Women Are NOT Fathers
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A father is a MAN! We NEED men, good strong men in our lives! Stop disrespecting MEN, they have a hard ENOUGH time of it anymore!! These people on this video need psychiatric help, ASAP!!
Amen! 💯 correct
👏👏👏👏👏👏
These people are infested with demons.
Thank you very much for comment
Never seen my dad, he split b4 I was born, & then my mom hauled ass when I was around 4 yrs old, I'm guessing, & I didn't see her again until I was 14. I barely could remember her. Thank God for my grandaddy who raised, 3 tours 1st Sergeant Marine Corp Crazy ∆55 shell shock Vietnam Vet & 2 tours in the Korean war.
Still glad I had em
I was a single mother while my kids were growing up , I did all I could . That was still NO REPLACEMENT for a father , children NEED both mom and dad . We need strong fathers. I'm so sick of the man hate !
With that being said I was raised by my father (who I adored )because my mom passed when I was 4 , but there was still a void in my life because I needed both .
Respect. Thank you for that comment
That is the Truth
Well said. 👍
Imagine how we feel.
@@rickymcmahon8189 I am standing up for fathers , I value fathers and believe we need strong men . I think you misunderstood my comment.
I’m a longtime divorced Father. My son came to live with me when he was 14, we divorced when he was 7. Now he’s 40, his mother told me that his living with me during his high school days was 1 of the best things that happened to him.
It was my privilege to be able to teach him what is acceptable and what is not. What is ethical, how to treat women and other people, values. A young man needs his father to be that role model. His mother can’t teach how to be a man.
But she sure probably tried
Oh yeah, we had another custody battle, it cost $16,000 in early 90s dollars.
But later she appreciated it.
A few years ago a tornado hit her house. She called to ask me to put her house back together. I did it. A few months ago I fell off a ladder and broke 8 ribs, she brought me home from the hospital, she stayed nearby for 3 days and cleaned my house.
There is life after divorce, we are friends
Things are getting too out of hand. When we can’t define a man, woman, mother, father, dog, cat, earth or sky it’s just ridiculous! I agree with you Van!
All those single mothers who think they're taking Father's place are delusional why do you think we have so many women out there who have daddy issues because daddy didn't stick around to raise them. A single mother is just what it infers she's a single mother she's not a father.
My children grew up in a two parent household but I was much more outdoorsy than my business man husband so I would take my son hunting and fishing and camping which I wanted him to experience but his dad was still his dad and he taught him how to run a business and take care of himself and his family. Just because I could hunt and fish did not make me a father My son needed that camaraderie with his dad
It's important to distinguish between the 80-90% of society who have NO problem defining them, and the 10-20% of extremely vocal idiots who can't.
No, see, your wrong--They are SUPER CONFUSED, THEY CAN'T FIGURE IT OUT--NOT US!!!
To anyone who thinks fathers are not important why did the government work so hard to take the father out of the house in the black community let me answer that for you they knew it would be devastating to the children girls and boys they both need their dad just as much as they need their mom. It worked so well that now they are trying and have succeeded to some extent to break up nuclear families and look how the children are turning out
Ugh.....I don't even have words. My father passed away when I was eleven years old. It had a definite impact. My mom did her best and my grandmother was awesome but it's no substitute
Im sorry for your loss
Exactly, I lost my father at the same age and while I am forever grateful for my mother who stepped up to help fill the void left behind after he died she could never replace my father nor be him. I’m glad your mom and grandmother were there for you, I guess I don’t have to say how rough it is since well you and I have experienced it. Have a great day.
I agree. Lost my dad at age 4 and never once thought of my mom as a dad. In fact I looked to have that role filled until I was an adult. Crazy times!
My Dad died when I was 26. I have had a lot of loved ones die. But losing my Dad was the hardest thing I ever went threw. Forty years later I still miss him. I still felt I needed him. My friend lost her father in her 50s. Still hit her very hard.
My father passed away when I was 16 he has been dead for58 years he is and forever will be my Father.
"Anybody can be whatever they want to be." It's not about want, it's about doing everything in your power to provide what your children need. And that means not confusing the hell out of them.
As a divorced mom, raising a son on my own, I GUARANTEE men/fathers are needed desperately not only in children’s lives, but living with them in a healthy balance with nature!
@Throw Away it would be great to see more fathers being good dads in their sons lives.
