By Giving you may DESTROY un-evolved person's LIFE - Sadhguru about Misplaced compassion
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ส.ค. 2024
- -Almost everyone is deprived of something or the other.
-simply giving somebody something is Dangerous
-the trouble that one can get into just by giving indiscriminately
-If not ready,If you receive something the great gift may become a great curse.
-both the giver and the receiver can be in a lot of trouble simply by giving something or by receiving something for which they are not ready.
-Misplaced compassion always comes from your ego;
-Genuine compassion is possible, when there is nothing to fulfill in you, you are just doing what is needed.
-An un-evolved person, if you give him something, you will only overburden him. You will only destroy his life.
-gift a ton of gold to an ant, it will only crush the ant.
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Never do something because you want to look or feel good. Do it because it is necessary.
What about sleeping with so?
@@alexwentoutside6843 same.
What if it is necessary to feel good :3
@@rashione982 I love you!!! It is the necessity n u m e r u n o, stop the ascetism ppl
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This was a really great talk that sadhguru gave. It made me think quite a bit. I am glad that I heard it because I really needed to hear this message. This helps me understand why my relationship was going down the well. I took a man that I met from a friend to go for a walk and something to eat ,the second day I went to spend time with him where he lived. When I arrived as he opened the door 🚪 there was just a worn down bed and no where to sit or eat he was poor but I really liked him after 5 months of getting to know him,I told him that I could feel sadness inside his room 😢 😔. He responded,how did you know that? I told him I could just feel the energy in the room. That very night I came to a decision and told him that I was getting a new apartment and asked him if he would like to live a new life and feel better and that I wanted to give him everything I could,love him with all that I can and then marry him. He left the room and moved into my home but he was secretly indecisive and he was still paying the rent for his room without telling me. Anyways he told me that he wanted to marry me. I responded that yes I want marriage and children,he looked very happy. Years went by and we were 6 years engaged. We had a baby and our baby died around Christmas,I became depressed 😔 because we both really wanted a baby. I was renting out the whole bottom of the 🏠 house known as a basement apartment in 🇨🇦 Canada. I paid for everything because I wanted him to feel loved and cared for. I bought him clothes,shoes,ACoat and fed him every day. I noticed when I got home he heavly smelt of alcohol on his breath ,I questioned him where he got the money for alcohol,he said that he found it 😏 🤣 lol anyways.... I told him that I quit drinking alcohol about a year before I met him and that part of my rules in my home is to communicate with me and not to bring alcohol into my home because I no longer wanted alcohol or drugs in my life or around me. Then the next month I found a secret phone he had and he was not being faithful to me. I took pictures with my phone of his texts and sexually related stuff, I asked him the next day if he still loves me,and he said yes and was asking me exactly what I just asked him ,he told me that I was overreacting. So I showed him every email,text messages,Facebook messenger replies with naked photos and his discussions with many women that he loves them and that they are "Hot" He denied it,but then I told him that I knew everything and every place he was going to when he was saposed to be working 😠 Then I found a used opened condom in his pants about to do the laundry and it was not from us as partners. The same night I found sexy Lingerie from a very skinny woman I found blonde long hairs on it 😥 that was not mine of course lol 😆. He told me he was working but he was not. He was paying rent for his old room so that he could be irresponsible with alcohol,use me,lie to me and live a double life. I was very niave thinking that helping this man and our love growing would last!!! No after the 6 years of being engaged to marry ,I told him to leave my home and never come back and that was the end of everything. I wanted to help this man out and give him a nice life and my helping nature in me only in the end hurt both of us. Anyways it was a big wake up call that there is something better arriving in my life .He was not Ready for such a Big Change that fast because he did not earn it and knew nothing about things that come fast can go away as fast . Anyways It was a very important lesson to be learned. At first I was sad but now I am happy about it.
hey stranger ... you are very strong
Thanks for sharing your stories so sad but you overcome it .
