This content just aged. The whole city is engulfed in smoke and the rats will not be blind and hungry. People are moving away from the large cities in droves.
I started to tear up for no reason at all when Alastair started talking about your first date at PF Chang’s, it takes me all the way back to your boy friend’s tag vlog and I remember how Zach was obsessed with Alastair’s booty back then, 😂. You guys have come a long way and I am beyond grateful to have witnessed such a beautiful journey with you guys. Happy Anniversary to my favourite couple on earth. ❤
I lived in New York for 6 months and it was the best time of my life. I eventually moved away for peace and space. I loved living there but the struggle is real and the summer heat is bad (smelly trash and hot-moments, no AC in stations, waiting for subways). You will appreciate NYC when you leave it so hence many NYC residents go out on short trips to Finger Lakes, Boston, Providence and Philly. NYC is a really small community where you will find whatever you want if you search for it. Grab ahold to get what you want, it won't fall onto your lap. I learned to: Downsize and to live with less. I found myself to be more assertive and have an opinion which NYC will make you have one. Whatever you choose, there is no wrong decision.
This was a great video. Felt like we were part of your conversation. Thank you for sharing intimate details about your lives with us like thoughts about having a family and decisions about where to live.
As a former New Yorker, I was born and raised there (30 years)… it really is a great city. So much to do at any time of the day… it is just so expensive… if I was you guys I would live in NJ, across the river from Manhattan… maybe jersey city or Bayonne it is much cheaper.
I loved TLM. The main actors did phenomenal. Halee was an incredible Ariel. I liked the added depth to Eric's character. The one thing I was SURE about while watching it that didn't pan out was that Eric's adoptive mom would end up actually being Ariel's mom who ran away to the surface.
Happy Anniversary gents. New York is a big change. The husband and I did that, from Austin, Texas, to Manhattan. I loved it and he loved it. Recognize that living in NYC is either not like visiting for a week or two or astonishingly expensive. The content creator might make it more manageable. That said we returned to ATX after just over 2 years.
Happy Anniversary guys! The Little Mermaid is a 'childhood dream' for Zach. So glad to see him happy after watching that movie. Also, I understand your future plans guys. Keep on trying & weigh options before you really make a huge decision. We're all here supporting you guys no matter what! Love you guys Zach & Alastair!
Great video guys: from your date night to your seventh anniversary to the Little Mermaid to debating whether or not to move to New York. Wow! From the very personal to another excellent critique and back to the personal. This vlog has everything I've loved about your posts.
Zack, you are one of the smartest and most level-headed people I've ever seen, and you make the most sense. You stay where you can afford and enjoy that F150 you always wanted. F150s never let you down!
Happy Anniversary guys. You both are great. I live in NY and about 40 mins from West Point where Alastair graduated. My husband and I have been together 38 years but married 12 years.
Discussing where to live, vs. Start a family………think in terms of WHERE you want to raise healthy ( physically, but most importantly, MENTALLY for the children. In terms of providing them as well grounded, awesome. I’m Canadian from a capital city, and came from nothing (financially speaking……but your family will reflect on the childhood in terms of the brook trout that they pulled from a stream…….or the memories of being around/learning how to ride). Those are the precious memories ❤❤ I think that you will be AMAZING parents but it’s important at this juncture to set a realistic plan for you and your children)
it was funny this week videos from when I first started watching you 7 years ago started appearing in my YT suggestions, it's incredible to think how much has changed in that time and for the better!!
I’d like to say Zach that you and Alastair have the best conversations and always ask each other’s opinions. No specific issues may be resolved, but you’ve thought through the topic at hand in that particular moment. You also always try to weigh the pros and cons along the way. Kudos to you from Florida and Happy Anniversary.
Wish you all the best and lots of luck for whatever you are going to do. You guys are so authentic and inspiring! Thanks for sharing your thoughts, plans, hopes, and struggles… ❤
You guys just bring smiles! ❤️ life is so short. People have kids in their 40’s and 50’s. Go have fun with no regrets! It’s sucks to experience the “wish you would have” when you’re getting ready to retire. Believe me
Zack was really connecting because people there are about being creative and Zack loves being creative, and the connections were so fluid, Zack felt right at home, in NY.
Salud! Happy Anniversary boys! Gods I can't wait for TLM to come out on BlueRay now so I can run out and buy it. You two were so excited and animated in your review, it rubbed off on me.