@Throw Away good to hear.
@Throw Away women will never understand. And that's kinda the beauty of males and females and how we're so different but similar
@@TheAmateurPodcast I’d have to agree to disagree. My wife and mother of our 9 children certainly understands the father/son bond, along with the father/daughter bond, mother/son bond, and lastly the mother/daughter bond. She understood the importance of it long before I understood actually, and facilitated my own relationship with my children right from the beginning. Then again my wife is the embodiment of a Godly woman and my better half.
@@sarahalderman3126 not truly. I mean this to say though women have an idea of the things men go through, and can sympathize and empathize and relate to the situations and pressures of men, and we can observe and understand the things a father and husband need to provide to the house hold for his wife, daughter and son... but thay she will never know what it feels to be a man or to be a father or to be a husband. Because she cannot. She can only understand from the perspective of a wife and mother. Males and females are different.
That's ok.
Our society has fully embodied the old saying "so open-minded your brain falls out"
Isn’t that the truth!
Right! If you stand for nothing, you will fall for anything.
😄 🤣 😂
That sounds very similar to the idea of: just open your heart! So you need heart surgery 😜!....
We are 100% living in "The Emperor's New Clothes", written in 1837 by the way. People are just so afraid to be an outcast that they will go along with a lie.
OK this one hits home for me. I was raised by a single mother and while she was great, she was not a dad. Not having a father has definitely impacted my life. Im almost 40 and I haven't had any kids because I'm terrified of it. All I've ever had is women in my life So it's hard for me to be close to men. A boy needs a father. A woman can't teach a boy how to be a man
Yeah my dad died when I was 9, my step dad was not nice! I’m 40, single and childless. My Mom was great, but I needed my dad for protection, and to teach me how a man should treat me!
Likewise
I agree with you halv way . All I've ever had is women in my life !!! no bro All youve ever had is a Mother in your life ! be Greatfull
You speak a lot of truth that a lot of people don't want to hear. The repercussions (as you point out) are profound. I wish you all the best overcoming those roots.
My son is the same way, 52 never been married and of course no kids. Perhaps this is because his father was missing and I raised him alone. And you are so right, both parents are needed to raise a child properly, but that isn't always the case for many reasons.
A father is a man. A daddy is loving and takes responsibility for his children. My daddy was the best RIP
A father according to biblical standards we are the providers and the protectors of the home we are responsible for the morality and the standards of the home
@@andrejamison2723 My father loved me enough to prepare me for this life. It was not a popularity contest, to him it was an office/ God given responsibility that he served that sometimes meant discipline, other times stepping back to let me learn from failure but it always meant love and unconditional support. My father set the pattern for the way i raised my boys, not perfect, not on a pedestal but able to point them to the one who is perfect: Jesus. I hope I've done half the job my father did.
My father didn’t speak to me for 10 years, so daddies aren’t always loving and take responsibility for their children. However, when we reconnected he became the amazing father that he was when I was little. And I love and miss my father very much and nobody could ever replace him. We need man!
Exactly!
Exactly. Any man can be a father, but it takes a special man to be a Daddy.
NO!!!! A FATHER IS A FATHER. You can not minimize that role. Most important role in a child’s life. All these people seem to not even care about their mothers. So detached.
FATHERS MATTER!
Thank you.
Ditto
As a solo father who has fought this battle his sons entire life, please stop it. If you look at my other comment in here you will get a better reflection of what I mean but a father is not the most important role in a child's life. Mother and father equally serve an important purpose. I know this because I have had my son's since he was a newborn and he is now 11 and he has met his mother a total of 6 times. And every time somebody says fathers are more important, it makes my job harder as a solo father. It is not true and spreading fake messages that Mum's are not as important as dad's is as damaging as the people in this video saying dad's aren't important. Both are equally important.
