The best advice I ever received about men is that men are stress. Is it no wonder that there is a male loneliness crises, and that the happiest demographic are single women and married men? Stay away from men are you will be happy.
Once an old teacher told me as a kid “ she somehow perceived me as smart and will take the advice to heart which I did”…..she said there are many smart girls many genius women like you and men are always ready to swallow them all and break their roads to pieces….you’ll understand me as a grown woman…you have a lot of potential..it wouldn’t surprise me if they come after you in an early age….don’t allow it…promise me? She looked so concerned I’ll never forget it…I promised her…and since then I didn’t fall for the dating hype in high school or in college….i’m 20 and still a virgin…I see her wisdom showering my life with blessings..I got my business growing since I was 18 I speak 6 languages and my scholarship to Germany is on the way…I’m half through my bachelor in science while many of the girls who didn’t have her growing up lost their time and youth…she’s my life saver after god No matter what society says to you men and drugs are on the same category so destructive of the spirit and mind…if you control not dealing with them out of emotional distress but out of real profits you win…we know they own a lot of things we can’t have Now I’m only available for highly professional scientists who have a lot of experience to give me…I’m goal oriented and I don’t care if I get called a materialistic woman..no value added no value given….i scare them most don’t accept such an equal situation….either I sacrifice myself or he’ll be gone which I never minded…!! They don’t ever want a fair trade all they want is to take until you become nothing..they think women’s resources just because we can’t protect them are for free
I wish I knew that a woman cannot be more to a man than what he sees you as. If you think you could be his wife, but he sees you as an acquaintance or nothing at all, then you are going to be disappointed.
In Poland majority of men open the doors for women. Every time I'm getting close to the door and any man is near be it old or young, they would open the door and let me go first, it's only natural! But it's not enough to state that that man is a good man!
I'm 35 yrs old but when I was in my 20s I had guys tell me (I love you ) but it ment I want to have sex Also a lesson i learned the hard way when marry men would hit on me and tell me that they love me once again it ment just sex. Eventhough they would say they would leave their wife and how crazy the wife is and is complicating to finalize the divorce it was a tactic to keep stalling . Once again this was in my 20s!!. No matter what age you are LEAVE THE MARRY MEN ALONE LEAVE THE MEN THAT HAVE KIDS ALONE. A man with kids who's willing to leave their whole family will ALSO LEAVE YOU. You're not special I've seen it I've lived it.
I wish I could tell my 18 year old self to focus on my dreams and goals instead of men. I regret it I would have been farther along in life by now if I didn’t waste my time and energy on men.
It is disempowering to tell a woman she should get with a man she doesn't want just because he wants her. Because that prioritises male desire over FEMALE desire
I disagree with the last sentence. Anyone can want you but not everyone deserves to be with you. Pity is not love. You will only hurt him and make yourself miserable in the long run. Never settle for less just because you think no want except him wants you. This is based on my own experience
Then why women always marry men who are more wealthier than them more successful and famous Men can marry a broke women and take care of her for rest of her life Have you ever heard a rich women marrying poor men
Honestly I've had mostly only bad experience with men. I do not think only men are the issue, that would be sexist and unfair. I am just speaking from my experience with them (mostly online and one long distance). Insecure men have this thing where they need to put a woman down, they tend to project their insecurities onto others and god it can be horrible when the one on the receiving end is a woman. Those type of men (from my experience) really do gaslight you and tend to be dismissive. I do not think all men are like that, just too many it seems.
It baffles me yet amazes me how intelligent men are.... Even a dusty will find a woman who bends over backwards n do some flips for him. Cleaning, cooking, sucking, bringing in the money be on daily calendar foe her n repeat till she dies..... to prove herself to the dusty..... 😂 And on top she be faithful and loyal while the man talks to other girls... he just deletes his phone history that she pays for... And she wont let goooo of him. 😂 Being single is ur ultimate power. You be amazed how many married men give you their time.
They’re not intelligent, they just attract what they think they’re entitled to. Those ugly dusty men are subconsciously convinced they’re entitled to women’s labour. These pick-Mes women bending back and forth for them also want this and basically throw themselves at them.
It's fine, girl. You are still young. Have fun and love yourself first. Dating is not everything. I'm 22 and have been single since birth, and I'm happy. My friend just broke up with her boyfriend, while I was chilling and focusing on my uni and having fun in my final year.
I’m just twenty and no more lessons for me ! The last time I dated was when I was 18 entering 19….and I’m seriously aiming at that relationship being the last in my entire life sadly it was a long distance relationship so I probably if I made it the last will never get a kiss or know how it feels in my entire life…I know it’s dull and boring so I’m ignoring that need to explore….i’m so over that there isn’t a single man alive that would be attractive or seductive enough to erase my obsession with my new adult free life….
Your life is just started you have a lot of things to see Don't listen to everything on internet. These are sad women they don't want to see you happy 😜😃
Some of these things are often true. But not all the time. I don't believe in generalizations as a main method to make choices in my life. I think they are more often harmful than helpful. Again, not saying many of this are OFTEN true.