Happy anniversary 🎉 ! Man I spent a single week in NYC with my then boyfriend back in 2003 and it was mind blowing 🤯 I wouldn’t think it twice if I had the chance to move to New York. It’s such a boost for creativity ! ❤ love you guys and take care and be happy 😊
It comes down to what are you willing to sacrifice. You can have a stable life and go on adventures but you can’t always have an adventurous life and be stable.
Don’t put dreams aside for later, later rarely comes once you are settled somewhere. You are both young enough to live the dream of NY and then settle. It’s tough when you feel divided. You are both good communicators are will decide together❤️❤️
I am so glad you guys are making videos again. I’ve been watching your videos from the very beginning. You have both been a big inspiration to me and help me during my process of coming out.
I live in Up state New York, I love it here. I’m 3 hours from Canada, 4.5 hours from niagara Falls, 3 hours from Boston, 2.3 hour from the city. Every now and than I head down to NYC to destress (which it weird). Plus there a lot to do if you like hiking, the Adirondacks is the best to go. The fall is my favorite time of the year, seeing the changing the leaves and beautiful sunset, hot chocolate love it. Also Alastair. Since your a fan of Hocus Pocus, Salem, Mass is huge during October and fun place to visit during that time. Plus alot other stuff. You guys should move east.
Happy Anniversary!!! You guys are awesome and such a great couple. Best of luck in whatever decision that you make with you future. I enjoyed the way you recorded this production because it felt like the viewers were there with you. Please continue to make these videos. I really enjoy them and appreciate that you are willing to share you lives with you viewers. My husbands favorite Disney movie is the Little Mermaid. We are definitely going to see the live version based on your commentary. Take care and best of luck with you decisions. I hope you share that with us as well.
Thank you for another great video and Happy Anniversary!!! Whatever your future holds, I'm sure it will be amazing. You two wouldn't have it any other way.
I randomly discovered your channel today while my husband's and my daughter was at school in our suburb outside of NYC. From a former aspiring gay dad to a current one: Something to keep in mind is what kind of example do you want to set for your (future) kid/s? I asked myself that question regarding my career a couple years ago, which finally gave me the courage to pursue my dream instead of wondering "What if?" By the way, my husband and I lived together in NYC for 17 years and with our daughter for 2--we just freaked out about pre-school and Kindergarten, which prompted our move 15 miles outside the city. Good luck with your decision and enjoy the adventure, whatever may come.
Hey guys - you could do BOTH. Buy your place where you want, rent it out, and still spend time in New York. Maybe? I’m really proud of you guys Alistair amd Zach. You’ve made a wise choice in each other, and actually accidentally seeing both of you in videos from years ago when you didn’t know each other, I think. You’ve both stuck to your principles, and have found the right guy and married. Love, commitment, marriage and monogamy and forging a life together. Too many people think gay community can be promiscuous, so it is refreshing to see you both (and quite a few others on TH-cam) commit to each other and enjoy a fulfilling life, dreams, and happiness together. Thank you for using TH-cam to show people (actually of any persuasion), that all is possible. Your coming out was not a great experience for you Alistair, and quite different from Zach’s. I just think it is amazing and wonderful that you found each other! Best wishes to both of you and I know you will have great success together.
this episode was crazy heavy toward the end when you guys had different expectation for the future. I always feel like Zack is more about kid and family while Alastiar is about adventure life. I hope u guys can come to a common ground and work this out, don't let it slide or it may become regrets later on and finally explodes. To be fair, i am 100% with Zack but then again you can see why Alastiar wants to experience new things, he was in the army for a long time after all.
I have more regrets for what I “ didn’t do “ than what I did. If you go to NYC and you don’t like it you can go back to Texas. Zach your film-making dreams are more likely in NYC
Well how great two videos so close, this was really inclusive guys thanks for sharing. I think plans kind of change as life changes it’s how you deal and accept the plan changes that makes it work. I will be 69 in august the only sad part of my life is how quickly it’s going, live it guys. Anniversary? Isn’t that July lol? The Taft? I have enjoyed all these years watching you guys meet, and grow together thankyou it’s amazing and I know what comes next will be as well, you have each other, intelligence, looks, charm and experience that’s a strong resume. Always wishing and hoping for the best for you guys, lots smiles and cheers from Calgary..
always good to see ya'll, Hope you do have a great anniversary. 36:02 Alastair seems to be a little unsettled. Once to experience more of the World after being tried down with the Army. NY is nice to visit but not for me. Zach is ready to settle down, extend the family roots. Something you'll have to workout. Nothing is black and white. Love ya both
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY ZACH AND ALASTAIR, thanks for sharing your day, and the movie critique, enjoyed this, you both look great, give Brando a pet from me, take care until next time, Caio.....