Well, I had a single mom for much of my childhood and I realized my mom had to be both- but as i have gotten older I realized that is not the same as having a mother and a father, and truthfully I think it really affected my brothers even more so than myself. As a teacher I’ve worked with hundreds of teenagers every day for the last 12 years and I see how some students will respond to advice from a male or female teacher differently. I think people are fooling themselves saying that they want to do it all themselves, or using that as an excuse to be irresponsible. I have also seen how it affects kids when their parents are dating around and they have a rotating cast of adults on and out of their life and their parents does not have a clue how it affects them. Their parent is often spending their time focusing on that relationship and the drama that goes with it. Having a stable home should be #1 so that you can focus on teaching them about life & character & developing their talents and knowledge. The sad thing is so often those prone don’t realize their decision will be affecting our society going forward and the next generations of their family as well. That’s west longer than I intended, but thanks for coming to my TED talk 😂
No way in hell can a father be anyone or replaced. Thank you and all the fathers out there taking care of their children. You are looking sharp! Congratulations to your beautiful daughter and I hope they have a wonderful life together!
a father can not be a women... but men do not have to be the sperm donor to be fatherly to those children in his life that do not have a father
@@judiumstead5484 I agree 💯! My biological father raised me along with my siblings that aren't his. He was a good man.
Agreed on everything..
He is looking sharp AF too 😂!!
I’m assuming because the marriage?
Regardless he’s doing great work, I grew up without a father, shout out to all the good dads out there
Edit - and all the moms doing their best ❤️
A father can be absent or dead.
He can be replaced with another father figure or none.
@@Anonymous-uw4sr sorry I don’t get your point
I grew up with just a mom. I could write an entire book about the hard ass lessons I learned it wouldn't have been necessary if I had a father there. Men are necessary in this world.
Do you agree that single moms sometimes also need to take on a more harder fatherly role taking away from maternal care kids needs? Moms can't replace a father but we need a mother.
@@ca6360 The first great leader a young boy experiences should be his father. It takes a father to properly raise the son. A young man that is solely driven by his natural Instincts will most likely become a self-serving menace to society.
Every father must:
*Make his son aware of the natural instincts that all men are born with.
*Teach his son how to control his more self-serving natural Instincts.
*Help guide his son on a path to finding a way to channel his natural Instincts into something useful for society.
Women should inspire a man to be compassionate and protective. A mother should be the first God in a young boy's life. A man with this kind of upbringing would willingly give his life to protect anyone.
I agree. However lets be real. Neccessary IF and ONLY IF he is a good Father. A lot.men care nothing about being a father and don't know the meaning of said word he when they have had a few children of their own and or married.now divorce. My Granddad told us when he was on this earth Breeding some children don't make a male a FATHER...it's deeper than that.
@@ca6360 younger a mother when your young, when you hit 11 or 12 you need a father.
Other male relatives can help raise a child but children need a father in their lives! They still grow up but that part will be a loss for them!
I lost my father when I was a child and as an adult I know how much it affected me and how necessary a fathers existence is. That's why I make it a point to have my daughters father in her life. He's my best friend and he will always be her father regardless of our relationship status. We really need to validate our men more so they know how important they are!
Me too, i was 6 when my dad died.
My Dad told me one day that almost any man can be a father but it takes someone special to be a Dad. I'm proud to be a father of my 2 kids but im even prouder to be the Dad to all my kids.
so true. My dad and mom married, had my sister, couple years later separated, got back together a few years later, had me as a massive surprise ( I guess my sis knocked the crap out of her, so doc didn't think she could have anymore kids. ) divorced when I was 2 and a half and really didn't see him all that much. I got to reconcile more than my sis did before he passed because she's almost 10 years older, and it hit her a lot harder. I still call him dad in speaking, but it's actually my father in law that's the closest I've really had to a dad.
I can understand that. I'm dad to my kids because their father didn't want to be.
I'm glad I have a father that is a man. He is the best Dad ever. My parents divorced when we were very young and always got along for us. My Dad paid his child support, took us every weekend, came to every birthday and holiday. He always answers the phone still to this day and I am 46. Thanks Dad.... You are a good man who loves his kids.
I worked with young offenders for 15 years. The common thread with all my boys that were in jail (kid jail) had no fathers. A single mom is a mom. This is incredibly disrespectful to fathers all over the world.
Jail for kids is called Juvinial Detention if I'm not mistaken.
My husband and I were separated for a while. I was sickened by people telling me “happy Father’s Day” . I responded “no matter how great of a mother I am, I will NEVER be a father. “
It drives me insane when people say "Happy Father's Day" to me, saying I am both mother and father. I couldn't be a father if I tried. I'm a widowed mother...not a father. My husband, father of our children, died at 45, when our 5 children (plus 2 foster children) were ages 6 to 23. He is still their only father and I can never ever replace that. Yes, Father's Day is sad for us, but we still celebrate their wonderful father and I couldn't imagine telling others they shouldn't have Father's Day. We know the loss so I would hope all would celebrate the wonderful men who are fathers in their lives.