There is no instinct in human being. There are just "I want to and I care not". That's all You can easily find some man who is for family but he would not earn that much
This is fucking hilarious given that Chris Chan is having a fucking baby. Ladies-don’t worry about the guys-worry about you first-take care of you first. If Chris Chan can make it work so can you.
Just find out the average hormone values for men and women on the internet and you have everything explained. They're just more animalistic. Where women see emotions most men see urges.
I don't agree with the lady who says don't date men who keep scores. Men don't keep scores. If they do it's always wrong. Women SHOULD keep scores, they'll almost always find they're the ones doing most of the giving. Also, the door holding law is ridiculous too. Really thankful for the rest of the advice.
Ok yes these things are true but remember it is good men who are good partners out there . Probably just a few of them lol
Thank you 🥂
More like slim to none
Honestly there's probably like 12 in America if I'm being honest😂
THERE are, NOT “IT is good men who are good men out there.” Most of you people skipped middle school😫
@@lorrainea.285 it’s funny because your comment doesn’t make sense but here you are trynna come after me
The best advice I ever received about men is that men are stress. Is it no wonder that there is a male loneliness crises, and that the happiest demographic are single women and married men? Stay away from men are you will be happy.
Once an old teacher told me as a kid “ she somehow perceived me as smart and will take the advice to heart which I did”…..she said there are many smart girls many genius women like you and men are always ready to swallow them all and break their roads to pieces….you’ll understand me as a grown woman…you have a lot of potential..it wouldn’t surprise me if they come after you in an early age….don’t allow it…promise me?
She looked so concerned I’ll never forget it…I promised her…and since then I didn’t fall for the dating hype in high school or in college….i’m 20 and still a virgin…I see her wisdom showering my life with blessings..I got my business growing since I was 18 I speak 6 languages and my scholarship to Germany is on the way…I’m half through my bachelor in science while many of the girls who didn’t have her growing up lost their time and youth…she’s my life saver after god
No matter what society says to you men and drugs are on the same category so destructive of the spirit and mind…if you control not dealing with them out of emotional distress but out of real profits you win…we know they own a lot of things we can’t have
Now I’m only available for highly professional scientists who have a lot of experience to give me…I’m goal oriented and I don’t care if I get called a materialistic woman..no value added no value given….i scare them most don’t accept such an equal situation….either I sacrifice myself or he’ll be gone which I never minded…!!
They don’t ever want a fair trade all they want is to take until you become nothing..they think women’s resources just because we can’t protect them are for free
Boy, how much happier I am when I am in a good relationship. This is impossible to compare.
😂 People who are on anti depressant are Single women and married men
Married women are less and married women with childrens are least
Once I realized that men don't see women as people, it made getting by much easier.
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Damn source?😢
Exactly. It just hit me one day and since then I'm happy single.
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Yeah women are somewhere between children and men
I wish I knew that a woman cannot be more to a man than what he sees you as. If you think you could be his wife, but he sees you as an acquaintance or nothing at all, then you are going to be disappointed.
The Asian lady is saving lives 🥰
Thank you for watching ❤️
She is brilliant. More from her
Best advice i would have given myself in my 20s is to never trust any guy and they often lie when they say " i love you "
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LOVE TO MEN =
L.O.V.E - Legs Open Very Easy
I just don't let them say "I Love You" until we've been together quite a while (like a year). It really helps
In my 20s…just show up. Put in as much effort as he puts in
Thank you 😂💯
In Poland majority of men open the doors for women. Every time I'm getting close to the door and any man is near be it old or young, they would open the door and let me go first, it's only natural!
But it's not enough to state that that man is a good man!
Men do that here in America, but only if you're looking good
This is true, but it is hard to deny that patriarchy is still in force in Poland.
I'm 35 yrs old but when I was in my 20s I had guys tell me (I love you ) but it ment I want to have sex
Also a lesson i learned the hard way when marry men would hit on me and tell me that they love me once again it ment just sex.
Eventhough they would say they would leave their wife and how crazy the wife is and is complicating to finalize the divorce it was a tactic to keep stalling . Once again this was in my 20s!!.
No matter what age you are LEAVE THE MARRY MEN ALONE LEAVE THE MEN THAT HAVE KIDS ALONE.
A man with kids who's willing to leave their whole family will ALSO LEAVE YOU. You're not special I've seen it I've lived it.
Thank you for sharing that 💐
Yeah they say everything to get between your legs…. Words are like air 😅🤣 and words are spells manipulation so romance … romance was invented
I wish I could tell my 18 year old self to never fall in love because I’ll only get hurt. Pick the one who loves you not the one you love.
I wish I could tell my 18 year old self to focus on my dreams and goals instead of men. I regret it I would have been farther along in life by now if I didn’t waste my time and energy on men.
It is disempowering to tell a woman she should get with a man she doesn't want just because he wants her. Because that prioritises male desire over FEMALE desire
Not everything is about desire or sex @@jiribb9300
I disagree with the last sentence. Anyone can want you but not everyone deserves to be with you. Pity is not love. You will only hurt him and make yourself miserable in the long run. Never settle for less just because you think no want except him wants you. This is based on my own experience
Romance was invented from Lowe class men to have access to higher class women, that’s it. Words are spells.
