Black college educated career men are marrying outside the race. This channel is the lifeline that we need.
The purpose of this information is to educate and improve our lives. I have much respect for these brave women that called and received his critiques on video. How many people can honestly let someone they don't know rate their looks to over the internet live to who knows how many viewers?. Guys are in this thread bashing BW as if its some form of payback on all BW. None of us men are perfect so lets be positive and support our women. If BW don't feel we support them -especially when the are trying to be what [we men] want them to be then what's the point? Let Kevin evaluate you live online and see what they say? Guys you know dm well we as men can be just as delusional about how we rate ourselves. Lets keep it real....Thanks
@Farhiya A your mirror only shows what you think of yourself. Don't worry about image, get healthy, focus on your mental health and the rest shall come. If you love you for you, everyone bis gonna love you
Doctors do not tell people what weight they should be as that specific number is different for everyone. They will usually just say “you need to lose/gain some weight”
These women who say they don't remember or know Diahann Carol, Halle Berry, Lela Rochon, Vivica, and Jada in Set It Off must be 19 years old. No way these late 20s in 30s don't know these nine or ten-rated actresses. Just know Beyonce.
Women generally get compliments and positive reinforcement from the men who are after them. Meanwhile, the guys who are doing the chasing get mostly dissed, rude comments negative reinforcement. After years of being subjected to that type of treatment, many women develop a huge ego not befitting what they offer and many men end up struggling with their self-confidence and self-esteem.
a lot of women have the "Big fish in a small pond" problem. because they were at the top of the food chain in a small pond they think they are a dime. a miami 9 and a idaho 9 will be completely different. I seen this at my college. Chicks that won miss university are still single at 40. They think they are dimes but they were really 7's and 8's all along.
Women give women horrible relationship advice based on feelings, fantasy, and exceptions to the rule. And by the time they realize they got bad advice, they're past their prime. Their best years are gone. Men give women excellent relationship advice based on facts, truth, and observable reality. Women in their 30s need to accept that the dye on the rest of their life has been cast. They should be teaching young teen girls on how to avoid their situation. That requires a high level of maturity.
True, too many of them are trying to justify their own bad decisions by downplaying the significance to the next generation thus perpetuating the cycle
I’m so glad he spoke about weave and wigs! I wore wigs in high school when I was trying to grow out my air but after wearing them so often the combs pulled out my hair in certain places. Anyways, I’m so glad I threw them away and learned to love my natural curly hair.
@sahra Khasim girl me too! I don’t know what my mama was thinking when she started putting that crap on my head. It took me so long to grow my hair back, I straighten it about 4 to 6 times a year now though.
@sahra Khasim Thank you! That’s my goal! If I don’t do anything else right I’m my life I hope that I can help contribute to the betterment of the future by raising my children to be better.
@sahra Khasim My step mom you to relax my hair and burned it all out so baby it almost changed the texture .. I never perm my hair and neither does my daughters .. They wear it natural .. one wears a curly red afro! 😃
For me, this isn't even hate watch. I really like what you have to say. In all honesty. Probably because I'm an older woman, but I can accept a lot of what you say and it takes some of us a decade or so to get here 🤷🏾♀️
@@aTruthJunkie some women can't help the fact they have wider hips. White men love fit women, that's been said white men never said I just want a thin framed woman. Fit not skinny.
Sir Kevin, I hope you are well! I’m thankful you are a cancer survivor. That is a very tough time. May you continue to stay in good health! It may not be the most interesting topic, but I would love to see a video for the women who marry young and watch their husbands grow in higher value years later. Advice to help these women to keep value up as time isn’t forgiving to our youth, and having children can change our bodies and make it a struggle to take care of ourselves. I personally want to continue bettering myself because whether my husband is a high earner or not, he deserves the best and I wish to give that to him. And he is too kind to tell me my flaws. Blessings and good vibes to you!
Random question; is it just me, or does any other guy out there think that the birth of their first child is WAY more special with a woman who has no kids compared to ones that already had one?
This is why it’s best to marry by age 25. The longer you wait, the more likely it is for both men and women to have had a child slip through the cracks (I married at 24, 3 kids born in marriage, best decision ever).
@@glendamaynard Well, because of my poor choices early in life (I'm 29 now), I guess the lightbulb in my head went off the moment when I was 27 to get my life straight. I'm past 25, but because I'm working my way to at least become a Henry, or hopefully a HVM, I am working on myself and my career. It's easier said than done, but I like to think of it as once it's my time, hopefully the right on will come along. The way a lot of women are nowadays, there's no telling what will happen...
He has a show were he talks about that, he just said that the average person doesn't want to date that in real life that's for rap videos etc. (Not in those words but that's the sum of it)
@@nathangraham5438 That's all you got, on Kelly? Everybody and their mama is getting(or already got) fake tits, ass, too long lashes and plastic surgery ...what did I miss?
For 6 months I wear my natural hair and for 6 months I wear braids during Spring and Summer months here in Miami cause my hair gets more sweat and I swim too. So that works for me. I was my hair 3 times a week during the months I'm styling it naturally. Makeup is once in a while or if I'm taking pics for business wise.
Weaves are out of control and tons of makeup and long spider lashes like be natural but then again these dudes still giving these females attention and they blow they heads up
True .....but it’s confusing because men will say they like the more natural look but then stare at the fake chick with the long weave, boob job and bbl.... I wish Kevin would explain that.