Sorry for your families loss.
God bless your family
LIFE IS HARD THEN WE DIE
God bless you and your family. Really hope you keep the strength that emanates from your text.
Me too. I am a widow who cannot be a father! I have tried to provide my daughter with male role models but that is all I can do. Her father died when she was 10 months old so it has been very hard to provide a male prospective since my husband was/is the only one for me.
I raised my children as a single mom for several years until we were blessed to have my husband join us in our family.
I guarantee all my children needed a MAN to show them the difference that
I as a WOMAN could not show them.
Children need a mom and a dad.
My children are all very thankful to have a dad.
I feel like I’m in an episode of the twilight zone. I’m a father and I see the importance of teaching my kids personal responsibilities, hygiene, honesty, being a man of your word, respect, standing up for yourself. Teaching my daughter self worth, how to be respected and show respect, how to be strong, and how to be a leader as well. I don’t take the role of mother from their mom so no one is going to take my role of father from my kids.
well said. I agree with some of this. Some women can carry the role of a father the best they can and vice versa . Parenting is a 2 person job for sure -but doesnt always work that way.
Some are great fathers some are bad hence mom's jumping in and carrying more. but do not take a way from the dads who show up and carry their own weight. my brother in law was both to his daughter but ultimately a great day. ( mom was an alcoholic) my niece is a great kid. I would never call him a mom but I get it. Switching genders does not make you a mother or father, however someone can be like a father.
Another friend was raised by his sister who was like a mom for sure. its complex and love the woman being respectful ( i think she was the only one).
Speaking of the Twilight Zone, I'd rather live in the world with the pig people right about now.
This is insanity! As a single mother for years, no amount of want or desire on my part qualified me to Father my children. No amount of prayers or tears on my part qualified me. I could never give my children what they need from their father, even though I desperately wished I could. Praise God, He sent me a wonderful husband who is there to fulfill that role for our youngest. Dad's and step dad's being there to protect, provide, lead and every other aspect of a father's role are ESSENTIAL for humanity to continue. Uncles, brothers too. Men can never be mothers. Women can never be fathers. It is so much deeper than sex or gender. We need each other. We are different by design. His perfect design.
Well said I felt the same way
A father's love is tough. A mother's love is caring.
That's what creates a tough but caring person.
A mother's love must be tough as well or she fails as a mom. Whether you are a mother or a father IF YOU ARE NOT TOUGH, you simply do not care! I know. I'm a mom. Even though I am married now, for 35 years, I still had to get tough with my daughter. I taught her to be a strong, independent woman--to stand on her own two feet. One of the most important things I taught her was to NEVER BE A QUITTER. Her father played a supportive role, but it was ME who taught her the importance of a woman being her own source of financial and moral support (never rely on any man), just as my widowed mother taught me and my sisters.
@@edevos3108 no. You need two. One can not be two however two can act as one.
My dad raised me and my sister because my mom was an addict and alcoholic. He's an amazing father. But we didn't celebrate him on Mother's Day because he wasn't our mom. He was just a wonderful father and parent. People are just insane.
The moment you get people denying the literal definitions of things, like mother and father, you know the society is mentally ill.
It’s a small small minority of people who are dictating to the majority of us. We have to rise up and speak up. This mental illness needs to stop!
More like intellectually ill.
Yep. Nature removed, altered, is nature denied. Nature is not fond of this kind of stupidity. The evidence is in. We ignore it at our demise.
At the pace the world is going we gona have a new dictionary in a bit lol…every words definition will probably be “whatever you want it to be”🤦🏻♀️
I’m a single mom raising my kids, my daughter is turning 22 in a month and my son will be 11 in Dec. I am a grown woman and a mother of 2, I have taken on a lot of the father roles in my kids lives but no I am not a grown male father! ❤❤❤
You are witnessing the results of what happens to people when they dumb down education in America. Even the Bush people in Africa know what a father and a mother is, and supposedly we think our county's children are educated. This is just crazy. Grab your children from the schools people
I was a single father, although i had to fill certain jobs that a mother would do, especially when it came to my daughter, but I was never a mother!!! A father is a parent that fills the role of a positive male role model and teaches sons how to be men, and teaches daughters what to demand and expect from men in their lives.