Quite a story, the guy wasn't ready, and didn't deserved you clearly after of what he have to you. Not judge him anyway, everyone is on his evolutionary level! All the best finding someine who Will deserve you!
thank for sharing
my you did it for God and not fir him or because you want favor God will definitely reward you for that
I hope all is well wow that’s terrible I feel for you
The more you give, the more people will want, especially relatives, and start fighting when you stop giving. I have experienced in my past twenty five years, when I was working in gulf.
@Anil.. Soooo true 💯
I was one of those people who gave for the wrong reason's. I am definitely learning and have stopped that.
Thank you Sadhguru.
Yes we learn
So did you stop giving?... or did you stop giving for the wrong reasons?
If you give and give people will take advantage of you, and they will think that you are obligated to do everything for them.
So true.
That's true I been thinking about other people and been giving what I could do for them....and return what did I got from them people ahahhaahah, am was shocked, I was not expect anything back but don't do bad, but I believe in karma what's goes around, comes around to, from me I pray to God bless everyone in this world, I can pray but every thing is in God hand
Human nature,you will get no thanks from them ,because you will give yourself the thanks,you give to them ,as if they are you,for they are you,everything is you.the one
@@govenergovener5666 you are god ,you are all,I'm you ,you are me,its all one
we have had system here where everyone have right to study, healthcare, house and food. Good stable society is good for all. Education is good for all. No homeless, little crime, no dying because you dont have money for cancer treatment. No unreachable university dream for poor people. It only works if you have people who have same moral values and possibilities because someone gives. We give taxes for this purpose now if you have shitty covernment, large number of people not willing to work for benefit of all, not willing to give and dont have same values...It doesnt work then. Education, unified people, good coverment, good moral system. You plant good seeds in good soil, take out the weeds, examine the plants and control nutrients and water. Let forces and nature do the rest. Good harvest is then possible. this works for individual and for society. this is ashtanga yoga.
Never give with the expectation of receiving something in return.
Yes, it's true, I've experienced it in my Guru and one of his followers.
He left this immortal world in heavy
Pains after fulfilled his desire. Today after viewing this video, I can
Co-relate the things.
You just destroy world market with this stronk idea LOL
Nonsense Kathleen ; I invest as a shareholder and expect to have returns on my investments ; grow up Kathleen you are like a child
@@iamasmurf1122 By your own admission, you are investing, not giving. Please learn the difference between an investment and a gift. Get a dictionary, if you must. I also expect a return when I invest.
@@kathleenmckenzie6261 ...great comment, and great reply to that asshole!😆
Sadhguru I just want to say thank you for all that you do. In America they don’t teach us anything that we need to learn like how to exist in our body peacefully. Everything is absurd here nothing makes sense and I’ve stopped trying to understand how things got like this but anyways thank you thank you thank you. I’m forever grateful
America does not have this Ability yet ! What Sadhguru knows is from an experience in a place full of experiences in the collective universe for centuries .. America is still yet a child just living off of other experiences until it matures to it's experiences it can not give the experience such as that of what Sadhguru knows ..we can visit that in a thousand years ! Just my opinion
Unfortunately I am American but I quite agree. I do not like it here. It's too materialistic. The self is what matters, your spiritual well being. I only wish I could live abroad in a country where things are basic. Ppl here don't know what true necessities are. It's truly sad.
It's a choice. You are free to move wherever your heart's desires. Peace out♥️
@@lilflamingo9529 Unfortunately you are only focusing on the negative things in America… Here in America we have spiritual freedoms that many other countries don’t. There are countless spiritual people here that don’t follow the dogma of religion. There is a shift, an awakening that is happening all over the planet, including America. Learn to be happy right where you are and embrace the freedom to roam wherever you wish and the ability to practice whatever you believe in. Namaste 🙏 💕
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Damn. I just went to school. Again. Thank you.
I realized I should not ‘ask’ when I was a little child. Much gratitude for this confirmation🙏
God wants us all to be be genuine givers of the heart without expectations
its hard to value that which you haven't earned.