I saw a 6'1" brother working in walmart last year. "It" weighed (at least) 200 lbs and was wearing a long ass lace front wig, had fake eyelashes, eyeliner and long as nails. I almost threw up in my mouth! I just couldn't believe all the sisters co-signing to that being okay.
I just looked up Diahann Carroll and had flashbacks from my childhood. Kevin is so right its sickening. She is drop dead gorgeous and I remember seeing her on TV as a kid.
@Urodium Excelsior ancient egyptians thought this to it is not just a western thing. Nature literally follows the Golden ratio its not philosophy it is math.
He said hair helmets.😂😂Then I thought of how many times I’ve seen women in dc that looked like warren sapp wearing a helmet and a dress in my lifetime🤣😂
@@kittyearsheadbands8810 our truth is never taking serious or respected, we have no reason to exaggerate, how will people grow if they can't take the truth, this is whats holding yall back from reaching yall potential, it all starts with accepting the truth and truth is nobody want a lady like that at all
I had sort of known that women over estimated themselves but I didn't fully appreciate it until seeing your show. I had noticed some stats a few years back but your method of forcing callers to rate themselves with the "no 7" rule it is very stark. It illustrates so much.
Death and burial to the wigs and weaves... I would Never date or take any woman serious who wear a wig. A quality weave is tolerable but not preferred... Natural beauty (healthy skin, healthy hair, healthy nails, flat stomach, bright smile, bright or clear eyes (there goes the weed smokers and alcoholics), in shape, etc.) overall, with a nice lip stick or lip gloss, will win over fake any day. A very light make-up is okay for a special night out or an event, not as a daily ritual.
I've noticed that marginal, average, plain, vanilla White women seem to understand their place when it comes to this looks thing. Most of them seem to be the sweetest, most feminine and polite women to deal with. They know that can't compete with the higher tier beautiful to pretty women in their group , so they compensate by being more feminine and wifey material, and it generally works in their race to a degree...
@@RonniedonnieBrown If you can state facts to refute what i'm saying instead of a " Not True", then your point would have more validity i see this stuff everyday, and Whites have a much much higher marriage rates and successful marriage rates than Blacks Just sating facts folks..
tom11zz884 they just don’t divorce bro, they’re going through the same shit. A white woman would agree with a open marriage, black women just quit too early
Maybe this comes with age but the women in my circle are brutally honest..Even if we get mad at each other..We take what was said and improve it..The more I embrace my femininity the more changes i will make..
Kevin please keep the Doctor coming on your show. She's always on point but you. Know this already you and her doin a show every month once a month will be. Awesome and priceless.
Women over-rely on makeup and age quicker because of it. When its said and done, men are interested in someone that is beautiful in their natural state.Great show
This information is helpful. We men bear some responsibility for this. A lot of 8s and 9s will deal with women who are 6 to 4s on a short term basis. This behavior distorts the relationship market creating the dysfunction and delusions.
But this is the part that the women fail to realize with that. Just because a man is a 8-9 and will sleep with a 3-6, doesn’t mean they want to marry them. A guy will hangout with or entertain (my friends and I call it “renting”) a woman for a couple or weeks or months that’s well below what he wants in a mate. In the same aspect, The same rented woman will consider herself way above her natural ranking because she has been rented out a couple of times by guys way out of her league, and now she feels this is what she deserves.
Faces that are evenly distributed are considered the most beautiful, its more about numbers not spirals examples being eyes, ears, nose, mouth and ears equidistant from one another. Its how models are chosen
Rest in power King 👑👑👑 Black sisters need help ❣. They need to first know who they are and learn how to fit in black men's programmes... This is the only way you can then take charge of your man's heart, love and affection. That man will go all out for you. I swear this 💥👑
Excellent Video as usual, one woman I would add to the List would be Salma Hayek. In her Prime she was a 11 🔥🔥🔥. Keep the videos coming I love the whip and taps music and sounds 🤣🤣🤣
I bought those fragrances that you reviewed and spoke on in one of your videos. but I bought the essential oils. That's for brothers out there that's living on a budget you can always get the essential oil and save money.
Oils are actually more effective than most fragrances that use a high percentage of alcohol or water. Perfume (actual Perfume that usually costs $100-200 per OUNCE, not what most people think of) has the highest oil concentration. The benefit to essential oils is that they are very long lasting and are not overpowering.
It’s an interesting insight in that women don’t want to hurt each other’s feelings yet they have absolutely no problem completely gutting a man. Guess they’ll all be living in these co friend arrangements with their cats and dogs. Good luck with that.
Kevin should start an Interior Design Business. He has an eye for beauty and class. The way this same room was one week ago and how it looks now, is amazing.
Last week I saw a black woman who looked like Big Bird from Sesame street, Big Mama looked as if she's in her late twenties, she was wearing yellow gym shoes , yellow leggings , a yellow sweat shirt and a long blonde wig , she appeared to weigh around 350 pounds, or more . I wanted to take a picture but , Big Bird got away !
Especially having hypertension. I'm a retired ol head so I be in my own little world most of the time lol & didn't come across KS until after he passed. I couldn't believe no one mentioned that to him about the red bull as I had found out about the affects of drinking too much of it back in like 2005. I'm 48yo & retired as I mentioned but I have a 23yo son & when I started watching this kinda content I was talking to him about it. He just said "Yea I know Pops I'm out here seeing the shit firsthand" lol
I think KS is using the dress sizes of high end brands. I’m a man (6’2”, 220) and I wear a 3xl/4L/58/60 in LV and Gucci. These are there largest sizes. I wear a large tall (I have longer arms - 37 inch sleeve) in American sizes. I would bet most of the women are using mall brand American (think American Eagle) or H&M measurements (which are very flattering - I believe its called “ego-sizing”).