LFR Family, great channel. We can all answer questions with the truth. Thank you all for your honesty.
I’ve known a lot of single moms through my life, they all have one thing in common, they are looking for a man, to step in as a father. Before I was married, I dated a woman like this, and I made it clear to her, that unless things were going to work out between her and I, I wasn’t willing to step in the father role. Being a father, is so much more than just being a man and impregnating women. A father steps up, he put his kids first, and he make sure his needs are met after all others. Myself, I made sure my kids were fed, before I ate. I made sure my kids had clean clothes, before I purchase new clothes. I made sure my wife could get in her car and feel safe to drive it, or she took mine. I would walk before my kids were put in danger. What is a father? A father someone who is willing to put himself behind his family, and yet lead his family.
Awesome, and truth!! I wish ALL men (and fathers) felt this way! Thank you for explaining this to those who are brainwashed!
I was/am a single father raising his kids. I never pretended I could be a mom.....I did the best I could, but there was still an absence of a mom. That being said no woman can take the place of a Daddy.
A stepdad is still a step below daddy
@@2okaycola That depends, but generally true
Looking sharp, Van! I hope your kids know they have an amazing dad. You are setting a great example of chasing after truth.
She needs to flip the question around and see what they say.
"Can single men be coonsidered mothers?"
Better yet
"Can sigle man fill the rolls of both mother and father?"
Lets see how quick everyones yes turns into a no.
One of the best men I ever knew was a single dad to two girls after his wife ran out on him. He went through everything from learning to braid hair to dealing with their first periods to dating advice, from toddler age through the teenage years, all by his damn self.
If you tried to call him a mother, he would punch you dead in the face.
Was thinking the same lol
@@joeday4293 As a married father I also learned how to braid hair, do basic make-up, and help with my daughter's period issues. These things aren't just the mother's purview.
@@ClockworkWyrm Good for you.
You had adult female help, living right there in the same house. My friend did not. All he had was phone calls to his mom asking for guidance. He just figured that shit out.
That is the exact problem... single mothers think they are playing both roles. But no they are women who have had to be harder and tried to play father. So is the government our father? Hmm anything could be father right?
I get the impression most of these young women grew up without a father and that negatively affects their view of fathers. You look sharp by the way!
Nailed it!!
LOL> "Ben! WTF?". Girl had me rollin' with that.
There are three types of people answering these questions.
- reality deniers believing everyone is whatever they idenity as
- reality based but too cowardly to speak up
- reality based willing to speak truth (some speak with love, others do not)
So happy to see you taking a stand in the third camp Van! Reality based speaking the truth in love.
I m a single mum of six, their dad was abusive. I raised them completely on my own. I could never replace the lack of a dad but my oldest stepped up to be a real big brother and helped out 23 yrs on.
I’m trying to figure out how it took you having 6 kids by an abusive man to leave.
You should’ve left before you had kids.
Jesus!
@@messagekeenenivorywayansvo3011 I’ve asked this so many times. They never have an answer
Wow you two know nothing about domestic violence then, before spouting your opinions, go research domestic violence victims and the manipulative ways they get away with it all, honestly you two should be ashamed of yourselves, my wife is an ex domestic violence victim! Stop acting dumb and condescending
@@billybobbobson3797 smh brother.
Professional victims a lot of these women are.
@@messagekeenenivorywayansvo3011 Nice to see your victim blaming here 🙄👍 wow keep it up so proud.
Alright so I'm going to tell my dad happy mother's Day next year. We'll see how he and my mom feel about this 😂.
I've heard women say "Happy Father's Day!" to single moms. Sorry. No. You can have an extra special shout out on MOTHER'S DAY, but you are NOT the father.
Its never enough.
I got a "happy father's day, mom" card from the daycare once. It made me cry. It was like rubbing it in my face that I was a single mom.
@@kelsijodryer6348 oh…I hadn’t thought of it way. Thank you for sharing your perspective.
You nailed it. We are clearly living in strange times. This is causing so much confusion with our young people which is heartbreaking. It is destroying the family unit and in the long run can destroy our children.
Love how you say “ridiculous”. You do a great job!