P.S. good times, dreams, excitement are all good things, but keep it real, life isn't a vacation unless your independently wealthy, life is a bitch and a struggle, it's ok to dream.... just my not asked for 2 cents.
I think it's crazy I haven't run into either of you guys here. I think Zach has a point also, New York is cool but at the end settling down and having a family is great. On top of it he's right new york is beyond expensive and money will be an issue and living space will also be an issue. I say get a mobile home and see the US in comfort and still have that egg when your ready to settle.
Great video! I know you're not asking for advice but I do agree with Alistair. Your option to settle down isn't going anywhere and there's no rush, I think if I was you I'd find more fulfillment in being a bit adventurous and pursuing passions while you're young and not tied down anywhere. You can always settle down later, it's always an option when you're older, you're both really young you have plenty of time. I think the memories you'll make on your adventures will be worth it.
I’ve been waiting for you guys to leave Texas. If you were going to live in NY or NY adjacent, this is the best time in life to take chances. Still young, at the height of your beauty, and with childlike innocence, it’s the perfect time to do whatever and become whoever you want. You can still have kids, etc. Frankly, I’m jealous. Go now! Anything is possible. ❤❤❤ You can always go back home.
You seem to think your compensation won’t keep up with your living expenses that is most likely not the case. You will most likely cover your living expenses and keep your nest egg
Happy 7th Anniversary Guys and many more to come. Making future plans can be daunting, and also scary. My two cents worth, don't leave it too late to have child/ren. You don't want to be too old and tired to be able to enjoy them. Anyway, life is exciting, which ever road you decide to take. All the best, take care of yourself and each other. :)
From the peanut gallery--someone who has 59+ trips around that big bright ball in the sky--you're still young. Experience life! Take adventures and explore what can be. Change can be scary, looking forward can be so blinding...but few people, when on the other side of an adventure, declare that the adventure was a mistake. The lessons learned, the growing into who the adventure shapes you into...those are all amazing outcomes that can not be overvalued.
Ok guys this is a night out but does it go back to drinking but y'all know where this may lead too but guy's i am very happy that you guys are still together and in love yet the videos that you put out is top notch and update as the today's big questions of today's problems so now what's the next steps that both of you guys are going to attempt maybe a life changing event or set up for retirement or just taking a nice long vacation to a different country i like your video and also both of you guys and your life style so keep up the good work stay together love each other to the max each and every day or what i had experienced is i lost my husband that i had for over 40 years do to cancer but i am copping God bless you guys this it bruce the vet ❤😊
You would hate NYC in the winter after living in the south. I was there in the 70s when Studio 54 was the place to go. Yes I was n the party. I'm in Dallas now but San Deigo will be my home.
NYC is tough as an outsider. It's a lot to just relearn how to live in a city without a vehicle and because you don't have a car you have to shop differently. Costco ain't an option without a cab or renting a car. Then there's the sticker shock of what you get when you rent or even get a beer. Going out to eat is expensive not anything like living in El Paso. Yeah, it's fun when you visit for a few days but living there is very different. I used to travel to NYC almost weekly for work and because of where I lived it took almost as long to fly and get into the city that it was almost faster to drive. No matter fly, drive or Amtrak you're talking close to 5 or 6 hours or more if you encounter problems. And if you had airline delays which were common because of being in a puddle jumper it could be exhausting. Anyway, NYC post COVID is much less happening and people are moving out but prices aren't dropping. The hardest part for me was finding someone to do things with, and I was going in the late 90's, in the evenings because who or where do you find them? People are conversational and somewhat friendly but not looking to hang out. The things you have access to where you live now are probably much easier to access. Things that require land like bowling or mini golf are not things that are easy to profit from in NYC because of the rent. I'm not saying that they don't exist somewhere but probably like require a trip to Coney or Long Island or into Newark NJ. I found it frustrating to find places to eat. You think that there would be a lot of restaurants and maybe depending if you're in the theatre district. But I often stayed down in the financial district and everything shut down like after the markets closed. My advice would be to go by yourself for a month and see how you feel about it because your partner is still in the service correct? So you have to be comfortable doing it on your own.
When they started talking about New York, all I could think about was Stevie's emotional monologue to David in Schitt's Creek. What's so special about NY, when all that you love is in front of you? (or something like that lol) That's why I'm more inclined to the "find the place where you are at peace and quiet" than the high stakes, minimal gratification thing.