I been researching alot but this gentleman gave me the best advice with truthful meaning of life
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I agree.
@@rajensonbadhar9027 ymorning ffutuft u
Amen amin
@@rajensonbadhar9027 q
If you are in the right place at the right time and is able to help do so..dont tell everyone and boast..just help detach and go about your day
If you have to ask for it you are not ready for it. If you are ready for it, it will happen on its own without you asking for it.
So true.
True.
@@marionmaierphilonatura qñ
Not sure there ,I think you still need to ask and then let it go ,it shall then happen,for the need in your heart is there,you don't get what you want,you only get what you need.want comes from the mind,need comes from the heart
Rubbish. This is over simplified sentiment. I have given you this wisdom, even though you didn't ask, so by your own logic this is the perfect loop.
Thank you for this wonderfully practicable and liberating teaching. So often I have given people things because I wanted to feel better about myself and in the end no one benefitted in the long term.
I have made a mistake of helping someone's wish which later became a curse for us
Only Shiva and Buddha knows past, present and future and can help in beneficial way.
Yeah. Me too, and it seems that i am the bad now. I hoped that the person would change but not.
I don't regret what i did.
I regret the time wasted on wrong person.
I have personnaly had this experience with my own brother when out of brotherhood and care I turned him into a Lion who then tried to eat me.Thanks for sharing this wisdom.
Misplaced compassion is another words called ,,idiot compassion,, and can stir up things instead of improve and really destroy somebody life. Very powerful advice from Sadhguru.
Exactly!
@@starchild1809 :)
SORRY. NOT. TO. BE. RUDE. NEED. TO. GIVE WISELY AND NOT BLINDLY
Giving and Receiving are one in Truth. ACIM
Compassion can be egotistical. We want to be elevated, validated and praised.
Empowering a person is more compassionate than just gorging them with stuff.
Compassion has nothing to do with giving or receiving, true compassion is crying out for anothers suffering, true compassion has no ego".
@@whitelodgetarot1614 People get confused with compassion and enabling.
I needed this a year and 6 months ago when I gave to a girl that wasnt ready to recieve love. I only empied myself
Now you Know, more fully.
Hi Marko I am sorry to hear this. It sounds painful
It's not to late, God is good,a good friend is like good wine enjoy life , and love your self
Simply by interacting with someone, you may be partially responsible for their life and what becomes of it.
Exactly!!
@@godofwealthfortuneandprosp6730 GOD is everything, and that is why it is important to find out what part of GOD you are.
Compassion comes from God. He puts it in our Hearts and when one is in tune with their Nature the urge to give is Divine, just as the River flowing. Giving with the clanging of cymbals and the banging of drums has nothing to do with compassion. Peace be with us all.
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Agreed
Which God does the compassion come from, the jesus God, Hindu, muslim
I definitely smile more because of Sadhguru. Namaste.💫❤️💫🙏🏻💫💞💫🌏💚✌🏼💫
I love this story! I could sit and listen to him tell stories until the end of time.
The Proffesional "Do Gooders" in California have, unintentionally caused it to become a state many people no longer want to live in.
The road to hell is paved with good intentions.
hopefully it makes a place where a racist would be less likely to want to live
We live in the beat of times. We have Sadhguru. Isn’t it?
Yes
Perfectly said. I was just saying this to a friend the other day . There is a process and we have to allow people to go through that for their own growth and enlightenment.
SO please dont taxes also
Genuine compassion is just doing what needed.. very true..
i was told by a healer , THAT if the soul of a person wants to experience certain type of deprivation, such as being sick and you went ahead healed this person WITHOUT ASKING PERMISSION FROM THE PERSON'S SOUL , ayyy....you're in for a gruesome karma.
I TOTALLY AGREE WITH SADHGURU. I'M AN EMPATH , it is an illness that runs in my family. We'd give until it hurts , and in my experience , giving to unevolved person is giving myself a KARMA. but we don't learn our lessons. we still help. sad.