Recommended reaction video please! "4 videos of politicians confronted about bohemian grove!"
Van, you are NOT missing anything! You’re just too sane to get this crap!
He really isn't missing anything...in fact, I think Van is SANE.
I am so glad that some people started saying some truth, give me hope!
I was a single mother and my mother lived with me, helping me with my kids. I worked, kept my kids up. There is no way I was a father. I got my son in sports from T-ball to high school football. I felt he needed men in his life. He was lucky to have great coaches. I did take him to practice, went to his games and supported him.
Switch it around to, "Should we get rid of Mothers Day", and watch how fast everyone remembers what a definition of a woman is..😁
It's coming.... don't be surprised. The Alphabet crew hates Women/Mom's too.
Right
@LFRFamily your summary at the end was spot on men have been conditioned to not worry about being celebrated and to not complain but this is complete disrespect you can't take the one thing we have and say anyone can do it it's just sad
My husband is a wonderful father. Our daughters are grown now but when they need certain advice they still call their Dad. They call me for completely different issues. Their Dad is the rock, the foundation of the family
Sadly the majority of people who think fathers don’t matter never had the up bringing of a good father.
@@alancherry6736 Because alot of males don't want to deal with what they created. My nephew doesn't know his dad, same with a few of my friends and other people I know. If you willingly have sex with a woman, as a GROWN ADULT MAN, you should deal with the consequences.
@@VenusManTrap-777 why is the blame always switched on men who create a child? It takes two and frankly having a child is a woman choice more so then a mans. A female has about 20 different birth control methods while a male only has 2. I have made the choice not to have children which is why I got a vasectomy. There no dealing with the consequences with me. Females also make the choice of choosing irresponsible men. At the same time some females love those irresponsible men and then complain about them while they chase them.
I lost my son daddy when he was just 3 and I had to fill both roles and quite frankly I wasn't very good at filling the father roll. Then I met my now husband and he stepped in and showed me what a father was. Thank God I hate to think how my son would have turned out. He taught my son to be a man. How to respect women and how to take care of business. Fathers are needed!!!!
YES! I also lost a husband, and had another man(husband now 30 years) to step in and continue making my son a man…and I thank God for that! I am so fortunate, and so are our sons…of whom he makes NO difference! He loves them both!
You are a wise man and I have so much respect for your commentary and your common sense point of view.
Looking sharp Van.
These people seem to forget that without MEN, there wouldn’t be any mothers.
Fathers ARE as important as a Mother to a child. Today’s society issues are so proving this.
A father is a man that protects (by showing strength) , provide for, teaches and loves his children.
One thing I can't stand to hear a woman say is "I'm the mother AND the father." No you are not!!! You are the mother, that's it.
I'm with you. It's one of the most absolute narcissistic things someone can say.
You are right I grew up without my father and I definitely needed a dad even though my mom was really good to me
@@Jcikokalol 💯
@@heatherwickers1978 I did as well, and my mother was awesome but nothing replaced a father.
To be both a mother and a father, one would literally have to 'f' themselves in order to get pregnant
Damn son, you got that look going. When is the catalog out?
When you first started on this journey you would censor yourself because you didn’t want to offend anyone by simply speaking your mind. Glad to see that you have broken out of that shell and you now respectfully speak your mind. 🤘🏽
This angers me , but if true than no one can complain about not having a man in the house helping raise the children they helped make. I was a single mom bit had great men around my son to help him.
"The only thing necessary for the Triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." Edmund Burke I feel this applies especially in the world we live in today.
"Why did her parents even pay to send her through dagum school?" Colleges have been teaching ignorant information. Even when I went to college in 2005 it was happening.
“I was thoroughly annoyed” …”So i wanna share it with y’all” LOVE Van!
Hey. I like the class act of the vest and tie. You are enlightening minds and helping many to see. Keep on keeping on!
I remember one time , when a single mom told her boy to pay attention to what I was working on. She told him that is what a man should be doing. I felt good that she used me as an example, to prove she could not teach her boy what a father could.
It's extremely fun to watch you on your journey to being a conservative .
Isaiah 5:20 NKJV - Woe to those who call evil good, and good evil; Who put darkness for light, and light for darkness; Who put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!