Hmmmmm... I’m not sure where he gets his statistics. According to CDC the avg American man weighs 195 lbs and 5’9. 168 lbs is very small for an American man. 168 lbs for an avg European man seems more realistic.
Nutrition/diet/fitness and training is hard! Very hard so cut out all the fake hair, fake nails, fake lashes, implants, survives and work out instead. It will be cheaper and make you feel better on the inside....the real healing.
Yeah...sad to say, after the third time a woman suggested setting me up with her "beautiful friend"...I made up my mind never to trust that. I'm sure they have beautiful souls. But two were overweight, one was overweight with a child and ten years older than me, and one...she was in shape and I'm sure she was decent, but hers was the kind of beauty that grows on you through time spent together. The problem with that, is if you aren't attracted from the get-go, I learned not to toy with that. Because you're basically spending time with this person, "hoping" that you become attracted to her. And if she develops feelings for you quicker than you are able to get attracted to her, it gets sad and messy.
I know this didn't necessarily come up but, Ppl bother me with that "big boned" theory. I say theory because that's what it is and a wrong theory at that. Fact is there's no such thing as big boned. We all have the same bone structure. Of course men are larger than women. I said all that to say, We as women have to accept responsibility. Stop being cop outs. Only WE can fix us. Let's get busy ladies. We've gotta stop with the excuses
Finally someone that tells the truth about the rating. I've always said that most women are a 5 at best. That's not ugly it's average. I've never seen a 10. I don't think they exist because a 10 is perfection. And we always say no one is perfect. A 6 is usually the prettiest girl on the block. And 4's and 3's are what most guys are dating. The short, overweight, wide woman with the big belly. They call them thick. It is what it is, and I live in Chicago.
It would have been better if we had a split screen with the women he’s ranking cuz this sucked I could barely see who he was talking to long enough to get a clear visual of who he was ranking 👎
Funny as most men can rate their looks. They know if they are overweight, short, not a solid jaw line. Average men were told that since junior high. They can look at a male model and tell. Strangely, women can also subjectively judge other women. They know when an attractive women is in the room, when one isn't competition, etc. They might trash talk them, but they know. However, when it comes to themselves, they just won't. You can take a dozen model or actress pics go through the list and women will agree they are all thin, long straight hair, clear complexion, white perfect teeth, no tattoos or piercings, hourglass figure, etc. and... then say they are exceptions to each of these. Some men like tattoos, and some men like curves, etc. Women will say they are 9s or 10s when they aren't beauty pageant queens, actresses, models, dancers, gymnasts, etc. or otherwise don't earn a living based on looks and yet, they are so high value.
😂😂You said Beyonce was an 8 and Kelly Rowland is a 9. And both of them have on wigs and weaves constantly. Then, he goes on to tell women to get rid of the wigs and weaves. 😂😂 That’s hilarious. But, he is correct on the superficial requirements of the type of men he’s speaking about.
@@alonzoquinones8976 Yes, that is the main reason for all the wigs and makeup. My question is, since you never seen Kelly or Beyonce as they look in real life, I wonder if you would still have s the same rating? Or are men just looking at Their bodies and ignoring their face and hair? Then again, In this clip, the gentleman made it seem as if it’s a bad thing for women to wear wigs and weaves, but the women he rates high constantly wear them and he’s evaluating their attractiveness with wigs and weaves. That was really my question? I’d love to hear your ideas on this subject.
@@heartstrings110 I think he may just be using that as reference for women who think they are an 8 or higher. Not only that I think he is purely talking about facial features
I agree with what you saying, he should choose females that are naturally 8-9-10 But at the same time Beyoncé a good person because she not just about looks. She has more value than just that.
What is your biggest takeaway from this video? Please comment below and keep it respectful.
BMIs of 19-22 are healthiest for women under 50. Women need to be confident and take care of their unique appearance.
What's up Kevin?
Digging your show brother, just wanted to drop one more baddy on you who was a 10 but from another era..Dorothy Dandridge in my opinion was on that top tier level as well.
Hoping you would include her in your list in future, just a suggestion.
Thanks brother and keep up the good work. 👍🏼
While Diane Carroll was also a beautiful woman in her day, I saw photos of them together from back in the day and Diane paled by comparison which was impressive.
Oh...one more bonus baddy too I was in love with was Vanity to me she was also a 10.
Curious to know what you think..
I’ve been telling the girl I like that she doesn’t need the fake eyelashes since we been talking. I find em and throw em away if she leaves them at my house. 🤷🏾♂️
@@hangingwithbigjohn8401 KS has mentioned Dorothy Dandridge before as being a 10
Helmet Hair!
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Ladies just lose the weight. My husband dated me as a plus size woman an then Married me as a plus size woman. However one day out of no where he told me he rather I was smaller an it broke me. I gave every argument "you married me like this", etc. But at the end of the day if I had taken better care of myself it would never been a conversation. Never allow yourself to be less than you could have been, an not just for him but also for yourself.
@anelle Wiley you gave up ok incel
As a plus sized woman I was thinking that while watching this. I started my weightloss journey earlier this year but have started to plateau and your testimony is right on time for me! Thanks for sharing.