Wow, Zach & Alastair in a throuple with The Big Apple. I would watch that! I still haven't seen the live action Little Mermaid (and refuse to watch any leaks that'll spoil it for me - I'm pretending I didn't hear that bit about King Triton as it is! 😱) but I'm glad to hear it held up as it's also my favorite Disney. Hercules would probably make a great live action too, come to think of it. I'd definitely be excited for that, as I'm sure would the baby gays for obvious reasons. 😁 Lastly, you only live once, Zach. Alastair's right IMHO. Give NY a bash, even if it's just for a year. It'll be great for you guys as individuals and as a couple. Put down roots and start a family thereafter. Happy anniversary!
❤❤ So glad you're still together after 7 Gay years 😮🎉😊 You know that 7 years and still in love is remarkable, guys! 😅 Love both of you, Zach & Allister.
Sounds like Alastair wants some excitement once he’s done with the super structured military, and think of settling with a family later. Zach has moved with you a number of times and would like to settle down with you and a family. You are both young and are sure to work this out! Love you both❤️
Wow, it was great that you two were talking about how Zach would be able to network with other creatives in New York and make all sorts of projects. I do think it's great that you live in an era where the creatives can meet online as well. I wonder if Zach would make an online show (or two) where he asks his friends who currently live in New York about how they moved there: what the experience was like, how did they handle any problems that they encountered, maybe have a sequence entitled 'Ten Things You Need to Know Before Moving to NY'...stuff like that 😁😉😆
As someone who has traveled all over the country and lived in various places … I don’t think you’ll end up regretting any decision you make. Also, I’d recommend looking into central/upstate NY. You’re close to NYC, in a progressive area with a lot of great schools for families.
Zach, If you are adamant about NYC, I'd give Philly a chance. It's similar to NY with some tall buildings, subway, walkable.. but affordable. Plus, Philly is a 2 hour bus ride to NYC for $10. And a 3 hour bus ride to DC.
7 years??!! First, Congratulations!!! SEcond, OMG. I can't believe how long I've been watching your channel.
It's so obvious when Alastair is a little tipsy... That smile, red cheeks, twinkling eyes, talkative! 😆
He needed it to make it through PK Changs. LMAO. Been there done that.
True!
So what 🤷. I think it's rather cute and natural 😉😇
@@peterwy874 Absolutely!
This content just aged. The whole city is engulfed in smoke and the rats will not be blind and hungry. People are moving away from the large cities in droves.
What a treat! Two videos in a short space. It’s always so nice to see you both.
Happy Anniversary. Seems like yesterday the cowboy hats and suits were saying "I do". Have a great day.
I started to tear up for no reason at all when Alastair started talking about your first date at PF Chang’s, it takes me all the way back to your boy friend’s tag vlog and I remember how Zach was obsessed with Alastair’s booty back then, 😂. You guys have come a long way and I am beyond grateful to have witnessed such a beautiful journey with you guys. Happy Anniversary to my favourite couple on earth. ❤
Oh it wasn't just the booty. A is very well hung as well. You can see that in boxer short clips.
I lived in New York for 6 months and it was the best time of my life. I eventually moved away for peace and space. I loved living there but the struggle is real and the summer heat is bad (smelly trash and hot-moments, no AC in stations, waiting for subways). You will appreciate NYC when you leave it so hence many NYC residents go out on short trips to Finger Lakes, Boston, Providence and Philly. NYC is a really small community where you will find whatever you want if you search for it. Grab ahold to get what you want, it won't fall onto your lap. I learned to: Downsize and to live with less. I found myself to be more assertive and have an opinion which NYC will make you have one. Whatever you choose, there is no wrong decision.
Ive followed you from the start, still love seeing you both. Happy anniversary. ❤
This was a great video. Felt like we were part of your conversation. Thank you for sharing intimate details about your lives with us like thoughts about having a family and decisions about where to live.
This video was so enjoyable to watch. Y’all’s humor is amazing, and the obvious love for each other is so precious.
Congratulations guys, 7 years going on forever! Omg Zach teasing with a quick undie scene at the end, Thank you! Haha
As a former New Yorker, I was born and raised there (30 years)… it really is a great city. So much to do at any time of the day… it is just so expensive… if I was you guys I would live in NJ, across the river from Manhattan… maybe jersey city or Bayonne it is much cheaper.
I loved TLM. The main actors did phenomenal. Halee was an incredible Ariel. I liked the added depth to Eric's character.