Looking sharp, Van! Many blessings to your family 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Dad walked out and left his family of 6 for a coworker of his. Im sure its what he needed to make him happy and weve all come to terms with that. That doesnt mean my mom who took care of us is our father and none of us would in a million years ever say that. Even with that, i can still appreciate that theres still great fathers out there that deserve recognition, and I hope to follow in their footsteps someday.
So sorry that you had such a disloyal and poor excuse of a father. It is the men who leave for the selfish reasons that are the cause of all the trouble.
I'm loving the threads you're wearing in this video my man. 😎
We are Fathers. Male perspective, protection, leadership, unconditional love. Father is a Man
Male perspective has been greatly devalued. It’s a shame really.
YES!!!! Thanks!!
My father was the most influential person in my life. I’m eternally thankful for him.
P.S. a father is a MAN!
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We’re the lucky ones.
Another representation of how society is rapidly changing and not for the best. Damn good reaction.
You defined what a FATHER is a MAN and not all males are men.
@@bettyjones5994 All males are men. You don't decide who is and who isn't. That's like saying all females aren't women. It's the very thing that gave people over to the confusion that goes on today.
The last comment was 😂
" Who's smoking the Devil's Lettuce?!"
I was a single mom for years and i tried to do as much as i could..but id say that my children grew up without a father.. thats a role i could not fill. Im not their dad. Its insane people have to have this conversation.. Many in this generation seem to be walking around in the dark..
God bless dads. I had my first Father's Day without my dad. I miss him. It's crazy to mess with the structure of society the way we are.
It happens because real MEN don't stand up and stop it. Usually because they don't have the support of women. It's why both are needed so bad. Just as equally important to do very different jobs however with a lot of crossover.
And you're right, it's definitely dangerous. We're about to find out how much so.
i do appreciate the fact that i think exactly like you man, no i feel less alone with my way of think!
It's unfortunate that it took me being my age and knowing what reality is when I was younger to really not care about politically correct ,,, there is no way way to tell the truth and not offend someone somewhere.
Thank goodness, as a single mother, my kids had my Dad as a role model in their lives. I was the mother and my Dad filled the role of father to my kids. I am not a father or a birthing person. I am a mother and grandmother.
😆😆🤣 idk man, weed seems to be the only way I can watch this stuff and not scream at my phone. 😆
If a woman can be a father, then who is the mother? A father is as essential to a child's development and happiness as a mother's. When kids grow up in a one parent household, they miss out on the male influence. I am one of them. I found my father a few years back, he is the one I chose, since my own father didn't want me. I am now 42 and I finally have the father I should have had. Guidance, tough love, support, and he stands up for my honor. I am raising a daughter on my own but her father is there for her whenever she needs him. We co-parent her on important things, but mostly it's been me. Almost 16 years. She is level headed and I taught her both sides of the spectrum in politics, society and religion. She chose Christianity on her own, she chose to be a conservative because she sees the lunacy of this society. It starts in the home and anyone who goes along with this sick rhetoric is either sick themselves or cowards.
#fathersmatter #makemenmanlyagain
My ex-wife and I got divorced when my daughter was 3 And she’s 13 now I thank God every day that when we got a divorced I dropped every single penny I had to get full custody of her. My ex is still drama TO. THIS.DAY! 😂🤣
@@TheApocalypseRace good on you big daddy! I am happy for you and your daughter. God bless you both. Best part of your ex being all drama is that your daughter is getting older and she will see right through her mother’s façade, and only your ex will be to blame. Take care! ❤️
The alphabet mafia is trying to hammer this into the rest of us to the point of numbness.
“I was thoroughly annoyed so I figured I wanted to share with y’all”..
😂 thanks bro 🤣
Everybody has gotten so damned confused about EVERYTHING that they just say "Yes" to every crazy idea because they don't want to be wrong.
I'll just stop right at that first question. Can a woman be a father? No. Hell no. A father can be a father, if he has a child he owes it to that child to be the father. Sadly, many times it doesn't always play out that way, and mom has to do the best she can raising that child, but only a man can be a father.
I am a single mother in the household. I CANNOT stand when people wish me a Happy Father's Day. I AM NOT A MAN! I did not make my kids by myself. I thing I could do is maybe pick up some of the slack that a father should do, but I could never ever ever teach my son how to be a man. I have to leave that up to my brother and other males in my family, male mentors and definitely GOD!!!
Good afternoon Van. Greetings from Barnegat, NJ.