Ew a pick me
@@jasminekayukwalanasummers9551 how is she a pick me when she is already MARRIED!!!!!!?????? Someone already picked her 🙄
@Honey Latte well said ma'am! I think a lot of guys find themselves in this position where they love a woman but aren't attracted or lose attraction to her because of the weight. Society has tried to indoctrinate guys into thinking its not a problem, if you love her you should be attracted to her no matter what, etc. But at the end of the day, you can't beat biology. And unless the man has an obesity fetish, he wishes you were smaller ladies.
My father used to say, don’t try to understand women. They understand each other and they hate each other.
hahaha that will never get old.
🎯🎯🎯
Sign O the Times Al Bundy never told anyone to never trust anything that bleeds for a week and lives.
Women in the USA and the Caribbean who are descendants of slaves have been adversely impacted by slavery and oppression. The DNA and psyche of their ancestors has been damaged and this creates behavior problems. They then repeat the negative behaviors of their mothers and grandmothers; while most times, fathers are absent. The home is thereby imbalanced and becomes a henhouse of sorts.
Black women have been taught to confront, attack, deflect, and argue when they are angry or frustrated. They also have not been taught to manage interpersonal relations and these patterns are unfortunately passed down to the children. We must change these awful dynamics.
Etiquette, good values, poise, discipline, sexual activity, etc., must be addressed.
Lol....
They are good at ranking each other, they'll just do it behind each other's backs
Facts 💯
Yep in the group chat 😂
Funny! So, true...
10000000%
I agree, they play dumb and manipulate. How could they not size each other up?
These women need to stop lying about their weight! It's so annoying. I used to be a 4 and I weighed low 112-122lbs. Then I was a 6 as I got into the mid to high 120s. I was an 8 in the low 130s. Stop saying you're either 150 or 160 lbs and a size 6 😂
If you don't take care of yourself. Why would anyone else?
Its really as simple as that
Exactly. Samething i have been preaching.
Since covid i continue to work out with my fitness coach monday to Friday from 8am ro 9am by zoom.
Prior to covid, i was up at 5am to get to workout with her for 730am. Its there for those who want it.
Working out is an addiction for me.
Exactly
My ex needs to understand this
Damn!!! I felt that!
After a man takes the time to make himself able to provide for a family comfortably, we want a feminine, cooperative, non-obese, childless, cute(6 plus) woman that’s in a healthy child bearing age bracket so we can have healthy kids of our own. Most Black women have the potential to be attractive if they had a healthy Body weight. Weight alone knocks out 80 percent, the 20 percent left we have to minus the those with kids, then minus the non-cooperative who came from broken households who can’t be trained. We are down to about 3 to 5 percent of Black women, if that. Then everybody looking at Black men crazy when statistics now show that over 1/3 of Black college educated career men are marrying outside the race. This channel is the lifeline that we need.
Well said sir, well said
I wish I could say something ANYTHING in this post is inaccurate but, it absolutely isn't wrong.
Probably one of the best comments I've read ever regarding these concerns.
Should have WAAAAY more likes!! 🙌🏽
Those are wealthy men.
true
The purpose of this information is to educate and improve our lives. I have much respect for these brave women that called and received his critiques on video. How many people can honestly let someone they don't know rate their looks to over the internet live to who knows how many viewers?.
Guys are in this thread bashing BW as if its some form of payback on all BW. None of us men are perfect so lets be positive and support our women. If BW don't feel we support them -especially when the are trying to be what [we men] want them to be then what's the point? Let Kevin evaluate you live online and see what they say? Guys you know dm well we as men can be just as delusional about how we rate ourselves. Lets keep it real....Thanks
Well said
The Dr lady said Doctors dont tell people what they need to weigh... i disagree, they tell men what they need to weigh all the time
@Farhiya A your mirror only shows what you think of yourself. Don't worry about image, get healthy, focus on your mental health and the rest shall come. If you love you for you, everyone bis gonna love you
My doctor back hands my belly. 🥶
(And my BMI is 26)
Shoot my dr told me lmaooo which made me get in the gym and switch up my eating .
Doctors do not tell people what weight they should be as that specific number is different for everyone. They will usually just say “you need to lose/gain some weight”
These women who say they don't remember or know Diahann Carol, Halle Berry, Lela Rochon, Vivica, and Jada in Set It Off must be 19 years old. No way these late 20s in 30s don't know these nine or ten-rated actresses. Just know Beyonce.
You know you done messed up,when KS starts using the term"French Toast"😂
😂🤣😅😆
Women generally get compliments and positive reinforcement from the men who are after them. Meanwhile, the guys who are doing the chasing get mostly dissed, rude comments negative reinforcement. After years of being subjected to that type of treatment, many women develop a huge ego not befitting what they offer and many men end up struggling with their self-confidence and self-esteem.
That is a very true statement and I wish men would stop validating them as most of the time it serves them no purpose!
a lot of women have the "Big fish in a small pond" problem. because they were at the top of the food chain in a small pond they think they are a dime. a miami 9 and a idaho 9 will be completely different. I seen this at my college. Chicks that won miss university are still single at 40. They think they are dimes but they were really 7's and 8's all along.
💯 Exactly!!! You hit the nail on that one
When I’m in LA I pull very beautiful women because there’s so many of them.
Many are actually really 5's without the makeup.
You are being too generous...lol
"still single at 40s" = 36 - 60 no mans land.
Yes! I used to live in Alabama, and even the fat girls think they are 8s. I had to GET OUT
Women give women horrible relationship advice based on feelings, fantasy, and exceptions to the rule. And by the time they realize they got bad advice, they're past their prime. Their best years are gone. Men give women excellent relationship advice based on facts, truth, and observable reality. Women in their 30s need to accept that the dye on the rest of their life has been cast. They should be teaching young teen girls on how to avoid their situation. That requires a high level of maturity.