The one thing I was SURE about while watching it that didn't pan out was that Eric's adoptive mom would end up actually being Ariel's mom who ran away to the surface.
*You two are the perfect fairytale.*
Wish you all the best, always!
Happy Anniversary gents. New York is a big change. The husband and I did that, from Austin, Texas, to Manhattan. I loved it and he loved it. Recognize that living in NYC is either not like visiting for a week or two or astonishingly expensive. The content creator might make it more manageable. That said we returned to ATX after just over 2 years.
The difference between Austin and New York City has become very small. I like El Paso.
I got the hell out of New York. And you can't pay me enough to go back. Ugh. Hated it there so much. Now I live in Maine. Love it. Lol
yes, Maine.... I'm a new Englader living in SC
Happy Anniversary guys!
The Little Mermaid is a 'childhood dream' for Zach.
So glad to see him happy after watching that movie.
Also, I understand your future plans guys.
Keep on trying & weigh options before you really make a huge decision.
We're all here supporting you guys no matter what!
Love you guys Zach & Alastair!
Seeing your excitement over the Little Mermaid was incredibly heartwarming. Loved watching that.
Life’s better with two videos of your guys in a few days🙏🏻 have a great week
Great video guys: from your date night to your seventh anniversary to the Little Mermaid to debating whether or not to move to New York. Wow! From the very personal to another excellent critique and back to the personal. This vlog has everything I've loved about your posts.
Feliz Aniversario Alister & Zach !!! ❤. Here’s to the next 50 years!!
🌈🔥🔥
Zach: "New York has always been the place for me"
LIES!! 😂😂😂
The was my exact reaction too. 😂
Happy Anniversary Boys! 7 years, going strong - so lovely to see. (we're up to 21 years this Nov) Keep up the great work, love your content! *hugs*
Happy Anniversary guys! Such a beautiful couple inside and out! Keep Rockin It Out your way brothers!
Zack, you are one of the smartest and most level-headed people I've ever seen, and you make the most sense. You stay where you can afford and enjoy that F150 you always wanted. F150s never let you down!
Happy Anniversary guys. You both are great. I live in NY and about 40 mins from West Point where Alastair graduated. My husband and I have been together 38 years but married 12 years.
Always love seeing yall have fun!
Zack, you know deep down inside that NYC is where you belong.. We can't wait to have you both here as permanent residents.❤❤🤗👍🏼
Happy anniversary, I only watch you 7 days however I lenjoy your conversations, voice, little quarrels and love. Enjoy your life together.
Discussing where to live, vs. Start a family………think in terms of WHERE you want to raise healthy ( physically, but most importantly, MENTALLY for the children. In terms of providing them as well grounded, awesome. I’m Canadian from a capital city, and came from nothing (financially speaking……but your family will reflect on the childhood in terms of the brook trout that they pulled from a stream…….or the memories of being around/learning how to ride). Those are the precious memories ❤❤
I think that you will be AMAZING parents but it’s important at this juncture to set a realistic plan for you and your children)
Thanks for sharing your life boys.
it was funny this week videos from when I first started watching you 7 years ago started appearing in my YT suggestions, it's incredible to think how much has changed in that time and for the better!!
I love that you guys love NYC, my hometown and still my home
I’d like to say Zach that you and Alastair have the best conversations and always ask each other’s opinions. No specific issues may be resolved, but you’ve thought through the topic at hand in that particular moment. You also always try to weigh the pros and cons along the way. Kudos to you from Florida and Happy Anniversary.
Wish you all the best and lots of luck for whatever you are going to do. You guys are so authentic and inspiring! Thanks for sharing your thoughts, plans, hopes, and struggles… ❤
You guys just bring smiles! ❤️ life is so short. People have kids in their 40’s and 50’s. Go have fun with no regrets! It’s sucks to experience the “wish you would have” when you’re getting ready to retire. Believe me
Zack was really connecting because people there are about being creative and Zack loves being creative, and the connections were so fluid, Zack felt right at home, in NY.
Exactly 👏
Big city gay scene can put a strain on a relationship. Get some ground rules before you go if you decide to move to NYC
Take chances in life while you guys are younger! Let Alastair lead the way
Happy Anniversary guys! Zach, how's your mom doing with not smoking?
Salud! Happy Anniversary boys! Gods I can't wait for TLM to come out on BlueRay now so I can run out and buy it. You two were so excited and animated in your review, it rubbed off on me.
Thoroughly enjoyed this vlog beginning. It was just the two of you showing some feelings for each other. You rarely do that in your vlogs.