Then why women always marry men who are more wealthier than them more successful and famous
Men can marry a broke women and take care of her for rest of her life
Have you ever heard a rich women marrying poor men
Think before typing bs
The asian woman ate! LMAO at "not a sausage". I didn't watch all the way through, the one who is doing her make-up. Listen to her!!!
Thank you for watching ❤️
Fr 😍
Honestly I've had mostly only bad experience with men. I do not think only men are the issue, that would be sexist and unfair. I am just speaking from my experience with them (mostly online and one long distance). Insecure men have this thing where they need to put a woman down, they tend to project their insecurities onto others and god it can be horrible when the one on the receiving end is a woman. Those type of men (from my experience) really do gaslight you and tend to be dismissive. I do not think all men are like that, just too many it seems.
It's a horrible experience!
I liked the give yourself a second chance first before you give it to someone else.
It baffles me yet amazes me how intelligent men are....
Even a dusty will find a woman who bends over backwards n do some flips for him. Cleaning, cooking, sucking, bringing in the money be on daily calendar foe her n repeat till she dies..... to prove herself to the dusty.....
😂
And on top she be faithful and loyal while the man talks to other girls... he just deletes his phone history that she pays for...
And she wont let goooo of him. 😂
Being single is ur ultimate power. You be amazed how many married men give you their time.
They’re not intelligent, they just attract what they think they’re entitled to. Those ugly dusty men are subconsciously convinced they’re entitled to women’s labour. These pick-Mes women bending back and forth for them also want this and basically throw themselves at them.
😂😂 That's a crazy example
The second girl is so on point!!!
Thank you for watching 🥂
Your an angel Chommi Kenya I've learned so much thanks to your channel!! ❤
I'm so glad!
Thank you for watching ❤️
My life bis easy because I do not date men. Simple. Ladies you have ta
the option. Do not engage. Believe me you will be on cloud nine.
I feel so good about no engaging and dating with them neither virtuell or in person for romantic
Keep these videos going girl 👧 👏 🙌
More to come!
Patriarchy is build on dominance
And hierarchy
@@ravnidara yes, which can be seen as another form of dominance
As a lesbian, i really dodged a bullet. Stay safe y'all 😭
Then why are you here 🤭
Lesbians have highest divorce rate and domestic violence and least marriage satisfaction
Gays have least
I wish i was a lesbian so i could dodge the gender norms...or whatever idk.
I'm a girl, I'm seventeen. Honestly, I'm scared...
It's fine, girl. You are still young. Have fun and love yourself first. Dating is not everything. I'm 22 and have been single since birth, and I'm happy. My friend just broke up with her boyfriend, while I was chilling and focusing on my uni and having fun in my final year.
Thanks for these❤❤ you're my link to TikTok 😊
We are simple, we just want a girl with good character and feminine. Don't overthink.
I’m just twenty and no more lessons for me ! The last time I dated was when I was 18 entering 19….and I’m seriously aiming at that relationship being the last in my entire life sadly it was a long distance relationship so I probably if I made it the last will never get a kiss or know how it feels in my entire life…I know it’s dull and boring so I’m ignoring that need to explore….i’m so over that there isn’t a single man alive that would be attractive or seductive enough to erase my obsession with my new adult free life….
Your life is just started you have a lot of things to see
Don't listen to everything on internet. These are sad women they don't want to see you happy 😜😃
All the things I know now.
Read What men don't want women to know and you'll understand everything
Why ain’t right the mirror selfies? I’m curious
I really related to the second girl
Things i wish i knew in my 20s... never knew about narcissit...
Some of these things are often true. But not all the time. I don't believe in generalizations as a main method to make choices in my life. I think they are more often harmful than helpful. Again, not saying many of this are OFTEN true.
There is no instinct in human being. There are just "I want to and I care not". That's all
You can easily find some man who is for family but he would not earn that much
Thanks for your videos!! I try to give advice to my friends but they don't listen to me 🫠
😂 good
This is fucking hilarious given that Chris Chan is having a fucking baby. Ladies-don’t worry about the guys-worry about you first-take care of you first. If Chris Chan can make it work so can you.
I’m FUNNY AF 😳
no your not though
Are mirror selfies that bad??
Yees 😄
@Chommikenya Why tho? (Legit curious xD)
No 😭
Just find out the average hormone values for men and women on the internet and you have everything explained. They're just more animalistic. Where women see emotions most men see urges.
There are some real gems in this video💎💎💎Thank youuu🥰🫶🏽
Glad you loved it 💝
I don't agree with the lady who says don't date men who keep scores. Men don't keep scores. If they do it's always wrong. Women SHOULD keep scores, they'll almost always find they're the ones doing most of the giving.
Also, the door holding law is ridiculous too.
Really thankful for the rest of the advice.
lesson learnt: love other women instead
I am the only girl that have passion and dedication to my career like mens or what ?😂
...i realise i am like a man.
Wtf 😂