True, too many of them are trying to justify their own bad decisions by downplaying the significance to the next generation thus perpetuating the cycle
100% truth
GYM at 6am! Y'all listening to that. That is your competition.
Most of these lazy women can't compete lol
Good she can exercise for both of us
I’m so glad he spoke about weave and wigs! I wore wigs in high school when I was trying to grow out my air but after wearing them so often the combs pulled out my hair in certain places. Anyways, I’m so glad I threw them away and learned to love my natural curly hair.
@sahra Khasim girl me too! I don’t know what my mama was thinking when she started putting that crap on my head. It took me so long to grow my hair back, I straighten it about 4 to 6 times a year now though.
@sahra Khasim Thank you! That’s my goal! If I don’t do anything else right I’m my life I hope that I can help contribute to the betterment of the future by raising my children to be better.
@sahra Khasim My step mom you to relax my hair and burned it all out so baby it almost changed the texture .. I never perm my hair and neither does my daughters .. They wear it natural .. one wears a curly red afro! 😃
yay for natural hair!
You should write a book about it! Or create a channel based on just that!
For me, this isn't even hate watch. I really like what you have to say. In all honesty. Probably because I'm an older woman, but I can accept a lot of what you say and it takes some of us a decade or so to get here 🤷🏾♀️
Shelly Daniels OMG you may be on to something, maybe it’s because I’m older that I get what he’s saying!! 🙈🤣
It makes me sad it took so long and so many might not ever get it...why is that? I guess its not yall fault...
@@claudiapimentel1373 Nah! Your culture just raised you right
Sadly that's when reality hit most women. Some won't get it til' they hit 60 or even 70
He totally makes sense am 21 and really like what his saying cause it’s the honest truth
kellly rowland > Beyonce = automatic like, Ive thought this for yearrrrsssss.....
Same!
Kelly Rowland is beautiful but not a 9
Kelly always had my heart ❤️😂
a key point though was the body, they both at the same level
@@aTruthJunkie some women can't help the fact they have wider hips. White men love fit women, that's been said white men never said I just want a thin framed woman. Fit not skinny.
Sir Kevin,
I hope you are well! I’m thankful you are a cancer survivor. That is a very tough time. May you continue to stay in good health!
It may not be the most interesting topic, but I would love to see a video for the women who marry young and watch their husbands grow in higher value years later. Advice to help these women to keep value up as time isn’t forgiving to our youth, and having children can change our bodies and make it a struggle to take care of ourselves. I personally want to continue bettering myself because whether my husband is a high earner or not, he deserves the best and I wish to give that to him. And he is too kind to tell me my flaws.
Blessings and good vibes to you!
I never realized how much Beyonce and young/prime Pam Grier resemble each other until after Kevin mentioned it. 🤔... it's true actually...
It's one of the main reasons Beyonce was chosen for The "Goldmember" Austin Powers movie.
Random question; is it just me, or does any other guy out there think that the birth of their first child is WAY more special with a woman who has no kids compared to ones that already had one?
I said the same thing. Am 37 with no children.
And i just ask that my first child be the woman's first child.
This is why it’s best to marry by age 25. The longer you wait, the more likely it is for both men and women to have had a child slip through the cracks (I married at 24, 3 kids born in marriage, best decision ever).
YES! Especially if the child was planned for in marriage.
@C Mac I would have assumed the same as well for women. It creates a special type of bond if done correctly.
@@glendamaynard Well, because of my poor choices early in life (I'm 29 now), I guess the lightbulb in my head went off the moment when I was 27 to get my life straight. I'm past 25, but because I'm working my way to at least become a Henry, or hopefully a HVM, I am working on myself and my career. It's easier said than done, but I like to think of it as once it's my time, hopefully the right on will come along. The way a lot of women are nowadays, there's no telling what will happen...
I wonder what Kevin would rate these Instagram models 😂😂I would love to see that commentary.
Those women are caked up and angled up. Filters and all. Fresh out the shower with her natural hair... Most IG models are average.
They have decent faces with a sexy body. Average
He has a show were he talks about that, he just said that the average person doesn't want to date that in real life that's for rap videos etc. (Not in those words but that's the sum of it)
@@jeromehenderson8783 do you know the name of this video. I would like to hear it.
@W SMYTHE BATES 😂😭😭not at all
"do you look like what he earns"
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Wow.... Shots fired with one question!
Kelly rowland is pretty but has a fake nose and fake breasts
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Okay!!
@@nathangraham5438 That's all you got, on Kelly? Everybody and their mama is getting(or already got) fake tits, ass, too long lashes and plastic surgery ...what did I miss?
For 6 months I wear my natural hair and for 6 months I wear braids during Spring and Summer months here in Miami cause my hair gets more sweat and I swim too. So that works for me. I was my hair 3 times a week during the months I'm styling it naturally. Makeup is once in a while or if I'm taking pics for business wise.
I love seeing natural hair on BW. Even better is when they sport a natural Afro.
@@alexblaze8878 afros are cute.
@@beatsdontstop305 yeah. I’m a white guy and have only dated white women but when a BW walks by with an Afro, I’m like “yeah I’d take her on a date”
@@alexblaze8878 Lol
man these some hard looking chicks and they want a guy making six figures. lmfao
😵”The bar to sMaSh is VERY LOW”🥴. He ain’t lying 💯
😅😂😂😂 limbo low😂
The monologue is hilarious! 😂😂💀 Gotta love it. Long live The Godfather🕊
Weaves are out of control and tons of makeup and long spider lashes like be natural but then again these dudes still giving these females attention and they blow they heads up
True .....but it’s confusing because men will say they like the more natural look but then stare at the fake chick with the long weave, boob job and bbl.... I wish Kevin would explain that.