Happy anniversary 🎉 !
Man I spent a single week in NYC with my then boyfriend back in 2003 and it was mind blowing 🤯 I wouldn’t think it twice if I had the chance to move to New York. It’s such a boost for creativity ! ❤ love you guys and take care and be happy 😊
Happy anniversary! Many, many more years ahead. Stay beautiful in and out.
It comes down to what are you willing to sacrifice. You can have a stable life and go on adventures but you can’t always have an adventurous life and be stable.
You guys are such a great couple.
I’m in England and love the storeys and the love for you two guys. Just hope my partner could half as happy as you two guys. Xx
Don’t put dreams aside for later, later rarely comes once you are settled somewhere. You are both young enough to live the dream of NY and then settle. It’s tough when you feel divided. You are both good communicators are will decide together❤️❤️
I am so glad you guys are making videos again. I’ve been watching your videos from the very beginning. You have both been a big inspiration to me and help me during my process of coming out.
Happy Anniversary Guys! I've been following you guys practically since the beginning. You guys and you love are just beautiful.
I live in Up state New York, I love it here. I’m 3 hours from Canada, 4.5 hours from niagara Falls, 3 hours from Boston, 2.3 hour from the city. Every now and than I head down to NYC to destress (which it weird). Plus there a lot to do if you like hiking, the Adirondacks is the best to go. The fall is my favorite time of the year, seeing the changing the leaves and beautiful sunset, hot chocolate love it. Also Alastair. Since your a fan of Hocus Pocus, Salem, Mass is huge during October and fun place to visit during that time. Plus alot other stuff. You guys should move east.
Happy Anniversary and Pride guys !!🎉
Happy Anniversary!!! You guys are awesome and such a great couple. Best of luck in whatever decision that you make with you future. I enjoyed the way you recorded this production because it felt like the viewers were there with you. Please continue to make these videos. I really enjoy them and appreciate that you are willing to share you lives with you viewers. My husbands favorite Disney movie is the Little Mermaid. We are definitely going to see the live version based on your commentary. Take care and best of luck with you decisions. I hope you share that with us as well.
Thank you for another great video and Happy Anniversary!!! Whatever your future holds, I'm sure it will be amazing. You two wouldn't have it any other way.
I randomly discovered your channel today while my husband's and my daughter was at school in our suburb outside of NYC. From a former aspiring gay dad to a current one: Something to keep in mind is what kind of example do you want to set for your (future) kid/s? I asked myself that question regarding my career a couple years ago, which finally gave me the courage to pursue my dream instead of wondering "What if?" By the way, my husband and I lived together in NYC for 17 years and with our daughter for 2--we just freaked out about pre-school and Kindergarten, which prompted our move 15 miles outside the city. Good luck with your decision and enjoy the adventure, whatever may come.
Hey guys - you could do BOTH. Buy your place where you want, rent it out, and still spend time in New York. Maybe? I’m really proud of you guys Alistair amd Zach. You’ve made a wise choice in each other, and actually accidentally seeing both of you in videos from years ago when you didn’t know each other, I think. You’ve both stuck to your principles, and have found the right guy and married. Love, commitment, marriage and monogamy and forging a life together. Too many people think gay community can be promiscuous, so it is refreshing to see you both (and quite a few others on TH-cam) commit to each other and enjoy a fulfilling life, dreams, and happiness together. Thank you for using TH-cam to show people (actually of any persuasion), that all is possible. Your coming out was not a great experience for you Alistair, and quite different from Zach’s. I just think it is amazing and wonderful that you found each other! Best wishes to both of you and I know you will have great success together.
this episode was crazy heavy toward the end when you guys had different expectation for the future. I always feel like Zack is more about kid and family while Alastiar is about adventure life. I hope u guys can come to a common ground and work this out, don't let it slide or it may become regrets later on and finally explodes. To be fair, i am 100% with Zack but then again you can see why Alastiar wants to experience new things, he was in the army for a long time after all.
I have more regrets for what I “ didn’t do “ than what I did. If you go to NYC and you don’t like it you can go back to Texas. Zach your film-making dreams are more likely in NYC
Happy Anniversary boys, been seeing your relationship since the beginning and enjoying it!
Love you guys and Happy Anniversary and many more years to come! 🙏🤗😘
Happy "First Meet" anniversary, wedding anniversary coming up next month too! Loved this wee little reminisce for your first date.