Omg this describes my life! Since I was a child, all the chaos I went through I thought I had to take it from others to relieve them! I thought I was helping. And now I live in torment while they have peace and satisfaction. I never loved myself but thank goodness I know and understand now. Wow 😳 this has me screaming inside!!! #%^*€£>£¥*#*•&
Only thing I know that is free to give is love
Beautiful.
I hope that each person who reads your simple yet profound comment will carry your message in their heart . Once we truly love one another, the problems that we face will be eliminated. If we see someone struggling today with something we can help with, LET'S DO IT! The ripples will be fantastic. You have inspired me, let us all carry it forward and be part of something new ...The LOVE REVOLUTION!
Sadhguru Gi has such a great wisdom and preeches confidently with the life truth. Thank you very much.
*Feed the hungry because they are hungry,
free animal because it should be free
be true to yourself and keep your light bright
do help others to help
not to satisfy your pride.*
Thank you Sadhguru 🙏
Love🌸light
So true. Just look at what happens to people who win the lottery.
What happens to them. @Paris S?
@@prettypeyalimon6097 they end up much worse than they started. No job, many debts, fewer friends, new bad habits, etc.
Please don’t curse lottery winners like this, I have seen plenty of success for lottery winners who learned how to use their money wisely, with good habits
@@AppleiTouch6497 thank you
I know right. Horrible. Remember when you win the lottery hand the money to me . Thanks
Nothing replaces !!!
self structured "experience" and self learned "know-how" knowledge.
You have cleared many of my doubts and confusions sadhguru ...
Thank You
I am always so surprised by how much wisdom this man has
Same as me he is so wise.
There used to be a popular expression: "Everybody gets promoted to the level of incompetence...".
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That expression likely came from Laurence Peter's The Peter Principle.
If you want to help everyone help yourself it shall reflect to them.give to self only it shall reflect
@ paul lapthorn: Yes. Because Love is reflected in Love. Thank you for your simple but wise words. I wrote them in my journal.
@@OhHapppyDaay ta ,I am the one I love the one I am,your heart is the kingdom of heaven,to enter the kingdom of heaven you must be the child
"Can't throw jewels to the swine". I often say this but people misunderstood me for this as being cruel. Now the Guru speaks.
You're misunderstood because you did not announce it in a proper format.
@@dasherviewed
Sir:
1st it is a big responsiblity to discussed things like this to people, you would open up involuntary links between you and them (unless *). Kinda teacher student relationship once you have started it you must have to now assist those seekers in the path, make sure not to misled, mislead, misinterpret the subject. It is not just mere explanation that they need to understand it, there are things that has to be experience personally in order to understand the nature of certain phenomena, which cannot be shared no matter how intricate you conveyed it and how it works. Alot of people will not be able to comprehend the impressions you had unless they experience it by themselves, and this is rough mental training which take strict self discipline to follow.
2nd There are people who experience certain longing but the body is not yet ready so it strongly affects the mind too.
Which like what the Guru here just said, it may create more harm than good. I cannot tell all of this here it will takes time.
3rd That's why you have your Guru there to explained things for the seekers of light.
Best wishes to all, I also hope to meet this satguru one day I love him I felt elevated whenever I listens to him makes me remember the day when I was training. I am an initiate of other school too.
@@yesididthis1420 too deep.
But I will never give to much . A person wouldn’t learn anything if it’s giving
This is the best video ive ever seen on youtube reminds me of my ex abusive boyfriend he wanted me to suffer because I knew he really was a mouse when everyone else thought he was a lion this is so deep must be taught in schools
Absolutely, I had a similar experience. So true.
You should stay single
I am one who received what I longed for, both in marriage and in employment. The suffering I go through is indescribable. It's not physical suffering, but suffering at a deep level which I cannot even articulate. But it changed me inside out. Thank you Sadguru for this video.🙏
Amazing and so true.I made my son into a lion and now ...I wish I had the power of the sage to turn him back into a mouse for him to evolve in the path intended by God.