Your show is right on hard relationship reality truths.
Many people avoid the truth ? Thank you Kevin !
you are abs right. the truth will set us all free. we all need to put in more work, both men and women.
I saw a 6'1" brother working in walmart last year. "It" weighed (at least) 200 lbs and was wearing a long ass lace front wig, had fake eyelashes, eyeliner and long as nails. I almost threw up in my mouth! I just couldn't believe all the sisters co-signing to that being okay.
They’re everywhere i live in NY
Lmaooooo @ 42:27 "I'm seeing some straight up sorcery with this makeup" that's the truest statement on the internet
facts
Make up is literally witchcraft according to scripture
It's scary
Bofl that part took me completely out I sweeeaarrrrrr 💀💀💀😭😂
No matter where Kevin is at, he knows how to set a vibe!
Pick me 🤮
Ol' waterhead likes some elevator music.
Hey big head!!
Right now he's setting a vibe in heaven. I know he got in. God Bless him. 🙌
I just looked up Diahann Carroll and had flashbacks from my childhood. Kevin is so right its sickening. She is drop dead gorgeous and I remember seeing her on TV as a kid.
Exactly, so was Lena Horne and Dorothy Dandridge. Straight up gorgeous
@@Mike_M. All of them have a light complexion. Any darker complexion women who you think are gorgeous?
@@sbostic08 Ain't nobody got to hype up darker complexion women
@@booneboone9705 Speak for yourself. It's clear you are a colorist you knuckle dragging troglodyte.
@@sbostic08 stop it . He said Kelly Rowland that
He ain't there to be NICE. He's there to tell the TRUTH!🙄
Because guys wanting to get at the box pump their heads up.
Pretty much this.....
Scientifically, symmetry IS beauty. PERIOD. This is NOT up for debate. This is true throughout nature, not just with humans.
I kinda like those asymmetrical skirts and dresses. And also the haircuts.
I like how he stated a scientific fact and everybody responded with how they feel. That’s funny
Geechie82 If she looks like a dog in the face it would more than likely be because her face isn’t symmetrical. Smh
Geechie82 Do you know what symmetrical even means? Go google it and do some research cause you’re not making any sense right now.
@Urodium Excelsior ancient egyptians thought this to it is not just a western thing. Nature literally follows the Golden ratio its not philosophy it is math.
He said hair helmets.😂😂Then I thought of how many times I’ve seen women in dc that looked like warren sapp wearing a helmet and a dress in my lifetime🤣😂
Warren Sapp! That's cold 😂🤣😂😂but I know you not lying
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Hilarious
Bruh I can’t believe that one lady who’s in Atlanta said she’s a 9. She is beyond delusional.
Thats Atlanta for you. The worst girl experiences your ever have in your life
She’s good looking you men exaggerate
@@kittyearsheadbands8810 our truth is never taking serious or respected, we have no reason to exaggerate, how will people grow if they can't take the truth, this is whats holding yall back from reaching yall potential, it all starts with accepting the truth and truth is nobody want a lady like that at all
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@king Muhammad did he show her? I missed it.
Doctor's in Arkansas will flat out tell any person what they should weight.... LOL.
Weight is a noun. (“What is her weight”)
Weigh is a verb. (“What does she weigh”)
If we want to be taken seriously we need to first speak correctly.
The funniest part of all of this is how many 7s wouldve been on calls if he didnt remove it as an option
Theres a fine line between confident and delusional
I had sort of known that women over estimated themselves but I didn't fully appreciate it until seeing your show.
I had noticed some stats a few years back but your method of forcing callers to rate themselves with the "no 7" rule it is very stark.
It illustrates so much.
Thank you for the show tonight Kevin. It was amazing like always 😌☺️
You are gorgeous queen 😘
@@TheMegaStPatrickShowpppppppppppppppppppppp
Death and burial to the wigs and weaves... I would Never date or take any woman serious who wear a wig. A quality weave is tolerable but not preferred... Natural beauty (healthy skin, healthy hair, healthy nails, flat stomach, bright smile, bright or clear eyes (there goes the weed smokers and alcoholics), in shape, etc.) overall, with a nice lip stick or lip gloss, will win over fake any day. A very light make-up is okay for a special night out or an event, not as a daily ritual.
I've noticed that marginal, average, plain, vanilla White women seem to understand their place when it comes to this looks thing.
Most of them seem to be the sweetest, most feminine and polite women to deal with.
They know that can't compete with the higher tier beautiful to pretty women in their group , so they compensate by being more feminine and wifey material, and it generally works in their race to a degree...
Not true
Wolf's also wear sheep clothing!
@@RonniedonnieBrown
If you can state facts to refute what i'm saying instead of a " Not True", then your point would have more validity
i see this stuff everyday, and Whites have a much much higher marriage rates and successful marriage rates than Blacks
Just sating facts folks..
tom11zz884 they just don’t divorce bro, they’re going through the same shit. A white woman would agree with a open marriage, black women just quit too early
White women are the perfect compliment for black men just like ebony and ivory
These videos about rating women are fascinating. He makes it an art form. Thank you. Honestly, I guess it is like appraising art work. Cool.