Well how great two videos so close, this was really inclusive guys thanks for sharing. I think plans kind of change as life changes it’s how you deal and accept the plan changes that makes it work. I will be 69 in august the only sad part of my life is how quickly it’s going, live it guys. Anniversary? Isn’t that July lol? The Taft? I have enjoyed all these years watching you guys meet, and grow together thankyou it’s amazing and I know what comes next will be as well, you have each other, intelligence, looks, charm and experience that’s a strong resume. Always wishing and hoping for the best for you guys, lots smiles and cheers from Calgary..
always good to see ya'll, Hope you do have a great anniversary. 36:02 Alastair seems to be a little unsettled. Once to experience more of the World after being tried down with the Army. NY is nice to visit but not for me. Zach is ready to settle down, extend the family roots. Something you'll have to workout. Nothing is black and white. Love ya both
Luv you guys, mucho gracias hermanos 🏳️🌈
I can't tell you how much I loooove you two fangirling over The Little Mermaid!!!
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY ZACH AND ALASTAIR, thanks for sharing your day, and the movie critique, enjoyed this, you both look great, give Brando a pet from me, take care until next time, Caio.....
P.S. good times, dreams, excitement are all good things, but keep it real, life isn't a vacation unless your independently wealthy, life is a bitch and a struggle, it's ok to dream.... just my not asked for 2 cents.
I think it's crazy I haven't run into either of you guys here. I think Zach has a point also, New York is cool but at the end settling down and having a family is great. On top of it he's right new york is beyond expensive and money will be an issue and living space will also be an issue. I say get a mobile home and see the US in comfort and still have that egg when your ready to settle.
happy anniversary to my favourite couple on the internet. i'm 73 and watch you every chance i get
Great video! I know you're not asking for advice but I do agree with Alistair. Your option to settle down isn't going anywhere and there's no rush, I think if I was you I'd find more fulfillment in being a bit adventurous and pursuing passions while you're young and not tied down anywhere. You can always settle down later, it's always an option when you're older, you're both really young you have plenty of time. I think the memories you'll make on your adventures will be worth it.
I lived in NY for a year when i was doing a show there and i get what you mean about connecting with creatives, it gives you such a buzz xoxo
I saw the little mermaid a few weeks ago and it just blew me away, it was everything i was hoping for and more
The critique is great - you play off each other so well.
I’ve been waiting for you guys to leave Texas. If you were going to live in NY or NY adjacent, this is the best time in life to take chances. Still young, at the height of your beauty, and with childlike innocence, it’s the perfect time to do whatever and become whoever you want. You can still have kids, etc. Frankly, I’m jealous. Go now! Anything is possible. ❤❤❤
You can always go back home.
Exactly!
You seem to think your compensation won’t keep up with your living expenses that is most likely not the case. You will most likely cover your living expenses and keep your nest egg
Happy 7th Anniversary Guys and many more to come. Making future plans can be daunting, and also scary. My two cents worth, don't leave it too late to have child/ren. You don't want to be too old and tired to be able to enjoy them. Anyway, life is exciting, which ever road you decide to take. All the best, take care of yourself and each other. :)
From the peanut gallery--someone who has 59+ trips around that big bright ball in the sky--you're still young. Experience life! Take adventures and explore what can be. Change can be scary, looking forward can be so blinding...but few people, when on the other side of an adventure, declare that the adventure was a mistake. The lessons learned, the growing into who the adventure shapes you into...those are all amazing outcomes that can not be overvalued.
Ok guys this is a night out but does it go back to drinking but y'all know where this may lead too but guy's i am very happy that you guys are still together and in love yet the videos that you put out is top notch and update as the today's big questions of today's problems so now what's the next steps that both of you guys are going to attempt maybe a life changing event or set up for retirement or just taking a nice long vacation to a different country i like your video and also both of you guys and your life style so keep up the good work stay together love each other to the max each and every day or what i had experienced is i lost my husband that i had for over 40 years do to cancer but i am copping God bless you guys this it bruce the vet ❤😊
Congratulations! Happy Anniversary. 🥂
Congrats guys - just keep it rolling!
I love you both ❤❤❤ a fan from the Philippines ❤
You would hate NYC in the winter after living in the south. I was there in the 70s when Studio 54 was the place to go. Yes I was n the party. I'm in Dallas now but San Deigo will be my home.
Danggg .. I like his Southern
'Accent' n his chuckling 😁😁
God blessed to both of you. Happy Anniversary. Always love each other. And pray.