Jesus christ...Said more pleasure in
Giving than Receiveing ....we Must
Always look After the Poor.....
I still get jealous from others attainment's,I don't dwell on it,I know its just my ridiculous mind,I'm learning to laugh at myself more,
At least being honest is still a very great victory
@Sathya Maharajh No being Jealous of Worldly attainments is dangerous, being jealous of Spiritual attainment is really ok, as all your seeking is ultimate reality anyways...
How about you all shut up and do your Sadhana?
@Sathya Maharajh true, competition develops between even abhyasis of a same practice under a guru. That is why it is very important to not share spiritual knowledge and experiences with fellow abhyasis. Even it is better not to share anything and keep a distance these days.
@@RTSBone best response 🤣
I inherited a house. I have been suffering in this prison for many years. I am now drained of my power. Like someone dying of thirst, I can feel the life force soak in when near a few blades of grass or a tree. Thank you Sadhguru, I am grateful for your knowledge. 💖😺
Thank you sadhguru. Many confusion and beliefs have changed by listening to this video. Thank you
We are lucky to have such a marvelously wise man among us.
Very true..nice teachings and neeti
Wonderful teachings . Stories about Shivra are without a doubt always enormously helpful. I find it wonderful that this man takes the time to teach us a little bit about their beliefs : priceless !
I really don’t think the world is suffering from an over abundance of generosity.
You need to watch the video.
Agreed.
Misplaced generosity
I think you missed the point.
@@jdee4956 Nope. As a social worker and yogini I don't agree with this post.
Ants run around in pile of gold everyday (farms with seeds) never overwhelmed or crashed.
Giving from something you love like is always nice. It make heart soft caring.
Get some common sense not some lamme poetry.
Well said
Fully agreed
Sadhguru opened my eyes 🙏
I can relate to what sadhguru is saying.I’ve learned the hard way that sometimes giving someone something that they are not yet ready for can end up doing more harm than good.
OMG.. ammmmazing..what n how much more I can THANK Gods to send Guru Devaa like u in my life..
Saashtaanga namaskaram.. Namo Namah Shri Gurupadhukabhyam 🙏🙏
I could listen to you Sir for the rest of my life ! Heartfelt gratitude for the lesson you so beautifully imparted . I won’t forget it ! With love , bliss , and respect . Diana 🙏❤️❤️🙏😍😍👏
That's right sadhguru.. what you said about compassion.. I understood that in the month of August this year.. thank you....
Great Man with a Great Mind long live Great Teacher 💕
I found no good deed goes unpunished, when you help people that don't appreciate it ,it can backfire
well this is really good and incredibly timely for me - curious what brought this up in your mind to talk about.- synchronistic. The story at the end is very nice as well...best . Be a mouse again and bye bye...
Great wisdom, truly needed and appreciated. Thank you and blessings.
Thank you so much Sadhguru for sharing your wisdom.
Loved the story, it’s soothing 🙏
How beautiful !
Thank you Sadhguru for this great lesson Everything should happen naturally
Do not give unless they ask,even then give only enough for their journey
Great meditation listening 🙏..If you silence yourself and listen and read alone and think of what is most important yourself.
Great speech, Precious content...🙏 🙏 🙏
Absolutely true Sadhguru Ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
What Sage you Sadhguru , you teach millions , thanks for trying to make the human race more tolerable ,...
Absolute truth. You must ensure the recipient deserve s it. Giving alms is the main reason for increased begging and crime against children especially like a country like India where giving is considered as d pious act
Plz elaborate
Best and best have no words to praise such divine wisdom and knowledge a great great religion (or way of living).I wish I born in to hindu family but I believe in past life.
Wow... I have been studying spirituality for over 2 decades in the West, and I have never heard this wisdom. If my mother or I had learned this, regarding the giving of our hearts to men that weren't evolved to receive them... what damage could have been avoided. In my culture women were raised to be giving, compassionate forgiving obedient no matter how unevolved or even abusive the man is. So grateful to be coming out of the gender dark ages.