My mans educated on the Fibonacci sequence? How can you hate this man
Damn 80% overweight. I was luck my only relationship have been with skinnier women.
Maybe this comes with age but the women in my circle are brutally honest..Even if we get mad at each other..We take what was said and improve it..The more I embrace my femininity the more changes i will make..
Women wearin makeup, wigs, an girdles. Idk if they 28 or 58
Naw bro some woman start wearing that stuff young now
@@DeADvElOciRaPtor sick smh
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A small touch of makeup is ok! Not pancake thick!
Thank you! Young women need to hear this.
Modern women: “I’m a 10” 😁
Kevin: How much do you weigh? 🤔
Modern women: 😳
Kevin please keep the Doctor coming on your show. She's always on point but you. Know this already you and her doin a show every month once a month will be. Awesome and priceless.
"Earlier this week"
"Today is monday"
Lmao
The 4’11” 105 woman was more of an adjustable 6.
I never thought Kevin would be explaining feminichi. That's real knowledge right there
Women over-rely on makeup and age quicker because of it. When its said and done, men are interested in someone that is beautiful in their natural state.Great show
Once these women do the work to find a high value man, they'll stop doing what it took to get him, and go back to their old rachet ways.
They are harsh when ranking men and delusional when rating women
That girl at 1:17:48 was very pretty, and petite. I wonder if it was her real hair. She was perfect for marriage size.
This information is helpful. We men bear some responsibility for this. A lot of 8s and 9s will deal with women who are 6 to 4s on a short term basis. This behavior distorts the relationship market creating the dysfunction and delusions.
But this is the part that the women fail to realize with that. Just because a man is a 8-9 and will sleep with a 3-6, doesn’t mean they want to marry them. A guy will hangout with or entertain (my friends and I call it “renting”) a woman for a couple or weeks or months that’s well below what he wants in a mate. In the same aspect, The same rented woman will consider herself way above her natural ranking because she has been rented out a couple of times by guys way out of her league, and now she feels this is what she deserves.
Faces that are evenly distributed are considered the most beautiful, its more about numbers not spirals examples being eyes, ears, nose, mouth and ears equidistant from one another. Its how models are chosen
If a woman picks “7” and when Kevin disallows it, chooses a “6”, most of the time she is a real 4 or a 3.
Rest in power King 👑👑👑
Black sisters need help ❣.
They need to first know who they are and learn how to fit in black men's programmes... This is the only way you can then take charge of your man's heart, love and affection. That man will go all out for you. I swear this 💥👑
Excellent Video as usual, one woman I would add to the List would be Salma Hayek. In her Prime she was a 11 🔥🔥🔥. Keep the videos coming I love the whip and taps music and sounds 🤣🤣🤣
I concur sir.. I absolutely concur. She's still an 8 IMO.
Ladies! Do you look like what he earns? Classic!
God awful lace fronts!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅😅😅
I bought those fragrances that you reviewed and spoke on in one of your videos. but I bought the essential oils. That's for brothers out there that's living on a budget you can always get the essential oil and save money.
Oils are actually more effective than most fragrances that use a high percentage of alcohol or water.
Perfume (actual Perfume that usually costs $100-200 per OUNCE, not what most people think of) has the highest oil concentration.
The benefit to essential oils is that they are very long lasting and are not overpowering.
peace and prosperity my brother. SEE ITS NOT HARD TO ENGAGE
Why the f do some women come on the show in bath robes? Would you go on other shows in your sleep wear?
I like out-of-town Kevin
right!
We are great at ranking each other in Chicago😂. We quick to say you ugly or beautiful or 6 at best. We laugh and keep it moving.
Caller: I'm a 5'2" Welterweight.
KS: No, you're a 5'2" Middleweight! Good luck with that!
It’s an interesting insight in that women don’t want to hurt each other’s feelings yet they have absolutely no problem completely gutting a man. Guess they’ll all be living in these co friend arrangements with their cats and dogs. Good luck with that.
A woman is a 10 to somebody... it is based on an individual. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
But to the world she is a..
First time I've heard a woman rank herself as low as four and Kevin had to rank her higher :)
Kevin should start an Interior Design Business.
He has an eye for beauty and class.
The way this same room was one week ago and how it looks now, is amazing.
Last week I saw a black woman who looked like Big Bird from Sesame street, Big Mama looked as if she's in her late twenties, she was wearing yellow gym shoes , yellow leggings , a yellow sweat shirt and a long blonde wig , she appeared to weigh around 350 pounds, or more . I wanted to take a picture but , Big Bird got away !
Maybe she coming from the gym lol
The mfkn boss has arrived, imagine where this man is gonna be in 10 years. God status
a woman will take him down. its inevitable.
Never God status. He’s just a man. Something is off with him. I listen to his show for the entertainment value.
59:44 depending on who you ask that girl is an 8. 6 is a pretty modest rating she gave herself though.
An adjustable 6 is really a 6.5 - 8.5 depending on how she put herself together. Super legit rating 👌
I just came across Kevin recently. Every video, he's downing a redbull. I can't help but think this is why he's gone.
Especially having hypertension. I'm a retired ol head so I be in my own little world most of the time lol & didn't come across KS until after he passed. I couldn't believe no one mentioned that to him about the red bull as I had found out about the affects of drinking too much of it back in like 2005. I'm 48yo & retired as I mentioned but I have a 23yo son & when I started watching this kinda content I was talking to him about it. He just said "Yea I know Pops I'm out here seeing the shit firsthand" lol
I like the ambience of the room and that we can see Kevin more clearly. ❤️
I think KS is using the dress sizes of high end brands. I’m a man (6’2”, 220) and I wear a 3xl/4L/58/60 in LV and Gucci. These are there largest sizes. I wear a large tall (I have longer arms - 37 inch sleeve) in American sizes. I would bet most of the women are using mall brand American (think American Eagle) or H&M measurements (which are very flattering - I believe its called “ego-sizing”).