Better yet, come to Canada 🇨🇦🇨🇦🍁🇨🇦🍁🇨🇦🍁🇨🇦🍁
Congratulations guys on your anniversary!! Love your chemistry in your marriage. Been together with my better half 43yrs. June 22nd. Cheers!😂
such a great couple
happy anniversary
NYC is tough as an outsider. It's a lot to just relearn how to live in a city without a vehicle and because you don't have a car you have to shop differently. Costco ain't an option without a cab or renting a car. Then there's the sticker shock of what you get when you rent or even get a beer. Going out to eat is expensive not anything like living in El Paso. Yeah, it's fun when you visit for a few days but living there is very different.
I used to travel to NYC almost weekly for work and because of where I lived it took almost as long to fly and get into the city that it was almost faster to drive. No matter fly, drive or Amtrak you're talking close to 5 or 6 hours or more if you encounter problems. And if you had airline delays which were common because of being in a puddle jumper it could be exhausting.
Anyway, NYC post COVID is much less happening and people are moving out but prices aren't dropping.
The hardest part for me was finding someone to do things with, and I was going in the late 90's, in the evenings because who or where do you find them? People are conversational and somewhat friendly but not looking to hang out.
The things you have access to where you live now are probably much easier to access. Things that require land like bowling or mini golf are not things that are easy to profit from in NYC because of the rent. I'm not saying that they don't exist somewhere but probably like require a trip to Coney or Long Island or into Newark NJ. I found it frustrating to find places to eat. You think that there would be a lot of restaurants and maybe depending if you're in the theatre district. But I often stayed down in the financial district and everything shut down like after the markets closed.
My advice would be to go by yourself for a month and see how you feel about it because your partner is still in the service correct? So you have to be comfortable doing it on your own.
You guys are missing out Flix Brewhouse is the movie theater to be at. Westside of town, you won't regret it.
When they started talking about New York, all I could think about was Stevie's emotional monologue to David in Schitt's Creek. What's so special about NY, when all that you love is in front of you? (or something like that lol)
That's why I'm more inclined to the "find the place where you are at peace and quiet" than the high stakes, minimal gratification thing.
Wow, Zach & Alastair in a throuple with The Big Apple. I would watch that! I still haven't seen the live action Little Mermaid (and refuse to watch any leaks that'll spoil it for me - I'm pretending I didn't hear that bit about King Triton as it is! 😱) but I'm glad to hear it held up as it's also my favorite Disney. Hercules would probably make a great live action too, come to think of it. I'd definitely be excited for that, as I'm sure would the baby gays for obvious reasons. 😁 Lastly, you only live once, Zach. Alastair's right IMHO. Give NY a bash, even if it's just for a year. It'll be great for you guys as individuals and as a couple. Put down roots and start a family thereafter. Happy anniversary!
❤❤ So glad you're still together after 7 Gay years 😮🎉😊 You know that 7 years and still in love is remarkable, guys! 😅 Love both of you, Zach & Allister.
Thanks for the videos, you two get better- looking every time
Happy Anniversary to you both!
Sounds like Alastair wants some excitement once he’s done with the super structured military, and think of settling with a family later. Zach has moved with you a number of times and would like to settle down with you and a family. You are both young and are sure to work this out! Love you both❤️
❤❤HAPPY ANNIVERSARY....MISSED YOU GUYS
You guys are hilarious together sometimes.❤
Wow, it was great that you two were talking about how Zach would be able to network with other creatives in New York and make all sorts of projects. I do think it's great that you live in an era where the creatives can meet online as well. I wonder if Zach would make an online show (or two) where he asks his friends who currently live in New York about how they moved there: what the experience was like, how did they handle any problems that they encountered, maybe have a sequence entitled 'Ten Things You Need to Know Before Moving to NY'...stuff like that 😁😉😆
That is really a great idea! I hope they try it.
Y’all need to try the sesame chicken at China Wok on Lee Trevino in east El Paso 😊
Guys I love the blogs with you guys out and about.
What an amazing couple both of you are ❤
Happy Anniversary guys
As someone who has traveled all over the country and lived in various places … I don’t think you’ll end up regretting any decision you make. Also, I’d recommend looking into central/upstate NY. You’re close to NYC, in a progressive area with a lot of great schools for families.
Happy Anniversary of your first date!
Zach, If you are adamant about NYC, I'd give Philly a chance. It's similar to NY with some tall buildings, subway, walkable.. but affordable. Plus, Philly is a 2 hour bus ride to NYC for $10. And a 3 hour bus ride to DC.
Good idea ☺️