Oh what a point sadhguru...answers and allays so many of my doubts 🙏🙏🙏
Amazing message . Sadguru lots of gratitude 🙏🙏🙏
Dear mr. Sadguru, May I and all of us fully take in what you metaphorically share with me (or us). I truly believe that creating images - such as the ant - has the ludic ability to enter into the wisdom of even the most stubborn human hearts. As for compassion, I needed to learn again, that this also has his own shadow side. It may indeed get to unwanted effects of contra productivity, amongst others; it may interfere in the way the other needs to evolve, emotionally, spiritually, intellectually into the fragility of maturity. Seldom I perceive or, learn from others about their achievement of becoming mature thus fragil. Going from childish to child like. Embodying humbleness. To the bones.
May we meet again🦋🧡❤🦉❤🧡🦋
This is beautiful, thank you.
Thank you ! 🙏🏾I thank also life to providing anything, according to my needs. 💖❤️
Gift, which is given out of duty, at the proper time and place, to a needy person without expectation of return is charity in the mode of goodness-- Bhagavad Gita.
Life is not about getting and having. It is more about giving and being.
Help your fellow beings without expectations. What goes round, comes around. This is the law of nature.
There is a big difference between being a human being and being human.
No act of kindness, however small, is ever wasted.
These are the sayings of great and wise people. Every person would have taken help or advice from another person at some point of time during his life-time. Some would have wasted it and others would have utilised it. In this materialistic world ' help' in kind or words or action is a necessity for so many, many people. Whether the receiver uses it to his benefit or otherwise, your act of help will remain, forever, an act of goodness and kindness.
In the spiritual world, it is different. You can only help the person, who has sighted spirituality and understood it. But helping a person, who is not ready to turn spiritual, will be wasted. It might even recoil. One has to be careful as to whom he is trying to convey his knowledge, ideas and thoughts.
The only teacher who teaches the world what we have to hear and learn not brainwashing us with what the rest of the world is doing to their citizens
Just do what is needed, you will get whatever you deserve 🙏
If it is a life risk you must give. Human life is more valuable than any possession and must be preserved
Beautiful and so true, lots of lessons ✨
Pranam Sadhguru 🙏🌹🌱🌺🍃🌸🌿🌼🍀😊😊😊
Oh ..you are simply great , each word is wisdom🙏🌹🌿
Thank you. It was the time for me to know this. Thank you.
Namaskaran sadguru infinite thanks❤🌹
The fact of the matter is there's many people who just don't have mentally or physically what it takes to provide for themselves and I do think it's the nice thing to do to help them out when you can I don't think this because some God told me or because some group says to do it I just do it because it's the human thing to do if circumstances were different you could be in their shoes
Best guiding to our routine LifE,
We have to practice certain facts, thanks, PranamGuruji, SRi SadhguruJi,!
There is a proverb in Malayalam even when Throwing something into the sea measure it?
Divine Love always has met and always will meet every human need.
Trust the eternal.
MBE
Thank You, Sadhguru !
Perfect..
Saprem Saheb Bandagee Sadhguru Saheb Jee.......🙏💐💐💐
Good day I AM grateful for TEACHER Your graciousness I welcome GRACE and PEACE MULTIPLIED to you
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Observe and think and feel what is and is not needed.
Very interesting video thanks so much Sir for sharing God blessed
I give to hospice to raise funds for cancer patients so they have funding for getting to hospital for treatment. My husband died with it .my mother taught me to give. Its not about me at all.
Well done
Thanks to open my eyes🙏Jai Shri.Gurudeo🙏👍
Great lesson for us all indeed .Thk you sir
Sadhguru s so realistical when speaking the real true 👍🥰people should really listen.
Koti Koti Pranaam Gurudeva mastak Aap Ke Charno Mein Hara Hara Mahadev 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
This is the perfect instruction for me at this moment. 🙏