He gotta chill with that Kelly Rowland over Beyoncé lol and I love me some kelly Rowland
maybe because Kelly is not mixed like Beyonce, who knows.
You a good one I would of be roasting these mud ducks. They would dog a guy that thinks he deserves a dime piece and is a solid 2.
Halle Berry > Pam Grier. That caller is trippin lol. Stacy Dash was a 10 in the 90s no one can dispute me.
Berry is definitely prettier than Grier. I agree, Dash was a 10 in the 90s.
Hmmmmm... I’m not sure where he gets his statistics. According to CDC the avg American man weighs 195 lbs and 5’9. 168 lbs is very small for an American man. 168 lbs for an avg European man seems more realistic.
Nutrition/diet/fitness and training is hard! Very hard so cut out all the fake hair, fake nails, fake lashes, implants, survives and work out instead. It will be cheaper and make you feel better on the inside....the real healing.
If you’re a child of God clothed in your right mind you’re a 10! And don’t need any further approval than that. Smile and have a blessed day.
Facts😀,
I'm so got dong tired of him calling Kelly a 9... she is NOT the standard of beauty!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I agree she pretty to me that's it
Yeah...sad to say, after the third time a woman suggested setting me up with her "beautiful friend"...I made up my mind never to trust that. I'm sure they have beautiful souls. But two were overweight, one was overweight with a child and ten years older than me, and one...she was in shape and I'm sure she was decent, but hers was the kind of beauty that grows on you through time spent together. The problem with that, is if you aren't attracted from the get-go, I learned not to toy with that. Because you're basically spending time with this person, "hoping" that you become attracted to her. And if she develops feelings for you quicker than you are able to get attracted to her, it gets sad and messy.
I'm going through this now.
Damn
Omg 😭😂😂😂😂
This was me but with family. I’m atleast a 6 in the face and a 9 in the body. They to this day are trying to set me up with an overweight 4.
Crazy...
True.
Burst out laughing at the shirtless dude.
I know this didn't necessarily come up but, Ppl bother me with that "big boned" theory. I say theory because that's what it is and a wrong theory at that. Fact is there's no such thing as big boned. We all have the same bone structure. Of course men are larger than women. I said all that to say, We as women have to accept responsibility. Stop being cop outs. Only WE can fix us. Let's get busy ladies. We've gotta stop with the excuses
Finally someone that tells the truth about the rating. I've always said that most women are a 5 at best. That's not ugly it's average. I've never seen a 10. I don't think they exist because a 10 is perfection. And we always say no one is perfect. A 6 is usually the prettiest girl on the block. And 4's and 3's are what most guys are dating. The short, overweight, wide woman with the big belly. They call them thick. It is what it is, and I live in Chicago.
Most men are average. You attract what you are not what you want
There a plenty 10's out there just google world's most beautiful women and you will see
No 6 is above average "cute" 8s and 9s are pretty and beautiful sir.
Being fat is not the same as being thick ladies. Hit the gym & eat healthy.
It would have been better if we had a split screen with the women he’s ranking cuz this sucked I could barely see who he was talking to long enough to get a clear visual of who he was ranking 👎
Funny as most men can rate their looks. They know if they are overweight, short, not a solid jaw line. Average men were told that since junior high. They can look at a male model and tell. Strangely, women can also subjectively judge other women. They know when an attractive women is in the room, when one isn't competition, etc. They might trash talk them, but they know. However, when it comes to themselves, they just won't. You can take a dozen model or actress pics go through the list and women will agree they are all thin, long straight hair, clear complexion, white perfect teeth, no tattoos or piercings, hourglass figure, etc. and... then say they are exceptions to each of these. Some men like tattoos, and some men like curves, etc.
Women will say they are 9s or 10s when they aren't beauty pageant queens, actresses, models, dancers, gymnasts, etc. or otherwise don't earn a living based on looks and yet, they are so high value.
*"beauty is my muse"~The Godfather*
😂😂You said Beyonce was an 8 and Kelly Rowland is a 9. And both of them have on wigs and weaves constantly. Then, he goes on to tell women to get rid of the wigs and weaves. 😂😂 That’s hilarious. But, he is correct on the superficial requirements of the type of men he’s speaking about.
These ladies are constantly in front of the camera, make up and entertaining crowds on TV...kelly Rowland is indeed a strong 9-9.5 easy..
@@alonzoquinones8976 Yes, that is the main reason for all the wigs and makeup. My question is, since you never seen Kelly or Beyonce as they look in real life, I wonder if you would still have s the same rating? Or are men just looking at Their bodies and ignoring their face and hair? Then again, In this clip, the gentleman made it seem as if it’s a bad thing for women to wear wigs and weaves, but the women he rates high constantly wear them and he’s evaluating their attractiveness with wigs and weaves. That was really my question? I’d love to hear your ideas on this subject.
@@heartstrings110 I think he may just be using that as reference for women who think they are an 8 or higher. Not only that I think he is purely talking about facial features
@@heartstrings110 beyonce is a average looking chick nothing special about her
I agree with what you saying, he should choose females that are naturally 8-9-10
But at the same time Beyoncé a good person because she not just about looks. She has more value than just that.