Your not missing anything, these people are dumb as dirt and should sue who ever taught them this because they made them dumb, I think we all got a little dumber from listening to some of these people, great reaand cool outfit Van, love the vest
Craziness but glad there were finally some who didn’t hesitate to state the truth! And by the way you’re looking so manly today! 😀
I don't care what anyone's says the majority of men in prisons grew up without a dad in the house I understand completely when they have no other choice but no woman can fill a man's role in the house the majority of single mums I knew growing up used the kick the kids out when they turn 18 because of getting in trouble all the time the funny thing is they say I was a mum and a dad but shortly after 18 they end up in prison (not always) but a lot more then average, it just goes to show they know nothing of being a farther when they think a woman can do it just as good, she can make do but that's about it.
We need a Super Mom Mother’s Day AND a Super Dad Day for all the responsible single parents out there!
Responsible single parents are supposed to be responsible. Mother's day and Father's Day are there for that reason.
thats fair
As a single mother I did try to recognize things such as letting my boys climb trees etc. but I worked really hard to bring in good men into their lives like uncles, coaches, etc. to give them men prospective.
Agree with LFR and that nothing takes place of an actual father, though friend of mine and his brother were raised by a single mother (widow) who actually did well, taking the measured, disciplined role in parenting, but she was constantly consulting men around her who were fathers about how to address certain situations. She said it almost felt like having a split personality, having to switch back and forth.
Woah Mr. Fancy! You are looking sharp sir! 😅❤
The utter insanity, we are now just able to just claim to identify as any person, place or thing and it is so!!! To debate it is now an aggression and offensive, it's raised to even being taboo!!!!
Sons & Daughters NEED Fathers. Sons need roll models & Daughters need to see how good men behave in order to choose their future mates properly.
BTW, Looking sharp today Van...
Well, don't you look dapper! Looking & sounding good, Van! And, this is absolutely absurdity. No wonder kids today are so confused about their own gender.
These people answering these questions makes me feel like this could be a twilight zone episode... Do not attempt to adjust your receiver. Lol
My first red-pill moment was when I ended up blocking a woman on Facebook years ago (not my style to block people), who bashed men on Father’s Day and insisted that single moms should be recognized on Father’s Day (while denigrating men). The selfishness made me physically ill. Just think of the pushback if men tried to denigrate women on Mother’s Day? A father provides and protects. A father gives male advice to his children. Guides them and supports them. A father will show a different perspective for his children to consider in all situations. A father (blanket statement) tends to be more firm/disciplined with expectations. A good father may be firm and disciplined, however, the child will never doubt his love for them. I’ll never be a mother. I’ll never give birth or be able to. I’ll never lactate and feed my children from my own body. I’ll never have the feminine perspective the same as a woman. Just as a woman will never have as deep an understanding of the male perspective. Call me old fashioned. 😕🤷♂️
You did the right thing blocking that woman.
Judge me how you will but I was in prison about 8 years back and on Mother's Day the handed everybody out free Mother's Day cards with free stamps and nearly 100% of prisoners took up this offer then when it came to Father's Day in a prison with 1100 inmates 14 prisoners took up this offer to send out a fathers day card.. What does that tell you?
💔 that breaks my heart
Wow, that’s so sad. Women want and need men. And children really want and really need men. The impact on and the sadness of children not having fathers…it runs deep. Mothers and Fathers, children need both.
See that’s the thing, a good dad teaches you how to be a man, and even if you had a bad dad, those were lessons too of how you didn’t want to turn out which also influences to be a better person than he was vs someone who never had a dad at all.
Looking sharp right there, LFR!
my man out here showing out in this video. you just get back from church?
Lunatics! Although I do have mad respect for any single mom out there that has to raise boys and also be the father. That's one hell of a tough job
“I’m the best dad in the world!” Lmao 🤣 yea bruh, tell’em!! Bless you and your family brother
In my opinion this is coming from schools, among other places. This is just another way to tear down society. I have been lucky enough to have 3 father, all men. My dad who died when I was young, a step dad who was wonderful, and when I moved 2000 miles from home, a wonderful man who treated me like his daughter. He had grown children but he took me in and was such a great dad role model. Young people have been indoctrinated and it is just so scary. I also feel that you can’t get a definition of a father partially because of of a fear of being canceled.
The Pathetic college edumication .